"You're not like all those pretty boys out there... You've got CHARACTER.", she moaned, kissing me head over heels in love.

Thank you seddit, this girl is a HB10 to me both on the inside and outside and damn are her hormones acting up when around me.


I'm 19, studying, and I started reading about self-improvement and seduction about a year ago. Since then I've gotten fit, stopped wasting time (games, tv, porn nearly every day), started reading a lot again, passed all exams and hell do I feel great.

I've filtered the good info on this subreddit and developed my own personal way of seducing by applying what I liked and learning from what I don't.

This girl is crazy about me and only me. I have to say it's one of the most memorable experiences in my life to fall asleep holding someone you're in love with and being held by someone who's in love with you.

I fixed my single life, set up the perfect base to start dating girls and have a broad range of choices.

Because of all you seducers posting valuable information on here, I'm happy with where I am in life. Not just because I got a girl, but because both she and I know that I'm capable of doing it again.

To be honest, many of these pick-up methods on the net are focused on getting sex asap. That hasn't been MY focus though. Call me sappy, but I want a smile, a hand running through my hair, a cute nose bumping into mine, waking up and seeing every little bump and hair on the skin of her shoulder, her giggle when her hair gets stuck in my mouth again and her uncontrollably dry humping the fuck out of my nether regions, scratching my back as if she'll never let go.

I've never been this emotionally close before and feel as if my life is just getting started.

It's all about lifestyle and inner game. I'm dragging her along in my day to day life and to her it's like a damn movie and she's loving it.

I don't need much to live and I don't think I'll ever get tired of living.

A year ago I wanted to be the guy who could get any girl, but today I'm better than that... I'm the guy who's kissing the girl while the other girls wish they were her.


TL;DR: Teenager high on hormones bringing the fun to girls that want it


EDIT: People are wondering how I got my life sorted out and worked on my inner game. Here are a few tips from an inexperienced but happy person:

Lifestyle:

  • Get at least one result based hobby. Learn an instrument or craft, there is too much valuable information and philosophy ingrained in the arts and crafts to not learn at least one of them. They will shift how you view the world and make you enjoy the little things and see the big things. This will give you something to look forward to in the future and even if it takes you 10 or 20 years to make a master painting, sculpture, piece of furniture, song or anything... You'll have something nearly permanent to look at when in doubt of what you're doing with life. You'll look at your piece of art and see the hours of dedication, months of preparation and every piece of emotion you put in it. You'll think "Fucking hell, did I make this???". Skills are a very important aspect of my life, because even if I were homeless and butt fucking naked anywhere in the world, I could amaze people by getting my hands on the right instrument or charcoal, even if I'm not even that good. You get both inner validation and outer recognition for the things you make in life and people will not get that you can do these things just by steadily practising for a little bit every few days. Slow progress is still progress, so start doing something you like. I recommend just learning to draw with pen and pencil, because it changes the way you view the world entirely. The funniest thing is that even the biggest introvert can start doing this, share the results with friends/family/strangers and get instant respect for your dedication. Note that you should be socially aware, and know that some things will have a greater impact. If you're the guy that's only gonna draw my little pony doodles and is gonna play wonderwall on his guitar every time, people will not like it that much unless they're part of a niche.

  • Eat healthy, don't eat chocolate bars and cookies all day. Instead eat fruits, nuts, yoghurt, meat, vegetables, potatoes, cheese and work out. I bought a pull up bar and do some every time I'm bored at home while thinking "What can I do to improve my skill-set today?". My life is like an RPG where I'm training skills like a madman, the more skills you have, the easier it is to learn new ones because a lot of arts and crafts are very similar. But back to the foods... I want a beard so I googled a bit and noticed that there are ways of raising your testosterone. Drink enough water, no sugary drinks and finds some things you can afford that "boost testosterone" according to yahoo questions. I know this isn't science, but every time I eat a nut or drink cranberry juice, I'm thinking to myself "Holy shit, this is gonna give me such a boost in testosterone" and get all pumped up about it. Use the placebo effect to your advantage. I think I'm mentally making myself aware that I'm a MAN and I feel great. There's a lion inside me and I'm slowly unlocking the cage.

  • Work out, get in shape, or accept your body and accept that others have to be able to do so as well to get a healthy relationship.

  • Don't stress. Wanna call a girl? Don't think about a dialogue, just pick her name and press the button, you're stuck now, DEAL WITH THE PROBLEM. If you're not ready to deal with it, go to the point of no return. Pressing a button isn't hard, focus on just getting that part done and once you did, DEAL WITH THE SHIT. I still procrastinate, but I get shit done too.

  • Fix your posture, don't look at the ground unless it's to know where to walk.

  • Read the Tao of Badass, especially the part about how to treat other men.

  • I only invest in a girl when I KNOW she likes me, I don't try to win her over or alter her first impression, I don't game actually. I don't go up to random girls on the street and ask for their number. I just have good friends, go out a lot and try to get to know other people from time to time, groups, guys and girls but not with getting in their pants in mind. If you're with 5 guy friends and one of your friends gets a GF, take her along with some of her friends. This is called networking and I'm still not that good at it, but get a friend who IS. He'll drag you along and all the chicks he knows, eventually after a year or two, you'll throw parties or go to events and it'll be you, your mates, and a shit ton of hot chicks who are enjoying their night out. Even if you don't like to party, be creative...

  • Embrace your sexuality. You're human, don't stress. Girls are even hornier than you are, and yes I have a source for that but it's personal. Read some philosophy and especially take a look at /r/Stoicism to learn how not to stress about losing stuff. It's ok to mourn your dead, but you should not feel so bad when your pizza gets pulled down by gravity and there's cheese all over your new shoes or if your cell phone finally decides it's time to kick the bucket. I react with an "Oh well, it was inevitable". Find the humour in everyday situations, make your life the worst and best sitcom at the same time.

  • If you're young, you should text with girls and snapchat, get involved but let them do most of the talking and let them try to impress you. They're bound to ask "Watchu doin?" and if you follow my previous advice you'll probably be working on a skill and have no other choice but to show them the awesome things you've trained for. She will be impressed. You'll soon find you have true inner value and don't NEED the validation of people, but having something interesting to show/explain is very attractive and makes you more and more relationship material.


Girls:

  • Fuck it, you've got a life, you ain't got time for that. You're too busy living, if she wants to see you she'll have to do an effort cuz damn are you interesting.

PS: I know for a fact that living my life like this makes ME happy, but you gotta find your own path, search your own ways. There is no magic trick, there is no juice to make you win the race. You gotta train and enjoy the running because the finish line is where you drop face-first on the floor never to move again and you gotta make sure you do that with a smile so in a billion years they can dig up your fossil and make a museum out of you. Go get em.


EDIT 2: Shout out to Project Attraction. This guy taught me valuable lessons in the past weeks and has just started a few weeks/months ago. At this time he only has 60 subscribers, but I personally recommend his channel to anyone who wants more than plain sex.