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That was a shit test you failed, but probably better it worked out that way.
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:54 PM
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Yeah, I was aiming for that number early but not early enough unfortunately. And rules are there to be broken anyway. Thanks dude.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:20 AM
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Appreciate all of this man. Actually constructive. A lot of it is a feeling out process anyway, and the more I get into it again, the more I'll pick up on mistakes, and see any improvements I can make, but I do appreciate the feedback.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:17 AM
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Enjoying that conversation with yourself?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:10 AM
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No, it doesn't actually. There's clearly something wrong with you, man. When you're dedicating time to trolling someone with OCD just because you didn't like his "attitude". Get help, you pussy flap.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:05 AM
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Yeah, I totally agree with that. Should have just kept it simple. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:03 AM
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Oh was that another dig at my mental health? Good one. You probably will be stuck here forever, man, because you clearly have no life. Absolute psychopath.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:02 AM
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Who said I wasn't gonna take the advice? And I would not be surprised if you're the other account commenting here. He already set the bar extremely low, it really would not surprise me if he used another account to comment here. Pathetic, man.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:56 PM
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Bye bye, pussy.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:51 PM
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Mate, you're petty as fuck. That's actually pretty disturbing that you would go to someone's profile and use their mental health condition against them. Obviously I'm not gay, HOCD is a recognised form of OCD and I am diagnosed. People also have this about pedophilia, harming themselves or others, religion and all kinds of other themes. Why don't you educate yourself, you piece of shit? I wouldn't wish OCD on my worst enemy.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:45 PM
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Why can't you give advice without being a dick? I have a great attitude, it's your attitude I don't like. Not saying your advice isn't good. But I'd love to see how slick you are with women after 2 years in isolation from OCD and depression. Come talk to me when you experience that.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:35 PM
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Well duh, genius. Why do you think I'm here? No need to be a dick is there?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:32 PM
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Yeah, but I don't wanna go on a "date", I'm literally looking to close the deal as soon as I can, and then fuck at their place or mine. That's how I used to roll.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:28 PM
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That tongue face thing is just a habit I've had for years, always seemed to work for me. It's just my way of showing I'm teasing or being playful. It's probably the only smiley I use, otherwise I don't usually use them at all. That said, I do agree that I need to calm down on the emoji. And the last bit of the convo I was thinking too much about what to say, didn't wanna just blurt out, "OKAY LET'S DO IT". I am rusty, so I appreciate any advice I get here as long as it's constructive and I don't…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:23 PM
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I did, man. That's where the rest of the convo led to. And she literally said, "But I charge nothing for a solid fuck, up to you". I think that's pretty clear cut. She brought up sex, not me. That's an indicator, but not only that, she was leaving the option up to me. Unless there's something between the lines I'm not reading here. As I mentioned, I am rusty as fuck.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:20 PM
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She did offer to fuck me though. So explain that. I did ask her for a different place to talk, so I could eventually ask her out. And of course my jokes are lame man, I've been sat in the same room for 2 years depressed and isolated, but I was aiming for just teasing her about her height.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:10 PM
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Cool man. I wasn't saying SMV wasn't a thing to OP either, it definitely is whether you put a label to it or not, but high SMV can be perceived whether it's immediately true or not too.Women will inevitably shit test you for this, but it doesn't matter because you're not faking it. If you carry yourself like a high SMV male; I mean if you truly believe you are or will be, to the point of delusion almost (not actual delusion, be humble just know your worth), then girls will pick up on that, and t…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:02 PM
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In what you do, who you are. I'm keeping it simple, because I'm tired right now. If you know what you want in life, and you have the balls to try and achieve it, confidence will inevitably come from that. Whether that's gaming girls, becoming a musician, an investment banker, or whatever you can dream of. So I just had confidence in me and my ability to get after what I wanted without overthinking it. That's what I mean.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:26 PM
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Yeah, and which one of us gets laid here? I'm not trying to brag or come across as a douche, I'm actually just trying to help you, man. Even if you don't find whatever answer you're looking for here, just do one thing: try and talk to girls. Just fucking try, and keep trying.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:40 PM
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Yeah, exactly this comment right here. She maybe needs some comfort, but OP is doing fine as he is. All sounds good so far.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:37 PM
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Those expectations were within my reality because I believed they were possible for me to achieve. Your reality is obviously vastly different to mine.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:30 PM
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Because I wanted those women badly enough to try. When you want something enough, you will find a way to achieve attaining that thing no matter what obstacles are in the way. Self help books will only get you so far. As cliché as it sounds, I've failed a lot of times to get with women, and with everything else I wanted to have in my life, but if I didn't keep trying, I wouldn't have ever succeeded. You haven't even tried yet, have you?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:24 PM
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Why do you think that? Because you read it on a fucking website? Lmao. Dude, I'm far from an objective 'high SMV', and I've fucked multiple women above my 'paygrade'. The thing is, I didn't actually believe I had no chance because of that though. I believed in myself 100%. That's what you need, self belief and confidence. It really is that simple. You've just complicated it all in your own mind.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:57 PM
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I agree.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:54 PM
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Why don't you reframe your own question to "Why would women waste time with a guy who thinks he's a medium SMV guy when they can get with a higher SMV on demand"? That's the answer to your question, dude.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:51 PM
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Some kids may drown when thrown into the deep end of the pool, some may learn to swim. That's your options here. Sounds like you're worried about drowning. Also, you have to put yourself out there and build more confidence in yourself to be able to recognise when women are interested in you or not. You need to build a foundation of confidence from trial and error - experience. This is why I'm telling you to sink or swim. Don't stand on the edge of the pool thinking about it your whole life.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:45 PM
