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Don't do karate, go for boxing, kickboxing, mma, muay thai or bjj. You need full contact sparring as a man
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 06:05 AM
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I take my time for foreplay etc during the weekends with my women, during the week they know the deal and I just take what I want, however long or short I last. I'm a dominant person and my plates tend to be very submissive. They also know I'd rather be making progress at work/gym than spend all day in bed with them. I mean the first few times it's so much fun but my mission is personally more important. On days they're on their period it's just a bj and some cuddling.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:38 PM
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So I always eat, just cook simple quick meals. Potatoes, fresh veggies and meat, takes 15 mins to cook. 15 to eat. To clarify, I don't do all of these on one day, alternate. Monday I might spend my time reading, tuesday in the bedroom etc.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:32 PM
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This is correct. I realised this month most people would pay that amount for a phone subscription... In order to be able to send texts, call and browse instagram they're more willing to spend money than on their own health. Get your fucking priorities sorted out and hit the gym.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 06:12 AM
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Wake around 5am Workout between 6am and 7am Work 9am-6pm Home by 8pm, eat, fuck plate, study, make music, read Sleep by 10pm-11pm. My career is my mission/passion so I don't mind. Once I'm out of the office my work stops so my time is mine. I spend my time on the commute doing my emails, keeping up to date with my industry, reading (often TRP books/posts), podcasts, meditating, chatting with friends/arranging meets with plates, listening to music. The train is one of the few places where I feel …
/r/askTRP29/08/17 05:44 AM
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My best friend starts chemo next week he's 21. I'm meeting up with him this weekend and love him like a brother. How can I help him I have no idea what to say or do? Man I wish you the best from the bottom of my heart.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 08:15 PM
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What's with Chris Pratt?
/r/askTRP19/08/17 05:21 PM
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Hahaha, indeed. You gotta have your shit together to be followed when dominant. Nothing funnier than a blue pill wuss punching above his weight 😂
/r/askTRP15/08/17 09:12 AM
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Hahaha, indeed. You gotta have your shit together to be followed when dominant. Nothing funnier than a blue pill wuss punching above his weight 😂
/r/askTRP15/08/17 09:12 AM
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Lol what?
/r/askTRP15/08/17 07:57 AM
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This exactly. You don't suggest a bj. You want a bj so you take it. No need to force her, but if you lead and if she's not down for following, she's not compatible enough and you're better off looking for a girl that is. Don't settle for a mediocre girl or sex life. Lead, read the sex god method.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 07:09 PM
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So what if it backfires? Abundance
/r/askTRP12/08/17 12:46 PM
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If you want a seat at the table you better bring something to it. Hit the gym harder. Sometimes it's better to shut up. And stop trying to interrupt others. Leaders listen first, then formulate their opinions calibrated to maximally persuade the audience.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 10:10 PM
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Can confirm, just used this on a plate to schedule GoT for tomorrow. Another good one was: Me: "Fridaynight" Her: "What do you want to do? " Me: "You" Her: "Obviously :p"
/r/askTRP30/07/17 10:05 PM
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If you're a player in real life, chicks will tag you on fb and check you in on swarm constantly. No need to spend time on displaying value online if the system feeds itself through the work of others...
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 10:34 AM
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Neo: "Are you telling me I can dodge bullets when I'm ready?" Morpheus: "I'm telling you: When you are ready, you wont have to."
