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I'd say it's for 3 main reasons: 1: Guys who are around the most irreligious, drunk, high and broken women on this planet projecting it on all other women 2: porn addicted weirdos projecting their fantasies/false impressions on other women 3: grifters and manipulators using it as a propaganda method to make people think they need to join whatever movement or cause they're pushing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:33 PM
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So true until you step off porn and get into the real world. "dickmatized" smh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:28 AM
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Insecurity and coping That's why you have OF girls, porn actresses, and three digit women writing pages of blogs or going on podcasts telling us how empowered they are and totally not abused and unhappy crying themselves every night into bed. As a general rule if people get overly defensive for no reason they're being insincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:35 PM
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That reminds me a lot of the "Women only have importance to men as sexual objects" but the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:30 AM
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No, it's because of men's more violent nature and difference in sex drives
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:51 PM
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I kind of get you, but I think they're being honest when saying that, it's a massive ego boost to get a guy to sleep with you even if they know the guy really is only interested in using her body. But what do you think is the real reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:31 PM
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I think the problem is that it's almost impossible to refute the 20% research, because it's a very well done research made by very qualified and famous researchers, with a five digit sample from all over the world and most importantly it confirms prior researches who float in the 18% - 25% range.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:00 AM
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The reason why men have lower standards is because they're desperate Plus, too many men want relationships for the one thing mainly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:31 AM
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True. Not even 10 mins in already got a downvote
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:09 PM
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PNC isn't a men only thing and it's definitely not something all men deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:07 PM
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No this guy clearly knows better than you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:01 PM
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Yeah it's kinda crazy it's like a gamble
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:16 PM
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Penetration is just about as essential to women's complete sexual satisfaction as sweets are to a healthy diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:27 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:25 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:24 PM
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But the clitoris wraps around the vagina and when aroused, makes the vaginal canal a source of terrific sexual pleasure. If it was this easy the orgasm rate for women during penetration would be the same as for clitorial stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:22 PM
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I'm so thirsty I've thrown my real views out the window and have turned into a male feminist in the desperate hope to get female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:04 PM
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Most times you can tell the amount of makeup someone has on their face
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:34 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:32 PM
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On the one hand, there are people who take the "women are mainly interested in romance while men are mainly interested in sex" too literally and say women are asexual or so, and on the other you have people claiming that men and women are the same if it wasn't for the "toxic society". While men and women are similar in many things, there are still major differences which very much define society. As you pointed out the 90/10 rule or whatever it's called is something that exists because of differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:31 PM
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Denying sex does more harm to you than to her and besides that it's not really a good thing to do in a loving relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:45 AM
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And men don't need to be seduced because they have a higher sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:47 PM
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This one: https://www.google.com/amp/s/medicalxpress.com/news/2016-04-anatomy-key-female-orgasm.amp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:47 AM
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18.4% is still 18.4%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:33 AM
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https://pleasurebetter.com/orgasm-statistics/ https://www.google.com/amp/s/medicalxpress.com/news/2016-04-anatomy-key-female-orgasm.amp https://www.vice.com/en/article/neepb8/the-science-of-female-pleasure-still-needs-more-attention https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2017/08/28/health/intercourse-outercourse-sex-kerner/index.html https://www.google.com/amp/s/metro.co.uk/2017/09/21/almost-80-of-women-dont-orgasm-from-penetrative-sex-6945941/amp/ Here are 5 in less than 3 minutes. It's r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:05 AM
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Because it's literally the same, if you have low desire you'd not have much initiative, if your desire is high you'd be very motivated and spontaneous rather than just passive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:25 AM
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You can just search for "percent women orgasm penetration alone" and you'll find an ocean of articles on studies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:58 PM
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I know how high and low desires work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:55 PM
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Most researchers say it's in the 15-25% range
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:56 AM
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You know that responsive desire is just an euphemistic way of saying "not enough desire to actually initiate sex" right? It's nothing more than the politically correct way of saying lower sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:55 AM
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Bro wtf most human females can have multiple orgasms 15% do vaginal, clitoral Only 20% can orgasm from vaginal stimulation they can have sex all night long Bro quit porn As Dr Robert Glover says, women are the sexual equivalent of a Ferrari and men are the sexual equivalent of a moped. Obviously not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:51 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:38 AM
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worse at preserving the erotic charge that makes sex enticing. I think it comes down to both partners being women and thus not being up for it as often
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:27 PM
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It's interesting to see that lesbian women need longer to achieve almost the rates of orgasm as men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:25 PM
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Who the hell downvoted you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:15 PM
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Bruh you know most female mammals experience nothing but pain when mating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:12 PM
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Bro's getting downvoted like crazy just for saying the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:09 PM
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Glad you brought up the sex toy industry, because literally every other industry imaginable that is even somewhat related to sex is absolutely dominated by male customers. You ask a guy realistically how much sex he would like to have in his relationship, and he usually says not that much - only 2-3 times per week (this is the average guy in late 20's in a LTR etc). You ask a woman how much? She says more than she's having - 2-3 times a week would be better. Also what the hell is this supposed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:08 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:03 PM
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Until you get interrupted by the pop-up ad on pornhub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:02 PM
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The studieS (plural) found that about 20% of women (1 out of 5) experienced orgasms from penetration at least once. The ones who can do so reliably are even fewer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:59 PM
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Bruhhh quit it, you're triggering the feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:56 PM
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Tell me you watch too much porn without telling me you watch too much porn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:54 PM
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Sex is sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:48 PM
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Plus they can have multiple What about guys? You can't just do generalizations like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:48 PM
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For the men who engage in casual sex like you described, yes, they don't care about the women they sleep with, for them it's just cheap sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:34 AM
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Oh I was talking about women. The women I were talking about in the OP. They said that for every good sex they had, they had 5 bad sexual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:37 PM
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For men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:36 PM
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No way what makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:34 PM
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Depends on what we're talking about. But yes there are some like 10% vs 90% but don't quote me on that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:19 PM
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Well just to start with, he's very likely gonna enjoy it more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:19 AM
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Every time you said women don’t enjoy sex or women don’t get anything out of sex - where was the misunderstanding I didn't say that women don’t enjoy sex as much That's what I said. I’M A WOMAN Still can't speak for every woman, in fact you can't even speak for a significant portion of women. orgasm gap does not mean women enjoy sexual any less. You're kidding, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:18 AM
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How exactly are you supposed to use a man for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:15 AM
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Men get used for sex by women all the How exactly do you expect men to be used for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:15 AM
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You know it's sad when people can't even argue and have to opt for fronts, like, get a brain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:14 AM
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It's a great indicator for how much you enjoyed it. Call me spoiled but the few times I didn't orgasm I didn't enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:13 AM
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You know that's an example right? Like, don't tell me you really didn't realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:12 AM
