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| 3 | How can I know whether a guy is making eye contact with me because he’s interested and it’s not just random? I wouldn’t want to be giving longing looks to someone and making them uncomfortable.Dude. I don’t worry about any of that shit. I approach when I am attracted. Period. No other requirements are necessary. I don’t wait for her to give me a signal. If you are a man, you just have to approach. Her response after I approach will tell me if she is really interested. Think about it. If you were married and loyal to your wife, you might look at other women, because looking at an attractive woman is instinct. But if that woman were to offer you her phone number, a date, or sex, a marri… | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 05:46 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean for a girl to be embarrassed about rejecting youDo you know what it’s called when she already said no and you don’t stop bothering her? Harassment. Stop it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 03:19 AM |
| 6 | What does it mean for a girl to be embarrassed about rejecting youShe’s just embarrassed. Leave that chick alone. Move on bro. | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 02:50 AM |
| 5 | How can I know whether a guy is making eye contact with me because he’s interested and it’s not just random? I wouldn’t want to be giving longing looks to someone and making them uncomfortable.What I do as a man is if I make eye contact with a woman I’m attracted to, I hold it. If she breaks eye contact and then looks at me again almost immediately, or does a double take, i know she finds me interesting. People naturally do a double take when then find something/someone interesting to look at. So if I get a double take from a woman I smile. If she smiles back I take it as an invitation to approach her. Another way I know a woman is interested in me is if she “checks me out” by looking… | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Might be having sex soon for the first time... Help?You seem impatient and afraid of the future. Have you tried being in the present moment? Accepting it as it comes? Do you ever just enjoy the moment? When you eat a nice meal or hear a pleasant song, are you aware of the pleasure it gives you? Stop trying to anticipate what sex is going to be like and just have fun. Whatever happens happens. Some of it will be unexpected. And that’s ok One night in 1977, at the age of 29, after having suffered from long periods of depression, Eckhart Tolle says … | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) I feel I’m hideous hoe can I improve?You look exactly the same in every picture. Your face isn’t the problem. The pictures are bad because they don’t show what you like or how you spend your time. Do you have photos with other people in them? Those are better. They prove that you actually have friends. I person with no friends is weird. No matter how attractive they are. Do you have photos of yourself doing activities you enjoy? Even photos of you at a pub or enjoying a cup of tea are more interesting than these photos. Your face i… | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) I feel I’m hideous hoe can I improve?I can say I’m 7feet tall. It does t matter what I say. Pictures are better than words. Your photographs need to show who you are. Your pics need to show what you like and how you spend your time. I can’t tell anything about you by what you’ve shared so far. Why would anyone want to spend time with you? You’re boring. Boring people are worse than ugly people. I’d rather hang out with an ugly and interesting person than a normal-looking boring person. Why would a woman want to spend any time with … | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) I feel I’m hideous hoe can I improve?I don’t think there is anything wrong with you. However, all of these photos would be bad for tinder or online dating. They say nothing about your hobbies or your personality. I can’t even tell if your fat or not. I can’t tell how tall you are. Your photos on tinder need to answer those questions. Hideous? Is that a joke? I hope so. But if you really do feel hideous, that’s more of a self esteem issue than a looks issue. Why do you feel hideous? Did your friends/family do/say anything that would… | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 02:47 PM |
| 9 | How do I ask a girl out if she is always with her friends?It takes balls to approach a woman in a group and ask her out. The group might not like you. The girl might not want to go out with you. But they will respect you if you are honest and direct. One of the hottest women I’ve ever worked with told me how she met her boyfriend. “We were at a wedding and I was sitting with all my beautiful friends. He came right up to me and asked me out. It made me feel special that he chose to talk to me out of all my friends.” One time I went to a taco place that … | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 03:23 PM |
| 10 | When you smile at a girl, how do you guys differentiate between a polite return smile and a interested smileI think it’s irrelevant. I find out if they are interested after I make my approach, not before. If I get rejected it’s usually pretty quick and I lose nothing. I lose less than a minute of my time. It’s always worth approaching. Always. | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | When a girl makes flirty eye contacthttps://autisticdating.net | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Zero clue what I’m doing wrongI made a very honest profile. I basically said I’m looking to hookup. Sometimes women unmatch me before the first message because I think they didn’t bother to read my profile. I don’t get many matches but usually the women I match with are ready to meet up the same day. I usually hook up with them the same day too. I don’t say anything sexual in my conversation. It’s implied by my profile and my conversation is mostly focused on the logistics when and where we are meeting. I usually suggest we … | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 02:29 AM |
