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Seent it, hilarious vid
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:24 PM
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Im really working on it. I have a huge habit of ignoring red flags when the woman is of a certain level of attractiveness.
/r/seduction16/08/21 02:31 AM
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Completely unrelated to the post. I dont need a third parent, thank you very much.
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:19 AM
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Appreciate your perspective.
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:47 PM
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how so? and how is this helpful or constructive feedback
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:46 PM
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Idk man it seems like a major overreaction. I feel like the conversations coming from the far left feminist viewpoint make women over sensitive to anything that seems chauvinistic and traditionally masculine. Me not making a huge deal of meeting someone from online should not necessarily be a red flag in our current hookup culture, especially when this girl was very obviously more recently sexually active than I was, and felt comfortable enough to share it with me.
/r/seduction15/08/21 09:06 PM
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Yeah I only regret that she was really hot too, so I know the smash woulda been fire. Its okay though, onto the next one
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:59 PM
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Do you think that huge attitude change at the end was just a really intense shit test?
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:54 PM
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What you said literally makes no sense.
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:02 AM
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Yikes. I dont blame him for rejecting you
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:00 AM
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Fear is natural. As a man it is your duty and your burden to move past it. The things that make the most difference in your life with probably cause some level of fear when you initiate. It means deep down you know youre in for a challenge and things are going to change. For a while it will uncomfortable and you may even want to quit, but eventually youll learn that these changes were for the best.
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:08 PM
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Yeah women will stalk men who they used to deal with on social media. Theyre looking to see if you added value to your life. If you do, they come back with the "Hey big head" texts and all that. You can take them back as plates only but always keep at arms length, and even plating is risky with an ex.
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:06 PM
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facts bro
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:55 PM
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You must be new here.
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:54 PM
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CovertPickup is the only advanced dating sub still active.
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:54 PM
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I understand that these are unflattering truths about society and human psychology that I am sharing, and it seems like youre a girl so i get why this would be seen as offensive to you, but from everything Ive seen, done and experienced, this is always the connecting factor that registered to me. Every time I was with a girl who was anxious over losing me, I got treated well. When I was more reassuring all the time, constantly making sure my girl didnt think I was even considering other options,…
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:52 PM
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I think youre misinterpreting what Im saying. You dont need to a top 1% earner, you just need to have significant purpose beyond just getting daily dopamine fixes. Women want a man with an interesting lifestyle. Of course you still need to be at least okay looking and have good social skills, but you CANNOT tell me that being physically fit and wealthy, and living an interesting lifestyle is going to hurt your chances in the dating market.
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:49 PM
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Get to work son. I still live with my father and its tough, but I have a good job, a car and im going to school, so I have some value to work with. the main thing is that im spending most of my time leveling myself up rather than chasing skirt. A man who poors all his time into pickup but doesnt have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of will not experience as much success as he would if he hadnt been chasing his own intrinsic goals
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:47 PM
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Honestly online dating might be your best bet. If you have a decent lifestyle and are in shape, get some professional photos taken to really amp up for social media presence. Use instagram wot show off all the cool stuff you do and promote your business, slide in lots of DMs and play the numbers game.
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:46 PM
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Facts
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:45 PM
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You dont hafta have high value to be on your purpose. My father was not high value when he married my mother BUT he was in school full time, working 50 hours a week, and was definitely on his purpose. Women want a man with ambition and a tangible future, not necessary the materialistic avenues that it opens up
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:45 PM
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Yeah i could have elaborated more on that point but I think when I wrote this post I was directing it towards men who dont have alot of stuff going on and arent doing much with their lives, but are obsessing over chasing women, gotta find more balance.
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:42 PM
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If youre the kind of man who being rich and successful DOESNT help with women, there is something so unattractive with you-either personality wise or physically, that is at play. I really dont see how being successful and purpose driven would hurt your chances. Women like ambitious, important men.
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:40 PM
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The reason why I say stop approaching isnt necessarily cuz its bad, its that alot of people prioritize chasing women over chasing their goals.
/r/seduction14/08/21 12:47 AM
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Honestly, this could have alot to do with the fact that you live in Vegas. Las Vegas is the literal capital of sex for money. You would be much better served moving to a smaller city that isnt just known for bachelor parties and strippers.
/r/seduction13/08/21 11:17 PM
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Heres the thing tho, what you literally just said shows that you already have an abundance mindset. The reason why is because 90% of men do not understand that "matching a girls energy" and only giving her scraps of attention so you dont seem overly needy or desperate is the way to go. Since you do that, you already know deep down that you have value, so when you match a girls energy, when you treat her like an ordinary human being you are showing her that you have other options. The reason why …
/r/seduction13/08/21 11:14 PM
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The best I can do is try and flood this pathetic subreddit with advice that actually helps young men, no matter how many of these sadbois are gonna get butthurt and try arguing against it.
