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The key to remember here is that rejection is inevitable, and it doesn't matter. Rejections will actually help you calibrate your approaches to be more precise, more efficient, etc. Something that help solidify this concept for me was a new YouTube channel I've been following the last few days, called The Engineered Lifestyle https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4py_gZiZJoyThV0Xwxhzug Check out his videos, and you'll see him get completely rejected by 5+ girls before even one will stop and chat bef…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 08:35 PM
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Free version of TurboTax. Takes maybe 20 minutes. I've used it since I've started filing my own taxes many years ago, never had a single issue.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 08:07 PM
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I agree, you're too worried about what she's thinking. Theres probably 50+ equally irrational reasons that she hasn't verbalized her love for you. If you care enough, you'll just ask her about it directly. But something I need to remind myself from time to time is "then what?" Always know what your next move is. What if she called you right now and said "Mescuzzi, I luh you." What's your response?
/r/askTRP07/04/17 07:42 PM
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she's not special, soft next
/r/askTRP07/04/17 07:28 PM
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Really, you should probably always be 'looking elsewhere' i.e. cultivating prospects. But what do you eventually want from this relationship? What changes for you if she verbalizes that she loves you? Do you reciprocate and tell her that you love her too. Do you love her?
/r/askTRP07/04/17 07:18 PM
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No, do both. But don't go crazy and try to improve every facet of your life in one week. Pick only a couple of things to work on, until the routine becomes ingrained. Then pick another thing to improve. You can definitely work on weight and social skills at the same time. Your self-confidence will be increased by both lifting and working to improve your social life. Definitely pursue some of those activities you mentioned, don't let the weight hold you back. Being more active in general will hel…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 07:10 PM
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Future
/r/askTRP07/04/17 06:57 PM
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Figure out what you want out of this. You're clearly very attached, since her not saying she loves you is causing you some anxiety. It's okay to peruse a deeper relationship with her, if that's what you want. If not, see other girls or at least cultivate some prospects.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 06:55 PM
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Just make your own protein shakes and have high-protein snacks on hand during the day. Acquiring skills is good; make sure they are specific, useful, and can earn you money without needing to be employeed by someone else. Look into jelqing, best source for info is PEgym forums. Start slow, be careful, don't break your dong. While you are young, focus on making money and saving as much as you possibly can. Don't buy stupid shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 06:47 PM
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I'm with you; nothing beats having the real book in your hands. But I've gotten used to the kindle already over the past few days, and I love the fact that you can highlight and make notes, which are saved and searchable (also exportable) through Amazon. Saves me a ton of time, and makes it easy for me to look back and remember some bullet points that I've picked out. Audible on 2x is a real life brain hack. Once you get used to the tempo, its amazing how fast you can fly through books. I also l…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 08:32 PM
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I'd just ignore it. You've got more important things to worry about in your high-value life.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 04:03 AM
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Definitely lift. I wouldn't go crazy, but more physical activity will not be a bad thing. Are you working out just once per week? If so, I'd try and up that as much as possible, both to increase strength and endurance, and also to help burn fat and loose weight.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:56 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:51 AM
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Weird, but I guess it depends what level you're at with her. Have you talked to her since she rejected the request?
