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Join martial arts, join interesting clubs, the more you get out of the house and around people the better your social skills get. Also I recommend watching RSDTyler's the Blueprint Decoded
/r/seduction26/09/25 11:59 PM
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Why is it non existent? Dont you believe a woman would sleep with you? Not all of course but surely some attractive woman find you attractive I assure you. And the more you believe in yourself the more opportunities you seize, the more you ask them out, pursue. Cause you believe you ARE enough
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:38 PM
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As much as I hate to admit it, the way you present yourself tells a lot about you. Do you smell nice? Is your fashion on point? Women want someone who other women want, someone who gets them, so pay attention to your style, wear 2-3 sprays of cologne everyday when you leave the house, get regular haircuts. This is also for your self esteem, you deserve to look good and to smell good, and that aura of self respect will obviously change the way you are percieved in all areas of life. Also, tinder …
/r/seduction25/09/25 11:56 PM
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Dude 7 years with those results you gotta start looking for ways to improve how you present yourself online man. I recommend strongly to watch Wingmanplus on yt its insane how much photos impact the results. Girls are looking for reasons to swipe left not reasons to swipe right. Your profile is as good as your weakest photo. Good luck man
/r/seduction25/09/25 05:49 PM
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Changed my photos, night and day difference. Again, most guys half ass it and thats why they get nothing. I recommend watching Wingmanplus on yt for reference to photos
/r/seduction25/09/25 05:46 PM
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Was like you a virgin at 21, what I did was get good dating app photos and went on Tons of dates. I'm talking 3 a week. Like a week later lost it. At the end of the day its all a big numbers game but you gotta put your best foot forward and shoot your shot man, asking out a girl should be second nature to you, on dating apps and irl. I remember how I felt when I was a virgin, like I'm behind by society's standards. It sucks but man you can either sit in feeling bad about it, or do everything you…
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:37 PM
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Its very old school because its way more natural, and I get the feeling the hot hot girls find their boyfriends there, speaking from experience
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:13 AM
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Yeah in asian countries I think its easier because the women there tend to be more submissive in general, Dmed you about Australia
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:07 AM
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Yeah I think thats the best way, way smoother cause someone shes friends with already voiched for you. My goal is now to create a social circle/s because yeah I basically moved to a different continent, any suggestions?
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:05 AM
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So not thinking of it as a "cold approach pickup set" and just "this person looks cool lets talk to them and see" yeah like in Seinfeld or in Friends where the characters notice a hot girl, then they find an excuse to talk to her
/r/seduction13/09/25 11:01 PM
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Finding a needle in a haystack basically
/r/seduction13/09/25 10:56 PM
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Everything is a gimmick. Clothes, watches, lines, videos, body language, mindsets, whatever. Familial relationships are way more different than meeting women you want to date. To have the most success I suggest opening up a dating profile, maximize your photos, get the girls out on a date and learn on the fly. I did that, went on 3 dates a week for about 2 months, ended up having a model girlfriend, dumped her but thats a different story. Moral of the story is the more reps the more your frame g…
/r/seduction04/09/25 01:40 PM
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Yeah I had that thought aswell, like is there a way to start a conversation where its more normal and not like complete strangers?
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:41 AM
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So I used to go out a lot to bars and clubs but maybe because I am young I never managed to get a date from it, also I have gotten a lot of numbers from cold approaching but again no dates, at least in this country that I'm living in. It just feels awkward and its almost like I dont believe it can really get the girl out on a date here from cold approach, I'm good at getting the number though. I should do more cold approaches, or in uni what I usually do is just sit next to a girl
/r/seduction22/08/25 03:37 PM
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Dude, anyone can be a 9.7 dressed well and knowing how to smile and pose in just the right way. Check out the youtube channel "Wingman Plus" they have a video of a 30 year old virgin, they show his old pics to girls and they say "no way I'd date him" then they show his new ones after the photoshoot to the same girls and they say "I'd date that guy. Datable now." When they tell them its the same guy in both pics the girls cant believe it. See how much you can change your circumstances? And this g…
/r/seduction20/08/25 01:57 PM
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When I'm on dating apps I dont approach cause its like a waste of time if I got 3-4 dates already set up for the week/next week. Even if I do approach, and this happened to me a lot of times, I have a good convo with a cute girl at a store, but I have a date that night so I'm like yeah whatever and I go without asking her out or going for the number... It's like I can't be asked to deal with so many numbers and girls
/r/seduction20/08/25 01:54 PM
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Bro everywhere in the world women respond to the same things, confidence and a vibe. Yes I might get 9.7 in attractiveness on photofeeler, but that only gets me matches. You still have to get the girl out on the date which requires skill. I know people with worse looks than me that have better results. Its all about the personality man doesnt matter where you live.
