| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 41 | Cross post, needs visibility IMHO | ThrowRAcq4444 | /r/MGTOW | 20/04/21 03:50 AM | |
| 12 | Divorce Recovery Groups | ThrowRAcq4444 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/23 04:00 AM | |
| 11 | The book rebuilding was recommended by someone on here. It's really helped me. | ThrowRAcq4444 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 09:38 PM | |
| 5 | Mediation | ThrowRAcq4444 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/23 05:45 AM | |
| 4 | Home equity non-payment. | ThrowRAcq4444 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 03:37 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | How much net worth did you lose?$296,000 USD roughly | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/24 08:02 PM |
| 2 | How do/did you deal with the feeling of betrayal? (mixed race couple, maybe relevant?)It's all good now, been sober 14 months. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/24 05:06 AM |
| 2 | How do/did you deal with the feeling of betrayal? (mixed race couple, maybe relevant?)I haven't been able to deal with it. I'm in a very similar situation. Only difference is I became an alcoholic to deal with the loveless, sexless marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/24 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Did your Wife start seeing a Therapist before she filed for Divorce?Yup, wife started seeing a therapist and every conversation there after was about "how she feels". My ex-wife is in a science and math field. In our more than 20 years of marriage she had never used the words "how I feel". Six months after she started seeing a therapist she filed for divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/24 07:41 PM |
| 6 | Feeling pretty lowA lot of us feel this way. I can't tell you what you need to do but I'm doing the following, Only looking forward Gym Disc golf, Volleyball, Soccer every week Quit drinking completely My kids see the difference. The people in my life see the difference. Sure I have bad days but they are fewer and further between each month. Only you can make the difference in your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Men who pay Child Support - What do you pay per month?It would cost me more than it's worth and in reality she's spending the money she has on both our kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/23 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Men who pay Child Support - What do you pay per month?TN 2 kids but only 1 minor Me: $80k Her: $120k 50/50 custody (but I let him stay with her and visit me, his choice) I pay her $700 per month Edit: Without going into details I realize that this wasn't equitable. She got 58% of our net worth I got 42%. That said I've personally talked with men that got worse. TN is not a good state for men in divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 07:04 AM |
| 3 | How do you cope with the depression?I get on reddit and see how many subreddits I can get banned in. /s | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/23 04:22 AM |
| 2 | I sat on a bench for 7 hoursGoing through those weeks like that was really hard for me. Trust me when I say, once you're on the other side, the whole world seems to have possibilities. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/23 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Do You Regret Your Marriage?I think this is the answer most men with children would give. This is how I feel as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/23 02:46 PM |
| 12 | So weird how many of us saw our wives get addicted to scrolling TikTok constantly.Holy hell batman! This is the first I'm reading this! I thought it was only my wife. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 09:47 PM |
| 3 | What was the cost of your divorce?$16,000 and counting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/23 02:56 PM |
| 14 | Miss companionshipIt's been almost 13 months for me. That's what I miss the most. Romance had long since died but we always had good conversation about our days. I don't have that connection with anyone anymore. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/23 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Looking for advice on how I should proceed with giving money to ex. Florida post divorce.Looking for advice on how I should proceed with giving money to ex. Florida post divorce. Don't | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/23 01:58 AM |
| 12 | Wife thinks she's coming in my house tomorrow to take inventory of things after not being here for 15 months.It's way past that. Your concern of being unreasonable won't happen. DO NOT LET HER IN. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/23 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Happy story from the other sideHey OP, really glad to hear others out there getting out and enjoying life. I picked up disc golf and play 3-4 times a week. It's been a God send. Being outdoors and getting exercise has made me stronger mentally and physically. Thanks for sharing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/23 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Home equity non-payment.I would pay a 10% penalty on that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Home equity non-payment.I did do a QRDO. She's under 50yrs old. She will be responsible for the tax penalty if she choses to pay that way, but that's not my problem. Edit: She was advised to get a HELC loan since the home is paid for. She just doesn't want to pay me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Home equity non-payment.Mediation went poorly. I was awarded 40% of the home value (475k). Her 401K (550k) was about 150k less than mine. She was able to keep the 55k she took from checking and savings. I was able to keep 15k from checking. She makes 30k per year more than I do. I owe her $700 month childcare. (1 child) Edit: a word | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Happy Father’s DayHappy Father's Day! Had my teenage sons over we picked up dinner came home and played games. It was a great evening. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 03:26 AM |