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:50 AM
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Good on you for not just being another orbiter when she gave the friends line. If you were spinning plates, you probably wouldn't care as much as you seem to. But if you still want to pursue, give her one more chance. I'd not text her for a while, then just ask her if she wants to meet you at a bar. Then feel her out there, show her you're an interesting and fun alpha, bring her into your frame, control the conversation, escalate when appropriate and gauge her reaction. She may want to fuck, but…
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:44 AM
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The areas you've described (programming, drawing) have nothing to do with women, so why allow them to impact your ability to approach? Compartmentalize. Also, try to focus on one thing at a time to improve, rather than slowly improving in 5 things. Definitely don't stop reading and listening to books. Listen to books at times when reading would be inconvenient or impossible, like when you're driving or walking. Even reading for 10 minutes before bed can create tangible improvement in your life. …
/r/askTRP02/12/16 09:52 PM
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Interesting. It's all just a numbers game really; some won't work out, but others will. Just gotta keep playing, and work on improving yourself in the process.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 09:21 PM
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I think everyone is different in this regard, but smoking tends to make me think slower and much less sharply. Not sure about vaping, since I haven't done that for a while. I prefer to talk to women, at least on first approach, with a clear head, and maybe a drink or two. After we get friendly, smoking is totally cool.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 09:19 PM
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Crab mentality. It's nice that you tried to turn him on to RP, but until he feels the urge within himself to make a change, nothing will happen. Maybe he'll get there one day, or maybe not. Keep working on yourself, and continue setting a positive example for others to follow. And maybe find a new gym buddy.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 09:11 PM
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Good tips. Never heard of voodoo floss before, seems interesting, I'll have to check that out. On posture, something that's helped me is to try to sit with perfect posture in the car. Head up and vertical with spine. Chin slightly tucked in. Shoulders back, back straight. Seems to translate well to sitting elsewhere.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 09:02 PM
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It's okay. Everything is a learning experience that will help you improve for future encounters. Cultivate abundance in your life, and you will naturally care less about one specific woman. When you have options, you won't care about dropping one, as there are 4 others to take her place.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 08:56 PM
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Stop drinking so much. Alcohol is fine up until the point that it prevents you from getting what you want. And I assume you intended to get laid that night and didn't just go out to get blackout drunk. Just text her in a few days and tell her to meet you somewhere. See what she says; it's possible that you can still make something happen. If not, oh well, she wasn't special anyways.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 08:54 PM
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no car = get an apartment in an urban environment and close to multiple modes of public transportation do you have a job now? do you have experience? I'm guessing no to both, so go apply everywhere you can. Look into working at a more expensive, upscale restaurant. You'll probably start as busboy or host, but you can work up to waiting tables or bartending. Both of which will help improve your communication skills, and give you potential to earn enough money to provide for yourself. Another aven…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 08:44 PM
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Lingering oneitis. Bang her if you want to. Who are you to let some old fling continue to dictate what decisions you should make in your life. Surely this female you might hookup with is a grown woman, capable of making decisions for herself, right? It's not your responsibility to figure out if she has a bf or not. If she wants to bang, then bang.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 08:38 PM
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But how does knowing if a vagina can get loose help you at all??? You're not gonna know anything about a woman's vag until you get up in there, at which point, it doesn't matter unless you're gonna stop fucking a girl because her pus is too loose for you. And you're not. Learn some positions that will tighten things up. Doggy style legs together, her lying prone with legs together. Missionary with legs on your shoulders, anal, etc.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 08:35 PM
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I'm feeling that way too. I started listening to a new audiobook before finishing the last one, and now don't really feel like going back to finish off the last hour. I think I'll stick to strictly one book at a time, for sanity and better information retention.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 08:31 PM
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Sometimes it just doesn't work out. Good news is there's hundreds of other chicks out there for your to pursue, don't get hung up on this one; she's not special. On your first date, did you talk about meeting again on Friday, or did you just assume that? Waiting a few days was fine, but the butthurt text you sent about wasting your time wasn't necessary. There I would have simply said something along the lines of "I'm going to X Bar tonight, meet me there." If she didn't reply, or declines and d…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 08:26 PM
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I'd say that it can loosen up, but doesn't always. Who really cares anyways?
