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| 1 | How to create sex appealIf you break anything down (I mean anything) it requires that formula. They are as equally as important as trying to grow a plant (some plants require more water than sunlight, while others require more sunlight than water) it depends on what you’re trying to create. Attention is being aware. If you don’t pay attention to your garden, how will you know weeds are growing? You can be consistently doing something once a month for 5 years. Nobody can tell you, that you aren’t consistent. It takes de… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:21 PM |
| 3 | How to approach my work crush"You got any plans coming up?" "no, not really" You do now, there's this Cajun spot I've been wanting to try and i don't want to go alone, let me take you out." (If you're just trying to smash i suggest you leave out the "let me take you out") Plan for success and plan for rejection. either way if she doesn't go, let her know its cool and you'll just take someone else... | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 05:19 AM |
| -1 | The BEST place to meet womenYou might ask yourself. " Where's the best places to meet women? ". That's an easy answer if you're focusing on your personal growth, your personal finances and your personal life. Now, I know it's not the answer you WANT to hear but it is THE answer. A lot of men make the mistake of thinking they're going to find their dream girl in this specific magical place when she's actually in the places you've been avoiding this whole time. She at the gym (where you're supposed to be taking care of your … | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | How to become a more ATTRACTIVE ManThanks for the feedback, also don't allow minor issues to stop you from receiving information that could possibly improve your life. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 03:31 AM |
| -1 | How to become a more ATTRACTIVE ManWe’re discussing a step by step process on becoming a more attractive man. I can guarantee you haven’t heard anything like this before. Becoming a more attractive man can lead you to receiving many benefits in your personal life. Free stuff, more money, and of course an active dating life. It’s not secret that people love attractive people, just ask Hollywood! The thing about it is, you don’t have to be born a 10 to be considered attractive. A lot of the time it’s about who you are and what you’… | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | INCREASE your MASCULINITY with this 1 SECRETLook at your reply history, no wonder you need help. You're full of anger and attack the people who are only trying to help. Instead of attacking people on the internet, how about you sit down, shut up and see if you can actually understand what the other person is trying to say to you. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 01:57 PM |
| 13 | Girl texted me saying “your charisma is almost intimidating”You shouldn’t take her words logically. Most women, whether they know it or not speak from emotions and how they feel in the moment. When I hear that, i hear “I feel inferior to you” don’t over think it, women try to date up so you’re good. | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How FEAR will make you STRONGER - use this tool to approachWhat movie is that? Cause i have no idea what you're talking about | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in my college orchestraYour approach is fine. Stick with the first sentence though. The 2nd part is unnecessary. After that, get to know her an see if she’s your type. | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Interesting idea of first date at home (what to text Her when she says wine and movie is boring)You know how long it took me to get around that line? Haha, I could give you what I use, for $15. You know as well as I do, game is sold never told. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Is it ok to hit on customers?Do whatever you want. If you’re keeping it casual and ask for the number it’s whatever. If you’re trying to Fuck in the store, that’s a completely different thing that could mess your life up. As long as your calm and respectful, you’ll be fine. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Interesting idea of first date at home (what to text Her when she says wine and movie is boring)The activity isn’t boring, but how you sold it to her was. I know what you’re doing, straight to the point, if she’s down, she’s down. I get it, I do the same thing. Think about commercials - at the end of the day it’s 💰 for x product, but they don’t just say. Hey, buy my beer. They deliver it to you . Some people find it’s more exciting that way. At the same time, don’t be a try hard. You already know how that comes across to girls | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Girls are telling me they're "Not feeling it" With me. How do I change this?This And This | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Girls are telling me they're "Not feeling it" With me. How do I change this?Google and YouTube | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls are telling me they're "Not feeling it" With me. How do I change this?Bet it’s lack of masculine energy in your interactions with them. You improve it by studying masculine and feminine energy | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Just another reminder that you can do everything right and still get f*cked over.Chill, he already knew. It’s the reason they spilt in the first place. If he goes back, that’s completely on him | /r/MGTOW | 10/08/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | I’m kinda seeing someone, but still want to hang out?It’s a Trap lil bro. | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Am i the backup?“Is she genuinely interested or am I just another guy in her game” That’s dating in one question. 9/10 it’s the latter, but some guys get lucky there so | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever been ghosted before a first date, ran into the person again, and then went out with them?Her mind - “ I disrespected him and he’s still trying to get with me? Perfect, now I know he won’t leave if I treat him like shit because he wants me that bad.” Find a new girl or don’t bitch when it gets bad | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | I've set up a date in 7 days with a girl I daygame approached.^ 100% | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 12:55 PM |
| 4 | How do i be disinterested without being a dick?What have you learned? Don’t send that text again. Next time, don’t text how you felt | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 01:36 AM |
| 1 | How do I become a ‘player’?Use pick up as a way to gain social intelligence. Drive somewhere you know, nobody will know you and approach like crazy. You’re goal isn’t to get laid. You’re goal is to gain experience. What you’ll learn is they’re two types of girls. Girls who are attracted to you and girls who aren’t. You must know the difference in order to succeed. Girls who are attracted to you look, talk, and act different than the ones who aren’t. Once you have a solid foundation (roughly 200 approaches) it becomes a ga… | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Need advice...Shut up. You know you’re issue. Stop being nice and ghost her. She’s playing your “hero mentality” trying to save her. Grow a pair and tell her to stop texting you her sob stories | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Having a little troubleFirst girl - never apologize for being cold. Trust me when I say, girls get treated way worse and still comply. Second and third girl - never GIVE a girl your number. Girls can easily reject but hate getting rejected. Whenever she says what’s your number, tell her to write hers down. It shows initiative and a little leadership. I don’t give girls my social media, for the reason they’ll pre judge you and even if they like you. When they show their friends you’ll have to be accepted by them too. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever made a comeback with a girl who you eagerly told you liked her, which she did not respond to positively? How did you do it?Never tell a girl you like her. Show her with your actions . If you already have, it’s over. Trust me. “Just tell her how you feel” is mom advice, don’t do it. | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Guys, what do you look for as an opening to approach a girl?Look their way til you lock eyes. Then check them out in a obvious way with a smirk. Eye contact while thinking ‘come talk to me’. What you think about shows on your face. “accidental” bumps and say your sorry, and hang around pretending to do something Girls aren’t clever when it comes to these things. If they don’t approach you. They either weren’t interested or they were afraid. | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Question about a stupid situationShe’s in a relationship of 2 years. She’s just flirting to flirt, not get with you. You can wait it out and be next in line or you talk to other girls and if she’s serious about you, she’ll dump her bf and talk about getting with you. Also note that if she’s acting that way with in a relationship - she’ll act the same way with another guy if you end up dating her. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How a personal brand helps build attraction *Details in comment*I don’t sell anything, all my stuff is free | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 05:04 PM |
