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I'm currently dating a virgin (before I came along)
/r/askTRP23/04/16 08:50 AM
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A LTR evolves. You have sex with a girl and you just seem to stay together. If that happens, you won't ever need to "ask the n-count", as you know by experience what you're getting into. You will either have figured out the n-count implicitly or it came up some time (it should be lower than 3)
/r/askTRP23/04/16 06:48 AM
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Are you listening? It. Doesn't. Matter. You can't do anything about it, she will see it anyway when things progress. You'll get rejections all the time. I get rejected for my receding hairline, my crooked teeth, my round face, my height. I don't care and still fuck bitches. You can work around almost any deformation with skill (of course success will be lower, but not nonexistent). On top of that, you won't even know, most of the time, why you get rejected. No girl says "uuh what the fuck, I can…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 08:19 AM
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we talk a lot, send some letters back and forth and discussing feelings You went the 'beta relationship' route. Why do you talk about your feelings with her before you even had sex? This stage is for fun and games not for serious talk. To me, this sounds like you need, in one way or another, the feeling of being "loved". You want to know how she feels because a successful encounter with a woman is if she is in love with you. There are two problems here: You haven't read enough RP theory yet, you…
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:53 PM
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He is your 'beta bux'. He fulfills that part of your mating strategy. Since you have a relatively traditional worldview and you didn't give in to the slut-ways yet, you want him to also fulfill the 'alpha fux' part of your mating strategy. This won't work for two reasons: You have no respect for him. How can you even say that you respect him while blurting out to strangers that he's shit in bed? Just imagine if a guy said that about you, would you think he has respect for you? This leads to you …
/r/askTRP22/11/15 12:43 AM
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You have no respect for him, why are you still together?
/r/askTRP20/11/15 09:11 AM
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My response would be "lol" and then I'd delete her number.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 12:27 AM
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Every time I see a beer, I remember of you. (She loves beer) You shouldn't have said this in the first place. I don't know how often you drink beer, but that's much too often to think of her. Her: And you know Every time I see a dumb man I remember of you, And every other man I had. Gosh! You are The perfect girl! Beautiful And Inteligent. Einstein with ass And tits. You got it! Damn I Looooove you so muuuuuch! She insulted you, you insulted her back. This shows her: That you were offended That …
/r/askTRP14/11/15 01:48 PM
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If buddy has bad Game -- It's not your problem. Be selfish. Buddy has bad game = more for you, also buddy is a loser and shouldn't be your buddy anymore. what the fuck. Being a wingman is about getting your friend laid/whatever his goal is. You do all you can for that and disregard your own interests. (Except of course if it is a 2 on 2 with two hotties or something like that)
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:39 AM
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Since you have a history of telling her that you love her: "Tell me that you love me!" - "I fucking love you when you suck my dick" (or some variation of it)
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:36 AM
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All you fucking high schoolers need to stop with these labels you read on TRP and try to follow them like guidelines. Here is what you do: you figure out what you want (if you ask "how to spin plates" I guess you want someone to fuck and that's it). Then you just go out and get what you want. You may want to research how to best get what you want, that's why you're here. So what would be your action steps in this case? You understand how women, the sexual market place and attraction works. You g…
/r/askTRP22/08/15 12:01 PM
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I have near zero interest in spending time on women and especially any bullshit they spew. If she asks me if she's fat (which only happens once per girl) I tell her that she is and that she's lucky I like her personality so much while looking at and grabbing her boobs.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 10:08 PM
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I got my shit together with and without meditation. So I guess, everything is fine. Thank you for the reply.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:11 PM
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I first thought meditating was dumb like you write in your post. Then I've started meditating because of posts like yours, around 4 months ago. I did it each day for 20 minutes, around 6 days a week. I've not noticed any difference. I feel like I just sat there doing nothing when I could have done more useful things. Did I do something wrong? I stopped doing it now... But with every post like yours, I wonder what the problem was/if there was a problem, or if it's just not for me...
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:18 PM
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The answer is always that your game sucks, this is what I can tell you. Did you call out those bitches for doing this shit? If not, why not? I bet you didn't want to "ruin your chances"... I'm pretty sure that you can notice yourself that this doesn't scream "abundance", it screams "neediness". Can't help you with the bar stuff that much, I don't go into bars and I'm not from America anyway.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 08:11 AM
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most girls at my conservative catholic high school aren't willing to put out rofl if that is actually true (which it isn't, it's just you hamstering) just go to events not related to your school and meet chicks there. im pretty much a virgin neckbeard See, that's your problem. First, being a virgin at 15 is no problem at all and having a neckbeard can be fixed by shaving (do you even have facial hair yet?). Man, it's all in your head, you're 15 and going to discover so much with women naturally,…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 07:25 AM
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Dating a former virgin, can confirm.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 10:24 PM
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You forgot that the SMV of a woman is almost solely defined by her looks. Did you look at Lorde? She is not particularily attractive. Which man cares about her celebrity status when he fucks her in the ass?
/r/askTRP25/07/15 11:48 AM
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How do I know which foods "up my natural testosterone"?
/r/askTRP22/06/15 10:40 AM
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????? You have two options: Don't use Facebook Start using it
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:30 AM
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/r/bodyweightfitness gave me solid gains for the start. However I'm convinced that you have to switch after the initial phase,so don't rely on it for too long.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 07:08 AM
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Monk mode basically means improving core aspects of you, one at a time. We are human, we can't do everything at once. When you first start reading TRP, you have this idea of things you want to do. You want to find a better job, work on your physique, get interesting hobbies, find new friends, new social circles, improve your game, remove limiting beliefs and so on and so on. It's not like you can't do this. The problem is, that if you are really low on all these things everything requires a huge…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 09:21 AM
