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Nobody knows these pages
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:12 PM
9

Bro,, playing the numbers game doesnt mean running from chick to chick. I mean the basis of attraction must be that you see something special in her so you felt the need to approach her. If you want to deal with your approach anxiety it's fine but other than that quality over quantity is actually playing by the numbers.
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:41 AM
1

Move on. And with that I mean get physical without any hesitation.
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:04 AM
2

What you elaborate here is something completely different from simply havin earpods in. I totally agree with most what you say here.
/r/seduction25/07/22 03:09 PM
-1

Thats not true. Just gotta know how to do it and when to do it. They wear headphones because they think it helps them with the workout. Doesnt mean that they're not open to chat in between sets
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:22 AM
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I dont know what kind of threads you spend your time on, but I basically find high value no bs comments almost every time I go on reddit..
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:37 PM
9

The strongest argument for doing cold approach I can think of right now is that it's probably the most direct way to fix your inner game.
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:47 PM
1

Just a little bit better
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:05 PM
3

Negative reinforcement, creates self-doubt, because you reassure yourself that once again you didnt make it to the real thing.
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:04 PM
-1

Hi
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:03 PM
1

I just realized that this behavior is probably the sacrifice you have to give if you want to have casual sex. They dont want to get to know you because they dont want to end up in a LTR atm
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:27 AM
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Yes, it keeps a LTR running, but it's not the mindset you should go into a relation ship from the beginning on. Is it really to much to ask from a girl to have some genuine unbiased curiosity in a guy who has proven that he isn't needy?
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:39 PM
9

Well, good luck with the business partner you're gonna end up with. Selling her at the right time might maximize the profit you get out of the deal. Just make sure that you keep the majority of the shares of the company. Comparing love to a business deal is probably the most rotten thing I've heard in a while. But it's probably the reality for the majority of people.
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:23 PM
1

You say you felt disgusted xD You're needy as fuck, mate. In clubs girls test out different waters and then go home with the one that feels right in the end. If you like her put a ring on her. But until then she's free to change her partner whenever she wants to. It's kinda pathetic to feel disgusted by that.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:55 PM
1

Not if you ask first who's on the phone. Most of the time they're talking with one of their friends or their mom out of boredom.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:23 PM
1

No, you can do these kinds of things while still being aware of social conventions. You just symbolize that people normally act like they got some really serious stuff to do. But in truth they just do the stuff they do to kill the boredom. And you relieve them from their boredom.
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:15 AM
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Exactly, the successrate already shoots up if we wouldn't already enter with the notion that what we're doing is unnatural or weird. If you find somebody who is interesting you speak to them regardless whether girl/man, young/old. You do it for your own entertainment and to lighten up their day aswell. Approach it from a giver mentality not just always take take take.
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:16 PM
1

Chicks have high standards here I assume xD
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:10 PM
2

Observations always worked for me
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:09 PM
12

Real attraction comes from you showing that your will power sitting above these agreeableness seeking pussies. Theres always this scene I rember where one of the RSD members made a girl hang up the phone call she was on because he emanated the importance of now them two having a conversation. He asked her first who was on the phone btw. Attraction: You do what you think is important to you and don't scrutinize it due to the opinion of others (who don't even know you)! It shows that you're not ne…
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:08 PM
2

How do you train proper tonality?
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:41 PM
7

It's so cute to see that this notorious sub is full of romanticists :)
/r/seduction29/04/22 06:40 AM
1

yea well..
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:01 PM
1

What have you got as photos?
/r/seduction24/04/22 07:23 AM
8

wtf
/r/seduction24/04/22 07:22 AM
2

The roller coaster comparison is awesome dude!
/r/seduction28/02/22 08:43 PM
3

This is completely normal. Next time if you again get stuck, you can also start with some old granny and try to make her day. This really helps getting into the zone
/r/seduction28/02/22 08:42 PM
1

You sound like a little puss
/r/seduction27/02/22 03:13 AM
0

We got a real badass over here. Look, when it comes to girls you need to throw this rationality mindset out of the window. They don't care how logical your arguments are. You're not going to argue your way into their pants, no matter how fucking clever you think they are. It's all about whether you believe you're the shit. If all her shittests don't change anything about your conviction that you're the shit, she will conform to it and also think that you're the shit. The good thing about cold ap…
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:02 AM
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You need to realize that genuine love is probably the highest experience life has to offer and it would loose its value if you could just get it for a nickel. Maybe it's time to put down whatever form of mindless dopamine stimulant you have chosen for a second and to ponder your priorities in life.
/r/seduction26/02/22 11:22 PM
1