| 0 | How a personal brand helps build attraction *Details in comment*Hahaha, I don’t sell a program and even if I was, I would want to be transparent about selling you one. | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 04:57 PM |
| 0 | How a personal brand helps build attraction *Details in comment*The nice guy - has a story The bad boy - has a story The Jock - has a story The player - has a story. When I look at your personal brand (your social media) what story are you telling me? Let’s take the Jock for example, when you look at his Instagram, what are you more likely to see? Weight lifting pics - sport pictures - pictures with him and his team etc... WHAT DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH ATTRACTION? Everyone has a type - if you’re not controlling your social media narrative, you’re leaving it… | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Girl on Tinder Shit Tested MeYeah, all girls do that. Test to see what you do, or don’t put up with. Then they get you comfortable enough to let your guard down, and they test you again. Most will try different tactics to find your weaknesses (chinks in your armor) She’ll fake an attitude, but to you it’ll be a real one. She’ll fake that you hurt her feelings. She’ll say you’re so mean She’ll try to compromise with you She’ll use sexual advances It’s a non stop thing. The common man will think what I’m saying is crazy. The … | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 02:58 AM |
| 2 | How to ask a girl back to your hotel room for one night without any kissing before hand?“let’s get out of here.” “Let’s go somewhere more quiet” | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Made a terrible first impression, which was completely out of my control (or so it seems)Shit happens, next time look your guy friend in the eye and say nah man, it’s just us or nah, don’t want you to be a third wheel. Regain control and push out intruders. Lesson you had to learn the hard way | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys so about texting a girl to set up a date after successfully approaching/grabbing her number?if I get her number at 1pm I’m texting her when I’m done with my day 8 or 9pm. Figure our where she’s at in life an what she’s looking for at the moment (wants a relationship, wants a fwb, she just wants dick) if it aligns with what you’re doing - set up logistics. | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Confused and need adviceJesus Christ “I think she likes me” THEN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Ask her to hangout, ask her to do something with you. You have to get alone with her. If she bull shits or makes excuses, she’s not sexually attracted to you. Idc how busy she is, anyone who wants to hangout will find time, or let you know the date they are free. Period. | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 09:16 PM |
| 8 | Hey Reddit, got any funny replies to this?What’s your goal here? Besides being a clown | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I (20M) stop overthinking the texting situation with her (20F).I hear you. The real answer is to be busy with your own life and talk to other girls. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Approaching a group of girls who are sitting and talkingThings to know: If her friends don’t like you. It’s a wrap. If her friends think you’re a weirdo. It’s a wrap. As soon as you leave that table they WILL be talking about you. Introduce yourself to every girl. Show the other girls attention and make them comfortable. Target your girl and be straightforward. Try not to isolate her, take some of the pressure off an include her friends: “You know her better than I do, she won’t key my car right?” Get the snapchat or number (NEVER SOCIALS) and get th… | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Transitioning for introverts - coming up with something to say exhausts me“”I always try to transition/talk about something that I find interesting myself. “” That’s a mistake in my opinion. I don’t talks bout that until someone asks me about it. If she looks like an art girl - I’m talking about art with her because I know she’ll do most of the talking. You know people genuinely care if they ask stuff about you, because most people only want to talk about stuff they do (selfish mentality) | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Shit test or no? How to respond?She wants confirmation that you like her. You don’t have to answer that, because you’re actions should. Girls like mystery - they like that they don’t know where they stand with you. They like that you’re not predictable. They like that they can’t control you. | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Transitioning for introverts - coming up with something to say exhausts meFellow introvert here. I’m sure you COULD be extroverted if you really wanted to, but your natural state (like mine) is to listen and observe. What helps me is instead of asking “tell me about yourself” (awkward b/c it puts people in interview mode) Ask general questions that can rile them up to talk about whatever for a long period of time. Which can help you expand onto different topics. “Where you from” discuss - type of people there - their sports team - weather - food - etc. “Popular tv sho… | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 11:37 PM |
| 7 | Shit test or no? How to respond?“Haven’t decided yet” | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 11:14 PM |
| 5 | Women looking down at the groundEven though your dialogue with @getyourlifeplease was hilarious, she’s right. Girls don’t look away when they want you to approach. Imagine you were a girl trying to get a guy to talk to you, would you stare at the ground? Probably not. | /r/seduction | 29/06/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Tips on getting over a girlPunch the air, think about all the good times y’all had. Get mad at yourself for fucking it up. Get mad at her for dropping you like hot garbage. Thrash around, think it’ll never get better and curl up into ball until you leave for military training super depressed thinking life is worthless only to meet a new girl at military training who’ll make you forget all about whatever her name is. Way of the world my friend. Hoo Rah | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 02:43 AM |
| 4 | Girl can take days to get back to me...She’s placing you on the back burner. Which means she’s not dying to get with you, but she wouldn’t mind if it happened. When girls put you on the back burner - prepare for the long way round. Most guys feel some type of way and their needy/desperate side comes out. Obviously that’s a huge turn off, so play it cool. She takes awhile - you take awhile. After some time she’ll come around an it’ll be a good time. The moment you chase her a little too much - it’s over. Talk to other girls, keep impr… | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 02:36 AM |
