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Tell the truth - the whole situation was created because he wasn't honest with his "plates". If he was honest, they would have known, and those that didn't have a problem with it, would be more than willing to be one of his "plates". Just understand, women employ the herd mentality/shaming as a "tool" to keep other women in line within the herd. There is absolutely no way for a man to interrupt that process. Your friend should be relieved and thankful ... he now has a chance to find a whole new …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 05:11 PM
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(1) All women have daddy issues (2) All women will play the "daddy" game, some just like it more than others. (3) If you don't like it, tell her to stop - you're her daddy, you can tell her to do anything and she should respect the boundaries you set (4) All women are looking for their "daddy" - it translates to someone that will take care of them (i.e. feel safe), make sure nothing "scary" happens, discipline them when they do something wrong and whatever else they want to put in that bucket. (…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:55 PM
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I'm not an expert ... but from what I understand, focus is always about BIG muscle groups first, MED muscle groups second, SMALL muscle groups last. Squats, Deadlifts, Chest and Shoulder Presses - are all key for multiple muscle group engagement and big muscle engagement. And each of those will help you in your job of lifting heavy things, and keep your "core" strong. Heavy Weights are by definition High Intensity - and there is a way to include Cardio into it by creating active rest (i.e. walk …
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:46 PM
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First, she's lying to you. Although my college years are decades behind me, I went to a christian college - and by far, the attitude was "no sex until marriage" ... I can tell you there was plenty of sex being had. Possibly a few holdouts, but most of these young co-eds were more than willing to have sex (it was just time and place) - and absolutely no way to tell the "good" girls from the "bad" girls. They all acted like good girls, dressed like good girls, and spoke like good girls - and 90% o…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:10 PM
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It's like your Dad catching you smoking and then buying you a pack of cigaretts and telling you smoke the whole pack in front of him right now. You need to get pussy off the pedestal ... you can only do that if you over indulge in it for a while. Once you've had sex with a few dozen girls, you'll notice looks, size, skin color, body type, intelligence, etc. don't matter - pussy is pussy - they come in all shapes and sizes, but so far, every pussy I've encountered runs north and south (haven't fo…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 12:52 AM
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Here's an analogy (although imperfect I admit) All dogs will bite a person - in that they have the instinct and capability to bite. But not every individual dog has bitten has bitten a person. So, in essence, ADALT In the same way all women are the same, they have the same basic mental, psychological and physiological make up. But, a single individual woman, may not act in exactly the same way (or use the exactly the same method) as another one. That being said, there is enough anecdotal and emp…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 12:44 AM
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However, one the members of my team doesn't like when my decisions involve her doing research or learning new things, and constantly tries to use the other member of my team to do things for her and/or talks to my boss like if she were his best friend to get her agenda going. She may just be dead weight for the project/work team. One of the keys to management (managing a team of people) is to understand what each member brings to the table. You may not have understood everyone's strengths or wea…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 04:27 PM
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Learn everyday. Challenge yourself everyday. Find your "thing" and work on it everyday. Get yourself healthy - exercise, lift, eat right, get enough sleep. Find friends - you can't be the "best" you without friends. Quit thinking in such black-n-white terms. I know you get drenched with Alpha/Beta talk on this site, but our lives are never quite that polar. We are "alpha" in some things, and "beta" in others. Find what works for you and fuck everything else. This is your life, if something's not…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 10:02 PM
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Go and read the Iron Rules of Tomassi ... Believe it is Iron Rule #7. There are just too many other women out there that you have no idea if they're crazy ... this one you do. Go get one of the other 2B+ women in the world. (number is there to just keep everything in perspective)
/r/askTRP21/09/17 10:12 PM
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I don't think so. "No Effort Into Chasing" ... I don't don't know how you do anything without effort.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:50 PM
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Become a celebrity (famous or infamous) in some way ... local, regional, national, international. Even traveling rock bands, "C" actors, local news/sports guys, radio disc jockeys, youtube stars ... start a successful and high flying business ... get a job working in and around bars & clubs (like a liquor distributor) - but be slick and confident ... become a drug dealer
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:24 PM
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Nick Nilsson ... here's his google search results page ... lots free info, but he also sells books & programs. He does a great job of explaining various moves, lifts, etc. https://www.google.com/search?q=nick+nilsson&oq=nick+nilsson&aqs=chrome..69i57j69i60.4572j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:20 PM
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A man should always be ready the leave the next day. That's your power in the LTR Nothing lasts forever, everything has a clock on it. That includes the most important thing, your life, but it also encompasses your family, your friends, your "loves", your job, your car, that dog you loved so much, etc and so on. Every relationship with a woman has clock ticking in the background. You can't stop it, and you can't rewind it. When it hits zero, that relationship is over - no overtime, no encore. Be…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 12:04 AM
