geology_socks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)?	geology_socks	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 07:24 AM
6	What book would you take back into the Matrix and why?	geology_socks	/r/askTRP	25/02/15 04:10 AM
2	The nuclear option	geology_socks	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/22 09:47 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	settling even with a strong case How much did that cost? I would say always settle with 50/50 being the line in the sand. It’s your choice to make at the end of the day and you have to weigh what you think is best.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/22 05:34 PM
2	wife took the kids and left, nothing the police can do its a civic matter, she contacted child aid services. Other than lawyering up, Do I call CAS? anyone been in this situation what my next move? I’m 6 weeks into this. It’ll be another 8 weeks until a temporary orders hearing. I’ve been requesting parenting time daily as I was the SAHD…I’ve gotten 45 minutes and 2 hours of video chat in the last 6 weeks. It’s bullshit. Someone can just take the kid and run and no one cares.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/22 07:16 AM
3	Things women do/say during divorce. For the first month of my texts, she was leaving read receipts on until she blocked me. Screenshots of them all. I might do the certified Mail thing because my lawyers have emailed her asking for parenting time (before she got an attorney) and haven’t gotten a response. Going on 6 weeks. I know for a fact that her get out of jail free card is literally going to be: “he was abusive!!”. That fucking cuts me to my heart because I would never ever abuse her, or my kid. Ever. But women are encouraged…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/22 07:36 AM
4	Things women do/say during divorce. “I won’t keep the kid from you” immediately blocks my number and threatens to call cops on me if I show up…as soon I move into my own apartment. proceeds to drag initial court stuff out and still don’t even have a date for temporary orders hearing. How it is okay to go no contact on the other parent for months and have sole decision authority is beyond me. Just from insurance records, my daughter has been in the ER (3) times at one hospital. So there may be more. I wouldn’t know. Haven’t seen or…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/22 03:30 AM
2	What do you guys DO? Maybe get a little space heater for the garage? Those little Coleman heatbuddies are magic. I second fishing. I’ll likely save it for once or twice a month but spend my free time prepping and cleaning up after a trip. I’ve tried to ride the debauchery down to the ground. Video games, junk food, sleeping late. It never works. Routine is what humans NEED and drifting from one stimulus to the next is painful. I wish I could get into wood working like you. Maybe one day I’ll figure coding out.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/22 04:51 PM
2	Casual Hookups During Separation Hmm honestly I just don’t have any interest. I think at most I just have a few female friends because they’re good friends, but anything more than that is just playing with fire.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/22 08:01 PM
1	Does any man get 50/50 time with their kids? Hope I’m able to get it. I was the primary caregiver for the majority of the kids life at filing. She kicked me out and took over being the primary caregiver though. Child is a year old.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/22 06:15 PM
1	The nuclear option The worst part is I was reading these books back in 2014 and I let my guard down. I am lucky I won’t take a huge financial hit if any. Or lose any assets. Her mistake was letting me take a car loan out right before all this went down. She can’t afford another car loan so all of that debt will go to me and I’ll keep my assets too since equitable division rules that it must be fair. Unless she wants to take half of my debt of course haha. She will likely have to pay me maintenance and a stipend fr…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/22 10:07 AM
2	The nuclear option I haven’t spoken with my lawyers yet but I know 50/50 is pretty universal in the state we’re filing. Unless she proves abuse. Something there is no record of. If she wants to prove it via the rink all courts, she can but I would fight her until the end of time to clear my name. I spoke with my family and told them my heart is telling me to be there for my daughter. She may not see what I’m doing now but when she’s older, she will know the love I have for her. To hell with school and careers… it’…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/22 08:34 AM
1	What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)? What does your time look like now?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/22 09:36 AM
