| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 40 | Field Report: 1/14/20 Number close on Milf at a bar | Field Report | Thee420Blaziken | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 02:51 AM |
| 0 | How to let a girl down easy | Thee420Blaziken | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 03:17 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Are guys interested in foreplay and making out?/u/heer0333 ^ This, guy are bad at getting hints. The girl I'm currently with tried to tell me indirectly a few times on what she liked and I got some of it, but we don't have vaginas so we don't know from experience what feels good. Being direct and having that conversation is definitely awkward, but after doing so my sexual relationship with that girl was much improved. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Best Place to Find Women??Depends on how seriously you want to not catch COVID. I've been using Hinge only since ~June and have gone on a 3/4 dates with different people, I think dating apps will probably be the easiest and safest option. I've noticed the girls I match with are more responsive and eager to go on dates. | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Is it still possible to date/hookup if you still live with your parents?As someone in that position right now (23M), yes it is 100% possible because I've done it. It will be difficult but not impossible, imo going back to the girls place or car sex will be the easiest. However, I've brought girls back to my parents and had sex with them there. | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 11:44 PM |
| 1 | How should I play this?^ sup is boring as hell. Plus she probably thinks it's just a wrong # text | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How should I play this?Lol no wonder she didn't respond. Like someone else said, remind her of the interaction where you got her number. I attached screenshots of this in action, granted is via a dating app but same principles apply. http://imgur.com/a/bsNHGaW | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 10:29 PM |
| 2 | How To Be Good In Bed (4 Key Tips)The girl I'm currently seeing has a shallow vagina and I can hit her cervix when we have sex, which hurts a little. It might be that (my dick is 6", so not baby arm sized). Or you're going to hard and pile driving the shit out of her which some girls enjoy but not all. | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 09:47 PM |
| 15 | How To Be Good In Bed (4 Key Tips)Do this, I didn't file my nails (but clipped them) before fingering the girl I'm seeing. She bled all over the place while we were having sex. All. Over. Blood on her carpet, her bed, me and her. Definitely killed the mood | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Rejection without pain?Yeah you could choose to pick one and lie to the other 3, idk if you'd feel guilty. Could go with, "my best friend broke up with his girl recently, so we are gonna hangout and do x on Valentine's day instead." If you're honest you might lose the other 3 or decide to not make plans with any of them. Gotta choose Personally I think Valentine's day is bullshit, but I digress | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Is this sub only for men looking for advice on women?I'd agree with most everything in the post above but would add going out more (and approach guys if you want). Definitely get some hobbies because most people, unless you are approaching random people or using dating apps, meet their SO through social circles. Although good luck and be safe, I've heard a lot of horror stories from my friends who are women about creepy and shitty guys | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: 1/14/20 Number close on Milf at a barShe was attractive, I don't have my own place (live with my parents) so logistics aren't the best. I guess we'll see what happens, never had experience with someone much older than me | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 03:08 PM |
| 11 | Field Report: 1/14/20 Number close on Milf at a barThanks bud, also had a successful tinder conversation tonight. Gonna meet Friday for drinks. Gotta brush off the rust somehow | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Finally got my first sexual activity at 23Congrats, I just got out of a longer relationship and got a girl to be fwbs with me. As long as you put in effort in the bedroom and respect their boundaries until y'all are comfortable, she'll stick around | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 02:11 PM |
| 5 | Moving can help out personal development A LOT.I prefer living with others I am good friends with, but I did an internship in a large 30k+ kids college town. I lived by myself for 3 months, definitely helped me mature. I met some of the best people I've ever met, who I'm still friends with. Can be worth it, but I'd prefer roommates for long term P.S. having your own place for girls is great though, can fuck anywhere | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 10:51 PM |
| 2 | How to get over the fact that college girls are judgemental and superficial?Literally meet women on campus during the day. Through clubs, sports, mutual friends. I never dated any girls I met at the bar/parties in college, only girls I met through mutual activities or friends | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 10:27 PM |
| 5 | Women always dump me. The first few dates/weeks go great, then it’s like my “game” vanishes. Tips?Haha I'm not going to give up. If anything I'm glad it happened, made me realize I still have some to do on myself | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 11:24 PM |
| 70 | Women always dump me. The first few dates/weeks go great, then it’s like my “game” vanishes. Tips?This happened to me about a month ago, I think it stems from forcing/needing the relationship. Reflecting back on what happened, it was definitely me trying to force the relationship to hard instead of letting it happen. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Approaching randomlyI usually just leave random approaches with a compliment or small talk remark and move on. If they are really receptive and continue the conversation, then I go from there. I can think of 2 times where randomly approaching someone for daygaming has worked, granted I don't do often | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Taking good pictures of yourselfGet someone to take pictures of you, selfies are awful. I have a friend who does professional photography so I paid her for 2 hours and bought her lunch after. Best pictures I've ever had. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 04:15 PM |
| 22 | So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it?Short answer: Looks do matter, but looks are subjective. If a girl finds you decently attractive that just gets your foot in the door. The more attractive you are the further your foot gets in the door. Also I'd say personality is a +/- 2 to the looks category imo. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 04:02 PM |