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Some kids may drown when thrown into the deep end of the pool, some may learn to swim. That's your options here. Sounds like you're worried about drowning.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:45 PM
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The question has been answered numerous times already, man. Don't ignore it, explore it. Find out for yourself. If you don't feel the need to pursue women because you already feel you've lost, then why are you even asking this question? Are you here to say you've given up on yourself before you've even begun? What do you want any of us to do about it? We can answer this question a 100 ways, and I still don't think you'll be satisfied because you've already convinced yourself it's a losing battle…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:39 PM
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The belief that you can't or won't succeed is a self defeating philosophy you've adopted as a result of learning about the red pill, and will become a self fulfilling prophesy. So it's not actually anything to do with what you think women want, it sounds more like an excuse not to improve yourself and take risks. You may well genuinely believe that this issue is enough to stump you at every turn, but I'm telling you from my experience that you're overthinking all of this and you will only realis…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:27 PM
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You're overthinking something that doesn't need to be analysed this deeply upon. You say this "issue" has been the reason you haven't pursued women, when it sounds more like an excuse not to. Let it go man, and just pursue women regardless, then you'll get your answer.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:21 PM
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Stop looking for that answer because that's what's holding you back.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:14 PM
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Sticking your dick in crazy is like trying high class drugs. The longer you keep doing it, the worse it gets.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:37 PM
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OP we all know you're gonna bang her one last time, but for the sake of prosperity make sure it is just one last time.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:29 PM
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Sorry to say it, man, but if you were feeling confident you wouldn't need to pay for a hooker on Meth Avenue. Why did you feel the need to do this? When I get horny, the last thing I think about is paying for a hooker. Not trying to make you feel like total shit, but I'd never do that unless it was high-class, but even then, the experience of hooking up with a regular girl, and on your own terms is priceless in comparison, and much less likely to give you an STD.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:28 PM
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I don't think I've ever seen such emotional and many messages from a woman like that You need to raise your SMV. Don't forget to lift, bro
/r/askTRP23/01/21 06:03 PM
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She definitely looks eager to meet up, and it's easy for us all to assume she's a hypergamous hoebag, but we don't actually know her intentions or the real context of her friendship with this millionaire. I'm not naive either, but for the sake of devil's advocate, it could entirely be innocent as well. I would tell OP to trust his gut ultimately, but be smart about this as well. As much as the Red Pill is helpful for a lot of dudes, it could also lead to people forever having trust issues and en…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 05:53 PM
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You have low self esteem, dude. Good that you're recognising and addressing these problems though. There's not much I can offer that the other comments haven't already put forth, but these are psychological issues you can fix. So, learn what you need to do to change your behaviour and the way you react to things and you'll become stronger. Stay the course, stay disciplined and watch yourself develop over time.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 12:25 PM
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Can't tell if this is a joke or not but My girlfriend has no male friends. My girlfriend isn't allowed to have a dude in her fucking house Is some next level insecurity.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 11:38 AM
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But they haven't set up a date to meet yet, so you don't actually know if she will or not.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 11:35 AM
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Was it done sneakily though? Because from what I gathered from that message there is no real plan to meet yet. I don't know when this guy will be back in town, but who's to say that when he does eventually fly back in on his private jet, that she won't mention it to OP? You could say that OP is being equally as sneaky. He didn't mention how he managed to discover this text conversation between the two of them. Does OP snoop through her phone regularly? If that's the case, then this was long over…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 11:30 AM
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Bro, are we shit brothers now?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 04:46 PM
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I see what you mean, and she absolutely is an ex for a reason but not all relationships end badly. I hold no ill will against her, she didn't scar me or anything like that. And I'm sure the feeling is mutual, it just didn't work out. But I see how it can be misconstrued as me pining over my ex, and I get it. I just felt I'd give credit where it was due, but admittedly I was bragging a little bit, while also reminiscing and I think a part of me missed her for a moment. But that's it. It's not a c…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 04:30 PM
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Yeah, I think I just got reminiscent as I was typing it out so it's more to do with my ex than the person who reminded me of her. Probably could have worded it better, or not said anything at all...
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:36 PM
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Okay chief. I'll try that...
/r/askTRP03/01/21 12:23 PM
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All legends. I'm not an American or Canadian, but I do appreciate Louis CK, Chappelle, Robin Williams, Norm Macdonald, Don Rickles, and many many more. I grew up being quite creative and impromptu with my sense of humour, and it was quite a broad sense of humour as well ranging from dark, to deadpan, to silly, to impressions, to roasting, observational and so on. I just find I'm not laughing at much of anything lately, and so I'm not finding myself funny either. Struggling to see the humour in a…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 04:17 AM
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Exactly.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:46 AM
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Yeah, man. I suppose, but with an attitude like that, no one would get anywhere.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:46 AM
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It's more complicated than that to be fair. I understand what you're saying, but it's deeper than that. Creepy confidence isn't true confidence.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:34 AM
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Yeah, when it's stated like that it's not that useful, but confidence IS attractive. That's a fact.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:23 AM
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If she didn't even look you in the eye, then just assume she's either a bitch, didn't hear you, or she gets hounded by fuck bois 24/7 and isn't feeling it in that moment. No loss, dude. Keep trying with different women and see what works but never take it personally.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:17 AM