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 09:25 PM
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Stretching on rest days really helps me too. Again: blood flow = faster recovery
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 09:11 PM
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Watch her actions to know her inner workings better than she knows herself. You can get better at this type of guesswork through trial and error, learning from your mistakes, reflection and gradual improvement. There's no shortcut to experience, just go out there and improve each day.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:50 PM
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Been doing 5x5 for over a year now, still get sore but I got used to it. Read up on this topic on the official stronglifts website.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 06:59 AM
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If it's an unjury, get it checked/rest/recover. If it's just soreness, go do whatever your schedule tells you to. I do SL5x5 so I squat 3x a week. Whenever sore, I still squat hard and heavy. Squatting with sore legs brings blood to your muscle tissue, which most likely will make your soreness fade halfway your warmup sets, plus the healthy blood flow makes your muscle recover faster. You'll never get used to it if you skip the workouts. Unless you have a serious injury, "barely able to walk" is…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:49 AM
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In my experience they are on a spectrum too. A chick in a LDR or LTR with a high smv male will still fuck a lower smv male if it's the only thing on the menu. Smv is relative to the current situation, the girl's feelings, the amount of alcohol in her blood, hell even the weather. Sometimes being in the right place at the right time is all it takes.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 04:32 PM
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It's not that I don't enjoy a good steak just because I once had a better one... My mouth still waters, my stomach satisfied.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 05:14 PM
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This is spot on when it comes to social dynamics (especially as a teenager). Never brag or be direct, but if need be, hint towards a half truth leaning in a more positive direction than what really happened.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:07 PM
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Stoic joy first imo, but that's just my view because I tried reading meditations a few years ago when I wasn't that used to reading english books yet (not my native language). It doesn't really matter that much because books like these deserve second, third, fourth readings, etc. Same for epictetus' enchiridion. (No time to check the correct spelling on this one) The alabaster girl also comes to mind in this scenario. Op could learn a bit about enjoying what is, flaws and all. He could have just…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 04:44 PM
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TL; DR Op is a recovering alcoholic that went out with a below average IQ plain looking girl who kept asking why he's drinking diet coke instead of booze. At the end of the date she tells him he's bad at dating and doesn't know how to treat women, after which op has a public outburst about the unsolicited alcohol questions which makes her cry. He then takes the uber home leaving her sobbing. Sounds like a fun night imo, some advice for OP: Read that one book about the good life, the art of stoic…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 05:56 AM
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What do you mean increase the bill rate? Non-native speaker, I'm not getting the entire meaning of your advice
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 05:58 AM
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Go for young and fit. A recent ONS I had started with her asking "how much do you go to the gym?", to which I replied "I don't". Which is obviously a lie, anyone can tell. She then kept talking about her routine untill we got to her place. Tl;Dr lift and go for gym chicks, fit women love muscles
/r/askTRP06/06/17 08:12 PM
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Get a night club related job, I dj on saturday nights and used to bartend too, you can party and earn money at the same time if you get into the right clubs. Read up on "lifestyle design".
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 06:17 AM
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Also lift more
/r/askTRP03/06/17 07:44 PM
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If you want a seat at the table be sure to bring some value to it
/r/askTRP03/06/17 07:43 PM
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A lame low energy workout is better than none. When you go workout you can forget all else for an hour or two. Brainwash yourself into loving the grind.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 07:42 PM
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Go to places with friends, don't lock yourself up consuming mass media shit. Get out and be social, work on feeling at ease everywhere, unless you're in bum-fuck-nowhere, there is always some public event you can go to with friends or alone to make some friends.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 05:13 PM
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It depends on the subcommunication/body language/underlying neediness. When you pay for a woman, do you: -Pay because you want to treat her (Altruism) OR -Pay because you want something in return/make her feel like she owes you (Needy) When I feel like it, I treat friends or plates to stuff occasionally. You can do whatever the fuck you want.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:55 PM
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When you're at the top people respect you, they don't just flickity flack your nutsack
/r/askTRP31/05/17 05:56 AM
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This is some good male hamstering alright. I disagree with a passion.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 10:34 PM
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Can you elaborate on this or make it into a post? I am very interested in your experiences on this topic
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 08:03 PM
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The book "The Rational Male" has a chapter on this if I remember correctly. The author advised to physically bring her back into a positive vibe, your positive world: hug her, pick her up, tickle her, tease her, make her smile and let her know in a playful way that you and her are going to have a good time and you won't be having none of the crying and sobbing. Basically: how would you stop a kid from crying? You make it smile in between the crocodile tears, wipe em off and go get some icecream.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 05:14 PM
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Read the sidebar for some tips on frame. Eye contact, inner piece, abundance mentality and self-acceptance are key to frame. Also: lift AND practise hand to hand combat for REAL confidence. As for building an interesting life: Make a list however long as you like with anything YOU want to do in your life and start with the things that scare you most. Tango lessons, saxophone, krav maga, visiting paris, climbing a mountain, running a marathon, asking out a girl, public speaking, investing, stand …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 05:10 PM
