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FDS MEMESThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 01:21 AM
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How-To High ValueThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:34 PM
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FDS MEMESThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:20 AM
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FDS MEMESThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:33 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:03 PM
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DUMP HIS ASSThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:38 PM
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REMINDER 👑Thesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:06 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:47 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF FAMEThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:14 PM
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LVM LOGICThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:11 PM
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FDS MEMESThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:59 PM
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DISCUSSIONThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:08 AM
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DISCUSSIONThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:00 PM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:25 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKThesociodark/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:43 AM
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Very far on the aroace spectrum, but I'm not completely against having a relationship one day with a man or a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:55 PM
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Equal rights equal fights lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:23 PM
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Same! It's also a different perspective, which can be very helpful, and a good creative exercise too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:10 PM
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Yeah, it's totally okay to do this, and people should understand it as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:25 PM
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I like both tarot and astrology. Even if you don't believe in divination and the likes, it can help you see different aspects or yourself, and a lot of time I use tarot to decide on something, or to see a problem from a different perspective. It's also very interesting to see how different people relate to the same astrology sign. I'm very interested in the people around me, and I love reading about astrology with them and see what things they find fitting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:22 PM
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She's also the very tired stereotype of sexy villainess. She has genuine good moments in the comics, but a lot of her scenes are fanservice, and the whole shapeshifting sex thing makes me feel uneasy, when the characters don't know about it. They essentially consent to have sex with another person, when it's truly her... Sometimes this is depicted as sexy too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:27 PM
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(Big CW here) I'm Hungarian, and my great-grandmother was almost raped by a bunch of Soviet soldiers. She hid with her kids on the fields, and only rarely came back to her house, but one time she did the soldiers were waiting for her there. (It's very likely that one of her neighbors told about her to them, so they will be left alone). My great-grandmother fought with them and they beat her up so badly she almost died, and was healing for months. One of her kids, my mom's uncle who was 6 or 7 at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 08:34 AM
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No, I would think he is an idiot and not talk to him. I was bullied for a long time and these kind of stunts just activate the "get the fuck away and avoid them from now on" instinct in me, especially if he shouts at me from the other side of the room, like wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:34 AM
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I second this! One time one of my dad's acquitances opened his phone in front of him to show him his gf, while having a wife at home. My dad was upset for days after it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:51 AM
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Wtf is with the comments under Uma's video
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:21 AM
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https://www.newsweek.com/viral-shower-rat-video-not-what-we-think-starters-its-not-rat-794526
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:21 PM
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It's good for vetting tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 08:02 PM
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Omg I fucking hate the word simping. Anytime a woman is being treated like a fucking human being it's "simping"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:21 AM
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Just thinking about being with a male prostitute makes my heart ache. Like imagine if they are in a bad situation, depressed, hooked on drugs etc. etc. Sex would be the very last thing on my mind. And even if they are perfectly healthy in mind and body and not coerced, it's still just... Ehhh. It would be very degrading for both of us to pay for them to touch me when they would never do it otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:10 PM
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No, they did the same with Billie Eilish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:49 AM
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Yeah, they are. I study biochemical engineering, but I frequently have classes with other type of engineer students too, and some of them are giving me goosebumps with the way they stare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 09:10 AM
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you.look.like.a.man is on insta and face and they are doing Lilith's job too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:34 PM
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Yeah, that's fair, and he did seem older in mind too in the books
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 06:29 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong but if I remember correctly there was a 3 year age gap between them, and for me personally it doesn't seem that bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:45 AM
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I'm in the same shoes. I'm 19 and I'm very suspicious about having ADHD, but I was never diagnosed with it. When I was a kid, doctors said I was "the most energetic healthy kid they have ever seen in their lives" 🙄 Basically I was on the verge of getting a diagnosis, but it's still dismissed today as a nonsense since I'm doing good at school. Well, yeah, I do, but I have the attention span of a dead hamster among other things and it's seriously messing me up. I feel pretty lost tbh 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:02 PM
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Yeah, or just with basic things. I heard from a lot of women that when they were pregnant women were the only ones who helped them or gave their seat to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:16 PM
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I get your are not serious and all, but please don't comment things like this, it can be used against the whole subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:14 PM
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You can actually get your lenses out with very long nails too, you just need a different technique. There are some very good tutorials on yt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:03 PM
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Your last words just struck me wow. I'm Hungarian too and it's very disheartening to see how widespread domestic violence to this day in this country :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 12:12 PM
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Yeah, my observation is that when my friends stopped wanting sex it was because they didn't have any enjoyment in it already, and then he did something that hit the nail into the coffin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:08 PM