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First, unless there is medical condition that needs attention, mood swings could be as much about your diet as anything else. So, start tracking what you eat. [e.g. I love fried onion rings, but a few years ago, I noticed that within 24 hours of eating them, I would get angry and agitated at almost anything. I don't eat onion rings anymore for that reason.] You are the rock. You are the culmination of a over 6M years of evolution, and about 200K years of human evolution. You have the ability to …
/r/askTRP19/09/17 11:34 PM
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Actually ... most Men need to quit reading, go to places where women hang out (the mall is great - but also bars, clubs, etc.) .... and just observe what is happening. Act like you're watching it on a movie screen, but become hyper aware of how women interact with each other, with Men, with people serving them, the women serving - start observing the interplay.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 11:20 PM
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I guess the operative word you used in the above is "capable". Human nature may provide the capability, but evidence provides some startling truth that is exactly the opposite. I have one sister that would do whatever it takes to help me out - and another that wouldn't cross the room if I was lying on the floor having a heart attack. The key is just accepting what "is" - rather than attempting to change it. “If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battl…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 11:12 PM
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Suggestion .... go find all the Iron Rules ... Write them down on a piece of paper, literally write then down with pen and paper. Read them every day for at least a couple weeks - make it a morning ritual. These are like TRP Affirmations - you need them buried deep inside your brain. So you can call upon them when you need them. My advice is "Don't do it" ... but I also believe that every Man should go back at least once in his life. Sometimes, you just have to learn by your own mistakes. It suc…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 11:04 PM
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Avoid? Believing lifting/working out is a short term thing. It is life choice - so please, take a long term view. Don't look for quick fixes or short cuts. Don't injure yourself. What you eat is more important than what you lift. And you're lifting so you can enjoy the next 80 years of you life.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:56 PM
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Of course you were confident in High School, you had twelve years in school leaning all about it. Give yourself a break - everytime there is a change (like graduating from high school, college, etc.) you slip from the "known" to the unknown. Especially if this is the first major life change - it can seem like you are unanchored and set adrift. You will learn over time, it's temporary. That's why there is so much emphasis here on certain basic activities - lifting, eating right, flirting, etc. - …
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:51 PM
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Options: (1) Stay. If it is a two bedroom, move to the second one; If one bedroom get bunk beds. (2) Start working out, flirting with women, eating better, working on your plan for the future. Never wait - she's not holding you back or holding you down - get over the "nice guy" stuff and start acting like she's the worst fucking room mate ever. Do your own thing, don't ask her to come along, hang out with your Male friends, etc. Just because you have your own place, doesn't mean you'll start liv…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:40 PM
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My take on this ... (1) At their core, women don't want to work (earn a living). The more they make, the harder it is to "leave" the salary to birth a few kids, raise them, and still feel "fulfilled" in their lives - along with having 100% control of over spending their money. Example: they make $50K by themselves, and want to "get married and have kids", then most will just "know" their new husband need to be making at least double or more for her to have the life she wants (and still get to ke…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 06:15 PM
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Perfect solution.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 11:59 PM
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No disagreement from me. Not much of a TV watcher myself.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 11:58 PM
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Admittedly, I am as fucked up as any other Man. There are areas of my life that are "cruising" and others that could fall apart at any moment. The best thing you can do in your life, is become fully "aware" and make conscious decisions, on your terms. Everything else is just window dressing and bravado.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:42 PM
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I completely understand ... get a few more decades under your belt and you'll understand those "days" mean more to women than men (in general). One more thing, using Dread Game is like anything else in your toolkit, it takes experience to use it. And many times, Dread is confused with "ultimatums" and "passive aggressive" behavior - you will need to understand the difference to use it to it's full potential.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:38 PM
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That's a good one ... similar to "Exercise first thing in the morning" ... that way, there isn't anything that can get in the way. Also, I'd say go get a hotel room ... if you've gotten into a "groove" with "how & why", you can spice things up with a little hotel sex - great thing about it, you don't have to clean up after.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:07 PM
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Why did you put any significance on that specific day? It doesn't sound like you are living with her, how often do you see her and don't have sex? If it happened more than a couple times over the past year, then you may be seeing her too often. If you truly have a plate mentality, then the relationship you have with any specific plate is on your terms, not theirs. If she's not having sex with you, there is a reason (you can ask her - although the answers you get won't be the full truth), and the…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:59 PM
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Are you playing with fire? Yes, but every Man is playing with fire everytime he starts dealing with a woman - we bring the matches, and they bring the gasoline. Advice? Enjoy the time with her. It's your time, you only have so much of it, and then you die. Not really much else to say - congrats on pulling an 18 year old. Use her as "social proof" and go find a couple more. If you have sex, wrap it up. Be careful if she likes it rough, and don't leave marks/bruises. Don't get hung up on her age. …
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:38 PM
