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TheRedApostle/r/askTRP28/05/21 07:32 AM
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TheRedApostle/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:11 PM
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You are a retard. Could've spun it around and made them BOTH compete for you. Instead you explained yourself to her. NEVER go full retard.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 06:24 AM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn. Be happy for your friend and move on.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 01:42 PM
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Great post. I'm assuming this is a third-world country: how do you go about finding quality hookers to sleep with? Off the street?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/21 06:13 AM
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You answered your own question. If you're into a girl, maybe get her a gift or take her out. Don't give her power of attorney over half your assets, that's overkill.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:36 PM
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There's nothing red pill about getting married and proactively helping your wife become an IG model.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:21 PM
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Think about those people the next time you're deep inside another unicorn.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 10:43 PM
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You'll be in the country a YEAR from now? You'll be able to pull a lot more than you do right now if you put the work in for a full year. Don't even bother trying to save this bridge, it's burned. Leave the door open by telling her you'll let her know the next time you're around, that's it.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 06:34 AM
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says she doesn't even know me that well You take her by the waist and tell her you're there to change that. Simple.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:37 AM
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Relationship is a dumpster fire - she doesn't like you anymore but can't leave because she hasn't found a better man yet. She is surprised when you stand up for yourself in the face of disrespect because in her head, you're still a submissive bitch with no backbone. Text her that you're breaking up, no explanations. She'll know.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:33 AM
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Unfuck yourself. The sidebar exists for a damn good reason. She will break your door down at 3 am to fuck if you're attractive. If you're not, jump through the usual hoops or walk away. You would've known this already had you taken the time to just read the ONE THING guaranteed to make you good with women.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:08 AM
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I don't know, but you asking this question definitely 'alludes' to the fact that you haven't read the goddamn sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 08:02 PM
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Man, I feel you. Being young and starting from scratch, it feels like you've got last the groundwork for building SEVERAL things at once: gotta build wealth, skills, networks, a social life, a physique, and if you still got time to spare after - you download Tinder. Those of us who can go all in on self development reap the rewards of compound interest down the line - this is something you seem to understand as a young G, and I'm proud of you for it. But you do seem to lack moderation - and sinc…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 08:00 PM
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To hell with everybody saying OP did the wrong thing here. Brilliant move, kid. Your girl violated a boundary and you quite literally told her that she wasn't up to your standards. Said girl backtracks and is heartbroken because she isn't in your good graces anymore. Half this sub is gonna tell you to comfort her. Don't. Let her understand that she has to pull her weight on the relationship, and that you have certain expectations of a partner which are non negotiable. She did the bare minimum by…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:48 PM
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7 months? Regardless of whether you choose to go ahead with this or not, you need to get some plates on lock.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:43 PM
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"Bad joke"
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:41 PM
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Saw both the posts. OP, you are what I was until recently: a good guy. Everyone who's relatively new to the concept of spinning plates: stupid behaviour like this on her part is an excellent time to dump her if she's more trouble than she's worth. As for you, OP - the next time she brings up the 'detox', tell her: "I really think I have a habit and if I kick it, I'll have severe withdrawal symptoms. Those can get ugly, right?" And if you want to get PARTICULARLY ruthless, also tell her that you …
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:37 PM
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Lost opportunity. Should've said "Perfect! I want the same as you do. Old fashioned. I think it goes without saying then that all my sexual needs will be met as well, no questions asked?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 05:01 PM
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Man, I'll get downvoted for saying this again: Sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:26 PM
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This is an 18+ sub, please come back after you're through with puberty.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:23 PM
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Make it sexual. Briefly apologize in person and in an intimate setting(preferably cuddling), that could lead to more 'make-up sex'.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:21 PM