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For the people downvoting this guy, I agree though you can also pleasantly tease her and be less direct: Zone out and stop listening for a minute, then act as if you wake up, look her straight in the eye, tell her you weren't listening at all. Ask her a genuine question or change the topic to something you DO enjoy. Note: If you don't like the chick just accept the moment and do not meet up with her again, or tell her you need to return some videotapes. Being honest can be refreshing, don't mind…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 05:04 PM
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About three years, took the red pill at 18, it transformed my life and is slowly making me the man I want to be.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:57 PM
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I'm almost 22. When I was 18, I was home alone one day and collected all of my courage to ask this DTF chick to come over. Long story short: she slept on the couch and I failed to escalate. Keep gaming chicks, enjoy the process and learn at your own pace. It took a few years but nowadays I'm pretty charming and can escalate/close. What really changed my approach to this is The Book Of Pook, sidebar material.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 05:27 PM
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Practise a full contact combat sport, preferably one that trains you to endure pain, like muay thai. Try out some acting classes or public speaking. Get used to and enjoy uncomfortable silences, do not break them, let other people yield. Go out more, practise not breaking. Push limits, do things that make you uncomfortable. Shit test others. Work on eye contact. Meditate, work on your inner issues. Hang out with other confident people and copy their characteristics. Watch some james bond and do …
/r/askTRP22/05/17 06:08 AM
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Watch some anthony jeselnik to get rid of filters
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:52 AM
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If you were to give me a waterproof phone, I would be dying to try and put it in a bucket to see. It is just human curiosity. A shit test.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 05:50 AM
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People take note. Don't underestimate subcommunication and body language.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:42 PM
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Always love your way of thinking, thank you for the wisdom
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 07:39 PM
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Lift more, pick up a martial art, get bigger and more attractive and people won't mess with you. Also work on radiating the "I am not to be fucked with"-vibe. It's not about what you say and do, it's about the subcommunication and ever present power dynamic.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 06:16 AM
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Seeing my family suffer and become deadbeat losers. I'm prerty certain about MY future and health and success, but my close family member are all uneducated, jobless, unhealthy, mentally unstable, handicapped, jailed, in dept, unhappy... I try to lead by example and help, but you can only lead a horse to water. Coming to terms with all of this is something I am currently struggling with. I also want to start my own family and have successful kids and grandkids one day to which I can pass my wisd…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 08:14 AM
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If he truly believes what he says, he is. Self confidence and belief is extremely effective.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 08:09 AM
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Tantra and meditative sex is worth looking into. Guiding a woman through a unique powerful magical experience and coming together in a deep surreal experience is, to me personally, the most pure expression of art and emotion. It shows you can lead, are unafraid to show your raw self and brings such joy stronger than most drugs I've tried.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 08:06 AM
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One of my plates has a rich dad so I get free vacations with only her at their beach house in Portugal. Low key gold-digging right there.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 05:44 AM
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To go to? Anything interactive, workshops, dancefloors, jobs, irl dating meetings, public spreaking, start a band, sell stuff at the market, go do some group yoga or an obstacle run, go to a board game meeting... Everything. Now in order to keep those people around, the best way is to invite them over, have a barbecue or a movie night and invite some people over, the more the better and especially invite people that don't know eachother. Be vague and talk about the mood and feelings instead of f…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 10:36 AM
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I broke down a few weeks ago on the memorial day of the death of a close friend who hung himself after a battle with alcohol and toxic relationship. I turned 21 this year, now for the first time older than he ever was. I went to the gym that day right after work, but my gym partner cancelled last minute. He didn't know my close friend died 2 years ago that day. I messed up my workout, was so tired and unfocused, ended up doing some pullups and pushups and calling it a day after 20 minutes. Mind …
/r/askTRP17/04/17 10:21 AM
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Your 10% 175lbs goal will probably take longer than 6 months, especially if you don't use steroids. I'd even say it's impossible, but there's only one way to find out. I'd also recommend to replace your ab workouts with mma/muaythai/bjj/kickbox or another full contact martial art
/r/askTRP23/09/16 12:43 AM
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Every person reacts differently to workout plans and diets. Yours look pretty solid.. Stick with it as long as you improve, that's all. If you stop making strength gains/are gaining fat, adjust your diet and/or workout plan. Else... Stick with it. Year after year.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 12:40 AM
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Ask yourself, how desperate are you? "Mad IOIs" through social media? 300km away? You are delusional.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 12:36 AM
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About those army people... Actions matter, not your feelings. If a soldier saved lives, he's getting a medal... They won't ask him if he was scared. Even if he did literally shit his pants and cried the whole way, he got the job done. Just do it, with or without fear, anxiety and depression. There is no magic trick. No shortcut. Only action. The reverse is also true... A woman feels raped, but nothing physical happened? The man can be punished for the non-existent "assault".
