TheSquanchfather Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why does every ignore the millions of posts on social media hating on short men? Why is that one captioned over 6’3 Shannon Sharpe? Lol	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 11:22 PM
2	Need to vent & desire some advice If youre both on SSI/disability, why are you paying all the bills?	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/23 08:47 AM
2	I highly recommend going on a date very early after divorce. Great insight, great idea. Also, dog fart taco 😂	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/23 07:33 PM
5	Every "single mom" in OLD Funny how that works… same with cheaters. It’s like they all pull directly from the same playbook	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/23 04:21 AM
3	Wife changing her mind Lol that’s what I’m saying	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/23 08:45 AM
2	US National Survey: more men than women victims of intimate partner violence This simply isn’t true… and even if it is, we need to be asking what did the man do to deserve it? /s	/r/MensRights	29/11/22 03:35 AM
4	Italy Blocks Male Migrants From Leaving Rescue Ships Incel is another one of those words/phrases that has lost ALL meaning the way it’s vomited out by everyone for everything	/r/MensRights	08/11/22 12:59 PM
49	Men killed - Women most affected 🤡 Wow, this is spot on. I’ve never thought about it that way before. Sad	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 03:40 AM
20	A lot of women have bizarre and delusional ideas about how men are treated in society. Which one is you favorite? I thought you were going to say the love/admiration/respect of his daughter… you’re right though. Internet strangers trump all else	/r/MensRights	03/10/22 08:58 AM
32	This is why no men talk about being raped. Exactly… not only that, but then she went straight to proving the point. Lmao you can predict how the convo will go down to the letter. Shits comical “You don’t like when they grind on you? You gay bro? Are you even a ‘real man?’”	/r/MensRights	24/08/22 04:28 PM
19	This guy is just crazy, I'm telling you. He believes that men who were abused don't matter This guy honestly just sounds like a troll lol	/r/MensRights	30/07/22 07:19 PM
3	Officially divorced today. Most of the time I think it’s meant to be read as “Here’s what I did. You should try it too because it was so helpful.” Much of the time they’re right	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 02:43 AM
5	Separation question Don’t let your emotion/love for your newborn cloud the big picture. That woman moved on ASAP and started getting with other people practically before the ink dried on the agreement (quite possibly before). Maybe she decides she wants to come back… does it even matter at this point? She’s moved on physically and mentally from you. Best case, you’re the fallback option. Sorry man. Good luck as you figure shit out.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/22 09:32 PM
11	Seriously, it’s true. Congrats man 😂 Glad you’re doing well	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/22 03:10 AM
4	Harassment by YellowFever46 Someone else said it below as well. Definitely looks like a bitter ex wife/“baby mama” type vendetta to me. I agree	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/22 03:07 AM
8	Harassment by YellowFever46 As I come across more and more of the comments, it really does seem like “bitter baby mama” type shit. It’s pretty strange lol	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/22 02:59 AM
3	Harassment by YellowFever46 Blocking on Reddit is virtually useless. They can see everything you post/comment. They can also comment on your stuff, but they come up as “blocked user” or something similar. If you tap on that “blocked user” name you can still what they said. Unfortunately, not much point in blocking	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/22 02:57 AM
11	People defending the “small d*ck energy” insult, what do you guys think? “If it’s loose just say that” 😂	/r/MensRights	13/07/22 12:05 AM
0	Restraining order dismissed You sling insult after insult. He says he doesn’t care what you think and to go pound sand… and HE is the “thin skinned, uneducated, angry know it all?” Best case, that exchange made you look like an antagonistic asshole. That was comical to read	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/22 09:18 PM
2	Alimony laws has no basis in societal/legal/civil principles. It amounts to naked robbery from one group to another. I always get stuck. I know alimony (and too often child support, as well) is immoral bullshit, but I’m so sick of men getting absolutely wrecked by women who intentionally destroy their marriages… ESPECIALLY with affairs, like OP referenced. Glad to hear you had a clean break with out losing it all 👍🏼	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/22 02:52 PM