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We are enjoying the hook up. Who are you to speak for women? Who are you to contradict studies and with that the experiences of thousands of women? The reason why I don't accept your answers is because they are anecdotal. There is no point in finding people who differ from the norm because they're exceptions. It's like saying that humans have two legs and you bring up three Vietnam veterans and try to tell me that humans don't have legs. Furthermore I never questioned the fact that most women di…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:10 AM
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Did you even read her answer? No I just gave a full response. you were expecting one answer instead of listening to the multitude of answers you’ve been receiving. Even if there were 1000 women in this thread telling me this it wouldn't invalidate the studies which had tens of thousands of participants.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:54 AM
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Because men and women are different and casual sex is very much not in favor of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:52 AM
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I think it's more the people that can't accept reality because they don't suit their views. It's mostly guys flexing how much the women enjoyed it with them and women thinking that saying that women can't enjoy casual sex the same as men means women don't enjoy sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:50 AM
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Yes I am
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:46 AM
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why are the random women you heard on a podcast "the rule" and the women here who are telling you they enjoy casual sex are "the exceptions"? The women from the podcast I talked about were mere examples for the statistics and studies that have been gathered over the years. If all the people having the casual sex are honest about what they want and all choose to participate in it, then nobody is being used. The women who don't enjoy it are generally not going to have casual sex knowingly/on purpo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:46 AM
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Well short answer both parties aren't getting the same deal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:10 PM
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Others would say well informed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:09 PM
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How can one use someone else for something if he's gonna get more out of it than the other party?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:08 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:33 PM
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If this is what you understood from reading my post, I really am concerned
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:32 PM
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I live in reality, thanks for asking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:24 PM
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More like "can we stop talking about the reality that affects only 10% of women and instead talk about the one the remaining 90% experience?" Only because you don't like the reality it doesn't make it any less real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:18 PM
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Sex is not a binary, there is decent sex, which is what men are usually getting from casual sex, and there is not so good sex, which is what women report over and over again to have. It's an extremely small amount of women who can physically have a good experience reliably.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:16 PM
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The funny part is that they are likely to have enjoyed it more than you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:12 PM
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Maybe if you put that word into context instead of just pointing it out to trick people into thinking I'm basing my arguments on assumptions you'd actually understand my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:12 PM
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If you'd at least try to understand what I'm saying instead of acting like a 12y/o on his first phone, you'd actually understand what I meant. Also, I'm very sorry for the women you've slept with (if any), that gave you the impression that porn even somewhat resembles real life. After all, you wouldn't need to have any experience at all, since women not enjoying sex as much isn't exactly a secret, there are countless articles online about the satisfaction gap and the orgasm gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:08 PM
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No, in contrast to most people in this thread I don't use meaningless anecdotal experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:00 PM
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My logic is that if you feel horny you'd rather masturbate rather than take your time to seek for someone who maybe just maybe can satisfy your needs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:42 PM
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How can you say women enjoy it as much as men if they report less pleasure, less effort and an absolutely devastating orgasm gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:23 PM
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How does that have anything to do with most women not enjoying most casual sex encounters? Even if there were 3 times as many women in this world it would be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:21 PM
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No, that's not being used. It's being deceived. You know that being deceived and being used is very closely related What is your point here? So she used him for a date. And? It's supposed to be an example. But you know that this person doesn't care about you, and all you want out of it is sex, which you get, so you're not being used in this situation. You are using them just as much as they would be using you. It's a mutual agreement and both have the same intentions. Sex isn't a binary. There i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:19 PM
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Maybe you got me wrong, but I brought large examples of women talking about it NOT happening, or at least quite rarely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:12 PM
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Well you're not off. I think in your case it would depend on how happy you are with the decisions you took and how much you used them vs they used you, if you care at all. Either way, it's very anecdotal and I don't see how it's supposed to change the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:10 PM
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Have I said that every woman is asexual or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:07 PM
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The type of deal that you get out of it does not determine whether you used somebody or not. Your intentions and your actions determine that. That's incorrect, let's say you buy something online with the intention of getting a good deal for something and instead you get delivered a brick. You have been used regardless of your intention and actions. How is that any different for you than it is for a woman picking a man for sex? When dating someone things can be similar. Some girls act interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:06 PM
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Natural
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:55 PM
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I’ll chime in since I’m a woman. First off, just because there is an orgasm gap doesn’t mean that women don’t orgasm. Some women can orgasm very easily, and even multiple times; others can’t at all. There is a very wide range for women. What's the point in telling me this? I know women are not the same, and pointing out exceptions doesn't make them the rule. Second, just because a woman doesn’t orgasm doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy sex. For example, I don’t orgasm every time I have sex. It’s jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:50 PM
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Again, I'm talking about the real world, the experience that people have en masse, not some people trying to make points with their anecdotal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:46 PM
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In order to use someone for sex you have got to get a better deal out of it than the other person. If you pick a guy from an app, yeah you made the choice, but you're the one who is very likely to end up dissatisfied and disappointed, not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:43 PM
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No problem, you're not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:31 PM
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How long is it going to take for you guys to realize that the women are the ones using the guys for cheap sex, not the other way around? Seriously? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:30 PM
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Makes me think it's more about the last two, since the sex part isn't exactly known to be exceptionally good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:28 PM
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Have I ever said the contrary?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:54 PM
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Don't feel bad for that, everyone is a misogynist nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:53 PM
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I'm getting answers to my post, not to my question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:42 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:41 PM
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Valid points
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:35 PM
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Not as well And I was primarily talking about giving vs talking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:34 PM
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Agree, it must be hard to be different from pretty much everyone around you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:31 PM
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If you feel the desire to be sexual, would you rather satisfy it or engage in something that is most likely to leave you dissatisfied and craving?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:29 PM
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That about sums it up, but what I feel you're missing here is that for most women the casual sex doesn't have a high chance of "feeling good" at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:28 PM
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You're the first one to give an answer which makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:25 PM
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No you're just being nice because you love your partner and you like making your partner happy, if it was a stranger, you'd probably not want to give them a back massage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:24 PM
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I'm not complaining I'm asking why people would make decisions like that and I've not yet received any concrete answer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:22 PM
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No casual sex is a general term and casual sex is a specific type of sex. If you mean casual sex, you have to say casual sex, or else people are going to think you talk about sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:20 PM
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The women saying this on podcasts are women who like casual sex, find it pleasurable, and don't see themselves as being "used" by engaging in it. Maybe I explained myself wrong, but they said they didn't enjoy it most of the time and they felt used afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:18 PM
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Well first of all, it's far less than 45%, secondly, the women I was talking about had done it dozens of times, so they weren't just women who tried and didn't enjoy it, and lastly, if you feel used after having done something, it's not you not being able to deal with it, it's you doing something you know you shouldn't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:16 PM
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Is this supposed to be a kink of some kind or are you just utterly misinformed? Or are you joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:13 PM
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What I was saying is that women generally don't get as much out of it as men. I'm sure you can say you've enjoyed most of your encounters in every sense, but only few women can say the same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:10 PM