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I had sex with two women, the second one lost interest directly after I had sex with her two times, and I noticed the sex was bad, so I felt like a failure. I truly realized that yesterday and I think I overreacted. With the first one I was in a terribly bluepill LTR with and the sex was equally terrible and I left with quite a few sexually damaging thoughts.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 08:53 PM
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You're right. Yesterday a few things came together and I felt like shit. Now I think it'll be fine. I'll just get more experience and see what happens.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 08:49 PM
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Yea, I really think yesterday a few things came together(that I didn't mention), so that I just reacted more strongly than I should've and normally had. I think I'm doing fine, it just takes time :)
/r/askTRP22/04/15 08:47 PM
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Get up, weigh myself and enter in app. Shower, brush teeth, shave my pubic hair while in shower (I love a hot shower, I do everything I can there). Moisturize, sun screen. Make myself bacon & eggs (literally every breakfast). Work. Eat premade healthy food. After work, meditate. Workout. In the evening, read some RP self-improvement book. Eat more good food. That's the stuff that I do daily.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 10:46 AM
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I guess there really is nothing more to do. I have to let myself go and not think so much. It's just hard to do... I would really love to get such a blowjob. Maybe some day.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 09:17 AM
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Thank you very much much for your help. Could you please read this discussion I have with alreadyredschool on this, and maybe give your thoughts? It would be much appreciated. I have read the sex god method. It made me realize how much I am missing and how much I'm doing wrong/not doing. I need to work on immersion and not thinking about pleasing her... You're absolutely right, the psychological stimulation with sex, I have not felt it.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 09:10 AM
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Well... I truly am happy with myself and my life. This is no delusion or anything, if you might think that. Everything else, my social life, my work, my hobbies, everything is going amazing. I am confident. But, now, I do absolutely agree that I have some deep-rooted issues. But I think it is contained on sexuality. I am not confident being sexual. I have to see how to overcome this.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 09:04 AM
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Okay... I think the problem is that I actually have/had huge issues with being sexual. I have a PUA friend, and he said that the only problem I currently have (months earlier, when we talked about it) was that I'm just not sexual when interacting with girls. I thought I had "overcome" this because being sexual in a casual setting and on dates worked perfectly well. But it seems like the border just went further up. I actually thought about the reasons for this, a good while. I think a lot of it …
/r/askTRP22/04/15 08:55 AM
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Okay so. I was heavily bullied in school and had not much social contact and no sexual contact, until I was maybe 22. I'm 25 now. I masturbated to every kind of porn there is (okay, probably not, but I guess at least all the stuff you could think of) during that time. I like blowjobs. I never actually had my dick sucked. Maybe I am submissive? I don't... think so. I'm saying that because I really like /r/bondage style porn. I want to tie a girl up. But... I also like the idea of being tied up my…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 08:35 AM
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I don't know how to do that. So I guess no, I actually did not. Ooooh fuck this shit. That's exactly it. I mean you said it and I read it everywhere. But it didn't really register. But... how do I do it? I don't actually know what I want. Oh, maybe I know. I want to get my dick sucked. I never actually got my dick sucked. And... I want to tie a girl up (/r/bondage). But I can't just do that. At least I think I can't. I wouldn't even know how to bring this up. Wouldn't she already need much trust…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 08:21 AM
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No, I like the idea of sex. I mean it's kind of stupid, but when I read about it/hear it talked about/see it, it very much seems like I would enjoy it. I want to have good sex. It just seems like it didn't happen for me, yet. But yeah, you're probably right. I probably think about this way too much. A sample size of two is not really statistically representative. I just have the fear that this will be a viscious cycle, I didn't like sex yet, I don't know how to make it good, so it probably won't…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 08:04 AM
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Thank you for your words, unfortunately they are not really helping. The sex god method advocates the things you are describing. I just... don't enjoy it. But I want to! I just don't understand how to do it. Right now, I feel like masturbating is just as good as sex. I don't masturbate, so why should I have sex if it isn't better? As I said elsewhere, it's not like I don't have a sexual desire. It's pretty strong even. I love being sexual with girls. Only when it gets to the sex - I don't actual…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 07:42 AM
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I'm not using porn or even masturbating. The problem isn't my sexual desire, or my ability to come, as I said, I love girls, I love teasing them, I love how they look, I love it when they want me. The problem I have is that I don't know how to make sex good. I just don't enjoy it, it's not better than masturbating. I want to figure out how to make it good for me.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 07:32 AM
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I understand that it's probably hard to figure out what to say to me. That's why I tried to write more about my background, to maybe get more relevant feedback. But now I see that my problems with this are just too long, too complex, not fit for this medium of text posts/advice threads. Thank you for trying anyway :)
/r/askTRP22/04/15 07:31 AM
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stop being insecure Thanks, great advice... Couldn't figure that out on my own. Stop masturbating, do kegels already been doing both for a good while (> 2 months) Fuck for your pleasure not hers, focus on what feels good for you. Did you read what I wrote? That's the whole point of my post, exactly the problem I have: I don't enjoy sex and I don't know what to do to make it better... To be more specific - for example, I feel like I should enjoy vaginal intercourse, missionairy, doggy style, etc.…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 07:25 AM
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I read what I wrote again, and it sounds like my life is bad or something :D It's not. I'm still hugely proud of myself, I'm happy like I was never before. I love everything... except the sex... goddamnit. I love girls. I love being sexual with them.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 08:35 PM
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I read it again. This time it's on Youtube (you can still download/play the mp3)! If anyone wants to read posts and put them on the channel, just send me a link to the post and an mp3, I will do it as fast as possible.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 04:40 PM
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Yeah, obviously he put one condom on his dick and the other in her pussy.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 04:46 AM
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I'm actually a little uncomfortable with this kind of positive response. I always thought that my voice sucked (a negative belief often reinforced by my parents). But thank you :D I didn't do or read anything special. The only thing I did was to (in my bluest bluepill-relationship) read my favorite book trilogy to my ex. I really, really loved doing that. I love books and especially that story, and I tried to give my best to give my ex a good experience. That's how I became good at reading, I gu…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 12:52 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/1E7DWfu.png I don't want to link TRP to my username and I was too lazy to make another Google account.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 08:44 PM