5	Reputation. And people's automatic assumptions Same boat. Confronted with evidence and she still lied. After I kept digging and learning more, she still lied often but it then became my fault. Women all too often will happily do one of the two ONLY things you can’t take back or fix (imo cheat, lie about paternity) then play the victim. There’s no excuse.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/22 06:37 PM
1	Lessons Learned What are you talking about? I didn’t say that. Lots of things ruin a marriage. That’s not relevant; Please stay on track. The argument you just made (and continue to make in these threads) is a textbook example of the psychological definition of gaslighting. You have an awful, inaccurate take. Edit: it’s straight up abusive in a romantic relationship, as you referenced	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/22 11:13 PM
1	Lessons Learned This argument is directly from the playbook all cheaters seem to use, and is a textbook example of gaslighting.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/22 11:06 PM
-4	🤣🤣🤣 I’ve seen this tweet many times… I don’t think I buy her story. How many dudes even really care about the salary of a girl they’re casually dating? Rich dudes care even less	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/04/22 09:49 PM
25	Is it time to propose to my GF (2nd marriage for both) I think it’s a terrible idea for you to get married. You’ll have little to no parental authority over a kid you may love but are quite annoyed by. Plus, you guys are both on your second marriage. Statistically, you WILL have a second divorce if you go through with this. Stay with her until the end days, if that’s what you want - no reason to make it a legally binding contract. You’re inviting the government to fuck one of you over (probably you). I’m glad you made it out of the fire unscathed in…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/22 07:46 PM
9	Mom is assumed to have custody, even before the divorce Wrong post lol But yes, that’s literally all it would take. That’s fucking awful smh	/r/MensRights	09/04/22 12:44 AM
35	Mom is assumed to have custody, even before the divorce “They don’t have the resources?” What the fuck?	/r/MensRights	09/04/22 12:35 AM
11	so tired of abuse being presented as something women experience from men. Yes, you “hear” about it. We ALLLLL do. But then when you actually start looking into the stats and numbers… women are abusive. Virtually just as abusive as men, generally. Infidelity is in the same situation. We all just KNOW men cheat more… except they don’t. Again, the stats are nearly identical. People suck and treat each other like shit. But we live in a “gynocentric social order,” to borrow a phrase, and nobody gives a shit about anything relating to conventionally male struggles.	/r/MensRights	08/04/22 09:17 PM
3	I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions) 7 year itch sounds like a cliche or something, yet the more I paid attention, the more often it would fit other peoples’ situations…. Then I got smacked in the face with it - her affair started about 6 years, 9 months. I caught on just after 7 years. We were in our late 20s. And the rest of your analysis fits my situation, as well. It’s all my fault she cheated. I should have done this/that. How could I not notice she was acting differently? Typical gaslighting bullshit. Virtually all cheaters w…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/22 06:01 PM
2	Divorced men of Reddit. How did you cut the apron strings after every got set into motion? This, of course, falls into the “Easier said than done,” category. You’re exactly right though. It can be one of the most difficult things because we want to be providers, but it’s 100% right. As you say, there is no (good) alternative aside from worrying about yourself/the kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/22 04:26 PM
1	Dissimulation: Your Best Weapon in a Divorce. Makes sense, thank you	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/22 10:43 PM
2	Dissimulation: Your Best Weapon in a Divorce. What about custody? If I absolutely will not take any less time than 50%, how do I act like I don’t give a fuck? It’s literally the only thing I care about: 50+ percent. Edit - I get the point you’re making, but I think it’s a bad look acting like I don’t give a shit about custody, no? Especially because I care deeply.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/22 06:46 PM
92	The hate campaign has already begun Exactly. This is some clown shit on level that doesn’t even seem real… except we all know it is smh	/r/MensRights	03/04/22 04:18 PM
2	Does anybody else feel bad for Will Smith? Chris Delia has a bit to the effect of: “You know what’s fucking weird? Taking comedians so deadly serious. You know why? Cuz we’re just JOKIN’….. Fits here too. I do feel a little bad because of the humiliation he’s faced because he picked a shitty woman, but he brought much of this on himself too. Definitely a tough spot	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/22 11:02 PM
