TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

The_Music Archive

View 13 posts and 245 comments by The_Music on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Can't argue that one. I've had most of my success through daygame but you do have to wade through a lot of numbers and flakes.
/r/seduction31/10/18 10:13 PM
1

...wut
/r/seduction31/10/18 06:29 PM
–

Incidental approach can have intent, and honestly I think it's easier and more natural as it prevents people from throwing up the defenses they usually do when you cold approach that you have to spend an extra step breaking down
/r/seduction31/10/18 06:08 PM
–

Don't worry about getting a rep. Just do incidental approaches instead of standing in a corner waiting for girls like a creep! Also feel free to build rapport with female friends as practice, just don't take it too far so you don't overcomplicate a friendship.
/r/seduction31/10/18 05:45 PM
1

Yo that was so passive aggressive. Lmfao.
/r/seduction31/10/18 05:42 PM
1

Besides 3, 5 and 11 these are all things completely platonic girls will do most of the time. You really shouldn't be misleading people with this middle-school level pseudoscience. It's damaging to game.
/r/seduction31/10/18 05:24 PM
–

At 16 unless you look way older than you are avoid club game Try college campus game or like a mall.
/r/seduction31/10/18 05:22 PM
1

Send a pic you're probably not actually ugly
/r/seduction31/10/18 05:21 PM
1

Fuck this blogspam. Feet pointing? Really. Quit trying to profit with bullshit advice.
/r/seduction31/10/18 05:20 PM
2

You are obviously incapable of understanding that simple, basic fact.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/18 02:46 PM
1

You are literally grouping an entire race of people They aren't a race. found proof that a couple women did something. More than a couple. What the fuck makes you think ALL of these women CHOSE to be with these guys? You did read the associated articles about this picture right? These are foreign brides. They were not born into this. They migrated from civilized countries to be with their Jihadi pals.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/18 02:36 PM
3

So you are saying that there isn't yet proof that each of them is guilty, and that some of them may not have known what they were getting into (strong majority is not 100%)? Thanks for making my point. Your welcome, but they're still going to die. Glad I could inflate your ego for ya though. Make sure you mail the Brides a letter about this regaling tale of proving your intellectual superiority over an internet stranger.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/18 02:34 PM
1

ISIS is recruiting an army of AK-47-brandishing women from the West who are just as bloodthirsty as the men they are marrying. Calling themselves “lionesses of Allah,” they are thought to now number more than 600, and they’re bearing the next generation of terrorists, whom they call “cubs of the caliphate.” Many of these women are true believers who trust that even with horrific gore and bloodshed, they are helping carry out the holy work of Allah in restoring the ancient Islamic caliphate, and …
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/18 02:13 PM
1

So is cutting people's heads off with butter knives for not believing in the same flavor of desert-fantasy-man. I'll make a moral exception for these people.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/18 01:10 PM
1

Idk, I just feel the end doesn't justify the means. 50 +pics and photoshop? My odds have been universally better just going out and doing day/night game. Then again, I'm short and pretty average looking so I think I just perform way better if you sit me in front of a girl and skip the whole "fuck you if you're not a male model" step.
/r/seduction27/06/17 07:35 PM
2

Good job. Like I always say, I'd rather get rejected and have a rock solid answer rather than remain silent and spend my days wondering what could have been. Additionally, remember seduction is like being an actor. You can be a great actor but if you're a tall black guy auditioning for the role of a short Asian kid all the talent in the world won't help you.
/r/seduction03/06/17 03:45 PM
4

These idiots are not trying to start the 2nd Revolution properly
/r/PussyPassDenied03/05/17 05:19 PM
1

I don't think that's a thing anymore.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/17 06:00 PM
1

Try going out with the soul purpose of failure. Don' try to get numbers. Just approach and do the most ridiculous PUA tactics youve heard of, the goal being to time the interactions and see how long it takes you to get shut down.
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:32 PM
3

Good Job!
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:27 PM
1

Join a club of people doing Interesting things.
/r/seduction10/02/17 01:00 AM
1

Functioning open relationship here: it's possible to do it with all parties happy.
/r/seduction14/01/17 02:21 AM
1

Find some of us to go out with you. It's how I busted out. Where you at bru
/r/seduction14/01/17 02:19 AM
38

Went out with a couple doods I met here on /r/seduction. We decided to go walk the campus and practice daygame by approaching. Was getting shot down left and right. Managed to get a number or two. Then I saw this one girl in what appeared to be a sorority t-shirt (it had greek shit on it). My buddy Pat said he had a thing for sorority chicks. We tried to get him to approach but he got cold feet, no shame. So I said "With your permission, I'm going to go get her number, and reap the rewards of th…
/r/seduction13/01/17 02:23 AM
1

This was a big one for me. My less inclined friends would ask me for pointers or compliment me on: Not caring what people think. Being my own person for me. Being brutally honest. Like I don't care if they dont like my take on things that it just is.
/r/seduction07/12/16 08:01 PM
1

You won't care about seduction anymore.
/r/seduction07/12/16 07:59 PM
1

Negs work great on shy, younger girls. Confident girls tend to deflect them.
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:55 AM
1

oooo such class man, dont forget where you are.
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:55 AM
8

Just switch out your pics for a rando instagram male model for two days or so. Youll see the girls get hotter reaaaaal fast.
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:52 AM
10

Change your spot often or else you'll look like a salesman. And don't ask that question. You'll sound like a salesman. Ask people for the time. Ask where certain stores are. Etc. Segue those questions into conversation. Comment on something their wearing, express interest. Be interesting. Since this is an exercise, maybe wear something absurd so that if you're boring your counterpart won't feel like they're reaching for straws in conversation. People naturally do what's easy, so make conversatio…
/r/seduction28/11/16 02:46 PM
3