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Have you ever heard of stuff like the orgasm gap or the pleasure gap or the satisfaction gap? Some of the many things that tell us that the one party isn't getting nearly as much as the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:07 PM
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It's in favor of whoever wants it. No. You know men and women are different right? That's also for their genitalia. Different genitalia different experience. Have you heard of the orgasm gap? Or the pleasure gap? Well those are already heavy differences and they just get worse when talking about random hookups. You're not saying most women don't want casual sex, you're basically saying that no woman wants casual sex. You're making the assumption that a random woman who says she enjoyed he encoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:04 PM
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At least I don't talk bs on the internet. And I don't call people idiots when I realize the bs is not going through
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:58 PM
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Did you count them? Also do the women you talk about always enjoy casual sex or only 1 out of 10 encounters?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:56 PM
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I don't know about you, but if I was engaging in something that gives me far less than I give, I would call that "being used"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:55 PM
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Ever heard of the orgasm gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:28 PM
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Can we please leave the exceptions aside? I know some women are able to enjoy it but the exception doesn't make the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:27 PM
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The problem with the "fuck like men did" is that women don't work that way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:25 PM
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That's exactly my point, they may want the same thing, but they don't get the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:23 PM
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Yeah very rare, unless you're talking about porn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:22 PM
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It's not sex, it's casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:22 PM
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The funny thing is that the majority of veteran casual sex women say pleasure wasn't exactly a thing in most encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:21 PM
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I thought it was about tricking women into having more sex with men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:18 PM
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But I was talking about the general experience, sure there are a few women who can physically enjoy casual sex without any emotional connection but those are rare and they don't make the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:18 PM
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It's almost as if feminism doesn't really help women The women do this because they like sex just like men do. Also it is a way of women to never have to admit that they got used. Most women do not like to have sex with numerous guys who think nothing of them but a warm body to stick it in. Rather than admit that they don't like this intimacy free casual sex, many women double down and say that they in fact like this string free sex as a way to supress the fact that they are often used. The prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:16 PM
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I see, you're onto something here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:11 PM
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Until you set "casual" before the "sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:09 PM
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Realistically it's extremely rare for that even to be possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:09 PM
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Your question comes from the assumption that casual sex exists to serve men That's one way to put it, I'd say casual sex is way more in favor of men generally Some women like casual sex Those few who do don't make the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:08 PM
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Well in the very rare occasions when she actually enjoys it...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:05 PM
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Literally like 90% of hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:03 PM
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Of course it depends on what you mean by "being used". For me, for example, giving more than receiving is a form of being used
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:03 PM
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I was talking about casual hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:00 PM
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Assuming that women don't like sex is just as wrong as assuming that women's sexuality is like men's
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:00 PM
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If marriage to you is "his turn with you" you might as well just stay unmarried. In fact this goes for anything that isn't "until death does us apart". If you're planning to break your vow before even taking it, you might as well just leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:32 AM
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I never understood the claim of "female hypergamy", if 20% of men are getting 80% of women, wouldn't that make men hypergamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:24 AM
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Let's say that having parents raising you with the idea that having children is nothing but a burden and oppression high chance is you'd not want children yourself either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:18 PM
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They say parents are the best teachers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:16 PM
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Same sex attraction is a disorder that isn't transmitted by parents. (Unless we're talking about indoctrination or something but that usually doesn't really make you gay) so it's something that always was a thing and probably always will be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:41 PM
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In my experience it comes from a town called Stupidity in the state of Ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:53 AM
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The 2000-2010 is arguable but what I can definitely say is that this decade sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:30 PM
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Yeah 100%, like seriously most posts are either written in 5 minutes or the journalist straightup have no clue what they're writing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:27 PM
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I think they mean the relative frequency, not the absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:04 PM
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I think it's more about the fact that both must be up to it. In heterosexual relationships men are unlikely to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:03 PM
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Lol true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:54 PM
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I think it's about finding a woman who can enjoy sex as easily as you, but everyone with a little bit of understanding knows that that is even harder than finding a woman with a sexual desire as high as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:53 PM
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It's similar to body height. No one is responsible for his body height and no one is responsible for her body functions either. What you should know is that just like some girls ignore guys shorter than 6' and find themselves with fairly few options, you'll also have a very hard time finding a girl like that. What I'm saying is that there are very, very few women who can reach orgasm after 5min of penetration. So statistically speaking out of the 20% of women who can orgasm from penetration you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:50 PM
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a dude says he's looking for a relationship to get sex, but women rarely know if that's the case. You'd be surprised to hear how many women I've seen complaining about exactly that. And no they didn't see it coming at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:10 PM
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So many people are being labeled as misogynistic nowadays the word completely lost its significance. Like, what do you call actual misogynists?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:43 PM
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How do we defined being “used” for sex? If we sleep together and I think your vagina sucks or you aren’t good at giving head so I decline to call you back is that “using you”? Lol I want my money back What I meant is when guys act like they're interested, have sex with her and then leave. Most of the time when a woman gets “ghosted” or “pumped and dumped” after sex it’s because she sucks(same thing for men btw) What is the equivalent of pumped and dumped for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:57 PM
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Why do they only complain after being used then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:25 AM
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Good point here. You remembered me of this one quote from American Pie that was something like "Did she just use you for sex?" - "Yes, and I loved it!" Also this trade free stuff for sex seems to be very popular in some circles
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:10 AM
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To some extent sure, but not completely
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:47 AM
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But at the same time there aren't many women agreeing in having sex at the first 1-2 dates either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:05 AM
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If it wasn't scientifically proven that both men and women peak in sexual frequency and desire right after puberty. So saying that women have an increase in their 30's would be true under circumstances but saying that women peak in their 30's is straight up exaggerated. If women in their 30's were like teenage boys believe me their husbands would notice (and love) that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:18 AM
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Tell that to men in their 30's and 40's being the ones complaining the most about not having enough sex. Why 30? Is it supposed to be a magic number or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:17 PM
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Oh I see, so because you are different every other woman also must be this way. Hm guess all the research made on male and female psychology was useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:05 PM
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Men ☕☕☕
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:55 PM
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All i can think of is "My dIcK iS So BiG GorLs ThiNk ThEy hAvE VaGiNisMuS"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:23 PM
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Subtle flex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:00 PM
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Women and men have different motivations just as they are different in many other things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:29 AM
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While I don't have enough knowledge to fully agree with you, it's also important to note that the situation in which the woman is in the mood and the man isn't is way less common than vice versa. In fact, many of the responders in your Q4M have also said that it's not common for that to happen, and thus hadn't a problem with that. So in order to sexually satisfy all one's partner's needs women would be having to be in this situation way more often than men, making it harder and more exhausting. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:01 AM
