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OK. Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 09:48 AM
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Just curious - how many approaches did you do (per week)? Also, how many hours did you invest into game? I'm asking this because I have other things in my life and I can mostly do daygame and nightgame is a problem for me because I ought to wake up early most of the time.
/r/seduction01/07/18 11:13 PM
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I am aware of this subreddit, but I didn't see they recommend anything specifically.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:05 PM
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I do on average 4-6 approaches a week. You suggest I amp that up?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:13 PM
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My question was more along the lines of should I go monk mode to improve my SMV or continue going out regularly, despite seeing little success?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 06:35 PM
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Nice to know.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:05 PM
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What would be a good response? Agree and amplify?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:05 PM
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build the foundation What is the foundation for both of these topics? I think I have an idea, but maybe you have a better one if you have experience in the industry.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:06 AM
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Is there a thing such as a sidebar in a PDF?
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:54 AM
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K. Thank you. EDIT: What material would you recommend me to be more aware of the steps I have to take in the interaction (so that I always know where I'm at in the interaction)? Is RSD's Foundations good for that? I'd really like a repeatable structure.
/r/seduction07/06/18 04:30 PM
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It's actually closer to 25 000 than to 40 000 (people moved out recently). But anyhow, I think your original comment still applies. Just be normal, approach, be friendly to everyone etc. If you've got anything to add, feel free.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 10:38 AM
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Thanks man. Will try that scripted kissing line next time.
/r/seduction30/05/18 10:09 PM

So more focus on connection? What could I have done differently, besides focusing more on the connection?
/r/seduction29/05/18 11:03 PM
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Got it. Will try that. I am actually really good at making goofy shit up. Actually, every time I hooked I made up funny stuff. Any books that I can read that will really help me nail down the hooking part?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:15 AM
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I won't drink then. I am not driving (I don't have a car), but if someone asks I'll simply say I don't drink period.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:26 PM
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Good to hear man! I'm a beginner and have a question: How do you game on the dance floor? I know how to escalate and get physical, but getting from the dance floor to the bar is hard for me, especially opening on the dance floor. Cheers!
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:13 PM
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To report my todays progress, I have to tell you that its been none. I didn't do any cold approaches. Why I didn't do them When I was walking over to the college caffeteria, because I was distracted with an old lady walking towards me and sharing eye contact, I failed to notice a hot young girl. Just as the old lady passed me by, the hot girl was already on my "shoulder level" and just passed by me. Then, when I went into the caffeteria, I saw one of my friends sitting alone. While I could have …
/r/seduction18/04/18 04:17 PM

I recommend going out and using the motivation you have immediately. I won't because I have to do my exercise routine. You can't do this by taking baby steps. Tomorrow, for lunch, I can approach a single group or a group of girls and ask is their table free for me to sit down. I'll probably blush, maybe even have teary eyes (my body reacts in strange ways lol), but IDK. One life. Although I go to college in a small town, IDK. Will post my results. If you have any advice as to approaching in the …
/r/seduction17/04/18 06:17 PM

I have actually noticed I pussy out a lot during the day. I am a little fucking bitch in regard to that. You know what? I'll try and do that during the daytime while I'm walking around the town. I'll be direct. At least 10 of them. Groups or not, I don't fucking care. Will post back the results. Also, what do you say about approaching in a student caffeteria? I haven't done this a lot and I would probably be pretty shaky in regard to that (maybe I would even blush lol), so maybe I think it's bet…
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:44 PM
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Will do.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:23 AM
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Regarding question 2), I could have also approached indirectly just to get a chance to check them out, then be more direct if I like them.
/r/seduction30/03/18 03:32 PM

How did she demonstrate her disinterest? She didn't reinitiate the conversation after I started talking to her. I re-started the conversation about 5 times in the interaction and she didn't seem so intersted. Guess I need to work on hooking. What did your approach look like? What exactly did you do or say, and how? She wore glasses. I said "Do your glasses help you see the intentions of people at night?". I said it loudly and clearly. I am actually doing vocal warmups every single day. Where wer…
/r/seduction13/03/18 06:49 PM

If you don't enjoy dancing for its own sake, don't go to a club. I am going to dance classes, but I don't really like clubs as places in general. What I like way more is talking, cracking jokes etc. What I got from this and from your other comment is that people can literally smell it off of me that I go to a club so I can put a checkmark on my to-do list to "Go game" (I literally do this). I just want to get better with girls and well, clubs are a place where a lot of hot girls come in one plac…
/r/seduction13/03/18 05:50 PM

