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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:02 AM
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I agree that’s uncalled for, social media has certainly amplified bad behavior. I don’t do that since I get attention from friends and family lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:52 AM
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There are red flags to look out for regardless of who approaches. For me it feels more natural to be courted by a man so I don’t approach. I just live life and get approached by men. Some of them are respectful and some aren’t 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:48 AM
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If I’m attracted to a man then I’m open to talking sure but if I’m not then I’ll politely indicate I’m not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:42 AM
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I get what you’re saying about making the first move, however in my experience making the first move as a woman is that I always had to initiate with these guys. They had mental health issues that put a lot of burden on me and I got burned out from dating them. When a man approaches me it’s such a nice feeling like he takes charge (as long as he’s respectful when approaching)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:33 AM
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You should show investment in order for a woman to invest in your children using her body for 40 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:38 AM
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A man should pay all the women’s bills for her 24/7 reproductive work she’s providing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:35 AM
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Why would you convince her to have a kid she doesn’t want? find a woman who already wants a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:34 AM
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Men have no problem putting birth trauma on to their wives so 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:31 AM
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This sounds like more laziness from men. Where there’s a will, there’s a way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:23 AM
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Who’s doing the actual reproductive work though? Let me know when you can push a baby out of your penis
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:19 AM
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It’s realistic, reproductive work never receives compensation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:17 AM
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Since this is more about other women then sure... But like I've said in my many other comments, since I've been celibate for four years voluntarily and the last guy waited awhile anyway, then it doesn't apply. So glad waiting is part of my vetting because all these guys on here sound messed up in the head
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:04 PM
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Lol if my "value" is only sex then obviously you guys have messed up priorities and you're relationships will always be shallow.. but that's dating today. So shallow. Shallow is so pathetic and boring 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:57 PM
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That says more about you as a person than your friend..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:53 PM
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I get so grossed out when men wanna push me so hard for sex. I just block. Respecting my boundaries is so sexy to me and makes me more turned on for when the time comes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:18 AM
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Yessss build this emotional bond or GTFO 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:14 AM
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Do men not have self control?? And I'm only looking for one man lol not the whole world 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:12 AM
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Which is why people wait until both parties are feeling comfortable 🤪 Or break up over incompatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:26 AM
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Communication should be had over whether or not waiting means interest or not. Some women just prefer to wait awhile out of comfort and need of a strong emotional connection
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:20 AM
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Exactly 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:12 AM
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If someone was genuinely interested then there is not waiting too long since they would want their partner to feel 100% comfortable to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:11 AM
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That guy Waited a long time. There’s no specific timeline for my comfort. If he’s not willing to wait then oh well.. I’ve been celibate for this long I’m obviously not desperate 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:36 PM
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By myself. I refuse to believe that every single man I meet will be so focused on sex that he wouldn’t wait. This is a huge problem today with dating, people don’t want to build solid emotional connections prior to sex and therefore relationships are shallow. I’m not saying I’m going to be celibate until marriage, but if thE idea scares off a man then so be it. I’m too traditional for this modern world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:11 PM
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It would be for me though because that means he doesn't have the same values. I've made it four years voluntarily without sex so it's not impossible to find someone who's willing to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:03 PM
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Then he’s not that interested in me and I dodged a bullet. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:52 PM
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Yes I do, my comfort will not be put on a specific timeline. I can’t tell myself by month X I have to have sex. I prefer emotional connections first and I cannot rush that with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:41 PM
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I’ve been celibate for four years lol I’m in no rush for sex. I’m waiting to find a guy who’s respectful, prob is so many just aren’t 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:38 PM
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I take a long time to get comfortable to have sex, the longer a guy waits the more attractive I perceive him. Respectful men are so sexy imho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:05 PM
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Lol it's been four years for me.. of course it sucks at times but also the thought of having just many man touch my body grosses me out 🤭 I keep in mind how I want to feel when I finally meet the person I will finally have sex with again. Masterbation definitely helps, being with my friends and family helps too. I'm focusing on my need for high quality men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 06:38 PM
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Yes great idea!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 10:37 AM
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I was thinking the same thing. I am the one who has to live in my mind and if it's going down I have to cut off whatever drags me down. My father has gaps in his conscious. Idk why he stayed married to my step mother after knowing what he did. He let him stay in his house too. It's a huge betrayal. Thank you for your support ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:52 PM
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Thank you for your support ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:50 PM
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Every thing your saying makes sense. I think my step mother was trying to break me down mentally but I would always push back. My siblings are more go with the flow and I'm more defiant. I think they want status quo buti need to do what's best for myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:50 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about your situation and thank you for your support ❤️ I think it may be best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:48 PM