Start small. My build up was always Hi fives. Thumb wars. Incidental touching on waist. If you're showing her something dont tap her shoulder, lightly touch her waist. Hugs, hand on small of back. Unless shes actively avoiding these then procees with more. Most Important factor is doing this FROM THE START. If you get nervous and don't kino from the start it'll appear suddenly and be uncomfortable/forced. Also kino guys too. Easiest way to internalize it is by doing it to your dude friends.
/r/seduction28/11/16 03:06 AM
21

You're in it
/r/PussyPassDenied20/11/16 06:14 PM
3

The number of times I've bit the bullet on "the hot girl" they almost always end up being vapid and devoid of any interesting traits. Sucks but I guess if you're just one and done-ing it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction16/11/16 09:34 PM
4

Glad you're committed. However I'd caution you to remember the 2 second rule: When you see a girl you fancy, you have two seconds to approach her or else you never will. Adhere yourself to this rule. See the most beautiful girl all day, and if you take more than a few seconds and second guess yourself then don't approach. Chalk it up as a lesson and find someone else. It'll teach you discipline and keep you from looking like a creep.
/r/seduction03/10/16 07:38 PM
2

IME I've found a couple basic body language factors matter INSANELY. what you do with your mouth, hands and eyes. Smile. Keep eye above the horizon line when walking about. Look her in the eyes, do triangular gazing, and talk with your hands. Don't fucking wring your hands, don't touch your hair, or your face and don't look down or away while talking to her unless it's situationally relevant.
/r/seduction03/10/16 07:35 PM
2

This is the only answer
/r/seduction03/10/16 07:31 PM
1

What every BODY is saying It's a must read.
/r/seduction26/09/16 09:48 PM
1

Then call her. Texting sucks
/r/seduction26/09/16 05:12 PM
1

There's bits that have worked for me, but nothing over the top. I'd have to dig up my book. http://nlp-now.co.uk/nlp-eye-movement-clues/ This bit on eye movement helped me loads. With inner game and outer. Using somebody's eyes is an excellent way of gauging interest in the conversation. Additionally watching your own eyes can show when you're fucking up. I draw a subconscious eye-horizon-line. Basically your eyes should generally trend above the horizon. You are wild and free, unlimited. You lo…
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:07 PM
1

Basically this. That should always be step one. If your intent is anything but fucking each others brains out, then you are doing in wrong.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:06 PM
0

Yeah you gotta imagine, she runs game just like you. You expect to be talking to more than one girl at a time, and you should expect her too as well. Just brush it off. Say "Is he sexier than me? ;)" Also you're breaking the cardinal rule, you should texting as little as humanly possible.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:00 PM
1

Have you tried saying to her, "Let me teach you how to do this"? She doesnt want to learn ive tried lol
/r/PussyPassDenied18/09/16 03:29 PM
7

I cook her food only if I'm already making some for myself. And the toilet I had no choice. Her bathroom is the guest bath and if I didn't do it she never would.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/09/16 01:48 AM
22

Not a house unfortunately. We moved from a studio to a bigger apartment to accommodate. The parents help pay her rent, and we wanted a bigger place anyway.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/09/16 01:48 AM
357

Fucking entitlement. My SOs sister lives with us and is 18. Asks me to cook, asks me to check her cars fluids, she even asked me to plunge her goddamn toilet. Best part is she totes feminist BS all the time. If you wanna be equal then learn to do the shit men do.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/09/16 11:27 PM
1

+1 here. Id be interested critiquing your vids as well OP.
/r/seduction29/08/16 07:29 PM
1

Go read the escalation ladder
/r/seduction29/08/16 07:26 PM
0

PM me maybe I can help.
/r/seduction29/08/16 07:04 PM
1

I don't like to but my usual crew always has a conflicting schedule. I do so much better when they have my back, but I've succeeded alone too.
/r/seduction19/04/16 11:48 PM
2

Read up, start approaching. Game is like muscle, you can't expect to hop back to it at 100%. You gotta rebuild it a bit.
/r/seduction30/03/16 02:27 AM
2

Read up on vin de Carlo's escalation ladder. It's a very logical progression of touching in a situation of mutual attraction. Kino is short for Kinesthetics which is using touch to attain a certain goal.
/r/seduction30/03/16 12:14 AM
9

Who cares. The only time that ever backfired was I got spotted by a co-worker on Tinder and she told everybody that I was cheating on my GF, and so they all got mad at me. Then my GF and I went home and laughed because we're in an open relationship. Obviously that's a special situation so if somebody spots you who gives a damn.
/r/seduction30/03/16 12:10 AM
1

**guys be serious. Long sedditor here, this is a fucking first in my three years of seduction. I'm a professional photographer if it helps.
/r/seduction25/03/16 04:49 PM
3

We better go behead her before she shows an ankle or something.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/16 04:45 PM
1

I haven't read the comments here, but just based on your title I want to relay something to you: Read up on AMOGing and how to combat it. At any male-heavy college event it's incredibly likely that you'll be running into guys who may or may not have way better game than you, trying to steal your date out from under you. If you don't have a solid understanding of how to combat this sort of thing, they can and will snag your date away from you.
/r/seduction09/11/15 05:45 PM
2

This right here A+. There should never be talk of labels, and whatever you have should never be called a relationship. That word alone gets your emotional gears in motion, and your brain will start making connections you don't really want to make.
/r/seduction09/11/15 05:43 PM
1

Honestly, I feel this is one of those "not a good idea" FWB situations. IMO the best fwbs aren't really friends. Talking ought to be minimal outside of when you're actually together (you mentioned texting every day). It really limits opportunities for emotional investment to arise when texting / calling is constrained to scheduling meet-ups. All of my long-term fwbs have always been of that nature. The ones who I talked frequently with, or was good friends with before, either ended up as girlfri…
/r/seduction09/11/15 05:40 PM
2

