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Because SMV from woman to man is a perception. SMV is about how women perceive you, your actual SMV is kinda worthless. You can have an SMV of like 5 and pull a 9 or 10. Flava-flav would be a pretty good example of this. If he wasn't perceived to be cool or pre-selected he wouldn't be half as lucky with women as he is. SMV from man to a woman is about how hot she is.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 08:04 PM
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People on here are terrible about differentiating SMV with MMV. A girl can be a 6 or 7 looks wise, but an 8 or 9 marriage wise. Looks are important, but not everything.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 06:00 PM
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I would need to really think and refine the list. Briffaults law is the underlying theme behind that rule. Since her nor I are going to have sex with other people, then there is no reason for such an association to exist. There are of course with any rule, exceptions but those are like family friends.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 02:22 AM
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Take over the finances, problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 06:03 PM
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with a huge part of my motivation to get 'rock star pussy.' There's your problem. Do what you do because it's what you want to do.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 05:58 PM
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This is something that often gets overlooked here on TRP, accepting responsibility for the world around you. Peoples first response is always don't LTR or don't get married. It's don't get married to a whore. Men should still get married if they are going to rear children. I know this is an unpopular sentiment around here, but I honestly believe that if you vet your prospective spouses and maintain/raise your value you'll be just fine. I'll offer one simple rule to the other men in here that can…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:35 PM
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I liken it to this, we've all flipped through songs on a radio. You can find a song you actually like but occasionally you'll check the other stations in the middle of the song to see if anything better is on. It's easy to stay on the same station when all the other stations are running ads. It's a lot harder when there is good music on the other stations. Always be her favorite song if you want to make an LTR work.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:25 PM
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Passive dread is the only game you should use in an LTR barring extreme circumstances IMHO. Passive dread is simply eliciting an outward response from those around you that increase your value without soliciting it. If you find yourself using active dread on a regular basis the girl is not LTR material. Captains don't have to manipulate their first mates.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:12 PM
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If it doesn't work in an LTR, it's time to find a new woman. A woman who can't be shamed into doing better for herself has no respect for herself and is not worthy of commitment.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:07 PM
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I think you missed the point. If you want your girl to have her shit together, you have to have your shit together. So if you have your shit together it's not surprising she's acting like this. However by your own admission this girl is not your LTR. When you give a woman commitment it changes things. You are in the honeymoon phase right now, much like the way you use game to pick up a slut from a bar to fuck, she is using girl game to pick up a guy to marry. If you do not heed my advice I assur…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:06 PM
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have you ever seen 2 girls 1 cup, there apparently are girls out there who can shit out soft serve... Jus sayin
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 09:37 PM
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Tis always better to be able to almost play a cello or violin than it is to almost be able to play guitar.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 04:59 AM
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I'll do those things while I draft my breakup letter. That's how you stop hamstering
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 06:54 PM
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How do I stop my hamster?? It makes sense to me. Can you pick out the rationalizations for me? Everything that came after that statement was hamstering lol. Women are so silly sometimes. Re-read my last reply post and do those things.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 06:50 PM
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Your hamster has officially launched into orbit. ROFL. Seriously your mind is made up you want him. This is glorious to watch. I can only hope that if my wife ever leaves me she gets alpha widowed this hard. Sorry, but you're gonna have to fight to win. Let me give you some insight on to how men think. In reality I could care less about you or your bf, I see a problem. I enjoy solving problems. I am an objective rational operator. Seeing the jedi-level hamstering is entertaining as fuck. I'm int…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 06:20 PM
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LOL my wife literally married the first box of cracker jacks she opened. The exception doesn't make the rule, and she still is subject to AWALT
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 06:08 PM
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Seems to me you've made up your mind then. Women will make all sorts of excuses for high SMV men. This has been wonderful insight. That said, since you want to keep him best advice I can come up with is to be the best LTR you can be. Make him food, dress nice, and make sure you spend so much time under him he gets over her. Men with full stomachs and empty .... are far less likely to wander.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 06:05 PM
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Yeah, you aren't going to do any better. Depends on what you want though. High value men like that cheat, pure and simple. You don't have a way around that. No way in hell a man who fucks billionaires who is approaching peak value is going to settle. Especially if he has alpha tendencies. TBH though you are part of a world I know very little about. I live in a small town, married my high school sweet heart, and chase happiness over status and money every day. So by all means take what advice wor…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 04:47 PM
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Well unless you are a seasoned veteran it can be hard to tell. It's taken me a while to discern between the two. The other question you have to ask yourself is what are you doing to attract men of the caliber you seek? His SMV and MMV could be so far beyond yours. His ex could be hotter. The problem with crazy girls is that, well, they fuck like crazy girls and to some men the lick is worth the salt. Personally I'm a firm believer of don't stick your dick in crazy(like BPD crazy). Now that said …
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 03:52 PM
