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While on the topic of films and shows I just watched wedding singer again after not seeing it for a long time. Brand new perspective on that movie. In fact Adam Sandler pretty much always plays a beta or a beta loser who expects love like a mother would bring in many of his movies. Wedding singer takes the cake though. I do believe his influence has affected many males over the years including myself. I meet so many males who expect to have a ten when they are a 6 and have little to offer, and t…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 10:04 PM
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Man it totally happens. I hit a SMV growth spurt somewhere and now everything is pretty much polarized. Either girls are trying to tell me they don't wanna have sex or that they do, simply by existing. So often all it takes is some tension building, it's like something you turn on..sex charm. And before you know it it's like "I'm gonna take you out back and fuck you if you say that again" and by that time she'll usually be like "I wish you'd quit being a pussy and do it already". Simplest way to…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:09 AM
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I eat a healthy breakfast burrito and drink coffee, then I take a shit. Then I'm prepared for the world. Can't do much if you gotta take a crap.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:02 PM
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Or maybe she was feeling low on the wanted scale so talking to you made her feel better. In her head you're an extra battery plugged up to her validation needs whenever, cuz you'll still be there you know. Probably in her head 10 years later. But in her head she does not realize this, she only now sees this talk as your fault. She probably does no wrong, remember the hamster. Hot girls everywhere are constantly hitting up guys of all types for a quick dose of validation. They'll go out and look …
/r/askTRP25/08/15 03:14 AM
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Think of someone you know who's good with women and people. Or better someone people want to be around. Reflect on why that might be.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:12 AM
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First things first. Lift and eat well. If you look good it's gonna vastly improve your chances with women. Hard to look like a slob and be a confident man in charge. You also need to know what you want. Often when you're looking to get good with the ladies you're actually masking another issue. I find most classic pick up useless but it can work well on young dumb irritating girls who have overblown perceptions of themselves. All you really need to be good with women is good social skills, confi…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 01:52 AM
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Because chance of booty storm. And because of an imagination. I have an insane imagination. And so I loved me some rom coms, and dreams. My favorite was 13 going on 30 when she realizes the nice guy is the better choice and goes back in time. Then they eat this stupid gum on their adult life couch to madonnas "crazy for you" which is a song only a female should ever indulge in. But I indulged in it often. It's also discussed in no more mr. Nice guy two types of nice guys. One closes up emotions …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 08:17 PM
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Don't hate. They want to be banged well by a guy with good genes. Isn't that on the side bar? It's their nature, don't be so butthurt.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 01:49 PM
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Great post, but as a professional painter it hurts so bad to see Titian spelled Titan. He is a Titan of course. On the note of Titian he used some quality "never outshine the master" tactics for getting his commissions. And for undressing women, except the time he paid for it. I've picked up women in various scenarios but nothing beats studio seduction. It is a very dominating setup and they are often vulnerable with their validation on the line. Try it if you like but learn to paint first pleas…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:13 PM
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Yes correcting your mistakes is bullying
/r/askTRP08/08/15 08:50 PM
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I was under the impression you are a noobie who thought it was hamstring. In any case bullying is a little mans game.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 07:03 PM
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Hamstring?
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:48 PM
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Not so sure about that. He wrote some very beta love letters trying to his woman back to the point of being pathetic. And isn't he the definition of short man disease? Seems like a strange question to ask of all questions. Even if someone is alpha this doesn't mean women won't cheat on you. If that's your end goal you need to continue focusing on other priorities.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:41 PM
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I'm having trouble believing this post. First off most people know from the moment of reading TRP that it is clearly offensive to almost the entire populace in some way. Even if it's just your grandmother who's looks have run out. What man in his right mind would want to tell a girl this unless to push her away? Maybe you really freaked him out so he dropped "I'm a red pill guy" to get you to go away? I mean the fact that you joined a forum to ask us on advice on this guy shows you're possibly w…
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:33 PM
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Then it's Tiziano in that form. Titian is a very popular form and it's also correct to use.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 01:33 AM
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Do you refer to Titans allegory of prudence?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:34 PM
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This is a sign for concern. If you were in a place of abundance and confidence you would not be asking this question. The answer is one that comes naturally to any healthy confident male with a high SMV. You see it and you chuckle, say it's sweet, high five her or put on a top hat and make car noises. It doesn't matter because you don't feel threatened. And if you learned anything from TRP it's that he probably dug himself a huge hole from writing that anyway. How to respond? Probably like you d…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:47 PM
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The sorry I was away text is where I knew it was done. Sometimes like men, women just want the excitement of sex and some fun. It doesn't mean they consider you a good partner. Sometimes they can tell you feel that way which pushes them off. They want to know a guy is serious but also independent, which seems contradictory because it mostly is. In my experience a lot of girls are done after sex. Not like the movies. Partly this is because it's harder to get intimate and know someone when the rel…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:33 PM
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I end up dating a lot of short smaller girls, but the times I've had sex with taller girls or thicker girls it's been the best. I banged an Amazon type one night with large hips and it was hands down the best lay. I wish I understood it but small girls, no matter how great the figure just get boring for me during sex. More that you're really fucking something instead of it fucking you.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 05:10 PM
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I've seen this kind of thing before from experience. Of course she likes the things you do, but you're too easy. Like a girl who would very quickly do whatever you wanted in bed as fast as you wanted. You'd enjoy it, but later come to think "why would I want a girl like that long term, if she's easy without obstacles she's easy for others too." You feel like you got a freebie and you won't value it. Girls are the same way with affection from men. The slow build and grind is what you want, and ha…
/r/askTRP16/07/15 02:12 AM
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Why must this post be on roids though. Long, Noh, whatever needs to get off the teet. That's it. You will always notice that when you start telling people your problems, even if you're just making conversation, they will assume the role of helping you, controlling you, dominating you, etc. You have to practice not giving someone your empathy when they make joke that isn't funny. Practice not making sure people are comfortable, make them uncomfortable. Stick up for what you believe in, tell peopl…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:12 AM
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19? Your brain won't be fully developed for another 5-7 years. You have 5-6 years to develop and find TRP before many of us who found it at 25+. You may not believe it, and it will be hard to instill it in your mind, but you will come across many more "unicorns". You'll find the girl of your dreams many times over and you'll screw those up too. Eventually you'll learn they're just people. You are at an advantage here. Celebrate. All the opportunities ahead of you to act on and learn from.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 04:31 PM
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Upon thinking about this I realized that it's actually only happened with a couple girls out of my 10 intercourse partners, probably 20 counting other forms of sex. The recent girl didn't go all the way as she didn't want to for whatever reason, we were having a great time. About four girls I lost interest after having sex, they were more about a sexual tension or a fetish. I get like that. Maybe it's a goth girl who seems super dirty, makes some comment you can imagine hearing her say when she'…
/r/askTRP10/07/15 02:45 AM
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I think it's tough not because of what it is, but because most people cannot fathom having fun in this way. Trying to have people over with no alcohol involved is basically unheard of. I can see it though in the athletic hiking people types, a type of people I must admit I haven't spent much time around. I've seen them in pictures, movies, briefly through colorado. I imagine they sleep in rustic rooms full of eddie baurer gear, have a white lab named jack, eat oatmeal and coffee for breakfast, p…
/r/askTRP10/07/15 02:26 AM
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What do you do for fun? Or what is your fun product you sell, produce.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 11:39 PM
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Sounds efficient, doesn't sound like a lot of fun I must admit but efficient. I don't know if you refer to drinking on the reg and drinking to a stupid point, or just no drinking whatsoever.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 09:57 PM
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That's a great process.. Interesting to start with coffee. Are these dates from random encounters? The internet?