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I'm sorry you had to go through this, I hope you are in a better place now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:06 AM
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It can be also that both of you give each other lingerie for a date, or in my case I would accept a program like this on Valentine's day for fun (in my culture we don't really celebrate Valentine's day anyway, it's just a gag). Or if me and my partner directly go for something stupid/over-the-top with this. It's not really an 50/50 thing, more like going for a known prank for each other. I really love doing things like with my friends (obviously not in erotic context) so it would be fun with a p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:54 AM
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Yeah, one time I was at a gym class with an acquaintance and she forgot to bring money. I payed for her, then as we cycled along her house she went in and immediately gave back what she owed to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:20 AM
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For real tho, I would love to have a wife too haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:11 AM
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Some grew up masturbating with the knowledge that their family members can barge in anytime, so they trained themselves to ejaculate fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:11 PM
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They are also a but more likely to be misogynistic because of the less matches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:06 PM
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I like girls too, I always interpreted it as a song that shows how girls are pitted against each other by doing literally anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:44 PM
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I remember one guy said that you can comment "I hate all men" and receive 2000 upvotes here lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:51 AM
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Same, I'm going to be 19 in this summer, and I'm concentrating on my studies. I will study bioengineering from September, and I will do everything to have financial freedom on my own. I'm from Hungary and we didn't even get into the convention 😕 I heard from a few men that this convention only help women with false accusations, because they are that common for sure 🙄 Btw, I love how you think, I hope more girls like us will do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:13 PM
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This is so cruel and disrespectful. Nobody should treat another person's disability this way :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:02 PM
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Yeah, I know my dad doesn't watch it at all, he's 50. A few weeks ago I mentioned bdsm because of a movie I watched with my parents (Dakota Johnson was in it) and he didn't know what it was. After we explained it to him, he said that it's nonsense. He explained that if you love someone, being intimate with them and then suddenly cause some pain you IMMEDIATELY stop, because it's so off-putting and a turn-off to hurt someone you care about. It's scary to think that he's in a minority tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:56 AM
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Rape is literal torture tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:39 AM
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If we would like dick pictures men wouldn't send them lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:48 PM
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Yeah, and they also have this type of pickme shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:02 PM
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This really fun btw, because part of healthy masculinity is that you can be fucking responsible for yourself and for others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:59 PM
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I watched this film when I was younger and yeah, I was utterly disgusted by it. I had a phase where I searched for different kind of movie content to see where is my line is, and this was wayyyy far after it. Honestly I was such an idiot, I can remember very vividly of a lot of scenes even now. Particularly the baby one was extremely hard on me because I adore children. I literally have no idea how or why I watched the whole thing :') Really, my only defense is that I was around 15 and I was als…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:33 PM
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Yeah, and not just the kpop stars, I find a lot of asian actors really hot. I think this is just projection again, because men tend to think that women want this very aggressive, very masculine look and demeanor (which is just not true). Since they do not associate asian men with these traits they automatically think that for women asian men = undesirable. Pure bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:43 PM
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Same :( I love my parents dearly, but I'm from a homophobic country and they aren't accepting either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:59 AM
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LMAOOO he's at my age I can't 😂😂😂 The girls in my class already make a big effort to get into the best universities here, they are going to be vets, doctors, engineers etc. and they all look gorgeous. I will study bioengineering from September, work out almost every day, have a healthy diet and you can bet that I will never going to need a fatalistic asshole like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:59 PM
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I find it also interesting that seemingly less guys are bisexual than women. It's just my theory, but maybe women find it a bit easier to come clear even in front of themselves. I'm not saying it's easier to be a queer woman than a queer man, just that among men it's an even bigger stigma (on average, because I know some VERY homophobic women too, but a lot less). So I can totally see that some incels, manosphere guys and the likes have these feelings but they internalized them so much that it b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:41 AM
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About fantasizing: yes! Even when I regularly looked at porn, it was a big struggle to find anything that I actually liked (and wasn't fucking disturbing), because it always centered around male pleasure and gaze. I quit porn a long time ago (it wasn't a struggle, I just decided one day that I'm done and that was it). Since then I found a lot of things I actually enjoy and those masturbating sessions are wayyyy better than anything I had before. I'm also think I'm on the aroace spectrum irl, bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:43 PM
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Yeah. Back then I was christian (now I'm agnostic) and boy, they hated it. They always waited for me to be present to spew atheistic ideas, wanted to "debate" with me, all of this. They also don't want to wait until marriage with sex, and spill on basic christian principles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:54 PM
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When I'm running with my dog I do this too, but he always tries to increase the speed. A few times I only realized that it was intentional from my dog's part when we were literally sprinting lmao Now I can tell from his ears that he tries to do this because he flats them down when he concentrates 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:11 PM
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This was my thought too. I would have told a lot more people to fuck off if I didn't have self-preservation instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:54 PM
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My friend has very prominent central heterochromia and people told her some shit like this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:20 AM
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Thank you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:00 AM