It makes it harder for you to know if she is attracted to you. Always Assume Attraction doe. Unless you're getting "fuck off" responses, you shouldn't waste brain power wondering if she is attracted.
/r/seduction09/11/15 05:35 PM
108

You should never approach any activity with the expectation that it will make you happy. It sets you up for failure and feelings of unfulfillment.
/r/seduction04/11/15 03:44 PM
1

You could. IMO A&A only works so much before a girl catches on to the method though. If it's a girl you just met yeah it'd work.
/r/seduction02/11/15 11:06 PM
1

I'm 5'5 and 21 and do well for myself. I'm not muscular at all, but I do run to control my weight. Currently I'm in an open relationship of two years with my girlfriend whom I love andnlive with, am sleeping with am 18 year old girl on the side, and I have a Tinder date tonight. Anything is possible with the right knowledge and determination. I've been practicing pickup on and off since I was 17.
/r/seduction02/11/15 04:27 PM
6

When I get called a player I just say "its 2015, there's nothing wrong about having sexual desire."
/r/seduction02/11/15 04:24 PM
12

The more I go out with the thought "I will approach today", the more outcome dependant I become. I'm learning that good approaches cone from feeling good, having a good time and letting opportunities come to you, and making sure you don't pass them up. I should be fishing, not hunting. Cast my line and see what happens, but fight like hell once I get a bite. Not chasing the prey.
/r/seduction30/10/15 04:35 PM
0

Incidentals are things like brushing her arm while walking, etc. Or dumb stuff like high fives, fist bumps, pushing her lightly on the shoulder when she says something dumb or mean. One of the best ones for this is, say she says something like: "Oh yeah I love grilled spinach." You'd laugh and say "Oh my god, that's disgusting. This is never going to work between us." And gently push her full arms length from you. If things are going well, she should slowly replace herself at your side (assuming…
/r/seduction25/10/15 05:49 AM
0

Will respond shortly, am being pulled over lol
/r/seduction25/10/15 02:40 AM
2

More quiet intense seduction. Lots of incidental kino, don't ramp it up until she reciprocates. With a more reserved girl, the seduction is in your words, not your body. Be forward in speaking. "I think you're cute." "Do that again, it was adorable." "Come with me, we're doing this." Loads of push / pull, very mild negs if at all.
/r/seduction25/10/15 12:05 AM
8

Most important thing I've been finding lately, and having the most trouble with is outcome independence. For those of you who really want to get laid or get a number whatever, it'll be very hard because your mood is outcome dependent. If you fail you feel bad. We've gotta break that! Great post man, loved this FR.
/r/seduction22/10/15 06:43 PM
1

I'd be be willing to moderate in that fashion. My only ability could be deleting posts.
/r/seduction22/10/15 06:38 PM
1

Who cares. Uglier men than you get laid. AAA Always Assume Attraction.
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:47 PM
1

Just doing it honestly. There's no magic trick. You either suck it up and approach or you don't.
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:46 PM
1

Haven't watched it yet, but he general rule is that you wouldn't ask a deer how to hunt it.
/r/seduction12/10/15 03:16 PM
1

Ugh don't be that guy. You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the enemy.
/r/seduction12/10/15 12:41 AM
1

Just cut off and move on
/r/seduction07/10/15 03:38 PM
3

Girls are gonna be much more apprehensive on the internet than IRL.
/r/seduction07/10/15 12:52 PM
1

Just keep exercising, and remember that looks aren't everything, they just help.
/r/seduction06/10/15 09:36 PM
0

Keep practising bud
/r/seduction05/10/15 04:55 PM
5

I ate her boobs
/r/seduction03/10/15 06:16 PM
0

You weren't clear enough about your intent
/r/seduction03/10/15 06:14 PM
1

Sup
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:19 PM
1

I'm here too. Let's get together.
/r/seduction01/10/15 11:05 AM
2

I am a sleazy horndog, and I believe in you. You can do the thing.
/r/seduction01/10/15 01:38 AM
1

Florida
/r/seduction01/10/15 01:37 AM
2

This is where the three second rule comes in. For the uninitiated, the three second rule is the three seconds you have from when you see a girl to when you approach her. If you don't then you lose. This isn't just to help with AA, its also because the longer you wait to approach, the higher the chance she will notice you hovering and immediately dismiss you. After that nothing you say is likely to work.
/r/seduction30/09/15 03:30 PM
3

no condom coworker Brb I need popcorn.
/r/seduction30/09/15 03:17 PM
1

No go.
/r/seduction30/09/15 02:41 PM
3

For anyone reading, do keep in mind that asking a girl for her number at work generally isn't a good idea. It can make a lot of girls feel trapped because, depending on where she works, she can't walk away from you.
/r/seduction28/09/15 05:50 PM
4

Abundance mentality, she didn't respond once; let it go. Anything after this will seem try-hard.
/r/seduction28/09/15 05:46 PM
1

When the two are not mutually exclusive. There's no reason not to Tinder on the side while meeting girls in real life. You're right, I shouldn't compare them so much, as it's apples to oranges. I just noticed that with a lack of matches after a day or two, I caught myself feeling bad for a minute before realizing it may be toxic for some folks' inner-game to get bad results from Tinder.
/r/seduction28/09/15 04:02 AM
1

When I say game I mean inner game here. People to seduction may think to start online before trying actual approaches, and my fear is that tools like Tinder may dissuade them from it.
/r/seduction28/09/15 04:00 AM
1

Thanks for contributing bud.
/r/seduction28/09/15 02:30 AM
3

You can say that a little, but spending a while days swipes with 0 reciprocation can smash anybody's game.
/r/seduction27/09/15 10:10 PM
2