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Probably, or it's really just used as an excuse. Surely has happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:50 AM
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I've heard women mistake "vaginismus" for "his shlong is too big". You know, some people believe"the bigger the better" but in reality it can very easily get too big
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:24 AM
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If we're talking about women, then yes, women unlike men don't just have sex for the sake of having sex, it's not nearly as much about the physical experience than it is about the intimate/emotional experience. Women are more emotionally motivated, so yeah the more the is attracted to you the more she is gonna want it. It's about both physical and emotional attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:20 AM
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Nah just wanted to say that since you kinda touched this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:43 PM
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While I agree, I must add, that if men had as easy access to sex as women, men would be screwing around 24/7. Men are kept from being promiscuous whether they want it or not. You can really see that by looking at the men who actually have easy access to sex by how much they're having.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:39 PM
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What does this have to do with women being oversexualized?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:00 PM
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Do you feel used and empty when you go to an expensive restaurant just to find out the food is overpriced? Do you also feel used and empty when you finally arrive to a new city only to realize it's an expensive tourist trap? Of course not, you feel annoyed and disappointed, not traumatized. I'd feel scammed. Which is exactly how those women described it, also, feeling guilty or shamed without anyone shaming you is also a sign of those feelings coming from the person itself and not so much from s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:54 PM
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Well the problem is that if you portray women in general to be more sexual than they really are you'll end up only representing those few women who really are more sexual than the average woman. Every other woman is not able to enjoy hookups the same way men and those few other women do. That's why oversexualizing anyone is not healthy. You don't need to look for long and you'll find countless women talking about what they were "promised" from hookups vs how it really was.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:08 PM
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Wait what does this have to do with some feminists oversexualizing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:25 AM
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Well if you look at what is known as feminism today and compare it to what feminism was in it's origins you'd see that modern feminism has moved to partially even contradict what original feminism taught, as for example sex work and promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:35 AM
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Feeling used and worthless for having sex implies there's something wrong about sex. This is not a feeling you get from doing things you're uninterested in when those things aren't stigmatized. The fact that you rarely hear men saying the same after having casual sex reflects the differences between how women are treated for having casual sex and men doing the same. Again, there's a lot of research that supports the fact that women are still stigmatized for having sex and rejected by both men an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:29 AM
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It's more like "understandable"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:17 PM
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That it's a yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:15 PM
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Guessing from your account history, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:07 PM
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Oh wait, actually yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:59 AM
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Seeing things on a large scale means NOT to look at individuals, since it's too hard to see a huge amount of people in each detail. It means to see outside the box, seeing people as a whole and, yes there are gonna be outliners, but those few outliners don't make the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:58 AM
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Actually, women who feel bad for being promiscuous in their past often say the opposite, that they were encouraged by friends or such to do certain things but the more they did these said things the more they felt used, worthless and not desired for what they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:52 AM
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That's what I was saying. The prize thing was supposed to be an example for other types of exaggerations. I agree with the first paragraph, as for the second one, I'm pretty sure I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:48 AM
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Yeah right? Modern feminism has completely lost touch to what feminism actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:44 AM
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It's a bit like smoking, it's legal but not healthy and most people regret it. So promoting sex work is more like tricking people into doing something that's not good for them on the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:52 PM
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My bad, I meant promoting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:44 PM
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I'm not talking about individuals I'm talking about the great picture, something that affects people on the large scale
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:02 PM
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The thing is that it's not about supporting sex workers, they're straight up prompting sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:57 PM
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Well feminism originally was about women's rights and freedoms, not about industry and profit making
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:55 PM
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Sure it is for some, but what I was saying is that some feminists promote OF and sex work in general and label it as "sexually liberating"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:00 PM
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Because you are telling them "your sex is the only valuable thing about you, so you better not flaunt it for others to see, otherwise no one will buy the cow". If women's sexuality was seen as the only valuable thing about them then I'm sure it wouldn't have been hidden away for everyone NOT to see. In contrast, I believe that people back then used to dress properly because everyone was religious and, most importantly, women weren't sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:59 PM
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Men oversexualize women. Yeah, men do that too And modern feminists realized that you can monetize that oversexualization. Isn't that like a contradiction? Some feminists say "stop oversexualizing women" and others say "keep oversexualizing women to facilitate monetization" Modern women have also stopped shaming each other for promiscuity, so the social pressure to remain “pure” and “innocent” is gone. Men have historically relied on women to “keep each other in check” while men have their cake …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:52 PM
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That's like the opposite of sexualisation OVERsexualization is a different thing tho. It's like overpricing, giving something a higher price even tho it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:36 PM
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Really? I'd say it's peaking now, where selling your body for money on OF or selling your body for nothing in hookups is seen as "sexual liberation". Maybe it's just new methods
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:32 PM
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Because of the way women have been socialized and treated by society for the past few thousand years, they are basically brainwashed into thinking that their SEX is the most valuable thing about them. In essence, their sex contains all of their value as a human being. That's funny because for the past thousand years until a few decades ago, women who would show anything that could be seen as sexy would be shamed to death You can see this pattern everywhere in our culture. Need to sell a product?…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:29 PM
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I'm sure the original feminists would die of disappointment if they saw what is known as feminism today
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:23 PM
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What I mean with oversexualization is that some people out there wish to portray and move women to be more sexual than they really are. As for men, I don't know any instance where this has happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:20 PM
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The problem is that too many women file for divorce for the most ridiculous and insignificant reasons possible. I think a reason for that is the fact that the state incentivizes women to file divorce by giving her access to a ridiculous amount of assets etc. There are women who have made a fortune just by marrying and divorcing rich men without even having to move a finger. Some call modern women "pussies" for the bizarre reasons some give for divorcing but to be honest most men would do the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:30 AM
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Cause it's not as easy as it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:20 AM
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What about league of legends?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:51 PM
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What about pairing up with someone in your league?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:49 AM
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Wouldn't know. Hard to tell without any statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:25 PM
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But the autistic and socially handicapped people only make up a small percentage of the people in this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:02 PM
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Dear sir or madam, What I was saying is that men and women are indeed different as a whole, but there also are differences in those two groups as a whole, to the point that you can't do generalizations such as "all women do this/that" or "every man is the same". I hope I was able to clarify my statement and I wish you a pleasant day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:04 PM
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No, I would say most problems in this sub are caused by women who don't know how men operate, and won't admit to how they operate. Men in this sub on the other hand tend to be quite familiar with the nature of both sexes and process information as-it-is in a logical manner. Yeah well, some people don't know, and some people know but don't accept Everyone is not the same, but everyone is similar which means most people function in patterns that can be recognized. I think it's important to underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:59 AM
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Agree, also many people think that saying eg. "men do this" means "EVERY man does this" which is just wrong. Generalizations are necessary in order to keep things simple but people always have to keep in mind that there are exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:55 AM
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Men's pair bonding ability actually suffers more from casual sex than women's
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:27 AM
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Most red pillers are too extreme to be religious. I've seen too many dropping radical statements and then "bUt ThE BibLe SaYs" followed by a completely off-topic bible quote. Seriously, as a religious person seeing people do this cringes me out. Also most red pillars are like "women must be virgins and pure but they're fully ok with sleeping around and taking pride in it, which no religious person would ever do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:16 AM