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Just to add to what I said. A lot of guys here probably try their hardest not to compliment girls, and that actually comes from a place of insecurity if you think "I must not compliment this girl, I have to tease and neg her, pass her shit tests endlessly". Which is why I say a compliment needs to come from a place of real confidence, and conviction when you say it. It's all contextual and a good compliment is also a well timed one. They go hand in hand with the rest of your game if you know how…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:07 AM
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Good man.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:03 AM
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You'd be surprised. A lot of seriously good looking girls out there with self esteem issues.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:02 AM
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If a girl already really likes the look and vibe of you, then you can almost say anything and it wouldn't matter anyway. So there's that. Also, it's cool that you use the terms you've learnt here like "warm approach" and "night/day game", but the true goal here is to eventually not think of it like that. You want it all to become natural. An approach is just an approach, and you don't think about what time of day it is, or how you do it etc. You just get a feel for what's right in the moment.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:58 AM
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Fair enough, man. I can't see myself doing actual stand up, but all of my life I've been pretty good at making groups of people laugh so in a way that's stand up I guess? Maybe I'm just out of practice after 3 years.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:57 AM
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Complimenting girls does work so long as you don't over do it, and have confidence when you do it. It has to come from a place of real desire as well. I've scored loads of girls by being direct. There's probably way more factors that go into it, but for the most part I'd say it's not a bad thing to compliment girls, but it's better to play the game.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:55 AM
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You're trying too hard if it's her attention you want. If she blanks you, blank her. Go and talk to some other chick. Either that, or learn how to grab people's attention by standing out more; whether through body language, voice tonality and volume, how you look etc. But your aim shouldn't be to beg for attention, it should be that attention is automatically demanded by the way you present yourself and come across. And if you don't get attention - oh well. No big deal.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:47 AM
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But it is ending soon brother Is it though? The UK is a shit show.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 09:40 AM
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I see it as the same thing essentially. What OP describes is something I've done my entire life, but I'm pretty sure most of us do it unconsciously. You're visualising your ideal identity your whole life, and when you hold those visualisations in your mind on a day to day basis - and that means thinking visually as well, you begin to form that identity through building neural pathways to strengthen it, which in turn helps you to manifest your visualisation much easier. That's how it works. Over …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 10:28 AM
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Mate, you're just talking about visualisation. You don't need to be an autist to achieve that.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 09:13 AM
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You are a man. You have within you the power and creativity to build technologies and empires. What are you going to do with yourself? Play Age of Empires.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:47 PM
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Well played, man. I've got a similar story to that, minus the casino. Was at a band house party a few years ago. It was our bassist's uni house, never been there before, and there's all these uni chicks. There were two in particular who were cute and were best friends as well. After some drinks, and getting high. I did my usual thing at parties and went round interacting with every body, eventually came back to those two girls and started planting seeds, and flirting. Later on, somehow we ended …
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:50 PM
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Don't know if you can really call it game at this point as I've been fingering chicks since I was about 12 years old, lmao. A lot of it is natural, the game part of it usually comes in before your natural instinct should kick in. Which is why I'm at the Red Pill, no one's perfect. One example I can think of was a few years ago I was released from a cell after being detained for questioning over something I was innocent of - in a shitty mood, and being made to walk 3 miles back home in the rain i…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:27 PM
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Dude, you can stop beating yourself up now. Move on and learn from this.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:13 PM
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Nothing wrong with that, as long as you know you're the shit and she's coming back with you.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:11 PM
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Just don't invite your friend back again. Why the fuck would you do that? I mean fair enough if you trusted them both, that's commendable, but why even chance it? I don't think you should be taught to be controlling of people, in fact quite the opposite, but don't put yourself in predicaments like this again. Also, your friend is a bit of a snake.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:10 PM
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I was in the same scenario as you once, and the dude who is now my best friend fell asleep drunk leaving me and his ex-girl who was a hot Romanian chick alone. She put herself on a plate for me, and I could have easily gone there, but I didn't. It may be just OP's turn, and I agree, but you've got to recognise who your bros are as well.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:05 PM
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I mean you are right, but so is he. Whether they're in an LTR or not, he had clearly invested himself in this girl, so expectedly he's angry that his investment has crashed in front of him. But you're right that he needs to expect less and care even less.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 08:34 PM
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I agree.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:55 AM
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Nah, don't abort just yet, this is a learning curve for this dude.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:57 AM
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This is the most non-compliant, outcome independent answer here. You've got to be cheeky about this shit as well. I could go more in depth and explain why a comment like this combined with confidence, and charm work 100% of the time and no one loses, but I can't really be fucked. Good comment, man.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:55 AM
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Flirting should be done to appease yourself first, then it becomes attractive to everyone else.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:50 AM
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That all depends on how much you wanna fuck the chick in question. Is she worth passing shit tests for?
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:48 AM
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What's your opinion on this sub then? Genuinely curious.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:40 AM
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That's all well and said, but if he's upfront with her 1000 times but keeps fucking her, her feelings for him are only gonna get stronger, and she'll keep thinking there's hope. Either that, or she'll decide this isn't what she wants and walks away, reluctantly. Because what she wants is commitment. Not disagreeing with your point though.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:33 AM
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I never said he was manipulating her, man. I said he's clearly set boundaries, and that's exactly why she's being this way, amongst other things - she sees him as valuable and he gives her the feels, and she wants him to commit to her and reciprocate how she feels because she's afraid of rejection. You have to understand that for a woman to say she is in love with you either means 1. She really is feeling a lot for you at that time, or 2. She's crazy or BPD, but that's down to you to discern tha…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:14 AM