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Thank you :) A mirror is honestly a good idea. I somehow did not think of it. However, I see it like this: why should I talk just to myself when I can provide this service without (much) additional cost to everyone who likes to listen instead of read? Also, now that you're asking, I think that I actually put a little more effort in it.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 08:29 PM
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Haha you're like one of my girls, she always says "we" and means "you". I'd certainly be up to do some of it, however I really don't like to deal with the logistics of it. If I read something anyway it's easy and quick to just record and upload it.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 07:53 PM
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For anyone who wants to listen to this instead of read it, I read the post aloud, you can download it here. I do this sometimes to practice my voice. This post took 15 minutes to read, I made some mistakes (I'm not a native English speaker, so I never even heard of some words) and was better in some parts than others, but I still think it turned out okay :)
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 04:31 PM
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From all your comments here, it seems like you have a buttload of mindset problems. There's loads of information that is needed from you here, to be able to help you. With this limited amount of information you gave, it's really hard to give good advice. I had ED as well... and I had much of the same thoughts you had. I just wanted to offer that we can chat and maybe I can help you, but then I read your exchange with /u/hobomolester. Dude. He is trying to help you. If you don't like his advice b…
/r/askTRP13/04/15 04:38 PM
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If you had another girl with the same looks and attitude just wanting to fuck you every time you want it with no other commitment, would you still want an LTR?
/r/askTRP13/04/15 04:26 PM
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10 years older You have a low SMV, but still higher than a guy that's maybe up to 20 years older than you, which would be "their league". are already in a relationship Their strategy is either: finding a betabux, which would mean that you are able to provide more for them than their current man, or: dead bedroom with BB and wants you as AF, your "best" situation. But since girls your age don't give you IOIs, I fear for the BB option.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 12:22 PM
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Don't text or call her. Use those to either set up more dates or for sexual flirting. Do everything else in person. Why does she keep telling you about the things "she used to do"? Do you want to hear it? If not, change the subject and/or escalate. Last, I didn't get that from your post, do you want an LTR with her? And if yes, why, if she keeps telling you about the slutty behaviour she's been doing?
/r/askTRP13/04/15 11:51 AM
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First off, your post is rather hard to follow for me, so excuse if I misinterpret things. First general understanding: you are fucking and want to fuck girls. You now want a relationship? The question I would ask is: "Why do I want a relationship/emotional connection?" - And I mean do this in detail: Do you feel alone? Do you want children? Do you want a unicorn, that loves you, understands you, appreciates you? Do you see others around you have a relationship, and "just want one, too"(envy)? Do…
/r/askTRP13/04/15 11:39 AM
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I'm thinking of sitting her down, explaining that our relationship is ending, and saying something like "you know why" or something to get her to admit what she did, this idea seems fundamentally flawed but maybe that's the beta in me demanding a "why baby why". The entire point in this^ paragraph was: Dude, you want waterworks and all that shit. If not, what else do you want to accomplish with it?
/r/askTRP13/04/15 05:57 AM
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I'm not particularily interested in that :)
/r/askTRP11/04/15 12:06 PM
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This kind of explanation is exactly what I needed. I understand most situations I find myself in nowadays, but sometimes there is just something like this about which I'm not quite sure. While in that moment, I really wasn't sure how to react, I just kept doing what I was doing and reacting automatically. As it turns out, this seems to have went well, which is why I'm so happy about it. I did not have much success with "being myself" and acting automatically in the past :)
/r/askTRP11/04/15 09:17 AM
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Hah, you're taking this the wrong way. I'm not happy about the date, I'm happy about the way the night progressed. I'm happy about the ways I can have fun which I never dared venture on before. I'm happy about the progress I made in social skills. I'm happy about the progress I made in every part of life. I'm happy about being able to make others feel good. I'm just happy with myself. I don't have five, but now a total of three dates next week, so I think I'll manage :)
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:49 AM
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The most important lesson from TRP - that's hard to choose. For me, I guess it was what I would call the "law of attraction": Women love you for "what" you are, not who you are. Then, what exactly is the "what"? Having a strong sense of self, making her feel good, etc. I really can't give you a complete picture of how I implemented that into my life. These both are really broad questions. I guess if I really try to boil it down, the most important thing was to get the mindset shift from "I am wo…
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:42 AM
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Thank you. You don't believe how happy I am right now. This was just a small bump in an evening that went as well as I would have never thought it could. Thank you for your encouragement <3
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:10 AM
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I like that :D
/r/askTRP11/04/15 01:32 AM
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If you're really visiting there anyway and not a single small reason of it is that you might be getting sexual with her - then yes, what the fuck, it's a no-brainer. You get a free place to stay and the chance for sex. But if that was the case - why would you be asking this here? My guess is that you currently don't have any plates or other sexual relieve and you don't want to fuck up your chance. This, my friend, is the onset of oneitis or even simply neediness. Keep that in mind - you can stil…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 06:25 PM
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I understand why you care about her. But honestly, when you want her as a plate, you kind of have to not care about her that much. If you're the highest value man she is with, she will want commitment from you, she wants to build that family of hers with you, and it seems like you will deny her that. If you care about her, it will hurt you knowing about this, because you will hurt her. I would suggest that you drop her as a plate and keep her as a friend.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 06:37 AM
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First. What do you want? Do you want to spin plates or go monogamous LTR? If you want to spin plates, you have to be comfortable with them fucking other guys. Second. What the fuck!? Your post is a disorganized mess. Your emotions are as well. "And I feel her real love pouring out of her heart and towards me." - "I'll always care for her no matter what". Oneitis. How did this happen? Why do you think that she is your unicorn while she is fucking another guy beside you? Why do you care about her …
/r/askTRP24/03/15 12:26 PM
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Yes, I had to start "new". I wasn't "orbiting" many girls, but I was orbiting two pretty hard. Had to cut them out completely and focused ~5 months only on getting my shit together. I'm also working on cold approaching right now, incidentally. The funny thing is, I have absolutely no problem approaching when I'm doing an activity and a girl comes around, but when I'm in the street and see a cute girl I would want to talk to, I just don't do it. Fuck me.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:48 AM
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Do you have an accountabilty buddy? You may think you'll stay strong but believe me (I experienced it) you will be weak at some point. That's the problem with big changes. PM me if you want.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:41 AM
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Honestly, the book doesn't teach much. It shows a certain lifestyle and mindset, but nothing you can really apply. It reads more like a biography. There are no "small action steps" you can just decide on taking. It's a list of "really big steps", which is not how real change works.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:34 AM
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Sorry, I can't give you any suggestions. I don't want to think about how to permeate the "message of red pill". I will give advice when someone (maybe implicitly) asks for it, or drip some knowledge while talking, but I will never actively work for someone to "become alpha", without his wanting to do so by himself. I'm relatively certain that some variation of this view is held by many here. I would suggest you focus on your own success, and let him ask you about how you do this. I'm sure you al…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 03:01 PM
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You are looking for something to subtly introduce concepts?
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:26 PM
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No more Mr. Nice Guy is like the ultimate introductory book
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:15 PM
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I'm thinking of ways he should have handled this. After "we can't hang out again, because boyfriend" I would have probably said something like "[playful] I'm not here for you to dump your problems on me" then took her and spinned her around or resume whatever I was doing before. [edit: oh it was in the car, missed that] But I'm not really sure how it'd have went, as I have no experience with that yet. Can you maybe come up with a better reaction?
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:12 PM
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Sure, everything is possible. As much as AWALT is preached, every woman is still also unique in some ways. But your question wasn't for the reason, only for why you feel bad about it. I can't comment on the reason why she does this without knowing you and her.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 01:21 PM
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Why do you think I had to save it with the lines I wrote about? I know I fucked up ;)
/r/askTRP22/03/15 07:59 AM
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You're really just starting right now, you know some redpill stuff, but you haven't internalized much. That's fine. Read more theory. Read some more rationalmale, especially the best posts for each year. It sounds like you heard that you should spin plates, but you're just following the advice without knowing why you should do it. Remember - you're a man. Men don't just do anything they're told, they try to look for the reason and evaluate for themselves.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 08:35 PM
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As for why you don't get put in the friend zone, it's probably because you asked for a date (putting you in the "guy to be sexual with"-category) but then you fail to escalate, putting you in the "guy that wants to be sexual with me but I'm not interested"-category, hence, no second date.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 08:28 PM
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Umm... "everything else goes well"... what else is there? Do you want a friend to talk to or do you want to have sex with her? If it's the latter then everything depends on escalation. No escalation = nothing is going well. If you want a friend to talk to, well, no escalation would be fine I guess.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 08:24 PM
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Because, if she begs for it this much, with how many other men is she doing this/has she done this?
/r/askTRP21/03/15 08:19 PM
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Noooo. Or yes. Well I don't know. That's definitely not the problem. The problem is the escalation. Touch, touch, TOUCH! Give her the sexy eyes. Make suggestive pauses while only looking at her. Show(don't tell) her that you want sex with her! Go overboard with the signals. She might get creeped out, but you have to do it! Chances are, even when you think you go "overboard", you are not even scratching the limits of what you could get away with! And if she gets creeped out, then you did the righ…
/r/askTRP21/03/15 08:04 PM
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So you don't want to spin plates. You're on the lookout for a LTR.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 07:57 PM
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Now what, was she starting to get shitty or was she pleasant? If she was shitty, cut her off like you did. If she was pleasant, and you "just thought it was time to move on to find other girls", what the fuck man, that's the definition of plate spinning! You just keep her and find other girls as well.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 07:54 PM
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Chrm chrm, this is my line! "Let's watch a movie together"
/r/askTRP21/03/15 07:49 PM
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Thank you for this. I'm beginning to see that after months of theory reading and trying to internalize everything, only now when I experience it, I truly do internalize. I know she is a real person with an interesting personality, unique in every way, but your analysis still reassured: AWALT. She is no exception. I feel like everything is falling in it's place. And I'm ready to clear 4 lines at once.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 01:16 AM
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What I really learned about ASD is that before, I thought it was this "big scary evil thing" women did to deny us sex... But now I don't think this way. She said "I know what happens when you come up". This implies that she wants it, too! I now know that ASD makes her feel bad as well, and it's my responsibility to take that feeling from her. If I succeed, we both win! It's really awesome to get this insight.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 12:59 AM
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♂ I did this as well, can only confirm the effectiveness.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 09:01 AM
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It is indeed a stupid question because it can be found in the sidebar, under "Theory Reading" and the post "All-in-one red pill 101". Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 08:43 AM
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I will definitely do a date at her or my place. Funnily enough, you basically put the thoughts I already had into words. Except maybe delete number. I could still use her as a friend for social proof.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 12:23 PM
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I have pushed. The only mistake is that I did not say, "nothing will happen" I just kept my mouth shut about it. I will do this, thanks.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 12:20 PM
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It's not the first time I've heard of it, just the first time I did "normal" dating. I did not realise how real it truly is, but you're absolutely correct.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 12:18 PM
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It's actually my first time ever that I go the "normal" route of dating. I of course have read about slut defense already, but I didn't actually get, until now, how real it is. Thanks for the tip :)
/r/askTRP16/03/15 12:17 PM
1

This need not be a bad thing. Behold the word of Pook! If girls ask if you are gay, remember the important thing: they are thinking of you in a sexual context. One of girls' favorite jokes is to tease a guy they like with another guy they like, pointing the two within a gay relationship. They just enjoy thinking about you in a sexual context. It is a victory.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 09:15 PM
1

Haha, I remember that post. Though I forgot to read out loud... Thanks for reminding me!
/r/askTRP12/03/15 12:40 PM
1

Play pool. My town has a nice bar with many pool tables, maybe yours has as well.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 12:34 PM
8

... no. Noone should watch scat porn.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 09:32 AM
1

Not much kino, because it was short and the dog was in the way. You're making excuses. A puppy doesn't have any effect on the amount of kino in your date.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 10:03 PM
7

Apparently my dialect is not as easy to hear as I thought, but yes, German :) I would actually love to meet English-speaking women, because I think I'd get the 'foreigner-bonus'. German women are not that scary! They would mostly speak English with you and I know for a fact you would definitely get the 'foreigner-bonus'.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:16 PM
2

I read your post out loud. I like doing that. Any criticism welcome.
/r/seduction14/01/15 06:44 PM
10

I also did. If you don't guess my nationality after 10 seconds of listening, you suck. If anyone has any criticism I would be glad to hear. I'm going for a deeper voice than I normally speak.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:33 PM
4

I'm so sorry but George Cluny just wouldn't let me keep a straight face while reading your post :) (It's Clooney)
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:10 PM
2

I just found it funny that he doesn't want to answer someones invasive personal questions, and then you effectively ask one of those :)
/r/seduction22/12/14 08:39 PM
3

It obviously has to fit, she and you as well have to be the types for it. I haven't tried this particular game, but I can think of girls I would run this with and girls where I'd stay clear of it.
/r/seduction22/12/14 08:37 PM
3

http://gentlemensociety.com/eliciting-values/
/r/seduction22/12/14 08:30 PM
2

Hahahahaha was that intended?
/r/seduction22/12/14 08:14 PM
5

Oh shit... I just had to go there and I found this link. Look at it first, sounds pretty good, right? Now fucking read the comments :D it's unbelievable. I'll show you the comment I liked the most: I stopped after the first... stay in shape? By god like as if the number one thing women have to do is make their outer appearance presentable to men. I understand taking care of yourself but to mandate that exercise is necessary for you to be attractive? ugghhh
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 09:59 AM
3

This sounds like you're not really doing what you want to be doing throughout your day.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 09:46 AM
1

I probably have a shitty diet because I'm eating less than upkeep to get my bodyfat% lower. I still work out though to not lose muscles. In this setup, is it okay to feel like OP? (note that I do not rest or am sloppy like the OP, but I very strongly feel tired)
/r/askTRP04/12/14 01:40 PM
12

Just imagine if every woman was fundamentally different. The red pill would not exist. There would be no one strategy to "get women". Every discussion about relationships would be void, because it would all be decided on a case-by-case basis, you can't come to any conclusions. No man would exist who is "good with women". It would be madness.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 06:40 AM
1

I don't even have my Ausbildung finished yet. Will do that first.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 11:04 AM
1

I'm 24 and am in Germany. I was bullied in school, had no friends from 12-17, no social circle until 21. This was partly because I have Aspergers. I secluded myself and lost myself in online games. With girls, in that time, I actually messed around with 3, no sex/petting though. At ~16-17, I discovered PU, learned a shitload about social interactions. I shut out all my emotions and so the bullying stopped. From 17-now, I figured out that I have Aspergers, constantly learned being social and appl…
/r/askTRP15/11/14 09:50 AM
7

Not hiring women based on that alone is illegal, yes. But 1) 95% applying will be men and 2) there was just another better candidate... who happens to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 08:32 AM
2

Other way around ;)
/r/askTRP07/11/14 06:51 PM
33

Featuring masterpieces like this one. (It was a commission for a friend, the pay was miserable though, one wet fart) Edit: Another master piece is my workout cheat sheet.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 04:45 PM
58

Is there more information on this posture fix thing? I have a right hanging shoulder, but I don't understand this stretch you're suggesting, probably because I'm not a native English speaker. Is it meant like this? (Other side though... mixed up left/right in the picture)
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:36 AM
2

Yea, It was more of a joke :)
/r/trpGAME31/10/14 05:24 PM
-1

Yeah you did a little bit. It's mainly about self-improvement and getting to the exact mindset and inner game you are having. All the complaining and "awareness raising newspaper headlines" are all the new guys trying to get it. For "veterans" like you they're mostly noise.
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:18 PM
18

Who wants girls in their late 20s?
/r/trpGAME31/10/14 03:07 PM
-5

Are you sure you didn't want to post in /r/TheRedPill? :D Looks like a post straight from there.
/r/seduction31/10/14 03:04 PM
2

What is that "give closure" thing you're talking about? You said "you broke up with your LTR". That's the closure right there. Now you're acquintances. You are not friends anymore. But you see each other as part of a social circle. Now how would you treat a male in this situation, a friend of a friend? That's how you will treat her. "No contact" is basically just that, treating a friend of a friend just like that. If you met some guy at a friends place, talked with him about playing tennis toget…
/r/askTRP27/10/14 11:38 AM
1

We don't have a fundamental disagreement on what causes beta behaviours, it's just that insecure, beta, bluepill guys come here to ask about anything because they don't even notice what insecure behaviours they actually express. The problem I had with your post was that, while correct that a confident person should not ask about this kind of stuff, there would be no point in this sub, because by wanting to ask for advice you're almost certainly not confident enough in yourself. This means you co…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 01:11 PM
1

My biggest issue is this; I just don't feel like any girl could be attracted to me. I guess, right now, you're mostly focusing on the "pick-up" part of seduction, I mean how you interact with others and present yourself as. But, you see, when you feel like you do feel, you will never make it. What you have to do is make yourself to a guy girls would be attracted to. What does that mean? First, your physique helps immensily. Look at this. If you look like the left side right now, start progressin…
/r/seduction20/10/14 12:29 PM
2

Another of this kind of video.
/r/seduction20/10/14 11:48 AM
1

You are correct, but only in this case, because when you call her does not matter much. If you would give this advice in almost any other thread, it would be terrible. If a thread was about the guy being needy, you wouldn't tell him "Do whatever the fuck you want" and "Don't spend so much time worrying about how a "real" alpha does things". The problem is that people come here because they don't display alpha behaviour, so telling them to do what they want leads to them doing the wrong (beta) th…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 07:59 PM
1

You may have it harder than most in the SMP, but the same principles that apply to all of us still apply to you. The physical looks part obviously takes a hit for you, but you can still compensate in confidence, frame, game, wealth, etc. You may not be able to theoretically get the 10s (but luck and every other part of you being good could still net you some), you may have to settle with 9s or 8s.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 09:02 AM
1

Language differences, with "really beta" I meant: hardcore beta, like beta through-and-through.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 07:58 AM
13

I want to improve of course. In what areas do you think I should focus? Fuck you fuck youu fuck youuuuu. Like seriously man you basically had a threesome on your first night out... It's pretty obvious where you have to improve. Three girls next time! On a serious note, I think you should try to go out without your awful wingmen... They're just holding you back. One question: you were never really beta were you? This shit doesn't just come from 3 months theory.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 11:34 PM
1

Read the Mystery Method as fundamental reading. It's not up-to-date but is a perfect starter for someone clueless.
/r/trpGAME16/10/14 07:14 AM
3

No. Attraction needs to be there first. If you start with rapport you end up in the friendzone.
/r/trpGAME15/10/14 09:20 PM
1

Most people have smartphones that they use daily. Use your calendar! Make appointments for every activity you would like to continue doing. You will get a notification preferably with a loud tone. Now is where the work starts. You have to force yourself to do it! There's no shortcut or easy way to this. Always start with something small, like, I don't know, maybe you only brush your teeth every other day or miss it sometimes. Make a reminder for that, and do it! Then move on to something slightl…
/r/seduction14/10/14 02:57 AM
1

When in doubt (especially when you doubt yourself) it's a shit test.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 10:12 AM
1

relationships and dating is just this huge fucking game of manipulation and untruthfulness and control I'd disagree with that. It's only manipulation and untruthfulness when you are not red pill. It's only manipulation if you act a way you're not. When you're red pill, you are what women desire, no manipulation there. Red pill basically removes the need for being untruthful. Your frame is unshakeable. You do and say what you want, and if she doesn't like it, she is free to go. "being controlling…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:23 AM
1

Sorry, I myself am just starting to go down that path. Have not read that much yet.
/r/seduction12/10/14 09:51 AM
3

Realize that a decent percentage of failures are not even in your control. Sometimes something bad happened to her, she has itchy warts on her vagina, etc. If you know that you did something wrong, think about how to fix it and make a mental note of it. But this is just for after being done approaching. If you're still at it, do the next one!
/r/seduction12/10/14 06:49 AM
2

That's because you have motivation but no discipline. Discipline makes you talk to everyone even if you don't feel like it.
/r/seduction12/10/14 06:44 AM
1

How long are you reading and trying to live the red pill? If it is not more than 3 to 5 years (yes the sub didn't exist then) you're actually fine. Life-long programming doesn't get thrown over that easily. You know what you did wrong and should have done. Now do it the next time! And if you don't try again until you succeed.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:40 AM
1

Relevant RationalMale article
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:35 AM
1

Umm.. I hate to break it to do but right NOW you're doing absolutely zero for your social improvement. What do you think is better, making zero approaches trying to get women to fuck or making 1+ just approaching people to talk? A professional soccer player did not start practicing 30 meter goals. He started dribbling.
/r/seduction12/10/14 06:28 AM
1

The problem with such a small university is the reputation hit you're going to take by trying to learn game on the small number on chicks there. You have to make the decision for yourself if you accept the drawbacks of hitting on many but having failed with most. If you are confident with being successful (which it sounds like you're not) then of course your reputation will be a positive "player" one. But if you fail often, you will be a "creep" which will ruin your chances with the girls you co…
/r/seduction12/10/14 06:15 AM
11

1 seems interested but is always "busy" Just wanted to let you know that she is not interested in you sexually, but wants to keep you around as a beta orbiter for later when she is done riding alpha dick.
/r/seduction12/10/14 06:01 AM
0

Yes, as others pointed out, you missed a critical thing in self-improvement that, admittedly, was not directly mentioned in the post. Part of it is to improve socially. That means having hobbies where you meet people, go to a bar with them. That means, when on public transportation, in line at the grocery store etc., you talk with the person next to you. That means reading books about social interactions, dynamics. That means going up to girls and trying to have sex with them. That means reading…
/r/seduction12/10/14 05:50 AM
5

As a husband unaware of the red pill, my trust would be shattered. I bet that this guy develops anxiety about the issue and she will get even less attracted to him. Then she will finally be honest with him, namely that she wants an open marriage and see other men on the side. Of course she won't divorce him because he is her "soulmate".
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 09:53 AM
1

I'm currently heavily working on my body, looking pretty fit actually, would definitely say top 20%. It's actually relatively easy to give the advice I need, and I appreciate that you are interested in it. ♂ It's basically I need you to describe a gesture or facial expression or action, what it accomplishes, and when/why to use it. So for example, two easy ones: "You should look people in the eyes when talking to them, about 80%-100% of the time. It shows them you are talking to them, and that y…
/r/askTRP07/10/14 06:49 PM
1