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Where did you get this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:45 PM
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That's probably the most Hollywood BS I've ever heard
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:43 PM
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I think you mixed up something with there Men are believed to be naturally hypergamous. They were supposed to impregnate as many women as possible to spread their genes and procreate. Women being hypergamous wouldn't really make sense, why would an already pregnant woman sleep with many different men? It wouldn't make sense in terms of procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:56 PM
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So they are hooking up despite not really wanting to hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:24 PM
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Believe it or not but women, especially "average" women don't look for hookups anywhere as much as you may be thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:02 PM
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I think the desire might be there depending on the situation but no man who respects his wife would just cheat on her like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:13 AM
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I'm sure you can maintain your sexually attractive vibe even if you stay loyal to your wife. Being married doesn't necessarily mean becoming less attractive. On the other hand, cheating doesn't necessarily make you more attractive. In addition, the longer Brad keeps cheating on his wife, the more likely she is to find out, so this relationship wouldn't work on the long run. If I was Brad, I wouldn't have married in the first place and instead just continued to "rizz up" women or maybe find someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:35 AM
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What I meant with unfair is that men have a "headstart", so it's necessary for men to put in higher effort in order to level it out. And only few are willing to do that. I think obesity is also a very good example you gave, I may be wrong but I feel like people reduce their effort to be attractive after marriage since their attractiveness "already served it's purpose"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:43 AM
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r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:01 PM
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Yeah, biology is often unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:52 PM
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Sure, stress and exhaustion are bad for one's sex drive, as is lack of intimacy. But generally men find it easier to have sex regardless, I mean men are known to be very stressed, to the point men are more prone to suffer from heart attacks as a result of the mentioned stress etc they face in their lifetime. Still, men initiate sex way more often. Another reason for that might also be the fact that sex for men is deeper rooted and with that straightforward, no significant need for intimacy or fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:54 PM
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It's natural for one's interest to drop after maybe 2 months, but it's a phenomenon that is especially prevalent in women. I mean, even on r/deadbedroom it's mainly men complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:07 PM
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You seem to forget that men face about two thirds of the things you mentioned as well. It's not as if men could walk around manifesting their sexuality without restraint. If a woman talks about sex to random men, she may be slut shamed, if a man talks about sex to random women, he may be charged with sexual harassment. So no, society isn't nicer to men than it is to women. So stop acting as if women are suppressed and men are privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:54 PM
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Believe me, once you reach a certain level of hornyness, you'd be ready to fuck any attractive rando.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:16 PM
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I assume you're talking about ovulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:16 PM
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No and I'm tired of seeing people claiming this. Men think about sex, masturbate, desire sex and initiate sex more than women in every society, culture at every age. Being with the right person boosts women's sexual desire as the need for intimacy rises, but even in the early stages of relationships the sex drive doesn't come close to men's on average and the longer the relationship lasts the worse it gets. So yes being with the right person helps, since women, unlike men, generally appreciate i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:15 PM
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I'd say love, sex, support, stuff like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:53 AM
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Who said it wasn’t favouring him or that it’s a bad deal. If they're both wanting and enjoying it at the same level AND she wants extra stuff like getting paid, that's not a fair deal, right? So you’re a woman, what do you think men get from their long-term romantic relationships with women (assuming their is no kids involved)? I could only guess, there are so many things men could get from a relationship like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:44 AM
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Yeah, but what I am saying is why would the man continue the relationship if he's getting a bad deal? If a relationship isn't favoring you why continue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:37 AM
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Well then let me ask you why does the partner of those women still keep the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:26 AM
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It's not a binary, it's a question of how much. Women generally crave, value, enjoy, desire, and seek sex not to the same extent as men. It's something you can see in every society and age in history. If this wasn't true sex work would practically not exist, casual sex would be standard, men AND women in LTRs would have less trouble with mismatched sexual desire etc. This imbalance makes the room for bargaining, since the one party is getting less than the other and people usually don't enjoy ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:19 AM
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For men sex may be more than sex because they crave it more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:24 AM
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There are two things that could've happened here: 1) you won the lottery 2) they were faking it because they wanted it to be over asap
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:22 AM
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That's like one of those pornhub comments of virgins bragging in hope for some validation while not knowing that most women can't even orgasm from penetration because all their knowledge about sex comes from porn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:19 AM
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Might as well come down to just the sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:16 AM
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Its really weird when I see women on askredditafterdark telling me sex doesn't matter and I check their profile and they have an onlyfans and tons of nude pics and R4R ads on their account. Or i read their comments and they admit their body count and its like 30 guys. Being on Onlyfans does not mean one wants sex a lot. It just means one is monetizing one's own body. Also body count doesn't necessarily mean the person loves sex, many women sleep around to get validation or free stuff. Some men o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:13 AM
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That's so sad actually
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:14 AM
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How does it help?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:12 PM
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The evidence for women not enjoying sex as much relies mainly on womens self reported experiences. That's true. Generally, Men don't suck more in bed than women, and women aren't more skilled in bed than men. It's more a matter of sex organs and the dynamics that come with it. This causes men to be satisfied more easily, so bad sex for men is still kinda good. Now, while some view this as a "male privilege" it's biology's fault, so no one's to be blamed. It's like the difference in muscle mass. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:49 PM
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Oh excuse me for mansplaining, reality is overrated anyway. I hope no one wrests you from your naive dreamworld.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:24 PM
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You know what YOU enjoy and what you don't. You don't know how other women feel and can't do any significant comparisons with men. If a woman with vaginismus did the same as you did, namely assuming that every woman is the same as her, she would say that sex for women is painful and not worth anything. What we have to do instead is to look at how things are on the large scale, since we're not talking about individual experiences but about women and men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:07 PM
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Well, it's because it isn't unless in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:42 PM
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Ah yes, the "women enjoy sex just as men, they just don't enjoy it with YOU!" Truth is not an ideology you can change however it fits you. Truth is truth whether you like it or not. You can either embrace or reject it, even tho rejecting it is just not gonna solve anything, but convincingly spreading lies like this is just tasteless. Seriously I invite you to do some research on the internet before throwing claims like nothing. 5 minutes is usually enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:40 PM
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Glad you're fair enough to admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:28 PM
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No, but for some reason I feel like someone is not okay with how things really are, which is sort of unfavorable, since reality can't be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:11 PM
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Nah, speaking for myself would be very off. Since I have actual knowledge of how things are on the large scale I feel very confident talking other than just assuming and making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:53 PM
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Problem being that casual sex sucks more often than not and that orgasms are rarer than gold in a coal mine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:13 AM
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Glad you brought up sex workers, see I understand sex workers because they're being paid for doing this. Even the escorts who can pick which men to have sex with are getting paid so well it's crazy. Ok, sex work and casual sex isn't the same, but the difference between 500 bucks an hour and pretty much for free is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:25 AM
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It's the same as with the popular girl. The girl everyone had a crush on in highschool and everyone kinda simped for. She knows she is popular and could be with pretty much anyone she wants. She has options, so she could allow herself to walk over everyone else. I don't know if this actually happens but I hope this explains it in theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:11 AM
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That must be the most interesting reason for loving feminism I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:52 PM
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Ayo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:50 PM
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Yeah I mean there sure must be a reason for women to do so. What I've heard, for every good-to-excellent partner women have casual sex with they have like 10 who are disappointing to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:49 PM