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Also thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:48 PM
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I think it'll be either NC or LC. He's leaving for Florida in the next month or two so I'm sure things will fade naturally since he only reached out over insurance matters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:48 PM
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You're welcome and I'm sorry your in a similar situation. It feels good to have her gone from my life. I feel a weight lifted off my chest. She's so obsessed with being included in every single aspect of my father's life. I think I'll go low contact when he finally leaves to florida over the next month or two. I hope you also find peace in your family system ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:45 PM
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Hey! I only I can totally understand where you're coming from. I did like the message in the video but I do agree that men should listen to their wives before it even gets to the point of divorce. I thought it was interesting it it reminded me of some points of Why Men Love Bitches. Familiarity breeds contempt, a bitch doesn't kill herself to please anyone etc. I have a tendency of being a people pleaser too and I resonated with that message. But of course the work should never be one sided in a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:00 PM
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https://youtu.be/HNUbQZuzeLQ I think this video maybe a nice add on to your post. I found it interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:45 PM
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I had a guy friend in high school who tried to get me to date him by telling me he'd spoil me with all his gift cards he got from Chanukah 😂 I agree, dating it def not the place to be cheap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:30 PM
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Omg EW flexing not paying for a date 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:52 AM
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This lie in the western world is essentially the same for the Chinese women being negged for being 'left over's and better get married soon or you're a failure. Women can't catch a break anywhere!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:52 PM
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They truly are the angels of this subreddit 👼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:32 AM
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It's a scary place. I saw their ranking scale and how women need to be the ones to make the effort to prove commitment or their just a piece of meat. Basically you start off as a f*ck toy and if you cook and clean for them then you can be a GF. EW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:32 AM
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Yes! Therapy is amazing. I have discovered I have an ambivalent attachment style and need to challenge it to stop my bad dating patterns. It feels great when you look back and see how much you've healed ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:04 PM
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Mods**
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:52 PM
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Yes I hope the kids know you ladies are much appreciated!! This is the first women's only space for healthy dating habits. I'm so happy to be here 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:29 PM
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Hey! I can't tell if I have a tag or not but I wanted to reach out and give you love for your moderating FDS. I just spent a few minutes on TRP, out of our curiosity to see how the handbook avoids what they teach over and OMG they have some really scary manipulating tactics. I'm going to date by the book to avoid a RP guy. They are such psychos 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:40 PM
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Men hate it when we empower ourselves. They HATE IT!! they want to control us like cattle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:30 PM
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Thanks so much! It's really sad that they want to control our bodies like this. I feel awful for the women who are being targeted, I wish they'd just leave us alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:56 PM
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Thank God I'm getting sterilized today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:10 PM
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Men can't get tested?? This fucking nightmare never ends. It truly sucks being a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:32 PM
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If a man doesn't bring his wallet, I will tell the waiter that I am only laying for myself and then leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:10 PM
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Seems like we were born into a business model and our compliance keeps it going.. oh we not my prob I'm not the government. Everyone who doesn't want kids should get sterilized soon! There is a childfree doctor list on the subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:20 PM
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EWWW wtf read the fucking room.. what a selfish asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:41 AM
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Yes, the incels who get no women are at the bottom of the food chain. They will die off without any children. As they should for be a misogynist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:07 PM
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There is a childfree doctor list on the subreddit if you are interested 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:54 PM
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That's amazing! My friends want kids, they are actually baby crazy right now LOL but they are so supportive of me being CF. I know so many people that get weirded out by it, but overall my friends are supportive. And I am supportive of their choice as well, I don't hate kids, I prob just want to be an aunt to them and then have my free time. Women definitely know themselves better than they think! There is so much gravity to the choice of having children. Men will NEVER understand how detrimenta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:53 PM
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Thank you!!!! I've changed so much over these last few months. Leveling up 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:50 AM
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I agree! When I was younger, I expressed my disinterest in children and my mom always said it's different when they're your own. Now she knows that I'm completely serious that I don't want any. I'm actually getting sterilized next week 😃 but I feel also for these girls that get pressured into having children when they clearly don't know what they are getting into. Women are THE most affected, doesn't matter how equal men think we are. I don't ever want to give up my career and myself just for th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:36 AM
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And this is why I'm childfree..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:54 PM
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I'm convinced this is the reason why they keep trying to fuck around with birth control and abortion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:01 PM
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If old people are so concerned about their retirement then they should have saved up enough money to lot rely on the government. That's what my grandparents did. Social security is only a supplement, not their entire life pay in retirement. I'm 26, by the time I reach retiring age there won't be any social security for me. That's why I need to start saving right now. No one is entitled to anything in this life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:49 PM
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Yeah she's def the "cool girl" of hollywood 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:42 AM
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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:45 AM
