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Good analogy. Thank you for the response.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:30 PM
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Why do you care? Shes not making time for you, probably has shit planned with Chad. I'd soft next her and just focus on more important shit or other plates. Not worth your time. After you pull back if you have a high SMV she will likely come crawling back to you. Push-Pull is everything.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:17 PM
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> i find myself lazy, master procrastinator with no work ethic i can't even able to study an hour a day This is your problem. Your masking the issues with failed papers because they were hard when in reality if you put the time and effort into it I believe you could have passed. You need to fix your drive or it will be your downfall. There is no way to sugarcoat this. We all have to do difficult shit to be successful, and if that means writing a difficult paper then you gotta man up and get it d…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:15 PM
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Either find something you can do that is profitable or read books to better yourself. You're at work so the last thing you want to do is waste time on Facebook or even listening mindlessly to podcasts without actually taking notes or understanding what is being said. Informational videos and podcasts can be sneaky because you tell yourself you are learning when in reality it goes in one ear and out the other. Also from a more DT perspective relationships with co-workers can be valuable. Yes you …
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:11 PM
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Underrated comment
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:25 AM
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Appreciate the feedback brother. Going to try talking and giving it a time limit to see if things improve. Some people cant be fixed but this one has started to get better already so maybe it will just continue.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:10 PM
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This is similar to what I was considering doing. Appreciate the feedback brother.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:08 PM
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I just mean in terms of her not being a thot or some party type of girl. If I want an LTR they have to meet certain criteria or it's not worth even investing in.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:08 PM
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The delivery could use some work but it’s a good message.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 09:00 PM
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My interpretation was OP was referring to these weak/needy emotions. Of course emotions are primal and normal and you need to have passion and drive to lead or get things done, but you can’t sit around and pout about how your boss is a dick or some other trivial shit you shouldn’t be complaining about.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 08:49 PM
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I’d almost view this as a shit test. Never tell anyone your problems because most people don’t give a shit and the rest are glad you have them. If you appear to always be doing good it will increase your value. Misery loves company so if your girl is sad or upset she might want you to be the same. Even if she feels good about it in that moment it will make you appear weak. Everyone has their problems but we also know how to deal with them. Don’t appear weak. If you really had some serious shit g…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 08:47 PM
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Blowjobs can be better then sex. I don’t see a problem. If she never wants to fuck she’s probably just really insecure. I’d say reasons are legit, just take the play and enjoy it.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 08:44 PM
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Ride the Tiger - Julius Evola
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:31 AM
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This. Don’t threaten her just make it very clear you’re willing to walk away and not look back the second she crosses that line. If your value is high enough and she’s that addicted to you it will work every time. I’m going to make a more elaborate post on the main sub regarding my experiences with this approach in an LTR.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:47 AM
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I’ve always used a condom for sex because I’m not about to get trapped by some crazy bitch that lies about birth control. I also tie it and flush it when I’m done. But I have never used a condom for oral, seems unpleasant for all parties involved.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:41 AM
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Women don’t win. Alphas win. This girl is more alpha then this pathetic excuse of a man. Has no frame what so ever, so sure this woman won. This would never happen to truly red pilled men
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:39 AM
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Means she has lots of male friends. As long as you’re the one fucking her who cares. Definitely not LTR material don’t even try.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:36 AM
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Why are you asking this here? Go to YouTube or literally anywhere else.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:26 PM
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Might be wasting your time then. Don’t put too much into one prospect
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:48 PM
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Keep it interesting. Don’t text her too much. You said yourself you lost your frame so this one could potentially be lost. The less you care about the outcome the better it will go. Don’t go out with her with the intention to fuck her that night, you’ll appear needy in your actions. If your game is strong and there is attraction it will happen anyway. And escalating on the first date may not work always, but you can sure as hell try. I would. If you still want it to work out you gotta get past h…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:35 PM
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This is some big time ASD. Some girls don’t want to fuck after 48 hours and if you want to then you gotta play the game a little bit longer. Might not be worth your time.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 11:43 AM
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Happy to help
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:34 AM
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It accomplishes you giving them attention and energy lol. Women want attention because they get satisfaction from it, that’s why so many are addicted to social media and are using captions like “felt kinda fat but here are some beach pics” and Shit like that to get people to give attention. It gives them a dopamine rush.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:04 AM