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Orbiter bait. Giving you just enough rope to hang yourself from. Saying 'no' AMD saying 'if something develops'. OP, how you reject her determines whether she gets tingles or remains awkward. Just say, 'Nah, I'm good. Have fun!' and forget about her. Don't unfollow from any social media platforms because that would imply you gave her serious thought(like making this post), but DO NOT let the rejection become a conversation.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:20 PM
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She likes you just the way you are, and secretly wants you to handle all your problems like a man and remain aloof to her emotional states. Don't. Open. Up.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:16 PM
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Tell her you're done and sever all contact. She. Will. Know.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:14 PM
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LTR who told me to cut contact with her. And you listened? Go red The Rational Male, it was written precisely for your kind.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:11 PM
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To slightly misquote Uncle Vasya(/u/VasiliyZaitzev) here: "Every rash on my skin came from saving a kitten from a house fire." That's your story if a girl ever asks you why your skin is coarse. She won't care if you won't.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:08 PM
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Flip it. Tell her that you said what you said because you didn't want to kick her when she was already feeling down post sex, and that you want what time you have left to be one of the happiest memories of her life. Give her comfort. Then tell her that she knows what to look for in a man in her uni now that she has been banged silly by you. Keep the door open for when you're both in town.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:05 PM
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Sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:57 PM
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Strip the covers off of a copy of 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' and hand it to him. By the time he's done with the first two pages he won't care what the book is about.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:54 PM
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Okay, head to the main sub and sort by flair 'Field Report', and read them all. Those live examples should make things abundantly clear. :)
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:51 PM
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Sort the main sub by the 'Field Report' flair.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:10 PM
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OP, think about this - if the premise you're operating on was true, then surely spending seven hours in the gym would make you the most confident man alive for that day? And it would even compensate for not lifting till a while after. No, you're not turning into a beta bitch because you didn't lift. It has more to do with one pillar of your life suddenly disappearing, and your mind wanting to make sense of how to function without it - NOT a lack of testosterone. It appears to me that you have li…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:44 PM
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I agree with everything you said until the last sentence - I wasn't a naturally witty person myself. I kept exposing myself to it until my brain wired itself to start thinking in those terms. Also, OP - you haven't described your interactions with women. How do those go?
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:38 PM
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The Book of Pook and No More Mr. Nice Guy are more or less what you need at the moment. I have friends who cried after they were done with them. You will have a far greater understanding of what it means to be a sexual man by the time you're halfway through those books.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:58 AM
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Watching improv will show you that it's possible. Watching enough of it will have you thinking 'what would I have said'? That question is the gateway drug to witticisms.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:56 AM
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Yes, and luckily for us - most of the competition doesn't lift.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:54 AM
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Boy, oh boy. I see now. Your problem isn't approach anxiety, that much is for sure. You don't have a problem talking to people because you're not completely retarded. You seem intelligent, in fact. Your problem is that women don't see you as a SEXUAL prospect - only someone who's an 'okay' dude/not a creep. Let's fix that, shall we? And what's more, you can actually fix it overnight. What you're not doing, is TEASING. That's how you make them qualify to you. That's all that seems to be lacking f…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 03:56 AM
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Become larger than life. Game the whole goddamn room. Nobody's contesting you if you have enough social proof or confidence. People do not follow people who have things figured out, but rather people who act like they have things figured out.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:26 PM
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Build on the reply if she says yes. 'If you're good I'll let you play with them for a little bit'. Be playful. It'll come with time. :)
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:24 PM
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Write down all the steps you need to take to get on top of your work and eliminate stress. Understand that you will likely have to make some hard decisions regarding work. Also write down the tentative amount of time each bullet point will require. Then execute ruthlessly, starting with the smallest tasks and building momentum. Do not give yourself any room to contemplate your life before this is done. Come out feeling like a beast. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:23 PM