That's partly my point. Tinder for most guys is going to be a feedback loop of negativity. It's far more worthwhile to motivate yourself into actually going out and making some progress. The whole point of seduction is self-improvement via sexual and social experiences.
/r/seduction27/09/15 07:32 PM
3

This is the dumbest shit I've ever read. Folks, do not follow this advice.
/r/seduction27/09/15 03:24 PM
1

Read the sidebar
/r/seduction25/09/15 12:37 AM
1

May as well lock the thread as this is the only answer. Sorry bud but if you've been here a year you ought to know that without approaches you won't get anywhere.
/r/seduction25/09/15 12:28 AM
1

Manson's "Models" has a chapter covering this exact thing.
/r/seduction25/09/15 12:21 AM
1

Check out the sidebar
/r/seduction23/09/15 03:28 PM
1

Sidebar
/r/seduction23/09/15 03:23 PM
1

Sidebar
/r/seduction23/09/15 03:22 PM
1

I see what you mean, we are in agreement. As far as smaller communities I'm not sure. The issue with /r/seduction is that the only real reason to post is an FR or to ask questions. So by default you have a majority of threads being inquisitive beginners, and novices more prone to having said chips on shoulders. Id look for a live chatroom of sorts where constant discussion is encouraged.
/r/seduction22/09/15 08:59 PM
2

If you want to be in this all the way you need to understand that super-douchey is a misnomer. It's like the pre-seddit mentality of "nice guys versus jerks"
/r/seduction22/09/15 02:22 PM
1

Abundance mentality. 7,000,000,000 humans around man, don't get caught up. She's not the special one til you've been together for long enough.
/r/seduction22/09/15 02:14 PM
2

Like any method, your mileage may vary. The important part isn't the squeeze test. These tests are only as effective as your ability to identify behaviors and moods. But a common trope in attraction is mimicry. Often if a girl is attracted to you she will copy your movements slightly. You glance at your phone, she glances at hers. You say something dumb she shoots it back at you. You squeeze her hand and she squeezes back. These are supposed to be used in tandem with push pull however, as the sq…
/r/seduction22/09/15 02:10 PM
2

Unfortunately we don't have enough people posting good material to stomp out the spam. Even with 0 pointsany posts stay near the top.
/r/seduction22/09/15 12:48 PM
1

IRC would be what you're looking for. No need for Reddit when IRC is plenty secure enough.
/r/seduction21/09/15 09:50 PM
2

/r/shittyaskseddit Please join us in room 203 for How to Be Labeled a Pedophile in Your Stomping Grounds 101.
/r/seduction21/09/15 05:13 PM
5

Walgreen's and also the "How to make her stay" was a good read. Don't give up because of Reddit haters!
/r/seduction17/09/15 08:49 PM
6

Lol, the stories you email out are a fun pick-me-up when I get them while infield.
/r/seduction17/09/15 08:21 PM
6

Liking these guys so far. Got their e-book and started reading yesterday.
/r/seduction17/09/15 08:05 PM
1

Started when I was 17 (21 now). Had just converted to agnosticism after years of hardcore Christianity. I was ready to lose my virginity day 1 (had a real rough falling out with the church). Found this place and started practicing. Can't daygame much in highschool with no car but I quickly found out that several attractive female friends had interest in me, but I was never confident enough to explore those feelings. Lost my virginity by my 18th birthday, slept with a hot ex-girlfriend and one mo…
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:57 AM
10

Good job on the eye-fucking, that usually takes people longer to master. Carebto share a pic of yourself for analytic reasons? Take note folks, this guy is the epitome of inner game.
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:20 PM
1

Don't wait for an opportunity. You ARE the opportunity. Look up RSD Max on YouTube, he literally walks up to girls who are on the phone, makes them hang up and can kiss close them.
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:01 PM
1

anything you pay for is the same as what you get for free. But nothing will be as valuable as what you learn yourself infield.
/r/seduction12/09/15 09:56 PM
11

Basically just don't machine gun your words out. And keep your tone low. The faster you talk typically the higher pitched your voice is and the less masculine it sounds. Don't talk like a mentally deficient person, but make your sentences and cadence calm and deliberate.
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:51 PM
1

This this this. Practicing seduction will just make you a better talker in general. It'll help you in work and life. Most people don't realize that half the seduction techniques we practice on girls can also apply to guys as well. And not just for seducing but for business relations, etc.
/r/seduction11/09/15 06:53 PM
1

Videography, guitar, singing, running and exercise, gaming, drinking.
/r/seduction10/09/15 03:12 AM
1

So far I just don't tell them, and figure if it comes up I'll be honest. If it's not for them they aren't the girl I'm looking for. I just open as usual. Because honestly, it's not gonna come up until you're past that first day (unless you're trying to f-close right off the bat)
/r/seduction10/09/15 01:41 AM
0

Practice the basics taught here and always be testing it in public. I had zero girl skills after abandoning religion at 16. I started reading practicing what was taught here on /r/seduction and I lost my virginity on my 17th birthday as a result of what I learned here.
/r/seduction15/07/15 03:38 PM
2

Just do it in person
/r/seduction31/03/15 03:59 PM
1

at 3:53 he quotes Anikan from Star Wars II.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 01:42 AM
1

Goddamn, that was some textbook work. That skip from number to isolation to make out was quick.
/r/seduction01/10/13 10:27 AM
1

Obviously my comment is not end all be all. But I've seen many /r/askwomen threads where the women were giving horrific advice on how to best seduce them.
/r/seduction15/09/13 04:29 PM
14

Don't ask the deer for advice on how to shoot it.
/r/seduction15/09/13 02:17 PM
1

Just keep getting out there. Practice all the way.
/r/seduction14/09/13 05:56 PM
2

Many of my friends behave this way, and it irritates me to no end. I want to see them succeed and do fun things, instead of wasting the good years wishing for excitement instead of seeking it out.
/r/seduction12/09/13 04:44 PM
4