/r/seduction13/08/21 11:06 PM
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I think youre conflating being high value with manipulation. If you are high value, women will chase you, period. That in and of itself if going to foster a level of competition anxiety in the women you deal with. I also dont understand why you guys are going onto a subreddit called "seduction" with the intention of finding stable LTRs. Learning to seduce women means that in any setting or environment you are capable of getting and attracting women, not settling down with one girl so you dont ha…
/r/seduction13/08/21 11:03 PM
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If this unflattering advice is cringy to you, I would like to ask what you do when youre trying to keep the girl you want? Do you send her flowers and text her compliments? Do you constantly reassure her about how much you love and value her? The reality is that women want men who give them a sense of anxiety and insecurity. The girls that every man wants are chasing men who constantly give off these vibes.
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:51 PM
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Fair, although I do think there are some intermediate players in this sub too who can takes something valuable from more advanced advice.
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:48 PM
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I will do that. Thanks for suggesting.
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:26 PM
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Pre selection is one of the most attractive traits a man can have. I was dating a girl a few months ago who was very anxious about whether or not she was able to satisfy me. We once got into my car and she saw my neck gaiter that I wear in public cuz covid. Without any moments hesitation she assumed it was a pair of some girls panties. She wasnt even mad or sad, just extremely anxious and concerned. She genuinely seemed like she needed to ask or it was gonna break her brain, but she also seemed …
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:06 PM
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You tell her that if she plays her cards right, "POF girls name" will be lost to the dusty halls of antiquity.
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:02 PM
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If the dick is that good, she will come back. Im sorry, I dont wanna hurt your feelings but women will not be honest about a thing like that. You may also be coming off as needy or insecure when you tell them off rip that you wanna see em again. It may just be better to send you girls home after doing the deed and not even mention the possibility of meeting up again or having a further relationship. Women want a challenge and a man they dont know where they stand with, so if you leave things amb…
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:43 AM
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Modern women, particularly hot women, are fucking insane these days. Posts like these honestly make me want to exit the dating market altogether. Dealing with this kind of stuff repeatedly honestly makes my stomach turn.
/r/seduction19/07/21 09:30 PM
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Predatory woman. Avoid like the plague. Probably wanna block that number too, she seems unstable... ​ Also I would say that her being a single mother is a big red flag and her behavior shows me that Im right
/r/seduction17/07/21 08:32 PM
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You demonstrated alot of alpha characteristics there. Tbh you should thank the creepy simp cuz if he hadnt been pestering her. your third approach wouldve been the hardest of em all. ​ Well done
/r/seduction15/07/21 07:17 AM
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Friends between men and women where the mans initial interest is in fucking the woman never works out dude. Youll never be friends the way you would be with another man and youll be watching the girl YOU want fuck OTHER dudes and shell see you as some male best friend (which is a bullshit position to be in) and tell you all about it. then youll think you have some deep connection with her because she "opens up" to you (women never open up like that to men they respect) and youll probably go back…
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:27 AM
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Shes obviously using you to fuck your friend and you even said so yourself. You know this. Have some self respect and make her find another avenue to get the dick she wants. Dont devalue yourself by healping her when you know deep down, its YOUR dick you wanna be givin her, not your buddys
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:08 AM
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Never text her again.
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:00 PM
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Cancel on her. If you were me this would fall under my "bad behavior" category which requires punishment. A couple weeks later you can try to re establish contact, but this would be a test to gauge her level of desire. If she really wants you, shell try to make more plans with you later.
/r/seduction13/07/21 06:46 AM
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Foreplay and seduction are your friend. I suspect all my best performances were because I had the girl halfway their before I even had her clothes off, just by seductive behavior, kissing and touching Read the kama sutra and Sex god method.
/r/seduction13/07/21 06:38 AM
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I have to agree, being bald, especially when shaven, can be a really good look. Jason Statham, Bruce Willis, Johnny sins are all dudes who kill the bald look. It works for a certain type of girl, and if you have a thick beard and good muscles youre just as good as if you have a full head of hair with absolutely no thinning IMO. ​ Of course, everyone has their preferances. If youre going bald, just shave and own that shit. Like Style said "Going bald isnt a choice, but being bald is a choice."
/r/seduction13/07/21 06:36 AM
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I think your problem is that you have these expectations of women that are going to be shattered because you arent playing the game properly. Once you get a girl initially interested, every interaction you have with her needs to be some form of escalation right until you get her into your bed. First of all, women are usually not very up front with their intentions or feelings. They are used to covert languages, sub communication and whatnot. They communicate through their words, but usually its …
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:14 PM
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You have a self esteem issue that needs addressing. You also just need more practice. Going out to a club a couple times isnt going to do a huge amount of difference in your game.