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I'm Gen Z (18) and I think there are hardly any boy in my age group who doesn't addicted to porn. I don't watch tiktok myself, never got into it, and don't want to. I really hate the make-up culture too, I get that some people like it, but I was never into it besides using eyeliners and eyelash brushs sometimes. I got shamed for it irl, and sometimes I felt bad even here at FDS, because there were people who implied that you need to wear make-up, fake nails etc. to be considered feminine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:39 AM
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I'm very interested in the authors mentioned, but I haven't read anything from them yet. Does somebody has recommendations?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:31 AM
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Maybe they were just surprised tbh, or only see that he got kicked, not what was before it. Judging from thos few seconds, they could be laughing at him to lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:47 PM
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I think it's not nearly as bad conpared to got for example. That particular scene was in the first episode, and yeah, rape was definitely implied, but they didn't show any of it. Later were flashbacks to that scene, but you saw the guy holding a knife, about to torture her, nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:26 AM
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Daenerys was a MINOR. She couldn't consent because she was a fucking child. She was around 13 if I remember correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:38 PM
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Tbh, I think the amount of rape that was in the show was realistic from a real world perspective, since I'm sure low value men would do exactly this if the would be able to. But! It was unnecessary to show this much of those particular scenes, and the naked women showed a lot more for a lot more time than naked men most of the time. Also, the males were allowed to be not perfect, while the female hosts were all pandering to the male gaze. Edit: It's a shame since I'm a sucker for every media tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:30 PM
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Ohh I understand, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:18 PM
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It's because you are a genuinely good person with empathy. I'm sorry this happened to you, this whole thing sounds horrifying :( Are you sure that there's no way to talk to her safely about this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:19 AM
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Maybe this is just me, but I would want a very simple ring, because I want to wear it everyday, and I really love my parents' rings, they have simple gold ones without a stone or anything. This is just my taste and style, I looove minimalism. I know this is not a high standard, and I love the listed ideas here, this is just how I feel towards this particular thing haha. I wear very simple accessories on average anyway, and my clothes are mainly black, white and dark blue. A solid gold ring would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:38 PM
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Another one messaged me a few days ago to talk about how porn fucked up his life, like I fucking care lmao. Blocked ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:02 PM
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What did you find?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:33 PM
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I loved him in Westworld even though his character was the epitome of zvms 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:04 PM
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I think it's like astrology. Every single profile is directly vague, so people can see themselves in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:19 AM
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They are so fragile lmao and they cry that everyone is so sensitive nowadays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:16 AM
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Oh that's a different matter! At first I had a child-friendly book in mind, like the first one you mentioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:58 AM
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My only con to this is that a lot of kids get exposed to pornography at around 4th grade, especially boys. I remember that in that age I didn't even know what they were talking about, but now I know that they were watching porn. Just my opinion tho, I will take the downvotes if necessary haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:49 AM
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You are welcome haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:55 PM
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They are not mine, sadly, I just found them with a few searches, and I had to swim through massive waves of misogynistic jokes to get to these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:52 PM
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Yeah, literally no content, but I will take it as a challenge 😂 "He may has a small penis but he's a huge dick" "What’s the insensitive part at the end of the penis called again? Oh, right, a man." "What’s the difference between your jokes and your penis? Nobody laughs at your jokes." "Not all men are stupid because some of them are dead." "What's the difference between a smart man and a stupid man? Nothing. They both think they know everything." "Men at 25 play football. Men at 40 play tennis. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:46 PM
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They make the most disgusting, depraved jokes about women, then say we should laugh with them, but when we make one small penis joke all hell breaks loose 😂 Pathetic clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:57 PM
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Incel means involuntary celibate. People called me femcel when I'm literally VOLUNTARY celibate lmao. My problem is not that I can't find someone, but that I don't feel any kind of romantic and sexual attraction towards others most of time, and I also don't want to put up with the shithole what is the dating pole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:15 PM
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I would never call my parents by their first name, they are always "mom" and "dad" for me in my language. It would be very disrespectful and frankly weird for me to call them by their first name, but sometimes I call them madre, padre, my dearest mother or something like this jokingly. Sometimes I call my sis by her real name, but I often use silly nicknames for her too. I guess this is one of my ways to show my affection. My skin crawls when I hear this mommy/daddy fetish shit 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:53 AM
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I think so, if I remember correctly an admin here mentioned once that only they can see the comments that unflaired people make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:41 AM
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"Yeah, it's a hard decision for me too, hot abs or a big dick" Edit: I love how many comments are here what we can't see. Stay mad lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:32 AM
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Same. I watched Investigation Discovery when I was younger and I thought "of course they describe her as bubbly and cheerful, murdered people are always portraid in a positive light". But I can't recall the same about male victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:25 PM
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In my country we celebrate mother's day on the first Sunday of May. I was in the middle of my finals and I was still able to get her chocolate (and I also felt really bad, because I couldn't get something more personal, but I literally studied all the time around there). I could have been more prepared, I have to admit, but this whole season was fucking stressful :')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:16 AM
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I'm sorry you had to go through this, nobody should ever :( What helped me was really this, if you learn to trust yourself it will make things a lot easier. Sometimes it's hard even when you're conscious about what you're doing, but definitely something that people can learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:15 AM
