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Having good looks is just like having a skin in Fortnite. You may look experienced and awesome, but that doesn't have to be the case at all. Default skins can be just as good and better.
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:15 PM
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There's a thing called Google
/r/seduction17/08/18 01:41 PM
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Only the thing that changed my life
/r/seduction17/08/18 10:58 AM
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All good advice... For when she picks up
/r/seduction14/08/18 08:14 PM
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Get rid of your chody victim mentality and then come back
/r/seduction08/07/18 10:05 PM
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Fucking PIMP
/r/seduction03/06/18 12:13 PM
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She just likes the attention she gets from you. Girls like that are always looking for validation through the attention from boys and it will never be enough.
/r/seduction05/05/18 05:03 PM
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First you need to accept the fact that you can't drink and be comfortable with it. Right now you're giving me the impression you think you're bothering other people by not being able to drink alcohol. Get rid of this mindset. If a girl doesn't want to date you because you can't drink, she's not worth the slightest effort. First learn to have fun without alcohol and others will enjoy your company. Second important thing to realize is that alcohol is absolutely not necessary for success with women…
/r/seduction30/04/18 03:36 PM
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How about playing video games, watching anime AND fucking girls? Sounds good huh? You dont have to give up your nerdy hobbies to date girls.
/r/seduction24/04/18 02:22 PM
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Yes it is self-limiting belief and totally not true. I am 5'6 (165cm) and can easily get dates via daygame. Also got a few lays. Not to mention the many members of RSD Rotterdam (who are now my friends) also got laid while being below 6'0.
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:51 PM
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I can tell a girl likes me when she makes lots of direct eye contact with a smile. Also soft pushing/slapping when I tease her are good signs. When walking or sitting next to him, try to gently push your arm against his, like if there's too little space for the two of you. Oh and play with your hair while talking!
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:40 PM
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Fuck Tinder. Make the streets your Tinder
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:29 PM
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Uhm, how exactly was it a mistake if he got the number and is now texting with her? Also nothing wrong with expressing yourself. Being honest about how you feel in such a situation can be very attractive. He is letting her know he is also human with healthy emotions. He is not pretending to be some superhero who isnt afraid of anything.
/r/seduction01/03/18 05:59 AM
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Sounds like there's still room for improvement. A friend of mine I met from my local RSD community got 3 same-day-lays by doing daygame in just 2 months and he's not even very active. The current leader has 5 fuckbuddies from both daygame and nightgame. The previous leader quit when he met his gf via daygame. The difference between them and you seems to be the focus on getting phone numbers. Getting a phone number means absolutely nothing. A very small amount of girls will go on a date and even …
/r/seduction29/12/17 12:33 PM
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I agree with the first two points, but not 3. You shouldn't force a kiss that is out of place, out of nowhere, just for the sake of it being a rule. It can make things really awkward and it might make you seem needy after all. The girl may also think you're going too fast. However, if you don't get to kiss on a second date (and especially later dates), then the vibe is probably too 'professional'.
/r/seduction19/12/17 12:17 PM
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You're getting in the friendzone, if not you're already there. It's not clear to me what you want with this girl. Do you want a (sexual) relationship with her? Then you need to make your intentions clear and stop being her therapist. Next time you talk to her, plan to have a drink together. And you're not gonna talk about her stupid ex-boyfriend. You're gonna have fun. You tease her. You touch her. And then you try to kiss her when the vibe is right. If you get rejected, who the fuck cares. Ther…
/r/seduction15/12/17 12:07 PM
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You already made a post like this before. Obviously giving you assurance about your decent appearance over and over again will not help. Even if you were ugly as fuck, I'd rather want you to change that pessimistic ''How BAD do I look 1-10'' behaviour. You really think that depressing self-hating self-pitying attitude will get you laid? Your face? a 7 out of 10. Your energy/personality/frame? a 1 out of 10 Next time ask something useful: How do I get rid of this toxic mentality? Take. Fucking. A…
/r/seduction07/12/17 11:47 AM
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I recognize a lot of what you're saying in myself with basically everything in my life. You should read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover. While I'm not completely 'cured' of this disastrous habit just yet, I noticed some improvements in handling situations like this because of the methods described in this book.
