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| 16 | Tips on flirting with a cashier | Conversation | The_Core_Shadow | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 09:50 PM |
| 10 | Picking up single moms | Conversation | The_Core_Shadow | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Openers for a music festival | Conversation | The_Core_Shadow | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 12:29 PM |
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| 1 | Picking up single momswhat a great piece of advice. Thanks bro. seriously though, I was just hoping that here in this subreddit, at least somebody would have some experince with exactly this kind of situation and would be willing to share what works for them or some tips and tricks they found in the process. Saying "just talk to them" is pretty much like saying "just be yourself, bro". I know I am suppised to talk to them. I was just hoping to learn something more suitable for this situation. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Sexuality and datingNo, you are not supposed to get hard when you see a pretty girl. Or let me put it differently - the fact that you dont get hard by looking at sexy girls does not mean you are gay. I rarely even get hard when I see a naked woman. What gets me hard is the kissing, touching etc. You still might be bi.. just go out there and experiment with various people. That being said, stop watching porn. It is still fucking up your brain | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 07:26 AM |
| 39 | Is being so seductive for a girl is considered a red flag?fuck her right in the pussy | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Clark Kentso youre getting laid and women like it. What exactly is the problem here? | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 08:04 AM |
| 101 | How to prevent STDs & Stay Safe?always use a condom and dont go down on women you do not trust to be healthy. Also dont date skanks. There is not much to it, really. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Escalationbased answer | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 07:09 PM |
| 5 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindIm not an expert but Im pretty sure raping women wont increase your success rate at all. They usually dont appreciate it much. Also, why would you even do it? The best thing about sex is the mutual affection. If your goal is just to put a penis into a vagina just get a hooker. Rape will ruin your life and also the girl's life and the only thing you get out of it is 5 seconds of orgasm. Not worth it, bro. Not worth it. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 08:35 AM |
| 2 | How good is your game?you are right about the dating apps ... but pls dont tell me cold approaches are important because they make you a stronger men :D nobody is doing them to become a stronger man. People are doing it to get laid. I am already getting laid and have no problem talking to girls. Cold approaches are OK but they are not an "important thing". As a matter of fact they are quite cringey and people who can get enough girls through other ways dont really do cold aproaches. Its not like you must learn every … | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 05:08 AM |
| 0 | How good is your game?hard to rate my game objectivelly but I would say it must be very good because I have never been rejected. Also the fact that I have above average looks helps A LOT. Every time I go out with a new girl we end up having sex on the first date and if not on the first one then it always happens on the second date at least. The exception are 2 dates that did not end up with sex but we agreed to meet again and never did due to my lack of free time. That being said, I should also mention that maybe its… | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gamewell, I wasnt there.. you were. So if you say her body language showed she did not mind talking to you then good for you and maybe it just sounded bad from how you wrote it but wasnt that bad in reality. Anyways, at least you got the balls to talk to her. Kudos for that, bro. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 06:20 PM |
| 12 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gamethe moment she said she wanted to "keep it here only" you should have realized she is politelly telling you she does not want to have anything to do with you and hopes to never see you again. But OK, maybe not everybody can read that... but when she said she was not single and you still did not take the hint..I dont know man.. are you maybe autistic? that pinky promise thing made me cringe in this context | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 08:08 AM |
| 103 | Why do women think it’s weird to sleep with their friends?Stop thinking about women as some uniform group who have the same beliefs and opinions. Every time I see a post that starts with "Why do women.... " I feel like replying "they dont". The more women you get to know the more you will realize they are all different. Just like every other human. They have different needs, desires, opinions,... | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 01:46 PM |
| 3 | How to make seductive eye contact?1, lock eye contact 2, smile slightly (no teeth) 3, lick your lips slowly while maintaining eye contact 4, smile again or wink works every time | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 04:41 PM |
