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Purge - Question For WomenThisIsJustATr1bute/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:08 PM
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DebateThisIsJustATr1bute/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 10:08 PM
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I am VERY interested to know what culture this is. Can you enlighten us? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:52 AM
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Why??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:47 AM
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Ok you know that this post was made during purge week and is a satire of men who say these things and that I’m a woman with many hobbies, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 09:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/dpf2nj/q2women_have_you_ever_learned_how_to_play_a/ Well this guy says if your parents encouraged you or helped you with your hobbies it doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:50 PM
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I have way better content to take in. If sharing it matters so much to you you’d summarize it. It’s fine though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:12 AM
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Electrolytes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:21 PM
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You mean when they can’t cut them straight, or you mean if they do some monstrosity like cutting them vertically?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:51 PM
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I knew my wife was a lying witch who wanted to take away my nutrients.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:50 PM
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I would like to personally thank the Jews for bagels, if you let your antisemitism blind you to the yeasty boiled greatness then I feel bad for you son.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:30 PM
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Thank you 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:51 PM
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I can’t believe people don’t understand that charm and charisma can be developed and you are not born with them. You are born as a crying baby. You think that guy who’s only so so in looks but gets tons of women was just born charming. Some people are more than others and often because of whatever personal experiences formed them, so it might seem effortless, but you absolutely can develop these social skills and I used to take for granted that it’s just what you do. There used to be entire scho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:47 PM
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Yes he does have tattoos? English needs a separate “yes” that specifically means “on the contrary, yes”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:41 PM
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Be the change you want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:39 PM
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A male bimbo A himbo can be a nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:37 PM
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She should have vetted him better, with a name like Chad D. Fenestration.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:37 PM
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I like the random bagels thrown into that spread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:34 PM
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When men suck it’s woman’s fault amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:30 PM
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MGTOW living it up! Don’t lose frame my dude; think about how your wife wouldn’t let you keep the possum because it’s “roadkill” and “foaming at the mouth” and how she made you get a “rabies shot” and other bitch nag vile witch behavior; be free my brother
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:29 PM
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I think that’s sweet that your Grandma supports the second amendment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:25 PM
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Example ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:24 PM
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We’re all twoX women; also feminist beliefs are whatever words any women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:23 PM
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Sometimes I get worried there isn’t a cat heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:19 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:13 AM
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Yes. Very threatening
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:13 AM
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I try
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:50 AM
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No it’s bc it’s in the wee hours of the morning, I took about one second to know it was a pick me girl for the Alex Jones crowd repeating stuff I’ve heard them say a lot, I’m sure it’s just a phase, blind allegiance to team man is just as dumb as always being team woman, and bc I don’t want go and now that you’ve blessed me around I really don’t want to and I’m explaining bc I find talking about myself to be far more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:46 AM
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Summarize it then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:32 AM
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When I post on purge week I’m entertaining myself, this video does not amuse me enough to view.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:32 AM
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Too long didn’t watch
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:34 AM
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Are you one of those good men women complain they can’t find?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:05 AM
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🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:57 AM
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I’m rubber n ur glue so there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:57 AM
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No they weren’t they were stupid. Tagging you as has stupid sense of humor. Someone watchdogging incels is doing a service. Might be a little sad but it’s not comparable to actual incels. Congrats you are a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:50 AM
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I would not fuck them in a chair I would not fuck them at the fair I would not fuck the Hoover Dam I would not fuck them Sam I Am.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:57 PM
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I knew someone who genuinely thought sex for over 60s should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:07 PM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:36 PM
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Thx for sharing 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:29 PM
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I’m quoting teenage dirtbag
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:25 PM
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Some people have casual sex but it’s still only with a lover in the sense of being passionate and open to becoming a lover if it goes well. I think the people who only sleep with lovers including the above type are passionate and sensual and love sex but tie it closely to feelings of intensity and passion and closeness. Either that or they are not that into sex so can only have it in a LTR. I think people who do the casual un passionate sex are not that sensual and are oh joy sex toy sexers and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:15 PM
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Because you morons think that “amateur authentic” porn is not staged and specifically curated to seem like authentic and “real people” when it’s JUST as staged as cheesy mustache guy, if not more so, and just as likely to be actually trafficking and rape and underage. You’re so brain damaged and deluded you probably also think the Blair Witch Project was totally real authentic found footage. And you probably believe your favorite stripper really is 22 and loves to eat hamburgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:09 PM
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Early 30s, every woman I’ve known of many ages found a spouse if she wanted, even later in their 30s and 40s. The ones who aren’t have been unsure they even want marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:05 PM
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Literally no guy would treat her like trash lmao Haha. Men are after all famous for never pushing boundaries, taking a mile when you give an inch, or abusing someone who makes themselves exploitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:02 PM
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I haven’t met a single woman like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:56 PM
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They really were not funny. This meme that incels are “actually so funny” and the other tarded meme that “incel tears are even worse than incels” are both inaccurate and imbecilic and if you say they you’re just parroting without using a brain cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:56 PM
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Have neotenous features is awesome. Even if you get wrinkles you still look youthful. The whole getting treated like a kid part is stupid but I’ll take the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:48 PM
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OP sounds like a CumDummy who can’t spell
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:44 PM
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Listen to Iron Maiden maybe 🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:41 PM
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Leave Bieber alone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:39 PM
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Yes they will cut off their nose to spite their face if it inconveniences a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:38 PM
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Honestly idk it’s pretty dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:37 PM
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Wow a female human really wrote that unpopular opinion post. Uncanny how she’s so on board with MGTOW talking points. The internet is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:27 PM
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I’m satirizing what has been stated in earnest by some individuals. Your comment is quite reasonable!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:34 AM
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Yes I also recall the hours of isolation. Worth it but grueling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:07 AM
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Do you think women who become pianists practice piano socially?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:25 AM
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How is this a personal wishlist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:25 AM
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Well that is fair as most of the other men seem to have some kind of mental or developmental disorders and sex with them would be impossible to be consensual so it’s really very ethical of the woman here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:03 AM
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I am assuming you haven’t graduated high school and been taught about examples and explication so I will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:02 AM
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Because too many people ACTUALLY BELIEVE THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:01 AM
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Lol you were born to do this surely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:00 AM
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Contrary to your belief, when you do not use specific words to explain what you mean by this or that or what “nuances” you’re referring to and so forth, even high IQ adults do not have any way of discerning your meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:59 AM
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Very woke of you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:54 AM
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I already covered that we all know that’s the only reasons foids do vidya. I guess if you are dating Belle Delphine it might be annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:51 AM
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Can you give an example or peer reviewed source
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:50 AM
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Do you want to use words to explain what you mean or just assume I have a psychic connection to your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:44 AM
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✌️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:44 AM
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Yes but we all know the truth about women with cats—a witch!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:43 AM
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Like all those sweater knitting masculine women...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:43 AM
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Right which women are only capable of passive watching and men do it for big galaxy brain reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:37 AM
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Ok ill bite why are they worse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:37 AM
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But when men do it it’s to review plots and analyze it and smart stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:30 AM
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Def will, I am stoked for Halloween and getting into it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:29 AM
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Okay we were watching Bram Stoker’s Dracula from the 90s but my bf just switched it to Addams Family Values and then his travel supernatural show is on, but I will insist we finish it later. Do you have a number one rated Dracula film?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:04 AM
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We will be watch Dracula. I’ll catch up on the notes later from y’all. Happy Halloweeeeeeen 🎃
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:10 AM
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I am 100% satirizing, but I’d bet they put astrology and crystals under dumb female stuff that isn’t scientific and peer reviewed so it doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:57 PM
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This is gold, adding it to my OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:24 PM
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Did you post this silly trope? I didn’t keep track of the usernames, too many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:44 PM
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Oh yeah thanks for reminding me. File this under copied it from a man you were sleeping with (/s and that’s actually really cool)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:35 PM
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(This is extreme satire)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:16 PM
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That would attract a unique crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:43 PM
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This is important: are you into Jupiter for astronomy or astrology reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:27 PM
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I wish I could say with certainty there are probably zero men with a fetish for used ballet shoes...but alas...I don’t feel confident in that conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:16 PM
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No it’s not but it is the only activity women do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:10 PM
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Tru dat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:07 PM
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Aha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:58 PM
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that’s awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:54 PM
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Lemme guess, you heard of it from a MAN
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:53 PM
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Women probably only volunteer to virtue signal and meet soy boy beta cucks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:53 PM
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A job can’t be a hobby tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:45 PM
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I’ll add these
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:38 PM
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There is no way you could like any of those things on your own, they must either be FSM competition or you got them from a man (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:25 PM
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well yes, but it’s almost just quoting what many guys have actually posted before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:21 PM
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What planet are you people from
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:19 PM
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Right of course, thanks for making this point because when men do it it’s much more frame and intellectual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:18 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:52 AM
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Caulk the wagon
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:13 AM
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Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:12 AM
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I hear the condam no feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:09 AM
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Neat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:09 AM
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Oh that sounds so amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:09 AM
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predicted this reply !
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:12 PM
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lol how is my opinion a fallacy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:55 PM
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You...have never had a Boston creme?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:53 PM
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Oh yeah gotcha, the one i order is called Boston creme but it is in fact custard. I believe at Krispy Kreme there is a cream that is whipped cream and a custard, but I don’t go to Krispy Kreme bc it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:37 PM
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Wait, hold up. I think we may be talking about the same thing, my fraternal buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:05 PM
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That’s just like, your opinion, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:09 PM
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👻 👻 👻 👻
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:15 PM
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Be Civil !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:13 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:43 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:41 AM
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Do i get a N word pass during purge? *Ill only use it like this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:26 AM
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Did you plan to go get a new iPhone but instead got 8000 tendies? ... High value
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 03:51 AM
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I think everyone has consciousness but yeah some people are on autopilot and don’t think a lot about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 06:49 PM
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I’m just glad it’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 06:35 PM
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I’ve often noted this as I knew this philosophical definition long before the internet used it to mean “self-centered and projecting.” That said, solipsism isn’t cool. Being the only real consciousness would basically be hell. My siblings and I often discussed this and we find it extremely disturbing that almost everyone we have talked to about solipsism thinks it’s “trippy and cool.” The idea is an absolute nightmare. All I can assume is people are being intellectually lazy and not thinking thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:54 PM
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Hey I do all that and I’m still irritable af.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:29 AM
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Too sensitive. Paranoid. Manic Depressive. Did not get acceptance in early life and so overly seek it from people now in a way that isn’t really possible. Then get devastated when they can’t live up to it. Also take relationships too seriously. Assume everyone hates me unless they go out of their way to show otherwise. Absolutely hate working on anything I don’t enjoy. When I do work I get lost and a whole summer can go by alone working on web design. Can be exceptionally lazy. Prone to bouts of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:12 AM
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It is kind of true. I was telling my grandmother about some dating and work phenomenon going on these days, and she just said “well, there isn’t any issue like that in my family.” And she was basically right. I think she was kind of encouraging me and saying we’re better than that, but also she’s not wrong, people are doing okay. In my family we all have a sense of humor about aging, for example, and we laugh at ourselves. That’s just one way we don’t fit into the stereotypes. So I do think swat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:19 AM
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I used to unconsciously want the bad kind of challenge. I grew up in a roller coaster unstable situation, and I excelled at thriving in a crisis, but was very terrible at existing and chilling out in every day non crisis life. I’ve come a long way from that. Part of it is admitting I like some excitement in my life and I should find healthy ways to get that rather than attract someone crazy. Now I don’t want someone with whom I stagnate, so while I wouldn’t use the word challenge, I want someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:15 AM
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Australian, non rhotic southern, Liverpool, and Irish are good. Oh Italian too. For men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:43 AM
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Men like Slavic sounding girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:42 AM
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I prefer non rhotic thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:39 AM
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Does anyone know what a gold digger is anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:34 AM
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Que?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:46 AM
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That’s weird I know more than one couple where the wife supported him during the career development and he got that degree and then cheated with a nurse. Traded in the starter wife. And that’s only the couples where it was specifically a nurse. There are more. Some guys aren’t their full established self and they aren’t able to treat their wife like she matters until they’ve defined who they are in the world. Which by then can be so different from before that he’s only compatible with a new woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 04:22 PM
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A good number of men aren’t able to focus on a relationship before they’ve made some kind of effort at making a mark on the world. Women will observe this and not date the guy before he’s gotten that out of his system; guys who have that urge but haven’t acted on it are distracted and flakey partners. Then later the guys are mad she wouldn’t be a plate. The men themselves aren’t truly on the market and then they blame women for not wanting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 04:19 PM
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Lol ok then is intro extro even a thing? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 04:02 AM
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Well needing another person around is kind of the opposite of being able to entertain yourself. I also like that, though, and background noise. The only thing is I prefer someone who gets me and I can fully be myself, not someone where I have to perform.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 06:26 PM
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People can tell if you’re secretly bitter at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 05:42 AM
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My new kitten is so so needy and demanding! It’s adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 05:40 AM
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Yeah that’s not my situation but cool stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:40 AM
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At least intros can have fun even when there isn’t tons of entertaining around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:40 AM
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I wonder how much of the male hysteria over being used for dinner is just from women joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:39 AM
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Ok I was just splainin’ to you why GC is the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:51 PM
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No. I don’t get your point. There are female things women compete about do you think I’m lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:44 PM
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Well there are guys you know you aren’t into, guys who could go either way, and then guys you know you’re into. The first group weren’t worth it. The second might have been when I felt social. The last is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:43 PM
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But still FSM competition. Yeah. Of course women compete about who had the best birth. Even not saying directly to a woman doesn’t mean it not that. It’s I’m not like the other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:39 PM
2

Then it sounds like pick me behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:38 PM
1

Well yeah, but my point was food alone isn’t enough for me to hang out with someone I don’t enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:38 PM
1

To be clear, I am i yes but I meant to leave the house to hang out with someone and be stuck committing to them even for an evening. I am naturally restless and love to go out, drive, even run errands, especially now I’m out of city traffic. I’m happy to do all that with my bf. I can be myself around him and he’s fun. I can do it by myself too so I set my own pace. I just don’t like being stuck with someone I don’t like and not being able to just leave and having to act a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:37 PM
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I have acquaintances that I like, but I can’t fully be myself around them and have to be on and fit in. I prefer my real friends with whom I can just let down my hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:17 PM
2

The reason they have an issue with it is they feel trans identifying men are doing it either to proclaim that they are better at being women than born women are, to get all the perks of being female while still having male privileges, faking that they have the same struggle as women, and or their identity is a sexual fetish that still objectifies women. All their stories are in the context of that point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:09 PM
2

That last part sounds like a made up FSM brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:05 PM
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Unless I was literally starving, I wouldn’t go out with a guy I wasn’t into just for a nice meal. Food is just not that important to me. That’d mean I’d have to leave my house and give up time, which matters more to me than fancy food. Being with someone I don’t like would turn off my appetite anyway. I feel like if you do this, you don’t value your own time. I have to really like someone to leave the house for them, even my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:01 PM
1

Not true, being mugged, accosted on the street, among other things made me far more aware of this than my blissfully naive friends who walk home alone in bad neighborhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:30 PM
1

Uh yes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:28 PM
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There’s no equivalent that adequately expresses the baseline situation of being the weaker sex in a world of stronger, aggressive men. Louis C.K. saying imagine if you could only date a lion or a bear or whatever and thinking “I hope this one’s nice” is the closest you can get. Without getting that backdrop, men can’t understand it fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:44 PM
1

If you’re into hard magic /r/books will like you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:43 AM
1

No, I receive my information from direct communion with angels when I’m in a heightened contemplative state.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:28 AM
3

Oh my science
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:23 AM
2

Bottle it and sell it, baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:07 AM
7

It is not socially acceptable to be publicly or openly racist in UMC circles. That doesn’t mean people are not racist, just that they aren’t overt about it, and instead leave it to subtle passive aggressive comments and hints. Some are racist some are not. Also it’s more okay to be racist in private groups, like frat guys locker room talk, will definitely be more so. But mostly among themselves, it’s not considered cool to do in formal or mixed company.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 03:23 AM
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They don’t think their actions are moral per se; they think calling them amoral makes them not immoral, which is even stupider.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 06:29 AM
2

Yah, and then the self esteem issues as well from not having a dad around and never knowing if anyone liked them for themselves or their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 04:19 PM
7

I would not bring a child into this world knowing for a fact his father wouldn’t be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 03:12 AM
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I’d brag about KFC biscuits
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 02:53 AM
1

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:08 PM
2

Well I’m not your wife at all so don’t take it out on me. You sure have an external locus of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:39 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:02 AM
2

Any favorite tracks?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:02 AM
5

Just thinking of Frank Reynolds right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:01 AM
1

Bully for you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:59 AM
3

BY ALL MEANS, IF I LEAVE ROOM BETWEEN MY CAR AND THE NEXT, JUST CUT IN. THATS TOTALLY WHAT I WAS WELCOMING YOU TO DO.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 07:30 PM
1

Don’t you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 07:18 PM
4

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:54 PM
1

Yeah it’s a mixed bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:53 PM
2

Feminists wanted it. I didn’t say all women wanted it I just talked about how life was then and now, without sharing my own opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:47 PM
2

Yeah. So what? Can I talk about something without everyone thinking it’s my personal view?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:39 PM
3

Oh my god it’s so adorable how naive your belief is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 01:23 PM
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Oh please you don’t know jack about what I can handle. Don’t ever say anything about me again. Porn helps nobody and again don’t ever say a damn thing about me. All porn is consensual? And the rest of this naive ridiculous drivel? Amazing. *says all men know porn is fake (lol) also actually believes it’s all consensual and that women love porn things lol amazing truly. Not so bad my ass. I think your gf should become a cam girl. It helps you because it satisfies the female need to attention whor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 01:03 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 12:38 AM
3

Only with their eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 12:20 AM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 12:20 AM
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How is it not obvious, it’s a socially accepted simulacrum of cheating, it’s not something any living eating breathing birth-giving woman can compete with...even a porn star irl cant compete with her porn star persona! It’s a reminder of the way men overvalue superficial appearance and a slap in the face that your love enough inspires him not to look at other women. And then there’s this new generation of men who ACTUALLY BELIEVE IT’S REAL and that’s just a whole can of worms. They grow up with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 12:10 AM
2

TL:DR: people who have issues ending things won’t get anything out of these little quizzes anyway, it’ll just make them more neurotic. Their reasons are usually much more complex than these obvious things. I’ve been one of those people. Well I both have the inclination to run away, but especially in the past got deeply attached to people at the same time. I didn’t just find it easy to leave since my family is all broken and although they can be cool sometimes there was only ever one family membe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:50 PM
1

Find out his moon sign DUH.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:33 PM
4