| 0 | Where to have sex when you Don’t have own place or car?Car - 100% Motels are a waste of money. Car sex is cheaper, more fun an has given me some great memories | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Help me get back on my feet, feeling a bit discouraged.Exactly. Whenever bullsh*t thoughts like that pop into my head. Something around me is off. My apartment needs cleaning or I’m getting lazy in one area of my life and it’s creeping into other areas of my life. Get on it bro, stay sharp | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Help me get back on my feet, feeling a bit discouraged.Listen bro. You have to take the dating scene for what it is. The beta in you wants that relationship because it’s comfortable, guaranteed pussy, and you can relax into it. The alpha in you knows that’s a huge mistake and it’ll waste your time, money, and you don’t even care about her like that. Oneitis is real, but foolish. That girl has a rotation just like you do. ITS SUMMER TIME. If you want that relationship - wait till fall time for all that. Put some cold water on your face - focus on imp… | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How legit are PUAs?It all depends on your style of Game. Evolution daily is a good one (practical, nothing fancy) Brian black is also a good one (He’s chill, knows what he’s talking about) Taysocial is another one (He has more of a lazy game but it’s because he’s more advanced an understands it’s not that deep) RSD Tyler is amazing for understanding the social world. Pulling girls is one thing. The social world is where these girls live. If you’re calibrated with her but uncalibrated with what’s around you - it’ll… | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 03:46 PM |
| 5 | How to Polarize Mid-InteractionI think you already know the answer - you just have to stop holding yourself back. Your examples other than the “you’re cute” are fine. Make sure you’re words match the goals you’re after. If I want a long term thing - I’m going to stay away from words that insinuate casual/fling | /r/seduction | 24/06/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | What to snapchat a girl for the first time that you never really talked to?Live your life - post on snap (she’ll watch your story because she’s interested) and wait till she does something on her snap that you can comment on an maybe spark a conversation. That’ll give her the green light to comment on your stories (if she’s that type of girl) and then you take it from there. | /r/seduction | 24/06/19 10:38 PM |
| 6 | The 80/20 rule - how this helps you with attraction is in the comments.The 80/20 rule in a nutshell explains that 80% of your results comes from 20% of your daily actions. This works both ways. 80% of your daily actions can achieve only 20% of your results. Running around trying to catch flies is doable and will work, but you’ll catch more flies with less work setting a Jar outside with a little sugar and honey at the bottom. Ok so how does this translate to attraction? Smart attraction isn’t chasing girls hoping she doesn’t flake on you the hour before the date. S… | /r/seduction | 24/06/19 10:03 PM |
| 0 | Black Pick Up Artist Spots Choosing Signals While Picking Up White Girls ( + Daygame Infield )These comments are crazy - everyone’s a critic but none of them will put out infield or even take action. Good video bro | /r/seduction | 19/06/19 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend (26f) sometimes teases me (29m)In the book - The way if the superior man. There’s a chapter about the Dark Feminine. When you’re gf is sweet and loving your witnessing the light feminine. The Dark feminine rears herself when she’s making sure she can trust your dark masculine. This is why she wants to be “put in her place” she wants to know that you have the ability to surface your dark masculine at any given time. Real life example: when she says stuff like your flat is a shit hole (Dark Feminine) You respond by saying somet… | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Am I just imagining she’s into me, and how should I flirt with her?Yeah she’s feeling you - maybe not 100% committed but it’s more than the average guy. Do little signs back - touch her lower back when getting her to move somewhere or out your way. Suggest y’all do something “light” together - alone. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with her attitude.You have to let her feel it out. Don’t automatically apologize right off the bat. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Suggest me some witty responses to a girl I'm talking to.Yes I know... the response essentially says that you’d rather have her than her mom | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Should you approach twosets in daygame?Am I supposed to write down a formula for you, so you can input your two set and find out the percentage? Do it and find out | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Suggest me some witty responses to a girl I'm talking to.Nice, that’s when you say “I’d rather have that one anyway” | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Should you approach twosets in daygame?Then set up logistics for all three of you | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Suggest me some witty responses to a girl I'm talking to.You’re right, but do you really want to be with someone who doesn’t share your sense of humor? | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Suggest me some witty responses to a girl I'm talking to.Maybe, but it made you laugh | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Suggest me some witty responses to a girl I'm talking to.“Bet, lemme get her number” | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Should you approach twosets in daygame?Yes. Interact with both of them and towards the end - ask for the number of the girl you’re interested in. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 11:26 PM |
| 0 | Ask her on a date? Or ask to hangout?Hangout - less pressure an obligation. Let your actions speak for themselves. If she tries to play the “I thought this was just friends” Card - look into her eyes and say something along the lines of “I could never imagine being just friends with someone like you” - then finesse the situation. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 05:23 PM |
| 2 | How do I Snapchat this girl?You’re already friend zoned - quickest way to find your real answer is to ask her if she’s through with that “boy cleanse” and if she says yes, you invite her to hangout. If she says no, you withdraw time, energy, and attention because she’s just passing the time with you. Ps. Never tell a girl you like her - she’ll know by how you act. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Simple phrases that could potentially be hurting your results and killing attraction. Better safe than sorryThey always say the devil is in the details. If you know women, you know they pay attention to the little details because that’s where she’ll find who you really are. Remove these phrases when talking to a potential LOVER, if she’s just a friend - doesn’t matter too much | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 04:52 PM |
| 2 | What causes another man to have power over you?It’s about SELF - control. To have control is to not have control. Took me awhile to figure that one out. It all boils down to how much influence you have over yourself - can you lead yourself or prefer someone else direct you? There is no wrong answer - it’s all about self awareness. I can’t stand wanna be leaders who try an tell me what to do, but can’t even stand up for themselves. They try all these “top 10 psychological leadershit tricks” thinking they’re fooling someone. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 01:26 AM |
| 0 | Will dating lesser attractive women lower my chances with hb8-10s ?100%. Your girl is a reflection of you. If you’re dating a 5, what’s that say about you? | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Things are going well and all of a sudden she turns cold? She’s probably testing you... Don’t freak out - I got you covered.She’s testing you to determine your strength. Not your physical strength, but the strength of your inner game. You won’t pass all of them, but you’re not supposed to - women’s shit test is like a new weight in the gym. You might not get it at first, but you will with the proper information/experience under your belt. Remember you’re not grinding for present you... you’re grinding for future you | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 06:08 PM |
| 9 | wtf did I do“Became friends with some of the girls in my undergrad and fell in love with one of them” ^ Found your mistake. You fell in love with a girl you don’t even know... and you’re wondering why it back fired? | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | You have to go out aloneDoesn’t matter - try to pull her home anyway. If you don’t care, she won’t | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | That never happened to me before....?What? No. Learn from your mistakes and try again. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 02:43 PM |
