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| 46 | When "The Little Things" start slacking. | LTR/MARRIAGE | Theyogithatcould | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/20 04:42 PM |
| 46 | What are you ladies buying/creating for your men for Christmas/Holiday Season? | DISCUSSION | Theyogithatcould | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/20 05:19 PM |
| 31 | What are some nice gestures you do for your man that says "I love you"? | LTR/MARRIAGE | Theyogithatcould | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/19 01:51 AM |
| 25 | FIELD REPORT: His birthday <3 | FIELD REPORT | Theyogithatcould | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/21 02:50 PM |
| 14 | Ladies, where do you shop for your cute and beautiful clothing? | LIFESTYLE | Theyogithatcould | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/20 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Compliments/Affections from Him in a LTR. | DISCUSSION | Theyogithatcould | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 10:50 PM |
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| – | Unsure About My Relationship1.) why are you spoiling him when you've gotten nothing of the sort to start. STOP. 2.) 4 dates in 6 months is a No. 3.) He's getting what he wants out of you. Sex, YOUR memberships, gifts, you're taking him out. 4.) why are you driving to HIM? 5.) You love the idea of your first relationship but not this guy. THis guys a bum loser. And you're behaving like a loser for going above and beyond for a garbage bag on the street. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/24 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Feeling alone and disrespected in my marriage - where to start addressing it with my husband?32F here. Your husbands a prick. This will not get better. I'm so sorry. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/24 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Guy lied about his nameBy not telling this woman you would be hurting her further by allowing her to go blind to her man and the father of her kids cheating on her. That is grotesque to leave someone in the dark about that. She deserves to know so that she doesn't waste one more second with a cheater. She and her baby deserve way better, as do you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | On a break with my man and in painHe will never commit to you, given the information you shared. Onward and upwards, friend. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Should I fake having friends?Why's he so concerned that you don't have friends? Have him answer that for you. You don't "have" to have friends, you can enjoy yourself and him and that's just fine. Do YOU want friends??? Him being concerned is small minded and silly unless you're hanging on him needing him every second of the day. If he's social he can do so- but let him know you live your life the way you are and forcing something like that isn't going to end well. My life is just me and my boyfriend and it's a beautiful, p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Should I fake having friends?It sure can be healthy if your partner is your only friend. She may be heavily introverted and enjoy her peace and company with just 1 person. I am this girl. I go to work, do yoga/cook/play with my fashion, go enjoy my time with my boyfriend, do small little things for myself and him, rinse and repeat. If she has social flaws like autism or is turning every girlfriend away due to other reasons, that's another thing. But people don't "have" to have social circles if they don't feel drawn to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | What is the RedPill Women’s views on men wearing nail polish?Absolutely not. I'm into men, not girly men, homosexuals, or women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/22 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Had to cut my hair short, my bf prefers it long. So sad.Can you try clip in extensions? Luxy has some good seamless ones. Clip ins wont damage your hair. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Modern wimpy menIt's not the state they're living in, but the profession they're working in. Healthcare, military, engineering.. Look for them in roles that took alot to get there/stay there. Those are your hard working, goal setting, fit in mind AND body, MANLY men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | What are your favorite tips for keeping things feminine and sexy?Be mindful in putting together nice outfits and learning how to actually do makeup. A haircut and color also goes a very long way. If you're not eating well daily, START. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I have no one to talk toOpening up to your husband, the singlemost person who should have your back to love and support you through hard times, calling that "negative, not yourself" is either emotionally unavailable to you after all, or scared by not knowing what he needs to do to comfort you. You need to be clear in what you are asking of him; ie: I need you to just listen, I need a hug, I need your opinion, etc. Whatever you do, keep confiding in your HUSBAND and be weary of spilling your soul to a stranger (therapis… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/22 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Not sure how to explain this to my boyfriend.Huge turnoff. How old is the relationship? A man isn't designed to piggyback on you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 6 | I (26F) think the guy I’m interested in (30M) is porn sickimmediate disqualification | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/22 01:21 AM |
