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he one thing I was certain of was that I absolutely did not want to get married. It might have been the "dead eyes" look of many husbands. Or watching friends, fathers and uncles get divorce raped.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 02:22 PM
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I'm guessing one of these http://21onuv2o3diqcdqccz3o9c12iv.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/fiets_amst-[gadling-bumper].jpg
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 09:02 AM
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That's a model? Where do I sign up?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 09:38 PM
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As for food, a good rule of thumb is to ask yourself: "If I were a caveman, would it look like food?" That means, no fastfood, no sodas, no processed fruit juices and no candy. You'll end up eating mostly meat (chicken is the cheap and low fat solution), vegetables and rice.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 10:56 AM
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Some mothers live vicariously through their daughters.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 08:03 PM
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Focus on good quality and fit, not flashy brands. Plain tees will also look 100x better if you have some muscle to fill it out with.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 07:03 PM
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All too often the reality is that women want commitment from men, but desperately want to avoid reciprocating.
/r/MGTOW27/04/16 03:16 PM
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This is in fact one of the best shots to hide a fupa (beer belly). If you see someone with this pose, they're fat.
/r/MGTOW25/04/16 10:56 PM
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Feelz > realz.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 07:48 PM
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Remember that Pareto thing where 20% of men get 80% of the sex? It's like that - 80% of your results come from 20% of your efforts. Find that 20%.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/16 05:49 PM
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WOMEN DO NOT HAVE A NEUROLOGICAL NEED FOR LTRs/COMMITMENT They need commitment, in the form of lesser value men giving her attention, telling her how wonderful she is and being there when she needs to cry.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 11:49 PM
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Well they do. They do feel like they want to stay with you forever..right now
/r/MGTOW24/04/16 11:33 PM
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I don't like his obsession with "cuckservatives" and Trump, but his website, especially the older parts, are worth reading.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 04:26 PM
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Have you ever been camping and set up a table? You'll notice the grass under it starts growing really fast, using all its energy reserves, to reach light. Right until it dies.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 04:24 PM
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The sex is never going to be better than when she is/was a plate.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 08:48 AM
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make sure I'm on the right track to TRP. Have her walk in on you fucking another girl.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 12:45 AM
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I would think they'd have some understanding of what it takes to keep a man. There's a reason they're single at 30 or 40 or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 11:11 PM
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Ask them questions. People love talking about themselves, and you don't have to talk while they do.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 11:09 PM
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Who cares, it's not our problem. When a woman makes it past 30 without solid commitment, it's her own damn fault.
/r/MGTOW23/04/16 10:19 PM
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If you have enough things going on in your life, you naturally assume an abundant mindset as well.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 07:46 PM
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You've not even kissed her and you're thinking about spending your life with her.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 10:26 PM
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social skills
/r/askTRP21/04/16 09:38 PM
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By /u/Clint_Redwood : http://archive.is/Ejuqk
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:26 PM
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For one, STEM fields are male dominated, and 5s get treated like 9s because of the sex imbalance.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/16 09:39 PM
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Flex your bicep and kiss it.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:20 PM
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what she will look and behave like in the future. Especially if her mom is fat.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 11:14 PM
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We can tell you don't have any other plates. You should do something about it.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 10:42 PM
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Grab her ass and tell her you think about many things.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 01:48 PM
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Stargate (especially sg-1). Tons of sarcastic/funny jokes that are perfect to use on women. It's not a show, but the Kingkiller trilogy (book) is great as well.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 01:47 PM
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Get in shape for the best effect. Back when I worked in retail I had to move some equipment from the back to the front entrance (which was easier to do over the street than through the store). On my way back, I held eye contact with some chick walking with her boyfriend. On my second pass they're at the lobby, I hear her say that she forgot to lock the car doors and she walks out in front of me. When we exit the store she looks over her shoulder and gives me the fuck me eyes. I wish I had acted …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 10:37 AM
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It's funny how the advice given is just feel good bullshit.
/r/MGTOW18/04/16 11:55 PM
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If you can't see she's thin, she's fat.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 03:21 PM
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This has to be a troll. Poor sap if it's true.
/r/MGTOW16/04/16 07:44 PM
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I have not been very happy since taking the red pill. I feel like humanity is doomed and there is no hope for anything. It's been really bad and I have even had suicidal thoughts. It's because while you are "going your own way" while not actually going anywhere. Forget women; you don't have friends, nothing you are passionate about and your life isn't moving forwards. You're human; you need those things. Go play a team sport and start lifting. Team sports get you physical activity and an easy so…
/r/MGTOW16/04/16 07:40 PM
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It seems you're only attracted to attractive women. Unsurprisingly, women (especially attractive women), are also only attracted to attractive men.
/r/MGTOW16/04/16 06:00 PM
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So would you want to commit to a single mother, an obese woman or a 50 year old woman? They can be nice too, and also need love.
/r/MGTOW16/04/16 05:43 PM
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Being nice and nothing else is a bad thing.
/r/MGTOW16/04/16 11:12 AM
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It'll never hurt to do some ab work at the end of your workout.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 11:00 AM
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Because most men hold the belief that there are two classes of women, sloots and unicorns, and that if your marriage goes south it's because you married the wrong one.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 09:40 AM
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That's what happens when you hire people based on genitalia rather than how well they can do their work.
/r/PussyPass16/04/16 09:02 AM
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It's like buying houses. If a house has been for sale for a decade, it's a bad thing. At best the owners are delusional about its value, most of the time there's something wrong with it.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 10:31 PM
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I mean she never told you what she wanted from you... she never asked you to be more assertive/ dominant/ whatever... she just let you "be yourself" and then dumped your ass because you weren't giving her tingles. And they never will. If anything they'll tell you to be a better beta.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 10:23 PM
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It's beautiful how this is an opt-in problem that can simply be avoided by not taking women on dinner dates.
/r/MGTOW15/04/16 02:18 PM
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In a merit based hierarchy, no.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/16 06:16 PM
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It sounds like that was a nice 4 year rental. Time to move on.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 05:15 PM
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You should include some examples.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 05:28 PM
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It drives men away like nothing else. Things like these are only "needy" and "unattractive" if her feelings aren't reciprocated (and if they're within reason - don't bring homebaked cookies on your first date). You need to escalate these things just as guys need to escalate intimacy. If she recoils when you touch her hand, you don't touch her leg. Similarly, if a guy isn't eager to talk with you, don't bring him cookies. It's just like how when Billy gives flowers to a girl it's creepy, but if B…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/16 04:53 PM
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In my experience unattractive girls are more bitter than attractive ones.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 01:39 PM
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It's like how a guy might want to keep a few chubby chicks around...good for practice, validation and handy to keep for dry spells. After all, nobody needs to know.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 01:38 PM
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Dalrock (www.dalrock.wordpress.com) has some decent articles on that guy.
/r/MGTOW12/04/16 10:20 PM
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If you go to a supermarket, be sure to eat before you go. It's much easier to not buy temptations if you're not hungry.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:42 PM
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Cooks and dishwashers maybe.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 08:31 AM
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She admitted to me that she was diagnosed with depression. If this, or any other mental issues a woman might have, are a problem, remember that they're not your problems. It's okay to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 10:32 PM
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If her parents pay the rent, why should you? She's effectively living in one of her parents' houses. Just like you.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:42 PM
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Not sure why Reddit's main measuring stick for quality of life is how easily you could get fucked if you wanted to, but I generally spend more of my time trying to avoid and feeling uncomfortable by unwanted attention than basking in it. She's right. Instead, we should measure them by whether they are in a serious relationship with a high value man.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 09:42 AM
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there has got to be something for a man to do Go flirt/talk with other women. She'll stop dragging you on shopping trips.
/r/MGTOW04/04/16 05:40 PM
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Apparently walnut oil tastes a lot better.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 08:07 PM
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I was talking to some guy at my gym and he recommended to put walnut oil in your shakes. If it's like olive oil, it's almost 9k calories per liter.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 07:51 PM
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You'll notice that women tend to go from alpha to beta and back. She'll dump or get dumped by the alpha because he's kind of an asshole...then she'll go for a nice guy who treats her right. When the honeymoon phase wears off she realizes she's not really attracted to him and dumps him for an alpha.
/r/MGTOW03/04/16 07:46 PM
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Change/switch your program. Maybe you'll like a bodybuilding program more.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 12:49 PM
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Dominance.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 12:47 PM
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He means that if you had other girls, you wouldn't feel this way. She does, so she doesn't.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 10:17 AM
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Cash in the coupons in a crowded place like the lobby of a train station or a festival. When she objects, take her to a toilet or other secluded area and proceed.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 08:30 AM
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It's a classic case of unattractive women hating on unattractive men for being unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 11:44 AM
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I think marriage is important to me, but its more social than anything. I almost think its like a movie, my whole life all the women in my family have always talked, dreamt, and planned about me and my sister being married, from the time I was about 10-11. It's not even because she wants to get married. It's just to show off.
/r/MGTOW01/04/16 07:30 AM
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See http://archive.is/YUeU0
/r/askTRP01/04/16 07:26 AM
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Having cameras in your home could save your life one day.
/r/MGTOW31/03/16 07:32 PM
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If you look to online statistics, AshleyMadison.com had a huge majority 70%+ male population. So clearly, men were ready and willing to cheat. But is that because men cheat more than women?? Or is it because women don't need an app/website to cheat, they're already being hunted down everywhere? Or are there tons of single guys who aren't even cheating, just desperately looking for sex, even willing to pretend to be married/have-gf like Adam Sandler just to get sex? It's also, I think, because (m…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 05:50 PM
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Fortunately most problems with women are opt-in problems.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 03:51 PM
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Women love investment (in them). They hate having to commit.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 09:22 AM
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Because when you tell a man that you "want to take it slow" it usually really means "I'm not that attracted to you". In terms of ROI (return on investment) you're a shitty deal.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 08:11 AM
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Put it in terms he'd understand: "If she was your business partner, given x, y and z, would you continue doing business with them?"
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 09:04 PM
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It can fit babies. Big cocks are no problem.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 09:00 PM
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Okay, that’s not true. Married men with stay at home wives earn an 11% premium over men with working wives. 11% is a far cry from 90%. What's actually the case is that men who earn more tend to be more likely to have a stay at home wife. She's not actually making a 11% contribution.
/r/MGTOW29/03/16 07:42 AM
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It's probably also because she'd get shamed for leaving him.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 09:09 PM