It used to be safer for women to act vulnerable and feminine because if a guy slept with her outside of marriage he was shunned as a cad forever. Women weren’t going it alone in the world. Some cultures it was scandalous to be pregnant in public! Now men are all openly lecturing us on how you should put out ASAP or else and act as though life now is always The Way Things Have Been. Of course women have a harder or tougher exterior. Just as you would if you went from living in a sheltered gated c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:28 PM
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Acting like a shy waifu is a good way to attract a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:23 PM
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TIL having daughters “ruined porn” for some guys on Reddit. Not their wives obviously loving them wasn’t enough for them to see women as humans. But only by having a daughter could they look at porn and go “oh no she has a dad.” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:11 PM
2

Uh ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:09 PM
2

It’s like anything else where someone mistakes the trappings for the substance. They are struggling to find their masculinity in their core, so they try to rigidly mimic the outer signs. Sometimes this actually works over time, but until it’s mastered it’s kind of just a structure to cling to. Like RPW needing a hand-holding support post about wearing a dress and curling their hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:33 PM
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It’ll be a novelty at most except for crazy people. The people who think it can replace a human show me their deeply disordered view of what a human person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:31 PM
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Neither of those things are representative of human sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:29 PM
2

I mean, when I was the only white girl in my large shared house, everyone else drank wine daily and I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:28 PM
2

Wow man so brave you should be a trp endorsed contributor. Women dumb amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 08:59 PM
3

Hahahahahahwhehahshah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 08:58 PM
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Yes this and not only looks but behavior and choices and no matter what we can’t win. And then you find out some men are just getting off on having more power / being bigger, there’s no reason they just think it’s fun to kick the weak. The average guy has no clue. And they tear us to shreads about conduct and looks and age abd bla abd then turn around and mock us for “shallowly caring about looks.” Clearly a lot of the men who haven’t mastered themselves yet are bitter at women’s sexual power ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 08:57 PM
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No, no. They would absolutely not encourage a girl to pursue a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 10:25 PM
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No, RPW wouldn’t say a guy you had to pursue is a good idea. Go up to him and give him my number? He doesn’t even care or notice what I do? Doesn’t text every single morning and call every night we aren’t together? God no. It’s pretty common knowledge indifference is the opposite of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 10:23 PM
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Yes, indifference is a huge insult when it comes to love. Obviously I wouldn’t go out with him anyway because of the indifference. You’re describing a guy who totally could take or leave me, and that’s just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 10:19 PM
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I have too much pride to tolerate the second one, that would just be embarrassing trying to be with a guy who won’t call me or ask me out. Obviously prefer the guy who’s into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 10:13 PM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 09:25 PM
1

Ok I don’t know what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 08:35 PM
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Right which would be ok with me, but I was responding to the OP which seemed very rich kids of Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:38 PM
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Sure. I was just answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:48 PM
3

Some people wouldn’t want the pressure behind that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:42 PM
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It’s not the money, it’s the lifestyle. I’d be quite put off by someone who had to live like this, I would figure he was not down to earth, and wouldn’t trust him. I’d also not enjoy the pressure to engage in such activities all the time. There would be things required of me that would be high pressure, and I wouldn’t be able to just chill. He also sounds like a party boy, which means so many random people hanging around and less sense of family. If he happened to be generationally wealthy, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:40 PM
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I’m starting to believe having sleep phase disorder is a real disadvantage abd morning people really do have privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:11 AM
2

Airplane mode
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:10 AM
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We only read trashy romance novels though so all we think about is hawt cowboyz n stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:09 AM
5

Bonjour!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:08 AM
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Yes exactly that’s a really good point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:08 AM
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I didn’t accuse you of anything, I am interested in learning more because you seemed to have some info. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:48 AM
2

If you’re going to reduce it to that dumb of a sentence then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:24 AM
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Yeah which is why part of my example was a woman doing it behind his back, without his permission, and that was the closest parallel to rape although i did not make a claim that it was exactly the same ontological thing as rape. And the other examples like being coerced into spend too much with sex, would be more equivalent to a woman being coerced into degrading sex acts with the promise of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:22 AM
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No I am just beat down into the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:21 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:19 AM
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Yes it meant my post. Let’s keep this up this is really fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:18 AM
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I said it, you called it “ruining yourself financially” and I meant “it” as in my post, again I don’t think it was 100% the guy’s fault in these examples. This argument is about what my “it’ referred to. Do you want to keep doing this. Has anyone ever told your o chill the fuck out for your own sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:16 AM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:14 AM
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Again by It I meant MY POST which had multiple examples I cannot do a perfect analogy because men do not believe women’s words when they say that sex can be bad or harmful for them in some circumstances. This is the closest I can get to try to speak he language of the guys on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:13 AM
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How many times do I have to say that the guy in the example did not always consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:12 AM
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And I told you that I was talking about multiple examples, like her going bEHINd your back which is non consent,t or gray areas of consent like manipulating you with sex or whatever. No one else has been confused about this and a lot of people liked my post and thought it was a good thought experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:11 AM
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I used several examples and you crossed the wires so that we’d go on a huge tangent missing the point which is spmoetig you like to do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:10 AM
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Some people just like to criticize. Some men just like to criticize women for anything they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:08 AM
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No i said by “it” i meant my entire post, not whatever specific thing is in your mind that I can’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:06 AM
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No but I didn’t though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:06 AM
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I have heard guys say those same quotes almost word for word. I think it’s just a thing some people who are not that modest might say, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:06 AM
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Lol yes, it’s amazing how a lot of guys don’t know we think like this and talk like this with other girls, especially when we’re younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:05 AM
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They have cucked us all, they literally just sit around being royalty while we slave away for them, and we pet them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:02 AM
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Can nothing be sacred
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:01 AM
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Ok that comment doesn’t even pertain. When I said i I meant my larger point, you are the one twisting the things I said so you don’t have to answer the q.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:00 AM
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Because non consent wasnt my main point, my main point was harmful decisions and actions which had all different levels of consent from “enthusiastic” but done totally form pressure and not enjoyed, to non consent. The point was not what you’re looking at missing the forest for the trees, the point was people can mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:59 AM
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Okay, but did a romantic interest pressure them into this? And would said romantic interest be offended if they said “no we can’t spend beyond my means”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:39 AM
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The word manipulate is IN THE TITLE OF MY OP. I used several examples, including straight up racking up cc debt without him knowing,a nd also gray areas of coercion and manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:39 AM
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No wrong I just gave several examples. SOme non consent some gray area some consent. The large point remains. No one else is finding this confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:38 AM
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It is a good analogy if not identical, it was made to make a larger point, and you won’t answer the questions because you know it would prove that some of the guys who feel deprived if she didn’t do mega anal with him are being asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:19 AM
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I said manipulate and I used an example of her doing it behind his back and one of manipulating to the point of taking advantage and putting him at risk. Why do you get so intense like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:19 AM
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No I can’t underestimate because I am literally asking you, I do not know the answer. So you’re saying that a lot of women would consider it only fair if a guy lets say ran up $50,000 in cc debt for her, because he did it for an ex? Say that he still buys her tons of stuff or takes her on trips, but she insists he has to go into debt too. Do you think a lot of girls want this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:18 AM
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I said rape in many ways is like if she took your cc without your permission maxed it out and ruined your credit without asking. Gray areas like she manipulated you into debt are similar in many ways to a girl getting coerced into some odd kink sex she pretended to like to try to “fit in” but wasn’t actually into. And again you willfully miss the point because you don’t like it. Neither of these things are the point of my post, everyone else got it. As someone else here just pointed out, men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:15 AM
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You’re just harping on some random point, because you refuse to see that I used multiple examples and left it to people with common sense to get my point, go chop some wood or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:14 AM
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Okay interesting. For me financial security’s main benefits aren’t reckless spending on doing “Cool stuff” around the world. But I am sure plenty of young women do want that. However, do they want a guy to be reckless and irresponsible and not be able to afford that stuff anymore? If he did that for one chick but then didnt do it for her....could still afford the trips and all that but waited a little bit to know her and didnt’ go bankrupt, would the girls be offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:36 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:34 PM
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You didn’t have to argue it, you could have chosen not to willfully misunderstand the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:32 PM
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No it wasn’t, you just can’t comprehend the idea of a metaphor of something HARMFUL without them being an IDENTICAL scenario, because you don’t want to get the point since you don’t like the point. They can both ruin your life, I didn’t say in exactly the same way but yes, they can. Even though AGain this is not the point of the post, which you are avoiding.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:31 PM
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K.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:28 PM
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Just reread this um you know this is a thought experiment right? None of this applies to my life because my boyfriend is not a neurotic jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:18 PM
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Is that your kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:17 PM
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Are you being serious? There’s no right answer, I wanted to know what people would do. Personally, if I was the wife, I wouldn’t want him to harm himself and us by screwing up his finances, and I wouldn’t want to be bought a bunch of cheap tacky things or stupid impulse things anyway, and if he was still within his means setting up nice dates and thoughtful gifts, I would not want him to make the same mistakes from his youth. I would not feel less loved. Don’t drown yourself over your youth...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:16 PM
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I’m not moving them. I literally said manipulation in the title. And all the other things. You’re being thick. Everything you said is a false a stupid attempt to make a claim on me. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:10 PM
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Ewww I can’t emphasize how little I care what you think of my conduct, no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:54 PM
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Yea they certainly are, of you didn’t operate with the assumption that I’m wrong but opened your mind. Both say rape and stealing your cc and ruining you can ruin a life. Both coercion into s violent act and coercion into going into debt are bad. You’re making up this silly one point to avoid the bigger point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:53 PM
2

Take a minute to reread the post and my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:09 PM
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No it’s not. It’s very clear. Clearly I struck a nerve if that’s all you’ve got. I’m in a great mood. I’m listening to music and enjoying the sun, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:06 PM
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No I’m not admitting anything, I didn’t go too far. see this is what happens when I try to be reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:05 PM
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Did men or women invent the term divorce rape to describe financial ruin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:31 PM
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No I want honest answers, I will believe your honest answers. Not trying to gotcha just communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:30 PM
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I don’t date chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:30 PM
2

The more you say dumb things the harder I leave my post up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:29 PM
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Well I clearly indicated that there are gray areas between real rape and super great sex that apply here. You’re distracting from the point here and not answering my other example. If someone ruins you financially by fraud or embezzlement the yes jail. If it’s done by coercion it’s still damaging just like certain sex acts can be. Even if not illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:26 PM
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It’s not a gotcha, it’s trying to communicate. Yeah make solipsism to not get why some sex can be harmful. Even men invented the term divorce rape. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:54 PM
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Nobody misinterpreted. They just don’t like it. Stop trying to shut me up bc you don’t agree. I’m not going to censor myself to give you a safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:54 PM
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You never stopped parroting yourself. It’s self evident to anyone not arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:52 PM
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I did explain it. It’s self evident. Both ruined credit and bankruptcy and rape can ruin lives. Not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:51 PM
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Delete this dumb comment. I just explained it kyppte times you’re just being thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:34 PM
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Sorry, you let your ex shove it in dry, even though you hated it—if you make me take my time you don’t love me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:34 PM
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I did like all over this thread. If you refuse to believe women’s POV o can’t help you. Again men invented the term divorce rape not women, that’s how they feel when women get “their” money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:33 PM
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Ok I can’t argue with something this dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:29 PM
2

I did yes as one example but you’re ignoring my other example I offered since you didn’t like the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:28 PM
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No I’m not, you’re shaming me because my post hot a nerve. You guys LITERALLY call a form of financial ruin divorce RAPE. Men made up that term not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:26 PM
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No I’m not, what I’m saying is obvious to a lot of people. I guess delete this is your only argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:25 PM
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I’m not going to tell you to stick something up somewhere. Use your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:22 PM
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Lol no. I have to explain it to bad faith people who won’t simply believe women who say they didn’t like certain sex acts, didn’t like being pumped and dumped, and not doing those things doesn’t mean she loves her current man less.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:21 PM
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Like 24 I think, it was impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:20 PM
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What? Can’t follow your syntax. Yes a rape and financial ruin can both ruin a life. But let’s parse the other example I mentioned. You do exactly the same things; trips shoes bla bla. Except with gf 1 you did it after the first meeting; she manipulated you thinking you’d miss out on great sex if you didn’t spoil her ASAP. Now you did the exact same trip cost for current gf or wife, except you are a more grown up adult who has boundaries, so you waited until you realized she liked you for YOU unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:18 PM
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I’m not embarrassed, is shaming the only argument you have? this post is how men sound to many women when they cry about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:07 PM
2

Sure, but we’re talking about a hypothetical woman who doesn’t feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:06 PM
7

Yes, and? Unwanted or reluctant or pressured. That covers rape as well as just peer pressure and regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:04 PM
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Yes, a woman could have reluctantly tried low quality sexual things that meant nothing and weren’t pleasurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:04 PM
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Actually an example would be a young guy who suddenly came into a windfall but has no financial knowledge yet. That’s kind of like being a hot 19 year old girl with no street smarts yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:03 PM
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No I did not. Just because you don’t see how anal or bdsm can be violent from a woman’s POV doesn’t mean I only meant rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:00 PM
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Not rape only. Things like pressured into anal or some edgy kink that a naive woman gave into the pressure. A dumb kid with bad boundary habits. I’ll leave my thread up as long as the mods do, you’re not the boss of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:59 PM
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Violent unwanted reluctant sexual experiences can be life ruining.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:54 PM
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No, what would hurt is being told you have to do painful or violent things one once did in the past and hated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:51 PM
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I’m comparing it to physically damaging violent things done reluctantly yes. I’d use a different metaphor but financial ruin seems to be the main concern of guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:49 PM
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10 Bach’s wife would beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:23 PM
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Some women would argue the house is mutual space and a man cave is a bonus, not indicative of the rest of the space being feminized. Men who do business in their homes have central office areas like the Roman thing. Just most do business not at home. The kitchens were outside for practical reasons. Since it’s your interest, you care more about this than most men, that’s why they let women decorate. That said, plenty of couples have houses with male aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:40 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:04 AM
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Aw poor pup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 02:20 AM
4

Wait a second did your username subconsciously influence me to make banana muffins?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 01:44 AM
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You know what’s even crazier than that? That what used to be called regular sex is now called “creampie”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 01:12 AM
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I wanted a real marriage and provider and so on even in high school, just because of the culture of where I grew up, I didn’t even realize I could remotely ask for that or hope for it. Men who approach very young women are not that marriage minded. I was in a very liberal area and I’m sure that was part of it. Some guys did strongly hint at wanting more, but my own fear of marriage coupled with not even realizing I deserved it could expect that, made me not even realize. No regrets bc they would…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 07:00 PM
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A ham, wait do you know what a penis looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:08 PM
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Yeah that’s nice for when he’s already in love. If you want to catch him first it never hurts to enhance a little, plus beautification is a signal of being open to approaches. Zero grooming or beauty says “go away I’m busy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 02:17 AM
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Well first of all yes women look good to compete with other women. Second of all, they look good for men, and yes men care, they just don’t know it. Sure you don’t want to hear about how she spent a lot more than your haircut on getting layers and balayage; or how she got microblading. You don’t want to be expected to notice these small things. You just know she looks nice and her face is glowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 06:25 PM
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Masculine as in they are not preoccupied with what women are up to, is what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 06:06 PM
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Of course I do. I just wouldn’t choose to be with a man like that (not that I followed this pattern.) To me getting threatened by anything in my past is a red flag. There are enough men out there that are alpha enough that they see a woman’s past as nothing, they aren’t threatened solely because they don’t spend much time thinking about women’s actions anyway; and they also are so secure in their masculinity that they find it amusing or silly or just don’t think about it—there are enough guys th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 05:22 PM
2

It’s the pheromone cologne, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 05:35 AM
2

