Thekidbkj Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Seduction by Rachel O’Neill		Thekidbkj	/r/ExRedPill	03/12/21 02:37 AM
1	Obsession with concept of hypergamy is avoidance of real problems	Discussion	Thekidbkj	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/20 12:18 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Kevin Samuels did nothing but create more incels. What’s wild is when he died he had like no money in his bank account. Dude was a fraud	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/22 12:32 AM
1	How do I get rid of the toxic and hypocritical mentality that women are less valuable because of their sexual history? Steve Pinker is part of the Theos think tank. On a policy level, Steve Pinker believes that there are genetic differences in intellectual capabilities among race. Meanwhile there are mountains of research (the Flynn effect one among them) showing overwhelmingly that ones intellectual ability, is far more influenced by the environment people come from. He completely ignores the fact whether someone succeeds in life is more influenced by the wealth of the family you came from than anything else. A…	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/22 07:03 PM
1	How do I get rid of the toxic and hypocritical mentality that women are less valuable because of their sexual history? You said a lot here. But I’ll say this. It’s a mistake to assume that people like Steven Pinker, are just engaging in science, completely devoid of ideology or political bias. If he were doing that, then why is he a member of a right wing think tank? There are plenty of evolutionary biologists who understand their field a hell of a lot more than Pinker, who find his (and ppl like his) interpretation of it, completely misinformed. PZ Meyers is someone to check out. He’s an evolutionary biologist …	/r/ExRedPill	23/03/22 09:40 PM
3	How do I get rid of the toxic and hypocritical mentality that women are less valuable because of their sexual history? The “they” I’m referring to are people like Geoffrey Miller, Buss, Saad. Also to answer the second part of your question. Look into sociology and attachment theory. You have to understand that fields like evo psych (and right wing politics in general) are attempting to naturalize phenomena that doesn’t occur in a vacuum. Nothing exists in a vacuum. Our biology interacts with culture. Always. I would recommend the book: NEO LIBERAL GENETICS: THE MYTHS AND TALES OF EVOLUTIONARY PSYCHOLOGY by Susan…	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/22 07:21 PM
3	How do I get rid of the toxic and hypocritical mentality that women are less valuable because of their sexual history? Actually it’s both. They talk about it in descriptive and prescriptive language. But that’s not the point. The point is their methodology is absolute garbage and the degree to which they’re unaware of their own biases is hilarious.	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/22 05:22 PM
8	How do I get rid of the toxic and hypocritical mentality that women are less valuable because of their sexual history? Okay. Some advice. Assuming you’re also trying to rid yourself of redpill nonsense. Stop reading/watching evo psych. The field is nonsense. They’re just more intelligent sounding red pillars who are comically unaware of history and sociology.	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/22 02:05 AM
10	How do I get rid of the toxic and hypocritical mentality that women are less valuable because of their sexual history? The ONLY reason men care about a woman’s sexual history is jealousy and insecurity. Straight up. You may not have access to these feelings. But they’re there. Think about it. I mean REALLY think about it. Why would you care about a woman’s sexual past? It’s because you don’t feel like you measure up. And your ego can’t handle that.	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/22 12:34 AM
3	How do I get rid of the toxic and hypocritical mentality that women are less valuable because of their sexual history? It’s totally fine to not have any empathy for certain ppl. But maybe don’t subscribe to a subreddit where ppl like this are getting help? Vent your anger to YOUR therapist.	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/22 12:30 AM
1	Starting to feel like life as man is rigged against me. Also, I might get some shit for this. But class is 100% an issue in dating. The manosphere makes a caricature of this concept by claiming women only want men for their money, and they’re all competing to try and get the man with the most resources. That’s obviously nonsense. But class does matter. The same way looks matter. Anyone who thinks otherwise is being naive. Society is harsh to the working class but even more harsh to working class men. When a woman is broke, one can imagine her being a…	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/22 10:54 PM