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Think of it like an educational program - the majority will only take the free introductory course and go away. There will always be less and less Men as you move to the progressively harder "classes" - and very few that make it through the entire program.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:11 PM
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Agreed. And although I'd have a hard time imagining my mom saying that ... she has said/done some outrageous things in the past. Become aware of your mom's behavior (or aunts, sisters, etc), and start observing it. All men grow up in a rich petri dish of TRP truths, but we are either too young or too "blind" to see them.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 11:32 AM
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Who do you think the "consumers" are of the highest rated TV shows? Actually, who do you believe is behind most "consumerism"? (off topic from post, but not from comment above)
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 11:15 AM
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The very first thing you should do is become hyper-aware, which is more important than flirting ... the following is from one of the sidebar posts (which leads to the blog/several articles) ... http://masculineprinciple.blogspot.ca/2015/02/no-woman-is-out-of-your-league.html "Try this experiment on a regular basis. Dress up in a reasonable fashion (ie wear normal clothes that are clean and in reasonable condition…bathe and be groomed). Then go to the mall and walk around. Keep an open posture at…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 11:20 PM
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@MODs ... this post is either deserving of being deleted or for someone to do a full breakdown for "educational" purposes.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 11:10 PM
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I'd go with this ^ unless he's giving you stock tips or some other valuable advice.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 11:03 PM
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haha [I upvoted that] ... thanks - I don't proof read these things.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 10:24 PM
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If I read this right, you are a contractor ... which means, you are not a card carrying, employee of this company. You need to change your mentality - unless you get paid on some type of scale for the contract work you do for them, who gives a flying fuck if they ask you to clean the toilets - you are selling your time, they are buying your time, end of story. These people are not your friends, they are not your co-workers, they are not your peers - they are your customer. Start acting like they…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:54 PM
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I really hope all the young ones are reading and learning. Not to be mean, but what you have described is the quintessential woman. I win, but I have to make sure I win by the biggest margin. I can't just be right, I have to make sure you know I'm RIGHT!! Sex is just sex. So far I haven't found any woman that has anything I didn't expect - and exactly where I expected it. Sex can be fun, sex can be functional, sex can be short, sex can be long - but really, it's just sex. Interesting you would c…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:43 PM
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Agreed. the OP won. And if the marriage goes south, she'll win again. And there are no shortage of 50+ year old men willing to "get with" a woman 10 years younger - for them, it seems like a win too. Look, everyone is winning on this thread, what a refreshing change!
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:34 PM
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I would hazard a guess that every Man on the forum believes he has found a "unicorn" ... I know I have ... right after my divorce. And btw, she wasn't - just another pretty pony with a paper hat for a horn. And I read what you wrote ... Strong Father, Virgin, Well Educated, Knows How to Defer & Treat Her Man, Unwilling to "take advantage", Pays her own way, Healthy, No/Limited Social Media, No Male "orbiters", etc. ... and it reads like a storybook Those are things you wrote. You have de-selecte…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:19 PM
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Escalate? Do you're own thing, go to bed and leave the door open. If you joins you in bed, then fuck her - if she doesn't, then tell you you've got plans for the next night and she should probably get a hotel or stay with someone else. Alternate - when you're getting ready to go to bed, throw a pillow and blanket out in the hall - she will be forced to take what she can get or say something about sleeping in your bed. Either way - no fucks were given by you - she either fucks you, or she gets to…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:03 PM
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Just another "There are NO unicorns" response. Also ... How do you know she is a virgin? did she tell you? How do you know she has never been to a bar? did she tell you? Now do you know she has a strong father? did she tell you or if you met him, did you quiz him about his fatherly traits? You may have found "the last unicorn" (btw, good luck with that). BUT, if she's the one that has told you all those things, she could be lying (and btw, if she said she is a virgin, she may just not be countin…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 08:55 PM
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She said it to elicit a response from the person on the phone - she had just "lost", in a last ditch effort to potentially "win", she throws out an outrageous statement in the hope the man on the phone will back down, start apologizing and give her the "win". From my experience, it is a perfect example of AWALT. It happens with all women - whether they are complete strangers or your wife, mother or sister. If they feel they have either lost or are losing, they will dig deep and throw some outrag…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 08:27 PM
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I've said this before, but most Men, even post-TRP still hold onto the "hope and fantasy" that their "unicorn and quality woman" is still out there, just waiting to be magically discovered by this powerful RP Alpha Male. It's a fool's quest - there are no unicorns - they are a myth, they do not exist. If she does, she's probably water skiing with Bigfoot on Loche Ness.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 08:06 PM
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Avocados are rich in Magnesium. Also, you might try Maca powder. I believe the black maca has the highest level of magnesium.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 07:56 PM
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Life doesn't have to be a bunch of Unicorns pracing over rainbows giving each other blowjobs. that's funny - good one!