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It sounded like she was a stay at home wife.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:47 PM
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Because tinder is a place where looks are mostly what matters. I'm not saying that women don't care how physically attractive you are, but things like wealth, status, frame and dominance factor in as well. It's not like how a woman's looks make up 90% of her smv.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 08:35 PM
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That's not the issue, but men tend to put much more importance on looks than women do.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 06:23 PM
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Buy him stuff by spending his money, great idea.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 05:02 PM
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Read up on theredpillroom.blogspot.com, it covers the social aspects of men and women quite well. Some ignorant things girls talk about like "why is that teenage boy staring at me lewdly?" "Why are all the boys acting weird around me during class?" Apparently those boys were horndogs but Im just wondering are teen boys really that hormonal? This is also bragplaining - "ugh why do all those losers like me so much" is effectively bragging about how attractive you are.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 03:06 PM
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marriage has been a bad deal for women pretty much forever. Then why do they want to marry? I love how the author doesn't realize his hypocrisy.
/r/MGTOW27/03/16 01:19 PM
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It's probably also that he has no backbone and treats her like a princess. It doesn't matter how hot you are if that's all you have.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 11:05 AM
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I really don't get why bachelors are frowned upon and called selfish like I have a amazing life and am not in debt. Because you've been a bad boy, you should sacrifice yourself for the feminine imperative.
/r/MGTOW23/03/16 11:21 PM
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Don't black knight, just walk away.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 10:26 PM
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Keep going, you'll outpace her eventually. Men build muscle mass and strength much easier than women.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 07:14 PM
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The problem isn't that you aren't outgoing, it's that you have shitty social skills. If you aren't outgoing and try to force yourself to be it's worse than not being outgoing. Do you have a job? Get one in a bar, retail or somewhere else with lots of women. By far the easiest way to gain confidence talking to women.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 06:18 PM
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Powertalk like this is also a great way to treat coworkers trying to let you do their work for them. "I'm really busy right now, ask me again later". Then when they ask at the end of the day, "Sorry, I gotta go". "But it'll only take five minutes" "So why not do it yourself then?".
/r/askTRP23/03/16 05:50 PM
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You don't, bragging isn't an alpha trait.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 12:18 AM
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she has control of your home life and you have to hold your frame 24/7. Only if you let her.
/r/MGTOW22/03/16 12:23 AM
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"We'll stop arguing once we get married".
/r/MGTOW22/03/16 12:22 AM
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So what do you actually disagree with? I'm speaking biomechanically.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 10:29 PM
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There's more than SSDs to performance. In 2011 SSDs were $2/GB, now they are about $0.3/GB, with improved performance as well. That's dirt cheap. You can buy or build a new computer that does just as well as a 2nd hand 5 year old pc, for less.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 06:50 PM
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No, I'm saying that eggs are valuable and sperm is worthless.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 06:07 PM
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And that they mark down stuff that is close to their expiry date but are still safe to eat the next day, like vegetables and bread.
/r/MGTOW21/03/16 06:06 PM
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Well with birth control they don't, but our hindbrains have yet to catch up with the concept of condoms.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:38 AM
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Five year old computers are worthless.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:09 AM
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If you read about 35 yo fat single moms who want Brad Pitt, you chuckle and move on with your day. However women actively feel disgust towards sex with non alpha men, and only do it when they have something to gain with it. That's because women pay a higher price for having sex. If a man has sex with a low smv woman, he loses five minutes. If a woman gets pregnant by a low smv man she loses at least 9 months and the risk involved with pregnancy. The thought of unattractive men desiring sex is di…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:05 AM
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If I'm cheating on someone, I'm breaking a promise, if someone is cheating with me, they are the one doing that. If she cheats with me, is it my fault she cheated?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 04:41 AM
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I'm not saying it's okay, but to equate the two is to take away agency from the person doing the cheating.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 11:25 PM
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If you have sex with someone's wife, she's the one cheating, not you.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 11:00 PM
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See http://imgur.com/a/XWTn9 as well.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 05:25 PM
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Sex god method book has some nice chapters about this.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 01:55 AM
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If her friends are sluts, she likely is as well.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:59 PM
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Play a team sport.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 11:40 PM
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Women don't want commitment, they want investment. And only really when the epiphany phase kicks in.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 05:04 AM
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http://archive.is/YUeU0 may be helpful.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 03:36 AM
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If you can't see she's thin, she's fat. if you can't see her face...well guess what.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 07:30 PM
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It's your hindbrain telling you to take care of that woman and your child to have them survive.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 05:10 AM
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Have intellectual conversations with your buddies. not with plate(s).
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:16 PM
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But not muscle.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 03:38 PM
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Besides that, I'd suggest you take up jogging, it's easier than physically going to the gym and it'll help you look like the alpha that you feel you are. This is bullshit, cardio doesn't build muscle.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 03:23 AM
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Sexless relationships mean nothing.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 01:48 AM
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You look better, confidence is higher, your posture is right. Things like that. It also feels great. Girls are much less intimidating when you can OHP them for reps.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 01:43 PM
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Getting into a relationship is not going to make the sex better.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 01:40 PM
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You'll notice a lot of girls include pics of themselves with friends, so they probably think that shit like that is important. Because it is.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 01:31 PM
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I'm not that old, but plenty of people, like abdada, are older and slay like mad. Easier if you like milfs.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 02:20 AM
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He's too weak to have even basic self respect. There's nothing you can do.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 02:14 AM
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Here's a gem from the glorious days of fatpeoplehate; "Real women have curves, you are one big curve".
/r/askTRP08/03/16 02:01 AM
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"ltr qualities", such as getting your needs met?
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:48 PM
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And that's assuming you don't get divorced halfway through.
/r/MGTOW07/03/16 05:00 PM
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"apparently not"
/r/askTRP07/03/16 01:34 AM
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No need for dread game.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 01:24 AM
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Learn from your mistakes and move on.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 07:51 PM
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Put it in hot water beforehand.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 06:36 PM
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I really like Heartiste. If you can read past all of the political stuff.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 06:09 PM
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People have been having a lot less sex than they used to. Most women are carousel watchers, holding out for that 10/10 alpha male to commit to her.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 02:49 AM
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Flip the fupa up and go for it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 02:44 AM
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he was "alpha" the next minute by banging on about his job and bugging himself he works at a bank he is manager at one of their branches Bragging isn't an alpha trait.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/16 02:33 PM
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Viagra won't make you want sex more.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 04:07 AM
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That's true, but in nature there's no such thing.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:01 AM
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Male mating mistakes don't have permanent consequences.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 06:17 AM
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don't want to bother them This is you rationalizing yourself from approaching.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 04:09 PM
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The best way to kill codependency is to start spinning plates.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 05:38 AM
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Getting attention and being liked is similar to what getting sex is like for men.
/r/MGTOW03/03/16 05:16 AM
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She didn't ruin your senior year, you did. Learn to let go and forget her. If you have anger, take it out on the iron.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 04:49 AM
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Not like those fatties were in your dating pool to begin with. And being rude is nor necessarily a bad thing. I've had more girls like me for telling them to dump their boyfriends than by doing nice things for them.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 04:44 AM
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I can't blame her, if someone here told us his wife was drinking three bottles of wine a day we'd be telling him to dump her.
/r/MGTOW03/03/16 03:22 AM
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It's because you are human. It's your hindbrain screaming that you need to take care of her and your kids.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 03:14 AM
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They're not looking for commitment, they want investment (bb who can be divorce raped if necessary).
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 08:55 PM
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Yes, go to the gym. You could also get a massage, they're wonderful.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 06:26 PM
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Should I just make the effort?? Nah tell her that you're not a texting guy because you like talking face to face more, and she should be texting with her girlfriends instead.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 03:15 PM
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The other day I read this post. I thought it was a great example of how to be a rock.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 06:56 PM
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Yeah, you might as well roll over and die.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 06:50 PM
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Some men are alpha when it comes to finances, being in shape, handling other men, in business etc..but are beta when it comes to women. I've seen men who you'd think are alphas get tossed around by their fat wives.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 06:07 PM
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Deadlifts, reversed grip curls, farmers walk.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 04:08 PM
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This feeling is natural, don't feel bad about it. That said, don't let it control you.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 04:03 PM
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Buy her some books from the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 02:39 PM
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You need to eat less. You can't out-exercise a bad diet.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 11:23 PM
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Going for a run is also a great way to get rid of doms, especially after leg day.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 07:33 PM
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You are nowhere near ready for anything serious like kids or marriage. And she's a virgin right now?
/r/askTRP27/02/16 04:31 AM
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This is also why women think having a house, good career and a degree makes them more desirable.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:14 PM
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Because you can't turn a ho into a housewife.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 01:59 AM
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Yes, losing temper is losing frame.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 04:53 PM
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You'd say something like "Well, that x you cooked yesterday was to die for".
/r/askTRP25/02/16 01:03 PM
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Yes, gradually heat up, do not go sexual immediately.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 12:52 PM
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Her ex before me was leeeauges more attractive, especially before any RP knowledge. But she STILL cheated on him with me. You weren't better (or not), you were different. That is all it can take. lesson learned, don't ltr someone who's cheating with you.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 02:47 AM
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I need to get out more. What I'd like some advice on is that it seems that when I ask a girl out it feels like I instantly kill their attraction. I'm not going beta/oneitis or something...it's just something feels off to them, I guess. I don't have a lot of experience in that aspect, but things like OI, frame, swole are in good shape. My question is, how do you smoothly flow from flirting to going on a date?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 02:44 AM
2