4	So uh… What do women want again? Dude stop reading evo psych.	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/22 08:57 PM
16	Red Piller Here - Why Should I Quit? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5421994/ This is the definitive study. Taken from census data. Because women are outshining men in terms of education, women are marrying down more and more.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 02:03 AM
5	I am currently proposing a YouTube video essay on how the wider pickup and men's dating advice both subconsciously and consciously enable the red pill, MGTOW, inceldom, white nationalism and fascism. What are things want to see added to this list and covered? Yes there’s a book on this by Rachel O Niell. Basically she’s makes a sociological argument that the manosphere isn’t a deviation from culture norms but actually an acceleration of it. In other words the manosphere is just an exaggerated version of what mainstream culture already believes	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/22 12:21 AM
6	Psychologist Refutes Red Pill Logic Also. Wtf are you even talking about with the slavery thing??	/r/ExRedPill	20/01/22 07:44 PM
13	Psychologist Refutes Red Pill Logic “Women don’t fall out of the academic system because they are conformist.” Sure dude. THATS why women are excelling more academically. And the assumption is what? Men are skipping college because it’s conformist and they’re all starting world changing businesses?😂 no dude they’re dropping out of college and moving in with their parents and delivering pizza. The whole point is women don’t need us anymore to live. They’re fine on their own.	/r/ExRedPill	20/01/22 07:30 PM
8	Psychologist Refutes Red Pill Logic Awesome video	/r/ExRedPill	20/01/22 04:34 AM
6	Do men prefer women without much of a sexually promiscuous past? Personally. I view promiscuous women as fun and outgoing. And would feel honored and validated if they also wanted to sleep with me. I never understood the notion than men should want women who’ve barely had any sex.	/r/ExRedPill	18/01/22 06:53 PM
5	Should I just see an escort? When I’m feeling seriously lonely and touch starved I usually hit the strip club. I find the dancers to be really nurturing and really good especially at interacting with shy men. Let them talk to you for a while and then get a few dances and tip well.	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/22 07:59 PM
2	For those wondering why women don't "like" them, here's some excellent tips “Liking is often mutual…” hilarious	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 08:27 PM
4	[deleted by user] It’s only a problem if you think it’s a problem. I don’t blame anyone for seeing sex workers especially if you struggle with dating. Fuck we all need human contact and not all of us can get it easily. Maybe it’s not the healthiest coping mechanism but who actually has healthy coping mechanisms?	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 08:13 PM
2	Healing the masculine and feminine energy cores within all us. Ya you lost me at masculine and feminine energy	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/22 06:51 AM
5	Do RedPillers have Attachment Trauma I mean pretty much everyone has some sort of attachment trauma. So redpillers definitely do.	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/21 02:57 AM
7	Bad RP dating mantra: The woman is acting like an asshole because you're not assertive/masculine enough. Her shitty behavior is on you, somehow. I once met a girl through my sister who I became friends with. At first I was kind of into her. She was not into me sexually at all. A few months later, she was going something that was really annoying me/hurting my feelings, and sort of snapped at her. And she immediately told me how hot she thought it was. Maybe a month later she said she wanted to hookup with me. (I didn’t) I think when women say “I want a guy to put me in my place” they sort mean “I want a guy to express his emotions and not…	/r/ExRedPill	03/12/21 05:18 PM
2	Seduction by Rachel O’Neill That’s a great point. Science only matters to them insofar as it can mesh with their reactionary views	/r/ExRedPill	03/12/21 04:26 PM
2	Seduction by Rachel O’Neill Couldn’t of said it better myself.	/r/ExRedPill	03/12/21 11:31 AM
1	Is there any validity to NoFap? No	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/21 08:06 PM