/r/askTRP09/07/15 09:17 PM
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Thanks. This is probably the approach I should be taking. Whatever it is the sex on first date just doesn't seem to work well for me. I like your maturity on the issue.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 07:56 PM
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I usually do something of this sort... in this case of course we already discussed how it was fun and discussed doing something again soon without a firm date. To say I had fun last night seems to look like weird backtracking or that I have amnesia. "I really did have fun last night" sounds like I'm trying to convince myself and looking needy. I basically hate text, and it's made calling look urgent.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 07:38 PM
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Add to that he's kind of a bond already. Supposedly quite a womanizer. If he's reformed at all its like asking him back into his favorite drug. I wouldn't want my husband working with the sexiest women alive if he was prone to that.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 06:58 PM
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I can still strategically tear someone apart while appearing cool, but it might come from a bitterness which wouldn't be from a healthy place. In that case only the person can usually know. Do whatever the fuck you wanna do. A lot of women assume I don't have the masculinity they crave in bed, there is not always an opportunity to prove that I do. In those cases I'd have to stage some angry rage moment or some serious sternness of some sort. It's all very gray when it comes to this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 04:49 PM
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Well said, I can see that. I think that distinction needs to be better made here. It's very rare that a person can get this angry and still remain in control.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 11:47 PM
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Yeah, I get the theatrics but that head bobbing stuff and what not, clearly set him off from where he was. If he was maintaining frame his frame wouldn't have changed.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 09:00 PM
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I think you have me confused with someone who doesn't know what bullshit looks like.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 08:59 PM
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I don't think people consider that beta's can be raised in alpha environments and alphas raised in beta environments, looking to take back what they've been conditioned against. Food for thought.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 08:31 PM
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He's acting a good deal like a beta here by losing control of his shit. Listen up. TRP helps men from all varieties work on the many aspects of their personality that might need to be learned or rewired to get what 'we' want out of our lives. Being highly intelligent and aware is smart, but with that you can pick up mannerisms and behaviors that keep you alive but aren't very alpha. Men who lack those characteristics might be tough and unemotional, but they're likely pretty dense in the head too…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 08:28 PM
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For one bang? Because from experience that's all your gonna want if your SMV is high. Nothing makes you feel shittier than knowing you took time and effort to fuck a girl that fucks new dudes within the hour. If she does it with you she probably does it with others.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 08:09 PM
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Don't do PUA. It's a band-aid approach. Eventually she'll see the beta with tricks you really are, and you will not have developed yourself internally. This comic is actually right on the money. If the dude was really red pill and strong he'd have said forget it and walked away before she finished talking. The comic shows the error in PUA, be a beta bitch with tricks...find a girl who knows them, get shut down, then go home and whine about it on the Internet.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 07:59 PM
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I'm confused. I think joe has lost frame here and is letting rage get the best of him. She's obviously cowering but still remains pretty calm. How is this red pill? Wasn't it months ago we were discussing wolf of Wall Street if another man is hitting on your girl any anger or emotional reaction is Bp? Wasn't it discussed that if a guy gives you shit and you freak out you're being Bp? Beating your wife or gf is Bp? I thought Rp was stoicism, cool and collected. Rage fits are red pill now? What's …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 07:41 PM
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Uh huh, I'm the irrational one. You may think your helping but you're not doing it for others, you're doing it for ego related reasons. I'm not sure why. Maybe you don't have many friends being so unreasonable to talk to. Maybe if you feel like you can be one of the old red pill guys who can teach the young you'll feel you have more purpose, friends, people to finally look up to you. But this isn't how it's earned. You're not someone here who has the mind to be endorsed by trp, I know because ar…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 04:33 AM
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Thanks, it's always reassuring when someone's critique is grounded in reason. The context does suck, I don't like listing detailed real life examples. So it's very difficult to explain why say what I say out of context.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 02:04 PM
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It's not that I don't have common sense but I often reject it. Living a life where my experiences are dictated by what's commonly or not commonly done because of one reason or another seems to limiting for someone who really wants to live. I don't give a fuck so I take my chances, but then it impedes something else I want I could have planned for if I was always paranoid. Some of us were raised too careful. Being straight is the easiest thing In the world for someone like me. Balance and not tak…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 01:59 PM
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Do tell more about the tricked and forced stuff. Would you wear leather chaps when this happens? If you enjoyed a forced dildo would that make you less alpha? Because gay men can be very alpha.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:27 AM
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You understand how ridiculous this sounds?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 02:59 AM
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I think you just have short man syndrome more than alpha, sorry man.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 09:09 PM
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And all women are bad and terrible beings to you. How reassuring. I see how it's a safer option, but you'll never really know. The ego is a powerful thing.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 09:06 PM
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I don't think they can be trusted without fearing you, but even then. Point is you shouldn't hate a child as much as you may want to. You may not like how they act but you can still care for their well being. This is the same with women. If you just hate fuck women you are some kind of sadist or really have some issues that still need to be worked out for your own personal happiness. And I'm about helping out myself. Distraction is fun for a while until the wheel stops moving. I dont' know if yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 03:30 PM
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Depends on the town and family. The example listed wasn't an argument but an example of conflicting interest. You can't always have both things, sometimes you have to choose one and know why you want what you want. That's really great for your dad though.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 03:21 PM
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I'm sure. Depends on your definition of natural. There are varying degrees and various aspects to men that are on the alpha and beta spectrum. I highly doubt anyone who's completely 'natural' would ever be on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 03:15 PM
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Calculation, trickery, deception, whatever you can do to not give a fuck. Up late at nights working hard because you don't give a fuck. Doesn't seem to be some contradiction there? My example was meant as an example not an argument, but congratulations for having a body that reacts in those ways; that's something pretty special. Perhaps it's more like not giving yourself time to stop and worry about things you've done or if you should take something you want? I realize not give a fuck sounds har…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 03:05 PM
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Women's opinions or advice is different than an empathetic look at their perspective. To suggest any regard to a woman's well being as SJW propaganda is ignorant, especially in regards to why you may act as you do.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 03:25 AM
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Definitely. The things to do is great advice, the things to watch out for easily becomes skewed. If one isn't careful you might find yourself trusting no girl and being disgusted by beta men. I've been like that for a while and working to get it back to a reasonable place.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 02:39 AM
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Any look at the sidebar or the many readings should put to rest what kind of advice will or won't be helpful. It's not my fault if they just want to throw bitch fits and circle jerk.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 02:31 AM
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Hate the system is great fuel, hating women is ignorant. You shouldn't hate snakes because they bite when threatened or a cat because it doesn't want to be petted. Use your upsets to rid yourself of misleading knowledge and better understand what you want out of women and life.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 11:30 PM
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I just called.... to say.... I love you... I believe I'm correct in assuming most male love songs are feminized, probably about a girl who's giving less than she's getting. And female love songs are about a fantasy they have for a man they don't know, someone who doesn't want them or who gives them little attention. The excitement and the highs are probably impossible with some kind of threat, fear, or doubt. I don't know why those are written differently when they almost seem the same. For men …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 10:40 PM
