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The guy would do this in a clearly jokingly, flirtatious way. It's good to be presumptuous in that the girl subconsciously sees your confidence, which in the end is the most attractive quality for women. Since the guy is just joking, it's not an overly confident comment and most likely won't be taken as cocky or arrogant. It also establishes that the guy is interested in dating instead of friends (even though they explicitly said just friends). It's pretty clever overall if you ask me.
/r/seduction18/06/15 09:10 AM
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On point. Girls' minds work differently than guys, and building up the 'idea' of you is extremely important in building attraction. If you're just there, they cant do this properly. Absence makes the heart grow fonder after all...
/r/seduction18/06/15 09:06 AM
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"im better than people. Girls think i look good. I can't talk to them properly, but that doesnt matter. You are definitely not as good as me. yada mom yada nerd yada bitch yada. (teenage come backs with zero merit)." Dude, your gonna end up working at a gas station when youre older. Maybe, if you're big, you can work your way up to a bouncer. If youre lucky. Tell me then how being dumb is cool and awesome. Also let me know how being dumb has helped you with women.
/r/seduction09/01/15 04:48 AM
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Excellent come back! You seem like a winner.
/r/seduction09/01/15 04:20 AM
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Your mom jokes became immature and outdated in 1996. You are the reason that reddit is suffering, and what most people complain about. You say things that not only do not reinforce your point, but you blindly attack people in ways that are vague enough to be directed at any person, when in fact they are directed at no one. In other words, you are too dumb to properly insult someone. Girls love dumb guys. Keep it up.
/r/seduction09/01/15 02:41 AM
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If nerd means educated and knowledgeable then yes, im a nerd. It turns out that being smart is actually a HUGE advantage in life and women. So whatever that makes you, good luck with that. Im sure youll attract that certain type of girl anyways. A shallow existence it must be, but someone's gotta do it.
/r/seduction08/01/15 07:19 AM
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You sound uneducated and fake. And that you truly think lowly of yourself deep down. I'm confident, well spoken, smart, successful, and have a better gf than I could ever have imagined. I also travel the world, have a taste for fine wines, and can make a girl smile in 7 different languages. Let me guess, you work at walmart and you live in mom's basement at age 25? Wait no, youre working on your next record deal, about to blow up anytime?
/r/seduction08/01/15 07:15 AM
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Once again, putting people down on the internet to make yourself feel superior and feed your ego. Girls see through this fake sense of superiority in real life. True confidence and inner game are your goals. Currently you are faking it til you make it.
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:53 AM
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So, instead of giving points why you disagree, you call me "a bitch, homes". This community is about improving "inner game" to be a better man that will attract the type of women worth getting. There is no way on Earth you get this type of girl. I know this because of how you formulate your responses. It indicates that you probably handle the women in your life with as much immaturity and disrespect as a stranger. Notice how I never once have mentioned anything about my game, or the girls I get.…
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:49 AM
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You have literally zero information about me or anyone else here and still you feed your ego with assumptions that put yourself higher than anyone else....on the internet. Those same people that you don't care about and call out are the ones you are bragging to about "having tons of girls swallow my load." You're clearly fishing for some sort of acceptance or validation anywhere you can get it. The fact that you need to "call people out" and brag about your conquests is quintessential behavior o…
/r/seduction08/01/15 04:39 AM
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There's clearly a middle ground someplace that it seems he might not be willing to explore.
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:00 AM
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I think the other guys did well here, but i'll add to it in a simple way. You're not supposed to NOT give any fucks, but for the purposes of building attraction it is important that you make it LOOK like you won't be giving any. It's kinda ass-backwards logically, but it works. Something to do with scarcity mentality (i probably made up that term, but it works here).
/r/seduction07/01/15 09:43 AM
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Do you see how that last sentence just serves to boost your own ego, while simultaneously making you look bad? It also makes you seem like a liar because you have the need to justify yourself to internet strangers.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:58 AM
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i think you're in the wrong subreddit bro.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:51 AM
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I'd like to re-emphasize how important the no contact rule is. You are going to want to do it really bad. Dont fucking do it!