/r/seduction26/06/21 07:57 PM
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Good luck man, just go talk to her. Hope it works out
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:50 AM
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Im here to help. Im not a guru on this stuff, but im working hard and trying my best. Message me if you ever have questions
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:49 AM
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All my most successful dates end in hookups. Almost never am I able to get a girl into a second date unless we have already made out, groped and/or performed other sexual acts on one another. Every time I actually have sex on a first date, the girl is invested enough to not even question whether or not she wants a second. Fucking on the first date is THE way to go, but never pressure a girl unfairly or seem like you are needy cuz those are huge turn offs.
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:36 PM
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Game her friend to make her jealous
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:31 PM
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Tell her youd be interested in talking again. Leave the thread after that and dont give her any more attention.
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:14 PM
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If you really value your job, going after a coworker in an office environment (in this current highly PC political environment) could end up costing you more than anything else. Still your decision though. Seems like shes giving you strong IoI`s. Id say pull a Jim and just walk up to the reception desk and ask her if she wants to help you pull a prank on another coworker lol. No seriously though, just catch her on her way out at the end of the day and strike up conversation. Mention that youve c…
/r/seduction24/06/21 04:44 PM
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Ban her to the streets from whence she came. Its where she belongs. Seriously, this whole playing stupid act girls do where they treat you like their gay bestfriend while they know youre being romantically strung along, and then telling you openly about the other men they actually have sex with is annoying and disrespectful bullshit you do not need to put up with. If there is an inkling of attraction towards you from her end, she will come back chasing you. Probably not though, seems like she ha…
/r/seduction24/06/21 04:41 PM
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Interesting how she walked away in person but felt the need to reach out virtually. Women are so hilarious lol
/r/seduction24/06/21 04:35 PM
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Thats a healthy range of bodyfat but if you slim it down to 15% youll see better results. Its also hard to gauge what someomes exact BMI is because every body is different. Just get in the gym and lift alot I say
/r/seduction24/06/21 04:30 PM
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Look at the last sentence in my comment
/r/seduction24/06/21 04:28 PM
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for books on pickup check out Models by mark manson, and Practical female psychology
/r/seduction24/06/21 07:30 AM
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Its definitely good. Thats what you want. On the flip side of that, when you are flirting with women, you want to maintain steady eye contact. In fact you always want to give eye contact to whoever you are talking to most of the time
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:37 AM
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If you guys are just fwb, and shes getting distant, it probably means she has other options lined up and you are taking a backseat in her mind. Fret not, this happens. Find another source of ass and just let her hit you up when she feels like. Pursuing her any further will only lead to her getting less interested.
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:31 AM
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If shes telling you about her sexual experiences with other men, and casually hooking up with dudes, and is talking to at least one other man that you know about, not only is she for the streets, but she has clearly filed you into the friend category Yup, thats right. You are friendzoned. If shes going to be at this party, you should demonstrate value in your sexual marketplace by flirting with other girls at the party aside from her. Notice how your interactions with her arent sexual or provoca…
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:28 AM
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Youre right, looks alone wont do it. You need to address your critical lack of confidence first and foremost. Improve yourself and put yourself out of your comfort zone. Heres how you do it: Go to the gym Building muscle produces testosterone which increases your motivation, helps manage stress, and is proven to increase your confidence. Looks will also improve which is a good way to help distinguish yourself and appear attractive. Get out there and cold approach Its going to suck at first. Youl…
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:22 AM
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It depends on the context. If someone is talking to you and things are awkward and they start looking elsewhere in the room while you are talking to them, its a possible indicator that they may be looking for a way out of the convo.
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:14 AM
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Oh man, that gave me a good laugh. Youre a king
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:12 AM
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Most of us who actually practice seduction are being constantly rejected. You cannot let it bug you. Shaving your head might be a good idea, Id also go to the gym and start lifting heavy weights. Youll look better, feel better and it will make you more confident. Start looking into books on game and seduction like Models and practical female psychology. The game is also a good one, although its more of novel.
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:10 AM
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Try talking to women who are stationary rather than girls who are on the move. Play a numbers game with it and just fish for the ones who will stay and talk. Work on your body language, posture and movement speed. Guys who appear nervous and make fast movements send signals of fear and insecurity which women pick up on, so you need to consciously focus on being calm cool and collected at all times. If you seem CCC, the women you talk to will feel more at ease talking to you.
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:08 AM
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Youre doing something right. You probably have a good natural aesthetic to you and a decent fashion sense. It depends on the kind of gay dudes who are complimenting you though. Remember, gay dudes are still dudes. They have to be aggressive and forward and bold just like us in order to get laid and date, so try not to let it bug you, definitely take the compliment, go even further and if a gay guy compliments you ask him exactly what he likes about you. Just make sure he knows you arent gay so i…
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:05 AM
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Well done, sir. Taking notes...