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So true! They should never be too comfortable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:38 PM
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I don't have/want kids either and don't want to date a man with kids.. they are so entitled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:08 PM
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I've had a man drive 3 hours to me for a first date and he still paid.. omg 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:28 PM
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Sorry for your loss :( I'm going to follow your standards. I've had sex too early with a man and every single meeting became about sex. I don't want that with my future man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:24 PM
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I've never heard of MGTOW in China. American men are so emotional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:16 PM
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It's disturbing. Everything is "my biology" this and that buy when we wanted to be courted, as per our biology, we get called gold digging whores 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:04 PM
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Good for you! You deserve high standards, don't marry someone who acts like that. What an asshole. I hope you meet a good man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:53 AM
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EWWW I don't even like being touched on a first date. This feels rapey to me 🤢 worst advice ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:29 PM
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I'm loving all the Britney posts. She's been so wronged by the media, sexualized, chewed up and spit out. She deserves better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:40 AM
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I believe that too! Thank God I've been rejected by LVM and NVM. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:26 PM
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That makes me feel good! I'm not really interested in having children so fertility is not a concern for me. If I spend the last of my 20s and into my 30s on grad school I wouldn't mind at all. I just want to travel and enjoy my life without being on a social norms clock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:00 PM
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At this rate if I get married it'll prob be by 40. I'm 26 now but these guys are so entitled and possessive. I want to continue on to a PhD after my masters. I don't want a man trying to sabotage my career plan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:07 AM
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GOOD JOB!!! That guy was a condescending asshole.. def not missing out on anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:18 PM
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I love being single 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:00 PM
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So true. I find that guys who don't exercise tend not to be dedicated In other areas of their lives. I like to exercise, I try to incorporate it a few times during the week as a minimum. We do love a well grommed man 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:31 AM
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This is why I'm shallow when it comes to looks. We are attracted to what we are attracted to. I love guys who exercise, so I'm not going to date a guy who's lazy and has a beer belly 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:33 PM
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YES THANK YOU. I've been hardcore free britney since last year. That doc is heart breaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:04 AM
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I once told an old guy friend that women should be treated as therapists and men should get therapy for their problems. He didn't agree and said that women should be supportive. We are not born to be a man's therapist. We are not responsible for their mental health. Everyone is responsible for their own mental health. Feeling sad is not an excuse to act out on others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:16 AM
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Omg this made me cackle 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:52 PM
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EW WTF IF THIS?!!🤢🤮🤮🤮 No thanks ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:56 PM
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Thank you universe for ending relationships that would have been TERRIBLE for me! ❤️🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:51 PM
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That account was suspended 😭😭 too honest I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:46 PM
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Thank you for the book recommendation!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:19 AM
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Yes I know, my highschool didn't have any classes on finances or anything related to this. I'm 26 and I feel like I'm a little late to the game, I need to get a 401k going really soon. are you such a wealth of knowledge, wish I knew this sooner. I'm so glad to have met you!! Thanks so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:17 AM
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Also what is FIRE? Is that the financial sub? I am such a newb to all of this 😂😂🤦 Thanks again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:35 PM
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Wow, I haven't considered any of that. I just had a talk with my dad about starting to invest for retirement now. I don't want to have to work overtime to save up my own money if I can let it grow over the next 30-40 years. I completely agree! I tend to have a logical mind when it comes to finances. I'm very strict with what I spend on, I just wish I knew more about the finance world. I totally agree with you!! I will check out financial independence to learn more, thank you!!! 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:28 PM
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Yeah I'm going to look into the finance and investment subreddits. WBS is a very intense sub, plus it seems like everyone has so much money to put into the market. I want to start small and see if I get good at it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:47 PM
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Oh no definitely not right now. I figured I would do research on it before trying it out. I'm such a newbie I have to figure out how to make an account and how to buy/sell. I'm sure YouTube has some videos on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:45 PM
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Wow, thank you!! I'll look into fidelity and read the article. I really should start learning now on my 20s. I appreciate the advice :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:47 PM
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Basically. I was trying to read the Wall Street Bets subreddit and it's like a whole different language. Like creating an account with a reputable company and buy/selling stocks and how to know what's a good market and what isn't. How to read all those numbers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:28 PM
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I would if I knew how!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:11 PM
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Plus her father maintains control over every aspect of her life.. anyway #FreeBritney she needs everyone to help her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:09 PM
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I think these came out when I was in highschool, so funny but so sad girls didn't get the message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:49 AM
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OMG SCUMBAG STEVE👏👏👏 People were warned..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:08 PM
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Omg I have pickme friends too! It's so weird.. last night they were talking about walk dates and coffee dates and I was like WTF I would never 🤢🤢🤢 they actually got offended when I said they should stop accepting low effort dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:11 AM