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I had a plate tell me she was pregnant, another lie about being in the hospital, another telling me she’s suicidal etc. girls are insanely manipulative and if you ignore them enough and they want your attention they will go to crazy lengths to get that.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:02 AM
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That depends on what you’re doing over break and what she is doing. If you’re in college it’s about a 50/50 chance she’s close by to where you guys could meet up. If you both have no plans and are close by you could simply reach out and invite her for drinks or similar. If she has big plans I would completely ignore her until she says something to you first. But if she does go on vacation out of state or wherever, don’t text her about her trip as that shouldn’t matter to you and you couldn’t car…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:18 AM
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If you want to maintain attraction you need to be less available. Push-pull is a very great tactic for this. You should be going hours on end maybe even a full day without texting her. Don’t just always reply to small talk on texts, texting should be mostly logistics. If she always knows where you are and what you’re doing it eliminates all the mystery and her mind is not left to wander. Create some dread too and never give too much details in your explanations of what you’re doing or where you …
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:26 PM
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Some pretty meta stuff right there. It's unfortunate that the belief that men and women should do different things is considered sexist and misogynistic now, even though it's our nature and primal instinct to have certain behaviors or crave certain things.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 11:16 PM
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If you can't afford concert tickets for the both of you and be in a good situation after then definitely do not fucking go. Don't put yourself in a hole because of a girl. You need to focus on more important issues like making more money and being financially stable rather then "if I don't go will my girlfriend still like me". If she is actually a good partner for a LTR then just tell her you don't feel like going and would rather stay in. Have some fun in the bed room and she should be more tha…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 11:14 PM
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"Strength through adversity. The strongest steel is forged by the fires of hell. It is pounded and struck repeatedly before it’s plunged back into the molten fire. The fire gives it power and flexibility, and the blows give it strength. Those two things make the metal pliable and able to withstand every battle it’s called upon to fight." ​ The bullying is probably why you're anxious in situations with other men. I'd suggest working on your voice and confidence when you speak. Problems with a fat…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 11:08 PM
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"The only true wisdom is knowing you know nothing." Truer words have never been spoken. Always continue to grow.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 11:01 PM
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If you're doing the same routine and feel you've plateaued then you most likely need to switch up what you're doing. It also depends on your goals. There are natural limits to body building, so if you're grasping for an unattainable physique without using steroids then there is nothing that can be done. Not saying you've reached that yet but if you're wanting to be the next Arnold it might be time to hop on the Tren Train. You look good man, just continue to eat a lot of clean calories for bulki…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:59 PM
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Don't mention it brother, good luck in college.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:53 PM
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You have to realize that not everyone here is red pilled. And the ones that are actually usually have such a good understanding of it and can sniff out the bullshit. So it's possible you struck a few bad notes with vets or some new bluepilled fucks are just angry that you're calling them out on their weak mindedness. Almost everyone will get defensive and angry if you're ridiculing them for something that makes them feel good. The thing a lot fail to realize is that TRP isn't about feeling good,…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:52 PM
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Most of the posts your referring too end up on this sub asktrp rather then the main TRP sub which is a good thing. That clears it up for the most part. There are also a lot of blatant trolls that just have to be ignored. TRP does a great job of monitoring posts from spammers and keeping the feed fresh and engaging so it's not a huge issue. I just think there are a lot of guys that need to realize what they're doing is wasting time and energy for a girl or a dopamine rush, rather then focusing on…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:49 PM
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More and more jobs are becoming obsolete through computers especially with the creation of AI. I'd suggest something related to medicine, software development/security, or engineering. ​ Also taking extra classes on top of your studies is a good idea if you actually take them seriously and get something out of it. The big thing a lot of younger guys don't understand is that a degree is not a golden ticket to a 6 figure salary and a pension. There is a lot of work that goes into it outside of sch…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:46 PM
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You need to look internally for the answer to insecurities or depression. There is almost always a root cause stemming from previous experiences mostly in childhood. Think about your life up to this point and ask yourself why you are the way you are. If you're fit and get women then being dominant in a group of men shouldn't be an issue. Just get out of your head and be more present. Not constantly looking for an escape like your phone for example, every time things get awkward forces you to be …
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:37 PM
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Alpha males.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:34 PM
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From my understanding you can pull off silence if you're the right guy to do it. If a girl isn't comfortable sitting in silence with you it's because you've shown her that you're awkward or weird and it's possible she doesn't see herself being intimate with you in that sense. I've never had trouble with silence due to the fact that if we're not talking I'm probably taking her clothes off. Or if it gets quiet I'll just make eye contact and give her those "I am going to fuck the shit out of you" e…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:33 PM