It's a good read. But there isn't much skill-wise to glean from it. It's more of a tale of how being bold can lead to success and interest, rather than seduction. Strauss can carry a story.
/r/seduction12/09/13 04:25 PM
10

Pretty much the epitome of Seduction as a skill: If you're a wimp, a coward, a pussy; you will not succeed with seduction. This is a skill that does not allow for fear and anxiety. Learn to suck it up. Sorry if it sounds harsh.
/r/seduction12/09/13 04:22 PM
2

But it doesn't do that. It smells of rejection and intimidation. By saying that, you have just lost control of the situation. You are no longer holding the good hand. Don't dig a deeper hole. Have you ever heard of abundance mentality? That's where this comes in. "Good try but you didn't get the girl this time. Good thing there are 4,000,000,000 others in the world.
/r/seduction06/09/13 02:04 PM
1

It's okay brother...I miss the old ways of Seddit as well.
/r/seduction06/09/13 02:03 PM
1

Pretty much yes. Being successful with women means being a go-getter. You have to make the moves, and you have to put yourself out there. If you won't, well barring meeting a 1-in-a-million girl who will do all the work for you, you'll end up alone.
/r/seduction03/09/13 08:59 PM
1

Too bad I'm in the Southwest of FL. Love to do some sarging.
/r/seduction03/09/13 08:57 PM
1

I feel that all of this stuff is just useless words unless I see him doing it in the field.
/r/seduction24/08/13 04:48 PM
3

Everybody has lows and highs. Start working out harder, drink less caffeine/booze, have some good ole-fashioned clothes-on fun. Quit thinking about sex and you'll like it again soon. Also, you have options, if you aren't feelin' it, don't fuck them.
/r/seduction21/08/13 07:28 AM
2

I had this problem recently. I just waited for her to leave and tried to follow or make sure she would run into me on the way back... sounds really creepy That's because it is. Why not just approach?
/r/seduction18/08/13 07:04 PM
2

I agree with the latter. This sub is a shell of what it used to be. Now a days it's full of non-believers and trolls, posting fake FRs.
/r/seduction15/08/13 03:42 AM
2

Thumb war got me laid once, no lie.
/r/seduction14/08/13 04:44 AM
3

Not true. I have a nice face, but I'm skinny and short. I'm not desperate or anything, but I wouldn't do without game.
/r/seduction10/08/13 07:32 PM
-1

I was trying^to^be^subtle^e^e^e^e
/r/seduction09/08/13 05:06 PM
7

You gotta buy this sick ass pheremone cologne. It's called Sex Panther. 60% percent of the time, it works.
/r/seduction09/08/13 02:56 PM
8

You're being way too insecure about it.
/r/seduction29/07/13 06:30 AM
3

No I wasn't implying you were a rapist or anything lol. I meant, for new people it may be hard to make the distinction between Kino and unwarranted touching. Kino is kind of all encompassing term for observing your mark and gauging her reaction to the contact as it's happening, and then escalating from there. Someone who isn't used to the hoops we jump through could read that and think "So I just touch her a lot and she likes me?" It sounds far fetched but I've seen worse train-wrecks happen bec…
/r/seduction27/07/13 05:46 PM
6

...lol?...
/r/seduction27/07/13 04:21 PM
2

I'm a frequenter here, have been for nearly two years now, but To further emphasize the power of touch, think about it this way... A woman can get sexually turned on from any man if they are touching her in the right places. For men this is not quite true, men get sexually aroused by 'visual aesthetics'. Women are turned on by touch. For instance, if an ugly man is laying in the bed with a hot woman, if she allows him to play with her clitoris she will get turned on and want his dick. The more s…
/r/seduction27/07/13 04:05 PM
1

Good, just keep it up. Even when you do apply your knowledge, nobody likes to admit it but seduction can be a numbers game sometimes. Even the best of the best only win 60-70% of the time. And that's after years of practice.
/r/seduction24/07/13 07:16 PM
1

Well awesome, you're one of the assholes degrading this subreddit. Would you like a cake? As a poster of several REAL frs, again I ask, why the fuck are you here?
/r/seduction24/07/13 07:03 PM
1

Denial. Reading through your post history, you are one of the most negative people I have seen. What do you come here for? To be in denial of why you aren't good with women? Why none of them meet your standards? Suck it up and start learning, and trying this shit, because it's pretty evident you are not. This is one of the few communities that will hold your hand through this shit to the very end, but at the end you have to just go for it. If you don't you are stuck as an unsuccessful whiner lik…
/r/seduction24/07/13 06:39 PM
1

Say 'Mole' one more fucking time I dare you professor.
/r/seduction24/07/13 06:37 PM
1

babysteps. Seduction is a language. It really is. You learn it slowly, but the more you know the more confident you become using it. You can learn to read a language sure (i.e. read Seddit, memorize routines/openers/techniques), but speaking it is an entirely separate challenge (i.e. actually using your new knowledge in real life scenarios) If you don't practice your new language skills frequently, you can lose it. You'll step outside one day, still remembering all of the shit you know, but it j…
/r/seduction24/07/13 06:35 PM
2

No probs man. Best of luck to you.
/r/seduction24/07/13 06:29 PM
5

We were hanging out but she had to leave early because it was her friend's birthday This is totally reasonable. If it was a friend's birthday I would go to that too. said something like "same time tomorrow? unless you're busy then forget about it." This is also reasonable. So far so good. I'd have left out 'unless you're busy', because that gives her an 'out' and she is more likely to say no. but to be fair if she wants to cancel at that point, all hope was probably lost anyway. I was peeved tha…
/r/seduction24/07/13 06:17 PM
5

How bad of a fuck up was it that she unfriended you on fb?
/r/seduction24/07/13 05:47 PM
0