| 26 | Narcissistic girls on InstagramI feel the same, bro. Posting pictures of yourself on social media is cringe as fuck. Im glad to see Im not thenonly one feeling that way. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Best advice to dating older mature womenI am 33. I just hooked up with a woman thats 11 years older than me last night. We ended up at my place where she gave me an unexpectedly awesome blowjob because we could not fuck (she got her period that day) and she wanted to make it up to me (her words). Best advice: They are women just like the younger girls. Regardless of the age treat them as a normal human being. And dont mention their age. By that I mean dont even compliment them on it. Things like "dam you look so good for your age". Wo… | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 11:13 AM |
| 2 | First Time Having Sex with New Partner…. Advice?a girl with smelly feet I guess | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 07:13 PM |
| 2 | First Time Having Sex with New Partner…. Advice?1, as people here already said - it does not matter 2, hygiene is MUCH nore important than what you wear 3, thong looks ridiculous on chubby girls (but thats just my opinion). If you have nice ass, thong will make it even more sexy. If youre chubby, thong makes the ass look even bigger. and and kinda funny. | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Tips on flirting with a cashierthe best comment so far. Thx, my nigga. | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Tips on flirting with a cashierSo? Whats wrong with being at work? | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 10:43 PM |
| 1 | This exercise makes you irresistible to womenyou too started acting like a baby to impress women? | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 06:58 AM |
| 4 | This exercise makes you irresistible to womenSuch a long wall of text and yet no useful advice in it whatsoever. This is just a pile of bullshit, OP. | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Is she just a promiscuous slut?lol.. theres so many things wrong with this comment. Please, be a troll :D | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Good ways to start kino at home?Sit next to her on a sofa. Take her hand by the wrist. Place it on the inner side of your thigh. Let go of the hand. Look her in the eye. Wink. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Instagram is the new DATING APPwell said, brother | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with male cockblocks?As a guy, thats been on the other side of the story many times I can tell you its super annoying when youre hanging out with your friends, having fun, and a stranger starts to "infiltrate" your group and hit on your girls. Especially when you see him doing it in forced cringey way. I guess it has something to do with our primitive protective instincts but it always pisses me off and I know other men feel the same. As for your question, if men are hostile towards you it just means they see throug… | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Anyone try using makeup?sure.. go for it. And when she asks you if youre gay, rememer what the PUA community would say - its a shit test. | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Shit tests do not exist. They are just situations where you feel insecure / inadequate and you project those feelings onto the women who are 'testing' you. Stop deluding yourself and be better. Shit tests don't exist when you're worth something.yes, shit tests are not really a thing. Its just normal human interaction not even limited to women. I think the problem is the PUA mindset that many men adopt. They treat dating like some kind of scheme. Like they have to play certain mind games on the girl, follow some secret plan and if they pull it off, they will get laid. And then they automatically assume the girl must be having similar approach and is probably trying some "girly mind games" aka "shit tests" on the them too. | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Shit tests do not exist. They are just situations where you feel insecure / inadequate and you project those feelings onto the women who are 'testing' you. Stop deluding yourself and be better. Shit tests don't exist when you're worth something.this! A thousand times this! I never had any women try those legendary "shit tests" on me. And Ive been with dozens. Most women do not even think that way. Like "oh, I gotta make sure he is really worth it, I better try some evil tests on him to see if he passes". 99% of times, if she asks you something you dont like, or says something that makes you feel insecure or whatever, its just her being human. Women are human. They can be assholes, awkward, weird, offensive. Often they dont even mean it… | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 01:17 AM |
| 36 | Direct approach: “can I sit down here?”1, be attractive 2, dont be unattactive | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 12:59 AM |
| 42 | Instagram is the new DATING APPnah, man... my instagram has zero photos of me and I have literally 3 followers. I pretty much dont use the app at all and never had problem seducing girls. what you're saying sounds like creating a fake online personality just to pick up girls. It will work for sure but it feels kinda "try hard" and "fake". I dont know.. it's kinda like borrowing a fancy car so that you can pretend to be rich in front of girls. Like youre putting too much effort in hiding who you really are just to decieve the … | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 09:41 PM |