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I'm always trying to view everything from a wide perspective. Since I was old enough to read research papers I found myself looking for the answers to my questions. Believe it or not, I had many questions regarding human sexuality. I don't want to be boring so I'll keep it as short as possible. While women the way you explained exist, they are very uncommon. In fact it's more likely for a man to be the way you explained than a woman. Also the multiple orgasm thing is a very overrated thing, sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:46 PM
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So basically, society is too capitalistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:18 PM
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The problem is that sex differences aren't as much cultural as they are biological. So forcing men and women to be as similar as possible is not possible in the long term. All that can be done is to not shame people for how they are and acknowledge the differences the same way we acknowledge differences between races and try to make it work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:16 PM
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Yeah people tend to be very different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:38 PM
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Well everyone has his reasons. I guess you are a very generous person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:38 PM
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I don't know how your experience is with this topic, but generally speaking men in casual hookups don't really care about their partner so it's not gonna be as exciting for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:51 PM
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Exactly. Since most men don't really care whether their partner is enjoying it since they'll probably not even see each other again, it's usually not as thrilling for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:48 PM
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Giving consent doesn't mean you can't be used. It's like the stereotypical scenario of the guy seducing the unexperienced girl into having sex with Jim just for him to disappear the next morning. Now this isn't always the way casual sex is like but still generally speaking women give more than they receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:45 PM
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Women being harder to please is a reason why some women are promiscuous If a woman is looking for good sex she'd either do it herself or look for a relationship with someone who actually cares for her. Hookups are not a good source for pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:37 PM
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How that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:42 PM
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There is a lot of generalizations in this post Yeah I made a lot of generalizations, it would have been way longer otherwise but I think most people are not assuming I'm doing any exclusions. These men are unconsciously aware that they have multiple opens and dont have to commit to any. They get the benefits of having relations with multiple women without really giving them anything in return Yeah I forgot to talk about this. This is what allowes these men to treat women like crap. Sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:40 PM
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Men will always have a higher demand for sex, while women will always have a lower supply. It's biological. It's no one's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:34 PM
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Is it relevant to her decision if the man expects to benefit more than she does? No, it's her decision. But if she is brought into thinking she is not being used when in reality she is, that's not optimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:33 PM
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Because some people might enjoy being used, while others are tricked into thinking they're not when they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:29 PM
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There are some studies showing that women are more likely to have orgasms with more attractive men, I think. I heard of a study like this, don't know tho. Seems weird tho. All I know that women's orgasm rates on random hookups is like 10% or something like, very, very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:26 PM
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I'm not saying that women don't get horny, I'm saying that women aren't as horny as men. Men and women have a very different sexuality. But yeah I agree, some people have a different perception of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:18 PM
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So reality must be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:04 PM
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Interesting view. So what are the "real culprits" in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:03 PM
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I'm not interfering with that in any way. I'm not here to make people change their sex life. It's a CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:01 PM
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Nah you're good. It's a discussion after all so as long as you're not breaking the rules everything's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:57 PM
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Hm so science must be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:54 PM
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Don't know if I understood you right, but I wasn't saying it's NOT beneficial for women, I was saying it's LESS beneficial for women. Generally speaking if people engage in stuff over and over again, there must be a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:53 PM
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Where the hell is the judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:50 PM
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If a man is having sex with a woman significantly less attractive than him, then I'm sorry to tell you but he's solely using her body and nothing else. So firstly, I'd not be as sure about the fun she's having and secondly good luck with making him fall in love. May have happened but this is the way it usually goes. BTW lying about using birth control is an offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:50 PM
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Well who would not want to live in a place where women are horny af.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:40 PM
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If it was this simple things would be very different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:38 PM
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That's exactly what I was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:34 PM
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In what world do you live in? Might consider moving there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:32 PM
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The dating market isn't much different than the sex market after all, so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:52 PM
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Tbh most men who date women like this are only into sex anyway. They're basically trading dinner for sex. Ofc there are also women who just bail after the first date never to be seen again but I feel like that's a minority. So yes I totally agree with you with the exception that the women who do so may think they're favoring themselves when in reality all they're doing is being less expensive escorts, so the date for sex system actually favors men way more despite being seen as "empowering" by w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:14 AM
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I think it's more about elsely unobtainable pleasures than status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:42 PM
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Just saying - if society, religion, cultures and other similar institutions didn't exist men would be absolutely raping everyone like animals do. So saying that men are taught to seek harder for sex than they actually would is dubious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:38 PM
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How is keeping someone safe "controlling"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:00 AM
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Yes, and that's what I was talking about. The desire is the largest factor that determines someone's demand for sex. If the difference of this factor in people was non-existent, it would greatly assimilate the supply-demand for sex. Now, I know that sex is just a part of sexuality and sexuality is only part of relationships, but it would make a significant difference nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:17 PM
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That definitely plays a role
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:07 PM
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Yeah, I mean, yeah (it's clear)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:06 PM
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I'm not saying that libido is absent (not having sex), I was saying that libido is different in both partners (one of them desires more sex) in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:50 PM
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I know it's arguable but I'd still say that homosexual relationships are easier. I mean, less differences = less problems. As far as I understand the problems you mentioned are caused by differences (e.g. if your gay friend was a fuckboy too, he wouldn't have problems with other fuck boys). Of course having the same sexuality doesn't solve all the problems, but definitely a great part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:39 AM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:33 AM
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Haha yeah, the lesbian market is like communist Chinese planned economy and the gay market is like a black market auction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:33 PM
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I'd say no. It doesn't make changes to the body. Men and women would still have the same setup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:29 PM
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Haha, yeah. I've never thought about the effects it would have on other markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:28 PM
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Have you tried? Would you recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:26 PM
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Disagree. If the difference in libido influences the amount of sex long term relationship partners have it surely does to casual sex also.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:25 PM
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Agree with you for the most part. As for the edit, yeah the difference in quality would still make a difference and influence the market. But I wouldn't know what to do except for the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:23 PM
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I don't know many people that deny these. Lucky you. I sadly do But these have been used in the past to place one sex above the other. There's nothing wrong with unpacking these things and reevaluating them. Yes I believe that using differences like these to do things like these is just ridiculous and childish. It's like those guys who bully other guys for hitting puberty later.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:14 PM
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Well denying fundamental differences like sexuality or physical strength is a good example I think. It's not many people who do so but these few tend to get a whole lot of attention. I don't consider these differences to be harmful at all and it definitely doesn't mean the one gender is better than the other. IMO it's the contrary, by repressing differences one causes a lot of confusion and unawareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:48 PM
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Bon appetit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:37 PM
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Well masturbation and sex are part of human sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:26 PM
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This would surely add to it, but this raises the question: if the orgasm chance is 100% (which is the case in masturbation) why are men still so much more inclined to masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:53 PM