| 42 | Is it fixable or am I better off exploring a better situation?he’s offering me an open marriage so we can stay in this platonic marriage (which makes no sense to me because I can get a man to love me and want to have sex with me and provide for me). Precisely. You are not happy with this degenerate setup that he is offering because you know someone can present you a silver dollar when he is offering simply pennies. Your bedroom is dead, and ultimately the entire marriage will necrotize along with it; it is only time. I would cut this completely. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | PornographyIt is degenerate and unacceptable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/22 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Bf wants to split finances “50/50”This is the only correct answer. Let him solve it like he is designed to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.It's better to start over at 29 than to marry a cheater. It is your problem, literally, that you are in debt with no career to fall back on. It will only be time until he cheats again; would you like to become a single mother? You know the answer here. He's not high value, and neither are you if you choose a cheating, adderall addicted, explosive raging lunatic. Beware of your lack of wisdom, girlfriend. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Caught him on a dating app again so I think it's really over nowShouldn’t even be a question; exit now | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What is this behavior called?There's a culture barrier here that is the problem, but that does not negate the blaring red flag of him being a ticking timebomb of emotional reactivity. Proceed with caution; dated one of these manbabies a while back. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Do public declarations of love turn you off a guy?Yes, I hate a "show". Luckily my man is just like myself and would never feel the need to publicly declare his love for me. We're not attention grabbers, and others are not in our relationship. I do enjoy PDA, tastefully of course.. that's about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/22 04:05 AM |
| 5 | My husband doesn’t find any older women attractive and it scares me.Men adore and prefer younger, beautiful women. This is nature. The sooner as you can come to accept this fact, the better. That doesn't mean his love will fade for you. You will be attractive and beautiful to him in your own unique ways. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | The over-functioning - resentment cycleDo not entertain such lazy incompetence. He steps up, now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/22 01:13 AM |
| 4 | How to "Accept Him At Face Value" if some of his habits turn you off?Overeating and lacking ambition in life aren't just menial "habits" like always leaving a half-drank stained coffee cup in the sink when he knows you don't like that. What you've described are large characteristics to him as a person and that's a him problem, not a you problem. YOU are responsible for choosing the type of man who leads you. Writing an email of a list of dislikes you have was probably not the best idea. He's clearly hurt and maybe pissed- rightfully so. What purpose does that ser… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 17 | Trying to understand / Am I in the right place?You have acknowledged that you love staying home and raising your kids. That in itself is a 24/7 career that is very rewarding and beneficial for your family. Your husband will be proud of you for devoting your life to rearing your family. You're not supposed to live your mothers life, you're supposed to live YOURS. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/22 03:09 PM |
| 0 | To the women who keep a FWB/FB around forever...The guy getting fed up by lack of commitment? Love, a guy wanting a fwb/fb isn’t looking for commitment. He’s looking for easy ass. A woman keeping a fwb gives herself for free and is tainted in some form. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/22 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Unreliable > ReliableYou need a physical planner, a pen, and to give yourself grace while the routine sets in. If you don't remember things, WRITE IT! You may feel more accountability seeing a chore list stacking up. If your chronic pain eliminates the ability for you to complete one thing, triage your list and swap it for another one that you CAN do. You say you're running your own business now. A woman with a business MUST develop and fine tune structure and orderliness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/22 09:34 PM |
| 8 | So...a thing that happenedA good solid man is a gift not a right. It's earned and success is a reflection of how much we are nurturing that. <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/22 06:17 PM |
| 14 | How to find out if I’m a plate?Poor advice in what way? Would you like to cheapen yourself giving your body away to a man who has no intentions to keep you as his and only his? A man who knows what he wants, expresses that to his female, and leads the relationship with this direction is the only kind of man worth keeping. If OPs boytoy cannot do something as simple as outline their life together, after 4 months..She may be wasting her time. (and genitals) :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on cooking for boyfriend?If the goal is longterm relationship, absolutely do so. I do exactly what you have described as well. I'm not married, but I have no problem giving my man 150% of my efforts because of our love and commitment. Your man takes care of you as you've suggested, so it's best for you to give back. That kind of support for each other weaves a strong knit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/22 04:14 PM |
