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| 6 | Sweaty, clammy hands are killing my ability to escalateYou might have hyperhidrosis. I have it, and it sucks. My hands are always sweaty, even when I'm confident and in frame. There are three good strategies that I've found for getting around that: Play it off like it's just a part of you and don't let it ruin the frame. If she points it out, I usually go with either a very joking "It's because I'm so nervous around you. Look, I have goosepimples!" or "Yup, they told me that to be this awesome I had to have at least one genetic defect. Sweaty hands … | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Off like a light switch*Grab her hand. "Come here." *Relocate to bedroom. Alternatively: What's wrong with the couch? | /r/seduction | 19/07/11 09:22 PM |
| 23 | DiCarlo Escalation Ladder: Concise and EmphasizedLower back is part of the abdomen. (Remember it's "abdomen", not "abdominals"). In the action described above I usually make contact with the side of her tummy and lower back. Upon thinking more about it, whenever I am standing near someone (male or female) and don't hear what they're saying, I will often lean in while asking them to repeat themselves, usually when I do this I put my hand on the side of their stomach. It may sound like an invasion of personal space, but remember good kino is all… | /r/seduction | 29/05/11 01:55 AM |
| 10 | DiCarlo Escalation Ladder: Concise and EmphasizedYou are moving from pt A to pt B. You were sitting or standing somewhat close. Make to depart, and almost as an afterthought run your hand closest to her along her abdomen as part of a gesture to follow you. Its like an incedental version of leading her aroung with your hand on her back. When you make incedental contact with the abdomen correctly, you can often immediately feel a girl become more comfortable with you. | /r/seduction | 28/05/11 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Flaking!Re-engaging a flake is a big problem. I am in the middle of this situation with a HB8 I met a few weeks ago. Pickup at the bar, great connection, made out, # close, time bridge. Flake. The most sure way to re-engage a flake is by following the advice of the others here. Literally do not give a fuck. If she flakes, wait a week. Crawling to her to re-engage is not going to anything for you. A week later or so, re-open with a flirty IOI. One that I've used successfully in the past goes along the li… | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 08:01 PM |
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