That's every workout? Unless you go twice a week, you should run a PPL like scheme. Doing all those situps and pushups every time is a waste of time. Do other accessories, do abs one, maybe twice, a week.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 12:47 PM
1

But if you ask 1000 women who they prefer, brad Pitt wins 1000 times.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 12:41 PM
2

About 45 minutes to an hour, more if you do a powerlifting routine.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 03:11 AM
7

By way of feminine solipsism and a social order that only considers women’s imperatives as legitimate, collective feminine social consciousness rarely gives men’s imperatives an afterthought – and then only when they become problematic to the Feminine Imperative. It's always funny when they run into a wall when commitment/marriage is concerned and approach it as if there's some reason why he's not committing, rather than the lack of reason to commit. I have to COMPLETELY OVERCOME all my handicap…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 01:40 AM
5

This is why guys think women are not as interested in sex as men. they might, but it's more that women aren't sexual with most men that makes guys think that. They are sexual, just not with them.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 10:23 PM
2

The Rules is a how-to-catch-a-beta book.
/r/MGTOW23/02/16 03:30 PM
13

They don't need a book for that.
/r/MGTOW23/02/16 07:47 AM
5

So you've been watching the carousel, holding out for that 10/10 alpha male that will commit to you. Good luck with that.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 10:52 AM
4

Don't sweat yourself, chances are he'd never have developed like that if you hadn't rejected him.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:15 PM
1

What's in it for us? What should motivate us to do these things?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 09:42 PM
1

2) Nice guys finish Last. My cousin just dated a chick for a month and kept saying she was too nice and he couldn't be himself around her. Being nice is a turnoff for both genders. It's not that being nice is a turnoff - being unattractive is a turnoff.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 04:53 PM
7

Those women are strong, successful independent women. They can protect themselves.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 02:11 AM
2

Do you have a little sister? Like that. What do they say and how do you respond? If you give examples we can tell you how to fix it.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 04:38 PM
4

This. Whenever we're talking about "earning" or "working" for "it", this is what we mean. The effort should be expended on increasing your SMV, not the actual dating part.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 11:44 AM
1

And almost any man will be able to drag a woman more effectively.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 11:40 AM
1

It's easier to shame other people than to accept reality.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 10:55 PM
1

If she's super hot, why is she on a dating site?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 08:38 PM
12