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Because the dude obviously has a conscience, and clearly likes this girl too on some level but in the back of his mind feels guilty like he's leading her on despite him setting clear boundaries for himself. I've experienced this too, and a lot of people have. A one night stand here or there is good fun, but when you make it a bit more regular (like you would with a plate), girls tend to start investing more and falling hard. When that starts happening, that makes or breaks men especially if the …
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:12 AM
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You can see it as a shit test, but that's down to you to discern. Depends if you're face to face or over text. Context is important. But it's better you learn to pick up on these things naturally rather than overthink it.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 02:03 PM
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90% of the time it's creepy, until 90% of the time it's not anymore. Experience. There's a fine line between what's creepy and what's not, and that usually depends on your confidence. OP is spot on.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 01:49 PM
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I can agree with this. My dad is a chad, and was a great rolemodel when I was growing up, but unfortunately he divorced my mum by the time I was 11, and I had to go live with her for the rest of my upbringing. Barely ever saw him, and with hindsight, I can see how that might have beta-fied me. But you shouldn't regret those experiences because it's ultimately lead us to this point.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 01:32 AM
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Good for you, dude. You stopped being a hater, and became the player. And it's good you went off to do your own thing and cultivate yourself, instead of potentially befriending Chad in the beginning, and living in his shadow. Although you undoubtedly would have learned a lot from being around him, ultimately you'd resent him the whole time too, and that would affect your growth. So you chose to use him as a source of motivation instead. As for being a natural, that all starts when you're a kid. …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 01:23 AM
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Dude, look at Russians - even the women.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:31 AM
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I mean... is it really a joke though? There's so many simps in here, it'd be easy to miss it.
/r/seduction08/12/20 07:24 PM
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No, I actually meant to say Despacito. I'm fucking around, but you are right. Desperacy should be a word though, without discounting desperation.
/r/seduction08/12/20 01:37 PM
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Desperacy isn't a good look, man.
/r/seduction08/12/20 11:40 AM
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Good luck with that, lol. You may change your mind after experiencing one.
/r/seduction08/12/20 11:38 AM
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News Flash: He was trying to tell you that you were too needy. There's introspection, and then there's this.
/r/seduction08/12/20 11:25 AM
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Harriet Potter and the Statistical Analysis of the Conversations with Her Ex
/r/seduction08/12/20 11:23 AM
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Just don't tell Bruce I plagiarised him...
/r/seduction04/12/20 11:18 PM
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Dude, I did once. I know the feeling well, but a lot of shit has happened in the past 3 years that has set me back to square one. I don't even leave my room most days at the moment. Honestly. I'm like a completely different person, a person I don't want to be. I don't want to make a sob story out of it. What happened to me wasn't self inflicted, but how I've handled it since has been. So I know I could get my shit together again. If you couldn't tell, I'm fucking bitter about this, haha. Glad yo…
/r/seduction04/12/20 05:31 PM
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Okay, good for you.
/r/seduction04/12/20 05:19 PM
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Yeah, all great points. I suppose I did have the confidence to try at least, and then the confidence would compound itself after each "success", for lack of a better term. I mean, I got to the point where it became natural for me and I didn't have to think about how to navigate every interaction, or approach or any thing else. It was like that for quite some time, and then "Surprise, motherfucker: You now have no libido and crippling depression" I did ponder on the idea that my experience or con…
/r/seduction04/12/20 03:29 PM
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Not necessarily directed at you, but just basing this on my experiences and for anyone worried about their notches. My body count is reasonably high, considering I started at a very young age, it only increased incrementally over time with experience and confidence. But I was nervous and awkward sometimes still for a few years before I started peaking, but I knew what I wanted. That was going great BUT then suddenly, something happened to me a few years ago that fucked me up big time. I suddenly…
/r/seduction04/12/20 03:01 PM
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To be honest, rejection feels more like when your card is declined with a queue of shoppers behind you.
/r/seduction04/12/20 02:52 PM
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Oh fair enough. I assumed you dudes lived in the same city/area. The IDGAF attitude he's adopted is basically a naturalised behaviour through repetitious actions. It's actually a great feeling to have, and it's powerful, but the only downside is you often end up shitting on people depending on your motives. His motives are obviously to get validated by women, which is probably why he became a musician in the first place. I'm a musician as well, and can say that that's pretty much why any of us s…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:31 PM
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I know his type because I used to be like that. Trust me, he's insecure as fuck and not a friend to you. What I will say though, is observe how he's able to move in on girls like that, take that from him, but go else where and use it. Don't associate with this asshole beyond learning what's useful from him.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:20 PM
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Lmao, depends who's asking - in the real World, her abusive boyfriend is the one getting beat. But I agree, and she's more likely to get a beating if you mention anything because of it when they eventually go back home together. I'm not even suggesting you should mention that to her, but I could see u/ComplexProjection's point about it. Like I said, OP did the best thing anyway... just disregard her, and her abusive partner, and move on with life. Onwards and upwards, and away from that shit.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:15 PM
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It's not about saving the ho in this instance. I read it as pointing out the obvious to her, and getting her to rethink. But I do think OP made the right choice in NOT saying anything to her instead. He needs to move on.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 02:09 PM
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This is the best answer here OP. Grieve if you have to, but then carry on anyway. You'll realise further on down the line that this period was an important stepping stone for you. It'll toughen you up to go through this. Don't stop improving yourself.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 02:06 PM
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Great advice except I don't really masturbate anymore. At all. I used to before the depression all the time, but I was also having sex quite often as well. Didn't seem to affect my libido.
/r/seduction09/11/20 03:43 PM
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Dude, imagine her but in another 5 years. She's nuts.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:50 PM
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Could also be that the guy is insecure and fucks around himself, and so becomes paranoid and projects that on to her.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:43 PM
2