/r/askTRP15/09/17 01:05 PM
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One last point ... Becoming disillusioned can either be a liberating thing, or another trap. There are always two ways to look at something (i.e. the table top is 3 feet from the floor, or the floor is three feet from the table top). Very few Men really want TRP to be true, they are willing to try out all this new information, but they always hold out "hope" that there is an exception to the rule out there (their own personal unicorn, created just for them) - it's not really different from the w…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 12:40 PM
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Great line from Shawshank Redemption: "Get busy living, or get busy dying" I suggest get busy living - now that you're not ruled by the almighty pussy, you can focus on .... whatever. You can become a billionaire (not to get pussy, but because you want to); You can become a movie star/rock star/male model (not to get pussy, but because you want to); You can become the Tony Robbins of your generation (not to get pussy, but because you want to). You have liberated yourself from the "need" - now it…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 12:20 PM
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If you're like most husbands, you've been programmed to think "family/wife first" ... society wants you to drowned in that mindset. It keeps you being a great plow horse, working harder everyday, making money that other people get to spend for you. It's a harsh reality when you come to it --- that you can't work hard enough, you can't make enough money, you can't buy enough "great" stuff, you can do anything "enough" to make your wife happy. And that attitude will roll down to your kids, and the…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 12:04 PM
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And be ready to sell your soul ... Advertising Agency (or even digital marketing agencies) are notoriously cut throat, hire a disproportionate number of women, and really don't care what they are advertising/designing or who they work with. Also, TRP is great from a baseline, psychological standpoint - because women make the majority of the purchasing decisions.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 11:54 AM
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Some important terms to become familiar with ... and it's not advertising - it's digital marketing (search the term): Click Funnel; Customer Journey; Click through rates; Response rate; Landing pages; Lead magnets; Top of Funnel (tof), Middle of Funnel (mof), Bottom of funnel (bof); Email Marketing (# of opens, # of clicks throughs, Bounce (hard or soft)); Influencer marketing; content marketing; etc. You might also want to look at Martech (the technology used for marketing) and start to underst…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 11:50 AM
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this^ You are a girlfriend with a penis. Unless you enjoy orbiting around girls, then quit doing it. Quit hanging around her, quit talking to her, quit having "girls that are friends" - have guys that are friends. Read this article. http://masculineprinciple.blogspot.ca/2015/03/woman-most-responsible-teenager-in-house.html ... hopefully it will open your eyes and you can start "becoming" the Man women want.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 11:40 AM
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This is advice from a divorced guy (who did everything wrong, found this little corner of the web after) ... Be ready for a mental shift once you actually get this ingrained and working in your life ... the whole "I don't give a fuck" becomes the over riding mindset - which means, you really don't. It's not forced, it's not something you think about anymore, it just "is". I think being married (or divorced), it's easier to see the advantages of the whole thing. You start to understand that you a…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 11:17 AM
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^ Your first instinct is going to be wrong ^ I've stripped down the above statement to its core meaning: "I don't want her to see me as an asshole, because I'm a really charming and nice guy". Default to the opposite of your lifelong programming ... Be the Asshole. In fact, be the biggest asshole in HER world. She's not fucking you now, and we all know what being nice to her will do ... so default to asshole. Sexualize every situation/conversation (vary it from subtle to blatant). Do that with e…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:57 PM
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there is absolutely no difference (at the core) of political parties - local, state, national, federal levels - they are about the same core principle .... Power. "Ned" is just an example of that.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:40 PM
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Go read "The 48 Laws of Power" immediately. If you are planning a career in politics (or have interests in that area), it will become your bible. It will help you start identifying those people who are sincere in helping, and those that are using you as a "resource" for something. Personally, I believe hitting on your GF is nothing more than a power play (basically the Male version of a shit test). It's not about your GF, although he might want to fuck her, it's about how strong you are and can …
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:35 PM
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Agreed with the opinions here. GTFO. One of your manster thoughts is "having children" - and since you are still contemplating staying married with her, you obviously believe she (1) has all the attributes you would look for in a mother of your children and (2) she is a "quality" woman. If you truly believe she is the very "best" woman for the job of bearing your children, raising them and being a perfect mother to them, I say stay - and start working on the children part (which means you will n…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:18 PM
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Message her with "I'm going to XX for coffee tomorrow, I'll be there around XX" She can join you or not. She can provide excuses or not. She will be an "accessory" to your life, your plans are your plans, if she wants to join, then great, if not, then great. End of story.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:36 PM
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this Confidence is the starting point. If you have ZERO, then find ways to build it. For many Men, that starts with Discipline. By developing discipline in your life, you start to "feel" more confident. Simply, that's part (not all) of the reason(s) given for doing the basics of Lifting, No Fap, No Porn, Eating Right, Looking People in the Eye, Standing Up Straight, (and about a hundred other things). Start will something to create discipline in your life, then add a few more things. Confidence …
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:29 PM
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Read the book "Mastery" by Robert Greene if you want to understand the process. He's a professional writer, has studied and researched the subject and can provide a much better explanation of the steps. If you can't be bothered to invest a few dollars and few hours to read that book, then any advice given here won't work very well.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:18 PM
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Having emotions is human. Just don't allow those emotions to cloud your judgement. Remain 100% "situationally" aware. Be willing to walk away, and be willing to allow her to walk away. And remember, every relationship has it's own countdown clock.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 11:11 AM