Look for full body shots, if she doesn't have them, she's fat. Women who have goodies will show off those goodies, guaranteed. The rule of thumb is that if you can't see she's thin, she's fat.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:28 PM
1

Make fun of them for being orbiters, her for having them Example: You: Doesn't that feel odd to you? Her: What? You: You know, Bil, Pete, guys like that. That they're girlfriends, but guys. Isn't that weird?
/r/askTRP17/02/16 07:02 PM
2

Actually no. He was the hot guy with muscles, then he let himself go.
/r/MGTOW17/02/16 06:50 PM
6

I also wonder if our sex life has dwindled in part because I’ve let myself go, and ditched the healthy diet and rigorous workout regime I devoted my time to before we had children. So close...
/r/MGTOW17/02/16 06:49 PM
3

I'd also like it if only net contributers had voting rights.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 09:40 AM
5

Why the fuck do girls obsess about having their exes become orbiters?? It's all about keeping options in reach. Pretty useful to have a backup laying around just in case caveman Chad gets dragged away by a saber-tooth tiger.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 11:11 PM
14

See http://therationalmale.com/2015/08/11/post-selection/
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 10:14 AM
1

Get with more women. You'll develop a feeling for this kind of stuff.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 03:53 PM
1

Go for it, just don't get in a relationship.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 03:40 PM
11

It's because love works differently. Women fall out of love and start slowly checking out of the relationship. By the time you get dumped, they've been over it for a long time.
/r/MGTOW14/02/16 02:44 PM
3

/r/swoleacceptance
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 06:23 PM
2

Doesn't sound like it'll ever happen. Why not do these things with someone who reciprocates?
/r/askTRP12/02/16 09:18 AM
3

I was under the impression that Planet Fitness has neither squat racks nor big boy weights.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 09:11 AM
3

Say you had this hb5 plate, slightly chubby (nobody needs to know), who just can't get enough of sucking your dick - you don't really care or think about her but when you have a shitty evening or none of your other plates are coming over..she'll come over and be happy for it. Would you tell her to get lost?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 07:02 PM
1

It means "not having hookups with someone who's too stupid to realize I'm looking for a hookup".
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:12 PM
1

Of course, she's a woman.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 08:00 PM
1

It's your attitude that's the problem. What's your body fat %? Men's faces look a lot better at lower body fats.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 09:26 AM
1

They do say things like "he has to be able to handle me".
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 08:20 AM
1

Way too tryhard. How about "Ah, that explains a lot".
/r/MGTOW09/02/16 05:06 AM
4

What was he thinking he'd accomplish if you went into a 72h psych eval?
/r/MGTOW08/02/16 03:43 PM
10

It's a bit more nuanced than that. What it means is: "those creepy beta males should leave me alone", and then, "why do alpha men no longer look at me?"
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:37 AM
12

I like to start trolling them, for example "have you tried getting fat".
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 01:59 AM
6

Funny how she thinks how she's special because she was asked out daily. No hun, those guys are also asking out one girl a day. You weren't that hot.
/r/MGTOW07/02/16 06:29 AM
4

What do you think the shape of a penis head is for? to scoop out the semen of the previous guy
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 09:19 PM
2

Sure. It's like applying for a job and have a friend refer you so your resume is on top of the other 400 resumes. It's a lot easier to get in that way, but you still need to be able to get the job done.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 02:40 PM
4

Whatever works for you, but 8 us probably too many. Start focusing on quality, not quantity.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 07:18 AM
2

If you've kissed her, some minor ass touching is probably ok.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 11:48 AM
209

If she complains about it, tell her that she should get worried when you stop doing it.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 06:26 PM
30

And it'll still be his fault because he wasn't there for her.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 11:17 AM
2

You need to actually do it. Get a gym membership tomorrow and go. Even if you're only going to run on the treadmill for an hour.
/r/becomeaman01/02/16 06:35 AM
17

So you're not having sex with her? There's no way to salvage this. Be a man and dump her.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 06:18 AM
3

So are you actually working out or have you only decided to?
/r/becomeaman01/02/16 06:03 AM
6

Good luck getting any man, much less an attractive one, to wait for marriage.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 01:43 AM
1

try /r/weightroom or /r/powerlifting
/r/askTRP01/02/16 12:52 AM
1

Ask someone to check your form.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 12:51 AM
3

And the more it depreciates the more expensive it gets.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 12:44 AM
4

Worry less about looking like a dick.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 10:52 PM
5

Women want commitment from all men. Commitment to them, doesn't mean that they won't go and fuck other men. Commitment for you, is not commitment for them. Commitment for them is not commitment for you. Otherwise it would be an ideal partnership if both sides were committed, loyal, and didn't cause problems. I like to call it investment.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 10:46 PM
1

Don't escalate.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 12:48 AM
15

So let me ask a question. When you watch porn, do you watch porn with hot coed girls, or 40 year old with wrinkles and saggy tits? This is no more or less shallow than women's hypergamy. Men are expendable, woman are perishable. The good news is that you can climb up the wall, while a woman can't. Plus, if you do so you can get more than your fair share of women. My problem with hypergamy is only that's it's unrestrained. If women wouldn't get babies with Chad and have tax money pay for it and b…
/r/MGTOW30/01/16 11:04 AM
4

Because the issues most men face is that they're not alpha enough. In this society, no man needs help being nicer or more sensitive. Those things you listed do make you a "better person" and more of a prospect for a relationship, but it doesn't arouse women. Telling a guy that he'd do better with women if only he would be nicer and take them on expensive dates is like telling a woman that she'd get hot men to swoon over her if only she got a better paying job. Ironically, our society tells both.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 03:04 PM
2

That's a shit test, and it's usually a bad choice to reason your way out of it.
/r/MGTOW26/01/16 07:46 PM
2

The issue is that it isn't her, it's the nature of women and how you are currently interacting with it. If you've had this happen multiple times before, then YOU are the problem. Should you dump her and repeat this with another girl, this would happen again. ALL women would eventually do this. That's what we mean by AWALT. Now if other things were also at play, such as substance addiction, being a general retard, acting like an entitled cunt to everyone, then dumping her would be the right choic…
/r/MGTOW26/01/16 03:21 PM
5

If you had redpill mastery you wouldn't be phased by rejection. It doesn't mean fear of rejection.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 03:17 PM
1

Something something most responsible teenager in the house. Head over to the trp sub and read up about holding frame and 12 levels of dread.
/r/MGTOW26/01/16 01:51 PM
4

20% is almost chubby. 10% any day.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:04 AM
2

I didn't tell anyone when I started lifting. The moment when your relatives ask "Have you been working out" or "Have you ever thought of joining a gym" is the moment you're making it. None of this "we'll make him feel good about himself".
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 11:46 PM
66

A masculine man will repel masculine women like two north poles of a set of magnets. She'll repel you more than you repel her, because she'll still want a masculine man. Everyone who has ever been in a long term relationship or marriage will tell you - "Relationships are work". And it is true. It really is, however what is so often suggested is that the "work" needs to be more communication, more understanding, more respect. That's a load of shit. The "work" is holding up your end of the deal to…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 12:32 PM
2

If you get engaged, or god forbid, get married, this will get much worse. Don't do either.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 11:01 AM
2

Because it's different for sex vs commitment. For women, commitment with an attractive man is much harder.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 10:48 AM
12

I should get a condition called swolemorphia and get prescribed steroids. If transgenders can get gear, why not me?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 12:37 AM
2