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Maybe it can help if you concrate to your initial thoughts and feelings. I'm kind of like this, but I always noticed that microaggressions, backhanded compliments etc still make uncomfortable or hurt, but then I immediately block out this. This is just my guess of course, but you doubting yourself and feeling bad about this can be a sign of dissociation. I used to do this because I was bullied at school and if I showed any reaction it only made my situation harder, so I subconsciously trained my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:05 AM
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Okay, thank you. Btw, you can't link anything, but you can send the link in my dms, this is what I originally asked, but I think I was not clear enough, sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:53 PM
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Can you link me too pls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:15 AM
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They say psychical touch but wouldn't even hold your hand for the sake of it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:54 AM
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If we are so ugly then why do they care? lmao I wouldn't have a problem with incels if the weren't advocate for vile shit, and in their mind we are a same level of them, expect we don't advocate for mass murder just to guys pay sometimes 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:58 AM
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I have heard a lot of times that "people who say porn is bad are like the ones who say you will shoot up your school because of video games". No, you probably won't become a mass murderer, but my cousin became visibly more violent (mainly verbally, but even a bit psychically) after playing with games with certain themes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:23 AM
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It's sad that pole dancing is a very hardcore sport otherwise, you need great strength and skill for it. A few years ago I really wanted to start it, BECAUSE of how hard it is, but I had a hand surgery and I don't think I would be able to cling onto the pole for too long :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:21 AM
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"earned her place" as if the guy did her a favor wth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:39 PM
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I hope everything goes right for you ❤️ If you need to talk to someone or just rant you can hit me up anytime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:28 AM
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I feel like this too. If you have a problem with my English, we can switch to my native language, I'm sure you will go far with it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:13 PM
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It's because of biOloGy lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:08 PM
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It's highly disturbing to me, because even when I watched porn back then, I was fully avare that what I'm looking at is a full, living person with her own thoughts, hopes and dreams. I just can't really imagine how can you think about another human being like they are an inanimate object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:30 AM
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Tw. As someone who have self harmed in the past, this is exactly how I felt after I beat my arms blue. Euphoria and relief, then I slowly sinked into depression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:27 PM
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Jesus I'm so sorry. I hope you left him on spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:27 PM
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I have never been in a relationship, and I feel like I doesn't want to anymore either? I don't feel like I missing out on anything at this front. I want to have more friends, because I lost most of them due to the lockdown (the long distance relationship didn't work out), and I really miss having good conversations with other people besides my family. But I don't want a man, like not at all. I suspect I might me aro/ace, because I still find fictional and celebrity men and women interesting or h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:01 AM
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Fragilemaleredditor did this to me too. Oh, the irony. I wonder if they have men as mods as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:35 PM
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It's because they lead poor men up 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:18 PM
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If you think r/rateme, it's incredibly toxic. Most of the guys just use it to take their anger on women out. If a woman posts her picture there, she can expect hundreds of sexual/rapey "jokes".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:04 AM
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Yeah, I think this is the best someone can too. Accept that you are a human and won't stay young forever, but also don't let yourself know. You have to know how to age with dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:44 PM
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I think you're right. I related to him because it took me years to get diagnosed with my mental illness, and I was bullied by my peers. The scene where he sits in front of the social worker, talking about his issues, not being understand or given any empathy hit me close because of my appointments with psychologists and a child psychiatrist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:47 AM
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Yes, it's not good to be a woman here :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:28 AM
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Oh I know her! Dr Karikó is hungarian like me, I heard about her only a few months ago. I'm so proud of her, she's a big inspiration for me, especially because I want to pursue a bioengineering career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:38 AM
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Why not both?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:36 PM
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Yes, I believe the same thing. The problem is that my parents think that everyone considers an unwanted hug assault, because of feminism or some shit. They started to slowly understand it after poor Sarah's case, but our country's culture is massively victim blaming, so this takes time with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:53 PM
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I hate because anytime I try to have a discourse about this with my father, all he talks about is how hard to say what is sexual violence or not, because if a woman likes something then it's not that, and when she doesn't then it is. For example a nice man hugging her vs a man who she doesn't like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:27 AM
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This! I'm also very willing to talk about men's issues, because there are plenty, but on their on platform and place. I hate that legit problems only come up to invalid women's experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:07 PM
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I'm mentally ill myself and I don't think anyone with serious issues should be in a relationship/try dating unless they work HARD on themselves. Have some empathy, you can literally drag down everyone around you if you're in a bad state, there's no need to involve someone new to this, and being mentally ill also means you're a lot more vulnerable yourself too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:13 AM
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I think it depends. I'm not arguing about your stance, just thought I mention my dad case too. My grandfather was in a hit-and-run case when my dad was 14 and my aunt was 12 and he died instantly. After hearing his death, they went home from school and my dad immediately threw out all the medications so my grandmother couldn't kill herself with them. For years he cooked for both of them and did other household chores too. He said he only started grieving his father when he was 18 and that he dre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:20 AM
24