/r/askTRP14/08/16 12:31 AM
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Jazz Piano Muay Thai Stronglifts Art ( film, photography, painting, drawing, 3d ) Producing Reading Disk Jockeying Woodworking Building Drones Youtube Channels Salsa Dancing
/r/askTRP14/07/16 02:42 AM
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You gotta realize life is a joke. You are absolutely alone. Born alone and die alone. Anything you want to do is up to you. Everything is within your reach, your control. Nobody matters, only your mind, body, skills, wisdom, health etc. Everything is replaceable, will be forgotten, will die. All things have an end. Feeling down? This shall pass. Feeling good? This too shall pass. Fuck everything. Stop giving fucks. Do your own thing. Be the best man you can imagine. Live your own life instead of…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 12:03 PM
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I love you GLO
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:55 AM
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Be sure to use increments of 2 sporadically with a cheeky smile to accentuate threesomes
/r/askTRP25/05/16 10:47 PM
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You should try to push more out if your comfort zone if this scares you. Go boxing, bungee jumping, public speaking, etc. Once you push outside of your comfort zone, it becomes your comfort zone. Being scared of words is for women and children. Be fearless and own your shit, do your own thing.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 05:31 AM
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Trying to make a hoe a housewife is pretty desperate. It's like dating a brunette when you like blondes, hoping she'll die her hair...
/r/askTRP30/04/16 11:26 AM
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Cheap second hand city bike (40 euros), does the job and crappy enough not to get stolen (Western Europe)
/r/askTRP28/04/16 01:53 AM
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I bike 45min to go to my boxing gym each time, and 45min back. 2-3 times a week. It's worth it.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 05:33 PM
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Been going through the same thing for a while longer. Some stuff I do is: Get out of my comfort zone (e. g. going out with people I barely know) Be at ease and relaxed any place, any time Flirt with all women (back when I had no abundance, I got loads of ugly chicks offering their numbers, upping my confidence, abundance and passive dread) Have fun at all times/enjoy myself/live in the moment Say yes to almost any invitation, you can make anything fun
/r/askTRP09/03/16 12:38 AM
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Over 3.5 weeks Did you start LG only 3.5 weeks ago?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 12:26 AM
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Dress nice and have been lifting for many years and understand game. I know guys that dress, lift and game like crazy. Doesn't make them alpha at all though. Even the biggest toughest looking alpha male can be a little bitch when alone at home with his broad, to the point where they need permission to have a drink with the guys. They basically run an anti-dread monopoly with their "I'll never leave your side", "you're my everything" and "anything for you baby" then get cheated on, depressed, fat…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 11:49 PM
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we get stuck on the theory so hard in a way that fucks up our practice Always reminds me of this clip
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 09:41 PM
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It's already next in line on my ereader! Gotta finish "the charisma myth" first. Already looking forward to it, thanks.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:18 PM
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Interesting post. Once a girl sees a potential match in her social circle, she goes to the girl and guy separately, and tells each of them that she knows "someone that they have to meet." She might tell each person a few things about the other, maybe show them some photos, and she gets them to agree to the setup. Then she arranges some kind of event at which the two people have the opportunity to meet each other. Check check check check, all very accurate haha! It ends with telling the reader th…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 12:34 AM
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Oh man I read it as well and ever since, I've been enjoying EVERYTHING in the way he enjoys women. Simple things like drinking water, walking through town, being alive, EVERYTHING. It is all so much better this way, so intense!