It's not time consuming at all. You're just a pussy. All you need to do is: Spend some time at a place in the city where you without wanting to something done in particular, but rather to just enjoy yourself and relax. Don't feel obliged to having to do anything. There are constantly some funny occurances with random people, no matter which gender or age. These are constant tests whether you're awake enough for the hunt. With every encounter you can decide whether you lift the person's mood by u…
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:42 PM
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How can something which is probably the most direct approach to a thing that obviously has a high priority to you be a waste of time? If all you wanna do is smash without effort go pay for it. Everything meaningful and satisfying requires us to put in time and effort. It's like saying learning the guitar is a waste of time if all you wanna do is playing guitar on festivals. Guess what, if you want to meet a girl, you actually have to spend the time talking to her in order to possibly meet her.
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:17 PM
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Claiming knowing the truth without ever having tried anything.
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:26 PM
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Cuz theyre just in to make fun of it. Texting is pure entertainment for them most of the time.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:43 PM
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"I find you interesting enough to keep around for casual sex but nothing more" is not something most people want to say or hear. Yea fair enough actually
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:15 PM
1

Your vagueness is not helpful.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:00 PM
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Still a good reminder on what I should be looking out for. Maybe stop whining about reposts that much and just appeciate that OP is giving value, at least to those which dont know the book yet. I mean after all the post has 722 upvotes
/r/seduction26/12/21 01:16 PM
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Really well written!
/r/seduction26/12/21 01:11 PM
0

I thought I read this somewhere before..
/r/seduction26/12/21 01:08 PM
1

Also wondering
/r/seduction11/12/21 12:21 AM
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My theory: While males are like a flip switch when it comes to sexual readiness, it's more complicated for women as they're constantly feeling the temperature and just because she's turned on at the moment doesn't mean that it's a definite yes to having sex. Between being at the bar and landing in the bed she needs to be increasingly stimulated and there are still dozens of opportunities for the man to let insecurities (f. i. about his body image) shine through and break his frame. This happens …
/r/seduction11/12/21 12:16 AM
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Whemever I look for listed remote jobs I don't really find anything worth going after. Any suggestions?
/r/seduction09/12/21 11:17 PM
1

I'd open a church of psychedelics and fully endulge in exploring science and art.
/r/seduction09/12/21 11:13 PM
1

How do you feel about it?
/r/seduction21/11/21 12:29 PM
0

r/SporeSwap or I can send you some mycelium. Maybe you can find a way to get sterilized rye
/r/seduction12/11/21 09:56 PM
3

Obviously you're someone who hasn't done it for an extended period. Even if it doesn't result in any escalation, there is a significant change in your mindset (only as long as you train this muscle tho).
/r/seduction12/11/21 07:39 PM
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Felt weird reading this at first, but it's actually true :D
/r/seduction12/11/21 07:36 PM
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It's quite an obvious thing to do, isn't it?
/r/seduction12/11/21 07:35 PM
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There are a MILLION reasons and ways people can reject you. You gain absolutely nothing by fantasizing about them and lose a lot of charisma by doing so. Doesn't matter. With a witty response you're gonna be right in. The only thing you mustn't do is to try hiding your true intentions. That's stinks miles away.
/r/seduction12/11/21 07:34 PM
0

Whatever you do, facing your fears has to be the way. Running away from your current situation most likely is not going to change anything in the long run. But what you might need is a temporary break from your regular everyday headspace, a change of perspective. Psychedelics have been shown to do that and alleviate depression longterm, but I don't recommend taking them alone the first time.
/r/seduction12/11/21 07:27 PM
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Usernamechecksout. You can replace it with every fruit but a banana.
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:55 AM
1

I agree! I somehow had the feeling that what you described above actually would mean that action and intention are incongruent. But it isn't really.
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:02 PM
5

You dont shit where you eat..
/r/seduction02/05/21 07:10 AM
6

Sounds twisted
/r/seduction02/05/21 07:08 AM
1

Yea, it's not feminine, but rather needy.
/r/seduction22/04/21 03:21 PM
1

Yea, you're right. Parenting is a much bigger factor here, as it's more a question of mindset than anything else.
/r/seduction18/03/21 05:25 PM
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I think you're oversimplifying this by only having a qualitative view on things. I see it more quantitatively in that there are winners and loosers when it comes to women, yes. But it's not just black and white and a fixed ratio between those two and you get born with either or. I think most men are in the middle ground and it depends on whether they have certain experiences in their lives which shape their character. I can't say whether porn prevents one of having these experiences. I just know…
/r/seduction18/03/21 05:05 PM
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Just normal at this point in time. But you'll find your way out, buddy! It's all in our heads
/r/seduction22/11/20 08:43 AM
38