Confucius say Only when let go of seeds Can flower bloom Or something
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 05:35 AM
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I just love that it happened by a casual tweet as well. I think that’s really cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 05:31 AM
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Don’t really care
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:52 PM
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Bully for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:27 PM
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No I think what you’re saying is true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:27 PM
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That’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:23 PM
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I totally agree, age segregation is a modem gang-like setup; hanging out with younger or older as well as same age people helps you learn more and keeps you on your toes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 06:56 PM
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On a good day I’m most of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 06:54 PM
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I’m not angry. You are. Even if I did get into that field, which I didn’t, it would have timeless value to humanity. I’m sorry you’re so narrow and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 06:00 PM
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Why am I not surprised, a STEMlord who is utterly ignorant of many facets of humanity because his snobbery and arrogance only lets him value his socially inept field. I feel bad for people who think that way, they are the ones who are clueless about human nature, lack critical reasoning, and have “revelations” about life after years of struggling in every relational way, revelations of things that have been self-evident to people who understand art and gleaned insights about life from it, since …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:43 PM
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No, I don’t need to have perfect grammar on the internet. It’s widely accepted now, as any real English teacher or editor will tell you. Attacking people for that is just a signaling thing. It’s a reflection of your own ignorance that you think all that exists is stupid novels written by boomers. People who don’t read stay clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:12 PM
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*losing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 04:53 PM
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It’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 04:52 PM
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Ew you think reading is stupid boomer shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 04:46 PM
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Ah yeah, that’s one take I didn’t consider that does make sense; the scent recalling a time period you shared together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:54 PM
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a thing that used to be all over women’s magazines, that a signature scent among other things would drive a man wild since it would always remind him of you. Never made sense to me; first of all most men do not notice if your perfume is the same; second of all, where else is he going to smell it except around you, so he won’t need a reminder—or around another women wearing it—bad—or in a perfume shop, which brings up other questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:44 AM
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I don’t but I’m allergic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:42 AM
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Women went into these things assuming and expecting not just backlash but violence. They were aware how countercultural it was. Men being unable to act without full social approval is some weird entitlement thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:56 PM
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Women would like the DT guy who’s successful and acts DT to outsiders but way nicer to her. Guys hoping to mimic DT to pick up women get confused and think demonstrating DT traits to the woman directly unfiltered will turn her on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:51 PM
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You know you’re incredibly arrogant and worship your own intellect right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:52 AM
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I just expected you to learn from this encounter because being in the same internet space as me inherently imbues wisdom on anyone near me gosh that’s not condescending at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:12 AM
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Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:26 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:56 PM
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Just a watch is probably fine, I don’t think you need fashion rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:55 PM
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This is all very good except for the Stepford Wives thing, which is very inaccurate. I am very confused where people on PPD are getting the idea that UC wives are like 50s housewives, and all I can think is it’s just a huge assumption. UC women have help to do all that stuff—nannies, gardeners, maids, cooks sometimes—they are often except to be out doing things, either working somewhere that is not to make money or have power but to be cultured is some way...yet some even do have full time caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:49 PM
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Oh my GOD could you BE any more condescending? I did not learn ANYTHING, I already knew everything you’re saying and more and have been there done that took pictures and came back. I hope you don’t talk down to people like this in real life. Yes my message is REASONABLE and you’re just making up scurrilous bullshit because you have no argument other than a tautological “I’m right because i’m right.” And even if I presented miles of proof trp can be used in corrupt ways you’d say “no, the sidebar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:38 PM
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don’t let thots move up in the world Is this really the reason for your giving that advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 06:01 AM
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lol no I’m not mistaking anything I said I am tired of you insulting my religion but it’s funny because you opened this convo by telling me you have a problem not just with my faith but with the individuals who believe it as well, couldn’t be a more clear personal insult, I’ve given you enough time. You haven’t DISPROVED anything! You just contradicted me. Yes I know you think you have a monopoly on reason and data, you are a believer in scientism, we are both religious, I’m just more honest abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 05:51 AM
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Grifter is such a good word.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 05:48 AM
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Yes, quite 🎩🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 05:42 AM
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I think I’ve had enough of you insulting my faith and commanding me, and have given you more than your fair time listening, especially since you won’t be reasonable about the reality of trp vs the CYA disclaimers. What’s ironic is I admit I have FAITH, that means I don’t know it for a fact! You are the one who is blindly certain of his views, not I.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 05:29 AM
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Cheers! 500 is a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 05:21 AM
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Yes, girls use girl game but men who fall for it don’t perceive it and chalk it up to her being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 05:18 AM
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How do I delete somebody else’s comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 05:09 AM
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I guess. But if you start seeing “shit tests” around every corner for small things like this, it’s not going to help you get a woman. It’s not going to get you more sex in your marriage. If you start to see every tiny little thing in the frame of a power struggle, where any concession on your part is cucked, you’ll just come off like a petty tyrant and get dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 04:51 AM
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I probably shouldn’t mention the sub where redditors purposely let spiders live in their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 04:48 AM
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Nah, I have faith; it’s not based around the scientific method. Yes people assume someone who chooses not to be cynical is naive and inexperienced, because they can’t fathom someone who’s seen the badness of life and chooses to still be hopeful. It would challlenge their choices, so it’s easier to write me off. And yes eventually an empty loveless lifestyle catches up with everyone. Yes trp people exploit people all the time, I will keep saying it because it definitely does happen. You can stop …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 04:36 AM
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Happy to oblige
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:09 PM
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I thought getting in shape was one of the least controversial parts of trp, most people agree fitness helps your social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:05 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:34 AM
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okay, yes I agree we can collect data, but there are so many different units and kinds of data we can collect, and some people here talk as though these soft sciences and theories we talk about here are the same as hard science like chemical compounds and such. There are also some people who blindly follow anything a scientist with authority tells them, which is Scientism. remember the doctors once told us smoking was healthy for the lungs. I didn’t mean anything about the ethics of studies. Yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:49 AM
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Hop ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:37 AM
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That’s a modern thing Skinny lanky guys have always been hot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:37 AM
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Oh ok so now we are just being snobby huh? Do you not think that the people on trp need help being functioning humans? Do you think everyone is born social, good at communication, and self expression? Do you think the entire medical and career and hobby fields that exist to help people with those things are imaginary?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:30 AM
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Yeah I know the human body needs sodium thanks that is what I just said, and I will keep following my DOCTOR on that not internet hang-wringers. I don’t want the law involved to the degree it is in other countries, and I don’t automatically trust the FDA because I am not a toddler who needs a nanny, I do my own research as best I can. I would prefer the FDA deal with serious poisons, not “maybe that candy you like is bad if you ate 500 of them every day” and other ritual purity weirdness. People…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:17 AM
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I read the entire thing, it said that people with an external locus of control are more likely to be anxious and neurotic, and people with an internal locus are more achievement oriented and make more money, which one sounds alpha? just admit you have a niche opinion it’s okay, stop digging. I don’t have opinions about the morality of these things, that is completely made up in your head—I just am annoyed you won’t admit and stand by your own theory and have to pretend it’s a fact when it’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:04 AM
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By the way, it literally said in your link that a personal with an external locus of control will be less likely to make effort int he world, exactly what I am saying, it literally says people with an internal locus are more successful and that people who externalize it are more anxious and don’t feel in control ,not exactly alpha traits. In other words everything I am saying here. You just linked to something that entirely supported my argument and went against yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:35 AM
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See this is why it’s hard to talk to men here, you assume that the first time I talk to you about something is the first time I have ever talked about it ever. You assume a Wikipedia link was because of my ignorance not because I was providing the most simple, universal definition. I am sorry you can’t admit that you agree with one theory and for some reason that isn’t okay, even thought lots of people have opinions and theories every day... I am sorry but this is PSYCHOLOGY, this isn’t math, al…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:33 AM
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I am non typical American I guess because I am low sodium and low iron so I have to eat salt and red meat. I also avoid most dyes and a bunch of other stuff because of various allergic conditions. But I don’t think it’s the biggest fish to fry and I don’t think the law should get involved, people should stop being stupid. All that is my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:31 AM
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I know what science is, I am also saying scientism is something that happens when people start to put mystical faith in science, or what they deem to be scientific; often without realizing it—a symptom is starting to demand scientific method studies and data for things that aren’t measurable in that way. I don’t care what people do, I just feel bad for people who devalue the human person over other stuff. And I don’t mean like some weird communist way, I mean people denying themselves fulfilling…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:23 AM
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No dude it’s your opinion, I have also read up on the subject and I am not making an ass of myself. There are two definitions, how you think those definitions manifest in the real world are a matter of theory and opinion, and it’s really intellectually dishonest your can’t admit that. I happen to not agree with your theory, but now at this point you are not even admitting that your theory is your opinion. Please don’t keep personally insulting me, I am fine and stand by what I have said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:15 AM
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Well the number one cause of Reee ing in butthurt Europeans is jealousy and nitpicking of America, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 11:39 PM
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Oh my god wow I’ve never heard that before thanks this is a new insight I’ve never considered
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 11:38 PM
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Yes it is, it’s fashionable in academia, all academia not just science, to not be a person of faith. You sound like a believer in Scientism. Scientific method does not measure everything Men use trp to lie to women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 11:37 PM
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You can make up your own interpretations as you like, I’m using the standard definitions. That’s all I’m saying. Every conclusion you’ve drawn is an opinion. I don’t care to read the rest of your false insulting psychoanalysis of me. Someone can disagree with you without you condemning them as hopelessly incapable of thought. I’m literally talking about the ACTUAL DEFINITIONS, you’re drawing conclusions from them that we don’t agree on. You think an external locus of control leads a man to becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 11:31 PM
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An actress that was randomly in clips of the weird biased video you linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:58 PM
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🙄ok I guess I don’t understand people or control uh huh I’m only using the terms to “speak your language” anyway; you guys are the ones who put everyone into these simplistic false dichotomies....and you’re using them differently than the norm and your conclusions are different. It’s often said derogatorily that women have an external locus of control, and therefore take no personal responsibility and just blame and whine. Why are they not all becoming dynamic success oriented winners? You know …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:54 PM
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I don’t believe for a second that an Alpha has an external locus of control. Your reasoning is faulty; if you believe control lies outside of you, you’ll feel powerless and play the blame game, not becoming a confident influential alpha leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:28 PM
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I’m not sure those definitions of locus of control mean what you are saying. Locus of control is just where you believe power lies in your life. An external locks of control means feeling less powerful and blaming outside factors, internal means believing you can change things. It’s not about how you assert yourself, it’s what you believe you can do https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Locus_of_control
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:18 PM
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I wish more people clarified what they meant by leading. It’s a trope that men are public leaders and powerful but that the woman behind the scenes inspires and influences him. Even in churches with traditional views, the man will be the spiritual leader, but it’s the wife waking everybody up for church.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:10 PM
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It’s a silly argument as it entirely depends on what illness you have and what symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:07 PM
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A vehicle, it’s a kind I’ve wanted to drive for ages and I didn’t have any vehicle at all for a few years and I didn’t realize how much it affected my mood bc I love driving so it was also a gift of joy as well as practicality. A guitar he made
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 08:12 PM
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It’s fashionable in academic circles to be agnostic, as I’m sure you know. doesn’t mean that intellectual studies leads to lack of belief. RP says they don’t like lies? Can you link me to this, from what I can see dissembling seems ok if it gets you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 08:01 PM
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it’s just interesting, when I hear of a woman like this one in the story, you probably think she is a more naturally sexual person than the average woman, but I would argue she is less sexual than average, in the way she can totally detach from it like that and act out passion. I am assuming things here because I always bring passion to my personal relations and am not detached like that. It would just be torture to me to behave romantically to someone who was leaving even if I wasn’t in love wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 06:17 PM
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You have not showed me any mistakes in my arguments, you just insulted me and repeated yourself. When you say things like you’re sure that people who do intellectual studies leave religion more often than not, you know that’s pure speculation, right? I just want to be sure you realize it’s totally an opinion based on conjecture and not anything real. It’s cool that you want to read all kinds of views but why are you so stuck on Kantianism, there are a ton of other possible world views to check o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 06:15 PM
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And just think some people actually believe this.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 05:53 PM
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Was she BPD? J/k I could never do that, I don’t know how to detach from people halfway so I either like them a lot and want to be closer or I want them to go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:25 PM
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Special outfit and sex to commemorate a breakup is super weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:17 PM
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That’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:14 PM
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🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:59 PM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:56 PM
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I’m not naive, Uh no you’re just one of those people who thinks religious people are all sheep who have never read philosophy or considered anything for themselves, because you’re threatened by the idea of a religious person who actually intellectually came to their faith, since it suggests there might be something to it. I ignored your personal attacks in your other comments at first (saying you have a problem with catholic people and not just the beliefs) but I now see you aren’t in good faith…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:50 PM
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Well I’m not surprised someone from...Russia? Maybe?...thinks infantilizing and removing freedoms is helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:47 PM
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Omg no just stop ew This is random nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:44 PM
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Not rigidly, but yes there’s a few categories if I think about it. Family Cool and attractive men—must be in this category to date or marry, but doesn’t mean I must. Can be friends. Men I see as neuter and a person before a man—friends Men who argue with me online Paul McCartney
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:40 PM
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Mmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:34 PM
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That’s what I said, if you’re doing that cool...it’s supposed to be what you’re saying, but people use it to hamster their choices that hurt people to be ok bc “amoral” they think that word means I can do what I want with no consequences and be endorsed for it. They should own their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:21 PM
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Okay protip don’t open with telling people you hate their religion and especially don’t say you hate the particular individuals and not just the beliefs, if you want dialogue. The Christian religion is over 2000 years old, it’s not based on Kant or idealism at all, you don’t seem to understand the fundamentals. I don’t care about adults using trp, I just have no respect for them if they use deception and lies. I also don’t respect when they dehumanize anyone, but mostly I pity anyone who becomes…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:18 PM
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We give them special tokens to help and accommodate them, not police their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:49 PM
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Ok comrade 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:34 PM
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I don’t think BP buys into it. Personally it’s not that it can’t be a thing a woman does it is inclined to, it’s just that it’s not that simple. I’m fairly confident that much of these all or nothing, simple, rigid categorization of humans, are from video games. Games can be complex, but there’s always a limit on a character and there’s always simple choices and you can choose certain traits and not others, there’s no gray areas. Video game thinking is not rational for human persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:31 PM
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All the more reason to let her watch normal movies for those 9 months. Can’t you watch what you want when the kids are asleep or have a date night? I am firmly against the philosophy of giving up your adult life and living fully in Child Land for years, the way it’s encouraged today.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:25 PM
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Game is a method to display your best qualities. The woman might have perfect wife personality but if she isn’t putting herself out there and showing that, it won’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:49 PM
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Uh no I already have it figured out thanks, I don’t agree with your opinion and wasn’t asking. Thanks for sharing you don’t like Catholicism, we all love how people feel the need to tell us so unprompted and always think they’re being very original when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:46 PM
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Okay so you think pregnant women are dumb and can be easily tricked into being marked. As long it’s packaged as perks. You and Mark Zuckerberg would get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:42 PM
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Maybe make them wear little gold stars
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:40 PM
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Those FSM activities are so much more pleasant than the cutthroat stuff, even if people (imo) take them too seriously sometimes. A good office culture with decent people is extremely valuable, I can see why you’d want to hold onto it. Happily some of my later jobs were less insane; I still had to play the game a bit, but the supervisor was more fair and I even had fun at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:23 PM
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It was an important lesson for me, to find out in workplaces like that, just not playing is not an acceptable move. Only one part of why I prefer not to have a traditional office job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:16 PM
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By the way, I really didn’t intent to single you out, it’s just a pet peeve of mine. I can see from the comment you get what I’m saying anyway. I’m Catholic. My issue is not adults using their free will in the market. My issue is any philosophy that lowers the dignity of the human person and elevates some other goal above that. I realize that trp does this to help men not idolize women, which yes it’s important not to idolize people. But because IMO it misses the mark by teaching detachment thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:10 PM
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Why are there random clips of Madeleine Petsch in that video?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:51 PM
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This thread is making me pine for the old days when women were not made neurotic with too much information about how to have the perfect pregnancy and perfect children and be the perfect mom helping your kids with the perfect lessons at the right developmental stages, and just let pregnant women have their wine in peace—and later, run their kids out of the house until after dark. And I don’t even drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:36 PM
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Imagine if pregnant women could only watch G rated movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:30 PM
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The amoral loophole is really lame. You think it’s somehow praiseworthy that you don’t actively want to be a cartoon villain, and instead just are totally indifferent to doing what’s right. At least the cartoon villain cares. Just admit it’s self-serving and be honest; the pretentious attempts to sound special with the a- prefix are transparent. It’s supposed to be that the knowledge has no morality in itself, not that you can do anything you want. but people use it to do messed up things and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:18 PM
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Ok so you’re going to judge my comment based on what you made up in your head and not what I told you I meant. Ok. I’m not a femcel or bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:11 PM
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🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:11 PM
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It is, but it’s been often forgotten by many people in the modern day. The culture of therapy encourages constant self-expression, suggesting you’re unhealthily repressed if you don’t. Women in particular are also taught if they obey something like stfu that it’s anti-feminist and therefore Very Bad. Those forces are erasing what was once more common sense. STFU is just advice that it’s ok to not talk about everything for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:06 PM
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Thank you. You too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 11:11 AM
2

It’s not a trick. It’s using human psychology to showcase your best traits in a way that he notices. No more a trick than lifting and abundance is a trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 11:10 AM
3

You’re incorrect. Your sentence sounded cool on paper but isn’t actually real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:34 PM
5

McDonald’s fries 🍟 yum
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:48 PM
1

Bad bot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:37 PM
1

It’s over for eviction-cels /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:36 PM
3

That’s the opposite of true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:09 PM
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Guys are “visual” so they’ll can be seduced by girl game and believe it was purely about looks. Although of course the visual thing is true, there also seems to be some MSM pressure about only going for looks. If you got seduced it’s cucked or something, but if you frame it that you just smashed bc she’s soo hot then you’re cool. Men aren’t sitting around bragging that a woman was charming and cool. So that’s why most men can’t honestly answer this, they aren’t aware of how their own eyes can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:08 PM
5

Unfortunately the 3.5 billion other dicks are acting as scabs on this plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:03 PM
4

Yes, shouting “this dick ain’t free” is purely comical when considered within the confines of, oh, reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:00 PM
3

Well people sometimes talk about the predictable topics like that because they’re nervous. Provide a third subject outside of either of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:13 PM
1

Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:06 PM
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Talking about your work and education can be excruciating if it’s done in that 20 questions way that relatives you haven’t seen in a while do to find out where you are in life. Instead of an interview date, go to a movie or museum or show first, then have dinner and talk about what you just saw. Make something else the center of attention and don’t put each other on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:07 PM
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Yes, at one of my first jobs at a small place with little oversight I tried to opt out. The female dynamics were toxic and this one crazy lady controlled the whole company basically. I thought that if I didn’t engage and minded my own business and kept quiet, I’d be left alone. Actually my being passive annoyed her more and then she’d start criticizing me and attacking me. She’d attack me for not talking in meetings and then when I did talk she’d ignore it. I basically was supposed to participat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:02 AM
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This is crazy yeah his similar our experiences are. I was often told I couldn’t socialize after school because I had to practice piano right after school before I got tired. Of course internalized this as “if I socialize I get in trouble” which did not help my initial shyness with people and tendency to isolate and feel left out. I also have found having one boss / source of income barely tolerable because I imagined almost every day I was going to be fired or have my every move picked apart. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:48 AM
4

They miss the dynamics of the FSM and barely notice it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:56 AM
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People definitely are at risk today when they don’t have enough of a support network, that’s how people become homeless and die. The drive to be in a powerful in crowd is not exclusive to either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:52 AM
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I’ve been a romantic idealist in many ways in my life, but I always knew I couldn’t be a male friend. But I think you’re correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:45 AM
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If she tries to opt out but still has to be around the group, it doesn’t always go well. Like if there’s an FSM at her workplace and she just doesn’t engage at all, that can cause problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:39 AM
2

Exactly. She’s discussing my shoes! Behind my back!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:30 AM
1

The dynamics of the FSM. The barely notice its existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:10 AM
1

True this, at the same time, though, most women don’t want to marry a pure alpha, they want the high beta. Sometimes the ideal husband types are still “considerate” enough they hesitate to approach....the main ones who would approach would be highly confident players and desperate weirdos with nothing to lose. Girlfriends I’ve had who were pretty in an intimidating way I’d advise to give a guy a lot of encouragement, the kind of IOIs that feel cringingly obvious to women are just strong enough f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:46 AM
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I don’t know why women have a problem with male friendships. I’m excluding something controversial like “bad influence” friends who would push your husband to gamble a lot or go to the strip club or something. Just normal friendships hanging out or fishing or watching sports or whatever. It’s healthy and it’s really weird women would be threatened by that. Why would you be bothered by that, it’s better than prowling for other women or whatever. It boggles my mind to read things on Reddit like gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:25 AM
8

Nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:14 AM
2

Manly Men can. They also don’t look at explosions and can knock someone out cold with one punch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:46 PM
1

YUP!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:21 PM
1

In certain areas
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:53 PM
1

Ahhh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:55 PM
2

Are you me? Yes, being raised yelled at over wrong notes and performances, perfect grades, not being allowed to socialize for some reason...what is up with that anyway? Yeah I used to get envious of people who were allowed to just...exist...and now I’m hard on myself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:34 PM
1

Nah dude it’s a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:31 PM
5

Men often see this as being a boring wet blanket buzz kill nag.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:27 PM
2

Men do lots of hypercriticism of women, no matter what we do we can’t win. It’s online a lot. They don’t do it about a hairstyle if they’re heterosexual men. They just do it about her age, opinions, opening her mouth, having or not having kids, partying or being a prude, being educated or not educated...and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:26 PM
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I have actually gotten emotional about this before. Normally I’m pretty chill and don’t overthink privilege and all that...but once in a blue moon something hits me. A story of a man saying or doing sometime mind-bogglingly selfish and idiotic, something that would make people never talk to me again, and he still has people giving him the benefit of the doubt, has respect in the community, etc. and knowing that entitlement has clearly been effective for him before. I have a face that people assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:22 PM
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It’s true, even when you hear about a guy acting a fool in some way, the comments are about who raised him, didn’t his Mama tell him...I’ve been guilty of it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:12 PM
1