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I know everyone here likes The Matrix analogy. Another way to view what is happening is the movie "They Live" ... you have the glasses on and can see "what's really happening" perfectly, once you take the glasses off, you see what everyone else sees. Open your eyes and become AWARE. Awareness is the best skill you can have in your life - personal and professional. And have a testing mentality - because everyone's life and circumstances are just a bit different. What works for one person 100% of …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 01:25 AM
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One thing that won't be said much around here ... is that we all "want it" (i.e. validation) at times in our life. There's no silver bullet or magic pill you can take to "stop" feeling that way. Moving through that time is all you can do. Needing that validation is very similar to desperation - and there are multiple posts/responses about the primary reaction of women to a "desperate" man. I wish you luck. I seems you have it together for the most part, if you can tackle 80% of it, you're ahead …
/r/askTRP09/09/17 07:00 PM
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Just looked up the average cost of divorce in the US. I think the number is a little low - but in 2016 it was $15000. OH, and the average cost of a wedding (2015) was $35000. So, we're talking $50K if you get married and then get divorced (those are just costs associated with the actual event, not the long term cost of "being" married or divorced. So, $500 a month isn't necessarily that bad - 8 years + a couple months. Not bad, and you can continue to swap out those babies all the time - I'm sur…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 03:54 PM
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You don't need "validation" from a women
/r/askTRP09/09/17 02:41 PM
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Read Robert Greene's "Mastery" Also, stop giving two fucks for what another person thinks or believes about your life. If you can drop that external baggage, find that "thing" in your life, focus on it - it is completely amazing what will happen. It is YOUR life - stop living it on other people's terms, based upon what they like, don't like, the "things/possessions/places" they want - take 100% ownership, care less for everyone else, and care more for yourself (believe me, it's not selfish as th…
/r/askTRP09/09/17 02:37 PM
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Great post. It shows how important it is to become AWARE ... to observe. Read the materials provided ... then just start observing life around you.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 12:03 PM
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Suggest reading PT Mangan's Blog - http://roguehealthandfitness.com/ Lots of good articles (he also backs is up with scientific/medical research). I'd also suggest researching Maca and Intermittent Fasting.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 09:23 PM
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If you understand the underlying tenets of TRP ... the conclusion is ALL women are asexual. They will use sex as a "means to an end" and that end is to better their own lives first, then the lives of their children second. If that means having sex with a man, fine. If that means having sex with a woman, fine. If that means withholding sex from either, fine. The strategies may be slightly different, but the outcome is exactly the same - the support of themselves, in the best manner possible. Ther…
/r/askTRP06/09/17 03:16 PM
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Actually, there are lots of similarities between certain addictive drugs and the brain chemicals of "love". So, merely saying the comparison is invalid, there is scientific evidence that you can be "addicted" to another person - with the same type of "feel good"/"feel bad" and withdrawal problems. "Dopamine, for instance, is the hormone responsible for the vast majority of the brain’s reward pathway – and that means controlling both the good and the bad. We experience surges of dopamine for our …
/r/askTRP06/09/17 03:03 PM
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OR... She's on her period - timing with any woman is as much a factor as anything else. The woman that fucks your lights out on that ONS was probably ovulating - the one that didn't "play the game" and shot you down in the first round, could have a yeast infection and not be feeling good, and sex is the last thing she's thinking about. Women have cycles, become aware of them and things get lots easier. In fact - Awareness is your #1 strategic weapon in almost everything in life.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 03:03 PM
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I would also say ... talk to her as a Brother, not a Father. Attempt to keep the moralizing and judgement way in the background. Keep the door open for further conversations, discussions (and even some "debate"). You can actually provide her with some guidance ... help her navigate what's ahead for her. Don't force any "knowledge" on her, and with all women, expect there to be some "emotions" involved.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:45 PM
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I'm going to give some of the older guys a tip here about working out, especially if you haven't worked out with weights for a while. Find a Gym with classes - my preference when I first started off was Body Pump (there are variants of that offered by lots of gyms) and Yoga. It does two things (1) you have a "structure" for both the classes and the routine within the classes and (2) they are filled with 90% women. This is not a long term strategy, at least for Body Pump, but the yoga classes are…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:02 PM
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Lean to fight. Not bear-knuckle or street fighting ... I mean boxing, MMA or a martial arts that you actually get to hit and be hit. There is something powerful about knowing you can take a punch and survive. Also, leaning to fight properly provides you with some knowledge about protecting yourself (especially against people that have no clue what they're doing). I'm a bit old school (being older than most here), and getting your ass kicked is a great life lesson. I grew up when there were actua…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 09:35 PM
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Not making Thanksgiving awkward? Don't wear a t-shirt that says "Cousin Elly is a Slut, I know, because I fucked her"
/r/askTRP31/08/17 09:30 PM
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My kids now joke about "Cranky Dad" ... they sense and feel more than we give them credit. Do yourself a favor. Forgive everybody and everything - and do it for yourself first. Then your wife. The only thing we have in this life are our precious minutes - each one that passes, you never get back. Forgive yourself for the time lost, don't waste another minute on something that is just going to waste another one. Make a list of things that make YOU happy. I would also start flirting with every wom…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 09:17 PM
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Did a quick check ... Dewayne "the Rock" Johnson = 45; Vin Diesel = 50; Jason Statham = 50; Donnie Yen = 54; Sylvester Stallone = 71 All those Men are in pretty good shape, and I guess all of them are way past their prime (in some people's eyes).