| -1 | What to text a girl ?dont say anything just send her a dick pick | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Are you aware that the "looking for" feature on Tinder has different meanings in different languages?nah, youre overthinking it. They may have different translations but they essentially mean the same thing in any language: im here to find a relationship im here for sex only im here for sex but dont wanna say it openly im not sure why Im here the wording is not really that important | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Small talkI guess it depends on where you feel your weakpoints are. I am quite good with building intimacy and rapport but sometimes struggle with keeping the conversation going in the early stages. Getting better at small talk helped me with that. | /r/seduction | 28/03/24 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Small talkyou dont build intimacy with small talk. Nevertheless its still a powerful skill because it helps you socialze better and gives you opportunities. Generally, it makes you more comfortable with talking to strangers. | /r/seduction | 28/03/24 08:04 AM |
| 5 | Promised to buy girl a dress, advice on how to keep her on budget?bro, why the hell would you offer to pay for her clothes after 1 (one) date? And the fact that she agreed to that and even seemed to like the idea of a guy she just started dating buying her things is a red flag in my opinion but thats just my two cents. Now youre fucked because: - you just made buying her things a normal part of your relationship. She is only gonna expect more the closer you guys get from now on. - you need to find the right amount of money to spend on the dress so that she doe… | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 11:45 AM |
| 112 | My girlfriends mom is hotyes.. do it! Make the move, man. I wish I could be there when the mom rejects you and then tells her daughter about it, she breaks up with you and then the rumor spreads that you are a weirdo who hits on his gf's mom. | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 11:10 PM |
| 9 | At what body type/shape did you get the most girls/success?Otter mode. When I was about 28ish. I was 182cm and around 77kg | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Body countjust be yourself, bruh | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Body fat % level where you started gaining attraction/confidence?nice | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Body fat % level where you started gaining attraction/confidence?7% ? sounds hard to believe. How did you meassure it? I mean 7% bodyfat is impressive and usually takes lots of dedication, training and dieting one would expect from profi athletes. Or maybe youre just malnourished? | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 09:34 AM |
| 56 | What do you do the next day after a one night stand?the next day after a ONS I usually change the bed sheet and clean the whole place to make sure my wife does not find out when she comes back. I dont text the girl as usually I do not want to see her any time soon. They are called ONE night stands for a reason. If you fuck her again, its not a one night stand anymore. | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 05:03 AM |
| 3 | How should I (24F) initiate sex after a date?Start unbuttoning his pants while kissing him. He will understand. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 12:17 PM |
| 2 | What do older women think about when there attracted?sounds like a recipe for a bad and short marriage that only started because the woman desperatelly wanted somebody to have a baby with ASAP given her age. just out of curiosity - how long had you been dating before marrying her and having the baby? | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Did you get any Complements on your Body odour, if so What deodorant did you use?what does a man smell like? | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Online Game after a looong timeah, the rural struggle. yes, you might consider buying premium. The dating apps are designed in such way that without premium your profile wont get that many views. Dont expect miracles though. I mean you dont need it to get laid but it helps quite a bit and you will notice the difference. Premium does not guarantee you will go on dates but it helps to increase your chances of a good match. Also living in a big city helps a lot. In rural areas you will quickly run out of girls to swipe or it wil… | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What are some tips that you wish you knew earlier when it comes to dating/seduction?because if they cannot pull women in their 20s then saying "thay can pull any woman " is just a lie. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 07:48 AM |
| 1 | What are some tips that you wish you knew earlier when it comes to dating/seduction?not really | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 07:46 AM |
| 1 | What are some tips that you wish you knew earlier when it comes to dating/seduction?the key word here is "regularily". Im not getting approached regularily. No man does. I get approached rarely (as you said). But even getting approached rarely still makes dating a completelly different experience compared to not getting approached at all, let alone having to deal with tons of rejections before scoring a hit. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good text to ask out my crush?Drop the second sentence. You dont need to tell her you might surprise her. It kinda makes you look like you will try to impress her and are expecting it to be a surprise if it actually works. Just invite her out and thats it. She understands what that means. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:20 AM |