Maybe the homeless dude's mission is to get others together. You probably never had it easier.
/r/seduction21/11/20 08:17 AM
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Not gonna work that way
/r/seduction10/10/20 07:47 AM
1

Yes and yes
/r/seduction22/09/20 09:08 PM
0

Alright you spelled it wrong, but 'oogling' is so much more visual, because you can see the glancing eyes already in the word
/r/seduction13/09/20 04:38 AM
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But why does this mean that they have to be pussies?
/r/seduction13/09/20 04:34 AM
2

Ask them where they're going.
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:29 PM
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Oogling is a funny word! 😁
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:27 PM
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My man! It's a nice excuse you have there. I use the same one :)
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:21 PM
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Next time after the "hi" just add: "Where are you going?" and hold your frame for the following moments :)
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:18 PM
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That's quite an ignorant point of view in my oppinion. Women also want to find out how much you really want them. It turns them on if you truthfully see something special in them and at the same time it's a method to check your resiliance which is a indicator for the neediness of a guy. Cuz nothing is more annoying than a downie who will load off his insecurities onto her. It's not about just playing a game which is only of interest of them. You also have to check whether this relation ship is s…
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:13 PM
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Girls tell themselves that men need the "hunt" as an excuse so that they dont have to deal with the struggle of building up the courage of talking to a stranger and facing their insecurities. Everybody should work on building up the courage to approach a person if he/she makes an interesting impression. You can still play hard to get eventhough you approached him first. But thank you for reminding me of taking action. Really gotta be more proactive again! I feel like many girls are in the need o…
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:59 PM
2

Well yea, he just gotta buy a ticket to the Filippines.
/r/seduction08/08/20 07:36 AM
1

Sure, you should get to know this person first.
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:39 PM
0

Then I have a different comprehension of PUA, maybe for lack of a better word. But I consider Mark Manson (the writer of Models - "How to attract women through honesty") also to be a PUA. No tricks are needed to pick up someone..
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:03 PM
4

Maybe he just needs someone as lighthearted as you are.
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:48 PM
0

Why is that? Valid PUA is basically mastery of all the factors you mentioned above.
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:43 PM
2

+1 Reading that made me hard xDD
/r/seduction27/07/20 10:56 AM
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getting out of the house is already an achievement. You're doing well. But I hope you don't expect the girls you ask for the time to buy that from you. It's gonna be obvious. But if you can stay confident during that and just leave like it's not a big deal, this can still be an achievement.
/r/seduction27/07/20 10:50 AM
0

Do you have money, so you can afford a personal coach? Maybe not a professional one, but there are those PUA circles which normally have some amateur coaches. They might want to help you.
/r/seduction27/07/20 09:45 AM
8

Lol OP is so much more mature than you are. Good luck with your hooker life.
/r/seduction27/07/20 08:42 AM
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And the time is more valuable than the money.
/r/seduction27/07/20 08:40 AM
3

Just keep reading
/r/seduction27/07/20 08:39 AM
2

What held you back my friend?
/r/seduction27/07/20 08:39 AM
5

It just made me understand girl POV and the motivations behind their actions which takes away the element of confusion of being hopelessly lost in the middle of the conversation. At least theoretically I know now, how to be on top of the conversation.
/r/seduction27/07/20 08:39 AM
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Just because you start something, doesn't mean you commit your whole life to it. Normally, people have other stuff going on in their lives. I dipped into seduction when I was your age and made some pretty good progress and was fully motivated for a couple of months. But at the same time I was struggling to keep up with university. And I started to postpone more and more going out by my own or working on my daygame. And I kept telling myself I will start next semester, next semester and almost lo…
/r/seduction27/07/20 08:35 AM
2

It's just not important! If you know how to do it, you can turn down an offer and still get the pussy.
/r/seduction24/02/19 11:13 AM
2

No just behaving hyped up. Yea sure, do whatever you feel is right. If you wanna compensate the sympathy of others with your health, thats your problem. There are many guys who go out at least 3-4 times a week to get a lot of reference.
/r/seduction24/02/19 11:09 AM
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That's some serious bullshit. You can definately go clubbing without having a drink. Just look at the RSD guys they're going out constantly and never drink alcohol. They just behave as if they're drunk. You can't afford to drink everytime you go out once you do it on a regular basis (which you need to do in order to git gud).
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:44 PM
3