1	The nuclear option It’s just tough because I’m thousands of miles away from family out there. If my family was in the state, I would stay hands down but I’ve been gone for years upon years doing military and now my family is slowly withering away. By moving out there to be with my daughter, I am abandoning them too. But ofc my daughter is way more important and we can always visit them. Just a very complicated situation overall. There’s not even a guarantee I’ll get 50/50 and changing course might really hurt me. …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/22 01:32 AM
1	The nuclear option Yeah I’m thinking about it now. Give up school and go total war on her. She thinks I’ll run away and give up my daughter, but I’ll do a 180 and move in right next door. I’ll be there every single day for my daughter.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/22 12:48 AM
2	What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)? She’s in the military so she can absolutely just go somewhere and the court would only care that they were informed and I had a chance to fight it. I have a lawyer who was also a JAG in the military. I am debating heavily between my dream career or being close to my daughter and “surviving”. Hands down my daughter wins every time.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/22 12:44 AM
1	What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)? Exactly. The pain I’ve felt reading the stories here is greater than mine. It has been very humbling. It’s easy to say that it could be worse, but to read about it here changes everything. I’ve got a long road ahead but my freedom and daughters happiness is worth it. I was just thinking of how miserable and worse things would have gotten over the years. The emotional toll it would take on my daughter, the lifelong imprint it would have on her… I’m happy I’m gone from that evil and can strive to …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 10:08 PM
1	What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)? It’s a tough decision to think about right now. I’m almost finished with my degree and the school is 8 hours away from my kid. She knew this was my plan for years and chose a duty station super far away from it so that I would have to choose financial stability over 50/50. If I chose 50/50, I would be stuck in that miserable city for decades with a half finished degree. Working a soulless job just to make rent. I would get 1-2 months of time per year… but my whole life would be dictated by where…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 09:35 PM
2	The nuclear option I have two lawyers. I wasn’t on the lease and it was an apartment rental. She moved me there from overseas and signed it behind my back. All happened in two weeks times while I was taking care of the kid. She brought her toxic mother there who would wage psych warfare on me. It was really bad.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 09:32 PM
2	Is it wrong to just want to be single? I would say just listen to your gut man. Your brain could be telling you something you can’t understand yet. You will never see what goes on behind the scenes. For me, she had downloaded tinder when I was deployed. I didn’t find out until recently. Before that? I chased that marriage dream all I could but something told me to back off when I got home. Something ain’t right…. It took three years but I found out the truth. She made me read books on co-dependency, anger management, depression, chil…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 10:00 AM
0	What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)? Damn bro. How did she manage to do that?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 08:37 AM
2	What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)? That’s awesome to hear man. Mine has never met my family either and it’s sad because she’s an awesome little girl.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 08:12 AM
5	What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)? Thanks for all this brother. I will definitely incorporate some when the time is right. I would say add in sunlight too. An hour a day has helped me a lot. However some sadnesses are almost unbearable at first and I’m just here waiting for the strength to get up now. I know it will come, but I have to be patient.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 08:11 AM
2	What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)? Thank you brother. It really is a guttural feeling. Since posting here, it has definitely gotten better. The fear and intimidation may work on me alone, but it doesn’t work on this community. Unfortunately she is just about to turn 1 and cannot read yet. I may still write the letters and give them to her when she’s way older and in college. Maybe then she could understand the emotional turmoil that I went through, if she’s not brainwashed against me of course.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 08:07 AM
1	What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)? What changed?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 07:33 AM
1	The nuclear option Yeah I really have a lot to think about. I was okay with giving her away for 75% of the year because I wanted to focus on finishing my degree so I could get a job, but now I’m not so sure. Time given up is hard to get back. I have the benefit of being the primary caretaker for most of her life but eventually I’ll lose that and she’ll be effectively domiciled in my the moms residence.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/22 09:07 PM