Don't be weak. Don't let him tool you. There's being friendly and being a pushover wimp ... know the difference. What if the guy forces himself in the set? That never happened before, but I'm wondering. So he physically stands between me and the girl, turning his back to me (for example). What are some concrete techniques for this? Then what? Do I start a fight? I really wouldn't like to seriously injure or be seriously injured over a girl.
/r/seduction12/03/18 05:10 PM
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How did you even manage to get hot girls for one night stands without approaching?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:39 PM

Great post. A quick question - Where do you go out? I'm a 21 YO dude and I really don't like clubs so much. Do you mostly daygame?
/r/seduction10/02/18 02:38 PM
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Thanks for responding my man! Will continue to game! :)
/r/seduction23/01/18 07:53 PM

What is a good book to learn the structure of the game? I know elements of game, but I lack the structured overview of it. I don't know what a hook is, for example.
/r/seduction23/01/18 12:23 AM

Hey Laz, wanted to make a comment here with three questions: How to handle if you have crooked teeth and acne, but are in the process of fixing it? I'm having my acne treated and in the future I'll probably get braces, but it's a process. How to game whilist having these defects? Should I even nightgame? I think nightgame only emphasizes my weak points (crooked teeth, acne, a weak sense of fashion style). I know this might be treated as an excuse, but maybe my time is better spent studying or im…
/r/seduction22/01/18 11:55 PM
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Any chance of sharing any sort of pictures? Wondering how a male 9 or 10 looks like.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 06:15 PM
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Any good books on style? Any good books on nutrition (primarily for mental performance)? I already exercise, I am doing my best to look good (the things I CAN influence), I am learning constatnly.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 11:17 AM
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My question is off topic, but how do you balance learning game and building money and power? I mean I'm all on working hard and trying really hard in life, earning money and power, but how to balance it with game, which includes going out and actually being on the field and actually reading about game to improve?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 08:36 PM
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Jeffy's book Nine ball or Get laid or die trying?
/r/seduction14/12/17 10:11 PM
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So I need an actual in-person coach?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:13 PM
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This is freaking awesome! Love that you are putting content away for free. Todd you are THE BEAST. Keep rocking it.
/r/seduction03/12/17 11:03 PM

This doesn't make sense. Hip-hop and techno are the most broadly used kinds of music in clubs. If you're comfortable dancing to these, then you're more than set. I train balroom dancing, not hip-hop and techno, but when out in clubs it's mostly hip-hop and techno so I dance to that. Oh, well this indicates that your demeanor is shooting you down. Spending time trying to move around the dance floor can lead to people trying to help you pass through. Plant yourself in a spot and have fun, instead.…
/r/seduction16/11/17 12:09 PM

Running through a bunch of quick interactions with women in a short period of time. I actually did this for a period of my learning game. I'm still a beginner, but I'm trying not to do this anymore. I would sometimes go up to a girl, make some observational remark and then leave. I am obviously trying to fix this. I have 2 questions for you, if you'd care to respond: 1) How do I know if someone is genuinely not interested vs when they are shit testing me? I am definitely more aware of the other …
/r/seduction15/11/17 06:38 PM
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Nah, I think I'll just give a quick kiss, then try to pull them. This "fake out" seems exactly like faking out. No cover, all man is what I'm about.
/r/seduction07/11/17 07:30 PM
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I'm not even attempting. Guess it's just a fear of rejection on another level. Also, one question related to pulling - Can I pull a girl outside the bar/club before I makeout with her? I would find it much more comfortable if we were in my apartment, alone, where the kissing would be in private + it would most likely lead to sex. So in general, should I makeout in the club, then pull, or can I try to pull first, then makeout + sex while in my apartment?
/r/seduction07/11/17 10:38 AM
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OK. So I hit both daygame and nightgame; during daygame I #-close and during nightgame I try to push for makeouts and sex; but most importantly ATTEMPT TO CLOSE?
/r/seduction07/11/17 08:52 AM
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I do have to note that I am 2 years on NoFap. I don't know how it affected my testosterone levels. I would also note that after my workout routine, I feel more "pumped".
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 03:41 PM
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Yeah, I think I made a mistake there. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:48 PM
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I am at college; I've already been waking up at 5 AM (not for all days, but for some). I could implement this again, then push myself to wake up at 4 AM (but that's after I established my 5 AM routine). However, I do have one question - how do I push through the day when I go to sleep later? I have Wing Chun practice and I go to bed around 11 PM then and if I go out I might stay till 5 AM. Any advice on this?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 09:55 PM
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Hey man, amazing post. I am a well built 20 YO with amazing habits (been exercising for 2+ years, programming, math, ...) and always wondered why do skinny bitches who smoke weed get loads of pussy when I don't (and I do approach). Anyhow, one question for you - How to infiltrate the social circle of the "cool" guys? I know some of them at my college, but how do I transition from a guy they know to a guy they go out with?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 02:56 PM