/r/askTRP28/10/15 11:55 PM
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She did see me before at another party Dj-ing way back, though I was too busy to talk. (Automatically making me one of the highest SMV guys around)
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:41 PM
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Women can provide plenty more for a man than just sex IMO: Social proof, invitations to events, style advice, transportation, gift ideas, etc. You just have to know how to play the game and where to draw lines so you don't end up orbiting. I deny/turn down these girls so much yet they keep coming back... I don't give a fuck what your opinion is. Because clearly, you opinion sucks else you wouldn't be on here posting the question. But it's cool. Keep doing what you want and keep getting the same …
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:35 PM
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Haha, very possible indeed!
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:28 PM
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Are either of those guys, you? If no...quit comparing yourself to weak men. True, it can certainly give a boost though it depends on the person.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:27 PM
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Opinions vary.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:24 PM
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Men don't have women orbiters. High SMV men have plenty. Are you trying to tell me artists, actors and professional athletes don't have female orbiters? I mean I don't have them in such multitudes, but I believe men can have female orbiters. Most of my female orbiters are damn ugly, but some are in the 6-7 range.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:18 PM
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They bring up the whole girlfriend thing? Come back with a witty comment to put them in their place. I remember my parents doing that to me a few years back. It soon passes after you have your first girlfriend over for dinner/the night. After I broke up with that girl and started plating girls my parents have asked me a few times if "I was seeing a girl", to which my default answer since is "Who said it had to be ONE?" Man you are in control and you've got DECADES to work on yourself, take thing…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:12 PM
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.just grow a manly beard and you are automatically thought of as the leader of the group Hahaha, it might work for some people but I know a lot of beard-compensators that try this shit out and it's not working for them. One guy is the biggest orbiter I've ever seen, he once went up to a girl he'd been pretty much stalking for weeks, without ever talking to her and asked if she would be his girlfriend. This guy was 18 years old and had the beard of a bona fide dwarf! He looked at least 25 and mos…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:08 PM
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I disagree. (That doesn't mean you're wrong though!) Jane would love to get a piece of me but I met her because she's the GF of one of my buddies and I don't game my mates their girls. Second of all, she's pretty, but not my type/style and she knows I'm out of her reach/am not into her. I've got a few of these girls around me and I keep them in my friendzone. I say MY friendzone because I don't orbit them, do useless stuff for them or anything. It's actually the other way around where they offer…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:00 PM
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Vices Stop masturbating: I don't think it's that much of an issue, but I'm sure it's a good willpower exercise. Start going to bed on time/stop using the snooze button: Due to tougher/more frequent workouts, I've been feeling fatigued a lot the past few weeks, my body needs more sleep. Brush teeth at least twice a day: My teeth are in good condition, but I only brush once a day, sometimes twice. I need to be more consistent! Daily Activities: Drink more water: I'll be needing it as well because …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 07:03 PM
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Nice joke
/r/askTRP26/10/15 02:05 PM
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If your dick fell off, you became allergic to the touch of a woman and would become blind upon seeing one naked... What would you do to be happy in your day to day life? Focus on that.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:13 AM
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20 year old student over here. About 2 months ago I announced to my parents I'll be starting Muay Thai soon. They tried to convince me not to do it, called me crazy, said I'll lose my teeth and pretty face, get myself hurt or worse. I ignored their advice. My first training I almost fainted/puked, pushed my body way beyond the limits of what I thought was possible. Kept kicking till my legs were black and blue, knees bloody, sweat everywhere and I couldn't lift my arms anymore. I've never felt t…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 11:50 PM
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"someone has to" Haha, stealing that one! I've even had other girls fix me up with stuff for me an my (now ex) girlfriend back when I wasn't spinning plates, just for the tiniest chance at AF. The first time it happened was unreal, a female friend offering advice and resources for my then girlfriend's studies, obviously trying way too much to please me. As someone who was pretty blue pill during his teenage years it resonated with my former futile attempts and I felt genuinely sorry for the chic…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 07:05 PM
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Oh man. Since I started upping my SMV, holding frame and generally being manly, girls have started orbiting. Lots of ugly girls, but also just girls that don't match up to my standards or would result in too much drama if I plated them. (Too much friends in common/exes of my bros/too slutty) Still, they offer their help and resources. Money, drinks, rides etc. The most painful stuff I have come across is female friends trying to introduce/hook you up with a friend of theirs in the hopes of gaini…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 05:52 PM
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Don't forget a lot of guys in this situation are fat and disgusting themselves with absolutely no intention and will to improve
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 03:15 PM