| 2 | When a girl makes flirty eye contactFirst of all, that man is unsuccessful. And therefore he isn’t qualified to give advice. That’s like asking a high school dropout for advice on a PhD thesis. The dropout will tell you that a PhD is impossible. Second of all, online dating is completely different than meeting people in the “real world.” Online dating is all about the profile. It’s more about how you appear in photography than in real life. It’s more about how well the writing in your bio stands out than your actual personality. I… | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | When a girl makes flirty eye contactI see a lot of pride in you. You are very proud of yourself. You have created an identity called Aeon199. Aeon199 can’t get laid. Aeon199 wants sex but can’t get it. The problem with Aeon199 is that his mind is made up. Aeon199 will not accept anything that goes against this belief. The belief that sex is impossible. Anything that proves otherwise is rejected. Aeon199 is perfect. Aeon199 is never wrong. Everyone else is wrong. But this identity is a false self. It’s not the real you. The real yo… | /r/seduction | 01/10/18 07:44 PM |
| 3 | When a girl makes flirty eye contactIt sounds like your actions and behaviors aren’t producing the results that you wish to have. Have you considered changing them? I was very unsuccessful with women. I was convinced it was because I was too short, too poor, too ugly. I blamed everything I couldn’t change instead of trying to change the things I could. Have you considered the fact that those with success actually worked hard to get what they have? I decided to work for the things I wanted in my life. I was 300 lbs. I got a gym mem… | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 07:12 PM |
| 4 | When a girl makes flirty eye contactWhen a stranger approaches me I have 3 questions. Who is this? What do they want? When are they leaving? So when I talk to someone I try to give the answers to those questions. I walked up to a woman who I thought was looking at me. I practice a direct approach, so said “I think you’re cute. I’d like to get to know more about you. Would it be ok if talked to you for a little bit?” She said she had a boyfriend and apologized. I took that as a rejection and moved on. Interaction lasted less than a… | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 08:46 PM |
| 58 | Let it go - how to walk away and still get the girl. Models series, F-CloseI get the impression that she wanted to bang you the first night. Did she give any indication that she wanted to invite you inside after you dropped her off? Did she mention anything about her place like “I got this cool thing at my place.”? Which would have given you an excuse to ask to see it. Did she offer to let you use her bathroom? I mean, I could be wrong. Maybe she wasn’t into you at first, but why would she want to do tantric and touchy stuff? She might have just wanted the sex without … | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | "I don't think you would hook up with girls if you were single"I try to help others. I hope I helped you a little. I think the most important idea is knowing that you are enough and you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone. Improving yourself is good, but accept who you are right now. It’s good to be aware of your voice, body language, posture, etc. I recommend learning how to meditate, breathing exercises. If you can breathe properly, you will naturally want to stand up straight and you will naturally be able to speak louder. A loud man who stands tall i… | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | "I don't think you would hook up with girls if you were single"“A man who trims himself to suit everybody will soon whittle himself away.” I’m a little confused about your request. You want people to like you? You want to look like the kind of person who can hook up with women? To me it’s like a rich man who is afraid people don’t think he rich. “Why do people always think I’m poor? I’m a rich man!” If that is seriously all you want, you can dress differently. Dress like a man who is good with women. Act like a man who is good with women. Walk like a man wh… | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 04:27 AM |
| 2 | "I don't think you would hook up with girls if you were single"We cannot control people’s perceptions. Trying to do so will only lead to great frustration and suffering. We cannot control other people, period. Stop it. It will only make you unhappy. All we can do is love ourselves. All we can do is be happy with ourselves. Some people will notice and some people will not. It is irrelevant if people think you are a loser. Who cares. You don’t need to prove anything to anyone. No one is perfect. You are enough. There are a ton of guys on here that are struggl… | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Recently got into PUA. Having moderate success, but hooked by how empowered I finally feel. Besides approaching everyday what's the best way to improve?Good job bro. I think the hardest part for most people is approaching every day or many times as possible. You are already focused on improvement and that attitude will take you far. I think the field will give you the answers you seek. Your practice of analyzing your approaches and thinking on what you could do different next time, is essential. Like when you realized you had shared taco experience with that one girl. I would caution against using alcohol. Don’t let it