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Not only do people expect more, but they aren't willing to give as much. It's common to see men and women with a laundry list of attributes their potential mate must have, yet they refuse to put themselves on the line when the time comes. It's a toxic mentality, and I admit I've been guilty of it in my dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 05:01 PM
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I mean, the fourth one is a scene from Cocktail. You really believe a large-scale movie would not use makeup on its lead actress? Come on now. #7 is laughable. First thing you see are eyeliner and eyeshadow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 07:22 PM
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Well, in my day, we wore an onion on our belts, which was in fashion at the time... We didn't have white onions, because of the war. All you could get were those big yellow ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 10:55 PM
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Because a lot of men underestimate the role of their own physical attractiveness in how they attract women. Anyone care to elaborate further on this? I find it odd, considering that a woman's attractiveness plays a very big role in whether a man approaches her. Wouldn't men naturally flip this and think they should make an effort to look attractive too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 08:00 PM
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Church is literally one of the worst places to meet men. If I had to guess, I'd say it's 3-4 single girls to 1 single guy. Most are shipped up and/or married by age 22, and the ones that aren't...well, there are usually glaring reasons why. Source: Church-going spinster at the age of 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 11:16 PM
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I should clarify, they reject me because I will not have sex with them, either right from the start or once time has passed and they see I won't waver.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 10:30 PM
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I am a 25 y/o woman who is waiting until marriage for sex for religious reasons. People I'm not dating (i.e. friends), even those who aren't religious, have always been really supportive - "that's awesome," "I wish I could," "my sister waited and she's so happy." Guys I've dated are a mixed bag. I've had some who are 100% okay with waiting, some who flat-out reject me for it, and some who say they're okay with it but then dump me a month later. It's the last bunch that pisses me off the most, es…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 10:12 PM
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You're welcome. Believe me, I've been there and understand. The last part wasn't meant maliciously. There is the option of taking yourself out of the game (even temporarily) if you're not happy with the results. Taking time for yourself, to develop your own interests and hobbies, and spend time with friends and family can do wonders for your self esteem.
/r/seduction12/05/16 02:30 PM
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God forbid you put some effort into yourself to be an attractive human being... I know your bitter self wants something to blame for your lack of success, but women aren't it. As much as you want to think dating from a woman's POV is sitting on a throne with a long line of eligible suitors vying to win fair lady's heart, IT'S NOT. Women seek out dating advice too. Women have to be confident and put work into themselves too. If I did nothing but sit back and wait for men to 100% pursue me, I'd ne…
/r/seduction11/05/16 06:25 PM
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It's something that kind of comes naturally when you have other interests too (work, hobbies, friends, etc.). I've been seeing someone recently and we're both big texters. We send maybe 15-20 back and forth a day on average? We don't text when we're busy however, and (more importantly) we don't bother each other for not responding. Basically, you want to show that you have a life outside of them. And that's easy to do when you do have a life outside of them.
/r/seduction29/04/16 11:38 PM
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Women get just as obsessive and "oneguyitus" as men. Just because you don't see it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
/r/seduction27/04/16 11:23 PM
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You're incorrect in assuming stylish = expensive. I mostly shop at Target, H&M, and Forever 21. I've never spent more than $100 on a single outfit in my life. I would say it myself and I've heard it from others: I am damn stylish. Women like men who are attractive (surprise surprise), and how a guy dresses is a big part of that. Attraction is subjective, but even Ryan Gosling wouldn't look good in baggy sweats and a pizza-stained t-shirt. EDIT: Never mind, Ryan Gosling would look great in anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 07:33 PM
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They complain how they can't get a girlfriend and no woman wants them, then I hop on Tinder and OKC and find tons of guys not even doing the bare minimum to be attractive - overweight, poor sense of style, bad skin/teeth... <5/10 but you can tell they could be 7-8/10 if they put some effort in. It's depressing to see such a waste of potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 04:37 PM
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Yep. I'm single and looking, so I'm not entirely happy with my singlehood. Does that mean I post pictures of myself without makeup eating ice cream and drinking wine while watching romantic movies crying about it? No way! I post fun stuff because that's what social media is for: the "highlights" of your life, not the lows.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 08:25 PM
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Despite what your friend is saying, I'd be wary that he's sending sexual innuendos so early on. I've dated many guys who are looking to marry and none would send me that kind of thing after the first meeting. It's not something worth breaking things off with immediately, but keep an eye on that. You could either stop responding and text back when you have time, or it'd be more polite to let him know what's going on and why you won't be texting. Something like: "I have to get to work but let's ta…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/16 05:15 PM
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Practice being uncomfortable--feeling insecure--and being okay with feeling insecure. Until you do this, you will always be insecure. So true. Our first instinct when we start to feel insecure is to avoid it, to push it away and ignore until it goes away. But it doesn't; in fact, it usually comes back with a vengeance. It's much more beneficial to tackle the insecurity head on - ask yourself, why am I feeling this way? Where is this coming from? Is it valid, why or why not? It never goes away en…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/16 12:30 AM
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Men in general are more cautious nowadays from what I've seen. That's awesome that he asked to meet with you! Here's the whole thing about alpha/beta: You can't make that determination based on one thing a guy did. Most men are a mix of those traits. It could be that now that he's more comfortable (you agreed to exchange numbers), he's allowing his masculine side to shine through by asking you out. Can't wait to hear how it goes! :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/16 09:24 PM
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This commenter summed up my feelings on it: I've sent a few first messages out. Only one time did a guy respond, out like ten. My friend was messaging a man who, despite three weeks of conversation, hadn't asked her out yet. So she asked him for coffee. He never responded. Men are single and can't get dates because they don't approach women (like they are expected to do - again, not really fair, but generally assumed that they are the ones to approach) and ask them out. Yes, you're not obligated…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 08:32 PM
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That's the first thing I thought when I saw the other thread (I think it was about cloning)!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 06:12 PM
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I'm still learning all this red pill alpha/beta stuff, so anybody can correct me if I'm wrong. I would say he was beta because he wasn't direct about his intentions and tiptoed around it. Like you said, it's like he has an idea of how to be masculine; he's just not using it to his full capabilities.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/16 06:02 PM
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When you included "bold men" in your title, I had something very different in mind. Like Archwinger said, his actions don't constitute boldness. If you are interested in him, the advice others are giving about texting are spot on.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/16 05:32 PM
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And he didn't ask for her number but asked if she would want HIS number. Dude sounds pretty beta.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/16 03:29 PM
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Thank you for the advice! The most difficult thing for me to work on had always been patience, especially when it comes to dating. But I'm committed to change and, like you said, will take this as an opportunity to practice. And yes, I am keeping a full schedule on my own and open to seeing other men - not being glued to my phone waiting for his next text!
