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LTRNickCiufi/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 08:32 PM
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1

How, precisely, would your parents "suffer" by not living with you?
/r/askTRP27/12/15 04:45 PM
2

Has playing the guitar been mentioned?
/r/askTRP27/12/15 04:33 PM
2

It's important to keep in mind that you're at an age where hypergamy peaks. Interest in 20 year olds is high, so transactions occur at a frenetic pace. Women don't wise up until they hit 26+ and the action slows to a crawl. Good on you for not complying with the usual bandwagon of branch swingers. There are plenty of girls out there who are between boyfriends and looking to score. Stick to them and avoid the drama associated with OPP.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 10:12 PM
1

Law 21: Play a Sucker to Catch a Sucker - Seem Dumber than your Mark.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 10:01 PM
1

Tell "Insecurity isn't your style." She'll straighten up.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:30 PM
1

Hard next here brother.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 10:45 PM
1

I suppose I'll get in before delete / temp ban. I think what OP is trying to say is TRP is not some series of gym and career related hoops that we must jump through to get laid. Rather, it is essentially a recognition of the difference between what people SAY works in finding a desired relationship and what ACTUALLY works. Anyone who follows the rules without understanding the philosophy will still struggle with getting what they want out of relationships over the long-term. Now with that being …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 05:35 PM
5

Appreciate the link, WatchTower. These were a great read.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 05:30 AM
1

Is she hot? If so, what's the problem?
/r/askTRP18/12/15 05:42 PM
1

Secret option 3: I'll tell her the chick drugged you and took advantage of you. Seriously though, my estimation is that 6 months isn't enough time to know if you're serious about someone or not, which is probably why you fucked the other girl in the first place. Now that you want to be serious, you're paying the emotional toll for gambling and losing. If I were you, I'd tell the gf. If she's as wonderful as you say she is, she'll understand.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 03:57 PM
2

I don't even know who that is. So, beta.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 03:48 PM
2

One man's trauma is another man's moral compass. In either circumstance, OP doesn't want to deal with that uphill battle.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 01:41 AM
15

Completely agree with this statement. So long as guys are willing to take bad deals, we can't really complain about how bad the offers are.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 10:49 PM
2

May I suggest Denver? Easy to fly into geographically, and a population dramatically skewed towards younger professional males.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 10:39 PM
2

TRP is a philosophy which contains no misogynistic messages or ideals. However, most of the guys who come to TRP do so because, by their own standards, they are unhappy with their relationships with women. The reason they're here in the first place is often because their own personal brand of misogyny doesn't work and they want to replace it with something that does work. To accuse TRP of being misogynistic is to accuse every organization designed for improvement of committing every sin ever com…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 10:28 PM
1

Different scenario then. Still ask what their 5 year plan for the position is, and ask what someone successful in the position would be / have. Ignore the other industry-knowledge stuff.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 10:18 PM
2

She has clearly demonstrated morals or integrity at odds with your own. Hard next.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 07:35 PM
2

When they get to the "do you have any questions" segment of the interview, ask about the industry. Ask where they plan to be in 5 years. Ask about how they plan to differentiate from chief competitors (quick Google search will yield this information). Lastly, ask what characteristics or skills a person who will be successful in the position will have.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 07:31 PM
3

Couldn't have said this any better myself. People are biologically programmed to want to live so that they can pass on their genetic code. If you don't feel the same way, it's a good indicator that something is wrong with you chemically. Find a therapist and a good doctor and talk this through.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 07:29 PM
9

TheUltimateCad was referring to himself. "Cad" is his screen name. Other people can't spell.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 06:25 PM
2

I'd venture to guess that "natural alpha" means "girls have always liked him". This opposed to "girls didn't like him at one point, but then he got his shit together."
/r/askTRP17/12/15 06:17 AM
11

"In theory, there's no difference between 'in theory' and 'in practice'. In practice, there is." - Yogi Berra
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 05:36 PM
1

4x arm and chest shave 1x leg hair trim Back waxing until failure
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:23 PM
1

I would venture to guess that they think the same thing about him as they do about all super-wealthy old dudes. Namely, that they hate him unless they have a chance to bang him for a Mercedes.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:50 AM
2

Doesn't sound like it'll happen. Women that grow up in stable, two-parent households with loving, supportive, alpha fathers typically end up being pretty good at a lot of things, including having a happy marriage. We call them "unicorns" around here because there aren't many of them left, and the ones that are left run the very real risk of getting seduced by the cock carousel in their college years.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 03:27 PM
1

If you could go back, would you want to?
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:36 PM
1

Psycho bitch who needs negative attention from you to validate herself. Get legal advice, fight for 50/50 custody through the courts. Not sure if you're still taking prescription meds and / or drinking, but cut that shit out. She's a psychotic delusional nutjob who needs to make people hate her...it's not worth the reaction. Make sure your career / living situation are on lock so that when this goes to court you get 50/50.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:32 PM
16

Her attraction / interest are already dead brother. She won't go out solo with you, she blows you off at a get-together...you're already toast. Soft next, ignore the shit out of her and if she comes back, give her an insane amount of grief for flaking on you.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:27 PM
-7