What happened with these public scenes on your dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:25 PM
1

Please no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:23 PM
2

Artistic people who love life through a view of constant childlike wonder and inspiration can be very refreshing to be around, but because real life often requires adults to be more level headed to get things done, the exciting artistic person is often emotionally unstable and not reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:44 PM
2

Have you not been on whereareallthegoodmen, mgtow, trp, return of kings?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:42 PM
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You can say women have protections but it’s absurd to say they have all the same ones. There are even non concrete things like societal expectations. If a man got a reputation as a cad he was never invited to anything ever again and entire families kept him away from them. Men do not have the same expectations. Lol. You will not be shunned from society as a whole for having consensual premarital sex with a woman. I’m not taking about rape “accusations” I’m talking about just sex at all. Women co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:39 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:27 AM
1

No u
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:09 AM
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It’s restored some of my sanity when I found I wasn’t the only one who thinks certain mainstream views are insane. An example would be that we can actually say things like, if you’re married or in an exclusive LTR, there’s no real reason to spend one on one time with an opposite sex friend. It will be debated, but in mainstream culture they basically start calling you a controlling insecure abuser and you’d be guilty of wrong think. For a while I thought I was going insane with this and a few ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:05 AM
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A lot of the demure, soft and sweet femininity displayed by young women of certain classes in the past was only possible as a result of being a protected, sheltered class, on a pedestal but also chattel. Owned and protected by men. An upper class woman could be extremely sweet and gracious socially; for one thing it didn’t mean she was sleeping with a man or trying to if she behaved this way, and for another thing, it was understood a woman was never truly on her own; there were fathers and husb…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:52 AM
2

😆
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:24 AM
2

I stand fierce and proud, my marshmallow torch held high.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:06 AM
1

I am a stickler for language what can I say
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:01 AM
1

Blunt, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:52 AM
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Those things are only said about guys that are still hot and were hot before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:35 AM
1

Ugh dang it I love my burnt marshmallows. This is not a metaphor, I really just like to blacken my marshmallows to a crisp.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:34 AM
1

They aren’t curt, they’re extremely verbose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:29 AM
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Seems like a mix of they aren’t personally attracted to them so they must have no value, and also generally people who are bitter at any group of people like most to criticize them for something they can’t control. In this case aging. I also think there is some projection there of fear of one’s own mortality, but totally projected onto the object of attraction (women) who then betray that attraction by turning into a reminder of the reality of life and death. It seems pretty sad to spent too muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:28 AM
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Okay? You literally just said that it does affect men, I was referring to your statement. I didn’t say that other stuff. Of course people find youth and health attractive, vitality and carefreeness; no one likes looking at visible reminders of our mortality. My point was you’re the first man in my life I have ever seen mention that in America we fetishize youth even more than is biologically normal, and more than other cultures...and you mention it because you’re talking about male balding and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:10 AM
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men finally pontificate on the cultural fetishization of youth when it affects them, but when women mention it even in passing, they’re used up hags shaming men’s preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 11:40 PM
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I am pretty sure I have seen people bring up statistics on this sub saying the opposite though, about remarriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 11:33 PM
2

We’re all gonna die.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 09:30 PM
1

Yea in my family lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 09:25 PM
1

Nowhere near as mean-spirited.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 08:01 PM
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No dude I have see men comment asking how it could possibly be the case that most PIV orgasms in porn are fake. And I’ve seen then start naming stars who “always have real orgasms”, they believe porn actresses who say they’re having constant orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 06:34 PM
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I was almost going to write a similar comment: they used to leave these topics in the drawing rooms with cigars and whiskey.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:51 PM
1

The comments I’ve seen on Reddit cannot all be from people that young.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:48 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 06:19 AM
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You realize that all human beings who interact for any long period will at some point not see eye to eye and will need to resolve that? Rug sweeping isn’t always productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 06:00 AM
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The meat story makes me sad. Why was she so mean to him over something that doesn’t matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 05:55 AM
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Is this what you want for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:23 AM
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Sure then you don’t need to insult my and your own intelligence by suggesting that that subreddit is the best way to protect men from themselves, and that it mainly exists with noble intentions, when what it really is a gossip arena for men with poor character.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:21 AM
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We are talking about the men who sit behind keyboards trashing women from lower classes for trying to live life. At lease one time I have seen a post tearing to shreds the profile of a woman who was dying of terminal cancer and just wanted to look for love and human connection in her remaining months on earth. No I do not have sympathy for the men on that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:13 AM
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Uh huh. Very noble
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:10 AM
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Yes I am aware that there are losers who’s humor involves mocking people they consider below them, it is called having poor taste and punching down. It’s especially brave of you all to hide behind keyboards and mock people who take a risk in life. You can engage in it but don’t expect endorsement from normal humans with lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:05 AM
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Yes I know that the men there have no life and let these women who are at least not giving up on life live rent free in their heads and make up these backstories. I know the men there think it makes them increase in status to do this, however, in fact, it makes them look like losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:00 AM
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So what? If I was an older single mother testing out the dating waters, I would post the exact some high demands they do in order to filter out the kind of guy who thinks like this. I would shoot for the moon and hope to find a guy with at least a few of those traits. If I were going to date I would be stringent in my standards, be exceedingly cautious because weirdos prey on single moms and I also wouldn’t have time for guys who would mock me on a Reddit sub. I would purposely write things to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:56 AM
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Yeah, they want men with jobs and not criminal records, stupid hos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:46 AM
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I think guys think it’s this simple but just be nice is bad advice for women in terms of getting a husband. Women interpret this in ways that they end up being too available, and it lowers her value in his eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:44 AM
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Yeah it’s true. I’m not talking about getting a guy to want sex or plate her. Quality men want more than someone who sits there and looks pretty and is nice and bland.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:34 AM
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I’m sorry that doesn’t sound fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:30 AM
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Girls need to be more than just nice and cute to get a man to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:27 AM
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Which like all attraction often involves teasing and flirting and ambiguity and definitely not being just “nice.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:08 AM
2

I’ll also say the procreative sex thing. According to Reddit that’s the freakiest fetish of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:04 AM
3

I bet you have feels for your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:57 AM
2

You’re male?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:55 AM
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The Lord Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:52 AM
5

Men say this but women who are extremely nice are rarely the most successful with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:15 AM
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No you didn’t, I’m experienced enough on here to know where this convo would go if we let it drag out and it is a pain in my ass so I just said everything that would be covered in one comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:14 AM
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trust and communication So crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:57 PM
2

You men always have “play the ‘I’m dumb’ card” to your advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:50 PM
2

Lol. Video games have done so much for relationships. Just be sure not to accidentally click “do you want to hear that again?”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:41 PM
0

Dance, jester!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:39 PM
0

http://us.christianlouboutin.com/us_en/shop/women/highness.html
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:28 PM
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I’m on board with this too. Being frank without being mean or difficult is an important life skill, more than just pretending you’re fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 10:02 PM
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I don’t know. Some of the responses here show a very emotional and vague and hard to pin down difference between being helpful and nagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 09:03 PM
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If you ask the long-married couples at any conservative church, it’s actually a running joke: the wives say the husband is the head of the household and she always submissively obeys him; the husbands say that they let her run things. It’s not that easy to define who is the true leader of a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:53 PM
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Yeah exactly it’s not important to him but it is to her. If someone can’t try to respect what matters to another they aren’t marriage material anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:50 PM
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Yeah no, I don’t have this issue in my relationships, I genuinely want to understand the thinking of the men on this sub, I’m not dating any of them. This is not an advice post. No guy I’ve dated would be such a little bitch that he’s threatened by my speaking up about directions. Stop trying to read my mind it’s really not a good look. You’re going to lose your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:48 PM
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No no and no. You’re wrong about everything you think about me and my man and my love life. I’m going to get really annoyed if you keep acting like you know me. Lmfao that you think I’m dating a liberal man or that I’m a liberal. Hay sado, your people reading skills are crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:45 PM
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What happens if you think it’s a stupid fight but she thinks it’s important? Men and women don’t always value the same things, so it’s certainly possible. What do you mean by dragging you down? I made a comment once that men find female thinking like noticing small things and being cautious, to be a drag in general on his desire to make sweeping strides in the world. Most women have survived by some caution and attention to detail. Men can find it annoying. But some guys like it to a degree. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:41 PM
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Well to play devils advocate I would bet some women here would say that when a request is presented so non-confrontationally and chill, he does not actually register it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:40 PM
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I don’t really know if it’s either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:32 PM
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Yeah. I think sticking to I statements and not “you did this” statements is good advice too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:25 PM
2

Ah ok. Depends on temperament and mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:24 PM
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Mmmmm no thanks I’ll leave it as is. I agree with the old rpw not the current one with guys teaching plate school. I agree with a lot of the agreeableness things, I like some Laura Doyle, I don’t think it’s the whole picture though. Guys don’t even want pure RPW. I read the tip never to question him including not telling him he missed a turn, just let him learn by missing a party and getting lost. That’s less applicable in gps age, but nonetheless, I’ve discussed it with men I dated and they’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:23 PM
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Hi yeah I’m not seeking personal advice to be clear, I don’t have to nag my bf to do chores and I love supporting his interests. If I became a billionaire he has some crazy wild ideas for projects he would want to do and I would fund all of them. Your personal insults are uncalled for. This is a very juvenile reply. Oh and you don’t know jack about me and I don’t think it’s funny when people pretend they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:13 PM
1

You or her feel neglected at times?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:09 PM
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Uh no...why do you feel the need to turn things into personal insults? I’m genuinely asking you guys in good faith what be pleasant means to you as it seems all over the spectrum here on the sub and is rarely delineated beyond “be pleasant.” These “if you have to ask you’re a bitch” type of replies are very juvenile. What would make you need to say that? You don’t know me in real life. That is not a constructive comment. The question is not easy with regards to guys on this sub, even on this OP …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:04 PM
1

Can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:02 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:02 PM
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It’s definitely important guys understand needing reassurance, which can manifest as nagging, is normal for your traditional feminine woman. Guys can get a more male brained woman manic pixie dream girl but there will be trade offs in the traditional personality traits like nurturing and housekeeping and emotional stability etc. and even the MPDG will still need reassurance at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:54 PM
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Aw lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:48 PM
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Theoretically reasonable, in practice that’s going to be a personal understanding and hard for any woman to read his mind on which constructive criticism and which is nagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:48 PM
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I know this but the men in the sub seem to object to even these reasonable efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:45 PM
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What do you think a woman should do when she has a legitimate grievance with the guy, like he did something hurtful without meaning to and that needs to be communicated? Not to single you out but it seems a lot of guys here say be nice and file anything that suggest the guy may have a fault or make a mistake under things she’s not supposed to bring up. (You call them shit tests, gaslighting, nagging etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:07 PM
1

That seems reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:59 PM
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Can you explicate the difference in your mind between calling you out on a patten of bad behavior vs. nagging?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:22 PM
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They don’t post it and say it to people directly on their dating profile. They just spend their days online whining about the degeneracy of modern women behind their backs so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:38 PM
1

Probably yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:34 PM
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No, it’s possible for guys who are normal but grew up with porn or are addicted. Watching that stuff changes your brain in the same way cocaine does. If it’s happening on a still growing brain, you’re off to the races. Some of them would honestly say they believe it’s realistic. I’ve seen guys on Reddit genuinely shocked to learn most porn orgasms from women are fake. Others might say they know it’s fake, but their expectations and ideas of sex belie that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:24 PM
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Uh no there’s nothing I don’t understand. If you get that it’s not real then you’re probably older or not as addicted as some of these guys. Just because you get something doesn’t mean that the people don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:17 PM
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What’s with this idea that wanting attention is pathological? You know babies that don’t get attention literally die?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:14 PM
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No, you don’t have to be those things to believe porn is in any way “real”, you just have to want the fantasy to be true really badly. It’s especially risky for the generations who got access to streaming online porn from a young age, before they had any romantic experience, while their brains are still forming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:53 PM
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Please don’t try to hamster this into a personal insult, it’s inaccurate and you are embarrassing yourself, and please don’t hamster this into a straw man either. I said enthusiasm in quotes because porn enthusiasm (for violent, fast, painful, degrading male gaze stuff) is fake, duh. The average men’s best shot of getting regular genuinely enthusiastic sex is a loving marriage, the other way is to pay but the enthusiasm won’t be real. The only other way is to become a rock star or similar. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:44 PM
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Great, I’m talking about when it’s true and not a line.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:41 PM
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A variation of this is called the Byronic Hero and it’s one of the must basic tropes in literature. Among other things, it’s a man who has in some way tried to eschew romantic love, but a woman around him makes him feel love again in spite of himself. Jane Eyre, Wuthering Heights, Gone with the Wind, Pride and Prejudice...also Twilight, 50 shades of gray...also most romance novels,,, Another type is the romantic comedy where the guy dates her as a bet or joke but falls for her anyway. 10 Things …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:38 PM
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Nope. I said it won’t guarantee she lives him back, only that the other scenario rarely abd with my way you have a chance if there was potential there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:32 AM
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.... The point I’m making is that women love the idea of a man accidentally falling for her against his will. As such, you’d have an advantage in telling her that’s exactly what happened. I won’t guarantee you requited love, but that narrative serves you far better than “I strategically forced a friendship to get in your pants.” I don’t understand the rest of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:26 AM
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There are entire novels and movies written for women around “At first I just thought of you as a friend, girl, but over time it snuck up on me that I want so much more from you.” Not hard to be honest. We don’t like it if you tried to sneak up on us when from the beginning only wanted sex. We don’t like that we may have shared personal things you tell a friend. If he genuinely fell for her without planning if he should say so. It’s the truth isn’t it? I don’t see how that would be a dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:12 AM
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Why don’t more of you make the connection that porn stars have to be on a lot of drugs and get a lot of money and do a lot of takes and a lot of fakes to keep up that “enthusiasm”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:59 AM
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No need to rationalize. It’s pretty dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:41 AM
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I think if they assume women are not that clever or capable of abstract reasoning, they don’t understand that women very consciously exploit male fantasies in this kind of media. They assume it’s “how women would act when no one is looking” when in fact it’s “what women know a lot of men like to fantasize about.” And yeah they do choose ignorance because they don’t want the fantasy shattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:29 AM
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I don’t watch porn. But I can tell you something, all porn intended for an audience is fake in some way, often many ways. Even that “amateur” porn or lesbian porn curated to seem intimate and informal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:16 AM
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I said PIV orgasms. your assessment of why I am saying this is very off base. Like I said, can’t blame them. Men want it to be true so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:44 AM
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It’s a little distressing when they aren’t aware how these things are made for the male gaze. They are like fifteen year old girls reading Twilight hoping for “my Edward” in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:32 AM
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That’s really sweet that you believe the female porn actresses who tell you they are nymphos who have lots of PIV orgasm on a porn set. Bless you and all the dollars that have left men’s pockets over believing that. I can’t blame those women for saying so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:28 AM
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It’s so illogical that a man would want a wife who can’t have a quickie before you all have somewhere to be. Your elevating sex to this high specialness level is very female thinking, and if you abhor the quickie with your wife, that’s a great way to have less frequent sex overall as she knows it has to be over the top every time. This is an example of porn thinking and how it confuses men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:13 AM
3

Good hygiene is for you too my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:50 AM
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Yeah among other things. Think that they jerked it to really hot girls so that reflects the reality of their life, think that female porn stars have real PIV orgasms on the set (lol, bless their hearts), think that women act like porn plots and so all women are sluts, think that whatever violently aggressive things men do in porn are what women like irl, think that the camera angles used to make the men look bigger are acccurate and feel they are small in comparison, think that violent use of al…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:49 AM
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Some of the things men learn from porn I wouldn’t call an increase in standards. It did make a lot of them delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:15 AM
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They don’t believe women’s words from their mouths. She can literally say “I will never see you as anything more than a friend and I am not and never will be attracted to you” and he’ll think silly girl doesn’t know what she’s saying, I just need to make her see. And frankly he’s on his own at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:12 AM
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I attract most men. I am a cute enough white girl so that seems standard. Military men tend to like me, I also tend to like them. Who knows which came first. I can keep the men I want to. I was raised around crazy country men and marines and sailors, I can be “intense” and so I wouldn’t be able to keep a man who is terrified of that intensity. I never saw guys like that as potential mates so it is ok. Oh also the few times I have been at functions where there were very upper class or old school …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 11:57 PM
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I agree with everything you said expect the ted bundy thing because I think glamourizing people like him is retarded, he probably wasn’t that charming irl he just happens to be less repulsive and antisocial than most other loser murderers, but anyway yeah inexperienced guys who shoot themselves in the foot by thinking bitterness somehow is how to be alpha. I have some theories, maybe they hear Chad locker room talk and assume that’s how he talks around women? IDK. And I agree with abundance ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:46 PM
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Oh spare me please. No man has ever said this to me irl, although a number have wanted to marry me. I am talking about men online on subs like this making general statements, about all women. The comment I made was a direct quote actually from a redditor. If you or anyone tried to say it directly to me it would be your problem, not mine. Don’t try to hamster this into a personal insult because it will not work, it isn’t accurate, and frankly it just makes you look like you’re trying way too hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:24 PM
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Same reason men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:39 PM
2

Yeah true body language is better than desperate begging too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:35 PM
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K.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:23 PM
9

People who see the world in poetic whimsical ways all the time are rarely stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:23 PM
4

I meant it literally. You can say you find her attractive without saying you want to fuck her etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:14 PM
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It’s possible to say you’re attracted to her without being overtly sexual though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:01 PM
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I would say they don’t forget the whole sexual part, if anything that becomes too prominent because they are desperate. Part of why Chad can afford to be patient is that he isn’t desperately waiting on one woman to “get sex” from, he knows at some point it will happen so he doesn’t do the desperate thing. He can take his time enjoying her flirting and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:01 PM
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There are entire novels and movies written for women around “At first I just thought of you as a friend, girl, but over time it snuck up on me that I want so much more from you.” Not hard to be honest. We don’t like it if you tried to sneak up on us when from the beginning only wanted sex. If he genuinely fell for her without planning if he should say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:49 PM
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Nowhere in there did I say trick women into thinking he just wants to be friends. Successful men can be friendly and fun and still admit he’s interested, not hiding it or desperately pushing it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:43 PM
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What’s ironic is all the guys desperate to get their dicks wet don’t even have that much competition if they’d just at least try to like a woman for more than that. If you could actually bring yourselves to enjoy women’s company a little bit, too, you’d have such romantic success! But so many consider that to be cucked. As I’ve said a hundred times, Chads actually enjoy and have fun with the company of women, for its own sake. Women perceive that and like him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:40 PM
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You are the ones saying “stupid women, don’t you know we all only care about your wet holes?”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:21 PM
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This reminds me of conversations I’ve had about how it’s poor manners to discuss money, and I get met with “what? I’m not allowed to discuss money when talking to my banker or splitting a bill?” Obviously sometimes you have to, it’s only that you shouldn’t discuss it socially. Or when RPW would ask how to be submissive to men at work, as though you should just submit to every man and not just to your spouse. Don’t DEER is referring to in a personal relationship, not to every instance under the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 06:00 PM
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Uh ok? That you think I “covertly admitted” anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 05:17 PM
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First of all it is true, I know many people who chose this path and have read up on it for years. I’m not covertly admitting anything. It’s not a secret that the rat race is dehumanizing. Men go to monasteries too. All the time. There are monasteries where monks have lived for so long that some of them haven’t heard of the Beatles or Star Wars. I’m replying to the topic. I don’t have to write a thesis covering every possible topic under the sun for every comment. You’re doing that annoying whata…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 04:17 PM
1