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If you and her were dangling off a cliff and he could only save one of you, he would save his ex. No, This is the problem. I have no secrets with my wife, and I don't get mad at her for bringing up well thought out legitimate points. Talking to an ex is definitely in the realm of "Oh hell naw". If there was nothing going on he would have just laughed it off, or agreed to let you see his texts. You're throwing him a comfort test and he's failing miserably.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 03:30 PM
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And I guess let me give a shot to come at this from the feelz angle. His feelz are for his ex. If you and her were dangling off a cliff and he could only save one of you, he would save his ex. It's not over, it honestly never began. Don't go for closure, you'll never get it from this guy. Also getting mad at you for bringing up a legitimate point is called gaslighting. Do not lose your resolve, just leave.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 03:15 PM
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He's keeping her on the back burner. The only time I've ever missed an ex is when she jumped out of the way of my car. In all seriousness that's a NEXT for sure. My wife and I have a pretty strict agreement, I do not have any female friends that I hang out with alone, she does not have any male friends that she hangs out with alone. I am not friends with any exes on facebook and neither is she. We do not talk to our exes ever. By following these rules we have had very little drama over the years…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 03:09 PM
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LOL great example of this, I'm sitting down stairs hanging out with my friend it's a little late at night, and my wife comes down and tells me it's bed time. I literally laughed my ass off and told her I was a grown man and I'll go to bed when I'm good and fucking ready. I don't want to be mothered, jesus fuck I moved out of my house for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 03:54 PM
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All I can say is flee the country. Run, Disappear, do whatever. You can't help your son, even if you do everything right you'll still be wrong. Just go.
/r/MensRights23/09/15 06:54 PM
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Omg, it's a joke. Getting bent out of shape about it makes you just as bad as the feminists. Point out the sign, laugh about it and move the hell on. There are real issues out there that need addressed more than a sign in home depot.
/r/MensRights23/09/15 04:48 PM
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You can LTR all you want. I just wouldn't wife it. Also don't let her move in. THe kind of woman you want to marry doesn't slut it up on tinder.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 03:06 PM
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I was sort of drunk, I didn't really even interact with her, it was just a kind of out of the blue thing. I was disagreeing with her friend who said holistic medicine was legit, which I think may have actually pissed her off. I care very little of what this person thinks though I'm mainly concerned with keeping/gaining position in the hierarchy and how to deal with this. I know my response was just that I laughed and walked away.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:48 PM
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When you are laying on your deathbed, sure you may have a few possessions with you, but the only thing you are really going to be left with in your old age are memories, the memories of all the dope shit you've done. Get the fuck out of that cubicle and go live life. If you enjoy being an office bitch, by all means stick around.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:22 PM
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Focus on the path, not the destination.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:14 PM
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This is a straight talk kind of situation. This is where you sit across the kitchen table and you look your father in the eyes. And you tell him point blank what is on your mind. Get him to agree to hire a PI, the important part here is that he helps himself out of the hole. A mans strength comes from facing adversity in his life, not hiding behind others fixing his problems. If he never wants to talk about it again then just drop the issue and never bring it up again.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 10:29 PM
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Here, just let me stand on my wallet, then I'm taller than you.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 10:21 PM
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Own your shit. Don't matter, and if anything when you get built it will look more impressive anyways. Eye contact and dominance is important but avoid little man syndrome at all costs.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 10:18 PM
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She wants you to A. Tell her what to do and take charge B. She wants to know she's good enough. This is a combo shit/comfort test.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 10:16 PM
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Regardless of the morality of mate-poaching This is something you don't want to get involved in. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 10:15 PM
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Drop that bitch like a hot potato, buy her a ticket back home to get her gone and make you look like a good guy.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 10:13 PM
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Learning martial arts is valuable in other ways, if you can keep your cool in a fight, which if you are in a real dojo you will spar, then you can keep your cool at all times. There's something that relaxes you about knowing that you can just whoop the fuck out of anyone who starts shit with you, and it makes you less inclined to back down.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 09:57 PM
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Well from what I can see he knows the only one that matters in the business world, English.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 11:57 PM
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The anger phase is strong, it takes people a little bit to come around to this. I go back and forth on some days. Once you stop worrying about women and what they are doing then you've gone past the anger phase. The paradox is what makes life interesting. Embrace it take the knowledge you find useful and carry on. Women are just people too, they just value different things than us.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 10:33 PM
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I could see it working if you used power talk, something like "there's George, I'd prefer we avoid him he can be..... (Pregnant pause) opinionated in his discussions.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 02:11 PM
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I have no need to justify this anymore than I would need to justify 2+2=4.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 02:08 PM
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I mean technically It's only bad if they don't like it right?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:40 PM
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A programmer from a 4 year school would code circles around any of the boot camp people, that much I can assure you.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 10:33 PM