They do get to experience their wives' smv peaks. We're not talking about wifing up 30 yo's.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 10:29 PM
1

Physical attractiveness, being in shape, having a hobby, building self confidence, actually looking like a man and many more benefits. It's such an easy way to distinguish yourself.
/r/becomeaman24/01/16 03:48 AM
1

Your taxes are paying for it.
/r/MGTOW24/01/16 03:20 AM
2

I wouldn't go so far as stating that they're consciously manipulating men. Women are attracted to what they need, and in a warzone that is someone who can protect them.
/r/MGTOW24/01/16 03:16 AM
3

A woman would never teach her daughter this. To do so would be admitting that she made a mistake and their hamster can't handle that. Women would rather protect the younger version of themselves than their own young.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 02:48 AM
1

Well, it is the woman who chooses. Men display, women choose.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 02:45 AM
10

Do not do this. 14% bodyfat is unhealthy. Women need more fat than men to function. At 27% she's not overweight. 20% would be ideal.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 01:25 AM
2

He's responsible for making her lose attraction, but it's her fault that she cheated on him like that.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 01:01 AM
1

The serious dudes won't find out about this.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 12:55 AM
4

She's a big girl and some cold isn't going to kill her.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 04:36 AM
4

I remember this guy who would send pictures of him cooking naked from behind, so no dick visible.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 02:09 AM
9

You must have missed the days of /r/fatpeoplehate. It was glorious.
/r/MGTOW22/01/16 03:28 PM
1

"a sort of serial polyamory" It's called serial marriage.
/r/MGTOW22/01/16 01:59 PM
1

Trust your gut. Make a mental note and then respond with "Idk, I think women should get some experience with what they like and don't like, imagine being stuck with one person your entire life".
/r/askTRP22/01/16 12:20 PM
27

Notice that this is the typical fat girl pose. This is how you hide a fupa.
/r/MGTOW22/01/16 12:18 PM
24

And some people are trying to teach her how to catch a beta. This is why all men need a dose of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:51 AM
1

It's not as one sided as that. Women have different problems than men do. Keep that in mind.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 09:22 PM
15

it's that way with men too, I used to think that "big" guys were all assholes and such...but they're some of the nicest people I know. Not sure why this happens, my guess is that hotter girls get hit on more often so they learn to be nice to people whilst ugly/fat girls don't get that experience so they don't know how to act. It has been shown that when women are rejected by attractive men, they turn more bitter and resentful towards unattractive men.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 06:08 PM
6

I love how Shaun ignores her attention bait.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 03:03 AM
2

AFC = average frustrated chump. I'm not sure why anyone uses it, but it means your average guy. Dadbod, submissive to women, you get it.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 12:36 AM
7

You need to get in a state where amused mastery flows naturally. That means, lift, have abundance mentality, stoicism and most importantly - do it from a standpoint of mindfucking the girl for fun, not as a means to get her.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 06:43 PM
2

"Curvy" is my favorite euphemism for "fat".
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 04:25 PM
2

Push Pull. You need more Pull.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 10:57 PM
1

But many girls ("exes" included) told me I would benefit by being softer and not overtly in game mode... what gives? It probably means you're too obvious. Remember that girls need some comfort too.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 05:13 PM
2

"I can't, you are on my bucket list."
/r/askTRP18/01/16 01:59 PM
0

OP, if it smells like shit everywhere, it's likely under your shoe. It sounds like you're the average hb6 with a small harem of orbiters and having trouble keeping men with options around. There are some betas who have my heart, Ok this is where I lose you. It's probably in that way where a woman loves a guy like she'd love a brother.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/16 11:40 PM
1

I can imagine it does, but OP didn't mention anything about suits, so I was wondering what he was referring to (maybe something like a cop/military uniform?).
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:36 PM
2

What is the uniform?
/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:46 PM
4

Yeah, you'd just look like a clown. Get swole, that way you'll stand out in a good way.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 02:11 AM
17

In fact, it has been shown that when women are rejected by attractive men, they turn more bitter and resentful towards unattractive men.
/r/MGTOW15/01/16 04:26 PM
2

Time to introduce chick #3.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 01:55 AM
2

Play a sport.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 12:05 PM
2

You're scared of wasting her time, youth and fertility - what has she been doing for the last 10 years then?
/r/askTRP14/01/16 12:01 PM
1

hasn't just tossed me the V yet (out of respect for herself and our potential together) You can stop hamstering, it's because she's not that attracted to you. The fact that you are considering a LDR with a girl you haven't fucked is enough proof of that.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 07:27 PM
1

You don't need to fuck them. Having things to do, such as cool hobbies, lifting, approaching women will do this for you.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 01:25 AM
6

See https://archive.is/sCTJt What it always keeps coming back to is...if these guys were happy with how their life and relationship were going, why would they read and utilize these things? Why fix something that isn't broken?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/16 05:43 PM
7

I find it hilarious that they talk about how someone's worth is not determined by the quantity of sex they're having...meanwhile they're virgin-shaming.
/r/MGTOW10/01/16 04:45 PM
3

Secondly, shes not the sort of girl whos going to put out immediately. She wont sleep with anyone unless she’s in a relationship with them (hence why she is not plate material). That doesn't necessarily make her ltr material.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 12:24 AM
5

"Okay, have a nice day".
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:21 PM
29

Consent to have sex is not consent to father a baby.
/r/MGTOW07/01/16 01:39 PM
1

Ultimatum sex is short lived. You'll need to be much more subtle in the future.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 09:03 PM
2

Just keep her as a far away plate.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 11:12 AM
1

Keep her as a plate.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:53 AM
3

Women that ride horses are nuts.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 06:58 AM
4

As well as condescending platitudes such as "You're a real catch, I know there's a really great woman out there for you, you'll find her some day I just know it!" What they don't understand is that it's not that he's not her "type", it's that he is nobody's type.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 07:43 PM
5

His issue is with marriage in general, not marriage to this particular woman, so the "would date but not marry" thing doesn't apply.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/16 07:06 PM
113

He's practically friendzoned by his mother already.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 05:02 PM
2

That's easy, just treat them like girls.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 10:59 AM
2

You got ghosted by a 37 year old sloot. I don't see the problem.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 04:45 PM
2

You're probably not eating well or getting enough rest.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 03:10 PM
3

Because for women it is socially acceptable to spin plates (= acquire backup options, orbiters, maintain friendzones).
/r/askTRP01/01/16 11:48 AM
2

It might also be because it's a bit more DisneyTM. It's easy for them to rationalize they're with him because he's so smart/nice rather than the usual Chad attributes.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:41 PM
3

If she was a hb5 chubster you wouldn't be doing this, so why would you do this for her?
/r/askTRP31/12/15 12:12 PM
6

Women don't necessarily want commitment, they want investment while not committing themselves so that they are free to move on should a better option become available.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 11:41 PM
2

Parents (and people in general) are more protective of girls than of boys. It's because, in nature, female mating mistakes are permanent, but men's are not.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/15 08:44 PM
2

Half of people are obese, and most that aren't are skinnyfat. Even if OP wears a shirt you'll be able to see his shoulders and traps, and his forearms and biceps if he's not wearing long sleeves. He easily makes 10%, maybe even 5% in terms of muscularity.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 05:12 AM
1

She loves him like she'd love her brother.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 04:45 AM
3

When I get in the proper state of mind all those things come naturally.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:29 AM
1

That's when the decline starts, nut 30ish is really the time when they get in trouble competing with younger women.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 12:57 PM
3