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/16 03:15 PM
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First off, you should discuss with your therapist healthy ways to manage stress. Stress and pressure are part of being an adult, it sucks but it's really non-negotiable. Is it possible you can take on less courses and/or cut back your hours at work while you work through this? The job market nowadays requires bachelor degrees for even the most basic jobs. If you can work through it, even at a slower pace, it will make things much easier if you hit a roadblock (say if your husband gets injured an…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/16 11:01 PM
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I would like some advice on how long to "wait" for a guy. That's not the best wording so let me explain: I met a guy online back in February. We've been on 4 dates since, averaging one a week. I'm good with that - we discussed on date 3 how we're both looking to take things slow. Last I saw him was two weeks ago, where he said we should see each other the following week and I said that sounded good. The past week comes and goes and no word from him. I had in my mind somewhat written him off as l…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/16 08:33 PM
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I was listening to an old episode of the Simple Sophisticate podcast (discovered it here, it's great!) yesterday where she mentioned how texting/emails/messaging plays a role in today's relationships. Not just romantic, but friendships and career as well. She stressed that you can't build a quality relationship of any kind over text. It is useful for simple, quick conversations once a relationship has been established, but it's not enough for a foundation. You may have spent a lot of time sendin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/16 08:17 PM
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This article is the embodiment of the cruel and deceitful nature of so-called "enlightened" women. Newsflash: being a whorish clown IS the bland trope nowadays. Being a genuine person with productive intelligent hobbies stands out more than you would think. My favorite :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/16 05:09 PM
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Dating is collecting information about someone until you realize you don’t like them Oh how true this is...
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 05:12 PM
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There's another side too, "actions speak louder than words." In my experience, guys will say almost anything to keep a woman interested. You have to pay more attention to what he does about marriage and growing your family, which right now seems to be not a whole lot.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 08:14 PM
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From what I can tell there's only one comment about his thoughts on all this, and it's relegated to a parenthesis: (he's talked about it a lot and he does [want to be married] but isn't "ready" yet) OP, you are obviously clear on what you want. Now it's time to look at and listen to what he wants. Sit down and have an honest conversation about where he sees this relationship going.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 06:22 PM
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If he does get the internship, it will only be for the summer correct? Use that as a trial period. He will be giving his all during this time; you should do the same. Be supportive, take care of everything you can to make things easier on him. Then, once the internship ends, re-evaluate where things stand. Also, don't google "[career] wife/girlfriend." All it's going to do is make you paranoid and insecure. Those people posting aren't you and your boyfriend, so their comments and experiences do …
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 05:54 PM
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Great advice, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 08:29 PM
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Off-topic: I just downloaded Tinder and have been talking with a few guys. How do you filter the good (respectable guys looking for LTR) from the bad (sleazes who wan a one night stand)? I've done online dating before but haven't ventured to Tinder because of the whole stigma that everyone on there is only looking to hookup.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 11:38 PM
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He doesn't need to be an alpha; he just needs to be more alpha than you Exactly. Your prospects don't have to (and shouldn't) be Alpha Chads only.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 07:39 PM
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Thank you! These are all wonderful references.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 04:11 PM
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Chuck Norris doesn't dial the wrong number, you pick up the wrong phone. One of the biggest ideas in Christianity is the importance between man/masculine qualities and woman/feminine qualities. I could go into more detail but basically it stresses that men are to be leaders and women supporters. From Ephesians 5: Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. ..…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 09:02 PM
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Agree to learning by example. Also, being a Christian and planning on marrying someone with those same ideals, many of the RPW philosophies overlap with Biblical teaching. So, kill two birds with one stone kind of deal haha.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 08:43 PM
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First time here! :) Good I'm single and mingling. There's a few guys that have caught my interest. In the past, I would obsess over them until I drove myself or them crazy. This time around I'm taking things slow and not making dating my priority. It's helping that I'm working on a large-ish cross stitch project and making plans with my friends and family. Bad I've gone to the gym maybe twice in the past two weeks. My diet has been in check but I need to get back into being active. February is a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 07:06 PM
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I agree! People put so much emphasis on sex and sexual compatibility nowadays. I think as long as you're honest with your partner (and of course attracted to them) your sex life will be just fine.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 06:37 PM
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