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:39 PM
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Anger will wash over you like a tidal wave. Let it happen, don't resist it, and then allow it go back out. I lived with my self-induced anger for a couple years - my only suggestion is to let it go as quickly as you can. No one is at fault, your wife, my (x)wife, the guy's wife on the other side of the world - they are who they are. The sooner you let go of the anger, the sooner you reclaim all your power back. It is completely liberating to not be angry at all any more. You'll get there - good …
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:32 PM
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I was getting ready to say the same thing ... as in "Who DOESN'T want to bang 20 something hotties?" ... if you catch them before they start having kids, their bodies are still in great shape. There's a reason why most high-fashion models are washed up by 30. Besides, it's completely between two people, both of "legal" age.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:29 PM
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Agreed. Get everything in order prior doing anything legal. Your marriage is like any other partnership, there are legal barriers and legal loopholes. Engage with professionals who know both. I don't wish divorce on anyone, it sucks (for all sorts of reason), but like everything in life, it's a process to get THROUGH - once on the other side, you'll wonder why it took you so long. You are miles ahead just from the standpoint of your understanding (RP), most find it after wallowing for a couple y…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:22 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Always a good reminder when thinking about an EX anything.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:44 PM
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Best thing that happened to my health (in retrospect) was my wife deciding to leave our 17 year marriage. It forced lots of changes to my lifestyle - including the fact that I now have much less stress in my life. It's not hard to stay "active" at 50+, you just have to decide that's what you want to do (just like at 20, 30, 40). Also, start as early in life as you can (that will help too). Great resource for all Men is RogueHealthAndFitness.com he's RP and plans on living past 100. Great researc…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:17 PM
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Since I don't presume to know why others read here, I will just state - I found TRP not because I couldn't get laid, I've done fairly well in my life. My path was through the back door, because after my marriage disintegrated, I believed it was "all on me", that I wasn't "man enough" to make it work. I shouldered 100% of the responsibility, just like I was told to do all my life. That as head of the household, it was my failure ... literally, "the buck stops here". I can not thank the thousands …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 11:40 PM
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No matter what anyone says, the first step is always the hardest. It's easier to sit and plan, to decide you'll start tomorrow, to do it and have the first hurdle put in front of you and decide it's too "hard". And btw, someone showing up calling you a pussy - pretty fucking useless suggestion. Find something that you love. Right now, you're 17 and money or having a roof over your head isn't an issue - so find a something to be passionate about. Once you find that "thing", you'll also notice hur…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:29 PM
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(this is the same advice I'd give my own sons - 18 & 21) ... Your whole entire life will be lived in two increments - Minutes & Inches. And you have complete control over how you spend your minutes and "where" you go with them. First, discipline comes from within, no one makes you motivated or disciplined, you have to do it for yourself, and by yourself. Second, being "comfortable" is the enemy of both discipline and motivation. You have to be uncomfortable to put in the time and energy to do so…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 06:12 PM
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My standard go to response any more: "By choice"
/r/askTRP24/08/17 07:44 PM
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This is going be a bit off script, because this not traditional RP books ... but I would look into some of the following areas also: 1) A good book on body language and/or non-verbal communications 2) Read some of the old advertising/copywriting guys (Robert Collier, Claude Hopkins, Gary Halbert) - they men were masters at influence, they new how to communicate, they understand how to "create stories", etc. Other books to consider ... I would suggest reading "The Married Man Sex Life Primer" by …
/r/askTRP24/08/17 07:36 PM
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I get it 100%. And congrats for losing the fat. I read somewhere that male gymnasts are pound for pound some of strongest guys around - and most never pick up a weight. Eating is #1. Activity is #2. I don't remember, but check out a guy named Nick Nilsson - he has a bunch of videos and blog articles about lifting. I would still caution against buying lots of home gym stuff. For about $50, you can go buy a couple bags of sand, thick milled trash bags, learn now to throw those around. Here's Nick'…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:55 PM
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"A Man is not made by his circumstance, He is revealed by them" (paraphrased) James Allen, As A Man Thinketh. https://wahiduddin.net/thinketh/as_a_man_thinketh.pdf None of us matters much. 7.5 Billion people on the planet. Average male life expectancy in the US is 78.74 years. You have a clock ticking to Zero. You can either spend that time improving yourself (or not) it is completely up to you.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 03:07 PM
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First - here's the 2x4 to your head ... Beat your anxiety, first and foremost. Either self educate or get professional help - that's the only path beyond it. The Red Pill can educate you about "how the world really works", but if your inner workings are fucked up, none of that matters much. Once you have beaten the crap out of the anxiety (in general), then it's about attacking specific causes of your anxiety (i.e. women, speaking in front people, standing up for yourself, etc and so on). Anxiet…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 02:26 PM
