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You’re right. Parent A has them Monday pickup- Wednesday drop off, Parent B Would have Wednesday pickup through Friday drop off and the parent A has the weekend and vice versa the following week.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/26 11:32 PM
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“If a dog ain’t barking, it’s being fed” is a line I’ve found very true with women.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 04:32 PM
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I did. But the divorce and the events after have shown her true colors. Not only did I see she can’t be relied on for anything, but she has also tried fucking me over any chance she gets. Especially now that she’s trying to move with my son 3 hours away to go live with a new boyfriend
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 03:07 AM
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Yeah, the attorney I spoke to today said the docket is backed up 3-4 months and we haven’t even started mediation, which is required by the state before filing a petition.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/26 12:49 AM
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Yes, however I make significantly more but there wouldn’t be any jobs in my field where she wants to move to.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 09:54 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 09:28 PM
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Yes, we do have an existing order of 50/50 joint legal and physical custody. The order says she cannot move out of state without court approval. I am the one who owns a house right by where he's going to go to school in the fall, whereas she lives in an apartment. I'm extremely active in his extracurriculars, education, and medical care. She also routinely comes to my family events, but her main argument is that she doesn't have a support network, which just isn't true. People here have welcomed…
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 09:26 PM
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Got 4 consultations this week and will have one hired by Friday. I was just hoping anyone had experience with a similar situation
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 06:56 PM
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I’ve been preparing for this since I found out about her bf and have been pretty confident that the court wouldn’t allow an active father to be ripped from his son, but the idea of it has put me in an anxious spiral
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 06:13 AM
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She put it as she’d submit the motion for relocation, or whatever the technical term is if mediation didn’t work. Her argument is I can have the weekends and extended holiday and summers, I abruptly said no. Why would I make the sacrifice for her relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 06:12 AM
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Court order says any movement out of the state requires court approval, even if the parent agrees.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 06:03 AM
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I swear the number #1 cause of an amicable divorce turning toxic
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/26 04:41 PM
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You still could of had 50/50 and opted to pay more in CS..
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/26 06:46 PM
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I feel most of us were once married to someone like that lol
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/26 01:33 AM
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What greedy fuck tries to go after the money their late relative, especially a parent, leaves to them.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/26 11:18 PM
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The issue is that in her mind she didn’t do anything wrong. Her and her enabling friends/family will find ways to justify their actions
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 01:06 AM
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James is such an interesting person to listen to. At first glance, he looks like your stereotypical scumbag lawyer, but the way he talks about the process, and relationships in general, is extremely interesting.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/25 08:29 PM
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If they agreed to everything there wouldn’t be a trial.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 05:04 AM
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I would buy my lawyer a G Wagon in a custody hearing. I told her at the very beginning I would bankrupt myself in court she tried to get a day more than 50/50
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 07:21 AM
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The agreement does have language on moving outside city limits or outside of state lines (I made sure this was added since Omaha sits right on the border). My son is 4 and is about to start Pre K in one of the top school districts in the state.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 07:20 AM
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Look, I don’t want to make assumptions, and I know some states don’t default to 50/50, but there’s often a reality as to why the dad’s don’t have 50/50 custody. Of course you have mothers who made false allegations, etc., but there’s also men who just don’t want to step up and would probably forgo any custody if child support wasn’t a thing. You also have people who are petty and want to make their ex’s life difficult. Any time my ex needed me to watch my son, regardless of the reason, I jump at…
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/25 09:53 PM
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Talk to a lawyer and prepared to get fucked. Her not working is going to bend you over in CS and with a newborn, I imagine it’s a harder battle for 50/50
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/25 12:13 AM
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That’s one of the gifts I got her just to give her shit lmao
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/25 09:16 AM
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That’s kind of how I feel. It’s an opportunity for him to get something for mom and I felt it wasn’t my decision to take that from him. I don’t splurge out or anything, just get a couple of things off Amazon. Eventually he can pick them out when he doesn’t want everything in the store. I was just wondering if it’s unheard of because every other divorced dad I know are basically like “fuck that bitch”.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/25 12:35 AM
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Nobody likes a troubled marriage more than divorced women
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 05:34 PM
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How much older? I only have 1 kid so I may not be the best to ask.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 01:05 AM