Nothing groundbreaking for /r/seduction, but this is a wonderful article for those putting their feelers out here in our area.
/r/seduction19/07/13 08:07 PM
4

No shit doesn't. Do not shit where you eat. Bad idea. There are 3,000,000,000 other girls.
/r/seduction12/07/13 04:50 AM
10

Mind you this applies if you are actively engaging her in conversation. Just because she's sitting near you with crossed legs doesn't mean she wants it.
/r/seduction12/07/13 04:49 AM
6

Do you people know what subreddit you're in? You don't need to be attractive to be good with women.
/r/seduction02/07/13 08:12 PM
3

Cant she just see by herself if you are a good guy? i wouldnt want to date this kind of girl. If you haven't noticed, we advocate against this kind of behavior. You don't give up that easy. Also being a 'good guy' does not cut it. I can meet a 'good girl' who likes me and I will shut it down if I'm not attracted to her somehow. why do you always have to prove you are worth something? Because that's the way the world works. i wouldnt want to date this kind of girl. Then just fuck her? Or, find so…
/r/seduction15/06/13 08:16 PM
1

Unless they're clinically depressed, they need to suck it up and start putting in the effort. This is a place to solve your troubles with women, not circle-jerk about it.
/r/seduction04/06/13 04:06 PM
15

Shouldn't men be happy to know that this is something you can improve and change? Lol, no. For them this means instead of wallowing in sorrow because of bad genetics or some other unchangeable fact of life, they now have another thing which they are failing at, and could change if they really wanted to, but aren't.
/r/seduction03/06/13 03:22 PM
3

I'm a college freshmen, and it still seems to work, so have at it.
/r/seduction06/05/13 05:21 PM
6

That's my minor!
/r/seduction06/05/13 05:02 AM
9

Fake it til you make it?
/r/seduction06/05/13 04:10 AM
10

Jokes on you, I finished finals last week.
/r/seduction06/05/13 04:04 AM
14

My go-to move for Kino: Thumb war, bitches. Is the conversation dwindling? Thumb-war. Need to Kino? C'mon man, thumb-war! Lacking eye-contact?! THUMB-WAR WITHOUT BREAKING EYE CONTACT!!! Seriously though.
/r/seduction06/05/13 03:57 AM
17

I think the whole checking thing is BS. All of that sounded completely needy.
/r/seduction10/03/13 05:56 PM
5

Lol we're on /r/cringe.
/r/seduction05/01/13 07:16 PM
0

Well...there's this thing called honesty. She's not gonna dump you for being inexperienced. She'll be even more pissed if she takes your virginity and you don't tell her.
/r/seduction25/12/12 12:45 AM
1

Oh god, I can't see anybody pulling that off not-creepily except Tyler. You could just see the pure-instinct reaction to punch him in the face rising up.
/r/seduction24/12/12 06:33 PM
3

Being funny is wonderfully helpful. As a short, average looking, skinny/not-muscly white guy, being funny gets me half-way there. Girls find attractive guys hot. But they also find clever guys hot. If you can make a girl laugh, you can probably at least get her on a date. And I mean LAUGH, not snicker because you did something childish or goofy. What 'themoor' said sums it up perfectly. Tease a girl. Act like she is chasing you, and she will start to. You don't even have to do a lot. Only when y…
/r/seduction24/12/12 06:24 PM
1

In my opinion shy girls are the easiest to read. They generally aren't aware of the nuances in their behavior, and so they come our more clearly/less "covered up".
/r/seduction22/12/12 06:07 AM
5

Worst thing I ever got from escalating: "Sorry, I only fuck black guys."
/r/seduction19/12/12 10:43 PM
2

Porn addiction is the only thing I took away from my time as a Christian a few years back. Never thought it was an actual thing til I realized I had it.
/r/seduction10/12/12 01:48 AM
1

Read this as a plan for the future. Girls kinda work differently when you're 15. Having confidence will get you very far, but girls are much more superficial in early high school.
/r/seduction10/12/12 01:46 AM
2

No that will not work. Unless you are like an 8/10 or higher then most girls will say no if you ask them out out of nowhere. Don't try to find an easy way into this, go head first. Learn the escalation ladder, learn about conversation threading and make this a skill. You didn't win your favorite game by opening the debug console and typing "Can I win now?"
/r/seduction10/12/12 01:42 AM
6

Also keep in mind the 3/5 second rule. When you see a girl you think is hot/cute, you have about 3 seconds to approach before you go into AFC mode and make some excuse as to why you can't do it. Commonly called "Pussying out."
/r/seduction08/12/12 04:29 AM
6

Still. We get a lot of posts here that clearly need to be in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction06/12/12 03:23 PM
2

I dont get those
/r/seduction01/12/12 09:11 AM
1

I hate that. I message somebody and it says they saw it, and then they don't answer. It just makes an elephant in the chat window any time you message them next.
/r/seduction01/12/12 03:03 AM
3

As somebody who did this exact job over Uni holidays: it does help, but if you don't keep yourself on your toes (Start/keep approaching), that boldness will slip away. Being bold is like a fire. You can start it, and it'll get super hot and you'll love the warmth, but you can't expect the fire to just burn forever without needing fuel. If you don't keep stoking it, it'll fizzle out, and you're right back at square one: In the cold with no fire.
/r/seduction01/12/12 12:12 AM
1

Yeah the kid with the beanie was incredibly average looking. And the other guy's hair looked like a solar eclipse.
/r/seduction30/11/12 06:16 PM
82

Thumb wars. Thumb wars in the car, thumb wars in the park, thumb wars in the movie theatre, thumb wars in bed. Rapport building and kino all in one. Edit: Wow seddit, downvotes? I am not joking, and this has always worked for me. The only way something on Seddit is right is if it works. Edit 2: I originally had like -3 points, but it's cool now.
/r/seduction27/11/12 11:06 PM
3