When you go camping and put a picnic table somewhere for a week the grass underneath it will initially grow very fast, until it dies. It's a last ditch attempt to get into the light.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 12:53 PM
5

Do you lift? Do you play a sport? Do you eat well? Personally I find that when either of those isn't in order I start feeling down and depressed. Humans were made to be physically active.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 12:08 PM
1

It means "Not hooking up with someone who doesn't grasp that I am looking for dick".
/r/askTRP29/12/15 08:40 AM
33

Also, don't fix up fatties. They'll resent you for it.
/r/MGTOW29/12/15 08:00 AM
22

Your dumbbell row form is atrocious.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 01:58 PM
1

Women would never freely fuck a guy they don't respect. But they forget it doesn't work the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 04:37 AM
1

You wouldn't notice if you smelled because you're used to it. Also, move out.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 10:28 AM
0

If she asks why, just tell her "If you have to ask why you clearly didn't know me very well". Works well in public too.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 10:13 AM
1

What will happen is that his sister will tell him that "She loves him as he is" and that he'll listen to her. I tried this.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 08:46 AM
13

When she says she loves you, she means it in the way she loves her brother. You might be able to salvage this, but it'd be easier to dump her and start over. Under no circumstance marry her, or god forbid, get her pregnant.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/15 11:45 AM
2

Grab his D.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 09:22 AM
1

You should consider making a post about this. Btw. As for 2, you could also be doing something that makes them uncomfortable with escalating.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 05:15 AM
2

Loud music, lighting that makes old women with too much makeup look good.
/r/MGTOW25/12/15 11:37 PM
2

His semen is better though. Women need good genetic material and provisioning. That would be Jamar and you respectively.
/r/MGTOW25/12/15 05:41 AM
1

If you had a strong man in your life you would not be trolling here.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:18 AM
-3

If he was alpha as hell she wouldn't be like that.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 12:52 AM
1

If she was into you she wouldn't be fucking around.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 06:22 PM
1

I've heard it a couple of times.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 04:25 AM
-2

I haven't responded "I still have some left. The other kind."
/r/askTRP23/12/15 10:41 PM
2

Then do it only to girls you like.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 06:25 AM
1

I'd guess she was much more attractive 15 years ago.
/r/MGTOW21/12/15 11:03 PM
2

Are you a woman? Are they women? Are you someone people want things from? You need to give more details.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 08:00 PM
0

You'd marry or have kids with a woman you don't want to have sex with?
/r/MGTOW21/12/15 05:18 AM
0

I lift and play sports because I like it, not for women. I want a decent woman, not a "hot" woman. Yeah, but you want to enjoy fucking her, right? That's what "attractive" means.
/r/MGTOW21/12/15 05:00 AM
0

Your victim puke is pathetic. And since I can't make myself taller or not ugly or White, I can't make myself "acceptable" to women's, or my own, standard. You can lose weight and build muscle. Ditch the sweatpants, too. You want an attractive woman, right? As it turns out women, especially attractive ones, also want attractive men. By simply not being pathetic, you can already beat ~60% of men. If you're in shape, you beat 90% of men.
/r/MGTOW21/12/15 04:46 AM
6

What if I like being fat and lazy? Same thing.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 11:46 PM
14

It works because they're comparing you to their husbands, whereas with single girls you are compared against everyone else. Also, stop smoking.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 10:53 PM
7

Why people don't dump obviously insane hoes is beyond me.
/r/MGTOW20/12/15 10:24 PM
3

It may be a projection thing where they find men with lots experience sexy, and assume it works the other way around. Or they want to advertise to alphas how easy they are, as in that they're not prudes.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 05:33 PM
1

They're called smurfettes, and it is a subset of women that like to bask in the attention of thirst betas and omegas.
/r/MGTOW20/12/15 04:32 PM
8

Can you blame her? She can't negotiate her own desire.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 10:37 PM
1

Time to detonate this plate. Arrange things so you're fucking another chick when she walks in and then tell her "You were so late that I thought you weren't coming anymore so I invited Sarah over".
/r/askTRP17/12/15 03:24 PM
12

I hope you dumped her yesterday.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 03:20 PM
-1

Don't chase women, chase yourself.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 02:58 AM
1

a buttplug
/r/askTRP16/12/15 07:08 PM
9

More backstory which I think is highly relevant; a few weeks ago my gf wrongly suspected me of cheating on her and suddenly got up from my couch and said she was going home because she couldn't trust me. She had been texting this same friend non-stop for 20 minutes prior to this. After a little drama and her crying we made up and lay in bed for an hour and during that time this same friend called her five times (which she didn't answer). I think it's clear that her friend was egging her on to br…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:12 PM
10

"Yes, my other girls can't cook nearly as well as you can".
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:28 PM
33

Even worse, sometimes there are just days or weeks where you are On Fire. It's like a highlight of a highlight. Good luck out-alphaing the guy who fucked her in the bushes at mardi gras while she's the one washing your shitstains out of your underwear.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 10:32 PM
6

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/05/16/incel-vs-insol/ Those girls want the omega males no more than the omega males want to fuck those fatties.
/r/MGTOW15/12/15 10:23 PM
2

I usually close first date but I actually might try to LTR this one so didn't go for that. You're putting her on a pedestal here. Treating a good girl like a slut will never lead you astray.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 03:48 PM
1

"I go to the gym every now and then."
/r/askTRP15/12/15 01:30 PM
1

Fortunately most male problems are opt-in problems. In this case, you either black knight the hell out of her or you walk away.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:30 PM
19

You would not feel like this if you had another plate. She does, so she doesn't.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:43 PM
12

Turn her down in a way that allows her to save face. In this case, a good way would be to tell her that she's too young for you.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 06:57 PM
1

I said the sex had nothing to do with it, and she denied. I'd just be honest the next time. Saves you the mental energy. You don't owe her your effort or time. Stop trying to save hoes. Drop her; if you want to help her out, tell her to quit dating for a moment and to work on herself.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 06:20 PM
1

Whenever I feel sad or down, I do a couple of 10 reps pullups. As far as body weight exercises go they're a lot more taxing and useful than crunches or pushups.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 05:36 PM
2

Train your "WTF is going on"-face. The best way to handle this is to let him be an idiot.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 05:28 PM
2

her response an hour later is 'so I guess you'll never update it'. You: "I thought it was a bad idea to set a nude picture as my profile image".
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:36 PM
5

Don't overanalyze this, just go, if you want to.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 01:51 AM
2

Give it a try, you have nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 12:57 AM
21

They are kicked off the ride if they age or get fat.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 08:58 PM
2

When I see a wall of text, my reaction is always "nah, not gonna work". Hasn't failed yet.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 03:12 AM
1

See https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/10/12/the-duke-rejection-list/ What did the first place man do differently than the last place man? He catered to her female need for signs of romance and commitment (which, in the end, weren’t forthcoming. And that kid went HA HAW): “…intense level of eye contact”. “‘…if I get lucky you’ll wake me up with a kiss in the morning'”. “Him refusing to allow me to leave before noon”. “…how important it was to him that I got off as well”. So when PUAs talk abou…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 01:25 AM
1

His frame is impeccable.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 03:20 AM
1

Is there a way too turn her into an fb while being reasonably honest about my intentions? "I'm just not ready for a relationship". Is it "fair" on her (if she knows my intentions). She's a big girl. She can make her own decisions.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 02:36 AM
1