| 2 | That never happened to me before....?You got finessed. Not in a “gotcha” type of way, but she took control of the date and lead it somewhere else. If I was in that situation after I just made her drinks - I would’ve looked her in the eyes and said “Nah, I want to focus on the only thing I care about right now.” Then change the subject and try to escalate. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 02:05 PM |
| 2 | [URGENT] does this sound needy.Calm down lol, if you blow up, or worse CARE that much - the most you’ll get is a bs apology/excuse. Let it go, ask her how the party was and move on. There will be others, but if you’re all butt hurt and say something, you’re providing fuel for the needy fire. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 01:58 PM |
| 12 | Lesbian here. I took her bra with me when I left her place.Take a picture of her bra and send it too her. Ask if you left yours there (even though you already know you didn’t) when she says no, ask her if she wants it back. If she says yes, schedule it at a time where you know you’ll have time to seduce her again. She’ll either be down or not, but at least you tried | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | You have to go out aloneThen don’t drink. I’m not paying $4 for a beer, so I either pre game at home or don’t drink at all | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 01:48 PM |
| -1 | How can I stop myself from thinking with my dick all the time?So relatable. This helped me a little bit - whenever you meet a girl plan to sleep with her in 2 months. Anything before that is a trap. What this did for me was, it allowed me to take my time and - if I’m being honest - instead of trying to fuck instantly, I waited like 2 weeks. Still failed, but I learned that some girls become easier with time. Now I’m learning how to put girls on the back burner and wait them out while I pursue other girls. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 04:44 AM |
| 3 | I know that we should talk to girls in breaking rapport tonality and I also read that u should speak with passion to keep them engaged how do I speak with breaking rapport and passion at the same time ? Or what should I doCalibrate. Passion turns some girls on and scares others. Calibrate. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 01:51 AM |
| 0 | Approaching women as you play a characterIt’s the most fun you’ll ever have, but just know the minute you take it seriously and people love that version more than the real you - you’ll become a shell of a human being, and transitioning to your real self when you feel vulnerable will hurt when they don’t accept the real you. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Girls wanna buy me drinks at the bar?Get ahead of it. Get the drink then leave lol | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 12:48 AM |
| 8 | I lose my skills when my more alpha friend is with meI cringe at these answers - you noticed that your friend is more “alpha” than you. Great - don’t ‘combat’ it, you ACCEPT it. He’s better looking and has better game - so he gets the better girl. When in a 2 set - both girls are genuinely going to want the better looking friend with good game. Between those two girls - one is going to be more dominant than the other (girls can be ruthless when competing with one another) and one will “lose”just like you did. It’s the law of the land. First the li… | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 12:36 AM |
| 1 | What Would YOU do? THE GAME5. You need to worry about that phone first. You not hitting her up will create an air of mystery anyway, plus, you have a valid excuse (your phone broke). If she likes you now, she’ll like you later, especially if you don’t say, or do, any dumb shit that’ll turn her off. Be patient and make her wait - you telling your friend to text her to talk on fb is doing the most for a conversation you should be having in person anyway. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Should I ever believe drunk talk from this girl?A drunk man tells no lies. Guess it’s a woman in your case but yeah she wants that D. She may feel those things in the moment but won’t say it to you when her guard is up (aka not drunk) | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 08:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you know a person's love language/values?Some girls are open about it - others aren’t. Good thing for us there’s only 5. Try them out subtly and pay attention to their reactions. Ex. A girl got some food and I told her I had a gift for her (watching to see if she lit up on the words alone) and she didn’t respond like I thought, so. right then an there I knew gifts don’t do it for her. It was a fork btw lol | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 11:35 AM |
| 13 | STOP ! with all the "SEDUCTION" TEXTING. Be a man.Respect. Thanks pops | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 03:06 AM |
| 1 | My brain shuts down when I talk to girlsLearn basic conversation (I have a video about that on my profile) keep doing them so your brain has somewhere to run to when you get caught up. You need to build your female social muscle. Find any excuse to talk to girls, even if it’s something dumb. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Best jobs for an 18 year old to see and talk to more women?100% agree - aim for a sports bar. They’ll always be a new girl every couple weeks. Not to mention they’re all on flirt mode. Great customer interaction and it’ll sharpen your social skills | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Is there a way to gain confidence with other girls and people in general, while still having a gf?I wouldn’t cold approach girls, but I would talk to everyone. Cashiers, strangers on the street, parking tenants, etc... when you only talk to girls that seems suspicious, but if you’re just a social person, trying to talk to everyone - it’s fine | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Group chat for PUAS and men that are trying to become one.Awwww yeah | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 07:43 PM |
| -2 | What's your best technique for getting sex?Technique? Are you serious? There is no “technique” to get sex. | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 07:10 PM |
| -4 | If you think she’s out of your league - watch thisI guess you’re new. Welcome to seddit, I hope you find information that’ll help your dating life and overall development. If you’re here just to troll, I’m sure other communities would appreciate you more there. | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 04:44 PM |
| -1 | If you think she’s out of your league - watch this? | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Introduce Yourself to Girl that you know and like Mom: What to SayStrike a casual conversation with the daughter - ask the daughter if she’s going to introduce you to her sister (classic) don’t believe that she’s actually her mom. Pretend to be shocked , look at your phone and tell them you have to go, ask for the daughters number and tell the mom if you were older, you’d ask for hers too. Annnnd scene. | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 03:17 PM |
| 17 | Why does Reddit hate Seddit?Honestly, I find it sad. Those are the same people who will judge you for attempting to make a connection with a stranger you’re attracted to. The same people who will laugh and make comments if you get rejected. These people are the reason most newbies have approach anxiety - these are the same people GLUED to the conversation if they see it happening real time. If you’re going to be great at seduction - you’re going to have to ignore these people entirely. 100% of these people would NEVER have… | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 03:00 PM |