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Mind you the sex died out in the past few weeks and I'm not sure this direct of an approach would work in this situation. She was a virgin before me and is still pretty shy/vanilla (unless we've been drinking, holy shit what an animal) It would make a good line in a movie and does sound like a great idea but I think this would only work for about 5% of the people on this sub. Correct me if I'm wrong though.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 11:30 AM
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It means you're still emotionally invested and care which validates her Yep, I'm going to keep up no contact indeed, thanks. how to be your ex-gf's chad post I'm looking out for this one, might come in handy one day! She's a solid HB8-8.5 and I "wouldn't count" and would not add to her total parter amount so she would make a good plate/be up for it.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 11:27 AM
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You did the right thing Good to hear a confirmation! Thanks for the advice, really appreciate it. It feels good to stand up for myself and have boundaries/standards, redpill taught me that, I'm very grateful for it because without it I would have dealt with this situation in a terrible terrible way no doubt.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 11:23 AM
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Though she has to earn it first ;)
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:51 PM
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Thanks, this does put things in perspective. I'm plating this one.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:51 PM
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Got it thanks.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:50 PM
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I never had drama before that though, I don't talk about feelings and I don't complain. This has resulted in us only having ONE disagreement over all those months. She wanted to stay at a party and I wanted to go home. I went home and she followed, after which she was a bit distant so I playfully kept kissing her "Are you mad at me?" untill she was smiling and after that we were ok again. So this is basically the first bit of drama I hear from her, altough pretty severe.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:43 PM
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Oh I know, I'm just not in the mood right now and technically we're not broken up yet and I don't support cheating. I also don't want to hurt this girl even though it might not work out between us.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:35 PM
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I'm in the progress of re-reading it since that one guy made a pdf, thanks.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:31 PM
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If she does come back, it should be as a plate only. She's really not girlfriend-material Can someone verify this? Am I delusional for thinking this might just be her acting up and there is still hope for an LTR?
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:30 PM
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I just wasn't sure if this is needy behaviour or just me expressing what I want.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:20 PM
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Don't respond to her text. You told her no just-friends, and she hasn't sucked your dick since then. I've thought the same, unless we're having sex, there's no way we're a couple again.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:19 PM
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I'd rather just wank instead of random one night stands, still thanks.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:18 PM
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Possible indeed, thanks.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:17 PM
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It appears my first impression of TRP was wrong Although I still don't agree with most of the stuff on the main subreddit (about men being more important than women and all the hate/blaming/shaming) I do agree with the dominant and submissive structure in relationships, I've been reading some material and gotta say just like you said the veterans over at /r/AlreadyRed/ really resonates with my own views and /r/marriedredpill's advice can be applied to casual/long term relationships as well. I re…
/r/seduction13/02/15 05:31 PM
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its not just about shyness, rather about emptyness Go out there, volunteer, join clubs, read, try to reach out to your idols, write them a letter and see if you ever get one back, join competitions, go to museums, get hobbies, READ MORE, don't just go to parties, go to unique things as well, be creative but start DOING STUFF instead of thinking. CLIMB the mountain instead of wondering what the view might be like on the summit.
/r/seduction03/11/14 02:18 PM
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A camp to be an organiser of international camps for kids aged 6-9 or 9-12 years old. You get a certificate as summer camp monitor, it's all about getting out of your comfort zone, being creative, having fun and making stuff fun for others. You will meet new people and in order to get your certificate you WILL have to learn/change positively. There's loads of girls on those camps as well by the way, and you're forced to interact from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to sleep. Some of …
/r/seduction03/11/14 02:16 PM
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By denying what she wants and going for that when YOU want it. Some examples: Pull back first when kissing When on a date, go to two places... In the first venue, just talk, VERY occasional kino with the back of your hands, MASSIVE EYE CONTACT, triangulate the shit out of the eyes and mouth with your eyes. Ask questions and make her talk about herself, ask yourself seriously "Do I like what she's telling me". She'll be talking about all sorts of things, trying to impress you, if she does, let he…
/r/seduction01/11/14 09:56 AM
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I used to be very shy and quiet, but got a wake up call by signing up for week-long camps, sort of organised vacations where you just HAD to interact. The organisers forced me to yell my own name as loud as I could while the whole group was looking because I never talked. I noticed I wasn't used to yelling AT ALL. I used to be really quiet but something big changed that day. Just go out there, to the point of no return where you MUST be social in order to "survive". Trust me, you WILL adapt. Get…
/r/seduction01/11/14 01:27 AM
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Chapter 3, confidence.
