Not sure how to get with hwr

stickfiguresk · 2015-03-17T04:42:49+00:00

That's some cold shit. She gave you a hard no. You're in the depths of a bad friend zone.

You know how when you open a carton of eggs, and the first one you pull out may be fucked up? What do you do?(rhetorical)

You take it, and throw it in the trash and grab the next one. And you never think about that first bad egg again.

There's a certain level of respect a man demands when he exudes this mindset with women. This is frame. As Gene Simons once said, "If you want to welcome me with open arms, I'm afraid you're going to have to welcome me with open legs as well." In an NPR interview.

oooh, my bad. I thought you were open to this. Yeah, we're just wasting each other's time--I'm not friends with women, so cya, have a nice night.

Her natural response would be one of two things: if she's being genuine, "ok, that's a little fucked up, but cya" no problem. She was really banking on the other guy and she's not that attracted to you. Tough cookies; move on; abundance mentality.

Her other response, if she's just trying to pull some shit and she would fuck you would be, "WHAT THE FUCK JDJFJRJFJFJ" if shes a tantrum-thrower and her daddy didnt raise her right, or she'll stammer like she just got caught, "bu- bu- uh..." As you watch that hamster spin into overdrive.

This is where game comes in to play. You either make her want to fuck you or you kick her out because she's too much trouble. As the great Patrice O'Neal would say, "now, you gotta finesse the bitch." Or, "take an L (loss)"

If you're not ready to take an L, she's gonna fuck you over.

SpinPlates · 2015-03-17T05:40:05+00:00

Stop communication with her immediately. Do not waste anymore of your time with her.

NickCiufi · 2015-03-17T05:01:29+00:00

Next dude. She's not into you.

cheesepythons · 2015-03-17T06:48:36+00:00

You were not being honest. She told you she only wanted to be "friends", she told you she was interested in someone else and you still wanted to play her beta support role. She was bored, you respond with the hard line, come over and we can find some way to keep each other entertained, she says fuck off you say OK and move the fuck on.

midnightbean · 2015-03-17T08:14:32+00:00

Well you are just 18. Dont sweat it. I was 25 and had a similar situation of wasting my time. But as someone else said youre doing something wrong and my best guess is showing too much interest, catering, neediness.

If your a man she wants you probably need to go out in public, a place to let her see you interact with others. Women want to be taken by a man, lose themselves, lose responsibility. Gotta be that guy.

Theres a lot of things you probably need to do but polarizing more would help. Be into yourself, know what you want and believe it. If theyre not responding to that you should know either way. If negative drop it, you got better things to do.

Without a care in the world. Your confident and can have it all. The moment you realize that you perception of them and you will change. You may be able to just look at them and panties drop. And youll become selective because its necessary. None of that is accessed with the mindset that your desperate and need sex and will it happen?

The time for monk mode is when your fucking is fucking things or girls up.

FrameWalker · 2015-03-17T15:50:09+00:00

she said that she was only interested in being friends because she was interested in some other dude, so I just played it cool.

Actions > words is definitely true. A tiny bit of escalation on that coffee date would of helped confirm her words. She already told you she was not interested, hope you weren't surprised watching Netflix.

Hard next.

Title	Not sure how to get with hwr
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Date	March 17, 2015 4:06 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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