| 3 | How to regain your dominant role in a relationshipIf you don’t have a hobby or a purpose, nothing will work. As a man your purpose comes first and then your woman. Where a lot of guys get messed up is they put their woman first. Having your purpose will capture your time and attention MORE than your girl will. Your GF is extra, period. If she left, what would you have left? Are you working on yourself as much as you could be? Power is one of those things that you can’t “take” back. It’s a product of who you are and what you do. At the same time… | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on The Act of Seduction by Robert Green?The art of seduction is a great read to categorize the different seducer types - strengths - weaknesses - what they like - what they don’t like. I’m breaking some of them down on my YouTube channel - this video talks about the charismatic. I have uploaded one on the siren aka the slut - the coquette aka mr/mrs hot and cold, etc.. The charismatic | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you talk about yourself, without revealing your entire life story?Depends on how old you are - from 16 - 20 I adopted the majorly outgoing, witty, no filter, funny, always hype guy. (Iron man, Sherlock Holmes, any lead character in action anime shows, the “great guy” in romantic comedies) Which, don’t get me wrong, is a lot of fun but really immature and didn’t get me the girls I wanted. My revelation was understanding that I didn’t have a real relationship with my masculinity and found material expressing ‘extreme’ versions of that ( The Godfather, James Bond… | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you talk about yourself, without revealing your entire life story?I’m a visionary type, so coming up with these aren’t that hard. My confidence was loud, cheerful and fun but that energy puts a lot of people in the shadows and they can end up resenting you for it. I’m in the process of learning to channel that energy in becoming smooth and direct. Huge game changer | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 04:25 PM |
| 2 | How do you talk about yourself, without revealing your entire life story?The art of bullshit - told a girl I was a secret agent, we spent the whole time making up fake missions. She’d ask where I was from , told her Bolivia and trained in Iceland. Most people don’t care, they’re just making conversation like the rest of us. Make sure you calibrate before you do some dumb shit like this | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 02:05 PM |
| 8 | Advice for seducing my girlfriend’s momUh... love her daughter, because at the end of the day we become our parents anyway. You now have a younger version of the girl you worship. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Seeing the girl that rejects me everyday!She probably thought you were great! Then she looked at your Facebook - found out what kind of guy you are, and treated you accordingly. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Girl acting very suggestive, meaning?That girl belongs to the community - realize what she is and play accordingly | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 11:15 PM |
| 8 | My daygame stats (I'm new)Exactly - drop all stats - lay counts, approaches, rejections, numbers, etc... measure you’re game career in growth. Things you couldn’t do before, but now can and tweak the game you have now. Keep growing. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 11:01 PM |
| 2 | You think she likes you, but it’s not going anywhere? Here’s some signs she just manipulating you.Thanks for the feedback! | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 10:57 PM |
| 18 | Self aware smooth guys of reddit, what mistakes do you see non-smooth guys make while in conversation?This. You have to develop the “it is what it is” Mindset | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 05:20 PM |
| 3 | How to ensure you’re seen as more than just a friendDepends on your dating goals. If you’re looking for short term - don’t treat her as a friend, you treat her as a lover. If you’re looking for long term - you treat her as a friend and slowly move through the stages of a developing relationship. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 01:51 PM |
| 3 | How is this possible true alphas don't overthink their behaviour in relationships?😂 | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Keeping someone’s attentionYou want it to happen, therefore it will not. You have too much invested, relax. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Keeping someone’s attentionYou want it to happen, therefore it will not. You have too much invested, relax. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | How to train your woman (with FR example)Thanks for the advice! Will do | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 06:46 PM |
| 9 | Using alcohol to loosen up before meeting up with girl?Never use alcohol as a crutch - stand your ground and handle the tension like a man. You might fail in the moment, but you’ll be stronger because of it. Just imagine you meet a great girl - all the right chemistry is there, but you can’t handle the tension because you didn’t have a drink before hand and messed everything up. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Dominance without appearing meanI’m the same way. Short answer is no. If you’re nice to people, they’ll get comfortable, and them being comfortable allows them to cross boundaries they would never cross if you’ve been dominant with them from the start. That then puts you in a place to reinforce your dominance, which can snowball into the person hating you for embarrassing them (even though they’re the ones who put you in that position) socially. Leaving it unchecked will eat at you overtime, especially, if they keep doing litt… | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 02:19 AM |
| 1 | One of my crushes a lesbianOther side? She plays on both sides. You’re being naive. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 12:57 AM |
| 2 | How to train your woman (with FR example)Right again. The FR with the hand was funny in a cute way - we were both smiling in that interaction. FR 1 however, was when I just started reading on female nature and topics related, so my replies an actions were a bit much, but expected from a beginner | /r/seduction | 21/05/19 02:54 PM |
| 2 | How to train your woman (with FR example)This. I didn’t think I had to mention that this was for a short term strategy. What I’ve read here was true. The power dynamic can only last so long. There’s many articles on “letting people win or else they won’t play with you anymore” for anyone who curious, just google it. My type of game is to promote short term escapism - being able for her to get away with a “masculine man” who knows how to take control. In my experience, woman who are a little intimidated by you listen more and the sex is… | /r/seduction | 21/05/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I want to breakup with my girlDo what girls do in this situation. Keep you’re current gf and gather up prospects. When you found the right one, break up with your gf and move on. | /r/seduction | 20/05/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Feeling Stuck In Paradise, Any AdviceSurface level conversation imo is something light (Tv shows, movies, hobbies, food) most times if she’s enjoying herself, she’ll get deeper into her own life to where I just help her talk about herself using , who , what, where, why and how type questions. They end up making themselves laugh to which I join, or provide you material to tease her with. I don’t try to make girls laugh unless it’s situational comedy when we’re talking about one of the light convo topics I suggested above. | /r/seduction | 20/05/19 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Feeling Stuck In Paradise, Any AdviceWhatever works for you. Good luck | /r/seduction | 20/05/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | I’m not able to have any girls since I’m just not good looking enough.Have you thought about improving your face? I’m dead serious too. Drinking water constantly to reduce acne Eating cleaner to improve skin glow Facial exercises to tighten and tone Grooming to use facial hair to improve aesthetics or going clean b/c it fits you better Washing your F’CKING face. I coached so many guys who thought there face was gross but never f’cking washed it other than splashing water on it. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Feeling Stuck In Paradise, Any AdviceIt’s B and C Stand up is great but when you think of stand up do you think a great f*ck or a funny clown? Deep meaningful conversations are for GFs, good friends, and people on psychedelics. Get rid of that gut of yours and keep conversations surface level. When you look at these girls - are you conveying a sexual vibe (pit bull) or a “this guy is adorable and funny” vibe (whittle puppy)? | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Ok so i’ve been following your guys advice as well as others and it’s working! I can get females attracted now the question is how do i get the sex?Chill in the female attention you’re getting. The more girls you attract - will attract more girls. Play it cool an don’t get hung up on one. Play your cards right and always look for opportunities to be isolated, even if you have to wait. Rushing is what kills guys at this point | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:35 PM |