12	We need to stop misogynistic men too if we actually want men's issues to be solved. I was very clear that both of my comments were talking about the political agenda that Feminism pushes. Try arguing a coherent point and not semantics	/r/MensRights	02/01/22 01:25 AM
10	We need to stop misogynistic men too if we actually want men's issues to be solved. Tbh, I don’t really care what… the dictionary… has to say on a political matter… are you feeling ok?	/r/MensRights	02/01/22 01:20 AM
16	We need to stop misogynistic men too if we actually want men's issues to be solved. That is not feminism. What you’re referring to is Egalitarianism. Feminism is for female empowerment, specifically. I’d bet the majority of people, including in this sub, believe we’re all equal (not the same, but of equal value to the world). I’d argue one large problem with our society today is that were trying to make something CLEARLY not neutral (FEMinism) is the default neutral. I digress; my point is, at no point has Feminism been what you say it is.	/r/MensRights	02/01/22 01:13 AM
6	Woman kills young daughters, claims depression, gets sympathy from both defence AND prosecution. I don’t care WHY they did it. The fact is it was done, and done intentionally. Empathy, and even sympathy, can have their place in certain cases. This isn’t one of those cases.	/r/MensRights	13/12/21 06:14 PM
52	Woman kills young daughters, claims depression, gets sympathy from both defence AND prosecution. Don’t do that. This comment smells like shitty, thinly veiled attempts at justification. She deserves the death penalty, as would you, I, and any other man or woman who committed this vile act. Fucking disgusting	/r/MensRights	13/12/21 08:08 AM
5	97% of All Women… Outside of the garbage definitions of SA in this study, it has absolutely no chance to pass the smell test. 97 percent?! Virtually every single woman has been sexually harassed or raped? Stop it (anyone claiming this has validity).	/r/MensRights	25/08/21 01:59 AM
3	I’m Moving On Gentleman Great analogy	/r/Divorce_Men	21/08/21 09:04 PM
3	She conveniently forgot to tell me that she accused her ex of being a terrorist. Oupsy Of course, it shows the depths she’ll go to. Not only that, but “my lawyer said I should” is a fucking awful attempt to shirk accountability. She did it because she thought it could get her something she wanted - in this case, a leg up in divorce/custody proceedings.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/21 12:22 AM
2	How would you have handled this? Yeah, I know the feeling. It sucks, but I found that virtually nothing good comes of it when you take the bait. Best case, it gives her the attention/drama/whatever else that she WANTS. Worst case, it just fucks with you and she STILL gets what she was looking for. It’s all easier said than done though, you’re right	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/21 11:22 PM
2	How would you have handled this? Stop after “Nice try” or “I will consider it.” That devolved REAL QUICK and it partly your fault for allowing yourself to be baited. You knew how this would play out; we all did lol… she didn’t get her way and couldn’t handle it. Here’s how I think about it: “you can very reliably predict what’s going to happen. Why would you be angry? Upset? Anything like that? You fucking knew!!” That calms me down pretty fast, if not immediately. After a while it became second nature, and now I e noticed myse…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/21 11:13 PM
7	Remember: YOU'RE the prize. Why would you even come to this sub? Lol 🤦🏻‍♂️ I’m genuinely curious. Just to be anonymously and intentionally combative/toxic/bitchy (take your pick) to strangers or…. Something else?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/21 07:37 PM
9	'America's daughters shouldn't be drafted against their will': Conservatives blast proposal that would require women to register for the military draft alongside men Madonna-Whore Complex/Dichotomy is when one regards women as either saints or whores, loving the saint and desiring the whore. An individual woman is only one or the other, never both or any mix of the two. Pretty black and white.	/r/MensRights	25/07/21 06:48 PM
219	When keeping it real goes wrong Wow… shame because this was a good convo until that shit. Not even “keeping it real,” just being a weirdo bitch… Dude handled it nicely tho	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/07/21 10:09 PM
2	If male disposibility is real, why did India and China kill hundreds of millions female fetuses? You can’t compare the modern west society with modern east. That’s about as extreme an apple vs oranges comparison as you can have.	/r/MensRights	16/07/21 02:50 PM
6	Paying Child Support After Getting Joint Custody \| A policy needs to be put into place to change this. Not that it isn’t bullshit, but take the victories you can man, at least for now. If you want to keep fighting in court, fight. Fuck em up. In the meantime you have an extra $1100 in your pocket every month	/r/MensRights	16/07/21 06:00 AM