| 22 | Any ideas for fun, unconventional dates?My favorite is bowling as a first date (mostly because I find it fun), plus it gives a little challenge and can br good for kino and teasing. Honorable mention is karaoke. Granted I've done pole dancing (was hilarious, her idea), paint night (meh, I suck at painting) | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Took a break with my LTR.I think my definition of "taking a break" is different than yours, but give her space to work on herself. Based on your post you seem to be hovering a little bit. I don't agree with the no seeing other people part, and sending gn, gm texts seems strange. Also, some people don't want to work on themselves, you may have to move on from her. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How to keep interest for several weeks while i am out of town???I literally just had this happen, went on a first date. She needed some time to deal with some rl family shit. I didn't text her for a whole month, hit her up last week. We went out and had sex when we met up that weekend. Aka just put her on the back burner, but say "Hey I'm going out of town for a while for xyz, I'll hit you up when I come back into town." Maybe hit her up a week or two in and say "How have you been, I did ____ while out of town it was amazing." Type bullshit | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Tips on getting lucky with a milf?Dude you should be good, I'm slightly under 6 foot and have no problem with older women Edit: I don't workout but, my beard, face, and hair are on point | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Tips on getting lucky with a milf?Literally just act like there is no age difference. I've had success with older women and I just pretend like age doesn't matter. Only had a few experiences where the woman was uninterested because I was younger. (I'm 23 for reference) | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 01:39 AM |
| 4 | Tips on getting lucky with a milf?Take this with a grain of salt but I'd say no because you're young and (hopefully good looking) so size is not a big concern. Granted I've found with most women if you're 5-6" you're good to go. Just work that tongue | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 01:36 AM |
| 29 | Tips on getting lucky with a milf?Treating them like a normal person and not a sexual fantasy. Edit: I will add this is true for 99.999999% of women | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | How to let a girl down easyGotcha that's what I was thinking of saying, I've had some rough break ups in the past when I initiated the break up. I'm mid twenties | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Cute girls next door. Wtf do I do.It also gives you huge social proof, if you're throwing a fun pregame with cool people. I've used that to my advantage to get girls on many occasions. | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 11:36 PM |
| 6 | Cute girls next door. Wtf do I do.Host a pregame at your apartment with some friends, make sure to have enough girls so the guys don't snatch your neighbors. Then invite those girls over and make it seem like you are doing them a favor by inviting them, aka be casual about it. | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Cute girls next door. Wtf do I do.Chances are if they are in college they drink. | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Easy guide for building status in college...Especially all you incoming freshman.Yup, basically how ours worked. If you have girls with you and we know you won't fuck anything up you're alright. My college is in a semi sketchy area and we had people pull guns and knives on us trying to get in, after that you had to have your name on a guest list to get in and your student ID. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Easy guide for building status in college...Especially all you incoming freshman.I'm actually the alumni advisor for my fraternity so I speak to most of them regularly... You seem to be misunderstanding what I said, I used the cover fee as a comparison to balancing a ratio. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Easy guide for building status in college...Especially all you incoming freshman.The whole point of not letting in other guys into parties is to maintain a healthy ratio (ever wonder why some high status clubs charge covers for guys or stop letting guys in at a certain point?), girls will leave if there are way to many guys. And because it's a fraternity party there is going to be a bunch of guys there to start with. So why let in more guys that: A) you don't know, they may break stuff or drug people and ruin the party or get you in trouble B) probably won't add value to the… | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Virgin (18f) How do i have sex?Honestly if guys are intimidated by you they probably aren't worth your time, don't worry about losing your virginity it'll happen eventually. Sex is great and all, but it's only great if the guy knows what he's doing. Which at 18 is probably a no, so just chill and enjoy life. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Guys I’m going to MY FIRST YEAR College it’s a small one how do I become popular ? What are things u did to become popular in college (for experienced guys)Join clubs, get into leadership positions in them. Like some other guy said, make friends with the people in your residence hall. He also advised against joining a fraternity which is something I did and loved it. Just make sure any Greek life organization you join has a great rep and aren't a bunch of assholes like half of the ones at my school. You don't want to be associated with the "rape fraternity" or the "weird/ugly fraternity." Granted social Dynamics in a fraternity can change but it's … | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Is this guy trying to seduce me and what should I do?This, if I was in another country for a wedding (basically vacation) I wouldn't be texting anyone but close friends, family, and SOs. Maybe sending a snap or two to some girls. Just chill out and enjoy hanging out with the guy, you've been on 3 dates which isn't a lot. Sounds like he isn't needy, and enjoys the moment. | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 02:12 PM |
| 5 | How to meet/hookup with girls in CollegeSome guy said to join clubs, and this is the absolute key. (Along with going out to bars, tinder and day game) Being involved/leader on campus gives huge social proof. I did Student Government, Greek life, and a sexual health club (this one was a gold mine) and was able to meet so many high quality girls. The sexual health club in particular helped me meet girls through friends in the club that were DTF, and I also learned some useful skills along the way. (Granted it seemed strange to more cons… | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 03:57 PM |
| 2 | 5 Mind-shifts That Will Make Your Dating Life 10x More SuccessfulUnderstandable. Sarcasm is my go-to form of wit, something I learned from my family. Granted you don't have to be comedian levels to make a girl laugh, if she's interested in you and you tell a bad joke there's a decent chance she'll laugh anyway. I don't have too much experience interacting with people with autism unfortunately. I'd say experiment, use some friends who are girls as a sounding board (I do this quite a bit). It took me a few years to develop my humor and conversation skills and s… | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 04:08 AM |
| 2 | 5 Mind-shifts That Will Make Your Dating Life 10x More SuccessfulIt depends on your personality, and strengths. For me I'm very good and making a girl laugh, teasing, and showing her Im not afraid to embarrass myself. Ex. Maybe you're better at making a "spiritual" connection Ex. From my side, met up with this girl last night from Tinder. Went very well, both of us laughing and cracking jokes, throwing in light touch. She really wanted to come back to my place (live with my parents atm so not an option), she offered to give me a BJ in the back seat of my car.… | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 03:47 PM |
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