Link :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:27 AM
11

Don't worry, they fetishize everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:32 AM
19

They just want to keep gawking at underage girls, I don't see the problem you sexist /s I just remembered I had a male teacher who asked out his 18 yr old students after they graduated, and I also had a language teacher on a 4 week course who couldn't go a day without telling the class sexual stories, more disgusting ones with each following week. I was 14 back then and was very uncomfortable but I didn't even realize how fucked up it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:05 AM
46

Or he has at least one fit during the book, and beat up someone in front of her or vandalize a whole house. Also, everything goes against the heroine's will and happens as the guy wants it to. If she says no, he will coerce or flat out force her to do the thing she doesn't want to. (Edit because repetition of words)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:11 PM
32

Can I ask you why is it not bad if it's in the sub's name? I'm not asking this out of spite, I'm just not a native speaker, so I can't really tell the two examples apart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:27 PM
3

Thank you very much! I watched the first season of Ajin, I think it was really cool, and I can't recall any sexually inappropriate scene (although I watched it a long time ago, so I can't be really sure).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:57 PM
8

Can you recommend some anime with dark themes, without sexualized female suffering? I really like dark storylines but it's hard to find any anime without pornified or objectified sexual harrasment for example. My problem is not that there are scenes like this, but their execution. I really wanted to like the Berserk and Goblin Slayer manga but I ended up putting down both, being very disgusted by them. If I remember correctly, Claymore was very good on this topic, but I watched it pre FDS, so wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:15 AM
30

Yeah, this can be very likely that, I have never thought about it this way. Although I think they knew that this must be bad for the girl, so I felt like it was more about that they didn't think that anybody would take their side there. But now I feel really bad because I definitely though about things like this before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:11 PM
97

Yes, and it came up that it's just "cultural difference", and my mom's friend and her husband didn't really know if this is how things went there or not, so she was afraid to take action. Honestly, this whole young girl fetish (aka pedophilia) is very prominent in Japan, which is very alien in my country (Hungary), at least I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:38 PM
108

Yeah, I don't hate him either, but on the other side of the coin, I pretty much condemn every women who willingly support the porn industry even after this revealing (and I'm not talking about the victims, of course, but about the "porn is healthy, my man love it!!" crowd). Same goes for men like this ofc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:38 PM
148

"Actual sex" - what is foreplay to you, you dumb fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:34 PM
148

Yeah, my mother's friend went to Japan and they saw a little girl who was being photograped in a crowded place, and the photographer was all over her, very noticeably horny. They had to drag away her husband because he was very eager to take action, or at least shout the man's head off. According to them, it was very obvious and disgusting that the photographer was a pedophile, and he didn't acted as a professional photographer at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:32 PM
88

Fellas, is it gay to love a woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:04 AM
11

I'm so sorry you had to go through this! This is also a reason why I hate when writers use the anger issues as a romantic trope, especially the "he's agressive with everyone, just not with me" type. I always feel like the "yet" at the end is silent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:41 AM
26

I love when people hear I'm aroace and go like "but aren't you lonely???" I have friends and family wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:45 PM
4

Nsfw please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:23 PM
132

I'm very talkative but I learned very early that people hate one-sided conversations for a reason, so I always try to ask back and have topics that the other person enjoys too. I thought this is the bare minimum if you can't easily shut up lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:35 AM
26

This is just so ridiculous, like imagine a woman who just can't accept she's an A cup and wants to wear D sized bras 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:03 PM
3

I really like otome games and visual novels, but some people don't even count them as games 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:44 PM
2