12	You can't claim to be a detox and then call someone a loser I have some of this indignation you’re expressing as well. I’d consider myself a feminist as well, but it does drive me nuts when feminists who constantly rail against the patriarchy make fun of men for not living up to what the patriarchy expects of them. Or when they’re only attracted to men who benefit from the patriarchy the most. I understand you can’t help what you’re attracted to but the lack of self awareness is annoying	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/21 04:29 PM
2	Incels just play the victim The armchair diagnoses of narcissism are so dumb. Stop. Oh you think they’re narcissistic cause you read it on an Instagram Infograph? Cool.	/r/ExRedPill	10/11/21 05:26 PM
5	Had a date, still terrified of her I agree that he should get in to therapy. But this business of not dating until the issues are resolved isn’t necessary. Therapy only goes so far, and ppl don’t change without experience. I’d say go to therapy, date if you can, and get the experiential knowledge that there’s nothing to be afraid of. Women are just like you dude.	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/21 09:39 PM
1	How much does your social status matter to women? You do realize that half of Americans don’t even have 400 dollars in their bank account? And that statistic came before the pandemic. A lot of this is out of people’s control due to structural and policy reasons, which are pretty obvious if you think about it for a few seconds. And the pandemic as only made those reasons even more glaringly obvious. Now, you’re of course allowed to have any preference you’d like. But that doesn’t mean you aren’t shallow or materialistic for having said preferenc…	/r/ExRedPill	17/10/21 02:41 AM
5	Whats the worst thing about TRP? I swear, learning about hypergamy triggered a depression that lasted 3 years	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/21 04:40 AM
2	sex in relationships Did you ever tell any of these women how you felt? I ask because it sounds like maybe they were a little inconsiderate of your feelings. But I guess if you’re dissociating it may not be obvious to them that you’re hurt. Not to sound harsh but I think you’re asking the wrong question. There isn’t going to be a way to stop being hurt by rejection. It’s there. And it will diminish if you find a partner who understands you. You might be dissociating because you know deep down she wouldn’t respond we…	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/21 09:37 PM
1	Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple steps Okay, but why take the time to respond to every single reply trying to give you evidence to the contrary? Seems like there’s a little more going on than trying “to give people a chuckle.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 02:11 PM
1	Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple steps Serious question. What is the point of a post like this? What are you hoping to get out of it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 02:02 PM
19	Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPD I think if anything it’s the men who are engaged in red pill have some narcissistic traits. The inability to handle rejection and revenge fantasizing seems to fit	/r/ExRedPill	01/01/21 09:59 PM
1	"Porn featuring violence against women is far more popular among women than men. The rate at which women watch violent porn is roughly the same in every part of the world. It isn’t correlated with how women are treated." There’s a book called Hard Core Romance, by Iva Illouz. It talks about 50 shades of Grey and offers a sociological explanation as to why it’s so popular among women. Check it out.	/r/ExRedPill	26/08/20 09:15 PM
2	Jungian Antidote to Red Pill You lost me at men should be men and women should be women. This is the kind of stuff that fuels redpill thinking. Redpillers are going to read that and think oh this is exactly what Jordan Peterson goes on about. And then we’re off to the races	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/20 03:51 AM
4	Do you consider Mark Manson's writings to be a more trustworthy or healthy outlook on life and realtionships? TRP, or more specifically PUA, has hurt me and since then I've been VERY suspicious of any dating and even life advice but I've noticed you have Mark Manson's posts in your First Aid Kit. So I’m not necessarily saying neediness is a good thing. But I am saying that the obsession with “being non needy” is bad. The reality is that some of us are more needy in general. Sometimes the other person’s personality can trigger neediness. And sometimes, the other person’s rude or bad behavior can make us “needy.” People are needy for all different reasons. And it gets triggered in different contexts. And you can’t just get rid of it through a checklist of actions, that is a myth. There are…	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/20 12:44 AM
