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Could be she didn't like the fact you're both traveling so the time. A musician spends a lot of time on the road, if I were a woman it would definitely be on my mind. Could also be 1000 different reasons you have no control over. While you stay young it will happen more and more. Throw multiple rods into the water and you won't mind if one of the lines snaps cause you still have 4 others hooked. This is the way.
/r/seduction19/08/24 04:59 PM
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Got nothing to do with the US Santa. Unless you got a fetish for BBW's, no one wants those broke ass fatty chicks no matter where they live. They were ignored just as much before irl. Only difference is now they can easily find low value guys to make feel better about their fat selves on dating apps
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:31 PM
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Go read body language books. All of them. It's one thing to fuck up and not learn from your mistakes. It's inexcusable not to recognize them for what they are. I can always tell what the girls thinking based on her body language. How they body language changed for better or worse is how you know whether you're fucking up or killing it
/r/seduction29/07/24 04:33 PM
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This is pretty basic stuff. Almost shit post level
/r/seduction29/07/24 02:39 PM
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Total bull crap. My HB8 gf has tattoos, I don't. Make her world shake in bed, and show her a good time outside of it and that's it. Girls aren't as superficial as us , which is why you can get girls much hotter than you if you have game and social status
/r/seduction25/07/24 11:21 PM
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Yeah they don't mind. But I wasn't talking about the women in this scenario. I'd hate to be that emasculated guy at a restaurant way above my pay grade thinking should I order x y z since she's paying. That is the real nightmare. Long term you will feel like a woman and you'd have no value in her eyes but that of a comfort giver which she can replace in a heartbeat. So like I said ,Either be equals or you be the provider if it's a long term marriage material kinda thing. If it's a fling by all m…
/r/seduction23/07/24 07:15 PM
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Unless she's older than you, it might be problematic down the line. Women who have money still expect you to pay for them but your mileage may vary
/r/seduction23/07/24 07:37 AM
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Speakibg as someone who has been in your position, literally, for the past 8 months. Limit yourself to not seeing her on weekends, go out in weekends, find other girls, find a gf. End of Not saying it's easy, but I now have an amazing gf and even though the girl at the office is amazing too, I've no reason to think of her that way anymore. Take it from someone who knows, slowly but surely ya gotta let go
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:45 AM
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You put a lot of effort to answer a question no one asked buddy. GG
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:35 AM
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She sent 3 I sent 3 back.
/r/seduction03/07/24 10:05 PM
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Here's an idea. Don't have sex so early . Game for the sake of relationship is a bit of tweaking. Comfort and attraction are way more important . Sure sexual tension too, but you wanna keep it constant and not escalate to sex . Only when she's in over her head do you spring the mattress on her Research how to hit her pleasure spots more. Pro tip - when attempting missionary lift her legs up and hold her butt cheeks while you pump. Try to lean and rub your dick towards her stomach as you slide in…
/r/seduction01/07/24 02:34 PM
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You get a girl's number, then what? You text. It's the main form of communication, few people talk on the phone these days. you gotta build attraction to raise her buy in temperature so when you do ask her out she's eager and can't wait to see you. Look up a book called text game, thank me later
/r/seduction14/06/24 09:01 AM
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I'm sure you'll get there eventually bud
/r/seduction13/06/24 10:06 PM
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It would be shocking if that isn't who you are otherwise you wouldn't be asking these questions in the first place. And since you're here, doesn't that mean you seek to be a better version of your current self? If you're sure your Achilles heel is your ability to make her laugh then as an extension to you seeking advise on reddit, try looking up books and videos on how become a funnier version of you. Some people's Achilles heel (in their mind) is their yellow teeth. Some are struggling with app…
/r/seduction13/06/24 09:55 PM
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The inbreeding is real
/r/seduction13/06/24 09:38 PM
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I second that motion. All ya gotta do is spot a chick hanging out by the slots, chances are she's looking for someone to fill hers. One day we ran a train on some girl with a black belt in BJ's.i still reminisce about those CIM moments
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:52 PM
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Thanks man, it's good to hear I'm not the crazy one in this scenario. that was my line of thinking exactly . Coffee+beach= low commitment and safe public env. I guess she wasn't really trying to date, just self validate behind a screen
/r/seduction25/05/24 12:49 PM
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Thanks man I appreciate the tip, will do in the future. I thought she showed enough interest, she said I'm handsome and we were exchanging banter on if her dog would join us will the dog steal all of my attention away from her. Got out if it well saying "I love dogs, sue me 🐕 but when we go out I'll only have eyes for you" and she liked that. I guess that wasn't enough interest, go figure
/r/seduction25/05/24 08:34 AM
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Thanks dude, sent. Ball's in her court. She really is missing out if she flakes, we've so many shared interests. Just boggles the mind how a girl's mind's work
/r/seduction25/05/24 07:38 AM
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She complimented me on my looks, I don't think the photos are an issue. Specifically with the current one I asked her out for coffee at the beach saying I'm curious if our chemistry exists outside the confines of a screen. Hey reply was "honey, what chemistry we barely know each other" Don't see how I can reply to that
/r/seduction25/05/24 07:20 AM
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Literally 5 shit posts like this everyday. Zero moderation on this sub
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:27 AM
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Quality advise right there
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:28 PM
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Stop being an enabling bitch? No story here just the same crappy "why can't I get girls on dating app ____ even though I'm ____ looking and I've done ____. There's absolutely nothing he can contribute or anyone else can contribute to him that hasn't been talked about to death in older posts.