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I think genital configuration is something no one is responsible for, so no one should be blamed. On the other hand, many men don't know about this and live after the "if it feels good for me it feels good for her" principe they probably got from porn. There are more men like this then there are men straight up refusing to do at least SOMETHING something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:32 PM
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Yes hands don't involve penetration. Those are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:23 PM
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U good?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:21 PM
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Orgasms have more to do with genital configuration, so no, but lack of pleasure isn't the only reason why women's sexuality is different. I mean, just look at masturbation. Women can get themselves off every time they want but still do so waaay less than men. So yes, masturbation frequency would be very similar in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:09 PM
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You're absolutely right, but there are people who don't even recognize or even repress the fact that there is no difference in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:05 PM
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THIS! No seriously, you have no idea how often I've seen people repress the most obvious and basic gender differences for the sake of "feminism".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:02 PM
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Ah yes, the society is always and solely fault
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:55 PM
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I wanted to stay as general as possible. If you specify too much people are going to deviate from the topic very quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:54 PM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:25 PM
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As obvious as it is, there still are people who somehow manage to repress this fact. I guess some will just always be willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:24 PM
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Uh yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:55 AM
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No way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:44 AM
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Ok so let me understand since you're a woman you can tell that women are somehow as horny as men, and the reason why most people think men are hornier isn't because it's true but it's because women don't show it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:42 AM
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What do you mean in point 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:16 PM
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Huh what are you talking about? Only women have risks when having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:15 PM
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Saying that women love one night stands because some have had some good experiences is like saying that men are rapists because some have raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:11 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:23 PM
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Yeah I was talking about sexuality in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:51 AM
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Yeah, haha, I triggered many people. I think the title is too provoking, I feel like most didn't even read the post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:50 AM
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And men who have a crazy amount of options
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:45 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:43 AM
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At least you're admitting not to having read my post. There are so many comments thinking I'm starting a petition to make sex a basic human right and make women openly accessable or something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:42 AM
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Did you even read my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:40 AM
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So you're assuming I'm a red pill incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:39 AM
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No you don't. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:37 AM
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Did you even read the post or did you stop at the title?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:37 AM
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I was never talking about myself. And no I'm no 300lbs virgin incel sitting in mom's basement complaining about women not wanting me as you seem to assume. I'm in a sexually active relationship so it's nothing I'm really missing too much. My argument was that people with lower sex drives telling guys what they have to be/feel like is like telling a person with Tourette not to swear in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:36 AM
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Yeah i was talking about sexual activity in general, some women view men as animals for being so sexual active with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:46 PM
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Agree, I think that's also the reason why so many men objectify women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:44 PM
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Yo are you like a therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:42 PM
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Ok but that's more because that's what they see in porn. Furthermore, i must admit that I am glad that I can literally just PIV and be satisfied. It's unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:41 PM
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Yeah my bad, i though it was clear that it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:38 PM
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So in other words it's like, women are not as easy to please as men. That would make a lot of sense. I wouldn't necessarily say women are naturally more skilled in pleasing than men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:37 PM
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I've got this question a lot, check my edit ☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:35 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:33 PM
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Did you even read my explanation? Especially the edit at the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:24 PM
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Yeah it's not worlds apart. And i never said it was. I said there is a significant difference, not that women are asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:23 PM
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Yeah i heard a similar story
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:20 PM
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That's what I was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:13 PM
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That's exactly the point. I wasn't talking about intimacy at all, but sexuality (sex, masturbation, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:13 PM
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Occasionally, especially when I'm up for sex but my SO isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:07 PM
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Besides never having talked about myself, i was referring to sexuality, not only sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:04 PM
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Very important, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:03 PM
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Well tell me then, why would you possibly say you masturbate less instead of saying the truth if no one is even gonna know you even took part on this research? More importantly, even if women are less likely to look at porn or masterbate that says nothing about their desires to have relationships nor does it say anything about what their desire for sex would be in a happy and satisfying relationship. I never even talked about that. And regarding my relationship status, i am happily together with…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:02 PM
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What legends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:47 PM
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So basically, men suck in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:47 PM
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Is there any therapy for testosterone addicts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:45 PM
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Sounds pretty normal to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:43 PM
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The oddballs who haunt nofap:
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:43 PM
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"essential OR very much desirable" in this case, the ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:41 PM
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In fact I'm so willfully ignorant, that I base all my claims on large scale researches. In contrast, i haven't seen any base to any of your claims
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:39 PM
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True. It's necessary to find a balance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:36 PM
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I bet you get a lot of slut shaming for having taken part in an unanimous Research among 20000 other people The horny women you're talking about are the top (far right) 10% in the gaussian bell curve of sexuality and with that just a rare as (almost) asexual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:35 PM
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What i was saying is that the motivations might be different, but the goal is the same (harassment)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:32 PM
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I think it's more a matter of definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:31 PM
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I was talking about sexuality in general, not only sex and definitely not about intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:30 PM
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I don't think anyone is gonna blame you. Unless you start going around telling random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:29 PM
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I think it's more a matter of definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:28 PM
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I don't know ask the people who said it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:28 PM
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How did you manage to go from "some women not understanding men" to "men aren't getting laid enough"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:26 PM
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Never said sex was masturbation And for the statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:22 PM
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Wise words
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:19 PM
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"require (something) because it is essential or very important rather than just desirable" ~Oxford Languages Doesn't say anything like "requirement for life"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:18 PM
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Check my edit ☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:16 PM
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Bruh I'm literally talking about actual research that has been made on this topic and so many people being ignorant and still talking causing biased information to spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:16 PM
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Most of them are being kept away/keeping themselves away from women, and I think i don't have to talk about the countless incidents mainly with minors...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:13 PM
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I think it's more a matter of definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:12 PM
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Yes, I think it's more a matter of definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:08 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:08 PM