Do you know what it means and can you give an example of how it applies to describe the notion of women’s intuition?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 05:45 AM
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whimsical I’m curious why you chose this word.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 05:14 AM
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Cause what they bring to the table doesn’t seem like it’s that hard when it’s easy for you. For men active listening to a woman complain without offering solutions is very unnatural and takes effort. For women, listening to a friend venting is just common decency. So women don’t always appreciate the effort, and it’s understandable since it’s just not a challenge for her. But it is for the guy and women have to be told that so they get it. The same can be said of men with many examples. anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 04:57 AM
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Yes. Actually my ability to paid bond has increased over time. After what we went through, when I was 12 I told my dad I would never get married. It took until I was 25 to even be open to the idea of marriage as it applied to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 04:33 AM
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There’s also the hidden danger that people from mostly ok homes, that nonetheless still have some minor dysfunction, never struggle enough to have to learn any serious introspection or self-reflection, which can have unforeseen consequences in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 04:25 AM
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Hey champ you’ll do better next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 04:16 AM
1

Wow man good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:45 AM
1

You need to remember that wives talk amongst themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:27 AM
1

Did you get religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:25 AM
1

Andy Samberg and The Lonely Island Bash Brothers is how PPD men see themselves unironically https://www.theringer.com/tv/2019/5/23/18637191/lonely-island-netflix-jose-canseco-mark-mcgwire-bash-brothers I wonder what it’s like to be inside Andy Samberg’s head? Probably interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:06 AM
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She answered the question asked in the OP. And you’re like “your silence on your own roles is deafening” as though if she didn’t write it here then she must have no standards for herself. We can’t have debates if people expect every comment to be a thesis covering every possible topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:26 PM
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It’s not self inflicted. I don’t know, some girls revel in it and others do not like it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:50 PM
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Because we are brought up and spend our whole lives having to follow fancy politeness rules and social signals? It’s always amazing to me how completely ignorant men are of the female social matrix. Having to follow complex social rules at the expense of spirited debate is just called life for women, most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:37 AM
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/r/whereareallthegoodmen is not friendly to any opinions outside their group think, they do ban and censor opposing views.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:32 AM
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over nothing in particular Ha wow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:30 AM
5

So, reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:42 AM
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What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:15 AM
2

Even in my own church circles, everyone knew if you want a good partner you have to become the kind of person who that good partner would want to date. People moralized about sex and about using people, but it was based on a certain belief about human nature, and everyone was always advised to become the kind of person worth marrying, or who the right spouse for you would want. I think some morality outside of religion is logical for a functioning society. But no one ever said their is fairness …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:10 AM
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That is good too, but a retreat can be a really life-renewing experience either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:13 AM
2

You are really bored tonight, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:54 AM
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OP I know you are putting “okay” in quotes because you get it, but what is up with the constant asking for social approval and if things are “ok” i see on Reddit everywhere? Or saying so and so “can’t complain” like they think if you did x you can’t complain about y. It’s this mix of needing social approval and censorship that I find disturbing, See in my day if we didn’t like people who did x and complained about y, we would say “ugh I hate it when people do X.” I would not say “People who do X…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:51 AM
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Ok clearly you didn’t then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:25 AM
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Busybody, spy on the neighbors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:14 AM
3

Thanks for sharing your rapier wit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:12 AM
2

Hearing the voice of God in a personal way was not invented by milliennials, I hate to break it to you. Ever heard of Joan of Arc? You think it’s egotistical? Didn’t you recently say that you want to like, fight God, and then become God, or something equally crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:02 AM
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For sure, basically everything can become competitive, it’s so toxic especially from s things that are supposed to be loving supportive institutions, and I understand why people want to call the whole thing off and get to a nunnery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:59 PM
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But you are skeptical of actual facts. this isn’t an opinion or secret, the catholic dogma stays the same even as the lighter traditions may change with the times. If you looked it up on google for one minute you would see this isn’t like a debate about what you imagine, it is just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:57 PM
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Are you going to say anything useful or just make up insults to my intellect? These are literally commonly understood definitions, you conflating two things isn’t my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:56 PM
3

Are you not aware of the colloquial English term hall pass? It means when one spouse grants permission to another spouse to sleep with someone else, sometimes a particular individual or sometimes anyone. There is no deception or going against the will of one spouse. It is not something I would prefer, as I would prefer a normal, physically fulfilling marriage, but I could see myself if I was somehow in an alternate universe in a dead bedroom marriage, be tempted to ask for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:51 PM
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Okay you are literally just making up conjuncture in your head, right? This isn’t a matter up for debate like a theory on PPD, this is facts. Yes, I know the church defined scripture, but the church doesn’t do what Protestants do which is re interpret it as dogma in personal individual ways. Yes, the main teachings of the church are unchanging. This is not a theory or debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:49 PM
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No it doesn’t, do people know that words mean things anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:44 PM
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Please enlighten me how I am contradicting myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:37 PM
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Then I wouldn’t cheat and if it was intolerable I might have to divorce. That would be the last resort. I do not think it would come to that though, at all. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:34 PM
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No,NOT in the Catholic Church. The basic dogmas like going to mass Sunday, what are sins, and who is the savior and more do not change. I am not talking about tradition or scripture. The former is tradition, not dogma, the latter is a Protestant thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:33 PM
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I don’t have time to explain it here. Look up the basic dogma and tenets of the catholic faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:03 PM
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What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:03 PM
1

The dogma has always been the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:18 PM
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It is not blatantly false, the church hasn’t changed on dogma, please don’t make things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:39 PM
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I’m female. I’d be intolerant. I would try to fix it of course, but couldn’t live with it long term. If we had kids and didn’t want to divorce, which I wouldn’t, I might even ask to have a hall pass. I wouldn’t cheat. However I don’t think it will be an issue for me although I don’t have a crystal ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:41 PM
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https://aleteia.org/2017/09/15/10-breathtakingly-beautiful-catholic-retreats/ Here is a list of popular ones in the US, I got that googling “catholic monastery retreats USA.” I’ll PM about specific ones I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:21 PM
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Yes, actually. The one I went to and the ones my friends have gone to haven’t been pushy or preachy at all. The emphasis seemed to be in quiet time and fitting in the community. So the one I went on, I could pray in the chapel as much or as little as I wanted or just stay in my room, or see the garden maybe. I could listen to the choir just for music. My friend does a summer one where they stay a while, garden, clean, and don’t have phones and are quiet. They do eat together and have wholesome f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:16 PM
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The idea that the Catholic Church will ever change its fundamental doctrines “with the times” is a secular misunderstanding of how the church works. It has stayed the same on matters of dogma since it started. Institutions changing with the times is more of a modern capitalistic secular understanding, and it makes sense for businesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:12 PM
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Yes that all makes sense, I only didn’t agree with your comment that some strains of Christianity being gay tolerant is related to increasing sister vocations in the Catholic Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:10 PM
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When I went on a retreat to a contemplative convent, the head nun there told me that she’s often tired because they wake up so early for matins, but that she has the sense of “doing exactly what I’m supposed to be doing and being exactly where I’m supposed to be.” That seems like a pretty priceless feeling, especially compared to a world of pushing yourself to do more be better climb higher and so forth. I’d recommend the retreat experience for everyone, if they want a break that isn’t just a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:06 PM
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Gotcha yeah, I could see someone would assume it was just promoting her one monastery or something. There are definitely orders that are getting more popular than other, but usually they are pretty big with lots of different convents. And they do various things. Some are cloistered contemplatives who never leave, others help the poor and sick, others teach and do itinerant evangelization.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:55 PM
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I’m just curious where you got that? I didn’t even see the article name specific monasteries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:40 PM
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From one of the women’s prayer diaries: even if you were completely incapacitated and incapable of work, your identity and worth would be completely intact. This is written as a message from God to her. This quotation ties in with the excerpt you quoted about the expectation to throw oneself enthusiastically into every endeavor, 24/7, with enjoyment; that our value comes from accomplishing tasks well. Even hobbies, supposed to be relaxing, turn into mommy wars on Pinterest for the best organized…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:39 PM
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Np!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:23 PM
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I skimmed it but I didn’t quite see anything saying women joining her particular monastery? It seemed she was talking about the trend, the various websites and resources for people discerning. It’s very public now, it would actually be impossible to research this topic and only learn about one particular convent. Maybe you’re thinking of orders, like Dominicans or Benedictines?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:21 PM
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No. It won’t. The idea they are becoming nuns to find a gay safe space is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:14 PM
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That wouldn’t really make sense to say that the author somehow only had information about one monastery. No particular convent is large enough that gaining more adherents would indicate a larger trend, without checking other convents. I don’t quite see how anyone would be only aware of one particular monastery. Are there particular orders that are growing in popularity? Yes. But they have many locations. Being deeply immersed in a catholic community, I can say there are many young women I know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:09 PM
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The Catholic Church isn’t one of those churches.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:59 PM
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Yeah s bunch of spiritual experiences at once can be draining, it’s good to rest a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:10 AM
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Poetry is awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:13 AM
1

spiritually constipated Was that the earth moon sign thing you were telling me about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:00 AM
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https://medium.com/the-polymath-project/g-k-chesterton-in-defense-of-amateurs-7d2d55516a01
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:59 AM
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That is a quote from G.K. Chesterton, “anything worth doing is worth doing badly.” very wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:58 AM
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Have you seen some of the subs she’s talking about? Skincare, curly hair? They are super complicated and have all these rules, it’s like a purity cult in some ways...it encourages overthinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:55 AM
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Okay so I can only speak to my experience with all these things on reddit. I wasn’t thinking about looksmaxxing or anything, but I was really excited to learn about skincare especially for the long term, since no one had ever taught me anything about it. The same thing kinda happened with makeup subs, and also with the curly girl thing. Here are some thoughts: A lot of the info is really helpful. I had no idea what the different chemicals actually did in skincare so it freed me from being a slav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:50 AM
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Ty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:02 AM
2

I’m going to resist preaching about about how bra sizes work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:04 AM
2

Lol At least you know it’s fake. But you didn’t close out of it. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 11:39 PM
3

Please translate to freedom units.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 11:05 PM
0

stems from not being in a loving relationship Don’t forget porn
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 11:04 PM
2

Lmao you best watch your mouth son.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:06 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 01:21 AM
2

That sounds kind of dark man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 01:06 AM
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That’s so alien to me, I hate feeling even a little fluffy at all even not overweight, and I feel gross from gluttony.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 11:50 PM
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Do any of you consider going to the gym also for health reasons, to live longer and be comfortable when you’re older?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 11:17 PM
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Lol It has been a while, I am pretty sure it was Sagittarius, not 100% Thank you though this is good sage advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:45 AM
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They think it’s okay to be mean to us because we are powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:17 AM
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I will have what you are having.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:15 AM
1

When a guy who seems like a good fit asks you out, when you’re with him be sure to be warm and enjoy his company.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:09 AM
1

Actually I have had the same feeling this summer, yet last summer was the total opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:02 AM
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If I liked you back I would have asked you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:50 AM
1

I was being serious lol btw
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:09 AM
3

Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:05 AM
2

But can anything be done about my moon sign?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:31 PM
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Yeah yeah yeah of course you would
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:11 PM
4

Ok thanks for sharing your random thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 10:54 PM
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Yes again, I know you think that, and you’d all still be even more affronted at the audacity of women all openly plotting it and exchanging tips in a broad organized movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 10:50 PM
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Yes again, I know you think that, and you’d all still be even more affronted at the audacity of women all openly plotting it and exchanging tips in a broad organized movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 10:35 PM
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Doesn’t matter that you think that, you’d still be more annoyed to see women pooling their mental resources to perpetuate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 10:10 PM
1

It’s a figure of speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 10:00 PM
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Gosh, why would any woman have an issue around instructions for trying to manipulate her desires for the benefit of men and directly in opposition to, and undermining of the average female imperative? So confusing. Since you’re all apparently independently wealthy and terrified of gold diggers, let me know how much you’d like a movement of women strategizing to beta buxx you while having the pool guy’s baby. It’s for women not men, so gosh why would you be annoyed when reading it? Wow understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 09:57 PM
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Lol yeah I know you don’t purposely waste her time, you like many men don’t even realize you’re doing it. That’s all great for you. For those of us who aren’t auditioning for you, we will do what we please. Incidentally, since I was 24 it was always the men pushing for a business like, let’s move this forward attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 08:53 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:13 PM
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Men do not always blame themselves. That is absurd. Some people do and some people blame society and everybody else. Both men and women. Don’t even bother being contrary, anyone who’s ever seen incel writing and trp or mgtow knows men are plenty capable of constructing elaborate external blame with zero accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:38 AM
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It’s only wrong wrt children insofar as it puts strain on a marriage. Children fare better in life and adulthood growing up with happily married parents. The irony of putting the kids first at the expense of the marriage is it could end up worse for the kids if there is fighting or divorce. There is nothing wrong with children seeing their parents have their own exclusive relationship. It’s probably better than when children think their parents only exist in relation to themselves and never has …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:29 AM
2

It’s not a pernicious lie. Beauty is not objective. It’s more of a lie to call someone a discrete number or suggest a universal objective measurement is possible. No one can accurately be summarized like that. Rating at best is a superficial game, and when you love someone they can be your 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:20 AM
1

That’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:34 AM
9

it’s such a simple method to use Presumes there’s even a need for a method to begin with. That’s that attitude women don’t like. (I’m sure guys don’t like it either by the way.). The way it apparently never crossed your mind that just not rating us at all, especially when we didn’t ask, would even be an option. In particular reducing someone to a number, with such a small range of specificity at that, is especially crude. But the issue isn’t the method, it’s guys who can’t fathom not sharing exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:23 AM
2

This is basically my point, it is a philosophy and a community and a theory but much of what defines these things is not written in stone like in the dictionary, and hey even the dictionary changes. And much of it is relative and comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:03 AM
1

Don’t become mgtow at 19 dude.
/r/MGTOW215/07/19 02:29 AM
7

Yeah that’s totally exactly the correct understanding and not willful bad faith discussion. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 12:53 AM
7

Cool for them. I’m saying no one is begging a mgtow who openly pontificates about why he shouldn’t marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 12:49 AM
1

I know the origin of the pills I’m not talking about Gender Theory the college major but gender theory, theories about gender we discuss here as we do. Even if we were it’s still THEORIES highly dependent on PERSONAL AND ANECDOTAL UNDETSTANDING. And you’d still be wrong in your understanding of BP. Please shut up and stop saying dumb things. Don’t use my quote at me and don’t say dumbass things. Go bother someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 12:24 AM
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Oh so it’s rollo lesbian face tommassi? I still don’t think one tangentially related blog post topic, which is what I meant when I said that, is anything. It didn’t define BP. Was just his ramblings. Do you understand that gender THEORY is a soft not a hard science at best and therefore there is no study to prove my own and others’ understandings? Why do Reddit people not understand STEM isn’t everything??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:21 PM
2

Just defining BP in a way I didn’t believe was accurate, then saying my personal understanding of BP which also matches most peoples view here, the person was defining BP as basically trad con and I said that’s not my understanding so they want a “source” when my source is reading and discussing the theory. I’ve had many chats like that on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:18 PM
4

Great
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:15 PM
2

Yum! I might get the George foreman, looking at other brands too. They’re the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:06 PM
10

No one is going to try to sell you on marriage. This post has been made 80 billion times before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:43 PM
1

That’s fine I’m just saying it’s the new slur for most guys. For guys BPD woman= a woman I don’t like who got mad at me before. For women a narcissist or sociopath = a guy I don’t like who was mean to me before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:42 PM
1

Just check my comment history for today if you want, and this isn’t the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:36 PM
12

No one is begging men to marry if they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:18 PM
1

I’m talking about how often I share some info that isn’t measurable via a lab or study but nonetheless has value, and people who can’t grasp that not everything can possibly be measured like that nor does it need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:18 PM
1

Maybe, but it’s obviously just used as a slur for a woman who I don’t like who got mad at me once.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:19 PM
1

lol. He wasn’t neckbeardy, more like alternative and slightly sketchy. I never went to his house ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:17 PM
3

It’s only ever used against women. That leads me to believe it’s a bias. Why can’t they just say women be crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:17 PM
3

You’re missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:16 PM
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What is your point? BPD has still become a generic slur online for a woman I don’t like who got emotional. It’s annoying because most of them are not real diagnoses. And even if these girls did have disorders, it’s not always BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:09 PM
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BPD is Bordeline Personality DISORDER
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:55 PM
5

Gluttony
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:48 PM
5

Hey people did you know that not every bit of info or comment has to be sourced from a study and via the scientific method?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:44 PM
6

Why does trp always diagnose women they don’t like as BPD? That’s only one of many disorders. I wish they’d just call women crazy like it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:42 PM
3

I excited to get a panini maker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:39 PM
4

You can’t explain it to people who think forcing sex is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:38 PM
1

You linked to one tangentially related opinion blog. Ask the sub or shut up and stop protecting your mind pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:37 PM
2

I knew a guy who let his snake wander loose in the house. He was pretty much what’d you’d imagine a guy who lets a snake roam free in his house would be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:34 PM
3

Okay we are reading different rp stuff then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 05:36 PM
3

On what planet are you that RP men aren’t complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 05:06 PM
2

Like I said ask the sub. Stop being lame. I can’t project my opinion because I DO NOT CARE, people don’t project when they don’t care about the topic. I don’t agree with a lot of RP or BP and it has nothing to do with my gender views, you’re unable to realize I’m not being emotional because for some reason I can’t fathom, this matters to you. This is no deeper than a definition. I don’t care either way. I just think what people here call BP is not what you’re saying. There’s no “source” other th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:24 PM
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Any human can drastically change over a marriage. Some women are really different after giving birth. The ones I know haven’t changed that drastically (with the info I have.). A man could also change in any number of ways. Marriage isn’t about a guarantee of your spouse staying exactly the same and knowing just how everything is going to happen. Hence in sickness and health etc. I suppose if you think of a spouse the same way you think of something you order on Amazon, you would feel shortchange…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:16 PM
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Yes, I know that the human condition isn’t cured by reading a few online rules, there are many things to mitigate and make the human condition easier to bear, but there is no magic bullet. I’d advise against assuming just rote application of TRP is a quick fix. Even when it can help, it doesn’t work like that. People are always going to be people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:13 PM
3

You believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:52 PM
3

my female friends have never actually helped one of us get a date Did anyone ask them for help? Were they aware this was an expectation on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:47 PM
1

Looking for a panini maker. Yummy. I’m thinking George Foreman maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:40 PM
1

Dude I’m not a dude, BP isn’t a dictionary word or officially recognized philosophy, your only source would be other people who read pill things. Make an OP asking how people define BP. Just saying your comment doesn’t make me wrong, this is so stupid, you’re just one of those people that has to make everything a power struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:39 PM
2

Just ask anyone here if BP means you do traditional courtship and wait months for sex. Some of you guys just don’t get reality, not everything is about StUdIeS and yelling SOURCE?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 02:44 PM
3

Realign the White House’s chakras.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 05:34 AM
1

I’m right but it’s really boring and doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 05:32 AM
1

Just ask anyone here. I do not care enough either way to continue the conversation when it’s not up for debate it’s just a boring definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:34 AM
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Time for me to be bored out of my mind by everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:05 AM
1

No dude you are the one who is misinformed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 02:44 AM
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No not at all. BP just means you don’t buy into the RP descriptions of genders. BP could be a socially liberal person who does drugs and has random sex, it’s just whether they believe certain things about gender. More likely to think RP gender differences aren’t a thing. You’re talking more trad con but both BP or RP could do your model. For different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 02:06 AM
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BP isn’t tradcon, they do hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 11:55 PM
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Yeah I’d never go on a one on one hike with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 11:05 PM
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This is not a gender thing. High trust people who think the world is mostly full of Good People that can basically be trusted until proven otherwise usually think of respect to mean common courtesy, and because they think everyone agrees that most people are decent, they expect respect from and for everyone. Low trust people see the world as full of people they don’t know at all, and therefore respect is something earned with proof of character, and more important than just courtesy. A lot of tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 06:48 PM
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This is more on main Reddit, but when I see that someone “balled” their eyes out over a sad movie, I have to count to ten to calm down. Of course maybe they meant weary because they’re a poet? “Alack, I am weary of yon wenches and their interminable n-counts.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 04:35 PM
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Especially great when I say I’m not a feminist but I do believe women are people, and I get told that makes me feminist. No, they didn’t invent female personhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 04:32 PM
2

Bloop, a term that sounds really annoying to me, and it just looks so dumb written down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 04:30 PM
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See I understand it as the opposite. Maybe in the movie it meant just not red pill, but it’s come to mean a specific thing. There are lots of no pill people out in the world I’d never call blue pill, or red pill for that matter. But then, pill stuff isn’t my highest philosophy or religious view in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 04:29 PM
1

Navy Seals are beta Hahaha I hope they never live that down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 04:27 PM
2

Not a specific word, but the fallacy on here that someone says something, you rephrase it or summarize it or interpret it, then they say “I never said that!” because it wasn’t a direct quotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 04:20 PM
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I am a woman and use respect in the way you say men do, as something someone earns after demonstrating character over time. Being polite and decent I call being respectful , though I more use the terms polite or courteous. I say this because, while I agree people get in disagreements all the time based on defining respect in these different ways, I have seen both sexes take both uses and have never noticed a correlation with gender at all. And it’s actually a topic I have discussed a lot, and lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 04:13 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 06:29 AM
3

Men wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 10:13 PM
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Right. You’re not supporting your point at all. Whatever you think is self-evident isn’t to others so you aren’t contributing anything if you just say random words with no explication of your thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 06:16 PM
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Oh goody, here comes the PPD fallacy that if I rephrase your words slightly and not directly quote you on something, then you didn’t say it at all. Ever since I said my method filters out guys who are time wasters like you, you’ve been hamstering to convince yourself you were the one doing the rejecting. There is no hurt or emotion from me. What’s making you unworthy is the try hard way of talking about what you don’t like in women, and that was just as annoying when I was 19. Romantically succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 04:18 PM
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Reported for downvoting. If you want to have a discussion people have to know what you’re talking about. No English teacher would know for sure what he or it refers to in your vague, poorly written statement. It’s not offensive to expect someone to be clear, you’re just being insanely dramatic in your interpretations and comments. Enjoy saying words.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:45 PM
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You can’t understand any other possibility because you are the only one with sour grapes here, trying to convince yourself you’re rejecting women; and you’re projecting that. I know that people here can’t believe it, but some people actually like themselves enough that they only are attracted to people who want them. What you don’t understand is when I was 19 I knew men who spoke bitterly like you who thought it made them appear to have many options, and I was just as turned off by it then, as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:33 PM
2

Does this adorable delusion protect your ego better?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:14 PM
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You say it and he without explaining what they refer to. B- be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:13 PM
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Yes that’s a hysterical misinterpretation of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:55 PM
1

Was he a guest or does he have a regular part? I want to say he’s the boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:58 AM
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Anyone of any height can be concealing a weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:48 AM
5

It’s so smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:44 AM
1

That’s quite a list, think you’ll be lucky enough to find it all in one woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 01:12 AM
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It’s always really funny to me when guys here say women should settle for whatever so it’s more “fair” to men, somehow, but they’re talking to women who already didn’t have a problem finding what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 01:05 AM
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Sorry. As I said, my method filters out unworthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 12:35 AM
2

Haha well good thing I would never consider dating you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:48 PM
2

Yup and good intentions can make someone’s actions more forgivable. But it’s crazy to say your actions don’t relate to the Real You.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:47 PM
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Lol ofc you just should have just used your magical crystal ball vetting skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:23 AM
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“There is no special jail for people who had good intentions”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:08 AM
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I don’t know how that actually looks. I need a lot of human interaction, he talks to me as often as he can, I get morning texts, talking, during the day, after work. But he has to work too and that’s part of why I talk on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 08:59 PM
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The point is that I don’t even think men need to want to connect as much as women do, but we appreciate when y’all at least realize this is more than something we need once in a while to appease us, any more than you think throw you a bone starfish sex once a month is all you need in your ideal marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 08:58 PM
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Not my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 08:56 PM
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Men make their way in this world by initiating, enterprising, having broad stroke big visions, doing everything in a big way, using their brawn, starting with big ideas and details work out later. Their T and their larger size has meant this is what they do to survive this world, hesitating over details and not acting is dangerous for men. Women gave always been smaller, we have always survived, especially when pregnant or with children, by being persuasive, having good social and emotional skil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 08:50 PM
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Women don’t want a connection “every now and then” we get into relationships mainly to have a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 08:43 PM
3

Wow what a well-supported point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 08:43 PM
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Yeah, this is it; it seems nice means “judge me by my intentions from my heart of gold, not by what I actually do or do not do.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:45 PM
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That’s nice that you want silence and nothing wrong. Good to a degree. Women cannot be satisfied emotionally in a marriage with just silence and chill. We need personal connections. Women bond by sharing secrets and opening up. Not saying you need to open up and be feels, you can emotionally connect on intellectual topics, but lack of emotional connection is often why women inadvertently start drama and comfort tests. Men can be happy just in silence and ignored and sex and food, at least the me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:44 PM
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Yeah if she wants to bake and stuff have at it, I’m thinking of women who constantly bake and clean and act domestic to try to prove she’s a great wife, when that could be time spent just having fun and connecting with him so he wants to secure that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:57 PM
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Cool. Yeah and to be clear to everyone, I don’t mean proposing or talking about marriage with him in particular, just that early on he should know it’s one of your life goals and that you don’t date just to hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:54 PM
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Your advice is male imperative focused, of course men want women to sleep with him while also auditioning for marriage by cooking him great meals and cleaning. Aka plate training. And I say this as a woman who loves to be in the kitchen, lol, but there is a a way to do that without being super try hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:48 PM
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No she shouldn’t hint, she should directly let him know fairly early on that she as a marriage-minded woman dates for the purpose of deciding if they are a good match for marriage. She shouldn’t hint any more than you should hint at a job interview, and she shouldn’t start acting like a domestic wife solely to prove her mettle any more than you should show up at the job you want without getting hired or paid. Hinting because she is thinking like a 15 year old and thinks marriage talk makes her l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:39 PM
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No I didn’t in the past and no guy ever had an issue with it, sometimes they were the ones to bring it up. I know people here don’t believe it, but not all men or women are terrified of admitting that love is cool and that they care about stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:36 PM
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It exists, but it isn’t a thing in the way it is for women where it’s labeled as a meme basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:26 AM
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Mostly true although if they learned from hard experience that can be insightful, but adjust for their cynicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:58 AM
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You really don’t get it nor do I expect you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:56 AM
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Again male advice Do not do wifey things to any major extent, ladies, if he has not wifey-ed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:09 AM
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I agree that you should be able to say you’re looking for marriage as early as the first date if you want. It has not been a problem for me. Sometimes it came up within a few dates, sometimes when I was online even before we met. This is certainly way better starting advice than just “invest in an LTR hoping he comes around” which is horrible advice for marriage-minded women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:08 AM
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if you’re lucky Step right up ladies this offer is going away soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:05 AM
1

A lot of men completely despise girly voices.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:57 AM
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No because he is beautiful and writes music that speaks to my soul as a composer, although I would not know of him if he wasn’t famous. I mean unless I went to Canada. Well the gel has to be minimal just enough to keep it in place, but like I said I prefer a military cut and uniform so you should ask a normal woman who likes civilians. But yes actually you’re correct about that some men haven’t even tried to groom, so I amend my statement to refer only to men who are over groomed hipster metrose…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:54 AM
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We were talking about a broke trashy guy who has absolutely nothing else going for him and probably cannot get access to super slick fashions so he really needs to go heavy on fitness on game. I don’t personally give much credence to how men dress since I am above all attracted to men in uniform, and I think guys who care about trends or have “styled” hair that is all big and gelled do not seem like men to me, but I understand many women like the metrosexual groomed look. The only exception is p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:40 AM
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My point was simply that if you don’t have those things that the OP mentioned, you have to have really good game and at least be somewhat fit to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:25 AM
1

Can you explicate this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 12:09 AM
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Nobody will fuck you If you don’t have really strong fitness and game to make up for it. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 11:33 PM
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The benefit of getting dating advice from your own sex is that they understand your psychology and what issues you may have that you need to fix. The risk of getting dating advice from your own sex is that they don’t always know what the opposite sex actually wants, but only what works. Others also advise based on what they think should be rather than what is. The benefit of getting dating advice from the opposite sex is they can give insider knowledge of how their minds work. The risk is their …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 11:25 PM
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Oh, in the context that you love water it’s more ok, but you still should not feel the slightest obligation to do it just because you don’t want to be rude. I don’t think you need to train yourself out of anything unless you truly want to scuba.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:56 PM
1

Y’all into those MILFs then? They sure do like the pool boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:50 PM
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It isn’t seductive or male gaze appealing or whatever, she seems more focused on being arty and different than hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:43 PM
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I love to swim but am terrified of scuba and have no interest, I wouldn’t go. That gift is on par with giving an unwanted puppy as a gift. Not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:41 PM
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Came here to say it’s something I only picture a real housewife doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:13 PM
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Got ‘em.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:08 PM
2

I was in total pure honest good faith. I and God know that. You all just can’t deal with this issue. I’m not going down this road. Have a lovely day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:05 PM
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Yup. She doesn’t nag, doesn’t go to the bathroom or get sick or get in a mood or not be in the mood. She does not disagree or have to do chores. It’s just a fantasy, and it’s pretty rich for guys who research endlessly how to manipulate women for lays to be suddenly up in arms over this. And you’re correct, men are not being forced to go to her or anyone similar because they somehow were treated badly by another woman. We all have agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:37 AM
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Why do men suddenly not have agency
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:04 AM
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A lot of people who love talking about amorality suddenly care a lot about morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 12:42 AM
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Oh, I didn’t realize you meant assume as in you assume her manager exists. The sentence read like assume was referring to a manger, which exists, is doing the business strategizing. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 11:40 PM
1

Maybe she will when she’s older, she seems to have good business sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 11:38 PM
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It’s not an unreasonable possibility, but you said it like there actually is a manager that we know of with a name and all, and we don’t know that. From what I understand, some e thots do and some don’t. I just wanted to clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:23 PM
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I think it is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:18 PM
3

Okay so you don’t even know if she has a manager or not and are just assuming she isn’t capable of manipulating thirsty guys on her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:15 PM
0