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:00 AM
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I dont want to get too into it, but I think that the fact that for many young people nowadays, the normalization of dating and sexual interactions being exported to internet platforms is extremely problematic and its causing societal issues that weve never seen before. Things like incel culture and the ED epidemic effecting young men. Unless you are successful in actually getting laid over the internet, I would try and stop, although it can get quite addicting even if you arent good at it. If yo…
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:59 AM
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Dont listen to guys telling you just because youre above average height, girls are supposed to magically appear at your feet. That is not how this works. Listen, looks are important, but so is game. If you arent practicing game, cold approaching women at social functions and in daytime, finding other social hobbies and avenues to expose yourself to, then you need to start doing that ASAP. As for your face structure, thats easy, just go the gym. It wont fix your face per se, but it will improve t…
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:54 AM
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You should definitely be cold approaching women on a daily regular basis. Do so not to score or get numbers but to acclimate yourself to the social pressure of making a cold approach with no IoI`s. Say anything, think of some easy openers to get things started. Literally anything works as long as you arent being lewd or rude right off the bat, "Hey I saw you from over there and I just had to come talk to you" works just fine. You can also compliment things that are adjacent to there bodies, like…
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:48 AM
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Theres not much to tell but I will. Hot blonde asian with a slim thicc body was doing dead lifts and every man at the gym was gawking at her, including me. I was doing it a bit more discreetly, and we made prolonged eye contact multiple times so I figured I would give my shot. She went over to the calisthenics area to cool off after he set and I approached, making my way into her eyesight before turning to approach. I complimented her on the impressive amount of weight she had been lifting, and …
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:31 AM
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Learn better game. Every woman has the potential to act sexually promiscuous, its certain men who bring it out of them. Youve nailed your attraction and you probably have good frame which is why youre attracting women interested in long hauls, but you need to learn more aggressive escalation in order to actually get women sexually excited. Once you get her sexual interested you have control over the direction the relationship goes. It can be as serious or as casual as you want but you need stron…
/r/seduction23/06/21 09:22 PM
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If it works for you, fine. Im glad it does and I recommend you keep doing it, but I cannot give advice to dating through social media, it isnt conducive to long lasting or meaningful relationships
/r/seduction23/06/21 09:20 PM
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I absolutely hate the idea of snapchat. When a girl offers me her snapchat I tell her I hate the platform and I hate social media and I ask again for a number. If giving me a phone number is enough to disqualify me from being in her life I didnt want her in the first place. Snapchat makes you a slave to maintaining an inaccurate image of your own life for other peoples validation. It makes sense for women to have it but a man should not be spending his time posting his cherry picked life on the …
/r/seduction23/06/21 09:19 PM
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I broke the gym code myself. Didnt go as well for me as for you but I wasnt smacked in the face and kicked out of the gym so Ill call that a win lol Good for you man!
/r/seduction23/06/21 06:16 PM
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Im not trying to take anything. If thats your view of flirting and approaches then maybe you need to re evaluate the dynamic of dating, because the way I see it, every time I make an approach towards a woman im providing her an opportunity to get to know me and forge a connection that could benefit us both. Ill take my "unproven pseudoscientific theory" over your word vomit. ​ Also you should look into social anthropological and evo psych theory on intersexual dynamics, but I already gave my les…
/r/seduction22/06/21 04:39 PM
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Id say give her another shot and try to control the frame of the interaction more aggressively than last time. Hopefully she is more comfortable with you now, so she wont go on nervous tangents. I read a study that said dopamine is produced in the brain when people talk alot. So generally if a girl is talking alot it will produce some happy chemicals in her brain while shes with you, producing a positive association
/r/seduction18/06/21 02:26 PM
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Not necessarily sure what youre asking as the phrasing of your question is abit off, but in my opinion yes and no. I think that women should be given all the opportunities as men, however many women have gotten it into their heads that because men have had more opportunities and rights over the vast history of humanity, we need to go the opposite direction to "make up for it", and alot of radical feminists, especially on the internet, seem to think that this justifies blanket statements and acti…
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:15 PM
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It was all according to his plan. He knew he couldnt do it and did it anyways to show you he wasnt risk averse and to get some kino action from you helping his weights up. He knew you wouldve been so entertained by the scenario that youd give him your number either way. youve been duped. ​ You better call him
/r/seduction18/06/21 07:23 AM
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Unfortunately, alot of women find the place where you have sex less important than the fact that you actually HAVE a place for your own. Women are hard wired to choose self sufficient men who can take care of themselves, so not having your own place in and of itself could hold you back. Im not saying you should rush to get out of home. Staying with the `rents is a great way to save up money to get someplace thats actually nice, where you can actually take women and impress them. As long as you w…
/r/seduction17/06/21 08:30 PM
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Not only are alot of modern women conditioned and programmed to fear and dislike random men they meet on the street, but some women just dont want to be cold approached unless they are specifically in the situation where they are open to something like that. Its not necessarily your fault. Also, a large percentage of women have had random men they meet do things that are very disrespectful and boorish, so its not hard to imagine these women develop some rough mental calluses to shut you down bef…
/r/seduction17/06/21 08:23 PM
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This is fucking hilarious lmfao
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:51 PM
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Alot of men who say they are "just looking for something casual", arent just looking for something casual, they are wisely vetting the women they could potentially date seriously because in this society (with dating apps largely favoring women, and social media making it nearly impossible to keep a partner) it is to a guys disadvantage to date along the lines of the old social contract. Most men will not come out immediately after or before meeting you and say they want a LTR right off the bat, …
/r/seduction09/06/21 10:05 PM
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Idk, normally when guys who have low SMV comment on this subreddit we tell them to take steps towards increasing it (go to the gym, get nicer clothes, work on your income etc). I personally never caught on the OP was ugly, but if she is maybe she should be looking at ways to improve her appearance. Anyways I wouldnt be too concerned for her sake cuz even ugly girls experience abundance on a level us men could barely understand.