/r/seduction02/12/14 01:05 PM
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Break ups have historically been the single most motivating force in my life. Turn it into a good thing. Focus on fitness and hobbies you like. Try something new. Go hiking to an awesome location. Do something that you've wanted to do but dont have the time. Travel someplace-for the weekend, a week, or even a couple months if you can make it happen. Try not to think about the ex too much in a negative way or in a way where you miss her. It's over, no use dwelling on the past. In order to do this…
/r/seduction02/12/14 12:56 PM
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...until the morning
/r/seduction28/03/14 09:03 AM
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There's always that girl around those places. Trouble, some may call her. To other, a godsend at the end of a night of getting saucy...
/r/seduction28/03/14 09:03 AM
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dude, i agree with everything you said, to a T. Excepppppt the nofap thing. That kind of thing will drive a man crazy, and might not be the best way to be finding your special number 1. To each their own though! Also, if you have reasons why I am misinformed, I'd like to hear them. Cheers!
/r/seduction28/03/14 09:00 AM
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OK, chill bro....deep breathes. Ya, 28 is late for virginity, but its not end of the world. In fact for people who do have sex a lot, an individual sexual act has much less of an impact on their life than sex will for you. It will be something fucking buck-wild and amazing, and it will mean more to you. And looking back at 80 (if you make it) you'll say, well, a bit of a slow start but I got going and lived it up. How do I know this? Because you are trying to improve yourself. I can tell you fro…
/r/seduction28/03/14 08:56 AM
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call her then....texts are too far removed from actual person to person contact. It's also good to give a little space at first so they build attraction for you. It's more "mysterious" in a way, which sounds corny but it's real.
/r/seduction24/03/14 02:04 AM
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When you start to get closer you can text a bit more, but before 3-5 dates it shouldn't be. Some physics shit, trust me.
/r/seduction24/03/14 01:37 AM
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just a joke or 2, then setting up a time to meet. texting shouldn't be over used.
/r/seduction21/03/14 08:57 AM
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I found the same thing you have observed. But I moved to Asia and no one has a clue. Golden still...
/r/seduction17/02/14 02:01 AM
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Use left hand for bra removal. The thumb / forefinger combo makes it come off more easily. Some physics shit, trust me.
/r/seduction13/02/14 04:06 AM
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good work but it kind of seems like you locked this one up well before 20 questions...
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:33 AM
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As soon as possible. Sometimes that's 1 date, sometimes 3 months. Only you can know this and you have to go on gut feeling. Don't make the girl something you are trying to impress, and make yourself the target that she is trying to get. When you think of it like that you can use more unbiased thinking, whereas if you are just trying to impress her then it clouds your judgement. You think, oh hot girl hot girl, yes she's touching my penis! And you forget that mayyyybe she's a little crazy, or jus…
/r/seduction15/10/13 02:29 AM
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aaaaaaaaah, i remember being in your shoes, many years ago. So much to discover. Good luck, keep going!
/r/seduction04/09/13 04:26 AM
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you're not manipulating anyone if you're doing it anywhere close to correctly
/r/seduction22/08/13 10:26 AM
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Reasonable answer: Listen to the tips you hear here and TRY THEM. The first step is to talk to girls. All of them, anywhere. Dont feel weird about it, and if you do feel weird, keep talking to them because it will be less weird soon. First step is talking to them, baby steps. Tough love: Grow some balls and go for it. Girls like guys who know what they want, even if it seems weird to you. Just be aware of their body language and know when they are uncomfortable. Thats when you stop. Easy way out…
/r/seduction14/08/13 09:21 AM
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sounds like you're freaking out too much. Just chill and bang the hot one next time.
/r/seduction29/07/13 08:07 AM
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dont think of it as forced and awkward. It's only awkward because you think it is in your own mind. Touch is the most easily recognizable form of conveying your affection. Make it no big deal and go with the flow in conversation and it seems natural. It works.
/r/seduction28/07/13 07:25 PM
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touch her elbow when talking sometimes...eventually put your hand on her lower back when talking or showing her something or walking somewhere. Hugs for any random reason are the next step. Now you're touching, the rest comes naturally.
/r/seduction28/07/13 07:22 PM
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This is hilarious and insightful. You'd be quite the entertaining drinking buddy.
/r/seduction23/07/13 09:10 AM
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Good FR and interesting perspective for a few of your points. Out of curiosity, what country are you from? I'm American living in Asia and I've definitely noticed some differences in the game from here and back home, and I know it's different between countries out here too.