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Don't study entrepreneurship in college unless your college has insane connections and can place you in internships with powerful business leaders. All the things you learn from it are garbage that you could teach yourself, not worth the investment. If you're going to go to college don't waste you or your parents money by studying something that doesn't guarantee a job path. Ask yourself if college is actually right for you, and be honest. If not you'll regret the investment for virtually nothin…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:30 PM
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Waste of time. Why even ask if she doesn't have pictures. Just ignore her, there are so many other girls.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:23 PM
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Obvious troll is obvious. I had a good laugh.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 08:03 AM
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Just keep reading. If you haven’t already you need to read the rational male. It’ll help a lot but no one here can help you unless you’re willing to help yourself.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 08:19 PM
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If you play your cards right, lift, grow mentally, develop abundance mindset, and game a lot of new girls you’re not even going to be thinking about her next year. You’ll have much better options and if she wants you to fuck her, she will come to you. I can not stress this enough, DO NOT embark on this life changing journey because of HER. Do it for yourself. You’ll thank yourself later and as someone who suffered from oneitis in high school I know it’s not easy, but the sooner you realize no wo…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 08:13 PM
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I’m assuming you’re in high school based on the see everyday in class (14-19 years old) your brain is still developing and if you’re letting women have this much control over your state of mind at such an early age you can expect it to carry on later into life.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 08:07 PM
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I’m saying eventually you might fuck her again, but don’t make that your goal. As you better yourself you’ll attract the attention of much better looking women. You need to forget about this girl before she ruins you and makes you a permanent beta. Don’t ever get oneitis.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:52 PM
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You can still ignore her and focus your attention on other girls. The more you ignore her and show her your value by having the attention of other women the more interested she’s going to be. Go read the sidebar on TRP if you actually want to better yourself. Go down the rabbit hole and see for yourself what you’re truly missing.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:47 PM
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So many guys like you get on here asking the wrong group of guys questions like this. I can tell you right now you have oneitis and need to stop fucking caring so much. Read more before you ask this. You can answer your own questions. Don’t put too much energy and emotion into one girl. There’s thousands of other options in your city. Do other shit and you’ll forget about her real quick.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:44 PM
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Dude it sounds like you have severe oneitis. This isn’t really a TRP thing more relationship advice. You need to seriously do some more reading and look at this again and you can answer your own question. Never listen to the words of a woman. Only their actions. LDRs never work even if it’s for 1 month. Go fuck other girls and you’ll forget about her real quick.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:42 PM
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Don’t try to plate an ex ever. Old feelings will arise and you’ll be constantly shittested until she gets you to commit again which will happen 95% of the time. I’ve tried this before and the best it’s been was I fucked a few more times before they start crying and you just have to leave. Not worth the headache.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:37 PM
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This is really basic info available everywhere within TRP if you just spent 5 minutes looking. Basically just try, engage in kino. If she’s not interested it’s painfully obvious.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:34 PM
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Exactly. Mental strength is valuable.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 11:06 PM
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No doubt that's all 100% fact. My comment wasn't meant to be negative, just hopefully eye opening to some. The self control aspect comes into play for making any sort of difficult choice. From partying, diet, lifting, work, school, etc. Its applied in all facets of life. But the number one thing you can do is try. And trying while knowing what you're doing will expedite the process for sure.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 10:19 PM
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" Like the question us skinnyfat Bros usually ask ourselves: can I make it? Should I just quit? " ​ If you ever find yourself asking this question then you need to re-evaluate. It's not just about weights but life in general. If you have the horrible habit of quitting on something before it reaps rewards or because it's hard then odds are you're not doing too well in life. Build your mental toughness and force yourself to do things. The HARDEST part about consistently going to the gym is the neg…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 09:45 PM
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This was needing to be said. I see too many people on here who think they're failures because they don't weigh enough/too much, don't fuck 7 different plates a week, don't make 7 figures etc. All that is byproducts of what you do. It's not what you pursue, it's what comes to you as a result of you bettering yourself and learning everyday. Also doing things you enjoy does make that journey much easier. Don't limit yourself because you perceive yourself in a negative light. Just keep going and get…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 09:26 PM
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If you have a few plates don’t force more just for the sake of your ego. Also LTRs with the right girl aren’t a bad thing. But the second she shows any red flags just drop the plate or replace it. Don’t feel bad about sampling until you find the flavor you want.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:00 AM