become a crutch. Practice… | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 11:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you get into a deep emotional conversation or emotional state with someone?Cool | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you get into a deep emotional conversation or emotional state with someone?Start a sentence with one of the following: I feel. I like. I think. I want. I believe. If you can do that, congratulations. You are capable of expressing yourself. “I want... to have deep emotional conversation. I think... I’m not very good at it.” Another thing you could try is asking the person you are attracted to for advice or help. Yes, seriously, ask them for help about this. I know if a woman I liked came to me and said “I would really like to have a deep emotional conversation with you … | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Girl re-offered to hang out next week when asked to make plans; is that a subtle form of rejection?I’m very direct with women about what I’m honestly thinking and what I want. If I make plans, it’s very specific. I never say “hey, wanna hang out next week?” No one is going to say “fuck no”. People are too polite. If you ask a vague question prepare for a vague response. Try to think about the girl and what you want to do with her. Think of a specific invitation. “Hey wanna come over to my place on Saturday morning? We can watch sponge bob and eat Frosted Flakes.” That’s specific. Even the car… | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 02:19 AM |
| 2 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.I don’t have control over what i think or feel. I feel anxious too sometimes. I’m just honest about what’s on my mind. She may or may not be interested. That’s always outside of my control. But i have control of how you express myself. But to be honest, i am usually so focused on how beautiful the woman is, I usually forget what I’m feeling. I’ll walk up and say “wow, I saw you and I think you are so freakin gorgeous.” And if she ignores me, avoids eye contact, walks away, or says she has a boyf… | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 07:41 AM |
| 1 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.Status and social connections might matter if I were sending a direct message on social media. But I only approach women in person, face to face. The reason I think these situations are different is courage. And also the time investment. How many guys swipe right on tinder? Most. Why? Because it takes zero effort. So when you try to talk to women on tinder or social media, you compete with hundreds of other dudes. But how many guys go up to a woman sitting alone drinking coffee? Most guys are to… | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 03:43 PM |
| 5 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.I find that the best way to connect with people is to be honest and direct from the beginning. I immediately tell women I’m interested. So rejection is quick but painless. One afternoon I walked a girl sitting in her car. I looked at her with a smile and she smiled back so I said hello. I told her I thought she was gorgeous and I really wanted to know more about her. I was going to happy hour nearby and invited her to join me. To my surprise she said yes. She made it clear that she had a boyfrie… | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 05:45 AM |
| 2 | How can I add intent to my approaches?If you search for “Hey I like you” on YouTube, there is a video on a college campus of a guy going up to women and opening with “Hey I like you”. It’s very similar to what I do. And your question about inviting a girl out, who doesn’t know you’re into her... invite her to your place. If she doesn’t want to be alone with you, she’s probably not into you. Another thing you could try is offer to give her a massage. If she says no, or doesn’t want to be touched, she’s probably not into you. If she i… | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 03:31 AM |
| 3 | How can I add intent to my approaches?Have you ever heard of the kiss rejection mission? Basically you lean in for the kiss early in the interaction with a woman. And you try to get rejected by 10 women. So I went out one night to try this. I was at a bar when a pair of beautiful women stood next to me and bought drinks. I can’t remember the whole conversation but I mentioned that the bar had a “secret lounge” upstairs that most people didn’t know about. One of the women was interested so i took her up there and she thought it was c… | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 01:48 AM |
| 6 | How guys were seducing girls in 20th century, before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started?The short answer is honesty, and acceptance. I don’t use pickup lines or techniques. I just accept who I am as a person and I talk to people with honesty. I don’t know about anyone else, but when I started learning pickup, it was because I didn’t think I was good enough. I had low self esteem. I would see other guys have girlfriends and I would think to myself “but I’m better than him, why can’t I have a girlfriend?” When I practiced pickup artistry I felt on some level that I was tricking peopl… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 09:20 PM |
| 0 | What is generally the best way to respond to long apologetic texts?“How are you going to make it up to me?” Should be said in a flirty way. It’s not to be taken seriously or literally. It’s fun and playful, and said with a smile. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 07:49 AM |