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2-2-3 until child starts Kindergarten, then 5-2. Highly recommend 2-2-3 for young kids. It’s less stressful on them and you don’t go so long without seeing them during those early years where they develop so quickly.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 10:04 PM
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There’s a difference between a good guy and a nice guy. Nice guys tend to let the women walk all over them and/or are nice in hopes of getting some ass. Good guys have kindness and empathy, but also remain masculine and stick to their own personal values. I personally roll my eyes at the “nice guy” complaint I see other guys use because are you actually nice, or are you doing it for a gain? Be genuine and kind, but also hold your ground and don’t take disrespectful behavior.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 04:39 PM
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My only advice is nobody can dim your light except for yourself. Letting her ruin your mood is only letting her win. Now is the time to go out and live your best life. She’s going to quickly find out she’s on the wrong side of the rainbow.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 01:15 AM
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In my state, inheritance is not marital property, but get a consultation and ask a lawyer. Don’t commingle the money and damn sure don’t tell her.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 04:20 AM
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Have you tried counseling? I ask because if the answer is yes, reconciliation is likely worthless. If she won’t change after professional help, she’s not going to on her own.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 03:31 PM
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None, they just try to ruin any troubled marriage they can get their hands on.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/25 02:13 AM
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I heard somewhere that divorce is harder on the men at the beginning, but worse on the women later on. Think about, most divorced women are miserable people. They go out, “live their life” for a year or so, but then become bitter people. I’m going through it right now, but I’m convinced it gets better. I have noticed that nobody checks in or anything, but at the end of the day we only had ourselves to start with.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/25 06:53 PM
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How old were you
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 02:23 AM
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When we started dating, I thought I hit the lottery. As time went on, issues started coming up and was like a cancer in the relationship and just kept growing. She was the case of once she got the ring she basically gave up on effort. I got married young compared to others (23), and I’m sure part of it was just natural growth. I’ve tried desperately not to become some guy who hates women and views them as toxic, but I also don’t want to go through the pain and wasted time again. I “moved on” qui…
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 10:34 PM
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Idk how people date again, honestly. I’ve been separated for 8 months and it’s like I’m dead inside when it comes to emotionally connecting with someone. 0 ability to have any form of connection. As soon any emotional responsibility comes into play, it’s like I instantly lose interest. It’s like I have a desire for the physical aspect, but anything outside of that is not appealing to me.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 05:41 PM
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An eye-for-eye approach is not a great approach. Just because she did that doesn’t mean when it comes to the final settlement that you won’t be entitled to a % of that. Everything has a paper trial and that stuff has to be disclosed in discovery. Matching her pettiness is just going to cost you more $ in the end. I’m not trying to be snarky, I just don’t want you to fuck yourself more than what her lawyer will try to do already.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 06:46 PM
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But the state may still have requirements. Each state is different, so if you mention that in your post it may help if others have gone through it, but I would 1000% recommend talking to a lawyer before doing anything. It’s important to look at state requirements, not the company/insurance. My company/insurance says ex spouses can’t be on the policy after 30 days after the decree is finalized, but the states ruling of 6 months overrides that rule.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 06:42 PM
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Yeah, but removing someone from the health insurance could have massive implications if they don’t get onto their own plan in time. What’s BS to me is a divorce is a life event but in my state it a required for 6 freaking months after the divorce is finalized.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 05:24 PM
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At minimum, judges don’t tend to like it when people disobey their ruling.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 05:01 PM
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My state requires I keep her on my health insurance for up to 6 months AFTER the divorce has been finalized. You need to speak to a lawyer prior to doing this and see what the state requires.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 04:21 PM
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The economy of a marriage. We only get the good stuff if we meet every demand, regardless of who does what.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 01:50 AM
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I wish I knew this prior to getting married: it changes nothing in the relationship. Just get her a ring, but keep the government out of your life and finances.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 11:31 PM
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Nobody loves troubled marriages more than divorced women.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 06:49 PM
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Unless you’re religious, there’s 0 reason to get married. The whole “commitment“ thing is societal bs. You can still be committed to someone without having to risk, at best, half of your shit. Most of the legal benefits of marriage can be handed through a lawyer and the little you save in taxes isn’t worth it. I get women dream of a wedding and all that. Then have a wedding but don’t submit the papers. Was married once and will never, ever, do it again.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 03:56 AM
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I would not consent. I feel doing so would allow the argument “he was okay with them leaving the state, she shouldn’t have to come back”. Knowing how hard it is to get full custody as a man, you’re opening an opportunity for an uphill battle.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 05:54 AM
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