| 28 | How to find out if I’m a plate?Stop having sex without knowing exclusivity. The only way to go about asking about exclusivity is to ASK what your FUTURE holds together here on out. Don't beat around the bush. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Easy, cheap meals recipes.Maybe that guy thought you couldn't cook because your advice to women is to let their husbands cook for themselves. Lol get out of here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/22 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Easy, cheap meals recipes.Pinterest. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/22 03:54 PM |
| 38 | So...a thing that happenedMy man works like a mule too (happily for us, he reports). It is so very important for us to take care of the domestic tasks like the meal/cleaning etc. When I make him a good meal, everybody wins. So glad yours is appreciating you and showing you how much he sees your work toward him! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/22 03:51 PM |
| 51 | bf says he feels rushedThe last line was very telling. He may not even want more children and is anxious when given a timeline to make more happen. Are you sure he wants more? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | What’s for dinner?I'm learning to brine a chicken today so I can elevate my game and serve juicy chicken to my boyfriend. I plan to then marry it in a cream sauce with peccorino romano and serve over pasta. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 154 | It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spacesThis is why we carry. No ones ever going to catch me without heat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 05:09 PM |
| 74 | My bf went camping with another woman.So he drank heavily on a camping trip with a girl he used to have a crush on but they didn't have sex..okay girl. You'll be a loser if you stay with this loser who obviously cheated on you. Open your eyes. You told him you weren't comfortable and he WENT ANYWAY. Her > you. Dont you see that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety/depression, struggling with self careThere's a saying, "Motivation follows behavior." Unfortunately in mental health this is often a catch 22, as you need a drive to produce behavior. For this reason I suggest you make a calendar for yourself and fill in slots like "Yoga", "Meditate/time with God" or "See somewhere new for the day". Be careful in getting caught in a mindset that selfcare is just baths, hair masks and nailpolish. Those things make us feel pretty and in turn better, but you should prioritize meaningful and deeper tas… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/21 09:44 PM |
| – | My journey with accepting my unconventional features, and hopefully loving them eventually.Hey, I just wanted to tell you that there is such a thing called ptosis repair which essentially tightens the levator muscle. I am undergoing this procedure myself soon and while I don't HATE my condition, I am glad to be correcting the eyelid finally. I believe 4K is worth it to improve the symmetry for life. Just thought I'd mention it to someone else dealing with this who may be interested. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Why am I so desperate to feel loved by guys who don’t care about me?There is almost ALWAYS a lack of love for oneself when someone is trying to find tons of it from elsewhere. Therapy maybe, or spiritual texts, or mindfulness workbooks. Consider holding off on men, any kind of courting, etc until you can chisel yourself some more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Not sure what to think anymoreYour ex husband wasn't a good man, he was just a dud and make sure you're mindful enough of yourself to not fall into one of those guys orbits again. That will take intentionality. For every 1 solid Alpha there's 500 losers. Work on yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Where can I meet traditional, successful men?This is true. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | How to regain respect once lost?I think it would behove you to include details into how he's been disappointing you and losing your respect. We can give greater insight once we know what's taking place. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 3 | I need serious help.Honey, you are trying to play the man role yet again and this is shown in your quote, "I think this is my fault". No. He took action to quit the successful career and take his foot off the gas and drive himself (and your family unit) into the ground. The reasons behind that may be depression or God knows what else. But it's obvious now that you must stop trying to control and direct this like a man. Get out of the drivers seat so he has room to fix this. While you mean well, you could be emascul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/21 06:33 PM |
| 4 | I need serious help.he told me that since I'm the most unhappy, I have the most control. He said that if I complain, I get to decide what we do, and if I don't complain, then we can just continue as we're doing (with me making all the decisions and making all the money). In other words, he has zero ambition to improve himself and is complacent at best or very dead inside. He's demonstrated caring little about the strength and quality of your marriage and in turn your happiness. Glaring question..Is he depressed?? W… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 15 | What is the best way to ease a date into me eating a special/restrictive diet?I am vegan, I’ve been vegan for over 8 years and been with my man for 3.5 of those. So I understand you. Let me just say I have never had any issue anywhere if finding a dish suitable for me. Don’t believe limitations means it’s hard. It just means less option, but they’re out there. It’ll give you homework to discover cool