/r/seduction25/11/17 11:56 AM
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You dont get friendzoned by smoking weed with a girl. Thats nonsense. You get friendzoned by not showing your true intentions to her. Say to her she looks nice when meeting. Touch her arm or poke her shoulder. Make intense eye contact. Smoking TOGETHER is actually a very good first step to achieve this. Because it shows you want to get to know her better.
/r/seduction23/11/17 11:48 AM
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''She says she likes to smoke weed and drink, Im thinking that smoking with her after work would be a good idea since we both like it.'' You answered your own question
/r/seduction23/11/17 11:30 AM
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The choice is yours bro. Create your own chances by approaching that one beautiful girl on the streets you'll never see again otherwise. Dont let your love life depend on coincidence: https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c Coming saturday Ive a second date with a beautiful girl I met by saying she looks cute. Who knows what exciting stuff may happen ;) Wish me luck. Own your life
/r/seduction16/11/17 05:32 AM
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It "sounds" to you it may make girls feel uncomfortable, but I have observed that at least 90% of all approaches Ive done were positive. Two of my pickup buddies even managed to approach a girl, date her and fuck her on the same day, multiple times. Believe me, some girls will melt when you do this. I don't care about the r/seddit rules on how to approach a girl on the streets. Nothing is absolute and everything is relative. All girls are different and react in unexpected ways to multiple opener…
/r/seduction15/11/17 10:57 PM
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Talk to as many girls on the streets as possible. If a girl catches your eye, you walk up to her and tell she's beautiful. Then you have a conversation, followed by having a coffee or you ask her number for a drink in the following days.
/r/seduction15/11/17 01:46 PM
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And because Nice Guy characteristics are mostly inherited during childhood, it is very difficult to change this chode mentality after the age of 16-18. I believe massive action on the streets can make a Nice Guy an entirely new man in the most effective and fastest way possible, as it did with me. You not only gain self-love and self-respect, but also more sexual experiences with women and social skills beneficial for relationships with women, family, friends, partners and in your career.
/r/seduction15/11/17 12:56 PM
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How could I have known being honest about my (sexual) needs was the right thing to do? I was an extreme Nice Guy (look up Nice Guy Syndrome) who genuinely believed this was the right way to treat women. Until at one point I became lonely, depressed and hateful against women because they rejected me for guys I despised. I approached girls and did things that felt wrong to me because it went against my flawed nature, but the results were extremely positive. Being not-me and all the PUAs who suppor…
/r/seduction12/11/17 02:21 PM
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When I was myself a few years back, I got friendzoned all the time. Game made me make so many mistakes until I eventually learned what women are looking for in men and adjusted myself to a new and more sexual person I'm comfortable with. Not every man is born a natural. Some guys have way less contact with girls in their teenage years because of a billion different factors they don't control. Game gives these men the opportunity to explore their sexuality like we are supposed to.
/r/seduction12/11/17 01:49 PM
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If you don't feel comfortable fucking a girl you're not into, then why do it? Pickup and sex don't need to go hand in hand. You can do it to find the right girl in your life. My personal goal is meeting and fucking as many girls as I can. Not only because I'm a horny motherfucker, but also because I want to know for sure what type of girl I'm really into on both a sexual level and also personality. This way I can be sure that I've found my quality girl I can spend the rest of my life with and my…
/r/seduction12/11/17 11:56 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-Sehh-yD-c 17's a beautiful age to start with daygame. You will stop being afraid of rejection and learn some usefull social and dating skills.
/r/seduction07/11/17 09:24 PM
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You're tall, you have a great body, you have facial hair, you have a big social circle, you're smart, you take care of your hygiene. All good things to have. Now comes the important question: do you have game? Because without it, you will meet not so much girls in your life. Doesn't matter how awesome you claim to be, you need to take action. Approach a girl and talk to her. Show her you like her. Touch her. Tease her. Escalate. You're the man, so you hunt.
/r/seduction07/11/17 09:01 PM
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I didn't read The Game, but I've been with RSD for a year now and noticed a huge change in my dating life and even more incredible results from others. One night stands, fuckbuddies, even girlfriends with beautiful girls and models. Besides improving your dating life, you will gain a lot of social skills and rejection desensitization. I can't imagine ever stopping with RSD after reading one book. RSD has too much positive impact on my social and dating life. You make these random assumptions abo…
/r/seduction07/11/17 07:06 PM
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/r/seduction03/11/17 09:14 PM
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When you give a girl a compliment, then you should mean it. Ive noticed more positive responses when genuinely meaning the compliment compared to just acting. The first thing that catches your eyes about her should be the compliment. The thing with directly making your intentions clear, especially during the day, is that it requires some massive balls. Showing this amount of confidence is extremely attractive to women. Indirect openers can work, but I spend a lot of time on one girl after which …
/r/seduction30/10/17 10:58 AM
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You can say to a girl you like her. I've seen it working countless times during daygame. Nothing wrong with making your intentions clear. After that, you do kino.
/r/seduction28/10/17 02:39 PM
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How do you think most of those guys started? Doing nothing and getting seduction skills out of nowhere? Some guys were heavily depressed/bullied. They took action and overcame their biggest fears. They have been rejected more than the apprentice has even tried. But they dont care because you learn when you fail and they enjoy the ride to success.
/r/seduction17/09/17 10:18 AM
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They may look at you and give some signs they like you, but don't expect more than that. It's your confidence, body language, showing intentions that matter a great deal more than your looks. I know 'ugly' guys who never workout have many women in their lives. So even if you have a God body and a face like you, your insecurity will kill your success with women.
/r/seduction17/09/17 09:55 AM
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You should do whatever feels right to you. If you feel uncomfortable about your weight right now, then you should workout like I did. It may give you a confidence boost. But your current success with women shouldn't be because of.your weight.
/r/seduction17/09/17 09:24 AM
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You look fine. If you lack experience with girls it has to be something else. The way you name your title ''How BAD do I look'' already gives a clear indication of that.
/r/seduction17/09/17 09:13 AM
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When I saw the title and you being a girl I expected yet another defense towards nice guys, but I think you're right about this one. Nice guys can have emotional problems they think they can solve by being even nicer. On the other hand, I don't believe you want a guy being always nice despite him having self-respect. Girls are also attracted to dominant and slightly agressive guys who gives them some hard pounding without saying sorry.
/r/seduction27/08/17 10:05 PM
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You don't need game to get good with girls. Gaming puts you in high pressure social situations which in turn gives you the confidence that makes you attractive. Some guys have this without doing any "game" as we discuss on this subreddit because of their different mindset and lifestyle. A good friend of mine is like this as well. Dont use your friend as a reference for your expectations. It may cause to disappointments. And lower your expectations as much as possible. Enjoy the ride and girls wi…
/r/seduction06/08/17 08:54 PM
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Don't expect to find a girl in ''a few times''. Especially not when you start a post about doing your first approach ever. It means you're inexperienced and still afraid. You're gonna make mistakes and get rejected a lot. Getting a number does not guarantee sex or even a date. Training these aspects will take some time and also motivation/dedication. Goodluck
/r/seduction06/08/17 07:59 PM
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There's nothing to do against AA. You just have to approach. Even when you approached hundreds of girls, AA will still be there. But you learn to deal with it and even use it as a motivator.
/r/seduction06/08/17 02:07 PM
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https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DDqgl2hWsAEBRZ9.jpg
/r/seduction30/07/17 10:49 AM
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A mom-daughter set requires big balls. Congratulations.
/r/seduction08/07/17 08:10 PM
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The first few approaches of the day are the most difficult and I experience the stutters to disappear when I do more and more approaches.
/r/seduction08/07/17 08:08 PM
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The fact that I had a date and kissed a girl by randomly approaching her on the streets made me consider the enormous possibilities of seduction of which I thought were impossible for a guy like me. This was a result to rely on. It gave me the proof I wanted and thus got more motivated. I hope you will continue improving yourself. But you have to work for it everyday.
/r/seduction06/07/17 04:41 PM
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The ''ride my dick'' part was just to add in a little bit of humor. I have a lot of respect for girls. Too much, you could say, since I've been friendzoned my whole life. I need to find the bounderies in what I can do with them. My suicidal thoughts come from lacking social and sexual validation. We as a species are very social and sex plays an incredibly big part of our lifes. The fact that I am struggling with something that's supposed to be so simple, is so important and almost everybody arou…
/r/seduction06/07/17 04:19 PM
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I am a 25y old virgin and because of this reason also regularly thinking about suicide. I share your pain. The fact that I'm unable to have a healthy sexual relationship with women is bothering me everyday because it is on of our basic needs to reproduce. It hurts me especially when ugly scumbags are getting laid. On the other hand this is also a motivator, because if they are able to get women, you/we should also be able to get them. For some reason, some guys have to work a lot harder to get f…
/r/seduction30/06/17 10:56 PM
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I'm gonna use that line too. It's perfect.
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:13 PM
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If you want to get good at daygame, you should be able to approach walking women and make them stop for you. From my experience (not a lot but still experience), women that KEEP walking after you approached them are simply not interested. Some may even walk faster. Don't bother. Just stop talking mid-sentence and look for another girl. I once had a girl who said she was in a hurry. After I said she looked cute she suddenly didn't seem to be in a hurry anymore. I really noticed the sudden change …
/r/seduction23/06/17 08:50 PM
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You're not giving me the impression you're enjoying the road to becoming better with girls. ''Those conversations aren't necessary'' and ''only to practice'' are strong indications you're too focused on the goal. Having fun in what you're doing is one of the most important aspects! Not only in seduction but literally everything in life. You're not wasting anybody's time if they like talking to you. People appreciate a guy who makes them laugh. You can be that guy. I'm not very experienced myself…
/r/seduction21/06/17 09:36 AM
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From what I'm reading now, you will make up thousands of excuses not to approach a girl even if she is attractive. Get rid of ''limiting to certain girls''. Instead, talk to everyone. You can start conversations with girls you find unattractive without any intention. You can even have conversations with guys. This will boost your mood and improve social skills. Do this everyday and you will get the motivation to approach and skills to date attractive girls you find on the streets.
/r/seduction20/06/17 07:57 PM
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You can start by asking for their number and then... ...that's it actually. You'll get your lays in no time.
/r/seduction19/06/17 10:04 PM
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I think this is too direct and leaves little space open for conversations. You can start by saying she looks cute, then just talk. This can be about anything, depending on the environment/situation you're in. You will get to know eachother a little bit and create a (maybe sexual) connection. Show her you're this guy who likes to have fun and is not afraid of social pressure. After 5-10 minutes, ask her number or go for the insta date.
/r/seduction17/06/17 10:23 PM
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I think this is too direct and leaves little space open for conversations. You can start by saying she looks cute, then just talk. This can be about anything, depending on the environment/situation you're in. You will get to know eachother a little bit and create a (maybe sexual) connection. Show her you're this guy who likes to have fun and is not afraid of social pressure. After 5-10 minutes, ask her number or go for the insta date.
/r/seduction17/06/17 10:22 PM
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This is strange. I am quite inexperienced myself but never had a girl doing these things before I approached them. Mostly because I don't give them the time. Do you stare at them a lot before you approach and do they see this? What is your posture when you walk toward them and how fast do you walk? When you see a cute girl during the day, approach as soon as possible.
/r/seduction15/06/17 09:54 PM
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Daygame may not give you the girls and sex you always wanted even though I know some guys with amazing experiences, but it will at least improve your game in some degree. And in my case (0 game) it can only be beneficial. It will also improve your social skills, textgame and lower your fears. So even when you're already good with girls, daygame can have some therapeutic effects.
/r/seduction12/06/17 10:13 AM
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Even I am convinced my height is not the main problem. It does give me a big filter when it comes to choosing girls (I don't like girls taller than me) and it is more difficult to be the alpha male in all kinds of situations. But it shouldn't be a reason to lack so much sexual experience like you're suggesting, for I've seen boys just as short (and even shorter than me) getting beautiful girls that are in some cases even taller than they are.
/r/seduction07/06/17 10:22 AM
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I want to thank everybody who commented on my story. I can say I feel a bit better and I need to start looking for new solutions.
/r/seduction06/06/17 08:41 PM
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Agree with you. But for progress to happen I need to go outside and talk to girls. However in my current emotional state it's difficult to make myself do this consistently. There's also a lot of approach anxiety still.
/r/seduction06/06/17 08:39 PM
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I'd say around 50/60 in the last two years. These were cold approaches with the intention to escalate into more. I also more often just talk with random people on in public to just practice social interactions. Just having short conversations about anything.
/r/seduction06/06/17 08:36 PM
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That I dont fully agree with your previous comment doesn't mean I dont appreciate you helping me. If you have some tips to establish a connection Id like to hear them and will try to apply them when my emotions are in check. I also try to make a connection non verbally by making intense eye contact or softly grabbing her arm or poking with my elbow.
/r/seduction06/06/17 06:57 PM
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In the examples I gave there was no time for an instadate. But indeed i should try more often for an instadate. I dont agree with not establishing a connection. A 5 min talk about nothing is quite long between two strangers. You get to show your intentions. You show your social abilities by making her laugh. If you can keep a conversation with a random person interesting, Id say its an attractive aspect of you. Besides that. I know people who fucked girls by only asking their number and they wou…
/r/seduction06/06/17 06:28 PM
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I once approached an asian girl in a mall. I started by saying she looked cute. She liked it and began a conversation herself. We talked about five minutes and then I closed it by asking her if we could have a drink sometime. She agreed and gave her number. Her number was too long and I couldn't call her. Then I found her on Facebook and asked why she gave me a wrong number. Then she said it was a mistake and was glad I found her. When I asked her real number or to go on a date, she silenced and…
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:36 PM
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I've approached a few dozen beautiful women and flirted with them. I approached them and said they look very pretty. Had some conversations and got a few numbers.
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:04 PM
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I am short 168cm / 5 ft 6 inch. Most people think I'm pretty good looking, but I do look very young (about 20) because I'm quite skinny and barely grow a beard. However, these things are not the cause of my problems and also shouldn't be for you. I've seen many 'ugly' guys, bald guys, short guys, slightly overweight guys getting girls in my inner RSD group. My problem is how I am and how I look at things. I'm awkward and insecure, but the causes are not entirely clear.
/r/seduction06/06/17 04:54 PM
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I will not lower my standards. The girls I find attractive are not ugly and awkward. They are beautiful and confident. I will never be happy being with a girl that's only with me because she can't find another alpha guy. The same goes for me.
/r/seduction06/06/17 04:06 PM
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Hi Panda bro I'm mostly looking for social validation. I want to be a normal guy girls can find attractive and want to have sex with. I want girls to like hanging around with me or make them love me. I will find more pleasure in the girl Wanting me, not Doing me. Looking for hobbies is fine and healthy. I like to work out too (when I remove my shirt I almost always get compliments). I like to swim, I like competitive gaming, tv shows and movies. I'm also in love with everything that has to do wi…
/r/seduction06/06/17 04:02 PM
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You shouldn't involve Tinder in your story. It's an app that can be effective when you look good and have some awesome social pictures, but not everybody (like me) has that. Besides that I'm happy for you and I can learn something from it as a 25 year-old virgin.
/r/seduction01/04/17 12:10 AM
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What are you even doing here? Besides hating and making random assumptions about guys you don't know who have more success with women than you of course.
/r/seduction21/03/17 10:49 AM
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Maybe you should take it more slowly. Going out alone was really difficult and mentally exhausting for me. While it is a super good ability to have, going out alone may be a step too much for you. Try going out with people you don't know. You may find a social Facebook (RSD) group close to you.
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:09 PM
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I don't agree. Most girls like to be approached despite what they are doing. Girls never expect a guy to approach them and tell them they are beautiful during the day while shopping. But when it happens you can make her day. I've also approached multiple girls outside who were wearing headphones. Just gesture like you're putting headphones off and she will do it and they all didn't mind in my case. Same applies to the gym. Only in the gym I try to make the conversation shorter because I don't wa…
/r/seduction14/03/17 10:42 AM
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Why is it not cool to approach girls at the gym? I did this today and it was a short but fun interaction. She seemed to like it.
/r/seduction13/03/17 10:12 PM
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I am 5'5'' and I've seen guys smaller than me with girlfriends. Including girlfriends who were taller than him.
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:04 PM
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Yeah well, I've heard women say a lot of things about the man they want, which turn out to be not true. Most predominant reason is because they don't know what they want. Other reason may be to not insult people or give a slutty impression. The biggest mistake in seduction is listening to women.
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:53 AM
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Not everyone is able to have an amazing life. I for one haven't been able to find a job for more than a year now and am still living with my parents at 25y old. I graduated and have a passion for science but that's the only exciting thing in my life. How am I supposed to impress women?
/r/seduction19/02/17 10:28 PM
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I approached three girls in the gym. Two had boyfriends and one wasn't interested. But they really appreciated the compliment and short conversation. I say make it short because she wants to workout, but also make your intentions clear from the beginning.
/r/seduction17/02/17 10:36 AM
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How many girls are we talking about here? 5-10 girls you got a number from? Because that means nothing. If it were 30+ number flakes, I would reflect and try different approaches.
/r/seduction08/02/17 03:08 PM
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But if she doesn't ask for it, is it really necessary to tell her? Like hey btw I'm a virgin. I mean if she specifically asked, then I would probably admit it yeah.
/r/seduction04/02/17 09:57 PM
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I'm curious too. I'm 25 and still a virgin. When the time comes, am I supposed to tell her I'm that inexperienced? Is she gonna drop out or get even more horny? As a 25y old virgin I don't want to take any risks when it comes to losing my virginity.
/r/seduction04/02/17 11:43 AM
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Lol, 16 years old and being virgin is completely normal.
/r/seduction03/02/17 11:20 AM
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For me it is the other way around. People actually push me to go to a prostitute because of my situation, but I know a prostitute won't do it for me. This is because I want a girl to CHOOSE to have sex with me. I am not depressed because I never had sex, but because girls seem to think I'm too weird for sex. It's like I'm such an abnormal and socially awkward beta guy that won't get laid ever because of it. If I can get sex just one time by randomly approaching a girl on the street, it would mak…
/r/seduction26/01/17 12:49 PM
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''Working hard and come up short'' and ''bullshit their way to success'' is really from your perspective. I also used to think like that but came to the conclusion there's a lot of anger and frustration from my side when trying to justify the things I don't like to see. You can study real hard for an exam, but if you're studying the wrong way it will barely help. Your approach to solving problems and getting results is very important. If your hard work is not paying of, you're doing something wr…
/r/seduction24/01/17 12:25 AM
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I am 25 years old and basically in the same situation as you are. I am seriously disgusted by myself for having so less social/dating/sexual experience. But there is no point to just sitting around acting all sad, because no one is gonna solve your problems for you. My needs are now a priority. I want to be decent with women, I want to be happy. That's why I force myself everyday to do something that's completely out of my comfort zone (daygame or nightgame, but mostly daygame). Every time I fee…
/r/seduction23/01/17 06:51 PM
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In my case, as a 25 year old, that magic number is 1. Right now that number is 0 and I absolutely hate myself for it.
/r/seduction18/01/17 03:19 PM
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How'd you guys meet?
/r/seduction18/01/17 03:14 PM
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I don't want to insult you, but by reading your comments it seems to me pretty obvious why you're still a virgin. With this mentality nothing will change anytime soon. Try to discard your view of 'justice' and LEARN how to get women, because not everybody has that talent. These guys you're bitchtalking about may have skills to get women, but you have other skills that they don't have. We humans have the amazing ability to learn, make use of it. Make yourself a unique person girls want to talk to…
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:59 PM
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I am in somewhat the same position. I have very good friends but not the best to go out with. I subscribed for this Real Social Dynamics (RSD) group on Facebook which members are very close to my hometown. These are people with the same interests (getting girls) and therefore understanding and openminded in helping other guys with personal issues. I went out once with them and am planning to do this more. You can meet new people and have a more social life.
/r/seduction18/10/15 08:06 PM
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You deserve to be proud of yourself brother. Now run Forrest! Run and take over the world!
/r/seduction17/10/15 08:11 PM
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These are some strong words and it gets me motivated. However, in real life it is always a different story. I will go to the city tomorrow and read your quote before approaching some girls.
/r/seduction25/09/15 10:51 PM
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The what?
/r/seduction25/09/15 10:33 PM
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This may come as a surprise, but not everybody on the internet speaks spanish.
/r/seduction25/09/15 06:12 PM
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Why exactly do you have a camera on the streets?
/r/seduction29/07/15 01:30 PM
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You have an extremely pessimistic view, which is normal if you're depressed. I also had to deal with depression. BUT, if you're aware of this, you can try to get a more realistic view. The universe is not trying to get you down. Everything happens for a reason. The reason why these things are happening your life is because you are largely responsible for it. Why don't you get any girls? Possible answers: you're not outgoing enough, needs to work more on his social life, needs to work on his appe…
/r/seduction12/07/15 07:07 PM
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how can you still drag your balls. I don't even talk with random people around.
/r/seduction10/07/15 10:19 PM
2

God DOES exist
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:13 AM
1

I have the idea that it is really difficult to be social without drinking alcohol. Currently I'm on Prozac and that cannot be combined with alcohol or any other drug. So when I'm at a party or another really social event (which is not too often), I don't feel I belong there at all and I just don't like it. This does not motivate me to go again and also before the Prozac I did not like going to big social events. This does not mean I don't like to go out. For instance I had the best days going ou…
/r/seduction20/06/15 09:27 AM
1

How do you get game if you don't like parties, clubs, bars, festivals, drinking, smoking, doing drugs?
/r/seduction19/06/15 09:11 PM
0

fake tits dont turn me on and its for me even more likely to reject the girl.
/r/seduction01/06/15 04:40 PM
1

I wouldn't be surprised if everyone who sees the pictures without the comments and description would say the two are in love. And if you correct them by saying 'They are just friends' to get a reaction something like 'Oh...right'. It is just weird to assume men and women can be friends. Especially women are in denial and men hope it will eventually end up in a relationship by playing it safe.
/r/seduction08/03/15 09:26 PM
26

I think 'two years later' is a keyword here for many virgins who are already sexually frustrated like hell (like me).
/r/seduction31/01/15 11:35 AM
10

Can you tell me about their ages? Since you're already 36, I was wondering how many girls are open to dating a 'stranger'. I have the idea younger girls (+/- 20) are more open to that (+/- 30-40). Congratz with your progress!
/r/seduction30/01/15 01:18 PM
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''We'll bang ok''
/r/seduction13/01/15 03:46 PM
1

I suffered from a depression and anxiety disorder over two years without any improvement despite challenging myself almost every day. I tried stuff like doing social things (even if I did not like it) or events that would trigger hyperventilation. There's nothing wrong with giving yourself a boost. I'm now on Prozac for over 2 years and I can somehow describe it as a miracle how the medicine changed my life. I'm still working on some social problems, but I might be even happier then before the d…
/r/seduction25/12/14 11:36 AM
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I think we are in pretty much the same position right now. Not only personality-wise but also about having an idea of what to do and not knowing how to start. It is a really difficult position because we can now only assume how effective certain approaches will be. At this point I have some ideas and theories of what might work, but these are all based on the PUA's I follow. The only thing we can do is try and find out what works best. I work on the lab and it is actually very comparable to a sc…
/r/seduction10/11/14 07:50 AM
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Don't go to clubs to meet women. Just go outside, into town/stores/starbucks/the subway. Plenty of women there and you don't have to drink.
/r/seduction08/11/14 03:50 PM
1

Physical attractiveness is more important to men than it is to women. Any regular guy and even 'ugly' guys can get many women by showing much confidence. Maybe go for a more direct and sexual approach?