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Reconfirming what you don't want to believe in an attempt to believe it. Experience is a better teacher though, and when you really believe it you'll feel nothing. So much anger venting and I thought there was a good thread not to long ago about how that displaces energy that could instead be used to make progress.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 10:24 PM
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Someone called me an SJW trying to turn red pillers into nice guys, but I supposedly wasn't subtle enough. Somehow any advice that seems to regard a female's perspective whatsoever is bluepill to those in anger phase. I think there needs to be more posts on this.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 10:16 PM
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Isn't there that study that shows women want to stand out in a crowd and men apart from the crowd? Most women hate to feel like they're missing out on what other women do. Especially if they're not strong in themselves as most aren't. Man, how many anger phasers do we have goin on here now at TRP. It is what it is, this is how a lot of women behave. Know what you're getting into as it's the nature of the beast. It's like being pissed off about a bull in a china shop.. that's what SJW's do. Men a…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 10:12 PM
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You must be fairly new to RP if you think this is beta bait. The only part I could see a newbie taking issue with is the persuading a girl to do more than she wants part and you holding back. But as I said this is about your long term goals. Girls may have a great time with you then regret it afterwords. It's not always us calling it off. If you think your succeeding because you're getting laid then you're going to be in a bad place if you hit a dry spell. If you shit where you eat, the negative…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 10:01 PM
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I see the formatting now, thanks. You should read more then.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 06:54 PM
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I assume this is the conscious or subconscious take on things. "Thick dark hair is a turn on for me and I guess helps me fantasize about the "bad boy." I guess I've always likened blond men to be the surfer-dude type - suffering from Peter Pan Syndrome, superficial, just looking to party and find a leggy, buxom blond - a female version of themselves (minus the big boobs)." "Personally, I do not find fair haired, fair skinned guys masculine. Maybe it is in my upbringing (dark hair amongst all my …
/r/askTRP04/07/15 03:44 PM
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I think you've gotta be a really fair haired man to get it. Like you said, it's a strike against you. Where as if you have black hair and dark eyes you'll already on a positive note. I hear men, especially gay men, and women tell me all the time I'm very attractive as compliments. Yet whenever I meet women they often have a quizzical look about how to read me. In certain times I would be very quiet and serious as is my natural state and people think I'm an asshole. When I exert the effort to con…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 03:01 PM
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Haha I know... But I've heard really good looking redheads can be a great force.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 02:44 AM
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The idea exists sure. The reality suggests otherwise and so do most of the rom coms. Blonde guys are usually portrayed as evil or not to be taken seriously. The majority of men listed here are with fair haired girls and most of them are blonde. http://scooteraz.tumblr.com/post/65123833659/prof-sycawhore-scooteraz-ss-reicheagle That is more to what I refer to. I get your point though I do. And I date a lot of varied women but as far as finding women of equal SMV who are dark haired and pale skinn…
/r/askTRP02/07/15 11:35 PM
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Sorority boys...hmmm This anger phase is a bit like being a hardcore atheist after leaving the church. It's ridiculous to spend your time on religion, something you say you don't believe in. Hate it fine, don't let it distract you. You should feel relieved like you do after really dropping the faith, you should feel free and excited about all the opportunities ahead of you. Focus on that.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 10:30 PM
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Sure I can see that. All the various factors to be taken into account there may not be a way of knowing if there is anything to hair color. I gotta think biologically being blonde is the far departure from our origins so maybe it's not taken so seriously when it comes to bonding. And there is film too which is probably due to brunettes outnumbering blonde men but it's rare that they are cast as the lover and more rare that they get with a dark haired beauty, but as I recall when they do she's sp…
/r/askTRP02/07/15 09:56 PM
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That's usually what happens... well late 20's here so we'll see. I've always had a thing for raven haired girls and pale skin, I have no idea and it' doesn't match my mother. It's kind of hilarious too that two of the girls I dated this year both of them dyed their hair black at one point and that was the dead zone for us. As I recall of the dark haired girls I've been with all happened in moments of high dominance for me. And as I remember of girls who have wondered if I could dominate them or …
/r/askTRP02/07/15 09:37 PM
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I missed adding "if a good relationship" part...if that was or wasn't the case. Dark blonde I can see working well still, mine is as blonde as a little kid. I once considered getting it dyed as a social experiment but with blonde eyebrows it just sounded like a bad idea.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 09:22 PM
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I lived there briefly but I wasn't all that in shape or well kept at the time. But of the girls who were interested or I dated they were dirty blonde/blonde. I don't know... maybe it's all coincidence. Maybe women being narcissists gravitate toward men with similar hair color.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 09:12 PM
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That's great. Similar situation here. I read a little pua in undergrad but never liked feeling like I was using tricks to get what I wanted, but it worked and that still isn't something I like to know. I don't think my text game is very good because I don't want to bother with it anymore. I don't want to play along, give a girl shit and make fun comments. I just want to set up meets and that's why I actually did attempt to set a date up in person (left that out) with this girl but it was sort of…
/r/askTRP28/06/15 09:13 PM
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Happy cake day by the way. Yeah, I know better than to use them. Were both late twenties. Sometimes you just do shit and it's funny how such a small act can have dire consequences. Thanks for the advice, I plan to use it.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:20 PM
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Well it was more like afternoon that I sent a text, and it was the start of a weekend. I don't know where a smiley came from. As I said I never use them, haven't in years but felt compelled to I guess after she did.. mirroring I guess. I believe never ask a girl if she wants to do something because then she'll question if she wants to, but asking when someone is free seems legitimate for anyone in their late twenties on.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:18 PM
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Man Im not sure about the comments here. I think it can definitely be detrimental depending on circumstances and the kind of character you display. And definitely an issue in smaller communities.. I know this too well. It is not helpful at all. You can't forget girls that know a lot of girls and are friends with them will claim their crushes and if it comes down to keeping a friendship or sleeping with that dude they barely know they'll usually keep the friendship. It's true if you are a fun lov…
/r/askTRP25/06/15 08:59 PM
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I find being in the moment and confident is helpful to those things. I seem to be really good at about anything I try to do, and part of that is just good hand/eye coordination but a big thing I notice is being highly focused and relaxed in the moment. If people are dancing just find the rhythm and move with confidence.. you don't try to impress people or get the euphoric neckbeard feels, you just stay calm and enjoy it. I really think that's how you can be pretty damn good at everything and you…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 03:20 AM
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I took a girls drink out of her hand and drank it so I don't have any room to talk here. I don't think this is a frame thing though. I think TRP is too heavily focused on so much abundance mentality you'll never really get anywhere. Oh she did some shit, next her brah. Many zen masters still broke frame, they cried or screamed with more anger than the average person. We're here to live and feel some shit. Not work your ass off at pretending to be stoic 24/7. If it ain't you or where you're at th…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:59 PM
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I don't really agree with the nexting so quickly approach unless you're in a big city where it really is a waste of time and effort. Smaller towns demand different maneuvers. My thoughts on this read is that she's probably trying to build sexual tension, so you should dish it back if you want to build that. Secondly her asking you to pick her up sounds like a lazy comfort test and in that case probably best to tell her you're not her chauffeur. Im noticing that a lot of women like to see how muc…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 01:04 AM
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I guess not, I saw it as playful teasing. My friend had already subtly introduced me as very low status and they were giving me such a cold shoulder it seemed like a conversation starter. I think part of my issue is restraint though. I have massive metaphorical balls, but I fear how others may react so I end up over restricting myself. I'm at my best when relaxed and impulsive, I just don't have time then to calculate someone else's perspective and I hate social mores, despise them so much.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 10:01 PM