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Check out this guy's Youtube ... https://www.youtube.com/user/nilssonnick tons of different videos for different goals and body types - self described as "The Mad Scientist of Muscle" - he's a beast.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:16 PM
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Alternative Suggestion: Instead of buying any equipment, start with 100% body weight. I suggest this merely because, it takes discipline to begin any exercise program - that means both in moving your body and what you eat. If you are inexperienced in lifting weight, and you're doing it unsupervised at home, you can injure yourself even at low weights. Give yourself a month to focus on body weight exercises and creating a healthy (male oriented, one that promotes testosterone) diet. During that t…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:07 PM
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^ THIS ^ It's a 10 minute discussion over a beer or the length of a game of pool. He will either "hear it" or not. I would also caution against "the bro talk" in general for anyone that hasn't fully implemented (not just read) RP principles. Lead by example. But understand, most will never understand, let alone embrace, this truth.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 12:52 PM
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Keep going! Your life seems to be on a path, just remember it is a path of your making. And "having no money" isn't the same as being poor, neither is in my definition of a loser. If you are pursuing higher and higher education, then you are taking positive action - and if you're doing that, there would be no way to classify you as a loser (and hope you didn't infer that from any of my comments).
/r/askTRP20/08/17 07:05 PM
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And I agree, you're not here to cater to me at all. And that is just my personal preference. Sounds like a great time. And I still stay with my original statement --- what you want is up to you, not her. If you only want a limited, FWB relationship, then be honest and straightforward with her. I realize the statement she made surprised you (based upon other pieces of info you shared). But ultimately, it's your decision.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 06:56 PM
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That sting? It's called experience, and that's how you learn - also, the stinging is only temporary. Better to have the lesson and the pain, than never put yourself out there to begin with.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 06:48 PM
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Well, the discussion is where you learn. My personal opinion now (I'm mid-50s) as opposed to my 30s is significantly different. The one thing I wish I had listened to when I decided to get married, is the what my father (and mother) told me - that even if you are marrying for "love", marriage is not about love, it's about the law. We get married (usually) with our judgement clouded by all the chemicals running around our brains, or some sort of misguided/misdirected social pressure to "get marri…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 06:01 PM
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I don't like the FWB label ... Fuck Buddy (FB) is a better label in my opinion. If they are a FB, then your only real interaction is when either of you wants to hook up ... pretty much zero any other time. And we don't have context for this specific conversation ... did it happen in response to a text saying "how about I come over"? Right before sex was about to happen? After you having sex and you're getting dressed to leave? During a random conversation?
/r/askTRP20/08/17 05:46 PM
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Never underestimate the power of the Hamster. That statement is a shit test, pure and simple. There are guys on here that will give some wise answers on how to pass it, but the default is to grin or smirk at her and proceed with the conversation. They are just words coming out her mouth, allowing her to "deny responsibility" later. In the future, don't be so blunt with "I want to fuck" language - remember, unless you are in a place where emotions high, she probably won't respond well to blunt ta…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 05:24 PM
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Personally, I believe you've come to the wrong Reddit. (1) you are feeling pressure to be "married" and have a family ... there is nothing in the "rule book of life" that says those two need to go hand in hand. "Married" is a "civil union" of two people, basically a legally binding contract. As with any contract, it can be broken (called Dissolution of Marriage), which is governed by the laws of the state (or country) you live within. TRP states the best course of action is to not "get married",…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 05:11 PM
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You don't have to "get it", and you have just learned a very valuable lesson, and count yourself lucky you didn't act upon the impulse to marry her. Take however long to "wallow" in your self doubt and pity, get over the anger, and then do what needs to be done for you. You have been given the greatest gift - clarity (with a personal example). While you are wallowing, start taking actions - physical fitness, eating better, sleeping better, educating yourself, spending time with your male friends…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 04:48 PM
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Your next move is to stop worrying about her, and start taking care of (and worrying about) you. If you are here, there is a reasonable expectation you have read through some (if not all) the material provided. IF that is true, you believe the information presented to be true, AND you are living your life accordingly, then ... (1) you have already taken steps to (legally) protect yourself in the event of divorce (2) you expect your wife to be dishonest with her words (only actions really matter)…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 04:04 PM
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Stay tuned into other behavior would be my suggestion. Talk about it all you want, but it's her actions you want to become better attuned to. Also, watch out for: Yeast or Bladder Infections. None of those are proof solely on their own, but if you have even smoke, there is probably some fire building somewhere. Of course, you could decide to not worry about it. Start working on yourself, get in better shape, go buy some new clothes - go out with the guys more .... just default to putting some dr…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 03:48 PM