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As for the need, I think it's more a matter of definition. As for the rest I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:07 PM
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I said SOME people don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:06 PM
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Either way there is a consistency on what the goal is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:03 PM
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I think it's more a matter of definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:01 PM
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It's more of a matter of definition. Still mad important tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:00 PM
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That's what I was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:58 PM
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That's literally what I said in paragraph 3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:58 PM
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Do you know what you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:57 PM
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I know this feeling. But the hornyness you're talking about is linked to the desire you have to be intimate with another person, as far as I understand. The hornyness I was mainly talking about is the hornyness that comes for no apparent reason. It's something that engulfs you with desires to be sexual without being necessarily provocated. Once it has you, you start to change. Your blood boils in adrenaline, your limbs start to shake, your mind seems to have lost its ability to focus and it seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:15 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that. Luckily I didn't experience anything like that (except for the first one) but I know plenty of guys who did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:02 PM
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Do you consider yourself a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:48 PM
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Or the bottom 10% men in terms of sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:26 PM
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So what you're saying is that 95% of women in a relationship are with men they don't find sexually attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:24 PM
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Same, but to be honest I don't find OF appealing whatsoever. At least not in a way I would spend money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:23 PM
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What exactly do you want to say with this research?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:27 PM
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That's probably due to the fact that most OF content creators are women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:22 PM
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Enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:08 PM
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And still, there are countleds people willing to say otherwise even when confronted with actual proof
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:01 PM
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You don't know how often i got this. Getting a sex worker every day is not financially sustainable. In fact rich men prefer going with younger women, which is not only healthier but also the cleaner option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:59 PM
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Plus they're trying to convince you that YOU are brainwashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:11 PM
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Congrats, bro What exactly do you mean with bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:04 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:02 PM
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I'm not a rapper so I can't tell what moves people like that but you can be sure that rap and harassment wouldn't be nearly as much of a thing if men had lower desire for sex/the desire was met.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:01 PM
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Yes and it's far more than that. Many say that casual sex just isn't appealing for women but it's by far not only casual sex but literally every other aspect of human sexuality reflects this difference. Even in LTRs and married couples men generally desire sex more often despite there being close to no social influence or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:59 PM
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Exactly, now try to explain this to certain persons...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:54 PM
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Isn't that being il love with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:49 PM
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Usually no, at least that's not how it should be, but sadly there are being more and more women who can't provide anything else than just their own body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:14 AM
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Yes, in fact men that have a high amount of options start going for quality or start treating their partners with disregard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:12 AM
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Huh? If men hate women why are there so many relationships, marriages, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:10 AM
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That's also my guess. I know there are couples in which the woman has a higher sex drive, but I also believe that couples like that are very rare. In fact statistically seen only 20% of women and 10% of men say HER sex drive is higher than HIS. Shaming is sadly not uncommon at all tho, there are many insults like the one you mentioned or "Women are just as horny as men they just don't walk around harassing and rapping everything that has a hole" or "Women want as much sex, you're just a shitty p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:09 AM
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Wow that summarizes it pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:53 AM
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More like, was it worth it? I mean, you archieved what pretty much every guy dreams of, but was it worth the consequences? Or didn't you care too much about school?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:52 AM
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Thanks a lot, I was considering pulling out the facts, you saved me a lot of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:49 AM
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If you ask people like that this question the answer you'd get is something like: "No but that's because women are not allowed to do so." I'm sick of hearing that. Blaming every problem on society isn't gonna help at all. Then there is the "Women want just as much sex as men, they just don't want to have sex with YOU". Not even knowing how the guy actually is. And all of that is even more absurd if you know the actual facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:47 AM
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My bad, I ended up typing a whole essay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:44 PM
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Is it personal experience? Apart from the nerve endings thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:42 PM
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I don't doubt that. I never heard anything about a different level of hornyness in the studies I read. Although, might be close to impossible to measure. But you have to keep in mind that hornyness for women tends to be more emotional rather than purely physical. Plus, I heard some trans people say the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:41 PM
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I think it may go both sides. But if some guys would finally understand that women don't wanna have sex all day they may quit harassing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:35 PM
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To be fair, I have no idea why anyone would harass other people if not with the belief that they are eventually gonna archieve anything by doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:29 PM
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Do you consider it a good or a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:27 PM
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Agree, it almost always comes to extremes. Some say it's 1:1 the same if not more, some say women have 0 sex drive at all. The problem ist that this only applies to only maybe 10% of women. I know it's easier to just extremize/generalize everything buts it's just wrong. That's why I gave my best not to do so in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:22 PM
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I'm totally with you, but there are SO MANY people who say otherwise it's just crazy. Just look at my Post alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:19 PM
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What I was saying is that it's harmful to say most men are NOT hornier/interested kn sex than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:18 PM
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I don't get how these parameter couldn't be analyzed in Form of statistics. There have been done countless large scale researches on this topic. I'm not talking about some wannabe self-reported stuff like in journals or Magazins, I'm talking about actual researches and those speak actual facts. And even if all the data of every research was off from reality by some bits, there is still a significant difference that can't be overseen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:17 PM
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There is always a factor of validation to that, the question is to what extent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:41 PM
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Men just have a higher desire for sex. More desire more demand and more supply, so you start looking for quality. Women have a lower desire for sex. Less desire more demand but less supply, so you have to adapt and go for quantity in oder to have any chance to get sex. It's as easy as that. This concept alone makes the majority of the reasons. Of course there is also fewer risks etc but that's nowhere close to make that difference on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:00 PM
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Yes, the only difference between men and women is the gender. And those different hormones bring a lot of difference at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:42 PM
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There is an undeniable unbalance in the supply-demand of sex between men and women mainly due to the difference in sexual desire. As a result, a man who has the ability to attract women to a point in which they would actually sleep with him, he has all rights to be seen as special. Not only socially but also statistically seen. Only few men can afford this. Luxury. On the other hand, for a woman to get a man into bed is no real archivement. After all, this supply-demand balance causes men to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:39 PM
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I was talking about the fact that as soon as there is ONE woman having a sex drive high enough to look for a FWB online there are thousands of guys straight up simping around like the fish in a fisherman's net.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:26 PM
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And there are still people who think women and men have the same sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:55 PM
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"It sucks! I'm so precious and beautiful, I'm a queen but men just want to have sex with me. Men are just horny animals they can't control their sex drive (cause I can definitely speak for every man since I know how it is to be a in a man's body). Selling nudes online 5 minutes later for the price of a Hamburger at McDonald's.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:40 AM
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Well not exactly
/r/MensRights28/03/23 06:13 PM
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I think this is not specifically for sex but about the fact that women experience only nearly half as many orgasms than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:09 PM
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