/r/seduction03/07/13 03:58 AM
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dangerous combo
/r/seduction27/06/13 07:31 AM
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hey man, day 1. It's like working out, that first day sucks, you are all uncoordinated and out of shape. But then day 2 is a little better and you are building on what you did on day 1. One thing I would like to point out is that many times girls have a plethora of reasons why they aren't receptive to being hit on. They have to be in the right frame of mind to be hit on, and when it comes to identifying that it can sometimes be a crap shoot where luck is the main factor. You could say and do tha…
/r/seduction21/06/13 07:42 AM
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to meet them
/r/seduction31/05/13 07:38 AM
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this is off topic, but what exactly happens to the jizz in space?
/r/seduction31/05/13 07:36 AM
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you're drinking some serious beers if 11% is your norm...
/r/seduction30/05/13 03:56 AM
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shit if someone were hosting an ice cream party I was going to, it better be you.
/r/seduction28/05/13 07:46 AM
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OKC is so fucking easy. Your sources are wrong.
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:35 AM
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i actually had a girl do this to me one time. For one i had never seen it, and was impressed that it actually worked. And 2, they had to touch me a lot in order to do it, so it was a turn on. Ya, im guy she was girl but im sure it works both ways.
/r/seduction21/05/13 08:07 AM
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Do you even lift?
/r/seduction15/05/13 02:28 AM
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You should probably start with a job
/r/seduction13/05/13 08:49 AM
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well, makes sense to me. upvote for quicker boobies
/r/seduction24/04/13 02:29 AM
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I also only use my left hand. It's much easier for some reason. It's basically like snapping my fingers at this point.
/r/seduction23/04/13 09:39 AM
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Excellent post! I have found myself in gay bars a handful of times and am a decently good looking guy. Most guys know I'm straight but they hit on me anyways. I learned a TON from that, and realized I would totally be a bitch too if I was a hot girl in a club. I didn't go so deep into it like you did to figure out what WOULD work, so thanks for that info, but it's pretty much what i gathered anyways from market research. Oh, and there are plenty of hot straight chicks in bars.
/r/seduction11/04/13 05:57 AM
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I get laid plenty these days and personally I am happy. It's a bit stressful at times, as you mentioned, but to me that is fun. I like playing the game. Am I happier than the times I have been in love? I don't really know, maybe and maybe not. There are advantages to both. In fact I'm plenty happy doing both. But I generally do feel happier and more satisfied when I'm having a lot of sex, be it in a relationship or racking up numbers. At this stage I just prefer to meet a lot of women and have f…
/r/seduction09/04/13 06:43 AM
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yea, good work...haha i didnt mean you HAD to elaborate, but yes, this is exactly my method as well.
/r/seduction28/03/13 05:29 AM
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If this point were elaborated more it would be the number 1 way to deal with it in my opinion. This is important.
/r/seduction27/03/13 08:38 AM
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Ya I think this is about right. To elaborate on one point, the text game changes significantly after you had sex with them. But before that point it's better to do what you mentioned. Cheers
/r/seduction05/03/13 10:30 AM
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Since I am from NJ and not too smart hahahaha
/r/seduction27/02/13 02:32 AM
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I hit on every girl in the spectrum. I guess i don't "go" for the lower ones, but I just like practicing everywhere.
/r/seduction27/02/13 02:22 AM
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Great example. Another one I have is sports, specifically if you look at veterans vs new players in a high pressure atmosphere. You probably won't give the ball to a rookie when you need a last minute shot in the NBA finals, you're giving it to Lebron or Kobe. They have been there before, they know what the defenders are going to do, the crowd, they know what succeeding in this moment will be like, they know what failing will be like (all these things can be a metaphor for gaming). They aren't w…
/r/seduction27/02/13 02:06 AM
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There's 2 kinds of girls that dont have guy friends...
/r/seduction26/02/13 05:27 AM
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If you were REALLY attractive, guys would tell you how good you look all the time. In order to get a girl attracted to you who is very beautiful you cant use that strategy, as you need to differentiate yourself from the crowd and be unique in other ways. It works for attractive girls, but not REALLY attractive girls. Basics here...
/r/seduction22/02/13 01:54 AM
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She wants to be complimented, but if she's hot she ALWAYS get complimented on her looks. To get really hot girls you can not, must not, will not tell her she looks good. You need to differentiate yourself from the regular guy. This is basics, man.