Why would you even do it? You have no shame, dude. All it says about you is that you're trying to control the outcome of a relationship. You say you're afraid of being "fooled" but that's an excuse to try and mask the fact that you're insecure. Work on yourself.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 10:16 AM
1

Not necessarily, but if you have to check it definitely means she absolutely should be fucking elsewhere.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 10:11 AM
1

Not sure why you would think that. What exactly do you want me to do, send you evidence? And if you already get laid, then why are you enquiring at all? I've been as honest with you as I reasonably can without it getting weird. Next you'll be asking me what the precise measurements of my dick are. But yeah, based on experience, I am probably good looking. In fact, I know I am. That isn't nearly as important as having character, charm, or a good sense of humour though. Frame is important as well,…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 09:42 AM
1

Lmao. Dude, I'm sorry to tell you, but you can't be me. Yes, I had many compliments about everything you've asked otherwise I wouldn't be here telling you. I'd be crying like an Incel somewhere else. What you need to do is work on your physique (you don't need to be humungous), my build isn't even that big - I'm about 5'9", and I have a build similar to Bruce Lee's, just not as ripped. Work on becoming funny, witty, and getting some charm - learn to talk to all kinds of people about all kinds of…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 08:03 PM
3

1000% there are, man. Not all women are empirically hoes. Yes, their nature is to be hypergamous, but times have changed. What I'm saying goes against Red Pill theory, but it is true that you can find and obtain and keep good women, but only if you have something deeply intrinsic to offer. Money, and material items don't matter as much as everyone thinks when it comes to this. Yes, having money is good for your SMV, and just in general but there are so many variables that go into it. I'm a prime…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:30 PM
1

I don't honestly know. Combination of factors: good looking, good in bed, funny, lots of energy, musician, lots of potential. That's my best guess. But it definitely wasn't because of money, lmao.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:20 PM
1

Probably should have said d i g n i t y
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:26 PM
6

I'm assuming it means take her somewhere where there isn't competition.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:29 PM
2

u/UniqueAway
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:13 PM
1

I don't see why we'd need to analyse this unless you can take something from it. They were emotional sometimes - they were women. Roughly the same age as me, give or take. Sometimes a bit younger. I actually roughly explained this in this same post somewhere else. I'll tag you. Edit: and I knew they were strong based on my experience of women. A lot of girls are emotionally erratic, and tend to rest on their laurels to get by in life. A man will support them, or the government will. These girls …
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:11 PM
2