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Sidebar. Had you read it, you'd know that a casual, impersonal observation works best. And no, I will not give you examples. Because the sidebar contains examples, and it's required reading for a reason.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:20 PM
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And I'm asking you to go make some mistakes.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:17 PM
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Obligatory read sidebar comment checking in. AskTRP is for help with your specific scenarios, not your procrastination. Go approach, break it down, and ask us how you'd like to fix xyz. We aren't PUA.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:15 PM
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Link the Imgur here.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:59 PM
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All of it comes down to what HER response was. Hard to see what the state of your relationship is before that - other than the obvious fact that her friends have likely talked her into things you don't know about before.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:58 PM
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The mate guarding is where it went downhill. Here's some advice from a field report I read on here - when she tells you about linking up with attractive men, just look her in the eyes and say: "Oh, that's how we're doing it now? Okay". Implied dread = dread.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:56 PM
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What you're feeling is 100% normal, even for people older than you. Humans are social animals, regardless of what the several alphas on here will tell you. And it is only natural to want acceptance from said animals as well. But I promise you this : high school is one of the dumbest places on Earth, and you'd be an idiot to not get your training wheels here. Keep asking girls out, keep training and keep making a fool of yourself if you want to do something with your life. This will set you up fo…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:50 PM
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Keep the door open by NOT initiating until she does. By that you're implying that you're okay with going with the flow of things and keeping it light. Girls have different men for different roles in their lives. Be the low-investment guy she can just have over without any small talk or commitment.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:45 PM
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Low T, you haven't been working out.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:43 PM
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Man, I feel you. It's absolutely soul crushing when you put in the work and are STILL blocked by a glass ceiling due to no fault of your own. I think that one thing that could DEFINITELY help your case is wit. If you don't have a sense of humor, watch stand-up until you cultivate one. Be the dude who makes them FEEL good, and suddenly you won't be as ugly anymore. Not saying that looks don't matter, don't get me wrong - just that women and men have different metrics of attraction.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:42 PM
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Perfect. She doesn't have you figured out. The moment she does, you won't be fun anymore.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:40 PM
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Game works when you have a base level of attraction built through demonstration of value. Let her warm up. Don't go spitting lines before she's comfortable in the knowledge that you aren't another creep.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:38 PM
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I have offered to set my women up with my friends whom they found attractive. None of them took me up on it. Make of this info what you will.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:37 PM
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Change the bio to 'My band will perform for you if you're hot in the sheets' or something to that effect, yours is too bland.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:36 PM
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The hell? You a G if this is true.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 01:39 PM
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Makes sense.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:58 AM
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I'm leaning towards disagreeing here, even though I understand where you're coming from. I used to be a retard in high school. Complete 180 now.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:44 AM
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Thank Brodin he sent me here.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:44 AM
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My 'goal' is to become my most self-sufficient, masculine self. That's who Chad is. TRP got me into the gym. TRP helped me get my business and finances straight. I'm no playboy, but TRP massively improved my interactions with women too. Chad is the slang I use for the dude who has this mastered, either naturally or otherwise. I've been told by the people around me that I've changed massively, even though I don't see much of it myself. Which is understandable. This makes me want to know what led …
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:42 AM
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Make sure you attach before and after photos of your cock for science.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:35 AM
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HAH, man that's beyond disrespect. Tell me the guy dumped her shortly after, please. Also, why do you think you elicited such a reaction from the chick?
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:25 AM
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Endorsed contributors, heard of 'em?
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:23 AM
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You mean why can't I ask people to share what happened when they became what I'm working on becoming? I don't see a reason not to, take your wise counsel elsewhere.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:22 AM
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Field report when?