Yes, absolutely! I hate when in movies and books friendships and family are inferior to the Big Love. Even when we have a character who has a good friend people always have to ship them, because god forbid that someone is happy without romantical love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:25 PM
17

I feel the same way about being aroace tbh. You are your own person, you don't need sex or romantic gestures and you don't feel lonely without them either. If you have at least some good friendships and family you are absolutely happy with all your relationships in your life. You have your own goals, and don't have to deal with another person's emotional and physical needs unless you choose to. Disclaimer: this is how it works for me, other aroace people might have a different experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:05 AM
19

It's kind of the same here (Hungary) too. We don't smile a lot and one of my school's foreign exchange student said she's got a lot of weird looks because people didn't know why she smiled at them for seemingly no reason lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:52 AM
30

I think it depends on the other person too tho. It's really hard to get presents for my parents, because they always buy everything they need, so this year, after asking them I bought a shitton of chocolate for both of them, although I was very careful to choose brands that they will like and be faithful to my mom's gluten diet. At least I know that they will be happy because usually they don't get this kind of fancy candy for themselves lol. I still feel kind of bad since chocolate is not somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:22 PM
23

Thank you so much! I can't imagine all the crap you have to deal daily to have a safe place for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:01 PM
25

If you don't mind me, can I ask you how are doing now? This sounds devastating, I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:18 PM
27

Off topic but I hate how much people worship him nowadays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:58 PM
16

Notice how his sign is detailed and nice while the other guy didn't even tried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:38 PM
1

Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:54 AM
2

Can somebody give me a link to this garbage? I'm curious about the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:47 AM
36

I hope you will be able to find a new place, this is horrible :( My personal favorite when a guy hit me with the "not all men" right after he and his buddies were joking about violent rape porn and hentai. Maybe not all men but you guys for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:18 AM
30

I while ago I found BDSM very exciting and it's kind of painful to know that exactly why. I have self-halm issues (tw for the following), when I'm under emotional distress I tend to hit, pick and bite myself until my arms and legs are bruised and ache like hell. Never until I bleed, because bruises can be excused but cuts not really. I just find physical pain very comforting, and this is as fucked up as it sounds. I'm working on my problems by the way, I take light medications and do sports a lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:25 PM
11

These are all jokes, right? I mean, how can they be serious? 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:25 AM
37

She couldn't win in this situation. Rejects him in front of everyone = heartless bitch. Accepts just to backpedal in private = manipulative, lying bitch. He is the one who should have think about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 03:17 PM
48

Maybe I'm wrong, but I think the picture implies the same, just worded it very simply due to the lack of space. Like you need all of the things above to actually enjoy a conversation for example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:45 PM
3

I had to laugh at the end of his post. Like wtf mate, how can you be this hopelessly, fucking stupid 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:59 AM
21

Well, they are indeed very dangerous, and advocating for pedophilia, terrorism and rape, as if they have a right to it all. Of course, this is the same level as us saying that leaving a man all hyped up before sex is okay if they don't want to do any foreplay with you or for any other reason, because you don't owe sex to anyone. Like how dare we want respect and enjoyable sex, this is clearly terrorism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:50 AM
25

This is just pathetic. I'm white and totally okay with poc having a space for themselves. Like, it's literally not my business at all, I can't get how can you be angry at this when there are literally millions of other subs to post lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:43 AM
39

Incel stands for involuntary celibate. If someone celibates here then that's everything but involuntary 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:38 AM
8

I want to buy myself an advent calendar with good products, I know it's overpriced but like once a year I'm okay with it, just for the sake of it :') I can't imagine giving it as a gift tho, this is just a nice thing for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:01 PM
19

Yes! I hate the what-about-men thing too, but yeah, they are not exception from this. Also, this is why I'm trying to level up too, I just don't want to be that bullied dormat who I used to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:54 AM
3

Yeah, I think Rick is good, he always puts his loved ones first, but I only watched the first few seasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:21 PM
1

Thanks, I needed this a lot. Although not with an ex, but with an ex-friend. There's a very good reason why I cut her out of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:20 PM
2

Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:04 PM
41

Oh, the empathy. I have been called too sensitive and weak in a very demeaning way when I expressed that I'm upset when I hear that something bad happened to strangers, for example after watching the news. No, I'm just not a fucking psychopath, like just imagine what they are going through right now, man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:48 PM
61

Poor girl, almost all of her posts are very sad. I feel really bad for her 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:38 PM
5

How thoughtful, I think I shed a tear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:29 PM
7

Classy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:26 PM
12

Wgtow doesn't even sound bad at all tbh. I'm not sure if I want to be in a relationship like ever 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:24 PM
6

Can I ask you what is pimping? I don't think I have heard it before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:20 PM
45