3	Do you consider Mark Manson's writings to be a more trustworthy or healthy outlook on life and realtionships? TRP, or more specifically PUA, has hurt me and since then I've been VERY suspicious of any dating and even life advice but I've noticed you have Mark Manson's posts in your First Aid Kit. In my opinion, he's healthier than the manosphere. But he is similar to PUA's in his obsession with ridding oneself of "neediness." The first part of his book on attracting women with honesty is dedicated to teaching men how to be less needy. This is a fool's errand. And its contributing to a bullshit assumption in our culture that women are inherently needy and men are supposed to be dominant emotional rocks. Also, he doesnt seem to realize that if someone feels needy, and they try to employ a …	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/20 06:59 PM
5	Evolutionary Psychologist who popularized "Ovulatory Cycle Shifts" on which TRPrs (claim to) rely on to justfify their crap theories admits it's all BS. Mandatory Read. Wow. This is a full circle moment for me. These studies are part of what made me so insecure about how I look as a man (not tall enough, masculine enough, etc), when I read about them years ago.	/r/ExRedPill	25/07/20 01:57 AM
23	For all the women lurking this sub: Please don't give horrible dating advice and straying people back into TRP communities. People came here to detoxify from harmful ideologies, NOT join to "team women." I think that guys who constantly complain about women only wanting “bad boys” have a weird need for the approval of women who want bad boys. In a weird way, they’re doing the same thing they’re accusing these women of doing. Craving the approval of people who don’t like them/treat them badly.	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/20 05:05 AM
25	For all the women lurking this sub: Please don't give horrible dating advice and straying people back into TRP communities. People came here to detoxify from harmful ideologies, NOT join to "team women." can you give an example of said advice?	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/20 03:20 AM
16	Red Pill is not..... Yeah no.. it’s not that innocent. It’s a bunch of misguided men who probably have untreated depression having a cynical attitude towards women	/r/ExRedPill	08/06/20 06:42 PM
1	She'll never tell you what she really means. Dude’s feelings are so hurt. Lmao	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/20 12:16 AM
6	Why Toxic Shame Is The Underlying Cause Of Psychological Suffering \| Therapist David Tian Ph.D. Yeah. The red flag is the term “approach anxiety.” That word “approach” is so cringeworthy. It’s a PUA word for sure	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/20 04:10 PM
2	I think people realize you can go through years of self-improvement and still end up with nothing. Here is what I'm thinking based on what you're wrote initially and on the comments. You don't need to save money. You don't need to get a second job. You don't need to "learn to like yourself." You don't need advice on how to get a car. You don't need to learn social skills. And frankly, you don't need "self improvement." You also don't need to be told to not care what women think about you, because unfortunately, you WILL. Even the guy who you perceive as the biggest baller on earth still cares…	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/20 07:45 AM
3	Arguments claiming that both sexes are similar fail to understand how the differences between us are small but stark Dont buy this. Testosterone isn't everything, there are other hormones at play. Also, people who make this "men are hornier than women" overlook one very obvious difference between men and women. Women are multi orgasmic, men have solid refractory periods. Women can orgasm over and over again basically until they're exhausted. I think men NEED this idea to be true. Its a coping mechanism. Because if their wife/girlfriend isnt interested in sex with him, he can just intellectualize and blame it o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/20 03:32 AM
1	Ugh... Tonight I found out, my oldest son is a Simp Dude. stop blaming your ex for this. Its so fucking annoying when dudes pretend like they play no part in what happens to their kids. "My wife's insecurities rubbed off on him." gtfo here dude. YOU are insecure. YOU chose to marry your ex wife. Your son is learning his codependence from YOU. Take some fucking responsibility for yourself. Christ. This is embarrassing. And you have the audacity to even think to "shame the fuck out of him." Grow the fuck up and stop projecting your bullshit views o…	/r/MGTOW	02/03/20 06:37 AM
2	Most of TRP's dating values are simply attempts to protect their egos I agree 100% with the original post. TRP is an echo chamber for closeted narcissists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/20 02:50 AM