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:07 PM
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Spend the extra seconds searching the sub for answers before posting noob shit that's been asked to death a billion times
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:54 PM
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Please don't take this the wrong way but you don't need girls to tell you, every guy here will tell you it's your average frustrated chump mentality that's wrong at the moment. Seeking women's validation will only diminish you and drive you further down the rabbit hole. Girls want a guy that's settled in his skin confident and doesn't project an aura of neediness and insecurity. The more you'll let these damaging thoughts about needing women's validation shape your psyche, the more you're gonna …
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:56 AM
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Chicks blow hot and cold sometimes it's got nothing to do with you. I cold approached a milf outside a club 2 minutes later were making out she's grabbing my hand and wants me to take her somewhere. We go to a dance bar dance a bit make out more then suddenly she says it's been nice but she's more into girls. Was she really? Fuck no she just decided she didn't want to take it further Did it affect me? Yeah during the two minutes it took me to get out of there and talk to a diff chick. Pulling ch…
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:44 AM
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Doesn't matter how unattractive they are, they will get attention from thirsty low grade men with no standards giving them validation. Swipe on the ones you like, message them wild things for the hell of it and if they cool and reply, quickly try to get them out of the app with their # as any conversation on tinder quickly loses steam and is on borrowed time
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:10 AM
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Tinder is a meat market, most girls don't read your bio unless you're hot and ugly girls get confidence from AFCs giving them hollow compliments all day making feel like they Paris Hilton. If you have no expectation from the platform you'll feel no disappointment that's the tinder mantra
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:03 AM
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Can't say I'd go back to IRC no matter how good the circles are. The retro interface really doesn't do it for me And yeah I find direct gets me the most results for the least amount of effort and time. I still have a lot to learn though and realized it's best to learn it on your own rather than expect this sub to contribute something new
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:24 AM
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I half heartedly agree with what you said Up to a month ago I was a failure in my own eyes. Sure I had a milf gf which I hit on cold approach in the street, but that relationship was holding me back no matter how good the sex was. I stayed with her much longer than I'd care to admit and it took a lot to rip off the band aid get used to sleeping alone and put myself out there. But I did it. Pledged myself to going out every night of the weekend. And the first time I went out I couldn't bring myse…
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:04 AM
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In the words of one Ryan Caraveo "And if you think I'm wrong when I say this then this song is about you"
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:51 AM
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Of course you were the same dude, but a second date is not the first. You're barely scratching the surface on the first one so unless you're ugly or made some social faux pas mistake a second date is expected. However, women delve deeper in the second date and look for chemistry more than the average man. A high value man will not settle for "nice and pretty" but ask questions to challenge the girl too to see if she has more than good looks going for her. If you're getting blocked every once in …
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:21 PM
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Yup, That's why this place exists though, to gain knowledge
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:13 AM
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Basically the only guys who would ask you out on uniform are extremely confident pickup artists trying to prove a point who do not partake in drugs. The former requirement makes the pool of potential suitors scarce while the latter makes your chances virtually non existent. Just go out to the beach or a bar with your civilian clothes. If you're as hot as you say you are I see no reason why you won't get hit on more times than Muhammad Ali Edit : I suggest asking them if they smoke weed pretty ea…
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:57 AM
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Texts should be increasing but if and when that happens it should come from her not from you. Letting her miss you is not necessarily a bad thing. And worrying about interest dropping is natural but letting her know you're worried by texting more would yield the opposite result of what you're trying to achieve. For example Ive been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks but the more I thought things were getting serious the less she texted me back. It was maddening until I stopped texting and to…
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:48 AM
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It sounds like you're not that serious yet or she would be texting you and you'd be communicating naturally by now. Texting her while she's away (I. E chasing her) Is generally always a bad idea. You're trying to give off a feeling of aloofness, not neediness. Rule of thumb is if she texts you, text her back. If not radio silence until the day before the date then just casually confirm you're still on for tomorrow. good luck
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:04 AM
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It's like counting tissues every time you blow your nose. Totally meaningless
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:46 AM
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Just mentioning kissing at a club makes it sound like you're making a bit deal out of it. Making out in the club is easy, it's only when you try to get her to switch venues alone with you and ditch her friends that it gets interesting
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:41 AM
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Of course. You never fucked a girl when you had beer goggles on, only to find out she wasn't that hot the next day? Happens to me all the time
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:38 AM
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Sounds like she was salty cuz she thought the blonde was hotter than her. Cheers to you
/r/seduction25/10/20 12:44 AM
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Life gave you lemons, don't just bite on the rind make some juice for the girls. Short of surgery you can't fix the hair, but you sure can work on fitness to make your bald head look good
/r/seduction08/08/20 10:14 PM
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