Yeah, kids can be very nice by themselves. I was working with disabled children for my communal service (this kind of service in my country is mandatory in order to graduate from high school, but you can choose what do you want to do) and a lot of them emailed to the volunteers the same way as this kid above. I just can't get how they can sexualize this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:37 PM
4

He raped another female character, a slave, and it wasn't even mentioned like, ever. I guess it was supposed to show how strong or evil he is or something like this but it was really pointless for me. Basically they did a rape scene for the sake of a rape scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:56 AM
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I was waiting for the punchline, like she's been doing this for herself all along lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:14 PM
6

Same. Most of the time I have a very straight face. People had hurt me the most when I was trying to be this bubbly, talkative person who I just was not, and they scorned and laughed at me because they knew that I was faking it. I'm much happier since I accepted that I'm basically a chill loner type lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:06 PM
6

Did she really get raped? If I remember correctly, he attempted the act but she was able to break free. Correct me if I'm wrong, I watched it a long time ago. Not like this would make it okay, I despise every detailed rape scene in movies (or rape scenes at all), I just didn't remember this and now kind of shocked lol. Btw, sometimes movies show male rape, but it's almost always meant to be comical. This is not a very popular topic but it definitely exists and played very often. There are two ve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:09 PM
4

😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:50 AM
7

I would love to do that too! I have only read the Handmaid's Tale books, and I would be interested that what else I should read from her repertoire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:36 AM
22

Maybe? In Hungary it's not very common, but I love wearing very little at home for sleeping. It's not a sexual thing for me at all, I just find it very comfortable. The bad side of it is that I have to be very careful with my windows everywhere lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:26 AM
7

I just remembered that there's a really good insta page about harassment against fit women, literally named you look like a man. You should check it out, as a fellow runner I can relate to a lot of stuff there. Link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:02 PM
11

Yes, and the way he said this implies he will fully blame it on you, because you were the one who pissed him off. That's a no from me, damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:24 PM
36

I have heard about this! So horrible, I was upset for a long time after I watched a few videos about her story. Poor woman, I can't imagine what she had to go through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:38 PM
76

Even if they 'accept' it, they will later use it against the woman in the arguments to hurt her and/or force her to do what they want. I have heard this from many sex workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:34 PM
81

Yeah, this whole thing screams pick-me to me too. I feel like when someone is really confident in herself, she doesn't feel the need to prove it to some random asshole on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:15 PM
10

So true. I dislike all the conversations that has been posted here on reddit that didn't end up in immediate block after they showed their true colors. They just want a response and women should not give it to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:11 PM
24

This is how they see us in real life too. They warped their reality that much that they think every women is like the ones on the screen and will do those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:05 PM
36

I'm going to college next year to be a biologist. Why should I settle for less in my partner? There are some people who do well in life without a degree, but it's ridiculous that this is a 'high standard' now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:31 PM
44

But men are the victims, remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:27 PM
13

I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:05 PM
186

What I absolutely hate is the trend now among men that they say 'if I could buy a car by showing my ass online I would absolutely do it, women have it easy' like can you fuck off right now??? Also, there are a market for gay men too, so feel free to do it Josh lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:59 PM
2

No he didn't. Her problem wasn't even with the bjs but with the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:16 AM
3

This is so disgusting to think of ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:27 PM
11

Yes, this is true on so many levels. This girl escaped, she updated her situation, but I can't find the original post, so I suspect it got deleted. (Sorry that my answer is not longer, but I can't really think of anything meaningful to say besides agreeing with you.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:26 PM
14

One of my friends had a bf who said he won't do anything in bed until she give him a blowjob, THEN they can do anything actually together 🤮 She told him off, but still, what the hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:47 PM
5

Yeah, but I think it's more like yaoi what you are talking about, and yaoi very often has female writers making content for female audiences (and has big problem with fetishization, but honestly, what kind of porn not). But otherwise I can see your point too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:42 PM
5

It is entirely for male pleasure, I don't think a woman would find much enjoyment in it, but this is just my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:35 PM
44

There was a post on r/relationshipadvice where a girl's bf literally choked her unconscious during sex, while holding her down so she can't escape. The whole post screamed psychopath so much that I was deeply disturbed after reading it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:29 PM
32

Yeah, and as far as I can see, a lot of men would pay for a dinner if the woman 'worth it'. They just think that most women would not, and a lot of them are just looking for easy, cheap sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:13 AM
6

I'm curious about the same. Is there good literature about the topic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 11:44 AM
10

Yeah, but for a lot of men HVM means that you are a pickme and want to be their bangmommy, because they can't imagine an equal partnership where you both lift each other up. This way the whole concept is alien to them, and since they have no empathy, they automatically assume that fdsers want the same as them (high-value partner without doing any actual effort), so I think the whole thing is just projecting from them lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:24 AM
45