| 2 | What to do when she's playing games?Highschool? Talk to another girl where she can see y’all. Try to lean the conversation to something funny where y’all both laugh. Ignore her and wait it out - she’s just acting goofy | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | How do I Subtly Flirt with my Co-Worker?Seductive eye contact - practice in the mirror to iron out any awkward wrinkles. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:22 PM |
| 2 | GF says I don't text her enoughFrame it as you’re busy and texting is the last thing on your mind. Spin that around and text her once on occasion “thinking about you” and leave it at that. Don’t break out a full conversation. If you’re always on her line - her urgency to be with you in person will lower. She wants more attention from you - in my experience- giving her what she wants will only lead her wanting more of something you “don’t do enough” | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Positioning yourself as a sexual option on a date?It’s simple in theory - market your self as someone who she can sleep with, while it not being a big deal or her having to worry about you becoming attached. -you meet a man named Jim. Everytime you see Jim he’s with a basketball. Everytime you hear Jim he’s talking about basketball. He’s got the gear and you hear from others he’s pretty good a basketball. You decided to play a local 2v2 and out of 15 guys. You notice Jim. You’re more likely to pick Jim. Why? Jim has marketed himself as a basket… | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How to train your woman (with FR example)Interesting opinion, thanks for the comment. 1) I never claimed to be a player. 2) both these girls were veterans at the job and couldn’t get in trouble if they tried. On top of that I’ve received zero complaints about my behavior and was never pulled into an office once. 3) it’s amazing that people think I walk around acting like this 24/7 trying to dominate everything I come in contact with. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Challenge I can to to open. What did you do when starting.Congratulations! | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Challenge I can to to open. What did you do when starting.Get use to opening people by asking questions you know the answer to. “Excuse me, is there a Wendy’s around here?” “Nice shirt, you get that from around here? What’s the store called? Oh, cool, you know where that is?” “I’m trying to get out more, you know any bars around?” “ hey is there anything in my teeth? Thanks you’re a life saver” Literally just bull shit - people are more friendly than you think. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | is she bullshitting me?Spinplates is right - put her on the back burner and let her simmer. She’s waiting on you to throw your hands up and say “I give up” just relax , play it slow and talk to other girls in the mean time | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Socially retarded. Need helpFirst off, congratulations on becoming self aware. Don’t focus on becoming 4 - 5 . Focus on becoming 3. Once you’re ‘normal’ you can see above (4-5) and below (1-2). After that, you simply observe social do’s and don’t’s. Why do people not like the 1 -2? Why do they respond well to 4-5? You’ll start to recognize patterns and over time through trial and error you’ll be able to adopt 4-5 characteristics that fit who you are. At the end of the day, as long as you remain social (go out to events - i… | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How did Robert Greene's 'Art of Seduction' help you?Way of the superior man is a great read! Bought it years ago and it still teaches me do this day. OrzhovPalatine is right - the archetypes really help you if you’re self aware. It also helps you identify other seducer types and how to treat them. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 02:38 PM |
| 2 | How do I flirt with Cashiers the best way?Super proud of you Alex! Most guys wouldn’t even be able to approach let alone ask for the date. I think every guy should notice how happy/excited you were even after the ‘rejection’. Anyway, I try not to flirt with cashiers , it’s their job to be nice and I want the interaction to be genuine rather than forced. These are great for practice but try to move on to girls who are walking around. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 02:11 PM |
| 0 | How to train your woman (with FR example)Yeah my title ruffled some feathers. I’m a business and marketing major. The title was just to grab people’s attention. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How to train your woman (with FR example)Give respect to get respect - if I spit on your face - will you show dominance and respect by telling me to put my hands up before you punch me? | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:52 AM |
| 1 | How to train your woman (with FR example)I expected newbies not to believe me. I expect the ones who do will try to mimic the behavior without calibrating first and f*ck up. They will fail and then they will reflect and learn as I did. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:49 AM |
| 1 | How to train your woman (with FR example)I appreciate your comment and will do some research on the topic. You are right though, what amazes me most is the results I get from this so called “toxic behavior”. People act like I want to act like this to get the girls I want. The nice guy stick will get you a nice girl(maybe) but when I get her - she’s not the type of girl who does it for me - which led me to realize why girls don’t last with nice guys. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:44 AM |
| 1 | How to train your woman (with FR example)Thank you, took me awhile to accept topics like this. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:38 AM |
| 1 | How to train your woman (with FR example)You are very passionate. We have different views of “real men” but thanks for the comment. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:36 AM |
| 1 | How to train your woman (with FR example)That’s exactly what I’m trying to do. I know myself enough that if you can’t handle certain characteristics about me - it’ll never work out. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:32 AM |
| 1 | How to train your woman (with FR example)Exactly. Most guys/girls who are upset at this post must think I walk around doing this all day. You’re clarifying exactly what I’m talking about. I don’t give women the 4 things for the sole reason that eventually every guy does. I’m a challenge- but at the same time, I’m making you laugh - making you feel comfortable around me - getting to know what you like and hate. I’m not afraid to hurt your feelings or give you what you think you want from me but really don’t. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:29 AM |
| 0 | How to train your woman (with FR example)Women are amazing beings with limitless power and I feel grateful that I can experience them on a daily basis | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:23 AM |
| 1 | How to train your woman (with FR example)What’s unbelievable is I LOVE women. Which is why I treat them this way. I would love to adore a woman I was interested in - shower her with love and affection and do anything to make her happy. Any man with experience will tell you that - that type of energy will get you used, abused, and cheated on FAST. Deep down you know it too - you ever have a woman the world and she still do you dirty? Am I supposed to cry about it b/c women are not what I expected? Or do I adapt b/c I LOVE them. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:20 AM |
| 1 | How to train your woman (with FR example)Interesting take. As a man, I don’t care if its inconsequential or not. If you keep doing what I told you I don’t like, there will be consequences. In my experience - when I ask nicely - reasonable people will stop and apologize. People who find it fun to mess with people will not, what then? Do you ask nicely again after you just told them to stop? Do you run and grab another man/authority figure to handle your business for you? I’m genuinely curious what you would do. Also, these examples are … | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:15 AM |