/r/seduction22/02/13 01:52 AM
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never compliment a very attractive girl on her looks...101 sir.
/r/seduction21/02/13 04:40 AM
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OK, based on experience and from what many girls have said, this is the best way-Find a girl you like and dance near her at some sort of angle in front of her, but not straight ahead. Just where she can see you. Have fun! At some point make eye contact and smile, and keep the eye contact until she break it or smiles. Continue to dance where she can see you. Keep having fun. Then turn to her and start dancing with her or introduce yourself. This won't creep them out, they see someone having fun a…
/r/seduction19/02/13 05:22 AM
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Back in 'Nam they grind still
/r/seduction04/02/13 08:14 AM
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Depends where you live and who your friends are. I moved to Vietnam where people teach english for way too much money, and it's like college but no rules. Plus hundreds of travelers in and out of the neighborhood everyday. Still fun!
/r/seduction04/02/13 07:59 AM
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just talk about doing something and after ask for her number and say you'll give her a call/text when its close
/r/seduction04/02/13 04:55 AM
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What are you, 43 years old? Facebook might as well be called "organized pussy network"...not for picking up girls but for escalating. It's the same thing as a text but perfect if you dont have her number, as in this situation. Plus your pictures give you social proof.
/r/seduction04/02/13 04:54 AM
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It doesn't end after college, dont worry bro.
/r/seduction04/02/13 04:52 AM
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Foot in the door
/r/seduction01/02/13 04:37 AM
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That's when you neg.
/r/seduction29/01/13 04:47 AM
1

Well done, sir. I'll give it a whirl!
/r/seduction23/01/13 02:09 AM
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haha that's just fucked up
/r/seduction22/01/13 03:44 AM
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no, not weird. Lead into it in the 2nd or 3rd text then ask to hand out and get to the point. Then in real life make it happen.
/r/seduction22/01/13 03:44 AM
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As someone who wears glasses and contacts I disagree. My results are at minimum twice as good with my glasses on. But to be fair my best attribute is my eyes, and glasses cover them up.
/r/seduction17/01/13 04:12 AM
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What is the single greatest change in your everyday life as a result of your success in PUA? What makes you want to improve when you can already get any girl? And if you CAN get any girl, why don't you just get the one you want and be content with it?
/r/seduction03/01/13 09:43 AM
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haha, well in the overall population, the PUA community is extremely small. I just meant that overall in a macro sense, the 80% won't change. On a micro level everyone has the opportunity to change. I am one of those, and you probably are too, but most people don't put in the effort for whatever reasons.
/r/seduction28/12/12 01:30 AM
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If you speak french to americans, but throw some english in there here and there with your french accent, im pretty sure you wont have any trouble with girls. I know minimal vietnamese, and they know very limited english, and trust me, it works.
/r/seduction28/12/12 01:27 AM
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I live in Vietnam, and I just don't speak Vietnamese outside the basics. So English is really my only option. It works great! They giggle a lot and try their best to communicate. Which shows OP is right on all points. Girls like things that are foreign to them. Not douchy at all...
/r/seduction27/12/12 10:14 AM
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no...the 80% just wont change. And if they do, more people will fill the 80% void.
/r/seduction27/12/12 10:02 AM
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leave shame at the door!
/r/seduction21/12/12 04:58 AM
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do it in a joking manner, and dont be super direct at first.
/r/seduction18/12/12 10:04 AM
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In high school, what worked for me was to have something you are doing with a group. Say hey, <this or that> is going on this weekend, it should be really fun. You should come meet up if you have time. If she seems unsure, offer to give her your number in case she feels like coming. If she seems more interested, offer to give you her number so she can call/text and come meet up. There isn't any pressure like you're asking her on a date, but you display social validation by having something fun t…
/r/seduction18/12/12 10:02 AM
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Just say straight up "oh, hadnt heard from you for a while so i deleted your number...what's up". This does several things. It makes her see you have other things going on and aren't dependent on her for anything. She'll assume another girl or girls has your attention, which whether or not it is true it will project social validation. Plus it will teach her not to waste your time, and you won't play games. ...that's all assuming you have a good enough reason to delete in the first place
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:42 AM
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relevant username
/r/seduction18/12/12 04:58 AM
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