| 1 | What is generally the best way to respond to long apologetic texts?I don’t know what your asking for then. I already told you to say “so how are you going to make it up to me?” This puts the ball in her court. And sets the frame that she owes you. But in general there is no best way to answer a text. Just be honest and direct. What do you want from her? What are you really thinking? Just say it. Don’t overthink things. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 07:35 AM |
| 0 | What is generally the best way to respond to long apologetic texts?Say “How are you going to make it up to me?” If she’s serious about getting together with you, she will do anything in her power to make it happen. My point was if she cancels a few meetings, you just need to move on. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 07:15 AM |
| 3 | What is the fastest possible way for me to get a girlfriend?Be honest and direct. Be comfortable with getting rejected. Watch “Hey I like you uncut” on YouTube. You’ll see a guy get rejected by a lot of women but then you’ll see that some women like him. You can’t control who likes you and who doesn’t. Just talk to women honestly. Be direct. Most of the time I get rejected. But always meet women who like me too. It’s like shooting a basketball. Sometimes you miss. Just keep playing and eventually you’ll score. Take risks and have fun. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 07:02 AM |
| 6 | What is generally the best way to respond to long apologetic texts?Actions speak louder than words. If a woman can’t meet me, I don’t care about the reason. I simply move on. I would rather give my attention to women who are available to meet, than send a million messages back and forth with a woman who will not meet me at all. I speak from experience. One time I met a girl on tinder. She was always too busy to meet because she was a single mom and she had a couple kids. I thought she was a catfish. We were texting each other every day. Exchanging pics. Talking… | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Advice for a guy with a good lifestyle but filled with anger.Just be honest about what you’re really thinking when you talk to women. “Hey i like you” is a perfectly valid thing to say with a women you’ve just met. Search for “I like you” on YouTube. You’ll see a guy have amazing conversations by using that opener. Rejection is natural and most guys don’t ask women out because they’re afraid of rejection. But not asking a girl out because you’re afraid of being rejected, is like not shooting the ball, because you’re afraid to miss. You can’t score if you … | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Friend-zone helpJust be honest and direct. Most guys are too scared because they don’t want to be rejected. But if she’s going to reject you now, she’s going to reject you later too. Ask her on a date, but be prepared for her to say no. Respect her wishes either way. She doesn’t owe you anything. You have nothing to lose. Tell her what you’re really thinking. Tell her you’d like to be more than friends. If she says she only wants to be your friend, respect her decision. Don’t try to change her mind. If she says… | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 06:01 AM |
| 3 | The girl of my dreams is my lab instructor. She is younger than me. Lots of the guys in my class like her (I think, at least my friend likes her). How can I win her over?Just ask her out. If she says no move on. If she says yes, proceed to the next stage in the interaction. Stop planning the wedding. You’re feelings are getting ahead of themselves. Stop fantasizing 10 steps ahead. She could have a boyfriend. She could say she doesn’t date students. Ask her out and be ready to move on if necessary. I’ve usually slept with a woman before I even wonder about having a long term relationship. Respect her decision whatever it may be. She doesn’t owe you anything. Pers… | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Does game even exist? Curious to hear your opinionThe way I currently talk to women I’m attracted to involves no “game” or techniques whatsoever. I am just honest and direct with women. When I am rejected, it is quick and painless, so I accept it and move on. I have been more successful this way than when I was using pickup artist tips and tricks. But I am grateful for the book “the game” for introducing me to the idea that no woman is truly out of my league. That isn’t to say that I believe I can have sex with anyone I want. I just used to bel… | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you have any practical tips on keeping yourself motivated during the endless grind that is dating as a man?That video is one of my favorites. As far as the woman you mentioned, she might be letting you know she isn’t interested in dating you anymore. Either way, it’s time to move on. Be careful of women who want to use you for your time, money, or attention. My first tinder date I bought a woman dinner and she told me during dinner that she didn’t feel ready to date anyone. Wtf? Another woman used me to give her a ride. Another spent weeks texting me and talking to me on the phone but never wanted to… | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any practical tips on keeping yourself motivated during the endless grind that is dating as a man?If you’re over 18 years old I recommend watching this YouTube video on rapid escalation by Liam McRae: https://youtu.be/V3Z4Nq0OrrM I think if you are an adult, sex is natural and expected even though few people would admit it on tinder. My fastest hookups on tinder were from profiles I made that were explicit about having sex. I would hookup the same day I met a woman. My last tinder date I met her at a bar. I hugged her when we met. We sat on stools right next to each other so our bodies touch… | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any practical tips on keeping yourself motivated during the endless grind that is dating as a man?I matched with a woman who seemed super interested at first but made