/r/seduction09/06/21 07:12 PM
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For all we know, they both could be total chads who just like star wars
/r/seduction09/06/21 07:09 PM
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Just ask him to hang out? Im sure he will say yes
/r/seduction09/06/21 08:12 AM
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Its up to you and how much you value your virginity. If being a virgin gives you low self esteem and you really wanna fuck, just go for it. If you think virginity is special or important and you want to lose it to someone you have feelings for (or are at least very attracted to), then wait. Id say if you can get it elsewhere then do so. Sex is best when the partner is attractive to you, but if youre game is kinda lacking and you dont think youll have any other opportunities in the short term tha…
/r/seduction09/06/21 06:39 AM
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Just go say hi. Say you like the color of her outfit, say anything. Just go do it. If youre unwilling to approach women even when they give you IoI`s then all the time you spend on here is time wasted.
/r/seduction09/06/21 06:36 AM
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Agreed. Dunking on people you perceive as "nerds" and passing a value judgement on men you know nothing about, while they are out having a good time, not stuck in their own heads about the number of people they cold approach while going to a bar alone, is a low value man`s behavior. Sounds like it came from a place of low self esteem, insecurity and resentment. you should work on that. Learn to love and appreciate your fellow men, learn to lift them up. Women like a mans man.
/r/seduction09/06/21 06:33 AM
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Im personally against movie dates at the beginning, especially if yall havent hooked up yet. If yall are comfortable with each other, than movie dates can be fun and flirtatious, but if you arent its hard to do kino in a smooth way and build sexual energy. Its also hard to make conversation. I recommend next time you notice a girl withdraw during a conversation like the one on your couch, you match her energy. Pull back abit, maybe even get up to make another drink or go to the bathroom. Let her…
/r/seduction08/06/21 07:33 AM
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Sounds like oneitis. You should entertain the idea that youll never have her how you want her and just move on. Giving her lots of space, acting aloof and increasing your sexual marketplace value is youre best bet to getting her interested in you, but even then its not likely. More importantly, you strike me as a typical "nice guy". Its probably the reason why she choose you to be her "emotional boyfriend". This is a common thing for women to do to subservient men who ingratiate themselves towar…
/r/seduction08/06/21 07:03 AM
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Establish a primary target, it doesnt hurt to have a secondary in mind as well. Try and win over the males and ugly girls in the group first. They will be the most likely ones to cockblock you. Once the group is comfortable with you, then you can start singling out the girl youre actually interested in. Go into the experience with a "fuck it, lets see what happens" mentality, rather than having specific expectations and hopes for it.
/r/seduction07/06/21 07:16 PM
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Seems like by just doing the work, youre going in the right direction. Stay motivated, stay busy and stay confident in yourself. As you continue to do this work, you will cultivate an ingrained sense of value that women will pick up on.
/r/seduction07/06/21 07:13 PM
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Cons, mutual friends, getting lucky lmao But seriously, theres alot more girls out there who are into nerdy stuff than you think lol Just hit on who you see thats attractive, the numbers game will net you a percentage of nerds, for sure.
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:38 PM
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Youre not really lying. If this is something yall have talked about, and there was an explicit agreement to be exclusive, then youre lying. From what your post said, it doesnt seem that that is the case. Just because you are sleeping together doesnt mean you dont still have boundaries.
/r/seduction06/06/21 11:02 PM
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Honestly, if you relationship territory is what you want, you should wait for her to bring it up and keep doing your thing. If you stop seeing women and being casual just because "you think" there is a relationship brewing, but it isnt something youve clearly been approached about, then its akin to a covert contract. What if you do stop seeing other girls, and you think youre comfy in this relationship and one day you discover she was always seeing other guys the whole time? Youll feel shitty be…
/r/seduction06/06/21 10:59 PM
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Idk man, if shes hot, and shes clearly not into her date, he probably wasnt gonna get laid with her anyways. I say you should go for it. Youre best bet was simply to just walk up to her, apologize for interrupting, and then ask her if she could give you her number. It cant hurt. Lol if the male date starts shit with you say something like "Oh I thought your were siblings". It totally emasculates him but a girl who checks out strangers while on a date with someone is probably the same kind of gir…
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:49 AM
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This is the way
/r/seduction03/06/21 08:39 PM
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Well done! Youre doing it all right!
/r/seduction03/06/21 08:38 PM
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Shes DTF, grab a drink at a place close to your place, bring her home, smash, and post a field report for the children.
/r/seduction03/06/21 05:48 AM
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Id would start using dread game. Make her feel like even though shes sooo secure that shes hotter than you, you can still find other options and are a man of value. It will probably pull her towards you more
/r/seduction03/06/21 05:35 AM
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Would have been a great opportunity to take her number. She even came up to you to say goodbye. Oh well, now you learned a lesson you wont soon forget.
/r/seduction03/06/21 05:31 AM
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I should add I never meant women dont care about looks, of course they do. However I feel like men can get the discipline to go to the gym regularly and fill their lives with hobbies, skills and interests that increase their attractiveness in a way that it simply doesnt for women. Its the reason why Whoopi Goldberg has 1.2 m instagram followers, and Kylie Jenner has over 200 million. Obviously Whoopi Goldberg is a more talented, interesting and well rounded person with a great personality, but K…
/r/seduction03/06/21 05:30 AM
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Lmfao okay well normally the guys on this subreddit are between the ages of 18-30, so I figured yall were adults. Aside from the aforementioned, yeah definitely get some cool hobbies, get in the gym. Youre young so if you start early and stay disciplined youll be on God status by the time youre 21 and the college girls wont stand a chance. Stay in school, chose a decent profession and work hard.
/r/seduction02/06/21 02:12 PM
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I feel the need to spread my seed all the time lmfao
/r/seduction02/06/21 02:09 PM
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Wait, so this girl lost interest, so you offered her to hook up with one of your friends? And thats what got her to start talking to you again?
/r/seduction02/06/21 07:04 AM
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As long as hes not your friend. If shes the cheating kind, better you get to sample the pussy instead of some other asshole.
/r/seduction02/06/21 06:12 AM
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Nah. You should try to bang her.
/r/seduction02/06/21 06:12 AM
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As a general rule of thumb, men peak socially and financially when they are older. This increases your sexual marketplace value extensively. Womens sexual marketplace value is mostly based on looks. I mean sure, personality, career, and finances are important but for the most part men are visual creatures, whereas women are more into what a man does and how well he has his life in order. So that being said... you might be old, but thats actually in your favor. Almost every smoking hot 21-26 y/o …
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:59 AM
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You should worry more on increasing your self esteem and sense of self worth. Looks have little to do with this, it has more to do with whether or not you truly value yourself. If you do, then youre actions will speak for themselves. If you dont, things like negs and push/pull wont necessarily work cuz your demeanor wont match the behavior. Youll just come off weird. ​ My advice is get in the gym, try eating more to bulk up. Therapy could be helpful if you struggle with self image. Also, how old…
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:51 AM
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How about instead of shitting on the dude for what he did, give him some constructive criticism and guidance on what YOU would do in his shoes? How do we know YOU dont have weak ass game? This guy is probably taking advice from men who naturally are larger and more authoritative in appearance, so it makes sense that he feels like he needs to match their vibe to get the same kind of girls, since thats what he wants. OP didnt even say anything creepy, he just wants to be the leader of the situatio…
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:46 AM
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Sliding in the DMs is a numbers game. Most women get a shit ton of attention on social media and dating apps, so you may never even get noticed. Some girls like the attention, others like to shit on men for doing the "sliding into DMs" approach. A small percentage will entertain you if they find your posts and pics attractive. The best thing to do is first consider how you come across on social media. Are your pics getting alot of attention? Are they well taken? Is the resolution blurry? Do you …
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:38 AM
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Also, dont beat yourself up too much. You made a hamfisted mistake, we all do. Best to leave her be. If you really feel that bad, you can apologize, just tell her you like her and that youre not great at flirting. Honesty and vulnerability are important to women, it could buy you some brownie points in the end, but I would seriously reconsider any further attempts at picking this girl up.
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:32 AM
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The best way to build sexual tension is NOT through crude jokes about sex. Just talking about sexual things also does little to nothing to create tension, except for us men since we are constantly thinking about stuffing things. ​ The way to build tension is through contact and movement. When on dates, plan to hit multiple stops. Stay at no one place for more than an hour unless its your third stop for the night, it helps that they are all in walking distance. Touch her playfully and respectfull…
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:29 AM
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Sir, you are in the right place. There are alot of men on here who struggle daily with women and self esteem, and the whole point of this subreddit is for us all to help each other get what we want. Firstly, yes. Your initial assumption about women being more into men who are disinterested in them was correct. Its probably the reason why your stepbrother is more successful with them. Women hate needyness, and you probably come off as needy to women. In addition, it doesnt help your case that you…
/r/seduction02/06/21 01:54 AM
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Controversial, but true?
/r/seduction02/06/21 01:32 AM
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Youre best bet is to find form fitting, somewhat tight clothing to show the outline of your muscles. Some clothing types also look more intimidating than others. Black is a good color to choose if youre going for the dangerous look, a leather biker jacket and a pair of black leather boots compliments the look quite well. If thats not your thing its probably fine. Ive seen plenty of smoking hot girls hanging on the arms of dudes I know I could put through a dry wall if I had too, while I was sitt…
/r/seduction01/06/21 08:36 PM
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Youre much better off sending a shirtless pic if you have nice muscles or something. If you dont have anything to show that looks sexy in a phone pic, just send nothing in return. ​ Ive been here before. Girl was a solid 9, smokin hot. I commented on one of her facebook posts and she started Dming me. After some talking and some voice messages back and forth she sent me a suuuuper sultry lingerie pic, and she asked for something in return. I sent her just a pic of me getting out of the bathtub, …
/r/seduction01/06/21 08:03 PM
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What does OLD stand for?
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:44 AM
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Read No more Mr nice guy by robert glover. Then read Models by mark manson. You dont have to be an asshole, just enforce your own boundaries, remain aloof, have a style thats your own, and try to at least show that you spend time working on yourself and developing aspects of your life that have little to do with women. ​ When it comes to actual interaction, women like a guy who takes charge, and has an element of danger to him. If you seem dangerous, like the guy who nobody at the bar is willing…
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:42 AM
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You are 100% right about everything you said. I got alil too excited from a small amount of success and flew abit too close to the sun there.
/r/seduction01/06/21 01:17 AM
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Baby steps man
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:49 PM
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Doesnt matter.
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:23 PM
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Im aware.
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:22 PM
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If she backs away from the kiss but still gave you IoI`s, just lean back, play it cool, and act as if nothing happened. Even scooch a bit further and focus on whatever activity is going on in the background, like the TV for example: ​ One time I was netflix n` chillin with a girl, and I asked her if I could kiss her. She initally rejected me, so I respectfully scooched a couple inches away from her, said "Thats totally fine", and ignored her for 10 minutes watching whatever stupid show we were w…
/r/seduction31/05/21 09:10 AM
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A few times yeah. Its also not worked for me some times. You have to gauge the mood and try to pick up on any IoI`s shes giving you. You may actually have more success doing it in other ways, but when youre starting out, its a low risk way of trying.
/r/seduction31/05/21 09:05 AM
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https://www.rianstone.com/blog ​ https://www.youtube.com/user/EntrepreneursInCars
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:58 AM
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If the date goes well, just ask to kiss her at the end of it. If shes into you she will say yes. Some girls will even appreciate you for asking.
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:19 AM
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Also, I know it may seem tempting to reach out to platonic female friends for dating advice. They are women afterall, so they should know what women want and can communicate that clearly to male friends, right? Wrong. Women subconsciously look for male friends they dont intend on fucking as orbiters. They are her limbic brains response to abundance mentality. Stack up the sexual priorities, starting with attractive 'alpha' men, and lining up potential betas who can give her time and money withou…
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:12 AM
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By validation I mean you are engaging in behavior that will elicit a response from these girls. You should act in a manner that shows you dont care for what they think or need their approval, you dont need them to laugh at your jokes. You dont need them to know how nice and charming you are. You are your own man who is secure in his identity and only does things he deems are worthy of HIS time. ​ I highly advise against any kind of escalation at this point. These girls think of you as a friend a…
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:02 AM
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Youre missing my point. You are in the friends drawer. Its very rare for women to take you out of one drawer and put you into another. If you have any hope of doing it, pursuing her isnt going to do it. You straight up have to focus on becoming a more attractive man, and changing the behavior you normally engage in when you interact with this person. Be more aloof, leave her on read a few times every so often, increase your own attractiveness by learning meaningful skills and hobbies, dressing b…
/r/seduction31/05/21 07:56 AM
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The advice here on approaching men for friendship is some valuable food for thought. On the other hand, if there are any men here in the Chicago land area who wanna hang out one night to go find women to flirt with, lmk.