Lol dude about the opportunity to meet local band member n'shit. I produce music myself and just read your post yesterday before going out and just wanted to joke around with this dude who was standing alone in the corner in the front of the club. The only one who wasnt raving. It turns out that he has a professional studio and wants to master my tracks for free. Too crazy
/r/seduction16/02/19 09:32 AM
3

That's all you can ever do. You have no power over the circumstances of your birth and your bringing up. Look at life as something like a challenge. Let's see what you can make out of what you've been given to. Also it mainly depends on how you spend most of your time when it comes to your personality and what not. It's time to ask yourself what you want from life and start taking action toward that.
/r/seduction25/08/18 02:26 AM
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This is a good example for how to turn a boring yes/no question into a statement. Try to do this in general.
/r/seduction30/06/18 01:55 AM
1

hahahahaha
/r/seduction23/06/18 07:20 AM
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I think this kinda goes against the principles of this community. And I'm quite sure it's not going to give you the effect you aspire. You're still going to doubt your self-worth because you were not honest to yourself when losing your virginity.
/r/seduction19/05/18 08:46 AM
1

You basically need to trop those chains which hold back your impulsive acting. Those worries about neglection which have been created all your life by society and yourself. But that is probably the hardest challenge out there in a young life. It requires you to accept your real nature and not giving a shit about what others think of you. It will be a path which can feel very lonely, you need to be completely convinced that you do the right thing. I'm still working on it and I somehow can't keep …
/r/seduction20/01/18 02:39 PM
9

sry what? you asked if the flowers are her? what does that mean?
/r/seduction26/05/17 08:52 AM
1

And I only know dating apps which cost tons of money or they're full with crap.
/r/seduction07/05/17 10:23 AM
1

I know! I just don't do it! I think I need to become more aware of the excuses my brain comes up with.
/r/seduction07/05/17 10:22 AM
3

I rarely have time for that atm. I actually planned on going out a lot, let's say go have a walk at the city lake at afternoons. But I only come up with those thoughts and motivation at night, and it's all forgotten at the next morning. That's actually the big issue for me. The drive just never comes in the moments I need them.
/r/seduction07/05/17 10:19 AM
1

Tanks a lot man. I think I'm just not spontaneous enough, since for me it really depends on how the whole thing starts. I think that is a result of wanting to plan too much and simply not being confident in my gut feeling. I guess that's what I should focus on when practicing conversation.
/r/seduction07/05/17 10:15 AM
2

Yea, but weed only amplifies the symptoms.
/r/seduction07/05/17 10:11 AM
1

Not if you also read the comments
/r/seduction07/05/17 10:10 AM
1

I think my online game isn't too good since I'm not very photogenic. I have no decent pictures of myself which arent older than 2 years I think.
/r/seduction06/05/17 08:18 PM
1

It's so hard to forgive yourself if you fuck up a situation which should have been easy to handle tho.
/r/seduction23/12/16 02:04 PM
2

Alright, gotta keep on trying. Thanks buddy!
/r/seduction17/12/16 06:42 PM
1

Because I feel attracted to her? The most recent example is the girl I met in judo class and I kinda felt a certain bondage when we did our thing together. But I'm referring to the break times when we actually can talk.
/r/seduction17/12/16 06:41 PM
1

Well some drunk Tibetian guy just spilled just spilled his beer all over the train floor. I guess this moment's gonna stick in my head for some time. But I certainly know what you mean.
/r/seduction07/11/16 06:08 PM
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Ye right sry..
/r/seduction07/11/16 05:25 PM
1

I usually only go out to rave. My observation so far is that in contrary to normal clubs, ravers don't go there to sociallize and looking for a partner but just to feel the music. As a milky face I know, you normally have a better chance if you look more mature. Girls in the metal or dnb or psy scene tend to prefer rougher guys. Correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/seduction07/11/16 01:45 AM
1

Well, you seem to be a waste of time and a waste of life anyways as precious as you think your time is. How can you be so unflexible, so narrow-minded, to think that a certain activity is just for one certain reason? You'll never be happy if you keep on trying to plan your life the way you're describing it here. Noone who's in peace with himself would ever get bothered by such pathetic little things. A totally counter-productive comment for peoplewho trying to improve. I actually have no idea wh…
/r/seduction07/11/16 01:28 AM
1