excuse after excuse why she couldn’t meet. So I asked what i did wrong. She was honest and said I didn’t do anything wrong. She just didn’t feel a connection. Or perhaps she felt a connection but it was just a very weak one. Maybe your date felt something for you but it wasn’t very strong. It sounds like you have success getting to date #2. That’s good! I think getting better on date #2 is what you should focus on. I could be w… | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Hand movementI put my hands in my pockets when I’m cold. Maybe try wearing a jacket? I usually shake hands with women I just meet. I try to make sure my hands aren’t too cold or sweaty. If you are nervous just say so. Seriously. “Hey I’m feeling quite nervous.” If you focus on just saying what’s on your mind and expressing yourself honestly, everything else will work itself out. Rejection happens. If you get rejected just move on. | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any practical tips on keeping yourself motivated during the endless grind that is dating as a man?Can you be more specific about this particular relationship? What are your goals in dating and why are you currently doing to achieve them? | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Is she into me?She might like you more than anyone else but she might not be ready to get into a relationship, the way you define it. What you want and what she wants might be completely different. That’s why it’s important to be honest. You have to share your thoughts honestly. Maybe she’ll open up to you about what she wants if you ask. Maybe her work or school is taking priority over boyfriends. And when you’re mid twenties, career should be the main focus, in my opinion. If you want a long term monogamous … | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 08:24 PM |
| 7 | Did my first approach todayGood job on approaching! Most people you approach think: Who is this? What do they want? I like being direct because it saves time. I basically say I like her and want to talk to her. The words will depend on my thoughts at the time. For example I might say. “Hey! I think you’re really pretty. Do you have a moment to talk?” The words are not as important as the honesty behind them. She will get more information from my eye contact than my words. My voice and my body will confirm that my words ar… | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | What were your most memorable approaches?You know how kids pass each other notes saying “if you like me circle yes”? That’s all we really do as adults. “Does she like me? How can I tell?” Magazine articles are written about it all the time. It’s like playing poker. You want to know what cards they hold. So I just decided I’m not going to play that way. I decided to show all my cards and let the chips fall where they may. I’m passing notes to women saying I like you. I’m telling women they don’t have to wonder what I’m thinking. I tell … | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to open with a compliment and/or smile? Or should you instantly tease and smirk?Try my advice. If it doesn’t work for you, then it doesn’t work for you. It works for me. Like I said before, it’s not about the compliment. It’s about the honesty behind it. My goal is simply to say what I’m really thinking. When I see a woman I’m attracted to, i don’t tell her a memorized pick up line. I might say “I love your smile.” That’s different from “nice smile.” The difference is “I think, I feel, I love” are opinions that I’m sharing. For example, what if you heard a friend calling yo… | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 09:00 PM |
| 49 | What were your most memorable approaches?My first same night lay. I had read about direct game and radical honesty so I tried it. I saw woman with skin tight pants. I loved her legs and ass. I walked up to her, I looked her in the eye with a smile and said something to the effect of “hi, I saw you and I just had to tell you that I think you’re really beautiful. Would you like to get a coffee with me right over here?” I fully expected her to reject me. But my goal was just to be fearlessly honest. So by saying what I said I was already … | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 06:16 AM |
| 2 | I can't figure out why anyone would want to have guy friendsI’ve had a girlfriend who didn’t want her own friends. It was really awful. She was needy as fuck. She always wanted to spend time with me. It made me feel guilty to spend time with my friends or family. She told me she has a hard time trusting people and friendships always burn her. I’m not a socially extroverted outgoing guy by any means. I value deeper and more meaningful relationships. But those take more and more of a commitment and those bonds take time to develop. Therefore I’ve learned t… | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 05:46 AM |
| 4 | Is it a bad idea to open with a compliment and/or smile? Or should you instantly tease and smirk?Honesty works the best for me. I just say what’s on my mind. Usually I’m thinking “wow, she’s gorgeous!” So I will walk up and say “wow, you’re gorgeous!” And my face will match my words. I used to use pickup lines and routines. But it made me feel very fake. And I was never comfortable with it. Now that I just say what’s on my mind, I don’t have to worry about what I say. It feels good to be honest, real, and authentic. I usually follow up my initial statement of attraction with “Hey i want to … | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 05:20 AM |