Who is her manager?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:08 PM
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Asking your age is not a personal attack, but you aren’t supposed to downvote on this sub. I get that you don’t agree, this is literally a debate sub and I am entitled to defend my opinions too, that’s why were are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:49 PM
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No it is not not well thought out, we were addressing one aspect in particular (does society send people false messages about dating), and I was arguing whether or not that specific point is true or not, and then we moved on to broader concerns about other ways that people get false messages. I don’t know how old you are but in no way does expanding to the topic to address other motivations for things indicate a poorly-thought out opinion. As I said, I have been considering and talking about thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:34 PM
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It’s both. Lol. People get messages from different sources. Why is that confusing? Yes they do say it, an example is RPW was taken over by men following the male imperative advising women to have sex ASAP or risk losing the guy. I don’t know why you’re confused that there can be multiple reasons men and women get bad intel or misunderstand the opposite sex. You know what, go on blaming women for every romantic failure of both genders. That’s not a remotely reasonable position but go on calling m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 08:08 PM
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There are entire magazines devoted to that message. Men are constantly warning women if she doesn’t fuck men leave. It is some projecting too. And women get other shitty advice But you’re doing it, you’re blaming women’s failures on a failure with them personally and men’s failures you’re also blaming on women and society. That’s sad and victim-y, it must feel bad to give away all your power. I don’t agree to disagree because I can’t respect your opinion now; I’ve presented a reasonable analysis…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 07:17 PM
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No I am not, I’m saying guys who think they get false info and it’s not partly their natural male imperative projecting, and that’s an external locus of control blaming outsiders and that’s a character flaw. I even made a comment that someone made onto a post, about this. And girls get false info all the time from modern thinkers, like ask him out, pay for his meal, say you like him, blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 07:04 PM
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They still gonna try.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:53 PM
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How do you think guys get these ideas? As a woman it’s easy to see that men aren’t as much “told” by society as they think. A huge chunk of these delusions is the same exact thing, projecting what men want in a woman...they want a nice docile girl so the men act that way and are hurt when the girls aren’t into it. Again I don’t care about any guy wanting advice, I’m saying staying angry and chip on shoulder-y is entitled, and an example of men having an external locus of control. I don’t think m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:52 PM
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I’d say some are neglected and not taught the basics of human nature. Others are spoiled and babied by mummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:42 PM
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It is literally exactly false info about how attraction works. So many girls think sex will make the guy attached to her, because they project female psyche onto men. I’m kind and sympathetic to anyone I care about being rejected. I do NOT suffer either men or women talking like cartoon villains online and writing screens and whining that society tricked them, in this regard. Most of the time I am hard on some of men online it’s because it feels like dealing with badly behaved children. NOT the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:39 PM
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If she just likes the books no. If a girl in my family was hung up on Edward to the point it makes her not date, I’d give her tough love about it. Fair but tough. And and I’m not harsh on boys for just liking a movie. If a boy in my family got delusional ideas I’d give him tough love, honest words. Fair but tough. If EITHER boys OR girls started writing bitter edge troll angry society - blaming things online due to these tropes, I’d tell them to stop being whiny, victim-y, sad angry jerks and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:37 PM
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Girls aren’t stupid. They don’t think vampires are real; but they do believe from these books that a guy could love them as devotedly as Edward. When it’s not true they’re told tough cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:28 PM
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I mean it’s the same with girls, it’s not like they all have parents teaching them right: and even if they do, do teens get it or listen? Girls do things like sleep with a guy thinking it will make him love her. If she whines about it, they blame her for being naive and falling for it. Parents all warn girls about boys, they get told “boys will be boys, they will trick you and say anything at all to get sex” they don’t tell the girls it’s so unfair, girls are just told that’s how men are, it’s y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:26 PM
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I’m thinking at least some of them, like the ones who go on ask feminists, are “male feminists” who are trying to use the ideology to get laid by feminist women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:12 PM
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I don’t just mean girls. That yes, but living: friends, activities, sports, camping, whatever...handling human interactions and drama and ups and downs. Not learning life from screens. If you can handle friendships and life and challenges, dating is less scary. You can lose 100x and not give up. Maybe this is just because when I was a kid we still went outside all day and weren’t supposed to stare at screens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:09 PM
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Okay so this is confirming my theory that a lot of anger phase guys were just sheltered, some even spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:07 PM
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Okay but girls fell in love with Edward Cullen and they didn’t start raging at society and random men online for deceiving them. If anything women take responsibility for those messages, for better or worse, feminists like to tell young girls not to buy into that stuff. Women don’t get bitter at “society” because cheesy romances exist, at least not on the level of how men do so in pill circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:07 PM
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You said it yourself, it starts slowly. Like the boiling frog analogy. Abusers start small slowly chipping at the victim’s confidence. Then it grows until before you know it victim is in over their head. Abusers are also usually nice part of the time. Trauma bonding is a thing too. If abusers were cartoon villains right away people usually wouldn’t stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:49 PM
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I just really think it is a choice to not live life. If they went out and weren’t giving up on life because of bad experiences with people, they’d learn faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:39 PM
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I’m trying to understand how this happens. Why are some guys having this delusion? It seems reality would have taught them like it does everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:15 PM
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Why? None of my male siblings or cousins have these delusions about women or tv either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:06 PM
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Spiritually and understanding life, philosophy, art, surely you can’t be serious. A purpose, meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:04 PM
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I’ve known that movies are not real and neither women or men are saints since I was a child. I don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:37 PM
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How above you shove the long johns up your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:57 PM
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I’m sorry you’ve spent your whole life on the internet and don’t know why cold is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:29 AM
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No lol that’s defending your child. The equivalent would be calling a lawyer because Chad pumped and dumped me. I’d die of embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 11:57 PM
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Which is most of these incidences It’s still embarrassing to snitch that a girl used you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 11:48 PM
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Okay so you admit it’s a matter of perspective for men, I was speaking as a woman. Yeah it is, I’m an normal ish woman and I will never see getting pumped and dumped by a guy I liked as remotely comparable to accidentally buying fries. There are myriad sufferings men have that I consider just as bad as a woman getting pumped and dumped; paying for dinner without getting laid is not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 10:38 PM
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No, obviously I didn’t say that. It’s not a matter of opinion to the majority of women. It’s a male POV what you’re talking about. If a woman agrees with you she’s an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 10:32 PM
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You know that some people in the US actually are starving? And others are not starving but they are broke...as I’m sure you’ve said sometime in your life before, a lot of poor women don’t starve precisely because men buy them food. Is English your first language? Do you know that we say “starving” colloquially to mean “very hungry?” As I did in my first comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 10:30 PM
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No, the average woman is much more hurt by getting pumped and dumped than by paying for a meal. No normal woman will ever consider being pumped and dumped and heartbroken as anything remotely comparable to paying for a sandwich. Women see comments like yours as heartless and cold and it doesn’t work in your favor to say it out loud. I spend money on buy things that end up not working sometimes, it’s not at all like being heartbroken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 10:27 PM
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And women are called awalt insta-thots. Who cares you do you, take off your shirt if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 10:08 PM
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It’s not ok for men to attention whore on insta? Who’s saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:28 PM
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just because the term butterfly effect exists doesn’t make your word jumbles more logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:26 PM
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Like...cookies?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:14 PM
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What double standard ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:12 PM
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You stated that your idea IS or at least USED TO BE a thing among “civilized people” now you’re just changing your assertion. Your idea is not humanly possible unless you become supreme leader of a dictatorship, and force women on second dates. No one has ever been obligated to go out again just because a date went ok, and no one ever will. Wishing it to be different is a weak attitude indicating you don’t feel you can keep a woman interested based on your own merit, so you want societal pressur…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:05 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:40 PM
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Is important, thread title is misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:25 PM
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Yeah. And the times I’ve tried to show it here, I still was told even more vehemently how solipsistic and lacking empathy I am, because of say “both men and women have it rough.” It’s not empathy/sympathy unless I say only men have it rough, women are liars, and then give them a bj.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:24 PM
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This unspoken agreement you describe has never been a thing at any point in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:21 PM
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Probably yes, not unlike when asking for empathy is code for give him sex and also admit women are wrong about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:13 PM
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Do you honestly want it to become a legal issue? Wouldn’t it be embarrassing to snitch to the court if a woman rejected you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:10 PM
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Who cares though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:03 PM
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We are definitely being antisocial just to watch it this weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:33 PM
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It’s not the norm of acceptable, that’s just you expressing frustration. The risk of being lied to it’s an unfortunate risk taken when you interact with human beings, some of whom are lame and tell lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 06:42 PM
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Yeah, true, and I don’t get that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:54 PM
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I do not understand why this sub is so into trying to make every interpersonal interaction into a legal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:46 PM
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Women accept the risk of being lied to about being liked just to get pumped and dumped, and we understand the risk of being attacked or worse when we meet strange men. The first one isn’t not even considered socially wrong at all, we run the risk of a man lying and saying he loves us only to be used for sex, and we accept that is the risk of modern dating. And if we complain about it we get told tough cookies, that is how men are and that is life. Being used for sex when you love someone is much…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:39 PM
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This is what the studies never clarify. If you’re starving and hungry and think “I am not sure about this guy but I am hungry so I will give him half a chance,” that isn’t the same as “I know for a fact I can’t stand this guy so I will just use him for dinner.” The first one is honestly what a lot of guys here want, just to be given a chance even if you aren’t sure about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:37 PM
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No, are you joking? The law cares about fraud when it swindles people out of millions of dollars in business interactions, not this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:22 PM
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Ask a lawyer but no I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:12 PM
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No, I’m almost certain that going on a date for the food would never legally be considered fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:04 PM
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You might want to clarify you’re not taking about the legal definition of fraud, maybe saying “fraudulent” makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 04:55 PM
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And other spooky stories for men to tell other men in the dark
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 04:53 PM
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Charm. The desire to be with women channeled in a charming friendly way. Not ugly but not astonishingly hot, not necessarily tall, not buff but not fat. I cringe at using this term because of how it is used online but they had actual “amused mastery” not whatever weird arrogant thing people do online, but only that they weren’t threatened and defensive and could be cool and find humor in everything. Make people laugh. Conversations that could go two ways and turn dramatic, they could smooth over…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 04:19 PM
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https://www.hippocraticpost.com/heart-lung/circulation-gender-divide/ There you go for your dumbass comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:29 PM
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Okay are you going to pay for my high insulation winter layers from a pro outdoor store? My thinsulate wool long John’s and wool socks? You think offices let me dress like a fucking Eskimo? I don’t recall saying I have no blood in my feet but by all means make up stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:29 PM
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I would rather love more. God loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 02:14 AM
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Preach They need to go to Australia. The Aussies I know never had this too hot complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:37 AM
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No thanks, your username tells me your opinion is worthless because you’re (not your) too emotional and biased. And your comment was so irrelevant and blatantly just Team Man that I had to point out how stupid it is. Normally if you have a point you spit it out but go on pretending. No one wants to play a guessing game on what confusion is in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 12:42 AM
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Stupid and imbecilic comment. Off topic random mouth word insult that makes no sense, do you think I’m projecting and it’s secretly men who get cold? You’re the one who is lacking here. https://www.hippocraticpost.com/heart-lung/circulation-gender-divide/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 12:30 AM
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Do you seriously not get how f-ing insulting “wear layers” is as s reply? If you can get why romantic ally unsuccessful men hate being told “just shower” then you can get this too. Yes ALL normal irl people would get me. You all personally insulting my intelligence because you’re woman hating and bitter. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 10:02 PM
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Lol who’s solipsistic now? It’s not “no one else” normal sane people understood me, only losers on here are not smart enough to get it. I didn’t want the convo to go any way at all. Normal not insane people would probably have lol’d and said get well and you’re right we’re all in this together it’s not a fucking war. I worded it like a normal informal human not a hyper serious literal autist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:48 PM
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To someone who only has a hammer everything looks like a nail.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:39 PM
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No most men think women want muscle Chad face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:38 PM
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No any guy who doesn’t harbor bitterness against women would get it. I’m sorry you have no sense of humor or social nuance but no amount of repeating yourself will make me solipsistic and lacking empathy. You have done nothing but whine about women but if I so much as try to relate a personal anecdote as a segue to a fair discussion it goes to shot with you people. I have nothing else going on this week bc I’m sick. Sue me for trying to use it to start a comvo. Lol if I dare to mention myself at…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:38 PM
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I am living proof this isn’t always true. Do you have any idea how many moms love that look, it’s almost crazy. If you choose to lose before you begin that’s your choice. There is always someone who will be into you, but some guys aren’t happy unless all women want them. And yes women of all ages like cute boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:22 PM
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No its not but it is compared to Chad thick manface
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:21 PM
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I’m 33 and I think cute face guys are hot. I’m far from the only one. If someone has a baby face from just being fat ofc that’s an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:14 PM
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I’m 33 and I still think Bieber is hot and Ansel Elgort is hot. I’m far from the only one. If you aren’t be sure to be a healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:11 PM
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Leave it to PPD men can take a comment extending an olive branch and empathizing with their plight literally spelled out and still call it solipsistic and lacking empathy. I was right to tell women to ignore men who complain women don’t empathize with them. You’ll never accept it unless I say women and all my ideas are garbage and men are always right and saints.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:09 PM
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Is that a fact? Women love teen idols with babyface.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:04 PM
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Please stop, I didn’t say regulating body temp is insulting, I said calling me solipsistic and lacking empathy is. I wasn’t joking or not joking. I was serious and playful. Tongue in cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:02 PM
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Lots of Women love cute baby face guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:34 PM
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Yes because he doesn’t attribute the worst possible motive to me. You gave no reason to either. This just in, women react with bristling annoyance like normal humans do to ppl who say condescending asinine and repeatedly insulting things to them. Reminds me of the men jumping out at me at night in the street and then when I run off they told their friend how I’m sexist and racist for running off. Like all the men here you are so literal that you think if you didn’t say an exact sequence of words…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:30 PM
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I told you that you’re acting too autistic to get that I was being funny and obviously not literal. I was using my annoying illness to be friendly and start a comvo and the bitter men here got an inch and took a mile and still have made up hamstring about why my empathy isn’t really good enough. Just can’t be satisfied. FYI I just told my bf the exact words of my original comment and asked how he took it, and he assumed I was being slightly tongue in cheek / venting about my fever, not that it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:11 PM
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Wait are you dead bedroomed or having bimonthly sex? Is that twice a month or every 2 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:06 PM
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Yeah it is very American to come up with a “system” for relationships. But I like how we are very passionate and that’s why it gets so intense. Euros can be more laid back but sacrifice it being meaningful, or be more tolerant of affairs. America is a pioneering individualist culture, that’s in everything including love. You’re also talking more about Latin and Mediterranean cultures imo. Like in the UK there’s no romantic dancing and people barely even date, they just get together with someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:04 PM
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Yeah those are extremely insulting (not in scare quotes) and false, genius. So you admit you’re just bitter at women and your feelings cloud your logic. You think personal character attacks are ok if it’s towards a female. We don’t even disagree on doing what I can and I never once said I want the whole office to change. Because every other woman has the same issue in my building. I just had it more. I keep the heater on high they keep it on low. It’s just a matter of degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:55 PM
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Please stop the personal insults to my character. I haven’t been dealing with any of this, what the hell are you talking about years? I have anemia which is why I’m colder than even most women and I as I have repeatedly said, if I’m free to have s tiny space heater and wear layers I am fine. I have literally never said a word about this at the office except one time another female coworker complained and I told her we were allowed to get heaters and sent her a link. However the “see a doctor” ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:41 PM
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What the hell solipsism are you talking about? My responding politely to the male solipsism about layers? I literally have been empathetic not “attempting” JFC way to act condescending, and I was fair and you and the others still are criticizing me about this because I’m female. No good deed goes unpunished. I’ve never heard of entire offices changing to suit women, certainly never happened to me. Men didn’t miss anything I LITERALLY SAID I SYMPATHIZE and they responded with idiocy about layers …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:05 PM
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Well then you haven’t been on the pill sphere very long. They lecture young women to settle down with a “good stable man” early but they don’t actually want that, because it would mean the system I describe. Actually they just want those young women to be their bang maids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:35 PM
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I only complain if I can’t have a heater. I’m assuming you want the male complaining to stop too? Since you’re fair? Did you even notice that my original comment was trying to show empathy for men? Every guy here keeps demanding empathy from women, and so I show it, and I still get told I’m a moronic piece of garbage c.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:34 PM
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Well luckily my office allowed discreet use of these cheap space heaters. Every woman in my office got one. I wouldn’t dream of trying to change the building thermostat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:21 PM
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My feet are the coldest and my hands are moving when they type. If my feet can stay warm from a heater it helps my whole body. My bf will tell you I can be wearing thick wool socks and my feet will still be ice. But warm them up and I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:15 PM
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I never touched it I wear sweaters and have a space heater. I always adapt. And yet still get told by men here that my heater was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:13 PM
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Well it benefits women for sure. It is funny that men who lecture women about locking down a man young don’t want this natural conclusion In the past no sex before marriage made a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:12 PM
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Lobby for a change instead of attacking our biology. I am fully in support of men having a looser dress code. I hope I’ve clarified like 20x that layers alone don’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:11 PM
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I did a $20 under my desk where if worked by my feet, I don’t need it in my face. It’s not bothering anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:10 PM
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🤘🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 05:47 PM
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Oh go screw your self, it’s biology not a hamster, the absolute male solipsism to think you know my daily lived experience and that of the other girls in my office all wearing sweaters and still needing a heater. Having the AC on blast takes up a ton of electricity too. I have absolutely no respect for anything you say here on out in perpetuity after reading the absolute trash that is your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 05:25 PM
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I meant the temperature thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 05:23 PM
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I meant the temperature thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 05:22 PM
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Actually, that is a common misconception. the coldness women experience is due to less blood circulating to our extremities than men. Layers do not do anything for the kind of cold I experience, especially since it’s on feet and hands. So cold as to be unable to think. However, a small space heater under my desk turned up high makes a huge difference. Women are not actually so stupid that they hadn’t considered layers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:33 PM
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So it’s only discrimination when it’s against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:14 PM
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Actually, that is a common misconception. the coldness women experience is due to less blood circulating to our extremities than men. Layers do not do anything for the kind of cold I experience, especially since it’s on feet and hands. So cold as to be unable to think. However, a small space heater under my desk turned up high makes a huge difference. Women are not actually so stupid that they hadn’t considered layers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:11 PM
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Actually, that is a common misconception. the coldness women experience is due to less blood circulating to our extremities than men. Layers do not do anything for the kind of cold I experience, especially since it’s on feet and hands. So cold as to be unable to think. However, a small space heater under my desk turned up high makes a huge difference. Women are not actually so stupid that they hadn’t considered layers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:10 PM
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Yes actually, more people over the spectrum of desirability would find spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:08 PM
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I discussed this elsewhere in the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:06 PM
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Yes, good point, the system depended heavily on parental and societal pressure to choose, women weren’t all self-disciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:06 PM
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Well y’all keep asking for it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 05:05 AM
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Would watch, you should make the show
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:54 AM
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I’ve read it thanks I know about her character. I hope I’ve clarified that I was speaking about the traditional courtships as advised by parents at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:54 AM
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Fair enough I specifically picked the antebellum era bc it seemed on the cusp of allowing marriage of choice, while still having strong input from parents and family and society, so there was still that wisdom but it wasn’t totally forced or arranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:42 AM
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Well at this point I’m talking food tampering as a whole. As someone with some odd allergies and who gets sick easily it scares me really badly. And just such a low honor society. I don’t know, if someone had AIDS it could. I’m sure you don’t but you get the point. I think it would have been better to punch him in the face for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:39 AM
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Like Goldilocks “this one’s too big this one’s too small this one is just right”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:38 AM
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I actually lol’d
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:36 AM
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Do you think that arranged marriages are always bad and modern dating “for love” marriages are always happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:32 AM
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Its funny because I was thinking of Mrs. O’Hara and not Scarlett, when I made up the term. Scarlett’s mother was the one dispensing the advice. Whatever the “fuck” I’m talking about is how young women were taught courtship at the time, and GWTW is an easy cultural touchstone to which I can refer and people will get it without my having to trot out a study or article.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:30 AM
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Just to be clear I think his behavior is asinine, but food tampering could kill someone and it’s violating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:29 AM
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I just mean what is society now that food tampering is a funny joke, it’s like how prison rape is a funny joke somehow too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:14 AM
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I would never do that I am always exceedingly kind to servers but you realize what you all are talking about is really heinous right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:03 AM
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Oh but you’re way overthinking it, just drop it and look for new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:01 AM
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I think nobody understands anymore that being human is inherently hard or dissatisfying at times so they are looking for someone to blame for feeling that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:01 AM
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Yeah sadly the 60s and the internet seem to have ruined the mystique. Maybe we should all take some sort of memory loss drug. Jk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:56 AM
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I mean is it a joke that you openly talk about this like it’s no big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:55 AM
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It sounds bad enough that taking a full time job at a gas station or something else minimum wage would still be better than living in the pit being miserable all day, you could get a roommate online and share a place, it will be much easier to find a woman when you are not living in a gross hole and you are doing something helpful with your day, your self esteem will be better. Just find a job to get out of that house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:55 AM
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I don’t know. I think more men should realize that a man who doesn’t judge and is emotionally secure and makes it clear he isn’t going to trash talk any woman behind her back goes a LOT father than they think. In fact I would say that is true in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:52 AM
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Ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:52 AM
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Is this a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:50 AM
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Uh...what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:50 AM
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Normally I am really cold all the time. Now I have a stupid fever which I have not experienced in many years. I now sympathize with men who get too hot in offices. (Edit for literalists: normal people interpret this statement to mean I’m frustrated by feeling sick but would like to half jokingly use it to discuss the topic. Not that this is the first time in my life I’ve ever considered men’s POV.). But it also really really is awful to be so cold you can’t focus on anything except being cold. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:49 AM
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Are YOU hoarding? If not then you did not fail at least in that regard. Your parents fuckups aren’t yours. Your post was deleted, remind me again what is stopping your from getting a job and a studio apartment or roommate?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:47 AM
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Well like I said, I think the fact the women are into each other is part of it, like I think if they were only into him it would not happen. It seems they are successful career wise and perhaps want a discreet way to do this crazy stuff,and they all sort of keep it discreet. I know the career ones do not need money. It seems he is a good opportunist. Also I think he does try to be a genuine person, like I know people on here wont’ believe me but he seems like he tries to show he cares about peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:46 AM
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It’s a bigger deal because you knew that a romantic connection would either end in marriage or a breakup. Friendships don’t have that potential breakup feature so it seems like a bigger deal when it happens. But although I know nothing of the situation, it is entirely possible she is a drama queen. Reddit is full of people who think they are strong for cutting people off at the drop of a hat, and there is certainly a time for that, but it also takes a lot of strength to not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:44 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:42 AM
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Right yeah actually if it were possible this could work or at least not have intercourse. My view is that yes it would be unlikely to be implemented in modern society, but that it still is a system that gives women the most power...and ironically it is the natural conclusion of all the advice men online are giving to women to make the best of her youth. But people would have to see the benefit of it, it was a result of the time and it isn’t easy to just close the Pandora’s box of the internet le…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:42 AM
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Because it’s a rejection. That feels bad to normal people. But that doesn’t mean you are a reject. If that makes sense. I could see how Reddit would make one feel bad, anytime anyone on Reddit cuts off a loved one the whole comments are GOOD FOR YOU!! and paint the cut off party as a demon, but that’s definitely not always accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:28 AM
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Yeah I know and he’s only kind of cool. It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:26 AM
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Oh and yeah I know people who are serial “cutting tOxIc pEoPlE oUt” types, sometimes they do a 180 on who is toxic...try not to take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:18 AM
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I say all kinds of blunt things in the moment because I would rather get it out in the open...but I also realized some people found it harsh and that part of why I was like that was low self esteem thinking that I have no effect on anybody and so no one cares what I say anyway. I don’t know if you relate but it was a good thing to realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:17 AM
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Man up and ask girls out until one says yes. If she asks you out say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:15 AM
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You don’t, you become an adult when you realize that there’s people and there’s behavior and you can separate them. That most people do a mix of good and bad behavior. Everyone has ways they can improve and it’s great to work on that. IDK about the friend, but we live in a culture of cutting people off and calling people toxic who don’t agree with you, so...this stuff happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:10 AM
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Wow having a fever is profoundly annoying, I miss being too cold all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:09 AM
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Lol fair enough I realize given how things are now this would be very hard to just implement, but I do think it’s the logical method of following the advice to maximize your youth to find the best guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:06 AM
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Lol exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:05 AM
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Girls....asked you out but you said no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:00 AM
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Ok 👌 good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:53 AM
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Honestly it might be better for everyone, but of course all this happened when one wasn’t supposed to have premarital sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:49 AM
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I know this guy who has a harem now, the women are high power career gals and they’re in it for him kinda but are into each other too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:48 AM
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Yeah I agree entirely, that’s why I realize it would impractical to implement in modern society but wanted to discuss anyway. I still think the method gave women more power and time saved, and a sense of security. of course it sacrifices trying for sexual compatibility first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:47 AM
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Lol is this like saying I’m a Leo so that’s why I embezzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:40 AM
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Actually this would be an interesting point if you engaged in good faith. The women back then were not having sex, so it wasn’t poly. Would it be possible to do that now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:36 AM
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Can you be more specific? How do you know women aren’t doing this now? A few women are but it’s fighting the trend, and it’s often in traditional circles where marriage is expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:35 AM
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I’d thought that the mission was just to give you your own interests so that your happiness isn’t dependent on a woman. I don’t think it was supposed to trick yourself into pretending you don’t need women as a way to secretly attract them, I literally thought it was to make your life bigger than about sex so you don’t obsess. Maybe I’m too literal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:30 AM
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Here is some help: making 6 figures passive income puts you ahead of a huge number, hundreds of thousands of people, adults with multiple degrees and 6 figures of DEBT. A good chunk of those people have also been heartbroken. You’re only obsessed with this girl because of not having enough life experience to compare it. You’ll get out and meet way more women. You also have built her up in your mind because in your head she’s the reason you are successful. So it’s all riding on her. Except that’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:27 AM
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Women have to maximize the time we have. We don’t have the luxury men have of just taking our sweet time lounging around with a “maybe” we have a stronger time limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:06 AM
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If this is ReAL you’re just out of high school making 6 figures, some people lose the person they love and are also broke and homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:17 AM
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Are you coming to Merica
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 12:08 AM
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What do you do during the day rus
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 12:00 AM
3