Well, I often notice that I'm not being sexual, but I want to be, so I do the first step that I know how to do, kiss her. It's mostly inappropriate and I get the headturn, followed by ljbf. Sometimes I have luck and it's not too late and she is surprised but turned on, and then I continue from there with good success. I should have really included this in the op...
/r/askTRP07/10/14 06:44 PM
1

No, that's what I'm saying is not happening. That's why I need a description, or something else where I can learn it from.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 06:03 PM
2

I don't agree with you. A few years ago, in a different thread, you could have said the same about the topic of "normal" social interactions. I would have asked "how do I look friendly" or "how can I look someone in the eyes", and you could have said, "this is tough, it's something you are born with"... Now I'm really good at this, better than 80% of my peers. Everything can be learned. It's just that I don't express my intentions naturally with body language. So on the topic of the "sexual look…
/r/askTRP07/10/14 06:03 PM
2

http://therationalmale.com/2012/06/04/final-exam-navigating-the-smp/ You're not even at your peak sexual market value. Now, for you, starts the best time to get the best-looking women of your life!
/r/askTRP07/10/14 03:08 PM
2

I didn't really want to mention it but yes, exactly that.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 12:21 PM
0

You should read the first half of the book "power of now". It's a hundred pages that will serve you well.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 06:07 PM
3

Look at http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/20/letting-go-of-invisible-friend/ from http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 07:25 AM
1

Before I knew of anything about Game of Thrones and Song of Ice and Fire, I was in a bookstore and searched for books. The books were prominently displayed, and I picked one up, read a few pages of the start, a few pages in the middle, a few pages at the start of another part, and I disliked all of it. I wondered why it was so prominently displayed. Since then, I've heard plenty about Game of Thrones, saw clips etc. and it's just not that interesting to me. Coupled with the fact of my first expe…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 08:08 AM
3

Oh wow. Didn't even know there was a label to my ex. Borderline personality disorder. The more you know. I even punched a hole in the wall once. That article really speaks to me... Thank you very much.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:30 PM
2

Interesting. Do you know more about how the law is different in Germany? From my personal experience, false rape accusations are unheard of. But is it really better here than in America? Or do I just not hear much of it?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:09 PM
2

It's like I'm getting pulled in someone else's frame!
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:47 PM
3

Yes, she could have, but I think she didn't.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:58 PM
-1

I know that I have to expect women to do that. And I know that there's a small chance she has done it. But you seem to miss that, yes she could have done unexpected shit and lied, but I was with her a large amount of my time, we lived together, she told me pretty much everything about her, I told her pretty much everything about me. As much as I paint it like it in the OP, the relationship wasn't complete shit and she wasn't an absolutely horrible example of a female. Otherwise even I would have…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:56 PM
1

Yeah, that's how it's done. You need a few paragraphs though :D (Edit: just noticed you tried to make line breaks, in reddit markup you need two spaces at the end of a line, and then a linebreak, to really show it as such. you only have one space at the end of the line.) If I was that a year ago, I would have run after her and asked what I did wrong. The shame I feel thinking back on that...
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:47 PM
-1

Okay if you want to rephrase it, I'm 98% sure that she didn't. For me that's as good as she really, 100%, didn't. But I thought TRP doesn't have to do all these stupid disclaimers.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:41 PM
3

For the last two months, I trained every second day. I lost around 5kg weight, my abs are starting to show. I'm working on a project outside of work that I can put on my resume for when I'm finished with training and search for a job. Every time I meet some random person on the streets, the bus or the train, and I have time, I talk to them about random shit. Today I learned about The Dark Tower from Stephen King. I'm taking dancing lessons again which I stopped while in the relationship. I'm mee…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:38 PM
9

I have to defend my honor, even on this place on the internet, where noone knows me personally. Don't you know that people thinking your girl cheated on you devalues you as a man? It's rude that you say she cheated on me. She may have in the future, but not while I was with her.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:28 PM
1

I never said that, if circumstances changed and I wouldn't have broken up with her, that she would not have cheated on me. If things would have gotten worse, I certainly think that she may have done it. I just know that she didn't while I was together with her. I know I was beta, but I still would've known the signs if that was what was happening. It's not like I was emotionally stupid, just non-dominant as fuck and a pushover.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:25 PM
-6

I'm sure that she didn't cheat with anyone. In this one way, she was NAWALT, but on almost all other fronts AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 12:21 PM
20

Umm I did ditch her. I see now that that may not be clear. Some time after we had this best sex, she started crying, realizing that this was the end. She left a few hours after, getting her stuff out over the next week, when I was at work.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:52 AM
3

For anyone in Germany, recording without consent is prohibited under §201 StGB. However, if you're in a Strafverfahren (someone accuses you and you have to defend yourself, where you might end up in jail, like rape) there were multiple cases where courts have allowed those "illegal" wiretaps as evidence. (Aktenzeichen 5 St RR 143/93, Aktenzeichen 9SA 114/87)
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:16 PM
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