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You're 28. Be ecstatic you have a FB, go out and find a couple more. And never allow a woman to define if you are "good" enough for anything.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 05:06 PM
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I would suggest reading through all the articles at http://roguehealthandfitness.com/ And hope your dad gets better soon. amazing the advances we have today, versus just a decade ago.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 04:48 PM
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I've read both books, and they are in essence two different types, used for two different situations. BUT, they are both valid in the points are trying to make. NMMNG is a great read, but not everything in that book will apply to you (even if you are a nice guy). What I personally took away from that book is that a true Mr. Nice Guy is not really nice at all, and not true to either themselves are the people the claim to love/care about. He forces you to look at how you deal with people, and help…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 04:31 PM
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I grew up in a small, country town - over half my friends growing up either lived on farms or their family had farms, so access to hunting was easily found. I also grew up at a time when having your shotgun in your car/truck was a normal occurrence (even on school grounds), but times are different. I prefer bird hunting - dove, quail, grouse, etc. - over any other type. But I have done my share of other types of hunting. All that said, I believe hunting is one of those great guy things to do. No…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 04:13 PM
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Check out those resources. There are several "programs" out there, but Nick Nilsson has a ton of videos to go along with this books - which I personally appreciate. The following is from roguehealthandfitness.com - talking about the benefits of "intensity" in creating fitness: "Aerobics dogma overturned This study, along with others of a similar nature, shows you don’t need long hours of exercise to increase cardiorespiratory fitness. I think it also shows that, just as with lifting weights, int…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 03:47 PM
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Not a fitness Guru, don't know your goals or current fitness level but there are lots of programs out there that use nothing but your body to get fit/ripped. That being said, there are three exercises that are "full" body in nature: 1) Squats 2) Deadlifts 3) Pushups Of the above, the deadlift would be hardest one to get benefit from without resistance of some kind. The following are three sources of additional information - and may answer your question concerning pushups - or give you additional…
/r/askTRP13/08/17 01:09 PM
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You can not change "THE" world ... you can change "YOUR" world, and if enough people change theirs, in the way you are changing yours, then "THE" world changes. All improvement, is self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 08:53 PM
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Here are my thoughts ... 1) I don't believe he "planned" anything. The board was supposed to be anonymous (which only in name, not in theory or practice). 2) He's like a lot of "highly intelligent" people (which Google prides themselves in hiring), in that, he believed he was making a valid point, providing evidence, creating a discussion. Although his memo was wordy and long, we don't know what the average length of posts are on their internal board - it's an assumption to believe it was "long"…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 08:25 PM
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Corallary to this might be Stockholm Syndrome: "Stockholm syndrome (sometimes erroneously referred to as Helsinki syndrome)[1][2] is a condition that causes hostages to develop a psychological alliance with their captors as a survival strategy during captivity.[3] These feelings, resulting from a bond formed between captor and captives during intimate time spent together, are generally considered irrational in light of the danger or risk endured by the victims. Generally speaking, Stockholm synd…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 05:11 PM
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By all means, I'm not an expert ... and I'm working back at the "getting healthy & fit" mantra myself after getting completely lazy for a year. That being said ... check out the blog Rogue Health and Fitness by PD Mangan. He has several articles about fasting along with some of that within his books. One you get in the habit of eating one meal per day, it's not really that hard. And my mind is much clearer during the day. Are there hunger pains? Yes. Can you live with them? Yes. Do they go away?…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 04:12 PM
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Same is true with cars. If you don't have tools, buy them used. The only real problem with cars is "troubleshooting" ... but I can find someone off Craigslist to help that part, and it's the first time fixing something, I ask if I can watch them do it.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:50 PM
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Swinging back around, have a few hours today to sit and read ... question: where is the over 50 (could be over 45 or 40 I guess) RP sub ... that's what I need ... I read BlackDragonBlog - but would like to read more, talk more, interact more with RP guys in my age range. They are really few and far between. And I agree ... I'm not attracted to women much older to 45 ... most are "fat and lazy" still living with dreams of being a "hot girl" (if they ever were). I have met a few over 40 that fit t…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:08 PM
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Another 50+ male ... To be honest, I forgot ... started down this path a few years ago, found a "great" woman about 2 years ago (45 at the time). I held my frame (at least a higher-beta frame) for about a year. Stopped seeing her for a while, had to get a few things done, when I started seeing her again, I had caught a full-blown case of the ONEitis bug. Luckily, since I had it so bad, she dumped me a few weeks ago. I say lucky, because I had fully put on the blue goggles. Scary how that can hap…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:54 PM
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