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:21 AM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 08:51 AM
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Anybody who feels that way isn't putting in the work. Life gets BETTER as you age, but only if you do it right.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 07:37 AM
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Dude, that phase is part of the game, I swear. You gotta try the script to understand what parts of it work for you, and what don't. And when you do, you add bits and pieces of things to come up with your own unique take on 'game that fits you naturally. I don't do scripts anymore either, but it's always good to see guys doing and saying certain things that make me laugh and think 'damn, I gotta try that'. And then when I do try it, and it works, I add it to the repertoire so that it bubbles to …
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:59 PM
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Man, if you were really all that you say you are ... You would get the BOTH of you laid. That dude needs better friends, you're an insecure prick.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:03 PM
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One thing no one is talking about: the fat dude just happened to be at the right place at the right time, and she hopped on him. Next.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:52 PM
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To be honest, being a loner works, but only under certain circumstances. I'm a loner, but I'm usually more successful than all the guys my girls have been with before me COMBINED. So when I tell them that I like to keep to myself because I hate normie energy, it is always received in a positive light. That, and she knows that I got HER attention, so socializing will obviously not be an issue for me. Being alone is attractive to women ONLY if you're a hard man to get a hold of. If you're constant…
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:49 PM
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You haven't pulled the plug because you're dreading the fallout, and her inevitable breakdown when she realises that she can't take your attention for granted anymore. I'm assuming your sex life is on the rocks too. Tell her things aren't working out, and you want her gone. No explanations. No clarifications. Give her ZERO rope, or it will be used against you. Then go make some money.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:46 PM
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The rest of your life doesn't seem to be where you want it to be. If it was, you wouldn't give a damn about your emotions for these girls other than the mutual arrangement you have in place. Work towards your purpose, OP.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 06:00 PM
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I'll say this: entrepreneurs often think that they'll hire a team when they're successful. Truth is, you become successful when you hire a team.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 11:52 AM
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Nonsense. Your statement is incomplete - uni is when you have the most sex WITHOUT RESPONSIBILITIES. Keep your game up and the number of women who throw themselves at you will only continue to rise. Several men here on TRP itself confirm that they slept with more women at the ages of 28-29 than they did in all their previous years combined. The game does get easy as you get older. Read Michael's story on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:16 PM
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You're thinking that your best days are behind you. Nothing could be further from the truth. If only you knew the ridiculous NUMBER of >25 year olds who throw themselves at 30 year old men ... You're a work in progress. Best thing you can do right now is to draw up a list of all the areas in your life where you need improvement, and plan a system to check all those boxes every single day for a year. Because by the time you're 23 you'll wish you had started getting your life in check when you wer…
/r/askTRP02/03/21 05:24 PM
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Glad you're adopting that mindset. It's not just women, dude - A&A is STUPID fun with guy friends too. Especially when they're being unreasonable babies.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:45 PM
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You say that when women ask 'what are you looking FOR', not when they accuse you of only looking for sex, dum dum. :)
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:17 PM
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The number of times that this exact comment needs to be reiterated on this sub is mind-boggling. TRP 101.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:15 PM
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How'd you find out?
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:06 PM
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She's not looking for an LTR, or a one night stand. She's looking for attractive men who give her FEELZ. Stop thinking about what she's looking for, and focus on what you want to give her instead. Yes, without further context, I think it's safe to say that that really is the part where you F'd up. Don't take women for their word. Watch what they DO.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:04 PM
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First off - you're NEVER gonna meet a player who hasn't missed advances made on him by women. EVER. Everybody has those stories. Nothing to be angry about - because that's how you learn to keep your wits about you the next time a girl drops you hints. Second, I feel you. Approaching women on your own cold can be daunting, especially when you're liable to come across as a creep. But do it anyways. Exposure therapy is the way to go. Trial by fire. You'll be smooth way before you know it, NO MATTER…
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:03 PM
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Nah, this was playful banter on her part that you failed to reciprocate. And that's perfectly okay. It's why you're here. Most people on this sub have at some point been befuddled by the things that women say and do in courtship, and hindsight is always 20/20. Next time, just play along - "No, I'm divorced with a subscription to the abortion clinic. Nothing to worry about."
/r/askTRP02/03/21 01:52 PM
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Next time any girl says that, your only go to response is: "I'm assuming that means you want me to do something with my mouth other than talking?"