/r/seduction01/11/14 01:11 AM
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Used to play games and watched porn each day, now it's somewhere in 1-2 times a month for both. I still masturbate more than that but without any visuals. :p
/r/seduction31/10/14 06:22 PM
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We also save up money by drinking water from the tap unless there's company, turning off the lights if you're not in that room, wearing an extra sweater instead of turning up the heat but those are just basic practises imo. Just to clarify that no, we don't swim in the money. I've also got relatives helping to pay my college money which is "only" 1000 dollars a year (if I'm not mistaken it is WAY more in America) because on our own we wouldn't be able to.
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:49 PM
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European average people struggling to "make ends meet". I see our family as very rich, but I'm not talking about the money here. I'm talking about the opportunities I get and about the freedom I have. Granted, I've got it easy. But most people coming to seddit are in similar situations. My parents pay for my school, shelter (I live at home but am moving out within the next year and a half), clothes and food (only if I eat home). I pay for my hobbies and parties with money I earn by working on we…
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:45 PM
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i know the shit i enjoy so im just gonna focus on that See, your snowball is rolling and the momentum is probably already making sure stuff will get better and better each day.
/r/seduction31/10/14 04:22 PM
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You just gotta find out how you want to live and start the ball rolling asap. Before you know it you'll think back and say "Holy shit". I don't get why people always say "Don't worry, NOBODY knows what he's doing." because I know exactly what I want and how I want to live my life and am actively working towards it. It's both wrong and right at the same time. Go with the flow but make sure you got a map of the river bro.
/r/seduction31/10/14 03:28 PM
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Sorry but from the things I've read there, I'm not that much of a fan. In my opinion in this subreddit people blame others too much for their own shortcomings, both men and women are blamed for things that the individual who's pointing with his finger should be able to fix on his own. I haven't been there that much but the overall mood seems so angry and constipated, and I live and let live. I want to improve myself, not start a witch hunt. Of course I may be focusing on some posts too much, but…
/r/seduction31/10/14 03:24 PM
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I highly recommend "the Tao of Badass" and the youtube channel "Project Attraction". In my opinion, this ebook and channel both have very realistic ways to view dating and lifestyle, focusing on making you and your partner(s) happy and healthy instead of just getting in somebody's pants.
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:55 PM
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Good to hear man, I can't help the internet wasn't around back in those days like it is now. :)
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:31 PM
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Enjoy your life now that you've found yourself. Thanks, this is beautiful.
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:05 PM
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It's good to be on my way to be a man. :)
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:04 PM
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I've already found it, just gotta keep it up and store that happiness so I can share.
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:03 PM
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Don't compare yourself to others, compare yourself to your former self and you'll improve a lot faster.
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:03 PM
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True, but I treat em like pets. If your dog dies, you're not gonna say: "Yep, it's time for a replacement dog." You'll feel bad for your loss, happy for the time you spent with him/her and when it's time, when you're ready, you'll steadily start looking for the new one, being very picky about what you want, not settling for the first pretty eyes and fur you see. Just a clarification how I think about it, don't know the nuances you meant with "get another just like her".
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:02 PM
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I edited my post, be sure to check it out. These are no strict rules, this is just how I found myself the happiest.
/r/seduction31/10/14 11:51 AM
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I posted a large edit, check it out! what is your personal way of seducing? I'm honest, and I don't talk much when getting physical. I love smalltalk and learning about the other person, not just telling them about my life. I don't bring up what I do in my spare time, unless asked. Your friends will talk about you with other people and when asked I'm just talking about my busy life as if it's the most usual thing in the world. I've got like 5 or 6 hobbies I'm working on now and most people I kno…
/r/seduction31/10/14 11:50 AM
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Congratulations on getting laid bro. You're missing the point, bro. :)
/r/seduction31/10/14 10:49 AM
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