So, what, every two weeks I should fap? I am afraid I will slip...
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 06:05 PM

Let me then ask you something. I am a 20 YO male, currently enrolled in college and I'm dominating it. While my face could use more work, my body is awesome because I've been working out for 2 years now. I read books, do math, I've been programming etc. In my college, I'd say I'm in the top 5%. I've also been on NoFap for 2 years. However, I've never had sex with a girl and girls don't come easy for me. There are times where I am super-productive, learning 8 hours a day, to days where I hit low …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:50 PM
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Maybe this is out of place here, but is there a website where I can post pictures of my face and body and have people rate me? I think I am really subjective and I'd rank myself aroun 7 (I've got a great body, but crooked teeth and a Roman nose), but I'd like to get more realistic.
/r/seduction17/06/17 11:31 AM
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What posts did you read on the sidebar? Could you link them?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 06:46 PM

I just wanted to ask you this - what TRP reading did you do? Did you read the full sidebar? Did you read any additional material? P.S. Over the last 2 months, I did a fair amount of approaches (around 30) and I'm constantly self-improving. I identified my weak points (passing shit tests & escalating). Since you head success with getting a lay, I was just wondering what did you read.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 04:38 PM

Hey there! I wanted to ask a similar question - what knowledge do I need to start consulting? I'm studying IT and planning to major in math/CS and I'm learning for about 6-8 hours every day. I was thinking on consulting in IT. What minimal amount of knowledge is required for me to consult and what would be the first steps in consulting?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 06:26 PM
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My life is really solid now. I have a consistent exercise routine I've been maintaining for a few years now; I also strech, run and do Wing Chun. I invest 6-8 hours each day in my education, so that's also rad. The only thing that gets me pissed (I guess I'm in the anger phase) is that my friends are not approaching. When we go out, they just "sit there and chill" and drink beer. Yesterday I approached 5 girls (group of 3 and a group of 2) in 5 minutes, while I was hanging out with them for 3 ho…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 12:33 PM
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I don't like the kids who tell me "give me another year to prepare". So I should apply for one job which I think I am underqualified? Should I set a deadline within which I prepare and then apply? How do I make that deadline realistic?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 08:24 PM

What I usually do is approach the guys and talk to them. I read this multiple times from multiple different sources, but I don't know what I'd ask the guys. I don't know what I could ask them or talk to them about.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 11:49 AM
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I'll read this. Thanks Vasiliy.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 02:00 PM

Yes, but I'd also be like to able to cold approach... Don't get me wrong, but I feel like I can fail and not care if I cold approach, whereas if I fail with friends of friends, that gets burnt into their memory. Not that I mind them teasing me about it, but more of awkward experience if I ever meet the same friend of friend again.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:50 PM

If you fail with friends of friends you will fail with strangers at a bar. Why is this?
/r/askTRP09/04/17 12:45 PM

Hmmm... I was thinking about cold approach. I have had unpleasant experiences with friends of friends (I was friendzoned, basically).
/r/askTRP09/04/17 12:15 PM

OK, could you give me a specific example of how I could chat up people in the train (I travel a lot) on the street
/r/askTRP09/04/17 11:00 AM

I have a few male friends - however, none of them are players per se. One of them is, but we never went out together. I think I do have social anxiety. I always blush when I feel the attention at me and I feel really nervous when I have to make a public speech. Nevertheless, I was always (genuinely) complimented at my ability for public speaking.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 10:55 AM

Do u get laid a lot? If so, I'd like to replicate your results.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 08:26 PM