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I don't pay 50/50 on first dates anymore. I've had men order more than me on a date and then ask to split the bill. Now if a man asks me that, I pay for my stuff only and block & delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:02 PM
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Yes I agree 100% they still want to debate after hearing how prevalent abuse is for women. So sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:21 PM
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Some guy just tried to message me 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:05 AM
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True! At least dogs are loyal 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:01 AM
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Ooo love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:00 AM
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Yes we can! I love having all these options in life. I just feel bad for our ancestors having to deal with this BS. I keep thinking that the older generations would want us women living like they wished they could live back then. I'll be picky to the day I die. ♥️♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:12 PM
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You're right ♥️ love FDS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:10 PM
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Yes I've read that too. Work is good for us. Women are not meant to be shut indoors. We need to talk to other women. Idk when individual households started and women were closed off from each other but it has done us a great disservice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:59 PM
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These redpilled men are so awful. My hopes for finding a HVM are slim.. how much garbage we have to weed through
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:57 PM
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YES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:55 PM
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It's men like these that make me thankful to FDS. And yeah, you're right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:37 PM
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Also, he said that men have gotten us this far in human civilization knowing what's best for US! Ugh I can't.. we have been abused and murdered for going against what men expect of us and he still thinks men have done us a favor.. having too many options is the downfall of women as we know it!!! /s RANT OVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:33 PM
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Omg I had this happen to me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:20 AM
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Ewwwww WTF is wrong with people 🤢🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:17 AM
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Sounds like he wants some sort of satisfaction that he has affected you in some way. Best to block and delete. Move on like you never knew him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:08 PM
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YESSS CONGRATS WE LOVE A STRONG QUEEN 💗✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:59 PM
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This is a big reason, along with it takes a lot of time to build intimacy, that I take awhile to have sex. A lot of men just want to get down to it for themselves and ignore our needs. I found that when I waited some time, the guy respected my needs more. My personal take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:23 PM
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YES. Do deal with the childish BS just dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:18 PM
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Yes! I always get myself into trouble by informing my gut feeling. Men get so pissy for being rejected we have to resort to blocking and deleting. Do I want to deal with a strange man's temper tantrum? NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:37 PM
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Single dad's have the most hypocritical way of thinking. They don't want to date single moms but want childfree women like myself to want to date them with children. Like excuse me? Why TF do you think you're so special huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:35 PM
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OMG BRITNEY SPEARS #FREEBRITNEY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:49 PM
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Ugh I HATE the fact that men are obsessed with anal. Like wtf leave us alone!! Good for you for sticking to your guns and leaving 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:42 PM
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Just like what Ruth Nader Ginsberg said, I want man who thinks my career is just as important as his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:00 AM
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Thank you same to you!!! 💗✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:21 PM
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He's moving to Florida this year and then that will be that. He doesn't talk to me much anyway. Thank you 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:41 PM
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Good for you! I've been standing up to my father who is empathetic towards my step brother who abused me. It's taking some time but I'm creating boundaries. We don't talk much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:01 PM
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You can do it!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:43 PM
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Become a top student, that's a great goal. I would like to become a top student in my program as well. Best to you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:42 PM
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Thank YOU!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:41 PM
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Yes they are coming in! I'm so exciting I didn't think I'd get results so fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:52 AM
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https://youtu.be/UQmhBiYaZWg This is what I've been doing for the last 17 days and my core has gotten a lot stronger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:12 PM
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Starting my masters degree on Jan 25th Exercise regularly I want to save $2,000 to completely overhaul my wardrobe to be more stylish Finish up my therapy this year and be able to apply the boundaries I learn here and with my therapist in life with family and potential dating partners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:11 PM
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You can make a suggestion to the mods under a certain link in the handbook I believe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:23 PM
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You are so right. I used to excuse behavior that could have potentially gotten me in trouble if things lasted longer. Thankfully I haven't been in such a relationship, but I love hearing other women's advice on how to keep yourself safe at all times. Thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 11:22 PM
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Thank for for the advice! I appreciate it 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 11:20 PM
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LOLA at all these offers for walk dates. This guy I met last summer on tinder wanted me to take the ferry to him to go on a walk date.. like excuse me?!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:46 PM
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Thank God she dumped him. She can find another man so much better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:56 PM
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OMG that is so scary! I have read far too many stories of women being abducted while running, not to cause you any alarm! Don't stop for anyone and of you can, try to keep pepper spray on your person while you run. It's so disgusting that this men think they are entitled to your energy and that you would actually listen to their idiotic advice. Always change up your route from time to time so none of these creeps can clock your route. Stay safe ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:52 PM
2