Not at all. Being funny comes naturally. A good friend told me "You're always funniest when you aren't trying to be". Just don't be try-hard. People can see it.
/r/seduction27/11/12 12:04 AM
1

Ditch it. Nobody who flakes that much deserves your company buddy. It's just plain rude. Also you totally should have kissed you. A person will understand that your breath does not always stink of weed. Next time say fuck it.
/r/seduction26/11/12 10:46 PM
2

My only concern: I wanna see ALL the failures and ALL the successes. Many videos make it seem way to easy by showing only success.
/r/seduction14/11/12 09:07 AM
3

Average Joe* You don't have to be fabio to pull this stuff off.
/r/seduction10/11/12 12:05 AM
1

The moment im out of college and have payed my debts, this is what I wholeheartedly wish to do.
/r/seduction09/11/12 02:44 AM
2

I stand corrected!
/r/seduction06/11/12 12:11 AM
5

In america, if you're accent isn't northern (Canadian), every girl loves it.
/r/seduction05/11/12 08:50 PM
4

Do watch this one. Much better example.
/r/seduction05/11/12 08:37 AM
7

There is no magic thought to make you stop being insecure and pussy out. You just deal with it. Push the thought down and keep approaching getting better.
/r/seduction01/11/12 06:41 AM
11

8/10 times flakes flake just to flake in my experience.
/r/seduction01/11/12 06:32 AM
4

I loved this line: Sarah: "9.9" Kassem "9.9? You know anything over a nine means I get to lean over and kiss you right now, right?" He totally could have pulled that off, but for his show's sake, ventured off into butthole eating.
/r/seduction17/10/12 06:46 PM
1

I know what you're talking about, and I'm trying to find it. Hang on... *Edit: This is proving harder than I thought. Perhaps it was deleted? *Edit 2: Deleted.
/r/seduction10/10/12 08:51 AM
1

Still counts.
/r/seduction06/10/12 04:12 AM
1

K-Closes in 30 minutes, and he stutters plenty due to his shaky english.
/r/seduction05/10/12 08:40 AM
7

...Do you mean NLP?
/r/seduction04/10/12 03:30 AM
2

Always here to help
/r/seduction30/09/12 01:37 AM
2

You need to be talking to them in a way that makes them interested in you. Not every girl, because it is okay to have girls who are just friends. But the goal is that you want to have options, romantic and sexual. This is so you don't get hung up on one girl you aren't even with. "Don't put the pussy on the pedestal." Seeing as how you're a beginner here, I would avoid text game. PM me if you want more advice.
/r/seduction30/09/12 12:51 AM
2

You need to start talking to tons of girls though, don't put any one on a pedestal. Options, options, options. Repeating for importance.
/r/seduction30/09/12 12:41 AM
1

Watch his body language, specifically.
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:14 AM
4

Read "What Every BODY Is Saying." Great book on reading body language.
/r/seduction25/09/12 04:50 PM
3

It also helps when I wear sex panther.
/r/seduction24/09/12 06:31 PM
6

Fake it til you make it. Works every time.
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:43 AM
5

I'm 5'4 and have had no issue attracting women. Get out of here with that bullshit.
/r/seduction22/09/12 05:54 PM
3

Belongs in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction20/09/12 03:55 AM
1

Case in point.
/r/seduction18/09/12 10:16 PM
5

In Europe, it's Air Hostess, just like how over there, trucks are 'lorries'. Dat Vernacular.
/r/seduction18/09/12 10:07 PM
2

I absolutely love field reports like this, ill be back when I'm not in class to say more. Edit: For one, thank you for making a coherent and comprehensive field report. The only change I myself would have made is that I'd have gone for the number, or given yours.
/r/seduction18/09/12 07:44 PM
1

Then you know what to do! Don't be shy, get out there!
/r/seduction17/09/12 09:23 PM
-6

First, this goes in /r/askseddit. Second, it's up to you. You could shrug it off, or you can be playful about it.
/r/seduction17/09/12 06:34 PM
1

Valid point.
/r/seduction17/09/12 04:30 PM
1

I can't think right now, but go watch one of Sasha Daygame's videos, he always starts with a variation of this statement. Or you could go for an opinion opener. "Hey my friend and I could never settle this [Insert two opinions for her to choose here]". It's just an ice breaker. The "you're cute" is better because it doubles as a statement of intentions though.
/r/seduction17/09/12 04:30 PM
0

Sometimes I feel like the only one who isn't here to get laid...
/r/seduction16/09/12 11:01 PM
16

"Hi, you're really cute and I'd be kicking myself all day if I didn't come say hi to you" That sounds perfectly fine. Also, if you want a good solid IOI, don't introduce yourself ever. Wait til she asks your name. It's a solid sign she is content talking to you. If you're losing her, she generally won't ask, and will try to eject frequently.
/r/seduction16/09/12 10:55 PM
1

Hey, whatever works. If you read "The Game", Style started out by taking literal notes from Mystery, and even audio recording his approaches for later study.
/r/seduction14/09/12 05:39 AM
1

I'm a musician, hence the username...I'm an amateur astronomer. I fucking love cute animals. BTW, does talking about animals show a too sensitive side. (Is that alpha or no?) I never overdo it but people can tell I like animals/ love my dog. If you have to ask yourself if something is 'alpha' you're doing it wrong. And no, girls love it when guys call things cute or adorable. It matters not what you say, but how you say it.
/r/seduction14/09/12 05:35 AM
2

Roll with it. "Yes, I am. and you're enjoying it(.)(?)"
/r/seduction12/09/12 02:33 AM
1