| 36 | You served a purposeThat's to much truth in the morning. I'm going back to my coffee. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 02:55 PM |
| 14 | Man falsely accused of raping stepdaughter walks free after she spent 20 years insisting he didn’t do itI would file a federal lawsuit against the state for $29 million. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/23 02:49 PM |
| 7 | CAUTION: r/Divorce is NOT friendly to men!it's the exact same subreddit as r/TwoXChromosomes except for men, hence the sub was banned | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Got firedThe past is the past. Don't look back, never look back. Only look forward. Focus on yourself. You are still SO young. You've got a lifetime in front of you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/23 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Please drop some wisdom for me - early 30s about to be divorced. The ups & downs?This is the way... | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/23 08:41 PM |
| 11 | Please drop some wisdom for me - early 30s about to be divorced. The ups & downs?Don't look back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/23 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Screwed by CourtsHouse was paid off. She got the house appraised for 360K (don't even known how) I got the home appraised for for $440. She claimed it needed repairs. She had to pay me 185k. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/23 03:43 AM |
| 6 | Screwed by CourtsSucks man, I'm sorry for you. It was the same with me. My wife makes 32k per year more than I do. She cleaned out our checking and savings (55k), was allowed to keep all the money and now I pay her $679 a month in child support for 1 child. Oh yeah, she got the house and over 200k of my 401k too.... | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/23 01:41 AM |
| 11 | Advice to men: It is very difficult or impossible to recover financially from a divorce after a long marriage, you are almost always better off hiding assets and risking a penalty vs certainty of lower living standard for the rest of your lifeThis is very true. It was a blood bath in mediation my lawyer just kept telling me how "lucky" I was. F that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/23 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Divorce Recovery GroupsThat sounds like exactly what I'm looking for. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/23 07:52 PM |
| 7 | Divorce Recovery GroupsJournaling was brought up and highly encouraged. The videos were worthless. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/23 05:10 AM |
| 8 | Divorce Recovery GroupsPreface: (These meetings are run in/by a local church) The meetings start with everyone watching a video for 45 minuets! Afterwards the couple running the meetings talk about the video, then ask for input. 2-3 women out of 30 people spend the last 20-30 minutes talking. The 2nd meeting I attended was identical to the first with the same 2-3 women monopolizing the last 20-30 minuets again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/23 04:24 AM |
| 1 | So, I was thinking about 7 hours ago of killing myselfHey man, start planning ahead. Find out where you are going and take some time to visit stuff you want to see in the area. Set your own schedule as much as you can. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/23 05:59 AM |
| 1 | She wont get a lawyer!If you file first, things will go better for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/23 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Pension questionbut is there any chance I’m entitled to half of her fully vested pension when she finally retires? And if so, how do I secure it? Yes, you are entitled to half of it. Not sure how you secure it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/22 05:29 AM |
| 1 | First Christmas divorced.You as well. I'm blessed, I'm with my parents and siblings now having a great time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Merry ChristmasMerry Christmas. Thanks for posting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 04:42 AM |
| 3 | First Christmas divorced.My first Christmas without the wife and kids as well. STBX won't even speak to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 04:41 AM |
| 16 | What happened to r/mgtow is a wake up call for r/mensrightsHate to tell you but this just got banned too. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/21 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Tour de France thot who caused mass pile up which injured 21 men is arrestedThis is the guy I really feel badly for. Imagine training year-round for this only to have some idiot take you out on the first day. | /r/MGTOW | 02/07/21 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Tour de France thot who caused mass pile up which injured 21 men is arrestedShe sure did. | /r/MGTOW | 01/07/21 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Society sure has it's priorities in orderIt's not just Reddit. I used to listen to NPR news every day but I started noticing a trend of LGBTQ stories EVERY... DAY.... After a straight two weeks of it I was done with the program. | /r/MGTOW | 01/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Let's hear some of your hobbies! I'm looking for some new, interesting ones during this pandemic.This needs more up votes. Really started playing this year, absolutely love it! | /r/MGTOW | 12/01/21 06:17 AM |
| 7 | Someone's wife found out you've been "red pilled"Actually, I came here from that exact post. I'm hooked, been reading great advice for a couple hours now and I've joined 5 new subreddits I didn't even know existed until today. | /r/MGTOW | 09/12/20 04:21 AM |
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