2	The nuclear option Parenting class is required by the court and can be done online. I fully plan on doing it ASAP and any other parenting classes I can find. I will always be a good dad, that will never be a question. I can’t afford to do 50/50 right now just because I have no job or significant savings. I’m going to go back to college 3 semesters a year and push to get a job that can support me and her. Unfortunately the 18-26 dollar range can’t cover both rent and daycare so it sucks. I agree with everything you…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/22 08:26 PM
2	The nuclear option Thank you brother, I was in the Marines and she’s Army. I don’t know what I did to make her so angry and spiteful. I feel a little better with each passing day but I have to accept that it is a possibility. Thank you again for reading it all. The gut wrenching pain subsides when I see the tradgedies that befall other men here. I knew it existed but I never ever thought I could find someone of such low character… but people change.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/22 08:24 PM
2	October 13 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread Successes: Physical fitness - lifted everyday for 2-3 hours, went on two mile runs Sunday, Monday, and Wednesday. Played soccer Friday. Went to a local swimming hole on a Saturday and swam a fuck ton with the boys. Killed it this week and it shows. Diet - I definitely ate healthier this week, weight stayed about the same. I did a 20 hour fast on Monday. Ate fruit and veggies everyday. Fucking love me some cantaloupe. Pears too. Creatively - neglected this majorly. Calligraphy got boring. Academi…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/17 12:53 PM
1	askTRP Megathread October 11 Could be ingrown hairs. Are you sure you have it?	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/17 03:13 AM
0	October 06 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread Ymmv. References are here http://www.fitnessunderoath.com/the-44-hour-diet/	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/17 08:23 AM
-2	October 06 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread After about 44 hours, the levels of human growth hormone is about 5x than normal levels. Additionally, two huge caloric deficits for two days so I don't have to count calories. I also find taking a break to eat ruins my workflow. I get groggy and want to take a nap. With fasting, I power through that and my efficiency goes through the roof.	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/17 02:41 AM
27	October 06 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread Successes: Physical fitness - got three decent workouts in this week Diet - could be better, gained a few pounds but still at my goal weight. Doing a 48 hour fast currently. Creatively - picked up a new hobby (calligraphy) and got immersed in it 4 separate times. Academically - finished two books from start to finish, put decent chunks in a few others as well. Put at least 5 hours into DuoLingo learning Spanish this week. Financially - did an assessment of my monthly costs and found I could get …	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/17 02:23 PM
7	Is "the subtle art of not giving a fuck" really recommended reading? I read the book and the best thing I could take away from it was a rudimentary form of stoicism. Embrace the lows, and enjoy the highs, but chase neither.	/r/askTRP	03/10/17 10:59 AM
10	Get MAD You Sons of Bitches, Get MAD How'd ya cure baldness in all that?	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/17 10:46 PM
53	Don't Tell Her Shit - The Fallacy of Disclosure In my experience, while lies may benefit me in the short term, it takes a lot of effort maintaining them in the long run. They always come back to bite you, no matter how much you deflect. I don't deal in lies anymore, that's just me. Without my word, I am nothing.	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/17 10:34 PM
4	askTRP Megathread September 27 What do you do? Just sit there and breathe? I usually fall asleep.	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/17 11:22 PM
10	askTRP Megathread September 27 How do you guys deal with the loneliness? I kind of miss having company. Everyday just feels dreadfully lonely. No one to look forward too. Just me. I can't really enjoy anything when I'm alone. So I usually just go to sleep. I tried to pick up wood working and I got pretty decent at it but I didn't really have any one to show it to. The seems to be the same for all hobbies.	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/17 04:15 PM
9	Falsely accused of domestic violence. Was told by my attorney that if I took plea deal I would have 30 days to change my mind and get trial. That was a lie. Now facing 8 years probation. Does anyone have any advice on fleeing the country? Eh. They do an extensive background check and will most likely fuck you over if they find anything out. You need a passport and shit too. They also hate Americans because they almost always desert after a few months. They will choose the poor slav because he'll do his job and won't care if someone beats the piss out of him and calls it 'training'.	/r/askTRP	10/02/16 01:53 AM