/r/askTRP02/12/16 08:16 PM
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It actually is; I literally just bought a Kindle today and have downloaded a ton of ebooks already. Going forward, I need to be sure to continue making time for reading, even when things get a bit more hectic. Thanks for the encouragement.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 08:00 PM
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Consider a women's persistent solipsism combined with her tendency to cast herself as the victim, and this is the result. Statistics may or may not show that women are more likely to be victims of these types of crimes, but it's certainly not something that only women experience.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 07:58 PM
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First cut out porn. Stop wanking every day. When you do, use a different hand, light grip, in a different position than normal (like sitting in a chair with legs open, on your knees, one foot on the bed, etc.), and without porn. Look up the Tenga egg on amazon, those can help improve your sensativity and get you used to pleasure without death grip. Does the condom feel tight at the base? Maybe you're above average and need a bigger condom. Try one of the larger ones like Magnum or XL or whatever…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 07:53 PM
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Read Sex God Method. It's online somewhere for free download. Let me know if you can't find it. Learn to eat pussy. I've heard good things about the book "She Comes First". Also, I found the "Improving Sex" section of "The 4 Hour Body" to be informative and helpful.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 07:46 PM
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What about it? Really, I think it depends on where you are. I'm in a city with a few million people and plenty of crime, so I too am almost always 'on guard' or 'watching my back'. It makes plenty of sense for some women to feel an increase in this type of behavior due to past experiences, but that's not something limited to women. Plenty of men have been mugged, robbed, assaulted, cornered, etc. and I'm willing to bet they're all a bit hyper-aware of their surroundings as a result.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 07:40 PM
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Hell yeah. I've gotten back into reading and listening to audiobooks while driving, and it's great. My advice would be to buy a Kindle. Most books on Amazon are available for free download elsewhere (or buy them on Amazon if you want), and you can instantly have a library of hundreds of books in your pocket. When you think about it, the concept of reading is really amazing. It's like downloading new information right into your brain. So instead of having to figure a bunch of concepts out for you…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 07:35 PM
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It can be whatever you want it to be. However, mindless social media consumption is never worth your time. Social media is helpful if you're promoting a product or a brand, but not so helpful if you're just flicking through your newsfeed all day, when you could be doing 10 other more productive things. If I was in your position, I would pursue one of two options. First, you should know that some women you meet will be looking you up on there, so if you choose to leave the page up, you need to at…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 07:27 PM
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"Do you ask every guy that? 😂"
/r/askTRP02/12/16 07:19 PM
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EDIT:Even if one majors in a STEM feild,he could invest that fuckload somewhere else and probably see an ROI faster...right? I mean, sure. If you are knowledgeable about investing and take $60k and invest in the right places, you can definitely see returns. But it's not that easy, otherwise everyone would be doing that. If you think you can, why don't you pick some stocks, funds, etc. and chart them over a few months and see what kind of returns you would see. There's plenty of sites and apps th…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 07:08 PM
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Keep it up, and good luck. I'll leave you with these three articles that will give some helpful perspective on your situation: https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/14/appreciation/ https://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/ https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/the-cardinal-rule-of-relationships/
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:59 PM
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For what? It depends on what are you trying to get out of it. If you're pursuing a field like engineering or something where the formal education is required for any entry-level position, then no, it's not a waste of time. If you're majoring in History or something else stupid that you could just as easily learn online, I would say it's a complete and total waste of money, unless you are able to attend school for free.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:53 PM