Everyone has mental problems, but if you mean these girls were BPD? Nah. They were strong, independent types. Were they feeling weak though? Yeah, for me.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:16 PM
1

What makes you think you're better than them? Those dudes are fucking those bitches. You're just complaining about it. You should be silently saying to yourself, "Good for them".
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:30 PM
2

Obviously it's him. That was my gut instinct as soon as I read the post. It's entirely possible that he's put this much thought into his friend's life and relationship from an observational standpoint, but unlikely. Unless he's just jealous.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:27 PM
35

Don't do it, man. Have some fucking pride.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:58 AM
23

Women sometimes still defy logic. I've had multiple beautiful girls take me into their homes, full LTR, and I didn't have a job for years - the girl would be working, and yet I was treated like a king. Eventually they'd see sense and throw me out on my ass, but when I think about why they would keep a loser like me around for so long.... I offered them the tingles, good sex, lots of laughter, and I think the most important thing was that I always had the potential to be better and they could see…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:44 AM
7

I was a lot like this, where I was pretty much a fucking bum loser. And good, loyal girls would keep me in their homes, earn the bread and still fuck me. I don't actually know why, but I'm not proud. Anyway, to anyone reading this post. DON'T MONITOR YOUR GIRL'S PHONE - GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:35 AM
72

Dreading this day, man. Sorry for your loss.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 11:18 PM
2

What everyone is missing is that this 44 year old probably is a kid, mentally.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:27 PM
1

That's quite defeatist, man. Have you tried acting in spite of the illness? Do you have any goals, or dreams? Passions? Anything that takes your focus away from being associated with a mental illness. There have been people who've been through a lot worst than most, and still lived their lives how they wanted to.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:17 PM
1

I do have an extent of problems due to an abundance of drug taking. Your definition of alpha is a bit simplistic. I've fucked many women, but I was never the loud or typical alpha archetype, more introspective. So, you're right. But I don't think that matters too much as long as you have game and frame, look good, make people laugh and carry yourself with confidence.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 12:26 PM
1

Lol, we exist in different spectrums then. I don't think I've ever paid for a date, as scummy as that might sound to some people. 9/10 always fuck on the first date too. I'm not out here playing games.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 11:10 AM
2

I don't wanna be a MGTOW dude. I'd never pay for sex either. Never did before. Therapy though...
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:33 AM
1

Get some help, man. That stutter would probably go away if you could eliminate anxiety. Connecting with people is important, but right now you need to work on your shit. Gambling only leads to ruin.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 12:40 AM
1

Get some help, man. That stutter would probably go away if you could eliminate anxiety. Connecting with people is important, but right now you need to work on your shit. Gambling only leads to ruin.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 12:40 AM
2

No, I'm saying that he is worried. She's not selling him out, she's made her choice to pursue her "career", and he's made his. It's good to have boundaries, but why did he put that boundary there in the first place? Insecurity. She's not doing porn, so it's not a matter of him being cucked or disrespected. A lot of female actresses do simulated sex scenes in movies and shows, as do male actors too obviously. If he wanted to avoid that outcome becoming a possibility, he shouldn't have dated a fuc…
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:26 PM
1

It's all about context. She's starring in a television show that will become a series. I wouldn't be okay with my girl flashing her tits whenever she felt like though, and she'd look nuts doing that anyway.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:23 PM
1

It makes him uncomfortable that his girl is getting partially naked for others to see. I'd say there's some insecurity there. She's not literally being fucked.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:16 PM
1

If you're the one fucking her, then what are you worried about? It's just your turn remember? Competition is good for you.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 02:42 PM
1

Lmao, "whoring her way up the ladder". Mate, she hasn't even began the role yet and you've already decided in your head that she's betrayed you, especially when she told you about what the role entailed. It sounds like you still have a long way to go if you're paranoid that she's gonna fuck another actor, or fuck her way up the ladder. It's probably best you end it because the only reason you've let her go is because deep down you don't think you deserve her. That's it More time for you to work …
/r/askTRP22/09/20 02:33 PM
3

There have been rare incidences of famous actors actually having sex in their scene, but I'd guarantee that 9 times out of 10 that isn't the case. With a full crew, cameras, a director, etc all around you. That's not likely to happen. OP has choices: either move on from her, or get over it.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 02:23 PM
2

He is being insecure. Simple as that. Does he throw a towel around her every time she's at a beach in a bikini too?
/r/askTRP22/09/20 02:20 PM
1

No, the OCD is still ongoing and it's been about 2 years now. I agree to an extent - I do believe anything can be perceived as attractive, but I think true attraction isn't something you can rationalise or choose. You either like something or not, and usually there are multiple variables as to why. I used to have no issue being able to recognise if another man was good looking or not, but there was never a sexual or romantic inclination. More admiration, I guess. With the thoughts and the anxiet…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 06:24 PM
3

You have to break the cycle that you know is coming long enough that it becomes a habit. Because the cycle you're stuck in is the current habit.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 07:00 PM
4

You're using your energy inefficiently by the sounds of it. The busier and more productive you make yourself, the less time you have to sit around and let your mind come up with negative, dreadful bullshit.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 06:53 PM
5

It's a sub type of pure OCD, where you get constant intrusive thoughts and anxiety about your sexuality. It's difficult to explain, especially to people who haven't suffered with OCD. Basically, having irrational thoughts that produce insane levels of anxiety about possibly not being straight, even though I know I am straight and have been my entire life. It affects gay people too, where they have an irrational fear of turning straight. My OCD was brought on by lots of drug use. You know how ran…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:07 PM
13

In the words of Schwarzenegger: "You lack discipline". I do the very same thing man, although I hope you're not dealing with soul-crushing OCD at the same time. I don't know for certain, but I'd probably take a guess and say you're not acting on what you know/feel would improve your life because you fear something going forward. Whatever it is, you have to figure that shit out. It could also be that deep down, you don't believe you deserve a better life? Maybe you beat yourself up a lot? That ca…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:04 PM
1

That's not arrogance, that's 100% stupidity.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 10:52 PM
1

Nah, he won't know yet. She'll sink even deeper with him for the time being, until she sorts another dick to suck.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 10:33 PM
4

If you worry you're a sociopath, you're probably not a sociopath.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:32 AM
8

More like nihilistic.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 06:35 AM
13

Seems obvious to me and others why, but be careful with this one... she obviously likes the drama. If this sort of behaviour keeps repeating itself from her, pull out for your own good, man.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 09:34 PM
61

If this is actually her sense of humour, then OP should send her my way.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 04:38 AM
1

If you don't know, then you're lucky.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:06 AM
1

Shiiiit... That's rough, man. Hope you're doing better these days. Do you think I experienced some sort of trauma the third time as well?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:59 PM
1

I understand you, dude. OCD isn't logical at all though. I remember being obsessed with girls asses while i was at secondary school (even to this day). I'd go around spanking them for a laugh, craving these girls. Logically I know I'm straight, and I appreciate your food for thought, but OCD doesn't operate on logic. Thanks for taking the time to reply, dude.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:37 PM
2

I remember jacking off to women. Porn was limited back then. I'd be jerking it to whatever playboy mag pages were found in the woods, or women on tv or movies. I don't remember jacking off to anything gay, or any men. I did experiment when I was kid though with some friends, which I felt ashamed about for many years, but I kind of accepted it happened in my late teens, and moved on. I never felt I was gay. I didn't kiss, or have relationships with these guys, and never wanted to. I don't know wt…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:26 PM
1

There's no way I could remember that far back, haha. Probably Pamela Anderson, as I used to have her Baywatch bed sheets.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:13 PM
2

Maybe a combination of both. I've definitely suffered from PTSD, but these thoughts are obsessive, and I do notice myself doing compulsions to relieve myself of the anxiety.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:12 PM
1

Hahaha, I was thinking of that too! Brilliant stuff
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:43 PM
1

What would be a good reaction? I was just going to reply something like, "Tell them to wait their turn" and I probably could get away with it, as it's only in jest, but I'm intrigued to hear what you'd say.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:40 PM
1

This can easily be solved by telling her the roses were for your mother.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:37 PM
0

Pre-selection? Possibly elaborate? I'd like your views.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:26 PM
10

In a situation like that where you can't be physical or aggressive, be witty and use your head. Don't think about your ego. In an ideal World though, they aren't cops, and you use those chairs to rearrange their faces.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 01:39 PM
2

Some other guys here think that I may be, wittingly or unwittingly, putting a mental cockblock on you. Listen, it's easy. Forget how hot she is. She's just another girl, right? Picture yourself banging this chick, and don't lose sight of that. Visualise it, and know it's going to happen for you, and if the stars don't align for you that night... then oh well, life goes on. Just go and have fun, man.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:54 AM
1

Ah well... I'm rooting for him. I really am haha.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:42 AM
1

😂 You all need to chill the fuck out.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:24 AM
1

Riiiight.... Pretty sure he can do that all by himself.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 10:36 PM
1

Okay, your move there was a financially sound decision. It's worked out for you. So now, move out and move on. You're in a new city, enjoy it.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:51 PM
1

I'm actually very skinny naturally with a lot of muscle tone, but I don't like the part under my jaw.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:49 PM
-1

Or an honest one?
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:48 PM
1

Yeah, you should have known better. But don't take shit from these dudes. All you have to do is focus on yourself and what YOU want starting now. Get your own place and ignore her.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:36 PM
1

If you're skinny fat, how do you even get a defined jaw like that in the first place? There's barely any fat there anyway but it's not ridiculously sharp. I think that may just be genetics.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:25 PM
1

Best comment here.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:15 PM
1

Every girl is high maintainence until they meet a man who breaks their frame and makes them shy.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:12 PM
1

If it's experience you're lacking then what are you doing posting this here? Go and get experience.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:11 PM
1

Don't show up early. Show up 10 minutes late.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:09 PM
1

Have you taken any steps to figure out whether she is who she says she is? I don't mean stalk her, I mean get her number, add her on another social media platform etc?
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:07 PM
1

I think she will be who she says she is, at least physically but I do also believe she isn't rich. That's a facade.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:03 PM
1

Sometimes adrenaline is a good thing. That's all he's experiencing. He just needs to reduce his expectations.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 07:59 PM
2

If it was an actual Tinder scam, you'd know about it by now. PS. You won't want a 6 after you destroy this one.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 07:57 PM
-2

Not every girl is like this. I used to be in an open relationship with a 9, and literally after we'd fucked she was heading off on a date with another dude. She looked like she'd just been fucked. Not a care.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 07:55 PM
1

Either that, or she seriously lacks self esteem. In which case, he might be in luck.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 07:31 PM
1

Learnt this the hard way.
/r/MensRights23/01/17 01:54 AM
1

Truth is... I've not long come out of a bad breakup. I'm not dealing with it sorely but I have become depressed, but to add to that, I may be homeless soon too and I think I know what I need to do but I'm not sure lifting is going to aid me. Thanks BTW :)
/r/askTRP22/01/17 12:01 PM
1

I think it comes from a place of self doubt too. If I get comfortable in a social setting, i then start to judge myself; should I be funnier, am I being too serious etc. It's a nightmare.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 08:10 PM
2

How will that help? Surely exposure would be best, or therapy?
/r/askTRP21/01/17 06:23 PM
1

Didn't know she was a hoe at first.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 08:56 PM
4

I really think this post would depend on what kind of women you're aiming for. I've certainly been with women like this, and you've described them to a T, but I think it's fair to say not all women are like this.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 08:16 PM
1

You must have missed the part where I said I was new here.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 08:08 PM
1

I burned her worse. Trust me.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 07:54 PM
1

So basically until the honeymoon period is over? 😏
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 03:51 PM
2

Yes, it was. I'm not denying that.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 02:04 PM
1

OP is British, pal. Good guess.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 01:00 PM
1

She was only meant to be a plate. That's all I wanted, but then we ended up spending more time together and things developed beyond what I imagined. Also, yes... even 18 year olds can barely date each other.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:53 PM
2

I can see you've been hurt too.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 09:10 PM
1

You certainly covered those angles, haha. I appreciate you telling me that story. It fucking sucks, but ultimately it's a learning experience, and understanding that would depend on your perspective. That's what the Red Pill is for. But anyway, I have to also ask: If you can never share your feelings with a woman, then how can you ever feel love?
/r/askTRP07/01/17 09:08 PM
1

Thank you man. That was a thing of beauty to read. One thing I don't quite understand though is that even if I was just an Alpha fux, then why did she become so emotionally invested in me towards the end? Telling me she loved me and literally tried to carousel me into a relationship when I was against the idea? And I tend to agree with you that sleeping in the same bed together was a mistake which we had done on many occasions. Also yes, we did fuck the first time we met because I initiated it a…
/r/askTRP07/01/17 07:34 PM
1

Yeah, that actually was a major factor in why I only wanted to keep her as a plate. Bad move.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 07:24 PM
1

Maybe... :P I guess I already know the answers.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 06:43 PM
1

I was vetting her but I allowed it to get out of hand.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 06:42 PM
1

What I knew I should have done the whole time. Thank you for reaffirming that haha. I do have ways to vent - I'm a drummer, and have a reasonably busy life. I am already in shape, but not buff as fuck. Which I think is fair. But I do tend to over-analyse and that's what's bringing me down. I know it's pointless to do that now though... I will refocus my energy.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:23 PM
2

You could be right.
/r/seduction12/12/16 01:57 PM
1

I'm pretty sure I'm not stuck in the Madonna Whore Complex. That's not the problem.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 01:42 PM
-1

But why should I date more girls, when 1 should be enough? I don't want to sleep around. I've done that way too much already.
/r/seduction12/12/16 01:40 PM
2

Haha. Well, that is a matter perspective, but I can certainly assure you I am.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 01:04 PM
1

That's a good response. I kind of know this too, but it's nice to have it put into perspective by someone else.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 12:23 PM
1

I mean that I'd like to be able to allow myself to be more vulnerable, rather than push people away every time I feel a bit of doubt or anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 12:21 PM
1

You gain nothing by being dishonest.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 04:07 AM
2

I always knew he was hiding a giant, sweaty mangina under all those rolls.
/r/MensRights04/11/16 10:55 AM
8

He's obviously not enjoying the beating he's just showing the hypocrisy by putting his thumb up. If it was the other way round, the girl would be screaming, everyone would be jumping in to help her.
/r/MensRights01/11/16 12:34 PM
84

And then he'll get arrested. It's great how that works.
/r/MensRights01/11/16 12:31 PM
1

It must be like an all you can eat buffet living in New York with Tinder. I live in the small city of Southampton, England and I think I've damn near been through most of the girls in my area.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 01:10 AM
17

This is the best comment in here.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 01:06 AM
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