fun new spots. And don’t spend your time with someone who can’t accept your diet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | I’m 30 and I don’t know how to apply make up.FIX your diet. Drink damn near a gallon a day. You're not going to look pretty if your body is a trash compactor for gross and inappropriate foods for your body. I'd also say sleep, but with a 6 mo old that's not as possible. As for the makeup, it's literally just practice practice practice. Sit down and draw your liner 10 times even if it means removing each time. Also you don't have to use a pen/pencil liner, you can use a dark shadow to wiggle into your lashline to create that illusion of dep… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | How to turn down men on Instagram?It's social media..you don't even have to respond. Batting off the guys in real life can simply be met with an "I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend" (whether you do or do not). | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/21 06:09 PM |
| 6 | My man's anger issuesHe's not willing to get help for a serious problem. Does he expect it to just vanish? I'm speaking as a formerly battered woman who is in that no longer. It's going to progress, just watch. OR..leave. I highly suggest the latter of the two. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/21 07:41 PM |
| 66 | Husband Stopped Wearing Wedding BandI am not typically one to jump to a conclusion such as this, but "seeing other people" may need to be on your radar. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/21 08:47 PM |
| 2 | How do I know my worth?You're currently out-earning him even with reduced hours, so you are already being a better "man" than he is. He probably feels very low due to this. It's not your fault and it's not his fault but neither of you are dealing well with it. I mean, it kind of is his fault. He's not living up to his very own nature of providing for his household. Sounds like he LOVES that she wears the pants. Lazy? Not sure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/21 01:18 AM |
| 1 | How do I know my worth?But you shouldn't have to subsidize his portion he should be contributing. The bigger problem is that he's okay with that (very nonmasculine and a signal that he's lazy in providing for you). Is he even working fulltime? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 3 | How do I know my worth?He's paying too little. You pay 66%, he pays 33%. Why is that? What's he doing to fall short? You can't take care of him while over contributing to the household. Is he unmotivated or underskilled? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How do I know my worth?Why are you paying over half of your bills while also performing your domestic duties? YOU cut your contribution back financially - he takes this on - and you take care of him while he does so. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/21 01:09 AM |
| 5 | Boyfriend bought a home and I need adviceYour boyfriend is a calculating snake in his behavior. So he wants to marry you after your studies, when he perceives you to be of a higher worth with some good income. If that wasn't true, why wouldn't he just marry you now then while you're moving into his home? In the mean time, he's got the cushy benefit of using you to help get equity in HIS home under HIS name by letting his student girlfriend have less money for herself. Can you wake up? If you're not team-players now, how do you think yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/21 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Boyfriend bought a home and I need adviceKeep in mind that you're going to be paying into his mortgage at 765/mo and you will gain z e r o equity of that house if you two are to split. Think about that for a second. Your name isn't even on the house and you're paying into it. This is why you don't move into someone elses house before marriage. He sure does have the sweet end of the deal. Be a little less naive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/21 11:02 PM |
| 19 | High Earning WomenHe has accused me of thinking I’m better than others and having a large ego Unpopular opinion, but there's not much wrong with thinking or feeling you're better than others, IMO. (You just wouldn't say such a thing, to these people. That's impolite.) We live in a hierarchy society and it is what it is, it's just not politically correct to admit that openly. Anyway.. What I'm hearing from your man behind the statement you mentioned, is, "I am the man who must posses the bigger ego, and you must l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT: His birthday <3Thank you! ☺️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 01:58 PM |
| 3 | FIELD REPORT: His birthday <3Thank you so much, I really am :) I've dreamt of this since I was a little girl. We appreciate your well wishes and kind comment! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/21 09:29 PM |
| 2 | FIELD REPORT: His birthday <3Thank you so much!!! You have said it beautifully, I do feel perpetual love as if it were my first taste! It is funny- while he is years my senior, I do learn so much from him about staying in touch with the child within. I appreciate your comment soo much. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/21 06:16 PM |
| 10 | FIELD REPORT: His birthday <3You're so sweet! I feel blessed beyond measure that God planted this amazing seed in my life that grew into a huge, deeply rooted oak tree. I appreciate your kind words so much. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT: His birthday <3Thanks for reading about our day :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/21 05:02 PM |
| 3 | FIELD REPORT: His birthday <3Thank you for the constructive comment! I will try to fix that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/21 04:17 PM |