1	I'm joining the military. Concern trolling at it's finest. Do you think the Mongolian hordes or Legionnaires gave a shit about politics? No, they wanted to be men who reached their physical potential and conquered everything in their path. Kill, rape, loot, whatever the fuck-- it sure as hell beats sitting at home farming rice and knitting tunics. Sure, death is the worst possible thing to happen to you. But when you are a male whose sole purpose is to fight and be cannon fodder, and you realize all the bluepill fairytal…	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/15 07:11 PM
1	The 30 Day Challenge #1 - SLEEP Day 1 Went to sleep at 4:15 am and woke up at 11:32 for a total of 7 hours and 15 minutes. Lost my wallet so that explains the lateness last night. Hope to be in bed by 11pm tonight.	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/15 04:46 PM
1	Generalizations and truth. RedPill truths are found within the world through experience. If you're not confident in the truths that veteran members preach, put yourself in a position to observe it and then try to disagree. Watch the Disney fantasies of friends turn to ash. Enjoy the harem of plates you've harnessed through self-improvement. Achieve your goals and understand your interactions, weaknesses, and failures. It takes experience to be confident in a redpill truth and have the audacity to hand it off to others.	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/15 04:22 AM
3	The 30 Day Challenge #1 - SLEEP I will take part in the challenge. I slept from from 9:40 to 4:40, heard the gym was closed, then slept until 9:20. 12 hours of sleep should of cleared out my sleep debt. I plan to wake up at 4:40 everyday which means bed time should be 8:50 everynight for a total of 7 hours and 50 minutes. It takes on average 14 minutes to fall asleep.	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/15 01:41 PM
1	Thinking about upgrading a plate Asks what you think of her going on the vacation. You suddenly not caring about it is fishy and she'll wonder why you stopped vocalizing your opinion. Your ultimatum was "I'm nexting you if you go." She's going. You can next her, say you changed your mind, or don't say anything.	/r/askTRP	24/05/15 12:51 AM
1	Thinking about upgrading a plate You should deeply consider what you've said and the impressions of your opinion that she may have. Changing your mind from 'NO!' to 'k whatever' is damn harmful to your frame. You don't want to make any conclusions though. Saying that you don't mind will lead to her riding the carousel with the help of her friend. Saying you care a lot will make you look weak and insecure. There's no way to win except indifference and remaining aloof. If she asks, just feign stupidity or ignorance. My best reply…	/r/askTRP	24/05/15 12:17 AM
2	Thinking about upgrading a plate You can't keep her caged up. Your insecurity is showing. The only way she'll stay loyal is if she has EVERYTHING to lose. Personally, she's not my wife and I'm not a puppeteer. Let her do what she wants. And you'll do as you please. Both of you are going your own paths and if those paths line up, maybe you can get married, but that's very rare. Forcing her to follow your path isn't the way to go. Keep her as a plate and enjoy the spoils of youth.	/r/askTRP	24/05/15 12:04 AM
1	Why are you spending your time to help someone else on trp? We've been there and we know the truth. You may deny it, but you'll find yourself saying 'They were right, darn.'.	/r/askTRP	23/05/15 09:36 PM
3	Is my LTR dying or am I just sweating the small stuff? All I hear is "I'm great and I put up with her shit. Here's a list of justifications." My advice: Plan your exit. Meet some girls and when the time is right, drop the bomb. No ultimatum, no crying, just as it is. I have needs and I hate being selfish, but your failure to recognize them is the demise of the relationship.	/r/askTRP	23/05/15 09:05 PM
1	(High School Question) How can I continue to hook up with girls if I can't use a car for a while? And in general, how to change frame to still be a high value person even w/o a car? Laugh at your flaws. 'George Washington didn't have a car.' 'Actually trying to be the biggest loser here.'	/r/askTRP	23/05/15 04:48 AM
1	How do you keep the girl attracted? Improve yourself. Text less. Be busy. The little time you spend with them should be a tingle overdose. The dog will lay at your feet all day patiently. When he sees the leash, he'll go nuts and think it's the best day ever! Even though it's the same walk as last time, it's a reliable source of enjoyment and a reward for his good behavior.	/r/askTRP	23/05/15 04:41 AM
1	Guidance on Becoming Alpha I know it sounds a bit religious and not very redpill, but my greater cause is in my future children. For others, it could be leaving a legacy behind in the world through philantrophy. The idea is that the universe doesn't revolve around you and it's not all about you. Being a conceited, selfish, asshole will net you nothing in a world where cynicism flows freely. An interesting thing to note, do you think an ape being punctured again and again for a polymyositis serum knows his purpose in this …	/r/askTRP	21/05/15 02:09 PM