/r/askTRP02/03/21 09:03 AM
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women humiliate/abuse me all the time The hell?! Kiddo, first order of business is for you to get your ass in the gym and start picking up heavy things five times a week. Girls see you as what we call 'a beta provider', which means that you don't need to tell me that every now and then you see them getting SUPER NICE to you and you get your hopes up, when they only really needed something from you, and soon as you give them that, she's ghost. You've spent entire nights texting them when you thin…
/r/askTRP02/03/21 09:00 AM
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Dude, text game 101. She says 'you just wanna fuck', you say something along the lines of 'nah, I'd very much like it if you could cook for me after as well.' Agree and amplify. Read the damn sidebar. I'll be honest, if there really were fifteen messages back and forth before this, she was likely down to bang.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 08:41 AM
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Take into account that there might be a slight possibility that she's gunning for exclusivity by trying to covertly communicate that she has other options.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 04:38 AM
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Remember this - you've wired yourself to put on a 'performance' every time you see a girl, and then you pick it apart by the second after she leaves. This IS pedestalising her. You think that if you aren't at your most extroverted self, girls won't find you interesting enough to reach out to you a second time. I assure you, that is not the case - because girls can likely smell the inauthenticity of the facade you're putting up right now. When you're okay with them leaving is when they want to st…
/r/askTRP02/03/21 01:10 AM
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+1, brother. Newbies need to start off by CUTTING the fluff from their lives before internalizing the sidebar. Goes a long way.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/21 08:39 PM
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https://youtu.be/7T18upWzseo
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:36 PM
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Very well, we'll operate under the assumption that your lifting and diet are, indeed, optimal. You need exposure therapy, friend. I bet that every time a woman comes around your brain recognises it as an 'event' - as in, 'hey, this doesn't happen often, I need to go test myself and make the most of it'. What you need here is to rewire that train of thought to 'okay'.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:36 PM
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Thank you. I have no idea what it's supposed to mean, though.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:18 PM
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You don't have abundance because you don't lift. Don't even have to ask, 9 out of 10 odds are you don't lift consistently. If you did, you'd have WOMEN physically escalating on you and acting 'different'.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 07:10 PM
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Nice is PART of the equation. Several other traits make a man as well: Are you an expert in your field of choice? Are you ripped? Do you take quick, astute decisions under pressure? Do you have interesting stories to tell her on a date? Do you make bank and have social proof? Do you dress well? Do you talk clearly and make eye contact? Do you make her laugh and let loose? Are you a 'fun' guy, or will you bore her to death? With every box you tick, the probability of her viewing you as a sexual p…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 07:07 PM
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Text her a link to the sidebar so that she can tell you about it on the date.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:53 PM
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How's life treating you now?
/r/askTRP24/02/21 09:56 AM
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This sounds reassuring, thanks.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:14 AM
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Well, it's a numbers game, I guess.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 07:00 PM
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Buddy, I can't bring myself to do it with a landwhale. What do I do?
/r/askTRP22/09/20 06:59 PM
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Exactly my thoughts, hope I'm right.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 06:58 PM
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Maybe I AM scared of sex, after all. I do not know if there is a name for this medical condition, but the head of my penis does not leave the foreskin, as it is too tight. Which also means that I have trouble putting a condom on. Other than that, not really scared of sex/being sexual in general. But do resolve my query - do I have sex with any unattractive woman, just to have done it - or do I wait until I can attract halfway decent ladies whom I can actually get aroused by?
/r/askTRP22/09/20 06:58 PM
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I'm owning whatever I am. It's not like I shout it from the rooftops - one girl just confessed to me that I seemed hella experienced, and she hasn't done it with her boyfriend yet. I said I hadn't done it either, and it was no biggie. Then they're all surprised how a dude like me isn't doing it on the regular. That, and I can't even put on a condom, man. My foreskin is too tight for my head to leave it, dunno why - always has been - and in the event that I am less than satisfactory in the bedroo…
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:24 PM
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This belongs in AskTRP. Please read the guidelines before posting.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 01:28 PM
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You read the sidebar and spin plates.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 11:03 AM
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Oneitis. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Be happy for your friend and move on.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 09:30 AM
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"Parroting" is the term you're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 07:02 PM
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Red flag. End the LTR - it's clearly not satisfying your primal needs as a man - which, in this context, is sexual gratification. Of course, it could be any number of things, but the simple fact that you're inhibiting your masculine nature over this arrangement is reason enough to end it. Regardless of whatever you do, introduce other women in the bedroom. You're missing out.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:14 AM
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Do everything you can to get your hands on those texts - take screenshots from her phone and forward them to you, or sync backups, if that's possible somehow. You're practically entitled to take her phone away from her as evidence at this point. I don't know if you kept the condom, but if you did - good job. Cut all ties with your sister, mom and all the women who sympathize with the girl. I suggest you get a lawyer and sue both the girl and your sister, if not your mom. Do NOT think with your e…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 08:46 PM
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