Like auschwitz
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 11:57 PM
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Anything except hunting your own dinner is cucked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 11:55 PM
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I actually think a the kind of men who can’t stand women think penetration is bad. I think they feel some weird self hate for penetrating a woman and they think the dumb bitch is degraded by taking it even tho god made is this way so they project that to hate feminoids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 10:23 PM
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I like this question
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 07:47 PM
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No not like math don’t be obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:29 PM
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It’s a subjective area, not measurable like math or chemistry, and he fully believes it’s gospel truth and if you don’t agree you did it wrong. Religious thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:20 PM
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Whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:09 PM
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I wasn’t actually talking to you anyway so no need to worry. Stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:21 PM
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No idea what you’re talking about. If you spent time writing a comment this that’s sad as hell. This imbecilic retroactive “I predicted you” is retarded and also some really sad attempt at a gotcha because there is no point you stand on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:20 PM
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No idea what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:15 PM
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Okay this might not count because I don’t have 100% confirmation from them, but this one family I knew I was extremely close with and I am fairly certain that their marriage was open on either both sides or just the wife. I am not entirely clear. I think they may have also been seeking a unicorn. Regardless, they were an interesting couple. Sometimes they fought, but they also had a level of directness and honesty towards each other that seemed like they really got to know each other in a seriou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:22 AM
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Yeah maybe, I just think it is basic human psychology that people want what they can’t have and they want what is considered desirable by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:46 AM
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Hey you should try buying yesterday’s lotto numbers and pass it off that you predicted it since you’re so good at hindsight
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:52 AM
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Make what easy, you sitting alone pretending you’re really good at reading people?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:33 AM
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You actually didn’t do anything like that, you just retroactively made smug comments. Get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:19 AM
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I just find it hilarious how you think saying “I predicted that” means you predicted something, and how you make up statements I didn’t say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:44 AM
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People who want sex don’t get it all the time. Your statement that people who want sex come hell or high water will get it is based on your selection pool of the men you’re seeing, there are literally thousands of men who want sex very badly and are not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:42 AM
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Keep saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:36 AM
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They are totally relevant, you just don’t like it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:29 AM
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Okay so do you not understand how contradictory anecdotes disprove ALL or ONLY claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:14 AM
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Well I didn’t read it nor do I take a random article as the gospel truth over my lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:05 AM
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Seek? Some do. Many don’t act on it. But yes, being taken is like a pre-approval. Men like taken women too. It is a huge endorsement, especially marriage—there are so many freaks out there, and here’s someone who has someone who decided to spend their whole life with them. Lifelong endorsement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 12:27 AM
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Lol. Get ready for “you’re NOT EVEN MY REAL MOM” too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 12:19 AM
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No dear I am 3 steps ahead of you. I have perused the sub and other sites online for years, I know that “just self-improvement” is the cop out fall back line used to deny misogyny, just newspeak, and I know that the self-improvement is still for the aim of getting laid and having power over women so that they don’t have power over you. The fact that you can’t make an argument beyond baseless assertions that I’m uneducated on the subject is telling. But it’s weird that you care, so what if it’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:19 PM
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Ok...?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:20 PM
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WOW you’re one to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:19 PM
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Same goal of getting laid, different paths. Saying trp is mostly self improvement is laughable. Anything to that end is to the further end of sex and being in control with women. PUA is like the ONS cheap trick version. Same end though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:18 PM
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Top dowry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:37 AM
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Narcissism is self love and admiration and fine in small amounts. Garden variety narcissism is not NPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:14 AM
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Actually it is and it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:35 AM
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Yes it is, if you didn’t have some slight narcissism you’d already have been martyred.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:35 AM
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Louis, I think this is the beginning of a beautiful friendship What a film
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:34 AM
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There’s no such thing, everyone has some degree of narcissism, most just don’t have the full blown narcissistic personality disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:21 AM
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I read it as Bogart.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:16 AM
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Self reports on something as nebulous as emotions are not reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 02:14 AM
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Lmaooo American Dream
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 02:04 AM
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Ok so you’re going full religious for trp. Actually more than that, most faiths don’t claim to be like math, they admit FAITH.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:33 AM
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Do you think I’m a moron? I’m saying what women are most ideally attracted to, not that it’s realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:32 AM
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You’re moving the goalposts now from being on ones guard in general, to defending oneself, to how soon one should calm down after seeing a threat is not real. Still though do you not realize that kidnappers would most likely try to get the victims guard down before striking? It’s RATIONAL to fear random men. You’re insane to believe otherwise. And you clearly care more about your feelings than actual people’s survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:31 AM
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Nobody said PANIC I said scream shout run away etc all of which are proven tried and true ways to increase survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:55 AM
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I get it; no matter what a woman does, she’s wrong. Thanks for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:55 AM
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Ew stop moving the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:47 AM
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Wow you’ve learned nothing. Yes and if he acts angry and approaches in a menacing way he should be prepared to be treated as a threat, even if she was a bitch for taking his spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:37 AM
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From a man approaching her angrily to her car at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:34 AM
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No it’s not bad omg! It’s never bad for anyone to defend themselves and it’s horrible anyone thinks otherwise! You don’t know a man you know a long time won’t hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:29 PM
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It makes me so angry that so many guys here think a woman scolding a man is just as bad as her being raped and killed. I read the post, the guy acted extremely sketchy. He literally wants everyone to only judge his intentions and not his actions. There’s no special jail for good intentions ok? You missed my point which is that red flags aren’t always obvious so it’s better to be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:07 PM
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I literally wrote a post about this that you can’t immediately identify a bad person because their red flags only seem bad in hindsight and they seem normal if you aren’t suspicious. But this is MORE reason to be careful not less. How you could conclude otherwise is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 10:48 PM
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No we assume men we don’t know might be dangerous. Woman I know might be bitches or psycho too, but they aren’t physically way stronger than me. Rapists act strange other rapists act normal who cares. Why does it bother you guys SO MUCH that we don’t walk like a lamb to the slaughter up to men we don’t know and why do you want us to second guess ourselves? How often are women shouting and pointing at creepy guys, that you see? That’s not a fear reaction , so I don’t see how it proves anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 10:36 PM
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I assume he’s tentatively ok but I’ll still wait until I myself know him...but that has nothing to do with what you were asserting earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 10:19 PM
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No they don’t lol don’t backtrack just admit you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 10:12 PM
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And where the f did I say “all brownie mixes have a poisoned brownie!!?” I said this particular basket does, and it represents all men. If you did some chemical analysis to assure your brownie choice is safe, you might eat it cautiously. That’s the equivalent of getting to know a guy. Before that analysis treat them all as poisoned. It’s stupid to assume your neighborhood is without rapists and it’s not paranoid to consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 10:07 PM
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No, wow that’s what you got from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:59 PM
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No it’s not paranoid at ALL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:26 PM
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Oh ok so when you are safer than sorry it’s reasonable but when women do it it’s paranoid. Why do you want women to get hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:14 PM
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Yeah it is you’re just being self-absorbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:13 PM
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You’re shaming as we speak, that’s all you’ve been doing this whole time is suggesting very smart safety measures are neurotic and disordered, and until you say otherwise I’ll assume it’s because you want women to get hurt, since any woman buying into your nonsense will get hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:16 PM
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No it’s not. And why would you move near a rapist? Let’s cut to the chase, what’s your motive for wanting to make women unsafe? Do you think it’s funny that what is deadly life and death for women is a cute intellectual exercise for you to hamster to avoid the fact your gender isn’t perfect in every way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:15 PM
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No it’s a perfect analogy you’re just a male solipsist who can’t handle the slightest insult that isn’t even directed at you and you need a safe space. Either that or you maliciously want women to be raped and killed and robbed and that’s why you’re pushing this narrative of shaming women for being prudent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:13 PM
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This is translating well so IDK what you’re getting at. It’s not ridiculous at all. The brownie metaphor is an example, which you can’t answer because you know I’m right. You’d risk death over hurting a random baker’s feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:12 PM
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No dear read the damn example and tell me you’d eat the brownie like a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:08 PM
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What the FUCK is your problem? Why do you want women to be collateral damage in your feelings safe space? I maintain that is what your attitude is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:08 PM
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Hey /u/rus9384 I’m a baker and I just cooked you 99 brownies! Here is the plate! But oops, and eeevil baker just came in an added one brownie that’s filled with deadly poison! But hey it’s just one! Why don’t you enjoy my delicious brownies? I am getting my feelings hurt you won’t take one from the basket! It’s only 1% that’s going to kill you, why are you hurting my feeeeeelings? Omg stop being paranoid!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:05 PM
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Do you know that it’s not paranoid to be cautious around strange men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:04 PM
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It would have been quicker just to call me dumb and ugly. God you people say dumb things. Did you know that you can demonstrate your belief without literally saying it word for word? Staying trp is always an accurate view on reality and anyone who doesn’t like it is low value is the epitome of religious thinking. TRP does have the same goal as PUA it just takes a more involved road to that trying to change your nature rather than the surface level pickups, but they overlap and have the same goal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:51 PM
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It’s NOT RIDICULOUS and by trying to argue otherwise you’re actively endangering any woman who is still naive and believes this nonsense. Hope you can live with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:34 PM
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What is your point? You want women to let down their guard around strange men because you think it hurts your feelings that we say men can be dangerous? Not ONE woman here is being neurotic about this, they are all being utterly reasonable and logical in the world we live in. It honestly disgusts me how many men here want to get women to let their guard down in dangerous situations because they got their poor feelings hurt over a statement not even about them specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:27 PM
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Yes and that doesn’t mean that I don’t know what the main imperative of TRP is. You’re talking like anyone who doesn’t agree with TRP is in denial and going to have their fragile worldview shattered if they hear about it, that’s on the level of assuming TRP describes actual reality 100% and anyone else is in denial, which is how people think about ideas they have taken to a religious level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:22 PM
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I don’t know what crapsack means, are you seriously bored or just have a crush on me or just haven’t read any of the 90 recent threads?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:20 PM
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I really don’t understand what you are trying to accomplish here, are you really bored? Do you not know that women are smaller than men and even an average man can overpower most women? Do you not know that most men want to rape women and not other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:18 PM
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Uh, I don’t know, seems like a very random question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:14 PM
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My claim is 100% accurate. TRP is not primarily about finding a great high quality partner, it’s a bout finding a woman who is hot to fuck as fast as possible and maybe keep as a FWB. I am a woman and I would never follow TRP advice or date one. The only advice that I would follow is already universally true like to exercise and put yourself out there. I have a man and I live according to my own values and character. Yes you are religious about trp, you are talking the way fundamentalists talk w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:14 PM
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OKAY AND? Should they not be careful either and let themselves get shot for the sake of statistical fairness and not butthurting some guys online?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:11 PM
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I will go as paranoid as I darn well please. I cannot believe how many men are getting hysterical at women playing it safe rather than sorry and nitpicking how careful you feel its’ acceptable for us to be. You all donn’t care if we get shot as long as your feels aren’t offended when we say that other men you don’t even know have the potential to be dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:28 PM
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I said like 5 times I was already feeling cocky way before the robbery and that mood led me to be overconfident about making a purchase late at night in a dark area, when I should have left. THEN I got robbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:21 PM
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Maximizing the strengths you do have with the info you gave is reasonable. Pretending you were born 6’5” isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:48 PM
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What nonsense claim? That women like men who seem to be natural alphas? That is trp theory. How old do you think I am? I don’t even understand, how would conflating PUA and TRP (which I’m not doing) “comfort me?” You’re just babbling words now. That was what I needed examples of. Just admit you’re religious about TRP and have taken it beyond just a set of ideas. You’re acting fundamentalist about it, especially talking like anyone who doesn’t agree totally is in denial. I didn’t even deny trp an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:35 PM
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No, you don’t get to call people who try fools. If you’re giving up just own it. You’re too risk-averse to try, that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:33 PM
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I’ve been reading trp and pua longer than you’ve been out of high school most likely, and you didn’t bother to give one example to support your dumb point. Lol why would a stupid comment on PPD make me “feel better about myself?” I have a life to make me feel confident. I’m just being accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:48 PM
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Right you’re choosing the defeatist path, that’s your prerogative. Your comment is the epitome of defeatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:44 PM
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Yeah I said that was a possibility too but it doesn’t have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:44 PM
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No I am not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:43 PM
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And people can say that, and then it’s your choice to take it in a defeatist loser way or to maximize your strengths.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:19 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:51 PM
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Ahh the blind worship of “studies” especially self-reports is maddening. We need to have stringent standards for studies and everyone here needs to take stats to realize how damn easy it is to make up a study to support your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:33 PM
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I was cocky and in a hypomanic mood that night. It was just based on some recent successes that day, and I was going to that area to buy something. By the way it wasn’t in the ghetto. I said I was in a ghetto gas station this past weekend, but the robbery happened in an ok area.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:27 PM
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No because people who ignore their gut for the sake of intellectual fairness won’t be around to post on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:22 PM
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What do you want to say? Just spit it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:20 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:10 PM
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I wasn’t acting confident around the robber, when he showed up I ran.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:03 PM
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You’re doing just what I said. You think you’ve never been blinded by attraction? People can and do hide their red flags. Every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:59 PM
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Yes that’s totally what I said and not that this particular introspection about how to have a good marriage might lead to research, thought, information, and openness to new idea that improve relationships. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:56 PM
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Oh I’m sorry that some men might take it in a defeatist way and get their feels hurt. That’s so awful of me. Imagine if men online said things like “men only want hot tight 19 year olds and any woman over 29 is a joke and a hag deluding herself she’ll ever be loved” omg that would be so terrible! Someone might get their feels hurt! I stated a fact I didn’t state if it’s realistic. Sorry about your feelings. I’m sure guys who talk about wanting a hot young nympho who never gets upset are basing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:53 PM
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leave music out of this please. This hurts my soul. I haven’t proven any point? What? Pop lite lib feminism is mainstream, so what? Even another guy on here said your putting too much objectivity and accuracy on trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:48 PM
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Ugh I went there for a reason I didn’t do it to be stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:48 PM
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How is this comment helpful. I was replying to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:15 AM
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You have it backwards, the feminist pop sites are loosely affiliated precisely because they are so prevalent they can afford to be; trp is a counter-cultural philosophy and like all minority movements it has to stay closer knit than mainstream culture. Some studies you found do not prove 100% of trp works and that it isn’t just overlap with other views.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:01 AM
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Who said anything about poverty or race? Not I. Go up to a male cop and make sudden unpredictable movements and loud noises and get back to me. You feel entitled not just to do what you like, but for women not to feel or think anything bad. I didn’t do a thing, I didn’t scream or pull a weapon or call the cops on these men, I was on my guard. They had no idea what I was thinking. You feel that having thoughts is unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:59 AM
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Go to the ghetto no go zone in your area and pass by a group of individuals acting loud and rowdy on a side street and get back to me. And yes generally you shouldn’t make sudden movements or motions of fast approaching strangers, that’s not some nutty woman thing, that’s life. Cops tell people to put their hands up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:34 AM
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Are you seriously trying to tell me that you think the totally realistic and complete unbiased self-reported “field reports” are really great data? Yeah ok sure. TRP is obviously far more organized and united than a few random pop feminist websites designed to just get clicks that are otherwise not affiliated with each other. They are not equivalent. Just admit you feel religious about TRP right now, it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:17 AM
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Bro if you have that in the bank you are doing well for yourself, and your future, better than many adults....I would not blow it on a plane just yet, if that’s something you’re serious about eventually then carefully plan if it’s realistic. Do it FOR YOU but I would wait a long while before such an investment. Do not do this for some girl, you do not need to have a plane or even a car to get a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:14 AM
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Okay it would have been shorter just to say “you ugly”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:07 AM
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Just today at the gas station, very slightly, since a guy approached my car quickly but I knew it was a good area and probably he was just walking around me (he was); and then 2 days ago when I was at a gas station actually in the ghetto, and there were some dudes hanging around just sitting on the concrete being loud. You know what is funny? When I got robbed at gunpoint, I was feeling uber confident, almost manic, that night. I felt cocky. Look where that got me. I will take being “irrationall…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:02 AM
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Lol are you me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:02 AM
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Yeah but do you disagree it would be bad for him if his woman found reams of old rp hyper-analysis from when he was in the learning phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:01 AM
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No it absolutely is not, it’s a philosophy, a series of mental perspectives and practices, if it was as reliable as math there would be no incels. Those womens rags you mentioned aren’t the best example because they at most make quips about men, they aren’t organized like TRP and they don’t have big lists on how to land a rich man, they would consider that not feminism. Of course there are grains of truth in TRP that may show up in any successful dating strategy. Obviously, when you say things g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:36 AM
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Okay I am not going to keep this going if you just compared TRP to math.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:17 AM
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We agree they shouldn’t stay, but we disagree that it’s easy to even identify a lot of the times if it’s truly a terrible sociopathic partner. And in the cases where it is easy, like they are regularly beating you, those are the exact cases where it’s the most difficult to leave because the abused partner is so fearful and beat down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:16 AM
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It’s really not a good simile at all. Sorry. If I am a painter and I have a muse, did my muse paint my paintings?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:50 AM
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It certainly would
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:46 AM
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