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:37 AM
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The best way is to point to something they are wearing or doing and comment on it. Try to guess elements of their personality or what their plans are. Example: "You look like youre in for a fun night", or "You look like the kind of girl who enjoys a good book, and a cup of tea on a cold rainy day" etc. Girls dont want to be asked a litany of questions about their life, they want interaction that subverts normal conventional conversation. If you dont approach things differently, you wont be seen …
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:35 AM
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Sounds like your operating on covert contracts here. What is the contract? You show up, act like the funny jester, serve their needs for validation, do some "mans housework" for them, and they will show you sexual interest. Get real. You need to observe these "friends" of yours and see what kind of men they actually go for, since you know them, it will clue you in on what youre not doing to get their attraction. As a man, you never operate on covert contracts. Even a blunt confession of attracti…
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:23 AM
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As a rule of thumb, seduction should always be done in person. Some people have elaborate text game that seems to work but in my opinion the more you text a girl the more needy and attention seeking you become to them. Its also counter intuitive because you may be thinking that by not showing these girls attention, youre missing out on the opportunity to connect with them. I assure you, if the girl is genuinely attracted to you, she will text you. If shes not matching your energy, dont put more …
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:15 AM
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You are well and truly in the friendzone. Accept it, and move on. Your best bet is to start pulling away, be aloof and limit the amount of time (if any) you spend on her. If shes already given you the "I love you as a friend" spiel, it means youve been soft rejected. Now its not hopeless, men on here have clawed and struggled their way out of the friendzone before, so its not impossible. You need to learn some OI and put your time and energy into other things that will increase your attractivene…
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:10 AM
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Maybe, she was already partying with some other friends so I figured it wouldnt really matter.
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:44 AM
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She called me twice during the night. Both times I answered. The first time she called to find out if I was still there or not. Then she called again to let me know that she was free and heading over. I waited for another hour and called her, her phone was off. Probably out of battery. I waited another 30 minutes, texted her to let her know I was leaving, and went to the local dive by my place to play darts.
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:44 AM
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Yeah some people are gonna be like that, man or woman. If there aint nothing in it for you, then hold fast and just do you. Its a more passive way of being high value and attractive.
/r/seduction26/05/21 05:48 PM
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let us know if anything happens haha im curious
/r/seduction26/05/21 05:46 PM
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Dont give it to him right away, try and make him work for it abit. Use some innuendos. try to segue from an actual conversation towards something alil sexual. Escalate and so on
/r/seduction26/05/21 07:53 AM
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Those would both be great ideas. Will help make you feel more confident. Make approaches from the front, never the back. Go at it with the mentality of practice to alleviate pressure, and just have fun.
/r/seduction26/05/21 07:51 AM
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A number close on a girl who tells you initially is that shes goalied up is def a win. But now that youre competing with another man you hafta be extra careful not to come across needy or unattractive. Hopefully she just lied about the BF to test you.
/r/seduction26/05/21 07:47 AM
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Also, look inward and try to determine what are some things that would turn you off if a woman did it on a first date. Hold her to those standards. If she says something you disagree with, let her know. If she does something you dont like, let her know. You can do this subtly or be direct. It doesnt really matter. Be ready to leave or call the date early if something you dont like ends up happening. Lastly, remember whoever it is, there is someone hotter and cooler out there and this girl is jus…
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:53 AM
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You have two options. You can either put the time, money and energy into developing your pic game (better phone, practice angles, nice clothes, enlist a friend or pro photographer). Or you could compensate by cold approaching and practicing IRL. I recommend option 2, because even with good pic game and text game, if you cant get her into bed once you actually meet, the tindering and the bumbling is essentially time wasted. Learn to get women attracted to YOU before you try selling them on an ide…
/r/seduction20/05/21 08:00 AM
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I recommend before you go to a place like this to ask for advice on individual instances, read some of the quintessential dating advice books. Particularly No more mr. nice guy and Models by mark manson. Both very eye opening to a man who spent most of his young life being spurned by women he wanted and not knowing what to do about it (me).
/r/seduction20/05/21 07:56 AM
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Im far from a veteran seduction master. I too have some social anxiety i have to deal with. So if I were in your shoes, I would be direct. Ask is shes single if you dont already know. If she is, ask her when the last time shes been on a date. If she says its been awhile or something, id say "Well would you like to change that?" If she says shes been on one recently, say something like "I bet it was nothing compared to the date WE are going on". The goal is to polarize her emotions towards you. S…
/r/seduction20/05/21 07:54 AM
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