/r/seduction08/11/14 12:18 PM
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I'm not saying it's impossible to get girls by approaching them while they're in groups. There are also techniques on the internet for these situations, but you're making it yourself more difficult. I wouldn't recommend it to beginners (like me), but as you continue to develop more self-esteem and social skills it might be something to consider. It is really a big step ahead.
/r/seduction07/11/14 04:13 PM
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I actually think it is true what Paul Janka claims. Women in groups can be considered as one. They influence eachothers opinion strongly and you're therefore waisting your time or making it yourself more difficult. Girls also tend to be less 'slutty' when they are around friends. They don't open themselves like they would do. I don't see what's wrong with approaching girls that are alone. You can make a strong sexual connection without being interfered by other girls. I'm not saying all this lik…
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:52 PM
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I follow Paul Janka. I think my lifestyle is pretty much comparable to his: I don't drink or use drugs, not going to parties/clubs/events and don't want to spend money to meet girls. He's actually a really smart guy and has some good theories about having sex with many girls. One of his videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWXJE4c3Xvs One of his books: http://www.pauljanka.com/xdownloadx/AttractionFormula.pdf
/r/seduction07/11/14 11:45 AM
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Change is awesome
/r/seduction06/11/14 12:07 PM
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Thanks guys. These comments are really pumping me up and will try to apply the tips next time. I also decided to make a list with motivational quotes on my mobile to remind myself of being the ''alpha'' male in these kind of situations and just don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction05/11/14 11:30 PM
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You're right, but in a situation like that I tend to forget all these rules because there is so much pressure. I'm only assuming the worst thing can happen. When the situation is over I do think about how I've could handled the situation better and how I would do it next time (which I won't because I will forget the rules again). How can I remind/encourage myself?
/r/seduction05/11/14 09:52 PM
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You can tell her the truth about your feelings. She will know you're into her and the mating ritual will go on. Girls appreciate guys being honest (I think).
/r/seduction05/11/14 09:36 PM
1

Somebody call catfish
/r/seduction03/11/14 12:31 AM
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I've been working on this kind of lifestyle for 2 years now since recovering from my depression. Going to the gym helps a LOT. I gained 10kg in muscles and I'm eating more healthy. My scores for exams have raised a lot and passed them all. I'm more independent (living in a student room). The only thing that is left is having sex with pretty ladies or having sex at all (I'm a 22 year old virgin). I've done some approaches but they all had boyfriends. Approaching a girl is still something I can't …
/r/seduction31/10/14 06:13 PM
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I live in Netherlands/Rotterdam. It is a very busy city with shops, restaurants and places to go out. Now the 5-10 seconds may be a bit exaggerated, but my point is you will see so many girls that there have to be some pretty ones in a short period of time. I now 'live' in Leiden for an internship and there's a point where people go for public transportation. Also many students are there because of the local universities. That means a lot of girls are waiting there for the bus, train or whatever…
/r/seduction28/10/14 11:41 AM
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You don't have to pay or prepare that much for places to meet women, because women are literally everywhere. Go to town/stores and you will see a pretty girl ever 5-10 seconds you can approach. I go to gym (more for my body than meeting women so its a bonus) and town to practise and I get more than enough chances. The girls will be impressed faster since it is in public and I'm sure that's less in bars/clubs since the girls are kinda expecting it for boys to do. Girls go to parties to feed their…
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:48 PM
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I'm just afraid some experienced girls aren't into being the teacher and the guy potentially not getting an erection because he's too nervous or ejaculating too soon. If something like that happens before losing my virginity I will destroy and kill anything in my path. I'm already sexually frustrated as hell.
/r/seduction19/10/14 08:10 PM
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I'm a 22 year old virgin and this is something I regularly thought about, although I still have get to the point of actually getting a girl at my place or do approaches on a daily basis. But I think it would make it a bit awkward since she might be expecting amazing sex instead of klumsy sex. If you say nothing and act normally you will get sex. It might be a disaster or disappointing, but I'd say that is better than the girl walking away because you actually had sex and that's the point right? …
/r/seduction19/10/14 07:23 PM
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Girls want to have sex with you? You poor bastard. I am a lucky guy having sex with my right hand every day.
/r/seduction17/10/14 12:50 PM
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