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I think what you're observing isn't quite the case. It really depends on the person. You can make a ton of money and have a successful career and still take plenty of risks, and have practical skills. And vice versa. It's not one or the other, it's whatever you make it for yourself. From my perspective, a poor/uneducated/struggling man is the complete and total opposite of what I would describe as a 'high-value' person.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:51 PM
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It seems like you're over-investing this relationship, but that's on you to decide if it's worth your time or not. I think probably not. There's a ton of women out there that will give you those same tingly feels you had when you first started dating, without you having to work your way back from a perceived deficit. Definitely keep doing what you're doing as far as lifting, hobbies, etc., but do it for YOU, to improve YOURSELF. Not to convince her of anything.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:45 PM
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Do interesting shit, and ask interesting questions. Don't ask "How was your day?" ask "What's the most interesting thing you did today?". Ask questions that are out of the box, but they don't have to be totally off the wall. Ask things that require a more in-depth response, and steer away from those typical questions with canned answers. Literally all day people ask each other "How's it going?", and respond with the incredibly low effort "Good, you?". If she asks you those stupid low-effort ques…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:25 PM
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What are you looking to achieve? Why waste your time with this one specific girl? There's plenty of posts on TRP about LTR game. There's even at least one on the sidebar here. First, abruptly switch your routine and start running dread game. You want to stimulate a subtle feeling of suspicion and perpetuate the possibility that you have the potential to be seeing other people. That you are desired by other women. Bring back the feeling of competition for her. Make her earn your time and commitme…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:19 PM
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Introduce yourself to the friend, it can't hurt. Avoid caring too much about one specific person, as there's a ton of other girls there. If the girl wanted to stay, she probably would. Just talk to other people and if you happen to see her again, and your initial conversation didn't go poorly, consider reapproaching.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 05:54 PM
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This question is probably better suited for askTRP. What do you hope to gain by divulging that information to her? Cultivate abundance and just test it for yourself to see if it yields your desired results.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 05:49 PM
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You should at least do something. If you always depend on your existing friends to come out with you, you'll find yourself frustrated often. Work on finding enjoyment for yourself, and maybe you'll make some new friends in the process. Find a cool new bar that serves that one beer your like, go there and enjoy yourself. If you see some cool dudes, chat them up. See a hot chick, spit some game?
/r/askTRP04/03/16 05:36 PM
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Unpredictable. Depends on how much accurate information your current gf shared with her friends. You're better off gaming females that are completely separate from your gf and her friends. Maybe revisit the possibility of boinking her friends in a month or two when it's not as fresh for them.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 10:37 PM
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Do you 'let' her? What makes you think she will comply with your demands when you're not physically present to enforce them? You're better off taking a softer approach and observing her behavior. Obviously this will be a little different because you've already married this woman, but you don't want to give off the vibe that you feel threatened by other males. You know your value as a male and you should be confident in it. If you're not, improve your value. Edit:Added some things
/r/askTRP08/02/16 10:01 PM
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For sure; soft next this one. If she keeps contacting you and doing weird stuff when you talk to other chicks, maybe ask her out and see what she says. That is if you even want to associate with that type of person.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 09:54 PM
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"Why do you keep asking me?"
/r/askTRP08/02/16 09:42 PM
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Find some clubs through your school! Even if you think your skills aren't sharp enough to pickup 35yo coffee shop chicks, you can at least work on your social skills and start talking to them. You'd be surprised. In fact, talk to anybody you have an opportunity to. Is language a major issue here, or do most people understand English?