Some particular video from RSDTodd in mind?
/r/askTRP01/04/17 04:23 PM

What if I'm out all by myself? How do I get into their group? P.S. I don't like to drink.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 12:45 PM
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Hey dude I'm also 20. In my life till now I was always a beta, always friendzoned and I resonated with this post so much... Invest in 3 things - health, game and yourself. It's Sunday today and I spent 6 hours learning; I'm going out in an hour. Also, if you're good with your family (like I am) keep in good relations with them. But damn, as others have said, we got a whole life ahead of us, let's get some freakin' pussy, pound the shit out of those girls so that they can't walk the other day and…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 05:09 PM

What are some of your milestones?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:13 PM

Are you also a Chatolic (or maybe a Christian)? I've been praying each day for 20 mintues, but I'd like to become more spiritual. Any advice on that?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 12:09 PM

How do you force yourself to do these things? As I have said, after 5-6 hours of studying I have trouble beginning a new session again. How do you not burn out?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 12:07 PM
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Any advice on how to work smart?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 12:00 PM
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Don't really know actually... I'm not sure if chilling would be a waste of time.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:49 PM
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You mean 5 hours in a day?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:11 PM
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Yea. Everyone works differently. I like my 45/15 splits, although I'll try to experiment with other work styles. Anyhow, a lot of people seem telling me that 5-6 hours of work is the limit where you start getting diminishing returns and that seems to correspond to my experiences... I think I'll try to do 10-12 hour sessions for 2-3 days, see how it goes, but I'll keep in mind that 5-6 hours is the general concesus.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 09:09 PM

Cool. I already work at 45/15 minute splits (45 mins work, 15 mins rest) and I count that as an hour, so that helps while studying also. I'll keep your experience in mind. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:22 PM

You mean 10+ hours is doable for 3-4 days tops?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 07:56 PM

OK. I count 1 hour of studying as 45/15 minute sessions, that is 45 minutes of work and 15 minutes of rest. That way I get microrest (15 mins) and macrorest (1 hour between 2-3 such sessions).
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:31 PM
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I work in 45/15 minute splits - I work for 45 minutes and rest for 15 and I cound that as 1 hour of studying. From your experience, how much max. amount of hours is acceptable (per day) till you start hitting diminishing returns?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:18 PM

Is the 4-hour mark when you started getting diminishing returns?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:35 PM

When do you start getting diminishing returns?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:35 PM
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I hope that what you said is true, it's just I haven't seen it happen for me. I pass everything at college (mostly B's), I program and do math, read books, listen to books, take cold showers and pray - those are my daily habits. Weekly, I do 3 fullbody workout routines. I think sly_it_forward has it good. You need to invest effort into getting better with women. I have just read The Rational Male, sure, but I think I should also make approaching my daily habit.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 04:32 PM
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I'm exactly like this dude, although I never feel nobody likes me, but I do feel the loneliness; just commented a comment almost exactly like yours on the top comment. I feel you 100% (both from an emotional side and from experience). I think you should try to get some girls, even if it is a one night stand. You don't have to use manipulation - be completely honest and frank, just put yourself out there. That's what I've told myself, gonna see how it works out. I'm also 20. This is really crazy …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 12:22 PM

Well, let me just say this - I've been reading "The Rational Male" and I have to kind of disagree with the quote. I just turned 20 and am doing the stuff I want to do - owning college, working on my math and programming skills, really being the best I can be - yet sometimes, when I'm alone at my apartment and I've done everything for the day (physical exercise, daily math & programming routine, ...), I'd like to have a girl by my side. That's why I joined TRP, so I can get more successful with w…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 12:13 PM
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K. I already wake up at 5:00 AM. I program, do math, read books, listen to books and take cold showers every day, as weel as do fullbody routine 2-3 times a week. I could convert a book to an audio using text-to-speech and listen to it while I work out.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 09:13 AM
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K. You just kinda motivated me
/r/askTRP12/12/16 09:04 AM
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Yes... However, I'll just read the Bible. It's the philosophy I live by.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:45 PM
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What quest? To search for my master plan?
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:42 PM
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Hey, just wanted to ask you for advice. I'm about to be 2nd year of college. I passed everything on my 1st year and had time to exercise and do various activities. However, I live in my apartment alone and sometimes it gets to me (especially over the weekends, since I don't go out a lot). It's not like I become depressed, but I come from a home filled with family members and it feels different. Sometimes I just wish there was someone to talk to. Or sleep with.
/r/seduction21/08/16 12:13 PM
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