I agree with you. I'm still learning about HVM in dating, I didn't even consider my male friendships in this context. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:09 PM
3

Yeah, it wasn't unusual to hang out outside of work. I didn't mind keeping the friendship after we both left where we both worked but it seems that is both leaving is giving them ideas of romance now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:06 PM
2

I know, I didn't think it was inappropriate bat the time but now I'm realizing how unusual the age difference is.. I always kept things platonic but they're always waiting in the wings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:04 PM
43

That's true, I have to deprogram myself for being too nice! It's not worth this hassle of boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:44 AM
30

They were my work friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:33 AM
65

Yeah I'm going to keep my friends all female from here on out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:32 AM
20

Exercise def helped me cope with a heart break. Such a healthy outlet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:30 AM
51

OMG nooo I would never clean a bfs home. If it's dirty it's because he has zero self respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:29 AM
42

I've been subscribing to Derrick for a couple years now. He's always been honest about standards. Ugh the last guy I was seeing told me that I was expecting too much for ask for the BARE MINIMUM. No more! I would rather be seen as snobby then settle for less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:19 PM
1

"Whereareallthegoodmen" LOL not in that sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:29 AM
43

This is a great quote 💖 ugh I needed this sub three years ago!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:46 PM
8

Omg no don't lower your standards! Better to be happy alone than miserable with someone else. I'm taking the next couple years to cultivate myself: getting my masters/working on licensing hours, exercising, reading books that will help me have confidence in life etc I want to be successful and am working towards it so it's not too much for me to only look at successful men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:36 PM
3

Thank you!! It takes a lot of work to change but it's getting there. Same to you and your future relationships ! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:00 PM
13

I've had the same thing happen to me.. a bit different because we weren't technically committed (pre FDS days), we talked for over a year and I knew he was moving and we talking about visiting each other. Then he moves and ghosts me. I was completely heart broken and I still have a hard time with it but I'm in therapy breaking my bad habits and slowly I'm feeling better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:43 AM
10

So I've been reading Why Men Love Bitches and I see all these "nice girls" accepting a whole lot of BS from the male population.. it's quite embarrassing... But I'm proud to say that I am a nice girl in recovery! Every woman should come onto this reddit and learn how not to accept LESS than the bare minimum from a man 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:50 PM
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