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It’s a mixture of practice and not giving a fuck. Be unapologetically you. Be charming and you can get away with anything. Only way to get better at something you know you’re not good at is by stepping out of your comfort zone and forcing yourself to do it. Reading about it will only help slightly. I’d recommend going to bars or college towns and just talking with as many people as possible even for minuscule exchanges.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:55 AM
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It’s so refreshing to see people on here posting in asktrp and actually doing the right fucking thing. I thought this was about to be a “what should I do, I can’t just ghost her” type of post but it was very refreshing. Shit sucks man but you’re the prize and if you keep that mindset they will come to you. Only way to forget a plate is to spin multiple. Good job brother,
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:50 AM
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I personally find it extremely difficult to try so hard for a woman in a LTR simply because it gets boring. All of my past relationships are fine and I end up breaking it off on the sole fact that I want a new challenge. The comfort and stability bores me and I don’t like it when things are predictable. I don’t think it’s that guys give up on themselves, it’s just that people crave variety. The guys who get complacent and stay may be giving up, but for the most part it’s just men getting bored.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 07:21 AM
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Its too easy for weak minded people to fall into the trap of comfort. Remember why you’re here and that AWALT. Unicorns aren’t real and he never actually took the red pill. It was mental masturbation with hopes of one day finding the one.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 05:59 PM
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Taxes will fuck that. Understand if you make “$100,000” a year you’re actually taking home maybe 70 after it’s all said and done and that’s generous.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:42 AM
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Yeah exactly. It’s one of the only things that has always been consistent in rising quicker than inflation in the long run. It’s the safest/smartest investment that you can make and just forget about. Also Vanguard is a great firm because they don’t charge absurd fees. Good luck my friend!
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:38 AM
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Very insightful thank you. I was touching on the fact that it’s a slippery slope.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:36 PM
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This response just shows you didn’t actually read what I said. So should I just stop giving a fuck about everything? Just become homeless and lay around high all day begging for drug money and just not give a fuck? That’s not always the solution, and giving well known responses to many questions isn’t helpful or productive.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:10 PM
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This is extremely well said brother.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 07:00 PM
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My ego. Got me answering my own questions. But that becomes the bigger more complex question. How do you control your ego when it’s what pushed you to do so many positive things? And it’s not about outsiders casting judgement for jerking off, but rather an inner battle. I could work on that until it stops bothering me but if jerking off occasionally doesn’t actively ruin my life what’s next? Just one hand of cards every now and then? Just one alcoholic binge every month? I feel like it’s a slipp…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:49 PM
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Fair point. It’s probably just something I shouldn’t be bothered by unless it becomes an actual problem. Appreciate the input brother
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:37 PM
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It very well could be an issue of me putting something small on a pedestal but I’d be lying if I sat here and told you I was perfect.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:26 PM
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Get the index 500 from vanguard. My dad became a multi millionaire on a 6 figure salary by controlling spending and funneling into that. I’ve taken his advice and am well on my way. It takes a lot of self control but it’s not a huge secret. Ask older wiser men in your life that have achieved great success for financial advice. They’ll all tell you the same thing. Self control.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:24 PM
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It feels bad because of the lapse in self control. It’s not negatively effecting me in a big way just a small loss every time it happens.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:17 PM
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At this point it’s not necessarily that it’s negatively effecting my life rather then I just feel like shit after because my will power ceased to exist in that moment.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:16 PM
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You’re not wrong about that. It’s been fun though just because I haven’t actually found one of these yet until now so it’s been like a science experiment. Wouldn’t mind boning again, but not going to go out of my way to try. The big difference between crazy whores and the Lucifer’s daughter type girls is just how sophisticated some of their games are and it’s been a fun challenge to beat her at her own game.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:33 PM
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Yeah you still couldn’t talk it’s the same game essentially
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 07:57 PM
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My teacher did this too but called it the Kings game. It was quite interesting, and at first I thought it was about stage presence. Being outgoing and demanding attention. But I was wrong. We had similar outcomes with those trying to win falling into the others frame and thus appearing as the follower, not the king.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 02:04 PM
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This is a solid read. I was lucky enough to have a father that told me the truth when my oneitis dumped me in high school. He told me that maybe she found someone better and that I should just look for the next. At the time I was angry at him for saying that, but that initial push to look at myself in the mirror changed my life drastically. We all have that moment where we realize it’s time to do something different so for that I also thank my dad.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 04:35 AM
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