Measure it. Most gyms have a scale that can measure things like BF, muscle mass etc. You will also have an easier time gaining muscle mass with higher BF, and you won't get "chubby" until at least 15-17%. 10-11% is ideal - abs and arm/shoulder veins are still visible, depending on your fat distribution. I'm an ectomorph that has a hard time gaining fat Bullshit. Eat more.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 08:51 PM
1

6% is unhealthy, and 8% is on the low side. I'd get it up to 10-11% and see how you feel then. Low sex drive and not sleeping well are symptoms of low BF. Do you also feel drained after working out and do you have a general lack of energy and drive?
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:19 PM
1

If your BF is too low that can nuke your libido too. What % are you at?
/r/askTRP10/12/15 05:12 PM
1

Is your diet on point?
/r/askTRP10/12/15 04:55 PM
1

"Good choice, I love myself very much too."
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:23 AM
3

"I didn't really feel any chemistry"
/r/askTRP07/12/15 02:29 PM
2

Well you do that thing with your tongue that I really like.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 10:12 AM
1

You're not a woman. You can look older and do well.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 12:37 AM
1

Stronglifts has few upper body workouts, so you'll want to add stuff if you go with it.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 10:54 PM
11

Hit the gym. Get stuff off your chest in sets of five reps.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 10:43 PM
3

Almost like he's a woman - buying stuff for the brand and flashiness rather than quality and effectiveness.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 08:01 PM
8

He won't listen. The best thing you can do is to be there for him when he needs it.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 04:54 PM
2

I felt betrayed by her changing her mind about kids. I felt like she tricked me even before stumbling onto TRP. Baby crazy is female nature. Changing your mind isn't betrayal; be happy she told you instead of trapping you with kids.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 11:31 PM
29

"You're such an asshole".
/r/askTRP04/12/15 11:22 PM
16

The problem is that they don't realize that if you're unhappy, "getting" a woman won't make you happy. You have to be happy on your own.
/r/MGTOW04/12/15 08:42 PM
3

Not necessarily. I've seen men who were Alpha when it came to handling their businesses and other men, but who also were complete betas when it came to managing their fat wives.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 08:23 PM
2

You do nothing. Why do you care?
/r/askTRP03/12/15 11:16 PM
10

If you have enough things going on in your life, not necessarily women, that works too.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 10:54 AM
3

How's your diet? I found that when I wasn't eating well/enough my libido crashed.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 01:16 PM
4

Your Frame needs work. You need frame as much with your mother as with any other woman in your life. Getting pissed off and lashing out is Losing Frame. How you respond to her is more important than what you respond with. For example, you could respond with something like: "Mom, I appreciate that you're trying to help me but I'm an adult now and I want to handle this on my own. It's going fine so far. I promise that if I'm stuck or need help I'll ask you for help." Then again, my own mother isn'…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 05:54 PM
3

I wouldn't dump her just yet. Dumping isn't the solution for everything. If the issue is that you aren't alpha enough (which most likely is the case), then dumping your GF will do you little good. Now if your girlfriend was abusive or a cunt, etc, then dumping her would be the right thing to do. Are you someone girls want to be with? Do they give you iois, do they try to get in your proximity? So, for the day I did my best to focus on school work that I needed to do/ talk to her step dad (whom I…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 11:24 AM
4

Your time management sucks. You do not sleep enough. You probably get 4 to 5 hours a night - that's why you feel tired on weekends. 2 hours of jogging a day is a waste of time, and you'll arrive at uni sweaty and tired. Friday and the Weekend is "free" time. Does this mean you don't do...anything? You should spread out your homework. How you're feeling like now is a consequence of not having things going on in your life. What you need to to is to play a team sport (for the sport, and also the in…
/r/askTRP29/11/15 03:54 PM
9

And all of these were way hotter when they were young.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 01:52 PM
11

How you become attractive or fit is another discussion... Even simpler. You pick up stuff and put it back down!
/r/askTRP29/11/15 10:01 AM
1

"I have an active social life, don't you?"
/r/askTRP29/11/15 08:54 AM
7

Feminism is a shittest, and the shame towards male sexuality is to weed out alphas from betas.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 07:23 PM
6

The best route, and one that'll at least generate some respect, is to be honest and own it. Tell them that you do like her and like to spend time with her but that you aren't a ltr kind of guy. Stuff like that.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 07:22 PM
4

Because we're telling him what he needs to hear, not what he wants to hear.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/15 06:17 PM
2

He never was your best friend, you just found out he wasn't.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 09:34 AM
1

I prefer "When they arrive they're wet and wild but when they go away your house and car are gone".
/r/askTRP28/11/15 08:46 AM
9

But that's not going to work. Any guy worth dating will dump her ass if she's not going to put out.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 07:55 AM
3

It's hard to tell as you haven't given much detail, but it sounds like "Why can't you be a nice obedient beta like all other men?" If so, it means you're doing something right.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 11:32 PM
1

Your first priority should be getting to 10% BF. It's hard to tell which parts are lacking because of your BF.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 05:45 PM
15

"I'm a feminist".
/r/askTRP27/11/15 12:23 PM
9

You own it. "Yeah, I'm going to a party tonight, figured I'd light one up". And quit smoking already.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 12:22 PM
1

It depends on what. If it's AWALT things like testing boundaries - those things you can control. But you cannot control her red flags.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 07:20 PM
56

So I gave her an ultimatum, okay you are not do not speak to him and I will get back to you within a week with my decision. Lesson learned: If you tell someone they can't do something, they won't stop doing it, they'll do it while hiding it from you. If there's something you don't like in a girl (e.g. she talks to exes, she has bad habits like smoking, other slooty behaviour), you cannot change her. Telling her to change won't work because that motivation has to come from within. SHE'S SHOWING W…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 06:15 PM
2

I decided that I was gonna ask her out the next semester Yeah, it's a really bad idea to wait so long. You have to strike while the iron is hot.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:32 PM
2

Men are expendable, women are perishable. I think we still get the better deal.
/r/MGTOW26/11/15 05:23 PM
4

Then wait until he actually marries you... Who am I kidding. 10 to 1 odds that this woman is a "born again virgin".
/r/MGTOW26/11/15 08:22 AM
1

"We'll have some drinks and then you can cook dinner at my place".
/r/askTRP25/11/15 05:44 PM
1

That's like telling your wife "fuck me or fuck you". It'll only work temporarily.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 10:36 AM
1

You're like a brother to her.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 10:30 AM
2

Put on your shit eating grin or a sadface and say "You really only see me as a piece of meat, don't you?"
/r/askTRP25/11/15 10:23 AM
1

That's a good rate. Remember that it's a marathon, not a sprint.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 11:33 AM
3

77 dates, not a 77 notch count.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 07:59 PM
9

I joked with her that this isnt my style yada yada, then she kept insisting if u don't want to just ignore this and what not. Way too serious. Next time tell her: "I didn't think you'd be down for a threesome with your sister".
/r/askTRP23/11/15 01:50 PM
1

I don't think women are saints. I'm saying that if you give someone the chance to cheat with someone they find very attractive with little effort and provided their partner won't find out, that their gender isn't really relevant to whether they will do it. Of course since it's much easier for women to have sex they will be in that position more, and cheat more.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:47 PM
13

It's like dating a fat girl. She'll resent you for committing to her.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:09 AM
-1

I don't think there's reasoning behind it. Men and women all have the capability to be shitty people. The reason most men don't cheat is because they can't, not because they're supposedly "better".
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 12:55 AM
2