Hard next. Girls like these are trying to rope you into a relationship with constant comfort tests. Clearly you have different objectives in the relationship, and now that she's overly attached your best bet is to NEXT.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:25 PM
1

Put your headphones in. If she delegates work, tell her that you're sorry to hear that her legs are broken, since the only reason a person in a lateral position would direct you is because they suffered such a tragic injury. Then smile at her and go back to your job.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:20 PM
6

It's admirable that you spend so much time working on self-improvement, but keep in mind that the body and mind both need adequate rest. My first recommendation is to grab a beer and watch a ballgame. However, since you're not a big fan of "consuming", perhaps a nice fishing trip would offer some much-needed R&R.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:19 PM
1

If I were in your position, I would strongly consider MGTOW until you move cities again. I live in a city with a similar setup (albeit in the U.S.) and the amount of effort needed to woo even an average woman is just not worth the return.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:16 PM
3

However they must realise they've taken away a mans primary value, setting the bar extremely high for her potential partners. I don't believe a man's primary value is as a provider. I also don't believe that there would be a lot of agreement with that statement in terms of Red Pill theory, given the slippery slope from "good provider" to "beta bucks". In my opinion, the primary value provided by a man is leadership.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 03:12 PM
6

I wonder if the origin of this article is "guy can't get laid by being nice, so he tells women to go for nice guys instead of giving them what they actually want."
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:37 PM
116

Although it's not relevant now, 32 years ago it was a pretty sweet arrangement. Can't fault the guy for getting in while the getting was good, but the market is a lot different these days.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:35 PM
2

Quick take: there are some holes in your game that need ironing out. The relationship is easily salvageable, but you'll need to brush up a couple of things: Her friends were utterly useless bitches and couldn't even be bothered to pick her up until noon the next day because they were too busy slutting it up. By depending on her obviously-worthless friends to come and get her, you're making the same mistake that your girl is making. Namely, thinking that irresponsible people give a shit about her…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 10:26 PM
3

My initial thought is that you still have some latent unhappiness related to something else that's manifesting itself in your more shallow interactions with society (media, roads and so forth). If that's the case, beer and bowling with some buddies might be helpful to not feel so pissed about it.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 10:18 PM
1

I think OP's "other daughter" comment implies that crazy isn't blood related. Confusing, but I got the gist of it.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:10 PM
1

Great statement. Personal rant: I get sick of the constant dead horse beating regarding LTRs. The goal of any TRP man should be to be happy. Sometimes you're happy in a LTR. Sometimes a LTR sucks and being happy means ending it. Either way, TRP men do what they want and don't have hard and fast rules against stuff. We would all do well to remember that.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 03:52 PM
3

As I was reading this article, I heard my next door neighbor repeatedly yelling "NO" at her age 10-ish son. If we don't practice good parenting, no one else will. Great read, brother.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 03:32 PM
3

Nice job, kid. Now hit the showers and get back out there.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 05:24 AM
5

If the world were full of Red Pill Women, there would be no need for TRP.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:03 AM
6

It's a much smarter play than any alternatives. Technically you could get up to leave, but that fails the comfort test. Better to stay there, but do your own thing.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 10:27 PM
2

I think the answer to this question lies in knowing the balance between shit tests and comfort tests. More often than not, you have to be a jerk to pass a shit test. However, if all you're doing is being a jerk, you're probably failing comfort tests left and right, and branch swings are inevitable. If you're trying to keep the hopper going, you really have to tiptoe the line between "jerk" and "I might care about you someday".
/r/askTRP03/12/15 07:24 PM
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ROUND 1 Basic Question 1: ”Are you a player?” That depends. Is a "player" someone who always gets what he wants? If so, then yes." Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” If you had a line as good as that, you'd say it to everyone too. Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” I lost my teddy bear earlier and now I don't know who to sleep with. Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” Only the ones who thought I was cute. I lost track after 1000. Question 5: ”Ar…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 05:18 PM
1

This is the completely correct response.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 09:52 PM
1

"Not interested - I have plenty of friends. Good luck in the future."
/r/askTRP02/12/15 09:51 PM
0

Your friends sound lame.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 11:49 PM
1

You have a small dick, and we all know it. Good, I'm glad you guys all found out so we can start to talk about the real issues. Like why men with small dicks make the best lovers.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 11:27 PM
6

Basically. Try to be witty or highbrow about it. When in doubt, agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 01:15 AM
1

I legitimately expected way more dissonance. In situations such as these, the general opinion seems to be "FUCK HER DUMP HER" without even considering other alternatives. Things have seemed more hostile than normal in the last month or two.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:41 PM
1

This is the correct post.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:13 PM
2

I meant "just" in the context of "if for no other reason than".
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:10 PM
32

Bracing myself for downvote oblivion, but here's the deal, bro: She's not marriage material. She's only ashamed of what she did because you don't agree with her choices and because you confronted her about it. Believing anything else is just agreeing with the hamster. With that said, very few women are actually marriage material, just because of how fucked divorce and custody laws are. If your only concern in life is having kids as soon as possible and you see any time that you spend with her as…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 03:19 AM
2

