Got dumped three years ago, decided I'd only do it with someone I loved - hadn't had sex in that relationship either.

Problem is, I refuse to settle. I've kicked women out of the house after getting a blowjob cause they weren't hot enough, or we didn't connect enough. That being said, I am by no means picking up 9s and 10s on a regular basis.

Women are frequently shocked to find out that I'm a virgin.

Should I just grit my teeth and do it with the first landwhale who comes my way? Or do I keep lifting and working on my life till I can attract the girls I really want?

I'm 22, and I understand if this is a common sentiment on here - but it's not like I can talk to just about anyone regarding this, so any mentorship is appreciated.

Update: headed to a urologist to get checked for phimosis in 30 minutes, wish me luck.

This thread is HIGHLY educational, please keep the comments coming. Thank you for your continued support, TRP. Men like me would be lost without you.

Update 2: I have been diagnosed with phimosis. Never saw this coming. Doc gave me an ointment to loosen the foreskin up, and apparently I've also got a short frenulum, which will require surgery - be damned if I believe that. I've done my homework, and word is that they prescribe circumcision to almost everyone because it pays well. Will keep you lot posted if there's any further updates.

Only wish someone had educated me about this when I was 18.