/r/seduction20/08/25 01:24 AM
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Yeah I probably should and will once I have the time, currently busy af with work and uni and other commitments
/r/seduction19/08/25 04:05 PM
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I need to take good photos (updated) and I have no one to take them for me... you feel me
/r/seduction19/08/25 02:05 PM
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I have various clubs(social and fitness) that I go to but I havent met girls my age whom I'm interested in, mind you im in uni
/r/seduction19/08/25 02:03 PM
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I hope until then im married tbh but dude I believe any situation theres a way out , you can get better photos, move to a new city, learn how to set up dates easily through texts, I know a lot of guys in their 30s that get laid plennnty girls love guys with experience u got this man
/r/seduction19/08/25 02:02 PM
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I live next to a big city yeah
/r/seduction19/08/25 01:59 PM
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Australia
/r/seduction19/08/25 01:59 PM
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Yeah thats what I'm gonna do now, I have hella game on dates and after dates, and even I had a model girlfriend who I basically lived with for a month. Now I want to get the same results/better just with cold approach or in person, but what can I say it takes more guts and skill and willpower than just texting and setting up dates from your fingertips in your bed... I want to know that I can get those results without the apps to make my game more "complete" if you know what I mean, but its way h…
/r/seduction19/08/25 01:58 PM
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I don't think I'm good looking I'd give myself a 7 or 8 and im not tall, just 5'8". But yeah I have good photos and I know how to get dates from matches, a lot of guys complain that the apps dont work for them because they half ass their photos, and then have no idea how to convert the matches(once in a blue moon) into a date. I used to be that guy, but for the past 10 months on and off I did about a hundred approaches and didnt get a single date, got numbers but no date. Compare that to 4 month…
/r/seduction17/05/25 01:56 PM
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Yeah thats what I'm thinking too. I'm socially adjusted, I've been through quite a lot in my life (military war, moved country alone). My question is if maybe you get higher quality women from cold approaches?
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:58 PM
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I take those odds on dating apps because, most guys have shitty photos, and if by chance they match, they got no clue how to convert it to a date. Faster results from cold approach? I had 2 weeks back to back 3 dates each week with different girls from only dating apps, even if your charismatic as hell I don't think u can do that by just cold approach. Thoughts? But yeah I need to be more well rounded and sprinkle in some cold approaches.
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:55 PM
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cause for one I don't even need to leave the house, and the other takes 10x more effort for a girl who may just give you her number out of politeness... are the women you got out with from cold approaching hotter/more into you than from dating apps? Thats the only reason I can think of of doing it...
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:18 PM
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It sounds like another case of the crazy/hot scale.. yes screening is what we should do the problem is most guys(me included) just wanna feed their ego with dating a hot girl that we kinda skip the screening part, I sometimes wonder how many good ones are left tbh, but I guess thats just my scarcity mindset talking, I live in a city with about 6 million people so that shouldnt be a problem though. Out of curiosity, how long did you know her before you got married? Did she change completely are m…
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:32 PM
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Yeah that was my impression from reading the book "The Mystery Method", its all an act, a song and a dance like a performance and its rooted in insecurity in my opinion. That's great to hear you're married to a hot girl man (too bad about the borderline), what was your mindset when you met her and what do you think I should do, just be myself naturally and fail forward and develop a strong attractive frame? It sounds like a good plan but it takes ages and dedication to step outside your comfort …
/r/seduction16/04/25 12:04 PM
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Yeah I guess that's true, I have a success barrier, I don't apply a lot of what I learn, thank you for your insight man
/r/seduction15/04/25 07:30 AM
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No way the average looking dude with a hot girlfriend did 4000 approaches man theres gotta be another way
/r/seduction14/04/25 10:58 AM
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Yeah I get what you are saying about being the best version of yourself but there are plenty of people that are "the best version of themselves" but are useless around women, do you know what I mean - you can be a male model with tons of money and still girls wont want you after speaking to you for a minute if you have no game.
/r/seduction13/04/25 10:36 PM
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