| 4 | FIELD REPORT: His birthday <3It is not fiction. This is quite amusing. I think this is because I am a romantic and I wanted to share my story. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/21 04:16 PM |
| 6 | Should I fake my personality to find a partner?Absolutely do not manufacture a false persona. This will only leave you resentful (of yourself) in the longterm when you inevitably cannot be yourself. Your best bet is to become the best version of who you are. Cliche, but eventually you will find that match. Scult yourself inside and out and have a glow-up. Best of luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/21 05:37 PM |
| 58 | Some advice and your opinion would be much appreciated.Hi, so, student nurse here. If your “boyfriend” went down on you while you got these transmissions, this was likely poor oral hygiene that caused it. Or... unfortunately like someone said, he has a fecally contaminated penis..Urethra is a portal of entry and you do not need to have vaginal infection to go with it.. as for the smelly sheets problem, I originally thought this was a lie he told you to save face about taking improper washing care of his bedding, but the second I read that he actuall… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to leave a man because you feel no passion for him?His encouragement to you, a former smoker, to take it up again is a very thoughtless and gross thing to do. Always leave a man you feel no passion for. You are wasting your time that could be spent on the man who is out there waiting to be met. You're not going to force chemistry. Sex does NOT produce passion if you feel no passion now. Go find Mr. Right! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/20 04:35 PM |
| 13 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?Both the prostitute and male consumer are participating in an unclean behavior. My previous post did not imply that only the female Whore is unclean. But this is not a conversation about the male whore. I'm curious to know what you mean by "let people have their life". Going about life unconscious of deep psychological and physical repercussions may be the standard of "live your life, girl!" in this degenerate climate we live in. Not revering your holy temple for what it is, is indeed a shameful… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/20 05:36 PM |
| 63 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?Societal degeneracy and the western womans loss of moral character has contributed to "celebration" of sexual promiscuity, praised falsely as "liberation". Don't fall for that; whoredom is not liberation. Spreading yourself around, no pun intended, lacks numerous virtues and grace, which ideally you want to hold tightly to. We are a mans gift and a prize. Do you want to be a valuable gift, or a used, tattered one? It would behove you to start a deep soul search on self value. Good luck to you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/20 04:34 PM |
| 11 | How do you girls respond to your man drooling over another woman in front of you?Low value man. Dump. There's better. I won't tolerate this. Mine has made pretty questionable comments about others being "cute", to my face, which made me feel very cold at the time. Ugh, gross.. Exit stage left like a lady if your guy is a lecher. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Has "playing hard to get" ever worked for you?Well, the egg doesn't chase the sperm, now does it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/20 04:25 PM |
| 4 | I don’t know what to doVerbal abuse is not a trait of an alpha. Certainly not a soon-to-be husband. He's not for you. Rather...YOU are not for him. He is beneath you because he is insulting you and careless toward your feelings. What you must focus on now is not so much HIM respecting you less, but respecting yourself more by not choosing a verbally abusive beta. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/20 10:44 PM |
| 8 | How do I withhold sex without offending the guy?Don't worry about offending him if you aren't committed. Ball is in your court. No commitment, thus no cares given. Why waste the emotional energy to avoid "offending" him? He'll wait if he's a keeper, bounce if he's not meant to be yours. Incredibly simple. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Advice for meeting boyfriend’s mom?Bring flowers. I did this the first time I met my boyfriends mother and she seemed totally happy about it. She only speaks Finnish, so there was quite the barrier between us, but everyone knows what flowers mean!! My boyfriend was also quite impressed. Never come empty handed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/20 06:20 PM |
| 6 | I am in a relationship with an older, married man....So you've seen "some text messages" between he and his wife.. It's called Marriage, problems come up. You know nothing REAL about their personal relationship. Can you trust a man to tell YOU the truth when he cheats on his wife and kids? You are stunningly delusional. As a 28F I promise you will regret being the pathetic, used side dish to a man who cheats on his wife. Unfortunately we can't be the ones to take off the blinders that you've put on yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/20 07:47 PM |
| 4 | I am in a relationship with an older, married man....His actions show me that he truly appreciates me and is sincere about his feelings. The problem here lies within the fact that he does not appreciate the sanctity of marriage, nor is he sincere about his feelings because he is cheating on someone with you. Read that again. This isn't a Man. And I say this as a 28F with a 54M, going on 3 years, in a faithful relationship. Good, solid, redpill men do not cheat and do not use naive girls to scratch an itch. I only read the first part and last part … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/20 07:36 PM |