Wow so because she could feel insecure, you're not allowed to talk to her? Hell, are we at least allowed to hold eye contact for longer than 50ms? Or will this also make her feel unconfortable? You can't always adapt to every special wish of the "weakest" links in society. That would be incredibly tedious for no real reason. Or not? Are you also one of those who insists to refer to a transgender by "they"?
/r/seduction07/11/16 01:08 AM
1

Actually they're both linked to each other. The more confident you are, the less you care about others.
/r/seduction04/11/16 07:11 PM
2

Very true. The sad thing is that I actually know all of that, but in the moment of truth which could be "anywhen" I forgot it again. I lack in consistency, which I think I might fix with meditation.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:53 PM
1

And the thing I can't change here is that I feel attracted to her? Or what? xD
/r/seduction04/11/16 12:00 PM
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I mean obviously they dont care and proplably will never think something bad. But i just cant convince myself fully of that.
/r/seduction04/11/16 11:13 AM
1

Well it might also be my thing. I met some girls who really found the fact that I go out alone really bold and I know that I could have gone for it. I ended up sleeping in on of their accomodations but only on the couch ^ So need to grow some balls for the next time. Cuz girls like this kind of boldness and that lone wolf image, as far as I know.
/r/seduction13/03/16 01:48 AM
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Feel ya, mate. And I tell you, it's not a good combination with dope
/r/seduction23/01/16 07:53 PM
2

I think you have the illness I also struggle from a lot. You generalize too much and you dismiss things as being bad or stupid based on what you heard about it, but not by experiencing it by yourself. You think too much and act too little. But this is nothing special, it's just normal human convenience. We all have to fight it. Maybe you should be more honest to yourself.
/r/seduction23/01/16 06:13 PM
1

Yeah exactly, I realized staying relaxed is the most important part, always.
/r/seduction14/12/15 02:58 PM
2

And you are making it yourself easy. No human "has" to be anything specific, or is meant to be just that one thing. In the end it doesn't matter, how far you've come but what you made out of your life.. Why don't you just try and make the best out of what you got and just see what you can achieve?
/r/seduction13/12/15 11:30 AM
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I feel so stupid. I somehow fail all the time to get a date. I lately got 3 girls to say yes, but the date I set didn't work for them. I decided to not pressure them too much and didn't immediately follow up with a new date. Now all of those contacts are set on ice for like two weeks. I don't have high hopes on a physical relation ship with them anymore, but do you think I should still set a new date with them or will it be akward anyways?
/r/seduction09/11/15 08:53 AM
1

I think, I'm just a very moody guy. Today was a great day, I forgot about all the problems I had yesterday and I was enjoying everyone. My moodiness is actually something I try to cure, I want to bring more consistency into my life.
/r/seduction04/11/15 04:33 PM
1

I used to be seriously interested in othef people's stories and dreams. But at the moment I'm in this certain mood, where I don't like humanity and where I am disappointed by the lightheadedness and superficiality of so many people. When I had my gap year, I was a completely different human being. I played my guitar in the park and was open for every interaction with people, but I somehow lost it right when I started uni. How do I find that mellow happiness again? Do I have to wait til summer? D…
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:57 AM
2

Yeah thanks guys, that's probably it. I'm too hesitant, cuz unconfident. Should I still work on those girls I waited too long or just see them as friends to hang out with them? Do you also know something how to handle monotony, and how to still stay interesting after a certain time? This is a big weakness of mine.
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:23 AM
0

You're asking who's in control? Women will always be in control of us. As long as they define what attracts them and what doesn't.
/r/seduction14/10/15 06:00 PM
1

She favors spending time with me over spending time with her bf. Isn't that enough?
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:14 PM
1

Thanks, that really helped. But it doesn't matter anymore anways, cuz she has a boyfriend. The funny thing is tho, that all my friends who saw me hanging out with her said: damn, she's into you." cuz she all the time comes over to my place and what not. And i thought the same. So maybe it is like that because she doesn't know many other guys at the uni (she's new in my country) and she's just like that to everyone. But is it really bad if you care if a relationship wouldn't hold?
/r/seduction16/09/15 10:16 PM
1

Thx I'll try that. This friday is a college party. I guess that's a good moment anyways to come up with something like that.
/r/seduction16/09/15 03:21 PM
1

Cool thx :D
/r/seduction04/09/15 03:01 PM
-4

yea but 90% is lame
/r/seduction03/09/15 03:14 PM
1

Nice work there mate! How much did you talk during the rest of the flight?
/r/seduction16/08/15 02:29 PM
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