18 year old here. In my class, some of them send porn pictures to the shared chat, because they think it's funny and all, and as a fucked up power move too, because they love making girls uncomfortable. It's started when we were around 14... I will be good alone or with a gf I guess, I don't want to put up with this shit in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:05 AM
13

Yeah. Sometimes I'm tired because of the amount of scrote posts. I have that irl enough, thanks lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:27 AM
24

Sometimes I'm glad I'm bi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:08 PM
2

Yeah, but porn and erotic literature also very different. Porn is objectification of women, fully focus on male enjoyment, therefore almost impossible to like anyone besides males. Erotic literature written by women almost always contains love too, and sometimes very toxic, sadly (just look at the 365 dni movie & book). Ethically I'm absolutely on the side of literature, but sometimes even that is full of misogny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:19 PM
10

She was pregnant too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:57 PM
7

I love how everyone offended because of the comparing. Plants > NVM 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:07 PM
3

Omg, you are awesome. You actually gave me some bravery, I was always afraid to call out the creepy assholes before 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:06 PM
9

Reminds me of that reddit post where a girl was choked unconsciously by his boyfriend during sex, and later he turned out to be serious serial killer material...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:52 AM
3

Well, I'm actually disgusted... We should put the reverse role card. No woman would post something like this, since it's a NORM to please your spouse even if he is becoming a fucking pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:47 AM
27

She is right in this one, I give her this, but I hate every username with the word "hentai" in it in the first place lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:37 AM
2

I feel like the same about friendships too. I just ended a long time friendship with a girl, who was narcissistic and also a pickme (she thinks she is better than everyone because she doesn't whiny like normal girls, can decently cook and all these shit)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 07:23 PM
19

I recently found out I'm truly bisexual. At first I was afraid I'm a lesbian (not for homophobic reasons, it's a very big trouble for me in my country and with my conservative family), and then I found out I'm attracted to men, but like, to the ATTRACTIVE guys. I know this sounds stupid, but I honestly thought it's a problem that I don't find guys hot in average, when I feel like I'm surrounded by very good looking girls. But I love the athletic body, the hair, the nice hands, etc. in men, it's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:11 PM
38

I don't think young girls are more sexual now, maybe it's different for you as you are getting a little older and see them more as a child, but girls always were sexualised from a young age. Like wearing make-up when they are 10-12, wearing revealing clothes, sadly this is not new. But now we have social media, so everytime a creep wants to see this kind of pictures from young girls, he can go to Facebook and find plenty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:32 AM
3

Beautiful ring, I especially love the kind of diamond you choose. I'm so happy for you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:23 AM
5

Please, put some cw on. I just can't bear this kind of stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:05 PM
18

I just remembered how it went with my parents. My grandfather died when my dad was 14, and he got his engagement ring, a solid gold ring with no decoration stone. He met my mother, fell in love, and for their engagement he went to lot of shops to find a solid ring for her which could be a pair to his ring (they talked about it, and my mom wanted this too), but shops didn't really have that kind of ring they wanted. After long searching, he found one. They still wear their rings every day, one ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:11 PM
31

I have to admit I didn't do this. It just felt like it was written by a man, but this is way sadder. After all this "as an attractive female" kind of posts I just can't trust in anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:41 PM
47

YES. There's this awful quote too: "I am a strong independent woman until something heavy needs to be lifted." I constantly hear this in my home country, and I absolutely hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:28 PM
3

Almost five hours, we are doing great again :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:31 PM
2

Okay but a lot of ladies from the pictures are beautiful, and even the other pictures are just from a bad angle. And what, if you are not perfectly flawless, then you can't say what do you want, while ugly ass men demand multifunctional housewifes, looking like supermodels? Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:14 PM
56

At least she decided to break up with him. I really hope that she will find a hvm or just be happy by herself, she deserves it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:31 AM
34

Yeah, this so true. I'm 17 (almost 18) and I find some older actors hot, but I just can't imagine dating a man who is a decade older than me, not even someone at my dads age or above that. It's just so fucking scary that these old men want a girl at my age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:11 PM
7

Personally I loved Joker, but this annoyed me all time while I watched the movie. Like, Zazie is one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen, and I love Joaquin, but his character was a fucking mentally ill creep. Zazie is a black woman, who played a lonely mom with a young kid. This whole situation with the age gap and the violent acts from Arthur's side just screams vulnerability to me. I think an older white woman with no kids would be a better choice for him, if a love interest is necessa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:16 PM
3

I would love to be a part of something like this. In this time I need all kind of kindness, and I would be very happy to give it to someone else too. I'm sure we all need this now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:24 PM
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