| 0 | How to train your woman (with FR example)Everyone is entitled to their opinion- thanks for the comment | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it somehow possible for me(25M) to regain her (23F) interest after messing upPeithopan and Aghayden are both right. When a girl tells me she isn’t looking to fuck - I immediately make sure to let her know I understand and everything we do is between us. After that , I’m planning logistics so escalation can happen and letting her dictate how far we go by her stopping us. You definitely did fuck it up, if you guys were having a great time with each other - what’s the rush? Take your time and enjoy each other to the fullest when you do meet. In the mean time - meet other gi… | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Did I really fuck up as much as I think I did?She likes you and is bummed out, but can’t reply faster than a whole day? Nah, you did the right thing. Don’t dismiss her entirely, but move on and wait till she decides to make an actual effort. Always listen to action, men and women use words for two different purposes. | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 05:40 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend getting distantYou have to break up with her. Once her mind leaves the relationship - it’s over, the only way you could possibly get her back in the future (if you still want her as a fwb) is to break up with her now. | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I asked a girl out and she said yes. Now what?Don’t take her out, INVITE her out, AFTER the play. Let’s break it down. The play is over and you’re heading out to leave - you’re going to grab a food/drink whether she comes or not (that’s important) invite her out and if she joins you - you now have something to talk about (the play) and move from there. If you go before, you’re time is limited, and if it was going really well - the play will plateau the good feelings. P.s. Don’t pay - if you pay it frames the interaction as some sort of date… | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 10:31 PM |
| 4 | What do people mean when they say "Push-Pull"?What do they mean? This post is fucking stupid, but I’m really glad you’re here to make a positive change in you’re life. ^ A little much but do you get it? | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 02:16 PM |
| 20 | I asked a girl out and she said yes. Now what?Prepare for her to cancel on you last minute. I call this the ‘first date cancel’ happens more often than you think. If she does cancel - still go to the play and try to talk to other people. Alright, now that that’s out the way - be careful trying to ‘get to know’ her. It’s the quickest way to end up in the friend zone. Let the night play out, be direct, and never apologize for being yourself. Listen more than you talk and use her words to further conversation or see where her minds at. Don’t a… | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Did she delete me and re add me while I was away, accident or shady?Are you serious? Yo, just message her and see what’s up. Are you afraid it won’t go well and you’ll lose her? Lose what? You don’t even know her beyond surface level. Stop thinking about it so much | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 03:38 PM |
| 13 | Messaging girls I went to high school/college with?You don’t. You’re a doctor. There’s a sea of women waiting for you and you’re trying to catch old fish? You’re walking backwards, move on | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Loss of sexdrive after being "ok" in gameYou’re there, you ‘made it’. You get to move on with your life, but make sure you keep gaming/being social to stay sharp. The social rabbit hole gets deeper if you want it to, but most guys mainly study game for girls, or to develop a mild social life. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 01:49 AM |
| 1 | My life is so pathetic, I have no girls in my life, I have nothing going right in my life at all.Exactly | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | My gap year is almost over and i'm gonna be going to college soon, how can I use this fresh start to improve my game?Be social. Whenever you’re not studying or working out. Go walk around campus and talk to people. Ask what’s to do around here - good spots to eat - etc... you wouldn’t believe how friendly people are under their masks | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 02:29 AM |
| 1 | My life is so pathetic, I have no girls in my life, I have nothing going right in my life at all.Yup, you’re right. Now what? | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Has lifting improved your sex life?Yes. Everyone likes someone who is in shape. They don’t have to be Mr. Olympia, but a nice solid frame is attractive on any guy/girl. | /r/seduction | 06/05/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Do looks really matter ? And why do I look different everytime I look in the mirror ?Imagine a guy saying - “ According to my calculations” What does he look like? What does he dress like? Size you up... she looks at what you’re wearing - she looks at how you stand - how you look at her - the words you use - it all determines your character as a man and if she’s attracted to that or not | /r/seduction | 05/05/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | I'm scared of approaching women?You’ll only be a creep if all you want, when, talking to women is sex. Approach, be casual , don’t just look for sex | /r/seduction | 05/05/19 06:18 PM |
| 5 | What do you know now, that you wish you knew at 18 years of age?Attack every opportunity, fail and fail fast. Learn to recover yourself and stay on track. Keep growing | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 05:48 AM |
| 55 | Not sure what to say next. Please helpCringe | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 05:45 AM |
| -1 | Can you loose all of your experienceYes | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Gone out 4 times now and failed every time.If this were a Pokémon game - you’d just picked your starter and started training in low level grass. Keep putting in work an over time you get to ‘battle’ for your first badge - either way you got a long way to go, head down and keep going | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | How can I [25] be less cringey when talking to women? I have successfully asked a couple chicks out for coffee but I have trouble keeping things organic after that. While we're talking, I don't know what it is but I don't KEEP them excited. I just get nervous thinking about the long run with women.Use to deal with this myself, won’t nerd out on you, but when you’re trying to appear one way, cute/attractive etc. you burn a ton of mental energy. Imagine going to the gym and wanting to fool people that you’re strong so you start curling 80’s right off the jump, you’re going to burn out quick. Sometimes it’s not your fault the conversation is getting boring/stale, she maybe good looking, but the chemistry isn’t there. When the chemistry is there, both of you will put in effort naturally and i… | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a woman losing attraction to you?You sound young, I hope you’re young lol. Seriously though, you’re going to go thru this a bunch of times. You know how many chances I’ve fucked up on girls who I made a decent connection with? The only thing you CAN do is realize the mistakes you made by reflecting and not making them again, keep working on yourself, and show up. I know it blows, you’ll be ok | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How to embrace being tall?Thanks for the advice, I’m either too blunt or too nice, it’s hard for me to find a middle ground sometimes | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you talk to girls who have an empty profile?Exactly, unless she’s really hot and I mean really hot. I don’t even bother. If she’s not putting any effort from the start.. how can you blame her for not caring about you after | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 10:59 PM |
| 3 | How to embrace being tall?First off, get use to guys trying to dominate you for no reason thanks to their inferiority complex, especially short employees/managers. Guys will automatically think you get all the p*ssy you want, and girls will automatically think you’re a player. I’m not even that tall 6’1 and I lift, but I get it all the time, so I can only imagine what you get. Get use to some girls not liking you for the sole reason that most girls are naturally attracted to tall guys and they want to appear ‘different’ … | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How to embrace being tall?I know what epic is saying... he’s right in my experience | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Is she into me or just being friendly?I disagree. Say he asks her out an she declines b/c she was just being friendly from the jump. Now it’s awkward every time he has to serve her at his job. I say, get her number and take it slow, invite her out with you an your friends to something public an see what kinda vibes she’s given you. I’m a little nicer to my female bartenders for the reason that I come there often and it helps social proof when the staff know/like you. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Experienced 17Yr still not fulfilledYou’re being a hopeless romantic. We all have that hole, which some of us try to fill with unhealthy amounts of sex, drinking, drugs, food, relationships, sleep, etc... I hate to sound dark, but there’s a lot of acceptance to how the world really works. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 03:58 PM |
