"Oh yeah, what're you doing?"

third-eye-brown · 2015-05-19T14:15:46+00:00

You don't need to respond. Ignore it. It's not her business.

Or think of something funny: "I've got an appointment to take my dog to the spa".

tepper2 · 2015-05-19T14:25:17+00:00

"They're flying in a new heart and I have to do the transplant."

Any serious response you give her will just cause you trouble. Best bet is to say nothing. Let the hamster do the work.

BrunoOh · 2015-05-19T14:42:31+00:00

"Gotta save the world".

stro85 · 2015-05-19T14:55:57+00:00

Thanks gentlemen. Im gonna go with the ignoring her approach. If she keeps asking I will definitely give her the most outlandish answer I can think of. I really liked the "gotta save the world" one!

Piroko · 2015-05-19T16:53:09+00:00

"Yeah dunce, now Jane's a loose end. Keep your story vague." -Archer

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-05-19T15:14:55+00:00

BANGING SOME HO'S.

Im_not_lonely · 2015-05-19T19:14:47+00:00

I had a girl do this. ALWAYS asked what I was doing what I was up to. I think it was 1/2 booty calls (she wanted to bang a lot) and 1/2 her marking her territory.

I eventually got annoyed and just stopped responding to any text of "what are you doing right now" unless i wanted to hang.

Kidy88 · 2015-05-19T19:26:35+00:00

Yeah, I agree that you have to respond with a joke, don't ever respond to that type of question serious. In fact, you don't have to tell her what you are doing whenever she wants.

Respond with a joke, plus that's mysterious and keeps the girl guessing what you are doing. Mistery is a great thing when it comes to seduction.

Movonnow · 2015-05-19T14:41:55+00:00

Wait what? And soon she will ask you how you wash your ass and what you eat for breakfast? That's not her fucking business.

Better to avoid the cold look and psychopathic answer "its none of your business, get lost". Answer something with a fun vibe with the underlying message that it's not her business, that there is a clear seperation between you and her and that if she doesn't like that, you have other option and you will leave.

You are the one who have the power here, not her.

floppymammarygland · 2015-05-19T18:59:16+00:00

"Taxes"

bertmaklinFBI · 2015-05-19T14:57:18+00:00

"I have a date"

Anything else is operating from place of fear. She isn't your wife or your girlfriend. You have made no commitment to her. Let her hamster run amok and see what kind of effort you get from her the next time you see her.

cmiovino · 2015-05-19T14:45:14+00:00

I vote for the the 'Do not respond' action. If you saw what you are actually doing, she'll probably blow up. If you lie about it, that's being weak and deceiving... not exactly in a manly way. It also has a potential to backfire. Skip it too.

Plus, if you are looking to LTR this other girl potentially too, morally, straight up lying is wrong here. It's ok to have morals in TRP.

If she presses again and again, which can happen, give her the outlandish remark. This is usually a good bet for things like shit tests and should work here.

geology_socks · 2015-05-19T18:53:57+00:00

Volunteering at the pet rock clinic.

abdada · 2015-05-19T20:47:46+00:00

"Returning videotapes. I didn't remind them."

NickCiufi · 2015-05-19T20:11:42+00:00

Tell her "something more important than you".

Title	"Oh yeah, what're you doing?"
Author	stro85
Upvotes	16
Comments	33
Date	May 19, 2015 2:03 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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