Thank you, very much!
/r/seduction09/09/12 04:55 PM
2

I don't personally like routines, as they feel artificial to me, but some games I always play to build rapport are: When I introduce myself, I say my first name, but I tell them "You have to guess my last name or else I won't talk to you." I have an uncommon last name, so I always end it with a bit of kino and a "I kinda like you so I think I'll stick around anyway." Or as a 'push' "You'll have to try harder if you want to keep me around!" Thumb wars. Greatest thing ever for when conversation dw…
/r/seduction03/09/12 06:22 AM
1

I'm no expert, but after I reading this thread, I have concluded: You are not bad looking, and are by no means unattractive physically. Mentally, that is another story. Before you can expect others to like/love you, you have to learn to love yourself. It doesn't matter how well you hide anything, if you are uncomfortable in your own skin, others will pick up on that, and they will not like it unless they make you a target for manipulation. Both of those are bad. I used to be in the same boat, bu…
/r/seduction03/09/12 06:13 AM
2

I agree with this.
/r/seduction03/09/12 05:56 AM
1

Not sure I agree. At one point, a girl even asks "Do you do this a lot (Chat up girls)?", and he says yes. Obviously you shouldn't attempt Day Game in one area all the time. I'm in college, and of course people would think it creepy if I stalked our Cafe on campus for girls every day. That's weird, even if it does work. My main point was that you don't have to be a gorgeous man to be good and successful with women. Also, to that one downvote I got, I simply say "Reddiiquette." I feel certain my …
/r/seduction03/09/12 05:35 AM
3

I've seen this video so many times, but just noticed something. Watch the dude to the right at 17:56. His face is so priceless during that entire scenario. Also as an extra note for people unsure of Day Game: This guy could be any of you. He isn't super muscular, he has a bit of gut even. He has a pretty average face, and he even has (gasp) sweat stains under his arms! You know what makes him different? He gives no fucks, and is smooth as glass. We could all be like this, with practice.
/r/seduction03/09/12 04:18 AM
6

You're way too close to the situation. Back off, get you act togetherand try again in a few weeks/months.
/r/seduction31/08/12 08:56 PM
5

coffee or an event at school. Just don't make I think you should finish your paragraph.
/r/seduction15/08/12 03:06 AM
1

Not fair, seddit helped me lose my virginity in high school!
/r/seduction13/08/12 06:18 PM
3

Go check out SashaDayGame. He dresses very wacky to prove that looks don't matter matter when picking up.
/r/seduction10/08/12 02:03 AM
3

Oh god I do this to women. When conversation gets dry I just stare at her and say "Tell me something. Be creative."
/r/seduction08/08/12 03:10 AM
13

Indeed! Had he given her no time, it could have come off too cocky, or too needy. "Come with me and sex, or go." Instead, he basically says, "I'm leaving whether or not you're coming, but you can if you like." It perfectly conveys not only his aloofness, but his desire for the girl with just the right amount of everything. This man knows his stuff, I enjoy an FR I can take away from.
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:15 AM
9

I think it was to give her time to think about it, instead of putting her on the spot. That line gave her those 15 minutes to ponder I guess. Which could have gone either way; but hey, outcome independence dictates he didn't mind either way.
/r/seduction01/08/12 10:04 PM
10

What he said. ^ Sex is fun, but afterwards, you're still you. Sex won't change much except maybe boost your overall confidence for the week.
/r/seduction03/05/12 03:42 AM
4

I would also like some insight on this topic.
/r/seduction03/05/12 03:40 AM
1

Could you give me an example? I am curious now.
/r/seduction14/02/12 09:34 PM
1

wtf is NLP...
/r/seduction14/02/12 09:18 PM
1

Wat.
/r/seduction28/01/12 06:45 PM
1

Malls, cinemas, parks and things like that.
/r/seduction28/01/12 04:23 PM
3

You don't need parties or a night life, I'm 17 and living in a smallish town, but there are places everywhere. Every town has pretty girls. They go somewhere. Try the mall, cinema, even the park! Go to a park, bring a bottle of water (carrying water makes your hands feel less awkward, especially if you aren't a uses-hands-to-talk guy), and I swear the women are there.
/r/seduction28/01/12 04:21 PM
1

Why??? I don't shop in my mall often, but EVERY time I go there, it's crawling with attractive women.
/r/seduction28/01/12 04:18 PM
1

I can also be a mod, if needed, I am home usually by 3:00PM or 5:00PM GMT, love the seddit community.
/r/seduction28/01/12 04:12 PM
1

Negging to the extreme.
/r/seduction26/01/12 11:39 AM
9

/b/? No. I believe yes there is. You can be confident,carefree etc, but being a cocky douche happens all the time. And women will notice. It's hard to explain, but it's like...being alpha is cool, but then theres a fine line from being alpha to being an asshole. For example: Walk into room, HB 9 and two HB 4 friends. Alpha/PUA talks to all the girls, with a little more interest in the 9, and is fun and keeps up the conversation. Douche acts like this. Taking assuming attraction WAY too literally…
/r/seduction26/01/12 11:35 AM
1

....What?....
/r/seduction22/01/12 03:10 PM
2

"HEY YOU LOOKIN GOOD IN THAT SHART! IN THAT SHART! IN THAT SHART! IN THAT SHART!...........IN THAT SHART!" *edit: someone should find the video where he shouts that....infinite lulz had.
/r/seduction21/01/12 06:29 PM
1

My town is small but downtpwn has a few events aa month I always attend
/r/seduction19/01/12 11:59 PM
2

I've been in a situation where guys have hit on my girlfriends, and it blows. I just avoid taken women, unless the guy is clearly in need of a humbling.
/r/seduction15/01/12 05:29 AM
2

This a trillion times. When you care less about things in general, everything seems easier. When I have AA I just try to think: "Why do I care? If it doesn't work then I'll never see them again. besides...I'm awesome." Inner game.
/r/seduction15/01/12 04:12 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter