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Gave a guy my number because all my friends were cheering me on how it's cool and liberating when women make the first move. Dude never called, but probably posts on reddit about how it was the sexiest thing a woman ever did or some bs like that 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:00 AM
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I was once cornered and harassed by a sleazy older prof at a conference while all my coworkers watched and did jack fucking shit. Eventually, my boss showed up and got me out of tge situation. The dudes later were laughing at me for "haha, dude was so desperate he tried to hook up with you" And they used to wonder why their numbers are all blocked and I never went to "fun outings" outside of work with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:28 AM
108

You forgot the miniature kitchen complete with a pink vacuum and ironing set
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:46 AM
9

Same. I actually remembered in a dream last night how some orbiter scrote I had in hs threw the little grade overview I kept tucked in the back of my notebook into the trash because he couldn't handle his own mediocrity. Imagine being so fragile. Anyway, I went on and also got a phd in a hard science and omg is it ever such a scrote trigger when they have to address me as Dr. The_Pyramidion. Hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:35 AM
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What in the fresh pickme hell did I just read?? She should have dumped him on the second date, when he clearly TOLD her who he is and not go on this episode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:16 AM
38

You can dust a turd in glitter and rhinestones so it's gonna sparkle but at the end of the day, it's still a turd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:27 AM
4

It's just so weird, I don't get it. Like, they acknowledge straight people are a thing, and gay people are a thing, and gender is a spectrum anyway, but people whose sexual attraction is on a spectrum don't exist? Make it make sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:24 AM
9

No shit, it if did help, they'd charge us for that vile goop! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:42 AM
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I'm bi, but I'm only out on the internet and people I know who are also LGBT+. Just so sick and tired of the constant fetishization of me and others like me. With the amount of unicorn hunters and pickmes supporting them out there, it feels like a huge vulnerability to be bi, hence I never reveal it. And we aren't even safe in the LGBT comm, a gay dude once told me (assuming I was straight) how he finds "lesbians scary and disgusting"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:17 PM
57

Gosh, sis. This reminded me how I came down with a strep throat and really high fever and this useless stack of shit I was dating kept going on about how semen would soothe my throat. Why are they so awful?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:09 PM
40

I live in a country with low birthrate (~1.2 kids per woman) and it's definitely not much different. Men still treat us like shit, still expect at least one kid from us and are generally useless. Domestic labor is still overwhelmingly performed by women. Cf women are still seen as sad, crazy, baby-hating harpies. Except now scrotes are also shitting their pants about poc immigrating here. The only difference is people focus more attention/resources on the one or two kids they have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:22 AM
124

Between the sad fries and wings in the grimy boxes, the gas station flowers, his scraggly face-pubes and him smoking a fucking cigar like the monopoly man, I feel like this has gone full circle into satire again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:25 PM
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I think this is somewhat awkwardly phrased and the adjective only applies to white supremacy - else it wouldn't make sense for the presumably male-identifying reader to think about their internalized misogyny, either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:07 PM
41

And the bigger cousin, "scary". It just means you don't put up with no bullshit and lay down boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:22 PM
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I distinctly rember being in middle school and reading a sex ed brochure in ye olden times when a minute of dial up internet cost like a million dollars and I roughly quote "the pleasure derived from first time intercourse is very intense, so don't be surprised if your boyfriend orgasms after a few strokes" Little did they know that post-2005 would be an apocalyptic wasteland in the death grip of widespread erectile dysfunction 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:03 AM
3

Lucky you, I'm still at that age where my peers plan expensive dream weddings like on tv and have kids left and right and everyone gives me that "just wait til you're approaching fourty, you'll be a lonely, miserable wretch" spiel even though I've had this opinion on marriage ever since I hit puberty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:45 AM
85

Before fds I also always split the bill thinking it's only fair because I have a good job and shouldn't expect special treatment. No! All that ever got me was broke losers who constantly "forgot" their wallet and gave me literal fossilized shit for Christmas as a funny joek (I WISH I was joking) while I spend hundreds of dollars on their broke and lazy asses. Meanwhile, my female relatives and friends offer to pay for my food when we go out and vice versa - and they don't even roll up there expe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:41 AM
84

Or for people who habitually smoke or drink or pretty much anything else..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:53 AM
132

Us: "Please wash your ass and brush your teeth" Them: "ABUSE!! 1!1" Oh, what a time to be alive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:29 PM
29

I'm going to cut her some slack because she's only 19 and we were all shitheads at that age, but I hope she comes around to see that it's easy to blubber about body positivity when you're a conventionally attractive, able-bodied, white, teenage celebrity who has an army of vogue photoshop experts at her disposal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:07 PM
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This, queen! Nobody would get their nose broken or their guts rewired for a trash bag by the road, so why should we do so for cheap and abundant dick?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:04 PM
2

Ugh, I was talking to a guy like that a while ago. At first I thought, great, maybe he's not a dipshit but then he went on a weird tangent about how he likes I'm not "slutty like other women" and then some weird transphobic rant that had nothing to do with the subject matter. Ewwwwww. Blocked so hard I'm glad my phone wears a screen protector!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:53 AM
142

As opposed to men's only places, like exec suites, board rooms and the oval office, our reddit page is the pinnacle of discrimination /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:50 AM
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They're stuck in the sense that they haven't found a better branch to swing to yet, but otherwise you're spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:38 AM
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Y'all, our super secret cabal meeting where we discuss how to make the male-dominated puppet state implement new matriarchal laws to oppress the men more is wednesday at five, I'm bringing guacamole and nachos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:31 AM
37

Ah, yes, surely they must know the feeling of cars full of women making cow and pig noises at them as they walk down the street. Or the way women's faces fall when they muster them up and down, to drop the smile and treat them like dirt. Fucking clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:27 PM
15

This omg. Several people, including bfs, had the nerve to encourage me to not eat for several days straight when I was ill with bulimia wtf Scrotes and pickmes are literally sacrificing our health on the altars of dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:22 PM
46

Add to that how they never brush their teeth and it's just a recipe for disaster!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:04 AM
126

Lmao my nvex was like this. The smallest bit of vegetable that's not tomato sauce on pizza or in ketchup would cause meltdowns and picking his food apart in a way that toddlers would get disciplined for. I warned him about how vegetables aren't just there to become skinny buuut according to him you can live on sandwiches just fine.🤦‍♀️ Imagine being 28 and this stupid. Eta: I just remembered so many bf my friends had who all are like this. Like full blown mantrums because she put an onion in the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:40 AM
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Creating false dichotomies is a favorite tactic of manipulators. Either she LURVES him (aka puts up with any and all shit he does) or she's a shallow gold digger. Reality is much more nuanced! You've hit the nail on the head with cultural gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:28 AM
119

I've said before that Hanlon's razor is inherently flawed by assuming all parties are acting in good faith and completely ignoring the realities of pervasive racism, classism and misogyny in human society. I would go so far and turn it around in saying you should always assume malice when the person acting as the bumbler has comparatively higher social standing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:17 AM
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I'm not super picky about body shape, but I expect a man to be very well dressed and very well groomed (nice!! haircut, skin care). I don't particularly like beards, they are scratchy and kind of unhygienic and by god, some of them hide awkward chins under there. A pretty face in general, symmetric, well balanced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:49 PM
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Most cf men are next level scrotes, they'd rather have their partner undergo major, expensive abdominal surgery or rely on her taking hormones until hell freezes over because they'll get testerical at the thought of having their balls manhandled for 15 mins and their dicks not working right. Joke's on them, most guys' dicks aren't working right anymore anyway bc of porn 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:42 AM
84

I kind of hope his wife seeks a job. And then divorces his ass. No one should have to put up with him and his assholery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:09 AM
129

That would mean that scrotes'd have to admit my teddy takes me on better dates when we hang out and watch kitchen nightmares on the sofa while eating takeout in pjs. 😂 Teddy doesn't make offensive jokes, doesn't neg me about ordering dessert, doesn't randomly grope, doesn't mantrum, listens and always dresses sharply with his neat bow. Why should I leave the house for cheap wings I can buy myself with a guy who doesn't even measure up to that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:52 PM
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Same with insurance stuff. I probably could read all those policies plus the portfolio for my retirement funds myself, but then, I could also hire someone who's got a degree in that kind of thing to do it for me and use all that time won by not being lost in fine print on something more productive. Same with home renovations. Knowing what's best left to professionals is also a valuable life skill and I wouldn't blame anyone for going this route for time management (and saving themself the eterna…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:37 PM
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Highfive sister! No daughter of ours will be victimized, no son of ours will be an oppressor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:26 AM
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Darvo Like that time I hung up the phone and didn't speak to him for a week because he had the nerve to make the death of my grandmother all about him and be generally callous to me, my grief and disrespectful towards my death plan and he'd pull it up EVERY OTHER WEEK how I TrAuMaTiZeD him with my AbUsE. He even tried to pull that shit two weeks after we'd already "amicably" broken up - DEMANDED I call him every day else he just couldn't deal with his TrAuMa. Bonus points: unbeknownst to me, he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:34 PM
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It's definitely about control. My ex did this too. Lack of sleep makea you exhausted and limits your decision making abilities. It keeps you more susceptible to their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:27 PM
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That reminds me about how at my last job there was this dude with this really prominent blackhead on his cheek. I spent four years of coffee breaks staring at that thing wondering how I'd notice it from across the room but he doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:12 PM
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If it was empowering, scrotes would do it and fight tooth and nail to exclude us from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:16 PM
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Thanks for sharing. As of about two minutes ago I was still occasionally wondering how I got bamboozled by an utter moron but this explains it perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:59 PM
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I've found this as well. One can get much better results when observing them deal with women they consider unattractive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:23 AM
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To the first person: Grad and postgrad students can and absolutely do date undergrads. They're just not permitted to grade exams of family members/partners etc. so my asshole colleague once offered me fifty quid(!) to give his wife a passing mark when she didn't even score 25%(!!!). Also every lab has that one sleazy late 20s/early 30s scrote assistant picking up students.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:59 AM
128

Girl.. All of this to eat at a place where people throw their trash on the floor? Stahp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:23 AM
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I don't feel bad for them. They created this effed up system and they have ZERO qualms with hurting women and children with it. My ex had it bad, too - it also didn't occur to me that you can break your dick with porn then - and it is a wonderfully ironic punishment for being a garbage human who hates women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:27 AM
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I see you've met my ex. He's probably still telling himself his dick naturally looks like a banana and he can't get it up bc "DePrEsSiOn&AnXiEtY" 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:18 PM
18

Thanks for reminding me about cleaning bathrooms at a ball park when I was 16. It was AWFUL. I could literally be cleaning the urinals and some guy would just walk up to the one next to me and whip his fugly dick out. We had stalls, whyyyy... One time someone messed up the bathroom so bad the manager had the dudes who had to do community service at the place scrape the shit off the ceiling. Men are fucking nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:08 PM
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Prolly has a hairline like a baby bird tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:02 PM
18

I always play dumb. "I don't get it. Why is that funny?" "Why should I do that?" "Nah, I still don't get it" "Please explain" Then watch them squirm when they basically have to admit to being bigots in front of others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:55 PM
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There's also that subset of guys that KNOW their low effort walk in the woods to their favorite six foot deep ditch is creepy af and then make "jokes" about how their momma will vouch they aren't serial killers or something. It's like the pandemic enables us to watch evolution in real time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:46 PM
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I like how he talks about his dick like he's aggressively pitching an mlm scheme. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:39 PM
28

This. There is almost nobody who would voluntarily do this if not for financial and/or familial pressure. Even today, pregnancy and childbirth remain incredibly dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:55 AM
138

And then the maggots yelled at him to turn the lights back off. 🤢 How tf can anyone be so fucking nasty??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:30 AM
84

That reminds me how the mother of my ex would tell everyone who'd listen she was a "TiGeR mOm". Jan, he's 25, quit your bullshit. Bonus points for his cringy mewling of "I looooove you, mommy!!" every time they talked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:27 AM
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You're definitely right that this needs to be shared more and in the most recent years, it is! I still feel esp my mom is dealing with a lot of internalized pickme-ism, but I'm gonna cut women over sixty some slack because they simply grew up in a world where women had to ask their spouse/father for permission to have a bank acc/get a job and all kinds of wild shit and that's how they coped with that. She's been growing in self-esteem over the last couple of years, though, and I'm happy for her.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:05 PM
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Yeah, where were all these scrotes when we were powering through the traumas they caused? Oh yeah, telling us to lighten up, cheating and dumping us because "nO mAn WaNtS dAmAgEd GoOdS" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:17 PM
118

Jesus H. Christ on a pogo stick hopping around the town square at high noon, this bottom feeding scrote inspects her pubic hair???? WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:10 PM
140

This sounds like the intro to a horror movie, wtf is wrong with people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:19 AM
41

Eugh, I had a prof in an elective just like that, ew! He'd sit down between the students and put his arm on the back of women's chairs like the disgusting old scrote he was. And then a male classmate had the audacity to complain to me that Prof Sexual Harassment gave women better grades and that's just unfaiiiiirrrrr like WHO BUILT THIS SOCIETY ON DICKS, ASSHOLE!! SURE AS HELL WASN'T ME, GTFO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:14 AM
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It's honestly scary how many lvm and nvm are teachers. The daughter of a family friend also attended this school years later and was raped by the pe teacher. I feel so sorry for her, it was a crazy shitshow and she's still dealing with the aftermath of his actions. Meanwhile, I had to deal with the teaching students when I was a TA and good grief...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:24 AM
119

Yes, I remember putting extra pads in my pants because our math teacher would not let us use the restrooms during lessons and told us adults should be in charge of their biological functions 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:49 AM
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I am immensely grateful to have these older, wiser women look out for me. I'd probably be in a worse place now if they hadn't. My mom was always a hardass who insisted I learn how to do everything around the house and pushed me to pursue education that allowed me to be financially independent. "Never depend on anyone! Always be in charge of your own life" Her entire life she's been taking care of her parents or my father and his family even though she wanted to and had the ability to be a doctor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:30 AM
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Shoutout to my mom and another, older mother figure who took me aside when I was smol and told me that marriage is something they regret, it's an institution by men for men, and I need to watch out, and not sugarcoating reproduction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:39 PM
198

Can we also talk about how Ursula from the little Mermaid is literally a non conventionally attractive woman trying to overthrow an underwater patriarchy and spitting queen facts? Loved her as a kid, love her now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:49 PM
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I was ready for this to veer into the direction of "the reptilian overlords from inner earth want to keep our third eyes closed WITH PORN!!!" 😂 They struggle so hard to construe themselves as victims, I think I strained myself from trying to follow these mental gymnastics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:12 AM
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The sleep one is so noticeable for me! No one keeping you up sunday nights with their sudden temper outbursts, no one watching movies in bed in the middle of the night bc they fucked up their own sleep cycle beyond repair, no one pawing at you.. There's also reduced overall stress because you don't have to wrangle an overgrown toddler all day, I used to be so exhausted I'd just collapse on the bed after work fully dressed and breathe for half an hour before I even had the energy to eat and do ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:02 PM
28

Some countries offer increased protection, tax benefits etc when you are married. When I was working for the government, my married coworkers literally earned more money than me simply because I am single. And then I had to pay more income tax, too. This is usually the reasons semi-rational people state. Then there is all the scrotes who told me: my mom is gonna be disappointed (aww bby don't worry, I'm sure she already is...) I want you to be mine (get out) I want a big party with all my friend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:11 PM
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A growing number of them also refuses to work and lets their partner handle literally EVERYTHING that's not related to gaming and sleeping. And then resent their partner because she's a "nag", never has time, dead bedroom They do absolutely marry for material gain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:51 AM
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It's really hard to find a verb for what happened there. A competent author could probably make good points using this setting about how men can literally fuck up the entire universe into a post-orwellian hellscape with their egos, toxic masculinity and capitalism - unfortunately all that's really ever done with it is the same trite ol' misogyny, transphobia and racism but in space. Why are men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:09 PM
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Slaneesh is a chaos god in the warhammer 40k universe and was basically rock orgied into existence by bored space elves. The other three gods are manifestations of all rage, disease and backstabbery in the universe. Tldr neckbeards be depraved scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:02 PM
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I'm getting flashbacks here about that road trip my lvex and I took to Belgium. I told him there was a gas station if we wanted to fuel up but nooooo there'll probably be one near the campground, we're fiiiine, we still have a quarter of a tank blah blah. Cue us at an unmanned self serve station and the only language setting was flemish fml. The other nvex was better about that: he didn't drive because it was "stressful" and would just plop on the passenger seat of my car when he wanted to go so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:46 PM
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I was told my "raptor hands" would make their dicks look small. Bro... It IS smol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:13 PM
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My mom was really good about all this stuff. When I was little we'd often get dressed together and stuff and she'd just explain all the million questions I had. She showed me how to change tampons, too, because she felt it was just another facet of life and hated the narrative that it's "shameful" and stuff. She shared her traumatic pregnancy and birth experiences and after-effects with me in an age-appropriate manner because no one had warned her going in and she had believed the hollywood "bab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:25 AM
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It was made up in the seventies by journalists in response to more women joining the work force. My grandmother naturally conceived and birthed my mom at age 52, biological clock my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:09 AM
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"NoThINg I dO iS eVeR gOoD eNoUgH fOr YoU" "YoU sHoUlD bE mOrE gRaTeFuL, iF yOu DoN't ThAnK mE I wOn'T dO aNyThInG aT aLl" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:23 PM
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Yeah, but there's all these other equally important life events we need to push back then: taking out my roomba's lint, extinguishing the fire my Sims started when making salad, French vocabulary practice, making chitchat with the landlady...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:45 AM
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a tirade about how American Psycho is the best film of all time Why. Why is it always this movie? (I've honestly never watched it bc I suspect it's shit.) Why have we all been on dates with the same guy in different human costumes? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:39 AM
17

This. Never measure the character of a man by how he treats you, but by how he treats women he considers undesirable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:32 AM
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Like brah, all we need to do is make a tinder acc and have ten reasonably attractive, early twenties fuckboys wanting to come over within an hour. 🤡 They truly can't wrap their heads around that this is their fantasy, not ours. Dick is cheap and abundant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:19 AM
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God, how can anyone write such a self-involved five page manifesto about how they are a sad little sausage and their wife has mysteriously changed into this mean, emasculating half-buzzard-half-woman-creature for laying down boundaries and making him pull some weight around the house. Let me get the world's smallest violin to play a sad song to accompany it. 🎻🤡 He even looks like an entitled asshole with an anger problem in his version of events, I'd be intrigued to hear hers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:14 AM
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That reminds me of when I was browsing the science kits at the toy store a few years back and this little girl shows a crystal growth kit to her mom amd she goes "you are too small for this and it's for boys anyway" ☠️ Gee, I wonder why it was such an uphill battle for me to get a degree in this discipline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:38 PM
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Yeah, I wonder why this girl is sick, has probably nothing to do with her own father sexualising her /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:17 PM
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I live in Germany and literally every public bathroom I've ever been in had free paper bags to put used pads/tampons in and a trashcan in every stall... Wtf is this bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:14 PM
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What do they even expect? That we somehow don't notice? Also these same men that cry about "height-ism" usually have no problem being absolutely vile towards women who aren't conventionally attractive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:01 PM
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Never, ever slow down when a man approaches you, especially after dark. Say "no, sorry" to whatever bs he's coming up with, bring your hands out of your pockets and DO NOT SLOW YOUR STRIDE OR STOP ALTOGETHER. Walk with purpose. Do not signal hesitancy or insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:33 AM
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Math question: I am 5'5". When I'm wearing 4" heels, how tall am I? A: Same height as 6' dudes off OLD 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:26 AM
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These body trends are just kind of ridiculous, like, are you completely change your figure and bone structure every decade? When I was a kid/teen, you had to be "heroin chic" (somebody please tell me how it can be an ideal often promoted as "healthy" to look like a heroin addict?) now it's the very dangerous bbl procedure.. Ain't nobody got enough lifetime for this shit. You're probably stunning, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:10 PM
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I'd recommend the Archeological Fantasies Podcast with Sara Head. She's funny and the topics are super interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:28 AM
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Manage your fucking blackheads and acne. [2 pts] You do not get to complain to me people treat you so much more nicely when you wash your face ffs! Clean underneath your nails [1 pt] Unless you are digging around in motor oil or soil AS WE SPEAK, if I can see grime during normal conversation, you are a fucking pig and need to stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:23 AM
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This. When I was deep in my ED, I was at a "healthy" weight but my nails kept chipping so I had to trim them super short and my hair kept falling out. I was constantly sleepy and couldn't concentrate for the life of me. Constantly getting colds. My body was obviously disagreeing. I'm fat now and people will tell me how unhealthy I am but all these health problems vanished.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:08 AM
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Idk, I'm still dealing with the biphobia that got instilled in me when I was a teen first sticking my toe out of the closet. Men kind of suck lately but I'm doubtful I want to open another can of oppression worms 😕 Plus I am scared of unicorn hunters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:52 PM
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This is true, but some countries offer added protection/support for families with married couples like tax reductions. It is bullshit but most of the people I've talked with mentioned this as an important factor in them getting married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:14 PM
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Yeah, I can relate to that. When I tell people I have no aspirations to get married they either look at me like I just grew a second head or get TEH SADZ and start lecturing me about how being alone forever is such a waste. Like, no. Running after a cheating, volatile man-toddler who can conjure nasty socks out of thin air would be a waste. There are no benefits in marriage for women who gained financial independence and do not want children. It's an institution that's proven to be so stressful …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:07 PM
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Fuck that. Recently, my boss, another colleague and I were in a call with some professor our colleague had cooperated with previously. He had asked me to join in because I'm the subject matter expert of the whole company in this topic. Professorman did not talk to me but would only address the men and when I asked him why his calculations didn't add up he got testerical and told me to do it myself so I could "test that little hypothesis" of mine. We do not cooperate with him any more. Also, yeah…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:47 PM
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You've got this, sis. If he truly had changed, he would respect your decision to be no contact with him and not weasel around all blocked numbers by dragging your mother into this little shitfest. He would understand he is not entitled to closure or redemption or whatever. He would be sensible enough to not rip open your old wounds. Proceed with caution and absolutely keep your private info secure, this seriously gives me the heebie jeebies. Personally, I would rip up the check, but if you do de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:04 PM
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"This is not an attempt to get back into your life" 🤡 Omg, does he think you are that gullible? He only talks about himself in this and his sad sausage pity party to manipulate into you swooning amd being all "no! Don't say such horrible things about yourself! You are a changed man now!!" Spoiler: he hasn't changed, he is absolutely trying to get back into your life and the check is 99.9% there to manipulate you down the line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:51 PM
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He Is JuSt SlEePwAlKiNg AlSo WhErE dO I gEt PrEmIuM cArPeT cLeAnEr??? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:23 PM
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Like chumplady so succinctly put: "He doesn't have an insight problem, he has an entitlement problem. He weighted your pain against his dick, and decided you weren't as important" Best advice I've ever received, even though it hurt like a mofo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:19 PM
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Not every woman has the privilege of a FOO that has modeled healthy relationships, boundaries and self-respect for her. Not every woman is financially independent. That does not make them "dumb".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:51 AM
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I don't think we do in English, but there is a distinction in my first language. Interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:00 AM
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There's so much to unpack in this one sentence: divide and conquer women by pitting them against each other reinforcing misogynist stereotypes about the "dumb blonde" and the "ugly brunette" the sublte dig at me "you might be brunette (=less attractive) but I am willing to settle for you as a wife appliance" women with black hair (as in: most WOC) don't exist to the asshole who said this It's been years but this memory still makes me want to scream at the sky in rage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:52 AM
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"Gentlemen date blondes, but they marry brunettes" 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:26 AM
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"As a woman, these scrotes piss me off to no end. I bust my ass to support myself and my lifestyle.. And then there's dicks like this who think because they've got a penis, they should never have to do anything for themselves" Watch this get reported for MiSaNdRy 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:51 AM
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It's been proven that going to couple's therapy with an abuser is one of the worst ideas on the planet - they'll just get more ammo against their victims and manipulate the therapist into believing the victim is the actual offender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:04 PM
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Bold of you to assume they have jobs and don't waste every paycheck on onlyfans and video games 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:51 PM
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This, omg. I've only seen one truly happy couple in my life but unfortunately my uncle passed away a few years ago. Nothing but a hvm role model. Even as he lay dying he was more concerned with my aunt than himself. If I can't have a man like that, I don't want any!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:10 PM
137

We could be chicken sandwiches and this guy would still be trying to "date" us lmao 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:27 PM
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I'm so sorry he hurt you so much. This doesn't help much, but there will be a day in the future where you'll realize you didn't think about him all week and you've finally room for being yourself again 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:25 PM
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So, I have this conspiracy theory that men on old (and some irl) act basically like nigerian princes (the email scammers): They deliberately go so rock-bottom low-effort to filter out all the receivers who have a modicum of awareness/self-respect. This doesn't maximize their chance of sex (which I often see you all wonder aloud about on here) but their effort/rewards ratio for sex. They maximize rewards by tailoring their strategy to being selected by only the biggest pickmes. Let that sink in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:27 AM
11

Make a list of all the shitty things he did. When you waver in your conviction, read it out loud, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:20 AM
370

Where's all the men at whose kink is respecting and uplifting women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:06 AM
66

So, I'm childfree and the amount of "fathers" who roll up and tell me that I'm exactly what they are looking for and when I reject them go all "YeS bUt I nEvEr SeE mY kId" is just 🤢 Like, congrats on being a shit human being with zero sense of responsibility, integrity and morals, winner of the Golden Turd Prize of Exceptional Fuckwittery??? I don't even Why are men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:07 PM
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3 Is so important. It begins with reclaiming the aspects you lost over NVM and it is so empowering. I like to draw and paint and learn languages, but my ex made it so difficult to have time and the right mindset for this. Everything was always about him. Also, I'm a pretty good cook but he'd act like Gordon Ramsey being served three week old microwaved chicken when eating food he did nothing to help with. Couldn't eat this, didn't eat that. It was so limiting. I often think about that when I'm m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:31 AM
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3 Don't ever consider dating coworkers or classmates, that's shitting where you eat and bound to hurt you professionally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:24 PM
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Consult several attorneys to sort out the legal problems of kicking him out. Pick the toughest no-bullshit one. If money is an issue, you might be able to work out a contingency plan. Read up on the technique that is grey rocking. In a nutshell, it's becoming so unfathomably boring the abuser loses interest (they feed on the emotion, attention and drama they get out of you). I've found it to work very well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:32 PM
20

That's what we call hopium and you need to stop smoking that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:18 PM
106

Some scrote I was recently talking to suggested he didn't want a vasectomy because of possible side effects but the gentlemanly thing would be paying half the cost to get his partner sterilized. Like wtf? You can't deal with your balls being manhandled for 20 mins but you're fine with knocking someone else out and performing abdominal surgery? This just proves to me they have ZERO empathy. Blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:15 PM
10

Thanks, I hate it 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:21 PM
18

There are a lot of us here who graduated from her page. Scrotes just can't appreciate a good thing when it hits them in the face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:58 PM
41

Pretty much. You go in thinking someone is half decent because they look clean and employable, but then they do the same shit like cheap scrotes on bumble: pushing boundaries when you don't want to share your number, offering "spontaneous" walk “meetups", negging you for how your eyes are crooked or something, and being condescending in an "oh, she's even read kafka" way that makes you feel like a circus pony They all just ooze that "I'm done being a fuckboy and am now looking for a 'respectable…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:20 PM
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I've had a friend tell me the expensive old services are much better and there's much nicer men on there. So I went and bought a small subscription which I immediately cancelled so it doesn't auto renew and here's my scrotation report: The good: -they can spell and form full sentences on there -most of them have jobs The bad: -algorithm claims to match based on lifestyle preference and income bracket but I get constantly suggested (to) men who want to start families and who I significantly outea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:48 PM
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I'd rather work 15 mins and buy that myself than listen to an hour of inane, self-grandiose blathering and some scrote pawing at me with their sweaty hands that are in dire need of a manicure for free food, ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:23 AM
53

Hope she gets picked lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:04 AM
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Soooo 1) He's lazy, entitled, unfunny and rude doesn't seem like we're missing out here lmao 2) why is he not seeing this mysterious most interesting and sexiest woman in the world he's trying to triangulate all of us with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:53 PM
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I mean, I, too, would enjoy handsome men with jobs beating down my door to feed me handmade chocolate and massage my feet while they respect me but I guess we can't all be winners and I'll have to keep avoiding getting murdered and raped by the men I meet for now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:45 PM
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Yuck, that reminds me how I went on a festival about ten years ago and there was this gaggle of acne-ridden leek-bodied jerks sitting around on the campground literally rating the women who walked past their campsite with little signs like fucking judges in an ice skating competition Why are men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:39 PM
8

Ugh, that. My narc nvex used to suggest plastic surgery to alleviate my insecurities WHICH HE CAUSED with this same kind of shit. Fuck that, I'll rather have my tits weighing me down than those 200 lbs of useless, flabby flesh that also neg me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:36 PM
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After having to walk in the back door for the last 100 years or so, too. And having to fight against legislation that prohibited them from attending university in many countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:05 PM
63

Why is everything so grimy? 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:51 PM
119

Just a friendly reminder that in the next 10-20 years the majority of households will have women as the main breadwinners. We don't need your "appreciating accets", Broseph,you can go back to crying into your cheerios about how nobody wants to touch your strangely angled dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:31 PM
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He labored under the impression that chemists do nothing but bury toxic waste in playgrounds all day or something 🙄 In hindsight, he was jealous of "everything just falling into my lap" (his words) academically and wanted to shoehorn me into his fantasy of a trophy-bangmaid-mommy who does nothing but cater to his crooked willy all day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:25 PM
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This took me a lot longer to get than I'd like to admit... Maybe I'm just jaded about all the guys I had the displeasure of meeting who smell like BO and butt, whereas men actually wearing cologne are super rare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:30 AM
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He DeSeRvEs tO tAlK aBoUt It What he deserves is a swift kick in the butt out where the carpenters left a hole in the wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:25 AM
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Idk sis about the part where humans are all about quality Watched this documentary last night and there was this teeny tiny bird first building a house, then cleaning up the surrounding space, dancing for his mate and giving her gifts and she was verry critical about inspecting it all, meanwhile, dudes ask us on walk dates lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:20 AM
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Reminds me of my hs bf telling me he would not support my career choice for "eThIcAl ReAsOnS" and I would have to decide. Called his bluff and told him to gtfo. They really want nothing more than screw us over to keep us dependent on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:41 AM
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I honestly don't understand why scrotes will always brag to me at some point how they are "promiscuous when not in a ltr" or some variation thereof. Like, congrats, here's your block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:04 AM
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Slander is illegal in most countries I'm fairly active on LinkedIn and if some rando wrote me a long, rambling manifesto about how one of my coworkers or business contacts rejected him for being a baby dicked asswipe it isn't my contact whose character I'd question 🤔 Scrotes are full of hot air. Maybe double check you are using different photos for online dating/private social media/professional accounts but I'm assuming you already have that. Report and write a complaint to bumble and get his a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:50 AM
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Omg I think I just sprained something from the cringe Like sis, what ARE you doing with your life. Pls stop. 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:11 PM
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Oh, it absolutely is and I'm happily paying taxes so these children have everything they need growing up. However, I wish we lived in a world where "fathers" couldn't shirk these responsibilities as easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:36 PM
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Same thing happens when you post in subreddits about dealing the problems that can arise when you have big boobs 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:18 PM
51

Low self esteem on her part and narc traits on his. Hope she gets out, soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:10 PM
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full time phd student part time assistant full time scrote wrangler I know this is "lemme just crash into bed fully dressed and breathe laboriously until I regain the strength to eat some ramen" levels of exhausting. This son of a bridge troll needs to get off his high horse and sit the fuck down with his jealousy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:08 PM
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More than 60% of child support is paid for by the tax payer where I live because these scrotes can't be bothered - imagine all the roads, schools, hospitals we could build with that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:54 PM
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He expected to control and abuse her further using the kid as a proxy and it backfired, now scrote's mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:52 PM
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Why are men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:20 AM
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Look up Rosalind Franklin and Lise Meitner (and many more) if you want to learn the depressing truth about why most important discoveries have been made by men. At least they named Meitnerium after her, but that's a poor solace for the discrimination she had to face as a jewish woman in science.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:45 AM
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get money out of men With all the scrotes who think Applebee's is the height of fine dining experiences that would be like trying to draw blood from a rock lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:14 AM
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Someone call the police, this here just killed me 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:08 AM
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So my grandparents tried to arrange a marriage for me when I graduated high school at 18 (my FOO are white blue collar western euros) because They thought women are useless except for domestic duties and wanted some scrote to "take care of me" They thought higher ed is wasted on women They thought I was "rebellious" and "unruly" and wanted someone to dominate and abuse me for them They wanted to get rid of me My grandmother and our lovely lady neighbor (hate her) already had two dudes picked, du…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:28 AM
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Your mom speaks nothing but the truth. Happened to me twice. You run around spinning circles wondering what's up with them and they are cheating on you and discarding you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:14 AM
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What the actual fuck did I just read?? Twenty dollars the psycho killed her pet, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:16 AM
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Oof, that is disgusting!! In my experience (1-2X) they are abundant, they just don't talk about it because being attracted to "non-perfect" women is shameful or something. Idk, I don't get scrote logic. Fat fetishists come in a spectrum where the upper end is feeders and vore and stuff, but the lower end where thlley fetishize women in much too small (and thus PAINFUL and they are AWARE AND AROUSED BY THIS) garments, for example, is very common. Side note: Can we talk about the misogyny in cloth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:58 PM
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Girl, you've spoken straight from my mind! No worth in wasting all that time and effort so some scrote who can't even wipe his ass can be shitty to you. And you are probably stunning! 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:47 PM
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So, I'm fat. I used to be normal weight when I was dealing with bulimia years ago and honestly it taught me how scary men are. They would leer at me like a piece of meat and follow me around, even after I had told them to stop talking to me. Now I'm mostly invisible and that's liberating in its own right. Scrotes will still hit me up. First of all, a lot of them are attracted to bigger women even though they will try and treat you like a dirty secret because let's face it, nothing is more import…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:39 PM
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I agree with /u/fantasticfallopian, however, the reduction of womanhood to motherhood and the loss of identity is a real problem women face that is not discussed enough imo. It breaks my heart every time I want to get to know a new woman and all they have to say is what hobbies their kids have or what their husbands do. Like, that's cool, but I want to get to know you. Often, they are swamped in so many undue burdens, they lost sight of themselves and became just "Mom". Not to mention the fact t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:44 AM
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"My mama said I'm her special baby boyyyy", Steven, age 38
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:33 AM
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PSA: the term "old soul" is hallmark of a narc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:28 AM
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Gosh, that reminds me of the woman my ex cheated on me with. At 29 she had been divorced from two superscrotes and was often dumping her three kids at her parents' to go on swinger parties. I'm sure she is engaged to Turd now seeing as how much he was pissing for marriage with me before I threw him out (like introducing me to random strangers as his wife, wtf). Play pickme games, win pickme prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:21 AM
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Aaaaaand that's enough internet for me today. 🤮 See y'all tomorrow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:58 PM
12

Unfortunately, there's no entries for my country that aren't urologists. Here's hoping tomorrow goes well for you tho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:51 PM
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Her standards aren't too high, he's just too short to reach them 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:55 PM
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I mean.. The last time I requested sterilization the ob/gyn went on a long ass rant about how she "wouldn't allow me to not have children" because "what if you meet the man of your dreams and he wants you to carry his children?!?" I told her he's obviously not the man of my dreams then and can get fucked. Didn't see her again, and she's only one crazy ass person on a list of doctors who can't seem to understand that I own this meatsuit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:46 PM
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It has always been like this, the Internet is only making it more visible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:07 AM
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I went to visit my family over easter and my dad legit thought I was gonna go to his house and roast him a duck lmao My mom put her foot down and we ordered pizza. He had to pay and pick it up, too. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:29 AM
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Because women their age can see straight through their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:23 PM
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Yeag, it's really just laziness. When I was first in uni, I dated a guy who'd never been taught how to cook before he moved out and his family only ever ate traditional dishes. I remember him eating curry at my place and being like "omg, tell me what this is and how you made it". Within half a year, he could cook all kinds of food pretty well - because he wanted to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:43 PM
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Yeah, awful sex with strangers who might murder you is such a privilege 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:36 AM
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Yeah. A scrote acquaintance in college once asked me incredulously if I don't ever look at random strangers and suddenly have thoughts about having "hardcore sex" with them and I was like "errrhhh... Gotta go" It even carries over into relationships. My nvm ex once told me when I cOmMuNiCaTeD how him preferring porn over actual intimacy with me was hurtful: "You know, sometimes you just want a snack, not a three course meal. It's really no biggie, all men do it." Even as a brainwashed libfem I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:21 PM
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Well, I AM a scientist with an undercut and my professional opinion is that this mfer needs to sit the fuck down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:51 PM
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Also, can we talk about how hard it is for women to get sterilized, especially when they have not had children before? One gyno literally called me a nazi for requesting that and went on this fucked up rant about how she wouldn't allow me to not have kids and what if I mert tEh OnE aNd He NeEdS mE tO hAvE hIs ChIlDrEnNn Wtf!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:43 PM
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Yeah, she needs to call the police, this is an illegal eviction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:40 PM
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What helped me was sitting down and writing a long ass list of things I hated about the scrote. At first, I thought I was gonna come up with like ten items but once I started I took a while to run out of steam. Every time I waver I pull that list up and read it again and decide fuck no, I don't need a disgusting sex pervert in my life who does nothing but stink up the place and act like a toddler!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:16 PM
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Lawyers, too. There's so many of them just oozing that "I woke up and decided to quit being a fuckboi and now I'm here checking boxes for my future wife-appliance while I talk at you" Either that or they are insufferable narcs who act like you are a circus pony because you have shit going on in your life and aren't sitting on a shelf waiting for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:52 PM
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Preach! It's an institution created BY MEN FOR MEN that still includes elements of SELLING WOMEN (that thing where daddy "hands you off"? Yeah) And as more women will become the main breadwinners in this decade, it's gonna screw us over even more when lvm figure out they can now sue for alimony because they never did bother to stop playing xbox and get a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:26 PM
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This and also not Feminist Yoda. It's not our job to help people find or help themselves, especially if they're willing to throw us under the bus for cheap dick any second
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:06 PM
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You are forgetting they are paying to do that while simultaneously gripping their dicks blue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:55 PM
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Soo recently some scrote messaged me with a question and when I looked at his post history for shits and giggles I learned there are whole subs dedicated to fetishizing actresses this way. But somehow fds is allegedly the worst part of reddit??? Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:51 PM
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Meanwhile, we are painted as the worst people of the entire internet looking for just that and this scrote gets it handed on a silver platter and is all YeS bUt I wAntEd ThE sEx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:27 PM
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I'm also a Euro and first dates are usually where I explore the feeling of "is he a serial killer" and maybe "do I find him attractive" but not "am I crushing on this person". But then, Americans often characterize me as standoffish, serious/reserved and downright unromantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:23 PM
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This is so well put and concise, it should be its own post. Take the reddit gold I bought on wish: 🥇 No seriously, I have no kids and am single and it's great. I put in 30 mins per day into my habitat and you could eat off the floor if you wanted to. So much free time to work on crafts, learn languages, read, or just relax from work. No nasty socks, dirty dishes, piles of sweaty shit stained laundry someone left for me to pick up. No one is interrupting my sleep because they are pawing at me or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:23 PM
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Me, me, me, I, I, I, mine, mine, mine He sounds insufferable, ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:49 PM
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I recently learned there's still scrotes out there entertaining this shtick at the ripe old age of 26 - still sitting around listening to linkin park and being upset about high school, no ambitions whatsoever. Cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:27 PM
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This was pre-FDS. Two weeks after we had broken up, my ex was spending new years at my house because my pickme friends had convinced me I'm just awful for not wanting to be friends with exes and also his abuse had worn me down to the point where I believed he was really the best friend I could have. The entire time, he was behaving like an absolute assclown, disrespectful towards me, my family, acting like a king gracing us peasants with his glorious presence. And then this scroteweasel drops th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:04 PM
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This. A hvm would at most say something like "and then I'd spend a nice evening with the woman I love" If they immediately steer the conversation towards innuendo or outright sex, they are bored, horny nv trash and need to be taken out immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:32 PM
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I see you've met my horrible ex already lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:10 PM
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Lmao my ex lost his fucking mind and cried how it gave him body image issues and insecurity when I casually mentioned some actor being attractive a few times because apparently this actor not being short and not having a dad bod like him hurts his feelings and is TrAuMaTiC. Same guy was choking his weasel to porn with women that look nothing like me several times daily and told me "yeah, you're okay looking tbh" or "women from here are pretty, but not BEAUTIFUL". Their brains are fucking fried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:31 PM
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Yes, I hate it. Abortions are "illegal but not prosecuted" and you have to jump through all kinds of humiliating hoops such as a non-medical professional and also non-social worker asking you shit like "wHaT iS yOuR hArD lImIt" and basically trying to shame you into carrying the pregnancy to term. I live in Germany btw, where people pride themselves on being a liberated western first world country 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Eta: our secretary of health is a gay man who for some reason thinks it's his business wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:04 PM
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I found out towards the end of my relationship with a rock bottom nvm that this was the reason he'd often ditch me for half an hour to go "use the bathroom" when we were eating out. Funny thing is, they don't even feel one percent as embarrassed as we do when we learn about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:00 PM
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Ah, thanks for reminding me that I'm still upset about living in a country where you can buy pregnancy tests only from nosy pharmacists and have to have a doctor's prescription for the pill or plan B.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:57 PM
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The watching porn in public bathrooms thing is apparently disturbingly common. Like, HOW?? WHY?? EW!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:52 PM
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My problem with other women I try to be friends with is often the Bechdel test irl. All they want to do is talk about their shitty boyfriends or husbands, and if they're single about their recent dating history. Like, I'm willing to listen to problems any time but damn, this shit can be exhausting. Also always being the one calling/texting. So many just dropped off the face of the earth when I stopped texting first and honestly I'm just too good to go running after people like that. So all my wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:10 AM
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Girl he sleeps on the floor lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:55 AM
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If you are using Thunderbird, you can create custom filters that automatically redirect these into trash. I think it should be possible with most mail clients. Don't even bother with him, he's lonely and bored bc of the pandemic and thought he could weasel his way back in. Don't listen to the fresh pickme shit from your friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:54 AM
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In all my life, I've never seen my dad do a charge of laundry. He recently called when my mother was away because his massive logical man brain could not figure out the clearly labelled buttons 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:43 AM
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Wtf I just dropped my food when I read one of these scrotes cheated on you with YOUR MOTHER!! The audacity!! Omg sis I am so, so sorry you had to deal with this trash! 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:39 AM
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He was already a rapist in his teens with control issues trying to make me choose between him and a very lucrative major. He was also riddled with jealousy over me "just being handed" good grades. I shudder to think what he is capable of now and the worst part was he also used his work mail and apparently he's a medical professional now. 😱😱😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:12 AM
1

I suppose in the same way they do it for theft? If they can pony up a receipt for whatever or pictures with them and the stuff in it that would probably be a good start. Idk I'm not a lawyer and it's probably not something that's going to end in more than a slap on the wrist here but the last thing you should do with narcs is give them legal ammo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:33 PM
38

The older I get the more I feel like that humor thing is something they tell themselves to deal with otherwise having to admit that they don't bring anything to the table. Plus their definition of humor is pretty much Haha rape, haha women dumb haha casual racism. A monkey is more entertaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:21 PM
1

Do check the laws wherever you live before you do anything. In my country it's actually illegal to throw away stuff someone left at your house and you'd have to undergo a stupidly bureaucratic process to get rid of it (ask me how I know..). And the last thing anybody needs is a scrote trying to sue you for breaking their toys. So depending on that I'd throw them into his driveway or the local dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:10 PM
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Alcohol causes whiskey dick, too. For younger men it's almost always caused by some sort of addiction. It's usually porn, tho. Remember in the olden days, when viagra commercials showed old couples golfing and stuff? I recently noticed they're geared to a much younger audience nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:24 PM
7

That reminds me how a few years ago, the guy I dated in hs (!) send and email to my work mail (!!) saying he had found some school stuff in his basement and if I could give him my new address (!!!) so he could mail them to me wtf How dumb do they think we are, like anyone wants a decade old notes from the history class they were barely awake for??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:15 PM
8

I think I just experienced a bluescreen, y'all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:06 PM
35

There's a large enough amount of men who "forget" their wallet on first or second dates, my friend and I would call that tab the idiot tax in college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:49 AM
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Yeah, she's still a kid and weighing herself down with that trash and people are encouraging her smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:59 PM
13

Sis, dump him. He does not respect your body, he does not respect you. You are an object to him. Don't be! The dudes who do that always escalate and you'll get hurt. This is assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:49 PM
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For me, it was more a matter of energy preservation. My last nvex was physically weaker than I, so he didn't dare challenge me physically (he did destroy things of mine, block doorways, scream in my face and make threats about offing himself though, always teetering on the line of physical abuse) but it was very clear when he got done yelling and screaming at me and decided he wanted to cuddle or have "makeup sex", he'd just insult and scream for another hour or two if I didn't comply. Another d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:44 PM
57

Ew, disgusting. They are predators that get off on our suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:35 PM
11

Yes, frequently. For a long while, I had nightmares about my ex assaulting me in a period when I thought I was already doing so much better. In hindsight, I was processing that he had, in fact, repeatedly done just that and I had always rationalized this violence against me away with libfem bullshit because he managed to convince me of his reality wherein I was a "frigid b*tch".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:17 AM
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Sis, I'm so, so sorry! 🤗 They are so insidious, posing as the charming funny guy and behind shut doors they are vile monsters. If you say anything, you'll get slandered as the crazy ex. It's not much comfort, but I believe you. And I think many others here do, most of us have walked a few miles in those shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:10 AM
167

Lmao he wants you to walk his dog and call it a date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:05 AM
13

Imagine a world where they would put that kind of commitment towards ending hunger, injustice or cancer 😐 But yes, I can confirm they do. It's blood in the water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:36 PM
34

Every time some scrote says it's natural to be attracted to teenagers because they are fertile and blah blah I want to scream my head off about how I was NINE when I got my period and these disgusting pedo apologists need to gtfo my lawn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:49 AM
48

Yeah, like, we're all gonna die some day. Might as well not hate yourself every second of the ride, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:48 AM
1

Once read on a blog for people coping with infidelity "they aren't that special or clever, they just think they are. That's why they all have the same script." But yeah, the ranting about dEsErViNg ReSpEcT.. What for, exactly? For behaving like an overgrown toddler? Dudes go around thinking they deserve respect for breathing! I did block and delete, when I discovered he was cheating on me with a woman who I thought was my friend. Suddenly, I had the strength to tell him to gtfo and never call me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:40 AM
47

Have you all ever noticed how the body ideal of a given period is unattainable for the majority population? Back when everyone was starving, being fat was considered healthy and desirable. Now that we are all working desk jobs and having an army of personal trainers and dieticians at your disposal, being thin or even obviously surgically altered has become the standard we measure against. Disregarding that many women struggle with undiagnosed hormone issues/gyno issues (pcos and endo) which can …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:38 AM
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I am almost thirty and apparently I look like 20ish. People, especially men, constantly mansplain shit to me that I know, talk over me... It's not cute. The other day I was talking to someone about how I've never gotten a speeding ticket. He then said oh, it's nothing to brag about at your age. Like, brah, I've had a license for 12 yrs, ain't my fault you can't drive. Another thing, inevitably, when I introduce myself to a man, they'll ask me what I do and when I tell them, they will then ask 10…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:30 PM
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And you shouldn't explain to anyone, they won't reflect on your words to better themselves, they only use them to manipulate their next target. So, what are you gonna do now that you've blocked them all and deleted tinder? Anything you always wanted to try doing? 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:04 PM
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Ew sis, don't be some asshole's maybe!! There's nothing he has to offer you but bad feelings and potentially stds! The audacity to tell you you've got nothing going on in your life but his shriveled pickle, who does he think he is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:53 PM
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Dude I was vetting recently suddenly tells me he knows this poly couple and they're sooo happy and he'd totally be into that if he wasn't so shy and had time for multiple partners. LOL BYEEEEEEE tires screeching
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:59 PM
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On the flip side, I used to be in a few plant groups for terraria etc and they were overrun with scrotes spending all household cash on ridiculous setups and shaming casual windowsill growers. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:55 PM
4

DAE get creeped out when you see girls that can barely walk nursing baby dolls? There's just something about that that is viscerally upsetting to me. Children shouldn't be forced to perform motherhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:25 PM
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Aw, what a shit head. The controlling thing is also super common. Fuck that!! It's not true what he said about you! I've vowed to never allow anyone to speak to me like that again. Criticism is always welcome, but this is just abuse and I'm wayyyy too good for that. They just want a reaction to abuse us further and drag us down further. I was so worn out by the end of it, I struggled with falling asleep on the train STANDING UP. Scroteweasel then told me I was the one with issues and needed to s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:04 PM
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Also notice how he reduces women to individual body parts. Not even the not fully fleshed out npcs like scrotes usually do, but a collection of legs, asses and tits rated by how fuck able he finds them. GROSS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:02 AM
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It's not just him trying to push your buttons, it's also a big deal of projection usually. My nv ex screamed at me, verbatim "You have no ambition! You'll die in that lab!!" This was coming from someone who spent years of his life in his mom's basement playing video games on a projector and pissing all his money away for porn, alcohol and toys. Oh, he also said "You're such a fucking bitch, no wonder nobody likes you" in response to being asked to please not leave nasty socks on my desk 🤦‍♀️ The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:47 AM
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This. If anyone has to inform you of a specific trait, they're 100% lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:32 PM
29

Personally, becoming angry has been transformative for me. I grew up in a household where specifically female anger was heavily policed and it has taken years to unlearn. While I'm a very chill person, I have learned to speak up for myself and others. To grow a spine and cut toxic people out. Finally, getting angry has given me the energy and the impetus to do all that. I used to hold grudges against people who wronged me but I discovered that when I acknowledged and addressed that anger, worked…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:28 PM
131

I aM nOt TrYiNg To GaRnEr SyMpAtHy FrOm MeN 🤡🤡🤡 Bless her heart!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:18 PM
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So, I'm not skinny but I have a bigger chest and used to get skin tears and all that shit. There's a whole lot of misogyny to unravel here, actually. Retailers often usually only carry small sizes and deliberately mismeasure women so they can cram them into sizes they carry. They do this by giving more and more Band size until the underwire sits on your boob, giving you "quadboob" and causing tissue Migration that took six months in my case to return from "half my tit lives in my armpit" to norm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:11 PM
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I was persuaded into doing that once in my libfem days (I had never watched porn before and was a bit naive about it) and lasted like five seconds into the vid, then the following exchange took place Me "why is she wearing this? It's much too small and she must be so uncomfortable!" Nvex "That's the point!!" He knew how long I had struggled with finding undergarments that provide me with appropriate support without chafing and poking me to death over the course of the day. How I used to get skin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:35 PM
166

I've been living straight edge for years now and if a dude feels threatened by your refusal to drink, 100% of times he has a drinking problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:12 AM
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If you need any more convincing to BLOCK and DELETE, go to your bookstore of choice and pick up The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. The author also offers a free domestic violence assessment on his homepage. Repeat after me: Men who strangle their intimate partner are seven times more likely to murder them. Run!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:08 AM
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Sorry this is happening. It must be so exhausting for you. I read this blog sometimes on how to deal (or rather not deal) with cheaters, narcs and lv people in general, and it has a subsection geared towards people having to coparent, maybe that will help you: https://www.chumplady.com/tag/co-parenting-with-a-fuckwit/ Sending you good vibes and strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:03 AM
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On the other hand, Elon Musik has gifted me this wonderful lvm filter in form of "Whom would you really like to meet if you could choose anyone?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:00 AM
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Sis, if he's 40 and screwing teenagers and young adults, he's not HV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:57 AM
45

In Germany, the Telegram ones are far right tinfoils 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:46 AM
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My guess is a) other communication channels are not moderated and can't result in them getting banhammered b) some dating apps don't allow sending (dic) pics and c) having your phone number gives them access to a whole arsenal of shenanigans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:44 AM
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"I'm also bald now!" Omg, I wouldn't even have made it far enough to block and delete before dying of laughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:40 AM
21

Yeah, it's really a case of "you're not that deep, bro". All I see is a lazy ass mf trying to unload word salad on a random Internet woman so she'll give him brownie points for his AwArEnEsS and tell him NO, DON'T FEEL SO BAD ABOUT YOURSELF, YOU ARE GREAT, LET ME SWADDLE YOUR DELICATE MAN-EMOTIONS. What a clown, but I guess actually being a decent person is hard. Reminds me of that time a scrote told me he wanted to write "feminist thinkpieces" because he fancied himself a big brained scholar. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:35 AM
7

On the other hand, there are plenty of men on OLD that are worth deleting the app over. And buying new locks and a dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:26 AM
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Radical idea: Men who support us actually shut up and listen and then get off their asses to do something about our problems (ex: voting, addressing misogyny when they encounter it, create opportunities for women). I know exactly ONE such person but I stumble across these lip service InTeLleCtUaLs that love nothing more than talk at you about themselves and how they feel so BAD!! about it all (bc they're so in touch with themselves, gosh, they deserve a special asshole cookie for how your oppres…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:34 PM
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Ah, that brings back memories of that time when I told my coworker the new girl had to go into his lab, because mine was at max occupancy. This is a direct quote, no joke: "I don't want A CHICK in MY lab! Then we can't even make jokes anymore" Yeah. Because you are a disgusting piece of shit and all your "jokes" are either racist/misogynist or lgbt-phobic scrote shit! But no, this woman he doesn't even know has clearly been enlisted by the feminazi fun police 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:10 PM
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I remember this - Let's be real here. This is just a ploy of this shitweasel to control and abuse the poor woman. Glad she isn't having none of it and he got torn to shreds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:01 AM
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Because we are threatening the status quo by literally not needing men and also not being easy targets to oppress due to foregoing the physical, emotional and financial vulnerability you experience in pregnancy and with small children to care for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:59 AM
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Sis, sorry this happened to you. But: You're talking about a man who claims to study cooking every day but doesn't own salt by his own admission. 🤡 Who's into fine fragrances but apparently doesn't know that you can get a small bottle of comparatively nice Eau de Toilette for twenty-fifty bucks. 🤡 Start pouring all that energy into yourself, and that exhaustion will suddenly vanish, I promise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:58 PM
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This. There was a time in my life where I cOmMuNiCaTeD so much with my nvex that he had regular screaming outbursts about how I'm a nagging bitch who only ever nags, nags, nags, have you this, did you that Yet still, he claimed he didn't know he was supposed to put the washing machine on when he got home or that we had an important event to attend. Like, which one is it, scrotes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:16 PM
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Maybe, if you don't want people to think you're a creepy, don't be fucking creepy bro. Hate this straw man, all it does is putting the blame on women (again).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:17 AM
14

I was making a quip about how dudes trying to date me are expecting me to do all this labor for them for free, whereas I get paid to do the same shit at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:00 AM
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I very distinctly remember my sixth grade teacher telling me that I just have no aptitude towards math. Men were telling me I should aspire to look like and do things like a REAL WOMAN and laughed at my ambitions all my life. Now, I have a doctorate in chemistry and develop AI applications for one of the biggest companies in this particular market sector. It was a long, arduous path and I faced so much bullshit from my male peers that some days the only thing that kept me going back for more was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:21 AM
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I have no problem being support staff to a man currently. He values my opinions, gives me gifts sometimes, brings me food sometimes, holds open doors and the best part: and I only have to do it 40 hrs per week and get paid a shitload of money doing this. All those scrotes wanting to date me can't even measure up to my boss lmao Gotta step up, boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:08 AM
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Deny Argue Reverse Victim & Offender
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:03 AM
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Sis, I've heard that particular line of bs so many times. Screw them all, but listen closely because it shows who they are. I might be fat now but my nails don't constantly chip and break off, my hair is shiny again and my skin plump. I'm not constantly exhausted and unfocused anymore. All of these obvious signs of being in better health don't matter to them, it's all about what they can gain from you, doesn't matter how you suffer. Hope you are doing well eating disorders are such a struggle to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:38 PM
11

The dude I dated in uni had the scrotacity to suggest semen would soothe a strep throat. Several times. How can you have so little empathy??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:29 PM
10

Probably that time when my ex who contributed almost nothing in regards to chores walked in while I was laundering the piles of dirty laundry mf could just spawn out of think air, started laughing and admonished me for cleaning out the dryer lint InEfFiCiEnTlY. A task that takes ten second max when you're being through. He then proceeded to show and tell how I SHOULD be doing it. The same scrote that can't even iron a towel because "it's too hawwwd and I can't stand the heat in here boo hoo"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:25 PM
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Ew, that feeling of being forced to touch them because they're backing you into a corner and you know if you don't play along they'll yell at you for another hour, sickening. I never hated my ex as much as I did in those moments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:56 PM
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Sharing a toothbrush with a scrote is super hygienic bc they don't brush tho! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:06 PM
53

PhYsIcAl ToUcH iS mY lOvE lAnGuAgE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:55 PM
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At my job, we were asked to show "a picture that describes you best as a person" during onboarding. I chose one of me doing plant stuff, and while there were others in the picture, I talked mostly about the plants I grow, why I find it relaxing, etc. Literally all the other women showed a picture of their family, sometimes not even with THEMSELVES IN THE PICTURE and told us all about their husband's jobs, how lil' Timmy is good at soccer, or lil' Susie takes ballet classes now. Like, cool, but w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:10 AM
21

All I can say is I'm super happy about living in a quiet street full of nosy elderly people and a landlady who's like a hawk. It's probably the closest I can get to the gated communities y'all have overseas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:00 AM
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It's a catch 22 - when we earn more, we are cold career women with no hearts and should feel insecure about it. When we earn less, we are shallow gold diggers and should feel insecure about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:46 AM
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Yes. I'm trying to get sterilized rn but it's incredibly difficult when you don't have children. It's a major surgery under General aesthesia and also expensive. Dudes can just walk in, get it done in a few minutes for a fraction of the cost. Take a guess how often some scrote tells me they're scared of side effects or I meet a couple that's done with family planning where only the woman is sterile. Quote my ex "I can't wait for you to get it so I don't have to use condoms any more" - ummm. This…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:10 AM
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Yeah 😱 Hope you're okay, sis! Maybe check out the lockpicking lawyer on yt, I learned a lot about lock safety and home security in general from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:53 PM
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Divide et impera. Pickmes are dangerous. I confided in my then best friend only once about the abuse I endured from my ex while always listening to her stories of being pumped and dumped. Got cut off after two sentences with, I kid you not "At LeAsT yOu HaVe A bOyFrIeNd". I stayed in that relationship much longer than I should have, because I was being policed by other women everywhere about how it wasn't that bad, at least he doesn't beat (he was trying to provoke me to engage constantly tho, n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:50 PM
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This is pure nightmare fuel. Like those stories where people discover there's someone living in their crawlspace/suspended ceiling/walls! Always thought that was an urban legend, but nope: https://m.chicagoreader.com/chicago/they-came-in-through-the-bathroom-mirror/Content?oid=871084
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:34 PM
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And then they go all "We NeVeR dO sTuFf ToGeThEr" but don't want to do anything you suggest, when you do drag them out of the house, they shove their food down and don't want to make conversation because they gotta get back in front of their screens. Their idea of doing stuff together is watching unfunny movies and playing games 24/7 with their manic pixie dream girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:21 PM
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Oof, I know this feel. My mother will be sixty this year and has been married to a lazy manchild for thirty years. She's been telling me she's gonna divorce him since I was fifteen, telling me she doesn't want to spend her life like that but it's all talk. I hope she will at some point, she has the means to do so but honestly I think she's scared of being alone and ultimately, it's her choice. I just wish she hadn't modelled all this bullshit for me to repeat and I wish she'd stop giving me pick…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:14 AM
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Kind of like everything is for men unless it's pink and costs 50% more 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:58 AM
16

This. It's about controlling us, our bodies, our voices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:15 PM
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It is so hard to be privileged in this world. wipes single tear These poor men, we just can't relate to what it's like when your biggest worry is your buddies calling you gay because you wash yourself. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:22 AM
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As if the crusty bathroom and mirror aren't enough to swipe left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:59 AM
8

This should really be a flair for posts about lacking hygiene from now on 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:37 PM
8

Yeah. Every guy I've been with has, at some point raped me in my sleep, surprise!! Shoved something up my ass or slapped me hard enough to leave marks because they "thought it was hot". I'm so done with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:16 PM
81

Girl, run like hell! I (unwittingly) dated a guy with a fat fetish once and he turned out to be the grossest piece of smooth brained shit under the sun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:09 PM
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I think it depends on how it's delivered. If someone tells me they're not happy with how they are spending their life and then takes healthy steps to change like therapy, community service, leveling up, they work in themselves to fix it and show introspection. Cheaters operate on entitlement and make you responsible for their happiness. If only you weren't so horrid, they would not need to cheat. It absolves them while tearing you down. Also, men usually don't leave relationships until they got …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:15 AM
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Yes. My personal sample size is rather small, but it happens a lot: https://www.chumplady.com/2019/06/i-havent-been-happy-for-a-long-time-2/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:15 AM
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Oh, absolutely! I was just referring to the couple in the OP. My heart breaks for the poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:11 AM
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Abusers have a tendency to do shit like this on important days like holidays, birthdays, big life event days.. They get off on taking away the spotlight and making it all about their shittiness because it's so hard to forget how asswipe here ruined the birth of her child/stole Christmas/made her cry on her wedding day/whatever ETA: "I haven't loved you in a long time" / "I haven't been happy in a long time" is classic cheaterspeak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:42 AM
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Yesterday, I got a single daffodil shoved in my direction when arriving at work, along with some overly cheery dude yelling "HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY" ...our board of directors has 0% non cishet white male people in it, I don't think this daffodil is gonna cut it, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:40 PM
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Yo, sister, just stopping by to say there's absolutely no reason to wonder "I don't know why I don't like them". You don't like them, stat. You don't need to explain yourself or ever have anyone imply there is something wrong with you! I also think children aren't cute and there are many women like us. That pressure you feel when you have to hold a baby and everyone looks at you expectantly like you'll have a come to Jesus moment any second now is literally the patriarchy trying to wrestle your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:36 AM
29

As opposed to intl. Men's Day, which is literally 364 days per year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:29 AM
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I remember when I was the most senior staff in the uni lab repairing a fire stone lighter and this guy walks over and tells me I've probably been using it wrong, you need to, like, squeeze with your hand. I loudly thanked him saying I'm so grateful for his input, I'd been squeezing it with my asscheeks for the last five years. Same dude once TOLD me to call him fifteen minutes before the group seminar so he'd not oversleep, like do I look like your fucking secretary? I switched fields now and pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:32 PM
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Reminds me how some scrote actually had the audacity to tell me "European women are like sports cars" once, like it was a compliment. I'll just go outside and scream at the sky or something now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:13 PM
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Yeah, but what if it's her kink? /sssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:02 PM
40

Oof, I know that feel. Always rationalized it with "he's still a student blah blah" when in reality he was supposed to graduate at the same time as myself but fucked that up because every other year he had to sit on his mom's basement couch and play Fallout or something because life is just so harrrddd I want to slap myself for every time he said "OoOpS I fOrGoT mY wAlLeT bAbE" or "WeIrD, mY CaRd Is NoT wOrKiNg" while he did nothing but disperse single stinky socks around my apartment, eat all m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:51 PM
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Girl, my ex would do that at least once a month. A few times, he put MY headphones in the laundry because he broke his that way and just helped himself in my desk. One day, I shit you not, this dude walks in and announces he's gonna buy himself airpods!! (also he was broke af.. Curiously only for stuff like clothes and new glasses so I'd feel bad for him, never for toys or as I later found out, porn) Blew a complete gasket when I said that was an idiot move. Never again lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:00 PM
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Having a relationship where you are the joke, on the other hand, sucks ass smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:08 PM
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My mother's boss asked her last year if I was planning on getting married now that I wrapped up my PhD - That's such a weird question to begin with. She told him no, I don't want to get married (last thing I need is some nv scrote taking off with half of my stuff lol also marriage is patriarchal af). He apparently first visibly bluescreened and then got a sadz about how "tragic" it is to be "forever alone" 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:05 PM
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Is it just me or is every scrote who includes their MBTI in their dating profile INTJ? It's almost as common as the DaRk HuMoR thing. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:09 AM
4

I always crack up at mirror selfies where the mirror is covered in the most disgusting grime and has probably never been wiped and their bathroom looks like a warzone - visual creatures my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:52 AM
8

Whatsapp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:03 AM
44

I think they are just being more vocal about it on the internet. Used to work in a very heavily male dominated field until last year and good grief, I've seen and heard the most disgusting shit because at some point I just became part of the lab inventory in their brains and they dropped their filters. Reddit isn't as popular over here so I don't think they have it, and also misogyny has a different "flavor" than in the US if you catch my drift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:43 PM
267

Uhm, my grandmother was born in 1914. She, like all other women in the village, busted her ass in the cloth factory, on the fields during harvest, DUG A FUCKING CELLAR WITH A SHOVEL, and restored the entire house after it had been ransacked in WWII and still got beaten and treated like a servant by my grand father despite having had a recommendation to attend higher ed but my great-grand folks couldn't even afford shoes for all their kids. Her mother had six small kids when her husband was crush…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:27 PM
9

Preach! I always do, ain't nobody got time to read all that bs. Just like the not wiping their asses or brushing their teeth thing, it's something I have accepted, but I can't really rationally comprehend that anybody would choose to go about their lives like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:56 AM
37

I wish more women would realize that ConFrOnTiNg and CoMmUnIcAtInG achieves nothing but being dished a big platter of gaslighting and bullshit. They won't stop, they'll just hide it better. Just don't. If they hid it from you, they KNOW it's inacceptable behavior. Plan your exit. Give them rope. Hit them hard and fast while they don't see it coming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:46 AM
19

Maybe I'm a weirdo but even teddybears make me uncomfortable in this regard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:41 AM
95

Yeah, I always wonder if I'm being too cynical when I block a guy after he sends me huge walls of texts blubbering about himself but there's no way in hell this ain't copypasted to literally every woman's DMs in a fifty mile radius. Even if it isn't, I don't want to talk to someone who puts THIS much energy into being self-aggrandizing without even asking what my hobbies are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:39 AM
25

Idk, my pokemon are served curries with only the best ingredients, we frequently go on camping trips and play, I haul their asses around on my bike, tried to get every toy in the games and care for them when they're sick.. That's still better treatment than what you get from most men lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:18 PM
31

It's likely because 1) this type of relationship is always portrayed as pAsSiOnAtE and 2) scrotes know this, that's why they pull the frog in boiling water technique and gradually ramp up their abuse. By the time they drop the mask altogether, their victims are so beaten down and trauma bonded they feel like that sort of treatment is their only option and like they probably deserve it. It's insidious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:07 PM
4

Pretty much. Plus, some of us just aren't as gifted in the conventional attraction department, at some point listening to that drivel just becomes masochism. The dudes there are bad, but somehow the cf ones you meet irl are even worse. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:17 PM
17

Hello fellow cf Person! I used to catch so much flak for arguing that you can't just force someone else to have surgery because you're too dumb to unroll a condom, I just stopped going there. Also the weird obsession with women's bodies in general like the constant droning about "perky", "skinny" and "tight". Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:03 PM
31

Oof, that hits so close to home. Sorry this happened, he's trash and she's a trash panda. However, I'll never not cackle at the memory of the dumb face of his when I told him to gtfo, slammed the door into his face, flipped him off through the window and walked away, blocked and deleted (this was before fds and I am forever proud of my sudden resolve). He probably expected for this to result in some kind of sister wife harem for him. Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:06 AM
88

This. When I found out my nvm ex was cheating with a mutual friend, I cut them both out immediately. It's been over a year and while I've accepted he's trash and will always be trash, I'm still reeling from her betraying me like this, going after him, and being so smug about it. The kind of shit they both talked about me, making fun of my body, tearing down my character, while I thought she was a sister and listened to all her problems and shit - that still stings. It's super fucked up when the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:42 AM
64

Some "friend" he is. Hope the gf dumps his ass, a bag of ratshit is better company than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:07 PM
13

The vagina is designed to push watermelon sized humanlings through it, don't flatter yourself and your tiny dick, Broseph 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:04 PM
153

And the poor kids, too. There's no way they grow up without noticing dad hates their guts and mom just can't cope with it all. This is so sad, putting all these people in a bad place because he was thinking with his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:14 AM
12

This is a good point, however, we should also not forget that there are a LOT of us (myself included) who simply have no desire to be mothers. Or who don't like children. Motherhood is an extension of womanhood, not it's definition and it speaks for our progress that we may opt out nowadays, even if we are facing backlash over it - this was simply not an option for previous generations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:40 AM
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