John 13 is in disagreement with this statement, as mentioned to our friend BluePillProfessor.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 01:15 AM
1

John 13 would disagree with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 01:15 AM
4

I think we're splitting hairs here, but Jesus humbled himself to death on a cross. That's a pretty good picture of submission.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 10:23 PM
6

Two thoughts: Reading your post brought the words of C.S. Lewis to mind: "Christianity, if false, is of no importance, and if true, of infinite importance. The only thing it cannot be is moderately important." At the risk of sounding blasphemous, I'd say that this is the closest parallel to your "you cannot be partially redpill" statement. TRP, much like Christianity, is an all-or-nothing proposition. I think that a lot of the subject matter that TRP harps on does find its nature in being assert…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 09:06 PM
1

I forgot to mention Denver.org/events. Lots of cool stuff to do on the weekends.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 06:00 PM
1

How would you cold-approach a chick? It's no less awkward, if you think about it.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 05:59 PM
3

Hit up the bars downtown or grab tickets to an Avs game. Lots of bros in both scenarios.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 04:52 AM
2

Stopped by to say that this was an incredibly insightful and positive post. I'll be looking into Grant Cardone as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 10:00 PM
1

Does anyone even know who this guy is? What a no-name.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 06:08 PM
52

Too bad you believe in astrology. My last girlfriend did that and she was crazy.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 05:38 PM
1

I tend to lean Liberal on most political issues. You see a lot of Conservative RPers because people who have stuff tend to not want to share it involuntarily, which is a hallmark of most liberal politicians.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 03:05 AM
2

I'd really be interested to see some studies regarding likelihood of cheating and parental involvement. I have a strong hunch that we could scientifically verify everything you guys are saying.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 03:30 PM
-5

Funny story. I ran out of firewood one day, and...
/r/askTRP06/10/15 02:57 AM
2

Just drink soda or whatever. If anyone asks, tell them someone has to stay sober to talk to the cops.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 04:51 PM
2

Shit tests are about the same. You get a lot more comfort tests though.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 04:22 PM
6

Came here to say this. You're not a victim.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 01:22 PM
0

Anyone can make money. You work for a prestigious company because the money will come later.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:08 PM
1

Religious beliefs.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 12:24 AM
2

Non-denominational Christian here. There's a decent number of us over on marriedredpill.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 07:54 PM
2

I hate that stuff man. Some people just suck at cutting the cord.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 03:41 PM
1

Church-goer here. In my experience, women who make a big deal about their man going to church feel some level of social pressure to have a "godly" marriage. Usually they get this stuff from the pastor or other married people in attendance at the church. I don't think it's much of a stretch to call that a comfort test. It might be worth reminding your wife that, as Billy Sunday said, going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than going to a garage makes you an automobile.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 02:55 PM
1

Fill out a "motion for phone number" and send it to her.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 11:57 PM
3

As long as guys are shelling out the cash, this is going to happen. Kudos to these ladies for being smart about who they offer their sexual prowess to.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 03:59 PM
0

You should respond with: "Wow, he's cute! Did you hit that?"
/r/askTRP01/08/15 01:58 PM
2

I made the list! Someone help me put this on my resumé.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:09 PM
3

You deal with it the best way that you can - you internalize your feelings and channel them as motivation for improving your life. As much as we would like to imagine that there are such things as unconditional love, respect, and loyalty, they're so rare that, even if they do exist, they take many years to discover and cultivate. You're better off just knowing that 99.999% of the world isn't that way, and accepting what you CAN have instead of worrying about what you can't. Here are some relevan…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 02:53 PM
3

The Red Pill should be a place where we advance and optimize a shared sexual strategy of selective (or no) commitment by increasing male Sexual Market Value. I'm of the opinion that all posts not directly related to that goal (in this case, topics discussing the guilt or innocence of Mr. Pudding Pop) should be removed anyway, as they only exist as divisive topics, and don't further our agenda.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 02:47 PM
1

In any circumstance, people only screw you if you let them. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being the stronger person by helping others.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 04:58 PM
2

My personal advice is as follows: The 3 most important things in life are hard work, loyalty, and empathy. Put all of your time and effort into building and fostering these three traits. Working hard isn't enough to have success in your career. You need to work hard in a specific direction. Take a career aptitude test and find a high-paying job that suits your natural talents. Once you've picked a path, start working towards the end game, one step at a time, making sure to avoid any life-crippli…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 03:39 PM
-1

How dare we believe that women have their own strategy for dating, and then try to form a strategy of our own in response? What a bunch of assholes.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 10:06 PM
1

They only ban subreddits that they disagree with.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 09:04 PM
1

She seems pretty cool. You think she'd be my friend if I left her a business card?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 02:21 PM
-7

Abort. She's obviously into SMV and not you personally.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 06:03 PM
16

Maybe once the Chairman resigned, the Reddit gestapo lost their authority.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:06 AM
1

"I think you should go for it. Wait, he's rich, right?"
/r/askTRP09/07/15 06:00 PM
5

Bracing myself for downvote oblivion, but I think I can at least explain divorce laws in a way that makes sense. Kobe's wife is hot. We all know that. We also know that she basically sold Kobe exclusive access to her youth (she was 19 when she got married), her fidelity, and her genetics (they have two kids together). Now normally, these things wouldn't be worth $180m or whatever crazy settlement she was asking for. However, there's an inherent opportunity cost associated with those sales - Kobe…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 06:09 PM
1

It's more that she even wants to go in the first place.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 03:49 PM
3

It's not the media that makes people grab for power. It's their own crooked nature.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 05:41 PM
9

Dump her. There's no need for Dread Game if you dump her, and Dread Game right before she gets into the perceived pool of hookups won't work anyway, since she'll have an abundance mindset. Dread is only a recipe for "making" her do some stupid nonsense and then throwing it back in your face. No chance of plating. End the relationship. Relationship is over. Best to end it on amicable terms now before she does something stupid and you end up taking a hard line and breaking frame.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 05:40 PM
-4

"I can't pinterest any more lesson plan ideas and baby stuff right now." Is usually a good time to do some housework or cooking. Glad to hear that this chick wants to do all the fun stuff that comes with having a baby but complains about doing the work that comes with having a husband.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 07:06 PM
2

"Only for that guy. Look at his ass in those jeans!"
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 01:33 AM
4

And for the love of God, use reliable forms of birth control.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:14 AM
7

She probably wanted it banned because she's too computer-illiterate to set it up properly.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:10 AM
0

Getting married is for suckers.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 06:56 PM
12

Laugh, tell her he's cute and she should make the first move.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 11:43 AM
2

Not to be a dick or anything, but you should seriously consider filing for divorce. Check your state laws regarding sexless marriage as grounds for a split. It sounds like she's only interested in her own needs and doesn't care about yours, which is indicator #1 that you need to get out as quickly and painlessly as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 11:41 AM
1

Sorry to hear about you losing your turn brother. Stay strong until the next one comes along. Oh, and you're in America now. Drop the U from behavior.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 12:00 AM
2

Dump her. That's a horrible deal. If she wants marriage on her terms, let her get it from somebody else.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 12:53 AM
-11

Oh, never mind then. I wouldn't want to ruin your ass' reputation by looking at it prematurely.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 12:50 AM
6

Came here to say this. It sounds like you need to beat her to the punch.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:32 PM
7

She was never yours, it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 03:44 PM
1

DDPYoga is a great beginner's program. Follow the first two steps of his dietary program and get lifting within 60 days of starting.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 03:06 PM
2

"Or something."
/r/askTRP06/06/15 11:17 PM
2

I'm calling you a troll because your business makes you more money than modeling ever would, but it'll take you 20 years to be a multi-millionaire.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 02:12 PM
4

I'm calling troll. If this is a real post, saying they have a boyfriend is a shit test. Just say something to the effect of "good for you! It's hard to find a good man these days." She'll get the point.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 02:06 PM
1

TRP exists to help men improve their SMV, and AskTRP exists to offer answers to commonly asked questions, in an effort to assist other men in increasing their SMV. Neither of those efforts are (or should be) age intensive, unless age is relevant to the question (e.g. How old should I be before I start lifting? My LTR is older than me, does that matter? Etc).
/r/askTRP30/05/15 05:19 PM
-1

Agree and amplify the things she says, making them seem intentionally ridiculous.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:44 AM
1

I have a group of 5 other friends, two of whom are red and three of whom are blue. My recommendation is to just leave women talk alone. Good friends are hard to come by, even if they have no understanding of relationship dynamics. With that said, I also live in Denver. If you ever get tired of the blue pill brigade, shoot me a PM and we can go grab a beer.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 08:33 PM
3

Beginners don't usually have 5m in assets.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 03:12 PM
5

This is why it's wise to follow the advice of Professor West and get a prenup.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 03:12 PM
2

Glad to read this. Your dad sounds awesome.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 04:15 PM
1

My dad is a gambling addict who works a menial job and treats my mother like shit. I have very little respect for him.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 04:05 PM
1

Great story. Appreciate the quality contributions.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 04:57 PM
2

Start a business. Books have a super super low success rate.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 11:35 PM
1

Check out DDP Yoga man. Highly recommend it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 09:17 PM
5

Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 04:27 PM
8

it is now being steered by the mob and watered down—or outright trolled—by entryists who are blue pill. Completely agree. However, maybe the solution is more mods and not a "council of elders".
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 04:21 PM
2

Came here to say that you shouldn't wife a geologist, either. They're usually broke.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 07:51 PM
1

What's your field and geographic location? Odds are, there's one skill you could pick up that would double your income.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 07:44 PM
3

I'll give you the best advice I've ever gotten: "Just because most people are blind to their hearts, don't let it make you blind to yours." Being kind isn't a weakness, it's a strength. Most people don't have it because it's harder than being a protective asshole.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 02:02 PM
4

I'd love for a feminist to explain that logic to me. I'd simply reply that there's a significant disproportion of male-to-female porn stars, and that we should focus on attention on putting quotas in porn.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:37 PM
3

You can also ensure your freedom to quit by having a minimum of six months' salary saved. Some serious gender discrimination nonsense went down between two team members at my last job, and I was able to quickly cut ties and move on before taking the time to line something else up because of savings. 95% of people in the US plan their finances 2 paychecks in advance. That's the kind of thinking that will cripple your options and force you to find another gig before quitting.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:35 PM
23

Columbia promises punishment for "retaliation". They could have made a statement by refusing to let her graduate, but they didn't have the balls. I hope this guy gets an eight-figure check for the nonsense that this college put him through.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 03:01 PM
0

There's a reason. Namely, that she's asking because she feels unimportant. It's a way to agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 08:44 PM
-3

Tell her "something more important than you".
/r/askTRP19/05/15 08:11 PM
3

Hooking up with chicks that don't want to cheat is a good way to get yourself accused of rape. I'd hard next.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 08:10 PM
0

Quality post. It's definitely worth mentioning that having personal standards doesn't equate to being beta.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 08:43 PM
1

Looks don't matter in a LTR. If she takes good care of you and will be a good mother, lock it down.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 12:47 AM
3

"I won't fuck you". Not with THAT attitude, you won't.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:44 PM
3

Great post, brother. My parents are both gambling addicts that I cut out of my life ~4 years ago, so this really hits close to home.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 12:16 AM
1

Agree and amplify. "Yeah it was. It was almost as good for me as it was for you." ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 02:04 PM
1

Do you guys live in Denver? If so, I'll come talk to him.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 01:47 PM
16

"Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes in the hope of pulling out an eel." - Leonardo Da Vinci
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 03:05 PM
2

Artificially increases the SMV of women due to the disparity in numbers. Day game / night game are clearly better options.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 12:07 AM
2

Tell him to talk to a lawyer and get a pre-nup. Make sure he knows that you love him and support his decision, but 60% of couples under the age of 25 end in divorce. If they're happy for the rest of their lives, then a pre-nup won't matter. If they get divorced, it'll cover his ass.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 12:04 AM
3

From what you say, it sounds like your biggest problem is trying too hard. Next time she says no, say "ok. Then I'm going to the gym. See you in the morning." Then grab your gym clothes, keys and get the hell out of there.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 01:15 PM
4

Man, that "dad bod" thing is really making the rounds.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 08:25 PM
1

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/SMART_criteria
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 01:20 PM
1

Christian here. Can confirm.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 01:17 PM
2

She's an addict, brother. Not in her right mind and that little hamster will keep on spinning if it means she can keep drinking with no consequences. Sometimes doing the right thing totally sucks, but you still have to do it. Stay strong brother - you're making a good decision.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 01:07 PM
46

I married a RP woman at the courthouse, but participated in a small ceremony about 6 months after marriage, mostly for her friends and family. We both laughed through the ridiculousness of the whole arrangement. Virtually everyone at the wedding had such a beta attitude towards marriage; We almost got booed just for not shoving cake into each others' faces like bitter adversaries! In between events, I had random people whom I had only met very briefly coming up to me, giving me all of the beta s…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 12:39 PM
13

A real alpha defines his own success instead of living up to someone else's internet standards.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 12:28 PM
1

Spending money on a date isn't blue-pill. Spending money TO GET dates is absolutely blue-pill.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 03:31 PM
36

Just think: if 1% of all divorce settlements went to Vasalgel funding, they'd be fully funded in less than a week.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:48 PM
1

PM me a copy of your resume. Odds are, you don't jump off of the page, but I can help fix that.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 04:26 PM
1

At the risk of getting flamed with AWALTs, there are a few women in America who make red pill decisions, usually for religious reasons. Those women make great first mates.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 01:32 PM
5

Sure did. And I'm living the dream.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:14 AM
16

Think about your kids, brother. If one of them says "I want to eat candy for dinner", do you respond by saying "sure, because your need is obviously for candy."? Or do you respond by saying "You think you need candy because it tastes good. But it has next to zero nutritional value, and what you REALLY need is a healthy, balanced meal."? Marriage is a lot like that. Your woman will tell you she "needs" this or that. It's your job to ignore that nonsense and give her what she ACTUALLY needs.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:05 PM
2

Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 06:53 PM
1

Been attending church for ~13 years now. The advice for single people is almost always impractical "Be more in love with Jesus and she'll want you" stuff. Remember Hanlon's Razor - it's not that they're mal-intentioned, it's just that they don't know any better. When I'm asked how to "fix" being single, I tell people to work on their weaknesses, not their faith. Jesus is great, but for every girl who appreciates you for loving Jesus, there are 100 more who will appreciate you for having washboar…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 12:42 PM
1

Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 09:35 PM
3

It actually might be a good idea to give them the choice. Either he can be in it, or neither of them can be in it.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 09:44 PM
1

Agree and amplify. It's the simplest knee-jerk reaction.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 08:51 PM
2

She's desperate for approval and will invariably end up doing something stupid or illogical to get it. Hard next.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 02:08 PM
6

Google stronglifts 5x5. If it still doesn't make sense, shell out a few hundred for 10-12 sessions with a personal trainer.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 03:16 AM
6

Where do you live? RNs make close to 80k here in Denver.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 08:55 PM
0

There's nothing wrong with being conservative. What's wrong are the constant attempts to cut taxes for the wealthy.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 11:48 PM
46

"Sucking at something is the first step towards being sorta good at something." - Jake the Dog
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 03:13 PM
4

The kiss of death. I hate when good potential is ruined like that.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 02:13 AM
4

Also remembering that the world isn't an even split of 50% male 50% female. You have to account for children too. I'd say top 98% is a pretty reasonable estimate.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 02:09 AM
3

Take the 40k you'd spend on a car and put it down on a property that you can rent out for money every month. Cars are liabilities. Focus on assets.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 02:02 PM
1

5'10, no lifts.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 02:01 PM
2

She's trying to trap you. Dump her.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 02:00 PM
3

Sounds like an attempted branch swing to me. I'd hard next.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 01:59 PM
1

My favorite television episode of all time. Especially the part where he tells off Steinbrenner.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:34 AM
1

Gftow.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 01:23 AM
3

Damn, you totally got me. I was halfway towards flaming your post before I saw the j/k.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 06:35 PM
2

Absolutely this.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 02:45 PM
1

Seriously man, kids today wear some weird ass clothes.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 04:08 AM
3

There's actually a really cool word for this: propinquity.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 04:02 AM
2

Upvote for quoting the brother Kanye.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 03:57 AM
1

Be civil, pick a time that's convenient for both of you and go get your stuff. Let bygones be bygones about the past - get your clothes and move on with your life brother.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 05:28 PM
3

Salt of the earth, those broads. We should co-host a fundraiser sometime.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 04:09 PM
6

Next time, do it in the other order. "I was planning on cooking at home tonight, but I could be convinced otherwise. Who's going?"
/r/askTRP11/04/15 06:36 PM
2

Came here to say this. At any point where you know that your behavior is irrational, but you "can't help it", that's a good indicator that therapy is your best solution.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 01:37 PM
1

Make sure that she has a separate attorney that looks over the agreement as well. This prevents the "signed under duress or without full mental capacity" arguments which are frequently used to try to get a pre-nup tossed. Disclose EVERY asset. All of them. Don't try to hide anything at all. If you do, they'll toss the whole thing out and you'll be stepping over the dollar to pick up the dime.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 01:32 PM
1

I'd never hate on a guy for his choices in women. Just don't get her pregnant and don't get oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:29 PM
4

Before some idiot asks me why I'm fucking a 38 year old 6/10, I'll explain. I have three basic qualities that affect who I'm willing to fuck. They are in no particular order: her attractiveness, her age, and her willingness to fuck. If one or two is low and the others are high, I'm in. I.e. if she's young and hot, but not willing to fuck, I try harder. If she's older and mediocre, but super willing to fuck, I fuck without putting in effort. If she's young and willing to fuck, but not that attrac…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:26 PM
1

"Sucking at something is the first step towards being sorta good at something." - Jake the Dog We've all flamed out on a date before, my young bro. Keep on trucking.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 07:28 PM
1

The fact that you see 50-100 girls means that your struggle isn't against abundance mentality. And having high standards is absolutely a good thing. My advice is to just enjoy the single lifestyle, and open sets when a girl seems like she's worth your time. As a pastor of mine once said: better no dog than a dead dog.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 02:42 PM
3

I would just next her outright. Women that try to establish the rules aren't my thing.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 01:36 PM
1

I dream of a day where every man is redpill.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 01:33 PM
2

Any chance you're in Denver? If so, let's grab a beer.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 01:03 PM
13

When in doubt, agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 02:43 PM
1

Dangling participle.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 12:54 AM
1

First of all, you'll have to choose. Do you want to get the girl, or do you want to keep your existing boyfriend?
/r/askTRP27/03/15 12:46 AM
1

Just remember: There are thousands of them out there who are younger and prettier with bigger tits.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 02:00 PM
1

What's your major? There might be some good tangential subjects to study that have career implications.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 04:31 AM
0

Matthew 19:8-12 NIV Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.” Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. For there are eunuchs wh…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 12:09 AM
0

Agree and amplify. "Good call. Make sure you walk to the bar where we're meeting. You know, since you want to see if we get along outside of technology."
/r/askTRP21/03/15 03:39 PM
2

Radio silence for 2-3 days. See if she comes looking for you after that.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 03:17 AM
13

I'm in a happily-monogamous marriage where sex is frequent. I also have no hairs on my neck. Where is your social justice now?!
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 03:16 PM
1

Add "religious or spiritual beliefs" to the list.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 11:14 PM
3

Signed. This is McCarthyist bullshit set in motion.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 10:58 PM
0

I'd probably just make a joke about it. "I'm going out with what's his face tonight." "Alright, but if you stay out past 11 I'll just assume you're fucking him and I'll go to sleep, so the door will be locked."
/r/askTRP19/03/15 01:13 AM
1

Came here to say this.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 02:02 PM
1

Click the Settings button, then click the Deactivate Account button. Online dating is a women's game. Meet girls in the real world, where it's a man's game.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 02:00 PM
1

Threatening to leave is a bitch move. Just ignore her for a few weeks. Treat her like your roommate. Hit the gym after work, grab a beer with a buddy, watch some March Madness, read a book, climb a tree...anything you've ever wanted to do, do it now. Show her that life goes on without her. The respect will come back.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:03 PM
1

Re-frame the way you think. She can't stay over tonight, because you're busy. Maybe in a couple of days, if you're free, she can stay over or she can stay home. You don't care. You're too busy pursuing your lifelong dream of (fill in your dream) to be caught up in small stuff like that. By advancing the sex conversation, she thinks you need her. Show her that you'd like to have her, but if she doesn't act right, there's a line around the block for girls who will.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:53 PM
2

In my own personal opinion, continually asking for it / escalating makes you look like you can't control yourself, which makes you appear weak. You also run the risk of her giving it up, regretting it and claiming rape. I'd go the opposite route and avoid the shit out of any sexual topic or situation. After about a week, she'll get self-conscious and let her guard down about her hangups. Listen to what she's telling you with your mouth shut. No giving advice or trying to console her, just noddin…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:30 PM
3

Happiness is a very vague concept, in general. There's a reason the American founding fathers believed in the right to the PURSUIT of happiness - it's not often found where you would expect.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:39 PM
26

If all you're after is sex, hard next this girl. Trying to escalate too rapidly can only end in disaster.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:34 PM
1

Call girl #2, see what she's doing.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:25 AM
2

When in doubt, agree and amplify. "You're so young!" I know. You better take advantage of me quick before my mom finds out.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:17 AM
1

Banging a hottie raises your standards, which only helps your abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:14 AM
1

I really enjoyed shooting hoops in college.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:10 AM
1

Pick up a copy of either Starting Strength or Stronglift's 5x5. Well worth it.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:09 AM
1

Check out reddit.com/r/fragrance for a solid FAQ regarding colognes.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:06 AM
2

It's rare, but possible. The trick is to go away for a lengthy period of time, but come back with your previously solid frame and some new novelty, such as bigger muscles or more money. This used to be referred to as a "Gatsby", but I'm sure you kids have renamed it by now.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:04 AM
2

Next dude. She's not into you.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:01 AM
3

Came here to say this.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:59 AM
2

When in doubt, agree and amplify. "You really need to shave." Yeah, you're probably right. It's getting a lot harder to find modeling gigs. "You'll probably get fired the first day you get your job." Yeah, that's true. I guess I could always go back to stripping. "You only have 200 Instagram followers?" I know. I really need to start posting more naked mirror selfies. "You wish you can get with me." I do, but I guess I'll just have to find someone with a good attitude instead. "You're not funny …
/r/askTRP16/03/15 01:48 PM
12

Let's not compare dumb sluts to awesome baseball legends like Yogi Berra. OP: There's no such thing as a unicorn, but there are women out there who get tired of the cock carousel after 1 or 2 spins. Look for one of those.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:34 PM
2

Came here to say this. Stay strong brother.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 02:05 AM
1

"Sucking at something is the first step towards being sorta good at something." - Jake the Dog
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 05:43 PM
7

I'll never be the same. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 01:14 AM
33

Pro-tip: Buy assets with your high wage, not liabilities.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 02:48 PM
3

I was actually just curious, because it seems like a lot of the rationale behind "never get married" is related to the financial aspects. Besides, I married poor anyway.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:30 AM
2

Which is still better than paying for them to raise their retarded, jail-bound single mother offspring. Women aren't even responsible for getting pregnant anymore. Unbelievable.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 07:31 PM
1

Fantastic series. I'd say that those with religious beliefs about marriage should uphold those, and I'm sure there's some one-in-a-million chance that a supremely wealthy woman wants to marry a guy and offers him a significant divorce settlement. Failing that, it would be wise for all men to take your advice. As a friend of mine used to say: "There are exceptions, but you're not one of them."
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:18 PM
1

Is anyone else terrified at the prospect of 1 million additional women drivers on the road?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 05:14 AM
3

Does marrying a rich woman fall into the categorization of "not good for you"?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 05:11 AM
1

Of course men are more narcissistic than women. We're also taller and better looking.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 08:05 AM
7

Agree and amplify. "Oh definitely. I'm way too average for a long-term relationship. I'll just have to keep having sex on the side."
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 02:55 PM
11

Not to mention the fact that anyone who would take out ~200k in debt without it getting them huge earnings in return is probably just bad at making important decisions, which is a definite deal-breaker in a marriage.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 06:08 AM
3

It's actually the opposite. Dick'll make you slap somebody.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 04:02 PM
3

And fuck any of you righteous motherfuckers who think they’re not responsible to help educate and assist new members. If you’ve gained any insight or help from TRP at all, you owe it to new members to help them with the same. Couldn't have said it any better myself. In all walks of life (and not just TRP), many, many people have been patient with us as we develop and grow. We must provide the patience that those before us had to those in front of us.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:47 PM
3

You straight up destroyed that guy. The last paragraph was the best part.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:57 PM
1

Hard NEXT.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 02:57 PM
2

I live in Colorado man. There's no women here - just a lot of dudes that work on computers.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 10:29 PM
6

I'd say the only critical failing of his analysis is that he makes a key assumption that all women are the same, regardless of age. I'm pretty sure the hot-to-hag ratio is way higher in earlier age groups.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 04:50 PM
1

If it only takes owning a motorcycle to get a girl to let you ejaculate on her face, then maybe that's not a challenge worthy enough of your time. congratulations on not getting her pregnant though.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:50 PM
6

30 years old, and 7-9 years experience.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 09:31 PM
5

In my experience, a woman will always remain "in love" (faithful, sexual, respectful, submissive, and happy) as long as she perceives your value (frequently referred to as SMV) to be higher than hers. This is the way she "keeps" you - by treating you the way you want to be treated. There are two factors that can ruin the feelings of "love" that she has for you. One is higher value from another competing male, and the other is reduction of your value / increasing of her value to the point that yo…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:39 PM
1

Every 2016 presidential candidate is washed-up garbage, Hilary included. The only one of them who even resembles a decent human being is Jindal, and there's no way on earth someone with the name Jindal is winning an election after the 8 years of anti-islam bullshit we've dealt with in this country.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:04 PM
-1

You should be friends with this guy. As soon as the waitress does something stupid, he's going to dump her and you could scoop him up as your wingman.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:57 PM
4

By legal definition, you're probably right. Custody is awarded to women more often than it's awarded to men, and you can't "abduct" a kid if you have custody of them. That said, I know a guy whose wife has custody and took his son 1200 miles away, effectively taking away any convenient chance he has of seeing his son. Perfectly legal and not technically an abduction, but the end result is essentially the same.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:51 PM
2

If she would sleep with you while she has a boyfriend, she'd sleep with someone else while you were her boyfriend. You made the right decision OP, you just made it too late. I know a few guys who have married women from other countries. It's a giant pain in the ass, and you should consider yourself lucky. Call the friend that you lashed out at and apologize. Tell her you'd like to help her, if there's still time.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:47 PM
1

Hard NEXT. She's not into you.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 06:31 PM
1

I guess the most important question is "why?" Why can't you provide a day-to-day father figure for your prospective child? Are you physically or mentally unable?
/r/askTRP23/02/15 06:29 PM
0

Disregard females. Acquire currency.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 06:23 PM
1

Usually when the sensation of condoms sucks, it's the size of the condom that's wrong and not the thickness. I'd recommend doing some Google work on custom condoms to see it that fixes your problem.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 02:19 PM
2

I saw the title and almost downvoted you out of instinct. Good read.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 02:00 PM
9

Chunckle Mcdunklers sounds like a custom character on NBA2K.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 10:18 PM
1

A bit off-topic, but every time I see a Conan clip on YouTube, I'm reminded of how much I genuinely like him as an entertainer. There's actually a video out there somewhere that's basically Ronda drooling over The Rock for 5 consecutive minutes. I looked for it but couldn't find it.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 04:10 PM
2

Anger is a natural part of the process. You were angry at the same things, once.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 07:12 AM
8

I don't defend that the sun is hot. Defending beliefs is for people with beliefs that are faulty enough that they need defending.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 04:21 AM
4

At the risk of playing Monday-morning quarterback, this is the point where it went south, without a doubt. Don't worry OP, you'll crash and burn 50 times before you get it right. Hit the showers and get back out there.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:10 AM
1

Yeah, I'm reasonably sure that the answer here is a hard NEXT. If they don't want to be loyal, that's the end of it. You'll never be able to force loyalty on them.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 04:58 AM
2

Honestly, these sound like shit tests to me. Next time a girl accuses you of talking too much, tell her it's only because she doesn't talk enough and wink at her.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 02:29 PM
6

In the wise words of Professor West: "If she's got one of your kids, she's got you for 18 years."
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 06:23 PM
3

Point of clarification: the ultimate bad boy would never sparkle.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:41 AM
3

I live my life by the simple phrase "What Would Derek Jeter Do?"
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 07:58 PM
1

If You Forget Me I want you to know one thing. You know how this is: if I look at the crystal moon, at the red branch of the slow autumn at my window, if I touch near the fire the impalpable ash or the wrinkled body of the log, everything carries me to you, as if everything that exists, aromas, light, metals, were little boats that sail toward those isles of yours that wait for me. Well, now, if little by little you stop loving me I shall stop loving you little by little. If suddenly you forget …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 06:03 AM
4

Relevant TED talk.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:47 AM
2

Just commenting to wish you a happy birthday, brother.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:02 PM
3

I'd go 7, but definitely not higher than that.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 04:46 AM
1

"Your obvious flirting is making everyone uncomfortable. Stop."
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 07:16 AM
2

28, going on 40.
/r/seduction18/03/13 07:03 AM
1

Hey slutty. wink
/r/seduction18/03/13 07:00 AM
4

"Thanks. I've been working out." Works every time.
/r/seduction18/03/13 06:59 AM
3

Women that are this busy are either 1. Not interested in a relationship 2. Not interested in a relationship with you or 3. More interested in other activities than relationships. In any case, that makes her a good hookup but a piss-poor long-term prospect. GFTOW.
/r/seduction08/03/12 01:55 AM
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