| 9 | Today I realized that being hot is a full time job.Yes, it is a full time job, but a job which pays HANDSOMELY (or more like gorgeously, pun intended) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/20 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Not even an unpopular opinion, just one that consistently brushed under the rugI'm 28. I've been with my man for 3 years now. He's 26 years my senior, 54. Can't help but feel your polar opposite. When I was younger, young guys could offer me nothing that of a "seasoned" man could- intelligent conversation, lack of desire for vapid pop-culture, a meaningful, virtuistic life, financial security, emotional maturity (hell, maturity of all kinds across the board), a deep respect. I could go on and on. I've always been physically drawn to older as well- my first real crush being… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/20 03:42 PM |
| 6 | Is this a red flag?the red flag is that he has expressed two wildly different feelings. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/20 07:44 PM |
| – | Self CareCycling and running. My true fitness loves. Brainstorming fun new recipes. The kitchen is a meditation for me. Mani/pedis more frequently Facial steaming with herbs and oils! DANCING!! for myself in my room alone! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/20 11:07 PM |
| 16 | My boyfriend seemed like a mature, intelligent guy but he's actually a huge man-childI'd pass. Not because of his true personality per-se, but his evident low self esteem (unauthenticity, shame, being a try-hard). I find all of those things way more repulsive than a "kid at heart". Sometimes social clumsiness can be endearing..never when it stems from insecurity though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/20 04:01 PM |
| 12 | How do you deal with feeling unattractive?Ew. I'm hightailing from any partner who doesn't view me, and tell me as such, that I am a "top girl" to him. This isn't Alpha behavior, it's douchebro behavior. This being your first relationship, I am just going to leave you with this..... do. not. waste your time. There's far greater. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/20 02:58 AM |
| 8 | How can I be feminine and attractive while dealing with a chronic illness?Grooming is essential. Keep neat hair, clear as you can skin (falls in line with a fresh, healthy diet), keeping teeth sparkling and white. You can do tiny things that make a difference if you don't care for makeup which is grooming your brows and curling lashes. As for being over weight, you don't need to exercise to get this down, as excess weight largely comes from consuming more energy (calories) than your body needs. The law of thermogenesis never fails, eat less calories than you burn to l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/20 03:38 PM |
| 5 | How can I make my man more “alpha”?You can't lead yourself. You say it in your post: Unmotivated. Gain ambition, gain movement, gain a trajectory, get goals, strive for greatness, and then a man who can lead will naturally fall into your life, hopefully. The problem is that you yourself state that you're not much of a catch. Luckily...that is in your control. Do something about it. The alpha you desire is not going to be attracted to someone who does not have herself together, nor will he spend his valuable time trying to mold yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/20 01:41 PM |
| 5 | How can I make my man more “alpha”?But I am also not high value. I’m lazy, unmotivated, don’t take care of myself. What would make you worthy of someone changing for you, then? When you start to value yourself you'll attract the same thing. Good luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/20 01:39 PM |
| 17 | Do you get sad when you feel emotionally cheated on?Borderlining on emotional infidelity is a hard limit of mine | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/20 01:14 PM |
| 9 | I’ve lost everything.It's not your job to make sense of Gods plan. When you surrender in the truth that you will never have that divine capacity to understand, more faith and peace will enter your life. I am so sorry for your losses and confusion is a normal part of grieving. The mind wants to fit things into logical boxes and this is beyond all understanding. God is greater. Trust in Him. The pain is immense, this I know, but please lean on the divine grace that is eternally with you. Wishing your heart comfort. Th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/20 05:52 AM |
| 22 | What value does your man bring to your life?My favorites: 1) An open ear. Truly always listens carefully which ties into: 2) Gives me his thoughts and advice without being pushy, always has sound suggestions that he believes will aid in my interest. 3) Extremely emotionally supportive. He lets me be myself and has never stifled that. 4) Financially supportive, ESPECIALLY when I was up sh*t creek. His generosity pulled me out of a terrible time. 5) Intimacy, affection and makes me feel very desireable. 6) A genuine friendship within the re… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/20 05:00 PM |
| 9 | It’s overNot all men are created equal. Sorry but anyone who did these kinds of things to a partner is just a loser. He's not valuable. Good luck in your next vetting. Be wise and mindful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | What are some nice gestures you do for your man that says "I love you"?Thank you so much for such a kind response!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/19 03:01 AM |
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