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Don't marry a slut. I married a chaste woman and I did so young. Overall I'm happy with my purchase :P Getting married young was great because we had a chance to conform to each other as we got older. But do be prepared, marriage is a lot of work and represents a huge commitment.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 05:28 PM
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Depends on the project. Honestly it's not hard to just find a site that has a layout you like and then jack the code and change it around a bit especially if they are dumb enough to leave indexing on.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 05:23 PM
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Your Married Market Value. Men will fuck vegans, but most aren't going to want to commit. Just because you are married now doesn't mean it's going to stay that way, your husband, sooner or later, will get tired of having to make sacrifices in what he eats to appease you. He'll get tired of fighting about where to eat when you say "there's nothing I can eat there" The community itself is full of far left libtards who if they had it their way would force their lifestyle on every person there is. M…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 06:23 AM
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I hate to say it, but this is why female judges are important. Female judges can see through women's bullshit far better than most male judges.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 05:46 PM
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Don't be vegan, that shit is retarded and so is the community. You are tanking your MMV by making a "lifestyle" choice that no other man worth his salt would probably commit to. That said, if cruelty is an issue there are ways around that, local farmer's markets tend to not only have some of the best quality milk, eggs, etc. but the livestock generally tends to raised correctly or "happy". Your husband should not have to suffer because of your stupidity. My wife thought she was going vegan, I ma…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 05:30 PM
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Go to goodwill or a similar thrift store, you can find a lot of nice jackets for dirt cheap, It's generally the only place I get mine.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:55 PM
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Dressing yourself WELL will make women want you, dressing yourself WELL will affect the way people treat you, like potential employers. You don't have to rock designer, but you'd be hard pressed to find high quality shit at wally world. Now that said any douche-nozzle who tells you how he paid retail for shit is a fucking moron. If you pay retail for designer shit, you fucked up and went wrong somewhere. I never, ever, even come close to retail price on anything I buy it's always close to 70% of…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:51 PM
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You missed the point, I've never paid more than $20 for a T-shirt. Sometimes I get them as cheap as $5-$6. These brands are more likely to not look shitty and fit well than shirts of equivalent cost at wally world or somewhere else.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:46 PM
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Do not wear a suit to drop by the local 7-11, and don't wear baggy jeans and a "wifebeater" on a yacht or to the golf course. This was of course implied, but the clothes you wear will have an effect on how people treat you regardless. People will show you more respect when you wear a suit.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:43 PM
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This was the point I was trying to drive home to everyone, you can find good shit cheap, no reason to dress like a slob.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:40 PM
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This is why blacks being shitty in the US is a culture issue, not a skin color issue.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:39 PM
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I had to clarify, diesel and abercrombie isn't a big deal but getting them for less than wal-mart prices is nice. It's about the quality for the price.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:38 PM
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Abercrombie itself isn't that cool, but getting abercrombie for $6 a shirt is.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:37 PM
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Wolves don't concern themselves with the opinions of sheep. We have nothing to prove.
/r/AlreadyRed11/09/15 10:39 PM
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Give a woman a gun and she gets a taste of power, women are attracted to power (Fast cars fall into this category). Makes perfect sense.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:20 PM
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I'm not a woman, I didn't ask for your dress size, I don't care what program you are in. I'm not angry. You asked for honesty and I gave it to you. Your post smacks of you thinking you are more valuable than he is and I knocked you down a few pegs. You aren't going to be happy unless you think you are dating/married above your value. Well guess what, you are, now be happy with what you have and stop looking/pining over other men.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 04:40 AM
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You need to be realistic about your MMV(Married Market Value), which as a post-wall overweight single mom who's looking to hop back on the CC is pretty low. when we fight I get really aggressive..and angry now Have you tried not being a bitch? I'll be honest the "Man" you are dating leaves much to be desired, but so do you. The only "Men" that would be dumb enough to actually commit to you will be like this. The Men that make you wet will fuck you, but they will never commit to you. If you came …
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 10:35 PM
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So much anger. Why are you so angry? The rules clearly say not to tone police, and clearly you've labeled and tried to police his tone as "bragging". Honestly I'm happy for OP, he is using sexual strategy to get what he wants. Personally I'm quite content in a monogamous relationship that I've had for 8 years. To each their own. Also god forbid I go around trying to make friends(although that was not my goal here). You should relax man and quit trying to tone police. Even if he was bragging who …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 06:16 PM
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Don't even beat around the bush, make a clean getaway immediately, expect a fake pregnancy scare and GTFO. Just pack up all her shit put it outside and tell her to GTFO.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 05:51 PM
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Quit trying to tone police. Just because you can't keep an LTR doesn't mean the rest of us can't.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 05:48 PM
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First step to any solution is acknowledging the problem. If you've found your way here, and everything you read seems to be good advice rather than common sense, you're beta.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 05:42 PM
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An alpha knows when to be the chief and when to be the Indian. You see a group of men working on something, do you just but in and immediately tell them they are doing it wrong? Or do you say what can I do to help? Kind of a no-brainer. Good post!
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:52 PM
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yes, being 6'3" is going to be a part of the problem. If you are going to be that tall you need to be thin, no two ways about it. A little extra weight is the difference between a model and an amazon woman. That said wear dresses and show off what would have to be a nice set of legs. Make eye contact and smile at men you are interested in. Do not approach a man. That is terrible advice, do you really want to marry someone who doesn't have enough balls to come up and ask you out or talk to you? N…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/15 11:15 PM
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Lifting while you cut is important, it helps you keep your muscle
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 01:47 PM
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Just as high value women are hesitant to have sex with anyone. High value men are hesitant to commit.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/15 01:43 PM
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If a woman asked me for a baby 10mos. in I'd nope the fuck out too. I would probably just assume you are lying and after that child support check. Once bitten, twice shy as they say. A baby is a bigger commitment than you realize. As a woman your genetic imperative to get pregnant is clouding your judgement. Not only are you sick but you want to have a kid. Sounds to me like you're trying to lock down a beta bux. I hope that man runs as fast as he can.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/15 01:37 PM
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The way to a man's heart of through his stomach. This has not changed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/15 01:28 PM
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You don't get it man, you're not in the acceptance phase yet. Can you use a computer to its full potential without understanding how it works? No. The same applies to society. I know it seems disheartening but you'll make it through this phase. Until you understand how things work you cannot reach your full potential
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 03:27 AM
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Avoid with plausible deniability, think "hey babe, I've got an hour after I get back from the gym but before I go to bed. You want to watch a movie?". You are from now on going to be busy for all but two hours a week. Have her over, fuck her, never dtr, and be busy afterwards so she will gtfo. If she gives you trouble soft next her.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 03:21 AM
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I didn't say anywhere that I wasn't. You asked a question and I answered.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 04:52 PM
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In the 1800's yes, today, no. Men and women both should know how to cook and manage money. I would just encourage each into their respective spaces. A woman should be capable of managing a home and man capable of fixing things.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 04:49 PM
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The main topic of TRP is sexual strategy, this ties into it. Living like those skydivers taking risks, that get's women wet. Being just another cog in the machine doesn't. There are two kinds of people in this world, those who can extrapolate information and you.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 04:44 PM
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You're looking at it all wrong brah. Ask yourself this: What did Tesla do everyday? The answer is simple, exactly what he wanted. He didn't find value in money, he found value in progress. Money is not that important, there is a great deal of money out there, practically infinite really. But your time, that is finite, and if you can spend each and every day doing exactly what YOU want to be doing then you are doing it right.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 06:38 PM
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Not surprised to find INxx people all over in here, makes sense as your on a forum researching a topic.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/15 02:48 AM
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Protip: Check that clearance shit online. Got Armani jeans for like 35 bucks once.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 09:09 PM
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Sorry but the kind of men you ladies are after are probably going to like to drive a little faster. Successful men tend to buy faster cars, and as such tend to drive a little faster. How about instead of whining about your guy driving to fast for YOUR liking, you be grateful that you have a man who can afford a sports car? Either you trust his judgement or you don't. Driving slow never gave anyone the tingles.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/15 09:06 PM
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This is where the "Red pill" really becomes a fitting name, especially for the anger phase men on here. What if I told you that you were trapped in a prison, a prison that you cannot touch, taste, or smell. That prison is life before you come to understand abundance mentality. The world is how you perceive it. Alphas don't pretend nothing in the world bothers them, it really just is that nothing in the world bothers them. There is no good or evil, there just is. The same applies to sexual strate…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 07:19 PM
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LTR's are doomed to failure if YOU fuck up. If you get divorce raped it's YOUR fault for not seeing the red flags or vetting more carefully. Take accountability for YOUR shortcomings. In much the same way a CC riding slut gets an std for not being picky about who she fucks, you should be picky about whom you commit to. Marriage right now is not a good deal for men 99% of the time. But there are the 1% out there that may be marriage material. If you don't want an LTR by all means bang away. You'd…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:44 PM
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That was me on my old account. Glad I had such an impact you still remember me a week later ;)
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 05:07 AM
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