| 1 | 1 I am an interesting guy with a good personality, can't find dates due to looks. What should I do?Have you ever heard “it takes balls”? “It takes guts”? Being honest and direct with women is incredibly difficult for most people. Most of the posts on this sub are “I’m very handsome but I can’t ask women out”. Seriously. I read a post like that every week. “Girls are super flirty and interested in me and then they stop talking to me”. Why? Because most guys are cowards. And worse, most guys are lazy. It takes balls to go up to a stranger and tell them how you really think. Being sneaky isn’t g… | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 03:33 AM |
| 1 | 1 I am an interesting guy with a good personality, can't find dates due to looks. What should I do?My bad. I won’t bring that up again. Thanks for being honest. See. Honesty is helpful. Always state your interest in a women immediately. It shows confidence and women respect it. Even if they are unavailable because they’re in a relationship, they will usually respect your honesty. The direct approach works in most situations but if you are in a bar or other place that serves alcohol, women will assume you’re drunk. I’ve been accused of that before. “You’re drunk. You don’t find me really beaut… | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 03:00 AM |
| 2 | 1 I am an interesting guy with a good personality, can't find dates due to looks. What should I do?You mentioned being short again? Stop focusing on what you can’t change. It’s unhealthy and a waste of time what can you change? I mentioned working out and you shot the idea down. Working out will make you feel good and feel confident. It will make you feel more energetic. And it’s something that you have control over. It’s worth your time. I’m glad to hear you put an effort into your appearance. Don’t be lazy. Lazy people don’t deserve success. The fact that no one owes you anything has nothin… | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | 1 I am an interesting guy with a good personality, can't find dates due to looks. What should I do?If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten. You’ve mention a lot of things that can’t be changed like your height, your lazy eye, your bald head. Stop focusing on what you can’t change, and focus on what you can. Can you work out? Can you exercise? Can you lift weights? Can you wear cooler clothes? Can you change how you talk to some. You’re attracted to? Do you have any idea how much time and effort a hot sexy woman puts into her appearance, every single day? Watch … | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Virgin. Is it my looks?Guess what? Even if you were the ugliest man on earth, some women will still fuck you. Some women will still love you. If you let them. Want to prove me wrong? Try to get rejected 100 times. Just try. It’s almost impossible. You will learn more from failure than anything I can say to you. | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 01:58 AM |
| 2 | When girlfriend cancels plans a few times, suitable reply?You might want to ask r/relationships your question. If she can’t hang out with you because she’s busy with friends and school, I don’t see a problem with that. If she can’t hang out with you because she doesn’t like you or she wants to hang out with another man, then it’s a problem. In the first case, she’s too busy with her own life: so are you keeping busy too? Are you studying/working and spending time with friends? If you don’t spend enough time with friends, that can make you focus too muc… | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 08:05 PM |
| 2 | When girlfriend cancels plans a few times, suitable reply?Can you give more details about the relationship? How long have you been together? What are the reasons she canceled? How old are both of you? If you’re over 21 years old and you’ve been together over a year you can be a little more forgiving. If you’re under 18 years old and have been together a month then you might want to break up. Either way my attitude when interacting with women and my attitude with relationships is to be honest. Say how you feel and say what you want. “I really like spend… | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Laughing YogaThank you for this! You should also post it on r/lifeprotips | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 06:24 PM |
| 73 | How to get a guy to have sex with meGo to places with men that you like. Stand/sit in places where men will walk near you. Look and smile at men you are attracted to. For example, if you like men who dance, go to a night club and stand next to the dance floor. If you like men who read books, go to book stores. If you like men who cook, go to the grocery store. If you smile at men, they will naturally talk to you if they like you. Men hardly ever get compliments from women. If you give compliments like “I like your eyes/smile/muscl… | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 04:11 AM |
| 5 | If there is one thing you'd say gave you the most success with women, what would that be?Honesty. The biggest similarity I've noticed with very successful seducers is honesty. Mark Manson, David X, Alan Roger Currie... These people are honest and direct. When I am honest and direct I always get fast results. Sometimes those results are negative, like I am rejected very quickly, but I also get very fast positive results. | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Game with no alcoholMystery used to ask the bartender for a club soda with a few limes. When he would talk to women they would ask him what he got. They assumed it was special since it had more than one lime in it. It was a conversation piece if he needed it to be. I think he might have created a routine where he asked the girl to guess, or said it was too strong for her (giving her a challenge). If you don't drink, just have a good reason for not drinking. Mystery once had a fake cigar as a prop. A woman asked "wh… | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 12:16 AM |
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