/r/askTRP08/02/16 09:41 PM
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Seems like she only wants to communicate with you when it benefits her. If she were actually interested, you'd expect some more reciprocity. What was the first text you sent her? Next time, cut right to the chase; give her a time and place where you'll be and tell her to meet you. If she says no and doesn't offer an alternative...✌️
/r/askTRP08/02/16 09:35 PM
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/u/Abdada will enlighten you
/r/askTRP08/02/16 08:48 PM
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Why would I care enough to try and discern tone, when OP doesn't care enough to elaborate on his 17 word self-post? The fact he says girls 'apparently' like it when you are 'mean' to them and treat them like 'shit', speaks for itself. Nobody here is telling people to be mean to people and treat them like shit, so the fact that OP chose to use those pejorative words says that he's probably angry at what he perceives; this is a pretty common sentiment among people who are just starting to learn TR…
/r/askTRP08/02/16 08:43 PM
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The questions speaks for itself.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:39 PM
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Work on not masturbating at all. From time to time is perfectly okay, but you don't want to be using it as a coping mechanism for your emotional troubles. Easier said than done, but you need to develop another method for dealing with anxiety.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 06:18 PM
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Go on Craigslist and find somebody getting rid of weights for free/cheap. I was gonna suggest pouring cement into 5gal buckets and sticking a pole in it, but that's probably not safe and it's not gonna be easy to add small amounts of weight to that.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 06:14 PM
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Don't get friendzoned. Be direct; ask her out and see what she says.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:34 PM
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You sound angry. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1x0gln/the_five_stages_of_red_pill_and_how_to_read_rtrp/
/r/askTRP08/02/16 03:17 PM
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For encryption, if you're on windows, look into using bitlocker for full system disk encryption, and VeraCrypt for external drive and individual container encryption. If you need to be really secure, look into using TAILS linux booted from usb with a persistent encrypted volume. For the camera, I would just make sure it's inconspicuous enough that it wouldn't be noticed by others. Or so blatantly obvious that people don't notice it. Most people have a webcam attached to their computer, so you co…
/r/askTRP08/02/16 03:15 PM
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1.) Don't tell drunk girls your real name. 2.) Full disk encryption. Setup a small camera so you can monitor the room and your other belongings. 3.) General college advice: Start lifting weights if you haven't already. Join at least 2-3 clubs/organizations, with 1 that's not through your school. Talk to everyone.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 10:51 PM
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Because, despite all the hard work they put in at the gym, they will never be able to increase their height. Although you're tall and not-so-jacked, if you put in the work, you have the ability to become jacked. This is the source of the animosity you're feeling. Shrug it off. Who cares how they look at you; you're at the gym to work on yourself, not look at other people looking at you.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 10:50 PM
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Smells like friendzone with a dash of oneitis. Pursue other women, and if you want to, ask this chick on a date just so you can get the closure of her rejecting you. If she agrees, take her out and see what happens. Win-win situation
/r/askTRP04/02/16 08:01 PM
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I guess it depends on what was said. Are you banging this girl, just met, known her for 5 years and never made a move?
/r/askTRP21/01/16 08:07 PM
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If she doesn't know who sent them, you could just say "Glad you like them ;)" and leave it at that. You're not really confirming that you sent them, just making it seem like you probably did. If she does know who sent them, then you're just being humorous about it. Or "wtf, I told them to send the pink ones" or something like that
/r/askTRP21/01/16 04:48 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2r6rrn/difference_between_hard_and_soft_next/ https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3yf0u3/soft_next_and_hard_next/
/r/askTRP21/01/16 04:17 PM
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Dude, it's a cold; it's totally fine to take a couple days to recover. If you're too sick to work out, I always enjoy a long session in the sauna, and it seems to help me get rid of the illness quicker. If you're really feeling shitty enough that you can't leave the house, use the time to make some mental gainz; read some self-development books, watch some youtube videos on daygame, whatever. Pick an aspect of yourself you'd like to improve, and start working on it.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 04:15 PM
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I know it hurts, but it sounds like it's time to move on and pursue other women, or take some time to work on improving yourself. It might seem like she was special, but in reality, she's not all that unique; she just made you feel good and you've become addicted to those feelings that you were only receiving from her.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 04:06 PM
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Don't become her study buddy. Invite her out somewhere, away from the academic setting. Bar, coffee, rock climbing, anything besides studying. Tell her you're going to XYZ Bar at 10pm and to meet you there. If she says no and doesn't offer an alternative, you're better off spending your time on something else. And for future reference, it should be spelled "proceed".
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:36 PM
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Quit constantly comparing yourself to other people. You need to focus on improving your self-confidence. Realize that your value is comprised of a multitude of factors; and female attention should have zero impact on that value. Even if you were getting IOIs from hot babes all over the place, the fact that you judge yourself on it is not healthy. Furthermore, start conditioning yourself to react without thinking. Fuck that 'comfort zone'. As soon as you see some chick giving you IOIs, don't hesi…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:26 PM
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