| 6 | Does acknowledging or making fun of your own flaws help or hurt with attraction?I see where you’re coming from. In a group setting, when relevant I’ll own up to my flaws. To me it shows I’m comfortable with myself an it doesn’t bother me. If I’m 1 on 1 with a girl, I’ll play the cocky card but in an obviously joking way. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How to start at 24? Very confusedFresh huh. You have too much to learn to put in a reply. Study forums like this, go out and fail fast and fail often. Don’t expect anything till you’ve gotten at least 200 approaches in. Experience is the game no amount of info will help you unless you can reference it. Good luck. Pm me. Stay n touch | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | What should I have done1) Points for having the balls to approach. 2) she was either looking at the guy behind you (which I doubt) or she was looking at you, in which case girls are indirect for plausible deniability purposes, and even if she was looking at you (which she probably was) hoping you’d approach, she’d never admit it. 3) You notice her IOI an shoot your shot, make bs small talk and if YOU like her, ask for her number. Ps. Always acknowledge the friend, no one like to feel alienated | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Awkward guy going to a college party aloneThis best advice I can share is remember that a party is a GROUP thing. People who worry about themselves in a GROUP setting is destined to fail. Can you imagine doing your own thing in a GROUP project? You’re alone, which is fine, but remember when you join a group, ask yourself, is there anything I can do for the GROUP, not myself? Conversations come naturally, don’t force it if you can’t think of anything to say. If you say nothing, watch and listen carefully to the group and don’t be afraid/… | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I get a fwb to fall for me?^ that’s it. That’s the answer. | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Seddit was right about the boyfriend - if there is one in any capacity stay clear.Yeah, deep down you already know the answer. This is the type of girl you put on the back burner and wait it out. Personally, I don’t have the patience for all that , but if you think she’s worth it, then by all means. Her relationship is rocky or is starting to decline. She’s gathering up guys so if/when she does leave, she has others to fall back on. She has to have a reason(plausible deniability) to ‘cheat’ on him w/ you or socially she’ll be in the wrong. This is why some girls will start ar… | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 09:46 PM |
| 22 | If you think a girl is 'Out Of Your League'“I think folks who do work on themselves have this problem at times too where they feel like they're not good enough for her.” So true, for anyone who’s been improving their life over a long period of time and hasn’t seen any results, it’s a mental switch. For example. I’d only attract 4’s - 6’s. The minute I sat myself down and reflected on how much work I really put into improving myself, I put a solid case together to convince my self that I deserve 7’s, 8’s, an 9’s. That led to me really bel… | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Escalation WindowsThis... you’ll hear some guys call this training your girl. I had a girl who was into me, IOI’s, trying to impress me, etc.. and my response was very stoic. This guy(Low Smv) made a random comment and she bashed him for it. I laughed, and I think she took that as a way to get me to like her b/c all she did for the next 5 mins was bash the guy. Kinda felt bad, but the real lesson I learned was how powerful validation can be and how you can use it to get her to act how you want her to. | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 07:03 PM |
| 271 | If you think a girl is 'Out Of Your League'As much as I’d like to believe there isn’t a ‘league’ there is. Guys and girls who feel someone is out of their league are usually right. Don’t be like everyone else and think it’s looks that define league, that’s not it at all. You have to realize that someone who socializes more than the average person, takes care of themselves, and works on their future; is way ahead of someone who only goes to work, comes home to porn, weed, and video games. Being social requires you to learn social do’s n d… | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 06:50 PM |
| 13 | Why you need to get out "Solo" and practise night game on your ownI think i speak for everyone when i say... nice. | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How to break the "physical barrier" with shy girl1) Thanks for clarifying 2) I would take full advantage of that. 3) Nice, a kiss is much easier to get and doesn't require much effort. 4) I hear you, personally, i wait till we're on a high note(she just laughed or you're having a genuine good time) then i look at her lips and back to her (which signals im about to kiss her) then i go for it and if she doesn't want it, she'll move or kiss you an talk about it later... all that matters is that you showed her you had the balls to make the move. M… | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 07:57 PM |
| 3 | How to break the "physical barrier" with shy girlSimple mistakes, it's all apart of the learning process. For future reference 1) If she met up with you at a bar that late(10:30) she is not shy an all you have to do is not fuck up. 2) The MOMENT you guys meet up, break the touch barrier with a hug. 3) You should've had a plan for the night. what was the goal? to sleep with her? just get a kiss? plan accordingly 4) Never talk about action, just act. | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Trying to do the “build an active social life” thing but running into one major problem.I hear you, I think you might be looking at it all wrong. You're trying to find something you thoroughly enjoy and passionate about, which is fine, but you're missing the point that you already have a social life! You're going out and trying things. You might not feel over the top passion for it, but the simple fact that you leave your house and do things is enough. All the places you've been to so far are future talking points/stories you can share with new people you meet. As long as you keep … | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Don't know where to go from here/ Cant get a read on herWhat do you want from her? | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Best way to let a girl know that you are singleDon't tell her she's attractive, it's unnecessary an already implied when you invite her out | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Not sure if to give her another chance or to move oncryk2 was right, you're making yourself too available. When she cancelled on you, did you go out anyway? I hope so, you're supposed to have a life and let her join YOU when she has free time. If you're waiting on her, you're basically saying I don't have a life without you. oops_cornhole is right too, meet other girls going out solo and have a great time, let her know she missed out. Women like to be wanted not needed. | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with girls after the pickup??First things first, i never accept Instagram unless I don't really care for her and i want to get my following up (social proof) b/c i guarantee you that's what she's doing. I do, however, accept snapchats b/c its harder to ignore an I'll know if she's purposely choosing not to reply or hasn't replied b/c she's 'busy'. To answer your question(s) what I do is figure out her purpose. Ask yourself questions like: Do i want a Fwb with this girl and that's it? Do i actually want to take her out and g… | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 11:46 PM |
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