I eavesdrop more than I should. But I often overhear women expressing the same frustration, they may get a guy they like but he has no life plans or no goals. Happy just doing whatever comes his way.

I'm not gonna express my views on that, I follow a zen like approach more so but if you want to play the game of life with women who are locked in I think what better seduction technique than to have big goals and drive.

Even if you don't at first, pretend and act like you do and you might find yourself on that path. Maybe with a stable relationship and more women period.