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It hit me later that my friend introduced me as "a really good guy" in a manner that sounded like he was trying to sell me. I didn't think about that but it seems more like a big shit test I failed by just standing there instead of "yeah I can also heal the sick". I imagine that immediately put me at a very low appearing SMV from the start. "Here is my friend, he's single and can't find a woman but he's a really nice guy so you should consider him". --Lady boner killer 3000
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 05:09 PM
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I kept this is outlook tonight while I was out. But man I've never suffered so much rejection and resistance. I don't get it...I guess bars/clubs just aren't a good place to approach. I tried making conversation with a couple girls who a mutual friend introduced me to and genuine conversation was even shut down. Granted I did take a girls water from her hand and had a sip but as to how that was so offensive by a water jug full of free cups I don't get. They couldn't have fun or make eye contact.…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 08:14 AM
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I know where they're coming from. It's always nice to get hit on from a girl but when it's overt and she's low SMV it becomes an argument that says, "I consider us compatible". It's one thing to stare or show interest with doubt, but when fuglies seriously think they have a chance I'm like "yo, wtf is this shit, seriously?" And if hot girls are ignoring you as they do or even should it kills your confidence. I imagine girls are always getting stares from men because we want to bang most women. T…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 12:07 AM
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When was this not common knowledge? I'm sure to many of us this seems like it's unrecognized, but that has more to do with the contrast we feel from Blue Pill days more than how it's represented in society. As far as I can recall most women have always admitted to me they like bad boys, alphas, etc. My mother has admitted it, "I always felt less pressure from those guys in high school and less responsibility than the 'nicer guys'. They were just kind of a turn off." I dated a young girl who said…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 06:28 PM
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Because you're finding an answer that doesn't solve the real problem.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 05:02 AM
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You're right, that one completely slipped my mind. That shit is very real.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 12:54 PM
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The more I lift the more stares I get. Hot becomes equated with muscles almost every time, or at least a body that looks like it dominates. I dont' believe I've ever heard a woman talk about a 'hot' guy outside the context of having a good body.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 03:58 AM
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Makes sense. If I was really insecure and with a very hot girl I'd say "go ahead and eat those cupcakes baby, I still love ya" and when she's fat and gross I'll have my eyes on other women. It's like cheat codes in video games. You want the codes but once you have them the game is no fun anymore.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 03:53 AM
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Don't ever talk over the course of that long before setting up a meet. Be the kind of guy who has the standard that you want to meet someone in person. I'm going to oversimplify this in some error to make a point. Think of it as all being a test. As a man if I told a girl I wanted to fuck her and she said "hell yeah, I love fucking dudes all the time, of course I'll fuck you" it would be a turn off. My drive wants a girl who wants sex, but not one who gives it up easily to everyone. She wants va…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 07:57 PM
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This was really great. One point that threw me off was "woman expects man to love her more than she loves him". It is then wanted/expected but is not quantifiable or ever satisfied in her mind? It seems that women who have had the greatest love for a man do so in the context of craving what she isn't getting enough of; but if it were nothing the desire would cease? And women who seem content have deceived themselves for convenience sake? Then I wonder what lust refers too. It is not appearance s…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 07:22 PM
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I think, I believe, that women interpret what they will from the surface. Our job is to defy that if we want to ride the ride. Much of this boils down to "can he dominate me" from what I've heard from girls. It's why being nice, being short, having a high voice, skipping through a house party, or whining are turn offs. I was going to say you're better off without that kind of girl but that's all people. All people must be handled a certain way if you respect, fear, or them to treat you as import…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:49 AM
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It's pretty funny. I find the analogy helpful but then again I have no dream car. My first thought would be a triumph or Indian motorcycle.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 08:18 AM
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I was just thinking about this today while curiously browsing red pill youtube videos... they all felt like terrible representations. Too much making fun, sounding butthurt over the way things are. I don't think you've really swallowed the pill completely if you're angry over how things are. It should be sweet relief. It's been staring most of you in the face for years in movies and television. Sure we have movies like Hitch to lead us astray, but then we also have movies like Something Borrowed…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 01:01 AM
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I associate it with bdsm. These guys have been punished so harshly by women for their beta behavior they almost need a cock in their ass because it seems more legitimate and available. Damn I'd turn gay guzzling this bs with enough time.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:11 PM
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As others have said. You should avoid fb, text, etc. Real life, get to that as soon as you can with a girl. Those last bits sound bitter and over the top. You don't try alpha.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 10:15 PM
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Well some people put their phones on the table when they sit down. You may not be trolling but this is hilarious. Find a way around it, get a better mic or forget it. Maybe go watch a bond movie or something.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 11:05 PM
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It stays in your pants man, what the hell.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 10:55 PM
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True, but this is the same with higher pitched voices. Clarity in words and emphasizing is important period. You can mumble with a higher pitched voice and speak fast and that is monotonous as hell too.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 10:39 PM
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Some easy to see TRP evidence. I know a guy who's got it all genetically and when he talks it feels like he's putting you in a head lock. It's not just his pitch but force and volume. And if you get that down a laugh can feel like a punch in the face.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 10:00 PM
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http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/11/13/masculine-voice/ This is a good link for your question. I think changing your inflection can definitely happen more so than your voice. You just have to be aware of it and aware of changing it. As with all things, a change can go too far the other way. Trying not to be so nice? All the sudden your a dick. Try to speak lower and all of the sudden people are laughing at you. Arguably we are far less subtle than we think we are. But I do recommend working on…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 09:51 PM
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You could leave the record on all day if your phone can handle it. Better to forget its on.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 08:14 PM
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Who's we? Hah, I admire your energy here but the real change runs much deeper and quieter. "The flame that burns twice as bright burns half as long" - Lao Tzu Not like you're going to listen anyway but the swing could send you back to betaland. I know how it feels, like everything finally clicks. You know why things work and why something else doesn't without having to read about it. But I caution you to remember you're still more vulnerable thank you think you are. Your words don't sound like s…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 05:58 PM
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I admire your enthusiasm but it sounds like you've had some recent successes and you're riding on the high still. It's not about not giving a fuck but being okay with the outcome of not getting what you want and having the courage to do and take what you want. If you truly don't give a fuck you'd just stay home because people who don't give a fuck don't achieve much. Repeat this, you do give a fuck. You're just deluding yourself currently.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 03:46 PM
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That exists? I don't think i've ever met a woman who considers a man out of her league because they all believe they deserve prince charming.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 10:40 PM
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This makes me wonder what would happen if TRP really blew up..not that it would ever happen but was seriously on the fucking radar of every girl who knows the internet. What would happen? Because I gotta say I know some Hb10's that are so fucked up because they can't been tingled anymore because any guy who gives off those alpha vibes is "probably just faking it". And as we know the faking it thing is what women genetically do not want to bond with.. such deception.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 02:14 AM
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I guess smv isn't aligned with being alpha or beta. I know a beta who is good looking who gets a lot of pussy but it stops soon after because they realize what they got and they never take him seriously. An alpha in the top 20 percent may not get much pussy at all either because he is selective and doesn't need it. Of course he has the potential to get it, he doesn't. Take that into account as well. You also have to give things a chance too. Girls wont' necessarily flock to you as a high valued …
/r/askTRP14/04/15 04:04 AM
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Those saying cut contact is really the best advice. The way I look at it is you have got to charm her in person and not fuck it up by being beta. If you've done well she's probably gonna think about you. If she made moves and you held frame, she's probably gonna keep thinking about you. Sometimes shit just doesn't work out, but largely I've found if a girl likes you she will contact you. If you're not worthy to be thought about from her whats the point? Do not apologize for being handsy. If your…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 03:56 AM
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Maybe you misinterpret the quote. I don't fully understand what my anus does when it drops a turd but I know what to do when the time comes. I don't think defining it is as important than being it. But if I'm to suggest it's definition in the most simplistic terms id say it's that magnetic guy who exudes strength. People want shit all the time. When you're the guy who doesn't want shit and doesn't take shit, you're the shit.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 03:45 AM
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I just followed the look of ryan goslings style, works pretty well for me. Male fashion advice is a little to homosexual and clean cut for what i want.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 06:55 PM
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Im wondering why you didnt talk a little more with her, then cut it off and get her number. I think you escalated too quickly, can make girls..anyone nervous. Needs to be some reason that seems legitimate to make you seem selective rather than desperate. Because shes right, you dont know each other at all, and if youre not very attractive shes not gonna go in for that. The text later about the apron is an amateur move. She knows what you want, the apron is a bullshit run around topic that can ma…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 04:17 AM
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From my personal experience, and it's a fucking weird one.. I was trying to fuck things in my room at 7 before I knew what sex was and that girls didn't have dicks too. I just knew I should fuck them. Now I still have a high libido. Jerking off usually makes me want to jerk off more. When I've fucked a girl I can settle down and go for 2 weeks like an alpha like no other.. but after that I get so damn horny it's like I become a sex werewolf and all my sexy alpha ability turns into creepy perv du…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 01:16 AM
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I'm not giving that away. And they're not ignored necessarily, it's just that there are so many it's kind of a squeaky wheel situation. I do think there is much to it though. Ive lived in other areas and women, quality women, are much harder to come by. But it also cuts through the garbage. I'm sure she's gonna be fine. But what she wants is pretty unreasonable, and she's way too indecisive with a past bf who was so decisive he abused her. So she's not into assertive men but she also is, so she'…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 05:19 AM
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If you're a quality male, its just how it is. I can have about anyone i want, and when you believe it you see it which reaffirms your belief. They cannot. They have to wait for a man to approach, they have to hope whereas we can improve, build, strike whenever. Dont be a bitter romantic, hoping gets you nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 05:08 AM
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We definitely have it better. I was talking to a girl last night who is very attractive and has a lot going for her, however in a town where women outnumber the men she can't get a single dude to grow a pair and approach her or really give a shit when there is so much to choose from. And because that's what a woman wants and to be selective about her men she will probably end up alone. Where as a high smv guy with standards can pretty much get whoever they want and approach all day long. Its lik…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 08:03 PM
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It was just a student, but unfortunately a lot of instructors lack this backbone too. But hell, so does most of society. I guess this is just what we have to live with, a blessing to have the knowledge but a curse in having to keep it like a secret. A world where people pretend things are different than they are. I saw an article today too arguing that breast attractiveness is socially conditioned. Maybe there is some truth to that, but arguing its not biological at all is some real garbage. My …
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:30 AM
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I concur, might be an unpopular opinion on TRP but i think this is far more accurate on getting to the true heart of the matter. The rest is still being bitter about a beta past. That switch is so hard for some, like an alcoholic deciding to social drink. Quality women dont want a selfish asshole boy, they want a man. And men can be kind and generous, it all depends on where its coming from.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 09:02 PM
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I'm getting so tired of seeing this shit floating around my facebook and in real life. To the point I'm about ready to be ostracized so I can get the satisfaction of calling out the bullshit. Had to listen to a gay butch girl discuss her issues on her art thesis today, "I was growing up being told how I should act as a woman, what feminine toys to play with." And I think oh poor you, suck it up you fucking piece of shit. If you're born abnormal, do abnormal things, you can't expect the world to …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 07:55 PM
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That came to mind, im just afraid in her current state she'd love it and id be in a bigger pickle. Shes been a FWB for 6-7 months, mostly because she lives within walking distance and she was seeing someone else.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:22 AM
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Not wanting to hang on at all, just don't want to cut ties in such a way she breaks my car windows or something.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 10:48 PM
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Yep. Its almost like girls are becoming feminist activist so they can weed out men from betas more than anything else.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 09:04 PM
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Ill add if you like watching girly shows like I do, own that shit. They need a confident man, doesnt matter the subject. Confidence is attractive and seductive. Since few have the answers youll gain a following by asserting you do. Thats what makes a leader, and you should lead. Girls love assertive men, and ive not met a single girl who doesnt love having their hair pulled during sex. Even if they say they dont. "What are you doing, this is mysognistic. Oh my god that feels good please keep fuc…
/r/askTRP21/03/15 10:27 PM
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If youre confident and self assured frame is you being you. That is it sticks, you dont change your opinions and ideals for some pretty girl because you want her and you dont change out of fear. Frame is you being your best solid rock. Know what you want and what you dont, and going for it.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 10:21 PM
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I say go everywhere and anywhere, talk to anyone you feel like talking to. Start treating girls like people instead of girls you can bang. Then all you're doing is being a social butterfly who gains experience and knowledge with each conversation. You might make a new female friend who thinks your ugly as shit but you see her out one day when you're getting involved in whatever business you felt like doing that day and she's got a friend with her. You also talk to that friend, and maybe you have…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:19 AM
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Who are you? What are your goals, standards, opinions, etc. That is your frame. No magical theory, its pretty simple. You dont change your ways for someone else, you fearlessly live how you want. All the theory comes from an organic stream based off genuine frame. Getting genuine frame is the focus. Thats thoughts, actions, understanding, experience. You need to be well rounded so work on that. The fact you think about this is really good, youre gonna be fine.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 02:05 AM
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Just be fun, entertaining. The things to keep in mind are acting on opportunities and being a sexual man. Guys dont realize how easy it is for people to tell when youre just being you and having genuine fun with respect of yourself...versus trying. You lead because you can. You lead because youre the one who should. You dont lead because you want them so much. Girls want to be wanted, just in the right way. Forget negs, playing hard to get, drop that garbage. You have to have the right mindset s…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 06:52 AM
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It does seem needy but it shouldnt be. Think of balancing your mindset to understand this lady will also be a chore. She might have an Std, she might be nuts, she might be a cheater. The reality is what will ease your mind. Approach like shes another human like the rest, youre just attracted to her and fully confident in that. Youre curious, hoping for the best and that she may meet your standards. In a sense approach like youre the one who should be cautious. Like buying a house, you want one b…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:40 PM
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Didnt take long after reading TRP. The benefit and what i was looking for was understanding the biology. I knew things but never digested I needed to be an asshole (an error some of you are still on and think your red pilling). I took control of my life, full responsibility. The world isnt fair, and were biology creatures. I learned to take my gender as a man and to be one, one who asserts himself and dominates. Ive always been alpha, just with bluepill tendencies in matters of love. Its not abo…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:54 PM
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No i just understand it better. Keep doing what youre doing, youll get laid sure but youre not gonna keep em being an asshole to comfort test. This is all over TRP, its in mansons models. Read a little more, get some more experience.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:11 PM
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Well you are just 18. Dont sweat it. I was 25 and had a similar situation of wasting my time. But as someone else said youre doing something wrong and my best guess is showing too much interest, catering, neediness. If your a man she wants you probably need to go out in public, a place to let her see you interact with others. Women want to be taken by a man, lose themselves, lose responsibility. Gotta be that guy. Theres a lot of things you probably need to do but polarizing more would help. Be …
/r/askTRP17/03/15 08:14 AM
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Not a shit test. Comfort test. She wants to know if youre gonna live with her. She misses you and is angry shes not getting what she wants so she bluffs an ultimatum. If you wanna keep her just respond to the zodiac. If youre tired of her keep saying cocky shit and being an asshole and she'll leave ya.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 07:07 AM
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To say it better your response was too specific. If thats her attitude she doesnt deserve your serious consideration or instruction. The difference is making a blow off comment versus a defensive one.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:20 AM
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Been there...the girls arent shit testing theyre just not interested. Sometimes girls do fall asleep. By joking about like you did you put her in a taking care of you frame. You dont die, youre a man. Men die and take it like a man, women have their dark responsibilities but a mans is to deal with his shit. Sounds small but life is comprised of the small. Conversations can be impressive, boring, or weird with just a few words. The response to the first still comes off beta. Alpha response is to …
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:12 AM
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This is why it makes it hard keeping women interested or around if you're not that interested, they know it every time unless you go through a lot of effort to pretend to be.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 06:03 AM
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That last line needs to be a lengthly post at TRP. I can't help but forget this when out with women. It's not what you say, or how logical it is, its simply how you make them feel. It sucks so much but my best attention from women comes when I'm completely happy and still strong of course. The moment you get upset about something with them they feel down and hate you for it. I should clarify though if it's something they're angry about because you weren't emotional or didn't say much, or stood u…
/r/askTRP15/03/15 06:01 AM
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Attracted or not. Both camps to a degree. Ive got lady friends who are pissed I havent gotten with them. If youre attracted to a female as a guy the only way you dont find them fuckable is if its off limits, or basically withholding. Its simple, but being friends deeply, intimately not so much...possible in strange scenarios
/r/askTRP15/03/15 05:24 AM
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Proof is often in the results. I know a lot of guys who are doing their best to agree with all things feminist and theyre not getting laid nor are they happy. If someone thought i was always right i wouldnt respect them very much, especially if they supposed to lead and be assertive.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 10:57 PM
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What part is there to play about a fat woman feeling wanted? I cant imagine anyone can orgasm if they feel insecure about their body. Im willing to bet if you told a fat chick just how sexy you thought she was, how you love her skin and form shed be more into it.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 10:34 PM
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Just be careful you dont come off like your magnetized. Its not easy but you have to let them come to you. They want to be wanted but not needed. Being passionate can come across as needy. It sounds strange but youll have better luck coming across as lustfully interested rather than lovingly. Ive had the same trouble, and thats what ive learned the hard way. They need an independent male, they want to join your life not make yours.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 10:06 PM
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Glad I could help. As great as sex is it comes at a price. It's not so much because I may have used them, but I don't feel good about it. I feel like I became a loser to sleep with a girl who is below my standards and that standard is a girl who is worthy as my partner. She and she only deserves my sex as a self respecting man. The torture is having a high libido and not getting control of myself. When it comes from that place it's not even like it's you. And I'm not one for religion, and this m…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:12 AM
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This is because it gives them the impression of a man. Give them the impression of a man without one. I've had a beard and gotten countless compliments from girls, but I've probably slept with more girls with a stubble. Unlike men, women don't care so much about looks as how you come across. They just like to see upfront indicators. A faulty source. Also take into account most women want older men when they're young over young boys. I can totally understand why they don't like to see a built cle…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 03:12 AM
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Thats all you, i got to 25 and hadnt slept around much worrying id regret as an old man. But thats a silly fear for a guy. After a couple years and slept around more the one night stands leave me feeling terrible. I have a very high libido but it doesnt feel worth it.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 02:57 AM
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From my experience its your desire in correct context. You want her badly but dont need her. Make your moves slow, steady, powerfully and they will give in. Youre just afraid you have something to lose. Think "im a respectable man, ill make a move and pay attention, if she responds great and if she doesnt who cares. You can try again and again as well, who cares. She has to believe you believe in yourself, its that power of confidence that reels them in. You seduce by arguing to them theyre wort…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:15 AM
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Most likely you may have come off as too needy. The arm around the girl is probably a bit much. Also she may have enjoyed your company and sexuality but doesnt consider you as a serious mate. This happens all the time, she could have loved the attention that night and then "well im not that into him"
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:07 AM
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Still*
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:02 AM
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I know these feels, but after a while you may find as i did that you can steal really enjoy who someone is...a girls kindness for instance now means more to me than will i find that deep passionate movie love. Love someone for who they are, and enjoy that you can spend your time with them and they you. Thats not fake. Whats fake is your expectations.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:02 AM
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What? Dude you guys sweat way too much small shit. This matters oh so little. I dominate move is not enough to turn the tide either way. Its more important to live and breathe it. This might sound nuts to some of you guys but the reality is if youre thinking about this youre probably coming off beta or try-hard alpha, neither of which are attractive. A girl told me the other day, "this dude was trying to neg me, this pick up crap where he thought he was gonna become more attractive with a backha…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 11:55 PM
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I feel like you're going to blow most advice off because being interesting is pretty god damn easy to acquire in the age of the internet. To be interesting be interested. The most interesting people I've ever met were interested in what I had to say and understanding it, they had great insights. The shit out your back window is interesting. Abbott Thayer, an american figurative painter is considered the father of modern camouflage because he was out in nature painting and he became aware of it's…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 08:41 PM
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Uh... maybe i'm shitstick but I make it known organically. If I want sex i'll be a sexual man who talks and walks like one. If I want a relationship I'll be a stable dude who communicates effectively and let things naturally progress. If I want a girl as a friend I'll tell her my problems.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 07:56 AM
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I only like to offer personal advice, helpful to maybe a small sliver of your problem. Id say work at improving all aspects of your life as much as possible that you know you have your shit together and you know nobody else could doubt it either. Believe and act to what you picture yourself being and you will eventually.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 07:49 AM
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I think he has probably already screwed it up. She ended up texting me later tonight in booty call hours and hasn't mentioned a single thing about him. For all I know they may not have even went out, i'm just trusting his word. As I see it this is the first girl to give him some nice feedback for a while and now he's overwhelmed. Deep down he thinks it's not going to happen so he's grasping and seeing me as part of the problem. Either way it's her or him that's upset, and if it's her I lose out …
/r/askTRP01/03/15 07:00 AM
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Yeah it's kind of a weird deal, I asked her to meet me for something simply out of her functionality and getting to know her. Then he immediately told me he was considering asking her out and jesting around like "oh it's no big, but I do like her". I just figured he had a crush until he approach me today about the whole deal. A lot of issues here. It's more of a school setting. If things do go well he'll have to deal with it. Hopefully he'd be happy for me. It's unlikely he's her best option, sh…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 06:54 AM
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Didn't know they had went out when I asked her out. She did two mini dates with him, you know a drink to talk. Im looking for advice but I guess hearing that some dude wants to ruin my chances for a girl because she likes me more than him seems like a bunch of bullshit. Seems way more immoral on his part actually. Undergraduates graduates work situation.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 04:29 AM
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Why is this a moral issue?
/r/askTRP01/03/15 03:16 AM
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Id advise just keeping away from girls that use things like tinder. As someone said inflated ego's, they think they deserve a magical prince that doesn't exist, at least not for them. Most of these girls are fucked up. And if they're fucked up you're gonna have to be fucked up to probably get anywhere. Or as it often is they can't get anywhere with any guys because of how they are. I know a girl who is very attractive who has an impossible view of her man, she also has self esteem issues. Nobody…
/r/askTRP28/02/15 09:31 PM
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Its all in why you're doing it, and or how she perceives it. If you're in an intelligent college town with intelligent classy girls, not doing those things is probably gonna turn them off. There is no shortage of selfish dudes out there who even have their 'shit' together. But as to the why's, if it's because that is what you do because you're a man with self respect who conducts himself in that manner because that is how you wish to be, than it's great. Same as being kind. Don't worry about fuc…
/r/askTRP28/02/15 09:20 PM
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I would say Picasso and Lucien Freud. Freud claimed you haven't dominated a woman til you've fucked her in the ass, would leave a male or female model to go bang a girl in the bathroom who had stopped by, then give himself a bath, then return to work with model still waiting. Picasso "Women are machines for suffering" Perhaps Bukowski belongs in here too.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 11:52 PM
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You're really quick to jump to conclusions. I said 'aligned', never said I was following it as I didn't even know of greene's book at the time. I think believing it yourself is the most important aspect, but that doesn't mean real value intrinsically exists. You very well could be a loser and think you're the greatest getting loads of pussy, you could be a millionaire because you scam the shit out of people but never put much work into anything. You can slave away at the perfection of a craft an…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 06:21 AM
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This post almost reads like a joke.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:59 AM
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Definitely agree. I'm a strange motherfucker so I know this all too well. Bad girls think I'm too innocent, good girls think i'm a womanizer and a jerk. Being easy going makes me appear flimsy though i'm not. My failure here is that I want to charm everyone, thereby rarely polarizing and rarely finding someone who really connects. That's the strongest part of my personality is being universal, but it's like the circle being the most unified but most uninteresting shape. But what can I really do …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:34 AM
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Seems like you're just looking to disagree. I said it aligned with Greene's Charismatic because it's a listed type of particular traits in the book, aligns less with the rake for instance. Not simply being charismatic. I think we all value that validation because all of us want to do what works. You'd be contradicting yourself to say being a homeless man is the problem if this wasn't the case. Because yes I agree, if you were a homeless man you'd have to be nuts to think you're of high value unl…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:19 AM
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Yeah but don't do it so overtly. It could be as simple as a serious half smiled command, "don't do that". Whatever it is you have to establish to him you don't take shit when the shit is real.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 05:48 PM
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It doesn't sound reasonable. People have all kinds of intentions and a lot of times they don't even understand the origin. But if he's power playing when you're nice then he might somehow be testing you, or he really doesn't like you. This may not be something to be understood. I remember throwing a fit about this dude I worked with for a while. I had moved to the area and was his superior in one trade by far, had even taught him in a class. Then I started working manual labor with him where he …
/r/askTRP20/02/15 07:39 AM
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Man I don't know exactly. I do know many of my guy friends who are angry or pretend to be angry about shit or are confrontational rarely turn people off. It really depends on the kind of angry, if it's a temper tantrum it's gonna be beta. Anger is somewhat an display of passion and drive, and that you don't give a shit what people think. And today when so many people are apathetic, or cynical, those qualities that once had some power to suggest someone of quality or intrigue has little effect an…
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:41 PM
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Interesting. I hate those kinds of situations. Sounds like one of those cases where you can't tell if a person is being playful or what. I find people often joke about what they're serious about, they just don't want to have to walk their talk or deal with the consequences. The ambiguity makes it tough for anyone. Perhaps the best thing you can do in this case is agree and amplify. "Yeah sounds like fun". Or pull one of my favorite tombstone lines when someone repeats something like that, "yeah …
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:23 PM
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Women who want attention, validation, insecure that they're just their looks, angry that men don't like them, or some other random issue being a feminist can be a conduit for. A couple feminists i've hooked up with have completely shaved their heads, and think they're doing something for women's empowerment. Some just say they are and go on with their life.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 05:39 AM
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You mean a sharp tongue? I have never heard of long tongue and can't find anything on this being a saying. I think there are many different types of alphas. I've known alphas who are clumsy as shit, in fact the two most important male leaders in my life have been men who bump and trip over shit all the time. I've known some who are the nicest guys i've ever met. And some who had all the traits of an alpha but never come off as one, without ever being able to put your finger on it. I've been one …
/r/askTRP19/02/15 05:31 AM
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Im depressed as shit most of the time anyway. So while TRP was an eye opener, it hasn't really made things better. I say this is partly because when I'm angry It appears I can bang whoever the hell I want to. Like a sex hulk. When I'm finally pissed and have no more time for bullshit and people anymore, panties drop left and right. But I'm very empathetic. I guess that makes me beta. I'll have empathy for someone I don't even know if they want my help, and stress over not turning them down harsh…
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:59 AM
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This is interesting, however common I know. I asked a girl out about 2 weeks ago and we got drinks. Then upon a second date, and i only texted for logistics, she sent me one back the day of canceling because she wanted to see where things were going with this other guy. I did however get a consolation prize of friendship and what not. It would be interested if our lives ever really connected up through TRP.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:45 AM
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There isn't much of a course of action. The thing with girls and orbiters is it's not something they need that bad, but it sure would be handy. I think normally if she is looking for another branch before she lets go of her current one she will express her unhappiness with her current relationship. I've fucked up a lot, I still do. And I suspect you may want to make things work and find some method to win it. Some of us like the struggle, others might be smarter and just keep playing the numbers…
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:37 AM
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This is actually how i used to live, the problem was i had no style, didn't work out, and wasn't smart enough to act on girls IOI which were by far so much more prevalent. Now that I'm in shape, have good muscle, and dress well girls look at me like I remind them of someone they hate. Isn't this all about what people think? Is that not what the entire base of TRP is resting on is minor to major relationships/interactions with women? Or is it better a path to narcissism where one dresses and work…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 06:05 PM
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I think the truth in this statement is similar to dread game...its just constant dread game. I think its very true. I have better luck with women who are hotter than me usually and i see this repeated everywhere. It can also partly be due to not wanting to be upstaged or have their appearance constantly devalued in the eyes of others and themselves.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 01:19 AM
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I saw a cute girl in the store today but immediately walking behind her i felt like a creep. From that point i couldnt get a good vibe to do anything but get my things to somehow prove my intentions there were strictly getting my stuff. Thats the honest experience, how do you approach friendly? I dont know why this is difficult, in the past i never had this problem.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 09:48 PM
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You make very good and helpful points, thanks.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 11:39 PM
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Yeah that's exactly what it seems to be. Good ideas. Thanks.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 09:01 PM
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I'm absolutely terrible with grocery store meeting. I can't seem to wrap my head around it. I normally go and get my goods, then leave. Like im on a serious mission. How do you approach in that situation? "I like your groceries, Hi i'm so and so.."? I Know manson has mentioned going over and saying straight up "Hi I came over because I think your attractive". It seems like it would come off weird or desperate without a reason like "oh I saw you buying those, these are better" or "oh I like that …
/r/askTRP31/01/15 08:57 PM
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You can find a picture of her in her submissions. I can't imagine how people have slept with 100 people period, that's just insane to me. But I do have a friend who told me her female friend slept with 30 guys in a semester, that seems like sleeping with at least a couple guys people per week. To be a woman.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 03:23 AM
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I dont have a sister. Mark mansons book models seems to argue against a lot of trp. Yet its often suggested here.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 10:22 PM
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Disagree, nawalt. One example and this is how all women are? I have plethora of examples that contradict. I love this sub but damn, how many of you are using confirmation bias to see it this way. Women value high status, perhaps if you really had that, truly, you could see more clearly. They may have said it, doesnt mean theyd follow through. If this is how all women are why consider a ltr with any of them? Arent you wasting your time?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 04:09 AM
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Good point, she does like to eat with me and wants me to see and know of her life.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 11:41 PM
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I think of brad pitts character in legends of the fall. Settles for a beta then later kills herself.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:03 PM
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This shit is all about where you live. In some places I lived I could hardly ever find a girl at a bar or dance club in a college city, in another it was a piece of cake. Just go everywhere, be everywhere. Women are everywhere.
/r/seduction09/01/15 07:30 AM
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Spot on. Recently 27, nice for a long time... dated a lot of beautiful women and it never fails. It has little to do with being a great guy who listens, is there and is faithful. And you may sleep with a lot of women being a nice guy, but rarely does a nice guy end up in a relationship that isn't a comfort of sorts. And by nice that is as OP said, not taking charge. And the sad part is this isn't necessarily a good thing. I know a girl who married a guy who wasn't right for her because she likes…
/r/seduction09/01/15 05:02 AM
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Yes I think partly we are of similar mindset here. I think it does appear that attractive women are always surrounded by options unless they're in seclusion, where as men don't seem to deal with this as much. Part of this I'm sure is that men are often the ones expected to approach. I've never gotten more attention when I've walked with great confidence and pretend that i don't see the attractive girls, they absolutely hate it. I think it's really dumb that I must pretend I don't see them or am …
/r/seduction05/07/14 07:38 AM
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Very true, I have been like that before but the problem there is in that mindset it has no flavor. I dated more girls when I wasn't really interested in dating girls and so none of it went anywhere and I didn't get to enjoy it. I'm fairly intense anyway, it seems like if I even halfway like someone they know it just by seeing my eyes and so I'd have to just start acting.
/r/seduction05/07/14 07:26 AM
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Damn, really good post.
/r/seduction04/07/14 11:34 PM
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Haha, god damn that bro. Great advice though, thank you very much, really.
/r/seduction04/07/14 08:38 PM
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Both of those sound good. I'd feel I'd make a fool of myself others, or worse create a image that i"m desperate by approaching so many women in a smallish area. I guess that table can turn if I can get my head on straight that its me looking for the women who meets my expectations, but then that also seems limiting.
/r/seduction04/07/14 08:32 PM
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I had a friend last night tell me as I was speaking to this very attractive girl I used to date.. "thats no good man". I can't really see that, unless I am to judge them on being attractive, it's hard for me to to see that they're bad news. I just see that they're incredibly interesting, maybe only because they have issues. I know probably not the best headspace right now, but it's nice to throw things up against the wall and see what all of you have to say on these matters.
/r/seduction04/07/14 08:28 PM
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See from my point of view, and maybe this is my problem, I can't see how I guy can fuck a great girl and not call them back. I can't fuck a girl unless I am really into her, or she doesn't say anything and i'm left to my imagination. Which in each case means I'll definitely be calling her back. Its as though we all intuitively know where things are going, and when a woman knows that guy's not going to stick around that's all they want. If he was she would probably be looking for a way to let him…
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:57 PM
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I've heard lesbians have it really rough, but at least there is something to designated places and the effort on both sides because of it being difficult. Two people who have searched some and think they've found something rare can make for a great match. I think arrogance is an issue that most people have no idea what they have until it's gone, yet that seems to be the method of getting it in the first place.
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:52 PM
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I'm not meeting girls who are telling me they're taken, they're just taken. Ive had girls hide their wedding rings in front of me, what am I supposed to do with that? Again, perhaps just my area but if you go out with an attractive girl it's like you've found gold to the eyes of loads and loads of single guys who are doing everything they can. I hate that feeling, but it seems to be that way everywhere I've been. Like there is some shortage. I mean can we sit here and really say the issue here i…
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:49 PM
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You don't really understand here. It's the guy's who think that's all they need, who send dick pics and say bra, bro. Sup Chief, etc. Boys. And these guys aren't even approaching really, they just get together in large groups and make rude comments to women. This is not some jealous thing, I hang out with guys who have girlfriends because I know I can learn from them. Not that guy with the hat on sideways who talks like he has a cold and plays first person shooters all day.
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:34 PM
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Yes well i mean above the 7.
/r/seduction04/07/14 05:08 PM
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Thanks for your response. Part of it is definitely area from my experiences. I think what i find rare is a lady that has the strength to hold out and wait for a great guy, who can try and test without settling for someone decent. There is that young age group who have been busy with studies, like myself and that early twenties is a great period, after that it seems harder in harder. I dont want to settle with one who has kids already, or baggage, or is a bad person and thats why they're still si…
/r/seduction04/07/14 04:59 PM
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Your reply has bro in it.
/r/seduction04/07/14 04:47 PM
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I think i figured some of it out. Based on intent of course. I think most guys look for sex first instead of friendship. Girls are probably looking for a partner first. Were just so afraid there wont be sex or that we will be seen as a platonic friend. However being a friend for the sake of sex or love is a bad mindset as you still wont be real. From now on im looking for a good partner. All this shit on here makes me afraid to ask a girl to go on a walk as though thats dangerous territory. Wher…
/r/seduction04/07/14 04:46 PM
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That would seem fine in the case of the guy not being so interested in the girl. In my personal case, I've happened to hit it off great with a girl once again, only to see that she's dealing with self esteem issues in general or because of her breakup. The problem there seems to be her timing, i'm healthy and ready to go... healthy in the general sense other than the impending fear that i'll wind up single at 50 because of my values and because of how rare it seems to be once you get past high s…
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:37 AM
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Would you like this done up right in photoshop so you can look at it in the morning while you whack off to yourself in the mirror? Wait.. would you like this recorded and read aloud by james earl jones so you can listen to it when you're feeling insecure? For someone so quick to judge someone on "bullshit assumptions" you've sure jumped to a staggering amount. If I were scientifically testing this? (what the fuck?) It's unlikely i'd feel the need to open a thread to hear jackasses like you tell …
/r/seduction04/04/14 09:27 PM
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No nothing wrong here, but damn it how many of us guys have been crushed by these situations. I think it's simply a matter of maturity and understanding that most things that seem to good to be true usually are. I'd love to tell this guy, "fuck yeah", but my gut tells me it's not gonna work out. So rather than build him up it would seem nicer to tell him to be careful and realistic.
/r/seduction04/04/14 06:14 AM
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Or she might have liked you all along and was waiting for you just to ask her, not necessarily waiting for you to talk hard and slam the you she's already accustomed to (which is probably who she wants to go out with).
/r/seduction04/04/14 06:09 AM
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I think it may be easier to get women that way, but keeping them not so much. Typically goal driven people plan, and so we often take less risks and live less spontaneously. If you're there you're not here. Some guys are here but not all women want that long term.
/r/seduction09/01/14 08:35 PM
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I'd say she's feeling vulnerable after a break up and sex takes focus off her pain while making her feel wanted. I think it's very possible to sleep with her, given you can convince her you are what she needs to get 'better'. Her texts when you ignore, leave her feeling worse. You're a friend, you're a safe attractive guy to use in this time of need. Most likely she will end up fucking someone, if not you. If you do fuck her, there's a very good chance this will ruin your friendship and she will…
/r/seduction05/01/14 07:37 AM
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I think it depends on your life philosophy.. I see no reason to fear life, we all die, it's all a big joke full of beautiful highs and experiences. The joke is that we take it so seriously. You should only fear if you're trying. Don't try, just be. I watched 3 or 4 guys look stupid today trying to walk across a coffee shop like they were cool... one ran into a chair, the other dropped his shades, and another looked like a monkey. Get a little ballsy, let go. The hardest part here is that this se…
/r/seduction04/01/14 01:52 AM
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