| 44 | What are some tips that you wish you knew earlier when it comes to dating/seduction?as a guy thats been blessed with good looks I can tell you the difference is HUGE and everybody that says look dont matter has never experienced what dating is like for handsome men. Sure, if your game is good, you dont need to look good. But being handsome is like living life on easy mode. Looks are the difference between approaching girls and getting approached. I've literally had dates where the girl was the one escalating and proposing kissing. And I have even crazier stories that Im not gon… | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 03:49 PM |
| 18 | What are some tips that you wish you knew earlier when it comes to dating/seduction?sure.. thats why I said "looks are not everything" and "your social skills are just as important" | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 03:40 PM |
| 218 | What are some tips that you wish you knew earlier when it comes to dating/seduction?1, looks matter A LOT 2, looks are not everything 3, your social skill maters as much as your looks 4, dating is a matter of statistics (the more girls you interact with, the bigger the chances of finding the right match) 5, 90% of dating apps users are men trying to get laid 6, a womans value is not determined by her looks (the best dates and fucks I had were with average looking girls) EDIT: Oh and I forgot the important thing that rarely gets mentioned: 7, Be original. Come up with your own l… | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Can't progress after kissingwhy does it even take you 2-3 dates to kiss her? I always escalate to kissing on the first date and about half of the first dates even ends with sex right away. Waiting for 3 dates just to kiss is a waste of time. Especially if you are not interested in the relationship itself and only want to have sex. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Fun Wingman Nightinteresting... I would never mention that I am a wingman or that we are there to practice picking up girls. It just seems so cringe to say that. I feel like it kinda makes you look less like a naturally interesting person and it gives the whole interaction a sort of fake "rehearsed" vibe. But in your case it looks like you were still quite successful. However, judging from the report, I would say you happen to be blessed with very good looks and so your game does not matter that much because gir… | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 11:09 AM |
| 64 | How do people manage to have sex with someone they don't know well?funny, you dont understand how people can have casual sex easily, I dont understand, how people can resist not having casual sex :D seriously though - its really easy. Just meet someone you are having a good time with, add a little acohol and then just follow your horny urges. For me, having a good time with the opposite sex (going out, talking, joking, drinking, getting to know each other...) is enough to spark attraction. And once the attraction is there, its just a matter of logistics - do yo… | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 10:05 AM |
| 4 | Something I've realized from my short experience with women.Nah. Women, and all humans for that matter, are much more complex than that. Our behaviours are influenced by millions of factors. What you describe is a stereotypical extrapolation. The world is not that simple. Life is not that simple. | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 10:40 AM |
| 39 | Flirting is the hardest skill known to man, or at least known to me..Maybe its just me but the whole.conversation sounds a little cringey to me. I think you made her feel uncomfortable and the whole thing has this "try-hard" vibe. Like youre trying to be everything at the same time. Youre trying to be polite but also weirdly confident (you literally met her seconds ago and are already telling her you might invite her to your country? .. that sounds super fake and presumptious) ... also you insisting on her guessing your country even though she obviously didnt car… | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 06:56 PM |
| 9 | "Describe yourself in 3 words" - I've been asked that - is this a shit test or what?its a test.. the only correct answer is replying with three emojis: 🍆💦😉 | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Need Advicethe joke | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 03:00 PM |
| 6 | Field Report - A Miserable Failure (all is not lost?)So basically your story is - I went out to pick up girls, I dressed well and then did nothing while random girls happened to dance in my proximity. | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 10:05 AM |
| 9 | Solo hiking pickupnot sure if this is trolling or not serious question though - do you intend to ask a random girl on the hike to let you drink from her water? Did I get it right? | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | My dick game is top notch but my verbal game is lacking. Any recommendations?lol... 90% of men think they are great at sex. Its like the #1 delusion that men live in. You sound like one of them Especially because you believe a girl came 12 times during a sex with you? Srsly? And also you think being able to fuck for an hour or more is good? Ok, let me give you some insights. The averange duration of sexual intercourse is usually no more than 10minutes. According to a survey, most women prefer sex that lasts about 15-30 minutes. (sure, sometimes you fuck "all night long" … | /r/seduction | 23/02/24 10:36 AM |
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