1	Guidance on Becoming Alpha Don't aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience co…	/r/askTRP	21/05/15 01:19 PM
1	Guidance on Becoming Alpha Read up on discipline. Things such as anger, motivation, and lust are short-lived sources. Discipline determines who you become. Set goals, conquer them, and set more goals.	/r/askTRP	21/05/15 02:00 AM
0	"Oh yeah, what're you doing?" Volunteering at the pet rock clinic.	/r/askTRP	19/05/15 06:53 PM
1	I love her... Break up for university? My recommendation is to go for it. I, personally, did not enjoy having plates. But it has worked for many people. Never in my life have I felt so worthless. People only care about how you make them feel, not how you feel. To them, I was their sick fantasy, I was their validation, and that is all I was. My only place in their life was their bed and while it was great, I believe that there is more to a relationship than sex. Good for the short term, but bad for the long term. Males need emotional …	/r/askTRP	19/05/15 06:05 PM
1	Life Advice New York is expensive and the job market is tight. What do you want out of a city? From personal experience, people from SF and New York fucking love Philadelphia. Everything about it is amazing. Art. Music. Food. Culture. Location. Rent. Get this, there is a fucking brewery not too far from my house. I can walk in, drink some amazing beer, finish, and walk down the street to get the best sandwich on earth. I may pass some neighbors sitting on their steps and we'll chat for a few minutes. A few …	/r/askTRP	19/05/15 12:08 PM
2	TRP gated community The media would go off on this, leading to the government intervening. Labeled as a cult and hate group, we would be tear gassed and broken apart... for the children!	/r/askTRP	19/05/15 11:52 AM
1	Need Help Choosing Career There is a summer program that trains park rangers at my school, with a contract. They are pretty desperate as smart males that are also in shape is a rarity. I'm actually considering going to OCS during the summer as a very close friend just commissioned. I've spent the last year contemplating it, reading books, and processing the reality of it. Would I make a good leader if I didn't believe in the masturbatory ego practices? What approach would I take and would I buckle under the pressure?	/r/askTRP	19/05/15 11:47 AM
8	Need Help Choosing Career Do what you wanted to do before someone told you that you had to get a job with good money. I always thought geology was interesting, but the course load was intensive and went past my level of interest. I switched to criminal justice because the courseload is manageable and also nets some pretty cool jobs. My goal job involves two things I am fascinated about: the outdoors, guns, and physical fitness. Find what you enjoy and think you can manage to do. Video game work is a dead end. Engineering…	/r/askTRP	18/05/15 03:37 PM
2	Set up to go out with a girl, and now her I see her FB status as 'In A Relationship' She could've just gotten out of a relationship and forgot to update it? Not everyone is addicted to Facebook as if it defines their life. Who cares? Your the prize, if she doesn't want you, cool. If she does, then let her cheat. You can't just casually bring it up to her because that's creepy. She'll tell you what she wants you to know. The Red Pill philosophy goes off the notion that knowledge of everything is enlightening. You think knowing the number of cocks your mom sucked makes you a bette…	/r/askTRP	18/05/15 11:08 AM
2	Set up to go out with a girl, and now her I see her FB status as 'In A Relationship' Brother, there is a relationship and there is a Relationship. What the hell is your intention here? You want to marry this chick? Enjoy her company and have fun until one of you finds someone worthy of your commitment.	/r/askTRP	18/05/15 11:06 AM
2	Set up to go out with a girl, and now her I see her FB status as 'In A Relationship' My mental response: "OK lol" My actual response: "Proceed as normal, don't think too much. Play it by ear. If I'm happy, awesome. If I'm not, then move on." If moving on because I'm not happy means months without the benefits of a relationship, then so be it. "I'd rather die on my feet, than live on my knees." That isn't about pride, it's about being happy.	/r/askTRP	18/05/15 10:28 AM
1	How do I keep the alpha presence in the room? Traits: Attractive, interesting, approachable, entertaining, and powerful. Don't(s): Being a dick, trying to be center of attention, being overly friendly/comedic, and faking it. Back yourself up, you can't fake being happy with yourself and expect others follow suit.	/r/askTRP	18/05/15 10:24 AM
1	Motivation to study Don't aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience co…	/r/askTRP	18/05/15 07:46 AM
2	"Dopamine" If being successful means being an outcast, then so be it	/r/TheRedPill	07/05/15 06:00 PM
-1	ExGF just texted me: Why nothing? I could easily plate her. Who gives a shit about my legacy / image? I don't want to alpha widow her. I moved on, she didn't. It's not my problem, but I did create it.	/r/askTRP	06/05/15 09:40 AM
3	Should I meet my Ex? No, you'll forever be limp dick Tecuron and she'll use you until she finds her Chad Thundercock. She broke up with you over your dick. Think about that. On the odd chance you can get it in, well, why not.	/r/askTRP	04/05/15 03:46 PM
7	Girl only wants to meet up as friends after she's been talking dirty with me and sending naked pics. Your text game is a bit off. You came off as"would you please meet up with me my mom says i can go out!!!1 ur not a slut btw" It should've been: 'Drinks 8 Jbrans, cya there' She shows up, you lay the game on her, and then you fuck her right in the pussy. All them IOI's = 2ez	/r/askTRP	04/05/15 03:41 PM
3	mental exercises to maintain frame? Meditation. A clear, focused mind is what you want.	/r/askTRP	02/05/15 10:25 PM
1	Erection problems in 30s? Reading this comment, I wouldn't doubt that it's purely psychological. The anxiety of not being able to perform is enough. Are you stressed? Depressed? Are you happy? Are you numb to the world? I don't want an answer as a professional's help would be best. You should remember that 40% of adults in America are obese and they are still reproducing somehow.	/r/askTRP	02/05/15 03:45 PM
1	Old plate trying to get back into contact with me or am I over thinking? She can't add you back if you block her. She can't text you if you add her. Unless, of course, you want to jerk off your ego when she crumbles and comes back to you or something along that line.	/r/askTRP	01/05/15 10:05 PM
2	Interesting thought: will there be a point where using dread game so much desensitises your women? You can't limit unintentional dread. Tell them you're busy and point her eyes to the future. If you're seeing her Saturday, redirect to then. Of course, with LTRs, it's a bit more complicated as she'll eventually enjoy the attention of some betabux and use him as an emotional tampon. I haven't quite mastered this hurdle yet but I do know that women have emotional/physical needs as well and you have to put out once in awhile to remind her what she's missing. I don't recommend interacting more, bu…	/r/askTRP	01/05/15 05:21 PM
2	I'd appreciate your advice Right, friends are literally the only way you'll meet girls without cold approaching. Parties. Bars. Hangouts. Whatever, you need friends or else you're just a pathetic dude alone in his dorm/apartment. They feed off social proof.	/r/askTRP	01/05/15 11:29 AM
1	I'd appreciate your advice You don't learn game in a day. Get experience. Always have a goal in mind. Learn what works. Map your conversations and their results. Examples: If I want to hang with a girl, I'll bring up partying so it's not a direct 'come to my party'. Did you hear about that party? Yeah, my friends have better parties. Stop by later. What are some good bars around here? lengthy response I've never been to that Gay Bar, you should come with me.	/r/askTRP	01/05/15 10:50 AM
1	Monk Mode - new to it. Am I doing it right? Wrong? This isn't necessarily direct towards you but: I'm fucking tired of people going into monk mode because of the fact that they are fragile little bitches who are scared of their emotions and must hide away from the world to get anything meaningful done in their life. Take some time off and gain perspective then go right fucking back at it. Happiness revolves around purpose. Embrace your shit and god damn if it's your fucking life, live it. Don't squander it away in self-pity disguised as producti…	/r/askTRP	01/05/15 10:29 AM
1	Did I handle this well? Plausible deniability - once you found out she had a boyfriend, you gave up because you're not Chad Thundercock she thought you were. Never verbalize your attraction and put her on the spot. IF you escalate and get rejected you have to: get better and use dread game. Hang out with other girls who are all over you. Obviously she saw you more than a friend if you did all that stuff.	/r/askTRP	01/05/15 10:20 AM
1	Ask IllimitableMan On the last page of my diary, you will find a list of key points with page references that I review on a daily basis. When IM decrees "Women are dream killers.", you will need evidence from your own life. Despite the constant reassurance that AWALT is the reality of things, people still don't learn until they get their hearts broken a few times.	/r/askTRP	30/04/15 05:56 PM
1	What to do about getting angry about tinny stuff? "Tell Brother's GF that I said Happy Birthday, I have other plans." You sound like you have weak frame. Next your mom /s Your family are the only people obligated to care about you. Make a hissy fit and spend your birthday sour and alone OR you can realize that birthdays are pretty stupid and insignificant. You'll also get to look at your brother's GF through a RP lense and help him accordingly. It's not all about you.	/r/askTRP	30/04/15 05:43 PM
9	push and pull, what is pull? Pulling comforts her. Pushing gives her the tingles. If you push too hard, she leaves. If you pull too hard, she classifies you as a betabux. Pull first with plausible deniability. Ask questions. Push when she answers. Let her qualify herself. She'll feel inferior. Then you should pull and escalate when she feels weak. Most girls respond positively to just pulling. However, some girls think they are top notch vagina and you have to supply the Chad Thundercock tingles. Edit: I tried to make it as…	/r/askTRP	30/04/15 11:44 AM
1	A quality potential plate has an extremely handsome orbiter "OK lol" You can't control her OP, only enjoy her.	/r/askTRP	30/04/15 10:38 AM
1	How do i know when to ahow genuine affection? Everything in moderation. If she is behaving good, reward her. If she is behaving bad, punish her. Punishing her for behaving good will cause her to burnout and eventually give up her efforts. All that being said, timing is crucial. Example: Laura has consistently been attentive to your needs and recognizes that you are the prize. She made you dinner and invited you over for a nice evening. She answers the door and you say something simple. "You look great/stunning/adorable" THEN "Let's eat or l…	/r/askTRP	30/04/15 10:36 AM
1	Where did I fuck up? For starters, this girl is not LTR material. I don't have to explain why. She doesn't remember that night and probably doesn't remember you. Going through her contact list, there are probably 5 other guys with the same name. Besides, Gary will just buy her a new one for her birthday and she'll gladly put out for him. I'd give it two months, then contact a jeweler.	/r/askTRP	30/04/15 10:28 AM
2	Married 5 years, dead bedroom, sex maybe twice a week at most. I think I've gone Beta.... Help ! Actual fitness advice: Crossfit is bad, especially at your weight. Take a look at the growth of crossfit and sports medicine and you'll see they have grown together. Plain and simple. Crossfit is expensive. Spend it on a physical trainer and lift three times a week. Muscle burns fat faster Than pure cardio. You wanted to do cardio at least twice a week. Recumbent bicycle because your joints can't handle anything else. Maybe one day you can use the rowing machines, go for a swim, or even a jog. C…	/r/askTRP	29/04/15 07:00 PM
40	My sister was Alpha-widowed now faces 3 felonies because of him, claims to "still love him." What kind of shitshow club tolerates that? I have to admit, I laughed about the window part.	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/15 09:13 AM
1	What do you do for a living? Rock psychologist	/r/askTRP	25/03/15 04:58 AM
1	We all talk about looking good. How about some tips for smelling good? I went to the barber shop the other day and they put on an aftershave. God damn did I smell good for the rest of the day. I was constantly remarking 'Damn, I smell good'. Combined with a nice cut, my confidence was through the roof.	/r/askTRP	17/03/15 04:03 AM
1	limp http://curedeathgrip.com/plan-a.html Try this? Cut yourself off from it all. If you're not a lard ass, you should be fine. A large number of the obese in America are still procreating. It's all psychological. I had this happen once, put the condom on too quick and lost it quick.	/r/askTRP	07/03/15 09:53 AM
9	How TRP has changed my relationships with my parents Don't get oneitis /s Your mom is the only girl who will always love you, I am quite jealous as I've spent the last few years being Pygmalion to no effect. I have resigned to their fate of alcoholism and crippling debt. Emotionally, they died a long, long time ago.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/15 05:05 AM
1	As Iron Sharpens Iron-Man Sharpens Man In a redpill sense, the added exercise would increase gainz exponentially, instantly increasing confidence and SMV. I recommend reading Sex God Method first, that way you'll have a rock hard base of experience when women come around. Lube also decreases the coefficient of kinetic friction, allowing you to move faster (ultimately saving time, your most important resource), deflect attacks from Alphas, and slip right out of the deadly female hamplanet bear hug known as marriage.	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/15 04:16 PM
2	Lost erection during sex How to treat? Nofap = no libido	/r/askTRP	25/02/15 04:20 AM
2	What book would you take back into the Matrix and why? Some poor schmuck will suggest books that do nothing but point out problems and do not provide solutions. I.e. The Manipulated Man. A great book, but how does one become anything other than hopeless if all we can do is beat our chains against the cell for not worshipping our female overlords?	/r/askTRP	25/02/15 04:15 AM
4	Men's Spaces: The Barber Shop Seriously can't upvote this more. These are barbers that have been talking all their life and love their job. You can talk about anything and the whole barber shop will talk and discuss but never make you feel out of place. Everything is light hearted and the older guys are always a primal place to get fucking schooled on life. Some of the older barbers fought in Vietnam and really know what's important. They can talk about it and not have politics come up and smear shit everywhere.	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/14 02:13 PM
1	Building a life filled with wild parties, cool friends, and attractive women after college. 20 years is still a lot. The only way your knees are going to get busted are if you have an infantry MOS or anything in the field. There is plenty of need for office workers and maintenance people. Its almost impossible to get shot in the Navy unless you're deployed with a unit or special ops. Also, it's camaderie man. Not directed at you: the military is for people who have a bad set of cards, not for neckbeards who want to slay dragons and be a tragic hero. If you're serious about the military…	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/14 12:45 AM
6	Male Spaces. Where do you go to talk redpill? (And a personal story on coming to redpill) Exclusively male barber shops, cigar lounges, cigar shops etc. are some places that men typically USED to go to shoot the shit after bars transformed into the hunting grounds for women instead of a place for men to decompress.	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/14 08:18 AM
7	Prostitute Game Humans don't have a vomeronasal receptor like bees, ants, etc. so pheromones physically cannot exist. However, things like perfume and the smell of sex may have a Pavlov's dog kind of effect.	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/14 02:51 AM
81	Is it time again for male-only colleges? I went to an all male highscool, and holy shit. Despite being somewhat socially shy to females still, I would not of traded it. Everyday was like hanging out with your buds. Everyone including the teachers tried to make the day as fun as possible with crude humor and silly antics that would not of passed if any women were around. You didn't have to worry about your appearance or being distracted, just work straight through and talk to the neighboring all female school nearby who were all despera…	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/14 10:32 PM
1	Disrespect from "best friends" slowly piling up. He kind of sounds like a retard, but I think the best bet would be to straight up call them out in front of everyone. If they mock/ridicule you and shy away from it, just leave and fuck them. If they were real friends, they'd still mock/ridicule and still try to reach an understanding. Weigh the benefits vs. the loss (are you going to have a social life? do you take classes with any of them? do you depend on them for anything etc.?) and make your decision.	/r/askTRP	23/09/14 03:44 AM
2	Disrespect from "best friends" slowly piling up. They're angry because you ditched them for other friends with drunk sluts. The phone part: most people check their phone regularly... when you respond two hours later when someone is in need, that's kind of dick-ish. I would apologize for being a dick if you want to remain friends, it's always bros before hoes.	/r/askTRP	23/09/14 03:31 AM
1	Tinder experience - What went wrong here? Me: Hey you. I have a craving for steak since this weekend. So I'm going to an Argentinean restaurant in the city centre tomorrow. You can join me if you like. Either way I'm getting my steak. Let me know if you'll be busy watching TV instead. Personally I feel like you're asking for her permissions (approval?) somehow and not being very direct about what you want. It also comes off a little weird when you're like "I'm a man. I eat steak. I'm going by myself but I probably won't if you don't go.…	/r/askTRP	23/09/14 02:06 AM
3	My sister insists on being an insufferable cunt. Ideas? Next her	/r/askTRP	22/06/14 04:07 PM
–	Interesting thought: will there be a point where using dread game so much desensitises your women? Dread is a powerful tool that should be used wisely. If you use it too much, it loses it's effectiveness. Don't punish her for being good. Reward her here and there with some comfort. Otherwise, you're an asshole. No joke. Treat women like dogs. I love my dog, but if he does something bad, I will yell at him and make him feel bad. After I'm done, he'll come to me with his tail between his legs seeking comfort. You have to give them comfort or else they'll only remember the punishment and hate yo…	/r/askTRP
–	Old plate trying to get back into contact with me or am I over thinking? No contact is serious business. Block her number and delete it. Block all social media, not just remove. Idiot. Anyway, fuck her brains out.	/r/askTRP
–	Meditation, is it useful? Or is it bullshit? Any of you try it? I'm an endurance athlete and I have that problem. I CAN meditate for some time and let my thoughts run wild until I reach a blank slate. I feel really happy and common everyday anxiety/monotony goes away.. but only for a few hours. Or I can tire myself out and reach the same state. I feel awesome for the rest of the day and I fall asleep knowing I am fucking awesome. The downside is that I don't have the same clarity as meditating. Life is still blurry. My mind is just really tired and doesn't g…	/r/askTRP
–	"Oh yeah, what're you doing?" This has worked wonders a few times. I have a rock climbing date with my friend Alex. If they get butthurt about it, I'll let them know Alex is a dude and laugh at their foolishness/insecurity. edit: leave out friend, they should know who alex is!	/r/askTRP