Do you have days off? Use those. Even lifting one or two days a week is worth something.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 12:20 AM
1

Why are you still in a relationship with her?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 11:58 AM
1

'whenever' isn't true, it gets significantly harder the older they get, and the uglier they are.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 09:03 AM
34

If you're alpha widowed and fucked Chads throughout your twenties, commitment with a decent guy will still feel like settling.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 08:59 AM
2

Handsome and decent doesn't mean attractive. You can be handsome and ripped yet beta to the bone.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 05:12 AM
1

Just like how for men, getting sex with fat, old or hideous women is easy, but sex with attractive women is much more difficult.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 04:47 AM
1

She just wants to make sure dumping you was the right thing to do. What you should be doing instead is hitting the gym and moving heavy ass weight.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 11:42 AM
13

Do women grow out of the CC phase? These women change lanes (rather, try to change) because they have to, not because they want to. Would you really offer commitment to someone who admits to a bad record of honouring commitment herself? Do yourself a favour and never commit to this girl. When you inevitably end up dumping her, don't mention why (otherwise, she'll wise up and hide her past to the next guy).
/r/askTRP20/11/15 11:50 PM
2

He wouldn't spend every day with her if he wasn't, unless he's needy and only has one plate.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 10:54 PM
3

"SO"? I thought he was an "almost boyfriend", a.k.a. you're a plate?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 10:43 PM
6

Yet if the situation was reversed, everyone would still be throwing him under the bus. Lol, women.
/r/MGTOW20/11/15 03:58 AM
7

She's already made at least one mistake (being a single mother). Do you want to take the risk of playing in her next one?
/r/askTRP19/11/15 02:51 PM
2

Yes, you listen to her problems, give her attention and validation. Men tend not to care about it nearly as much.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 08:52 PM
1

It's gross for women of any age.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 08:43 PM
5

This girl is a hoe. Your problem is that you're trying to wife up a hoe. Hoes should be plated (at best) or fukked and chukked. Not wifed.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 08:30 PM
2

If you had a one night stand with Slutty Sue, would you tell her that? And you're right, you shouldn't get that bossy straight away. ease her into it, get gradually more dominant.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 08:16 PM
15

It pisses you off because it's low quality behavior. That's why these women are plates and nothing more.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 06:28 PM
3

That's the spirit!
/r/MGTOW18/11/15 06:20 PM
4

So what does she do if you tell her to get on her knees and suck your dick?
/r/askTRP18/11/15 06:15 PM
11

Good job on dumping the dead weight. Now get your head cleared by lifting some heavy ass weights.
/r/MGTOW18/11/15 05:49 PM
4

It's not just your level that make you hard to replace. You might be managing some legacy system, working on a project or be a sys admin. If you're one of few or the only person in charge of it, it will take quite some effort to bring someone up to speed. If you wonder about how replaceable you are, imagine in how much trouble your company would be if you got hit by a bus tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 05:44 PM
1

If you are a girl's beta orbiter, what does she get and what do you get?
/r/askTRP18/11/15 05:35 PM
4

Very few women can pull off the "too much makeup" look. Ideally you'd look like you aren't using makeup but you are. If you aren't lifting or working out or playing a sport, you should start doing it asap; it makes you look a great deal better.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 05:34 PM
4

Because of the lack of physical intimacy. Those skype calls aren't a replacement for that, and she gets a lot more out of them than you do.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 02:23 PM
5

So it seems, but you're a lot less replaceable than in other cubicle jobs.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 10:58 AM
7

LDRs don't work.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 06:49 AM
-1

To be fair, Karen could lose some weight herself. And grow out her hair.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 10:04 AM
6

there is something seriously wrong with her brain. Yes, she's a woman. While you're sulking about not getting sex, she'll perceive you as you'd an overweight woman with dyed short hair walking around in a hoodie and baggy jeans.. Whereas if you are the life of the party, are surrounded by hot women hanging to your every word and just killed it in your new job, you'd be like that latina HBB wearing that tight sexy dress with her hair and makeup done just right. That is because your (as a man) aro…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 06:22 AM
3

Terrible advice. Just skip straight to dread game, upping smv and running game.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:46 AM
4

So you've taken your wife out to a work party, she witnessed those HBBs trying to jump you in front of her and later that evening she creamed herself on your cock?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:45 AM
3

You don't get butthurt over rejection. You stay outcome independent. You start playing dread games. Search 12 stages of dread for the next actions. If this continues, you next her and/or start fucking other women.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 02:03 AM
6

There are different kinds of explaining. Explaining why you do, didn't or don't do something, is not necessarily a bad thing. But you have to do it without sounding like you're using logic to convince her. E.g. Good Example Her: Can we have a cat? You: No. We can't afford that, I don't want the hairs all over the house and we're often gone weeks at a time. Her: Pleeeeessseeee? You: We're not having a cat. (or, "You're all the purring sweetness I'll ever need") Bad Example Her: I'm really tired t…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 06:38 PM
25

Logic and math are patriarchal tools meant to oppress women.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 04:33 AM
1

Dominance.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 04:18 AM
4

Also plan on telling her that I like what we have and if she wants to keep it casual then I'm cool with it. You haven't even fucked her. Why would you say this?
/r/askTRP16/11/15 03:12 AM
3

Because they don't have to.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 10:41 PM
9

I'm convinced that those tears were 100% real though. You'd be surprised at how easily women can switch on the tears.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 09:30 PM
1

Tell her she's a dumbass for only now starting to think of marriage.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 09:15 PM
3

"Going to the bar? You're not twenty anymore." You're just trying to get back at her, if you were over her you'd feel apathy towards her. It's best to go NC.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 03:41 AM
2

You can't ask us to read it in Dom's voice and then not make funny jokes.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 06:25 AM
5

Hire a maid.
/r/MGTOW13/11/15 09:15 AM
2

Women are more likely to cheat when they're fertile.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 03:48 PM
3

Nothing good will come of this. Ignore her.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 11:41 PM
1

It could be a "You can't fire me, I quit!" thing. he rejected her, she hamsters it into her rejecting him.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 11:39 PM
24

At the very least he uses party drugs.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 06:35 AM
3

You dump her. LDRs are a very bad idea. You'd be much happier if you dumped her and started dating another girl(s).
/r/askTRP10/11/15 06:21 AM
2

Put it in. Handjobs? Please, you can do those yourself.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 06:14 AM
20

You can be an Alpha to men and a complete beta to women. I've seen men who were the boss when it came to managing their companies etc, but a beta bitch when it came to handling their fat wives.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 06:08 AM
2

If she's going to spend that kind of money, you'll just feel obligated. Instead tell her: "Jane, I appreciate what you're trying to do here, but I'm not really a big gifts person. I prefer something thoughtful but small.".
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:59 AM
1

has stated that she wants my kids one day Hamster to English translation: I want you to raise my (read: not your, or our) kids one day.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 02:42 AM
5

Screw protection. I wouldn't touch single mothers unless you have a vasectomy.
/r/MGTOW09/11/15 05:53 AM
3

Kingkiller Trilogy (note: 3rd isn't out yet). A rather RP series of books if you ask me.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:17 AM
3

Petty revenge fantasies are not black knighting.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 02:04 AM
24

Because women don't want commitment, they want investment. The best way to do that is to get you committed to her, while she's free to move on should a better deal come along.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 06:26 PM
1

I wouldn't use it on the first date. It's going to trigger ASD if she's not already comfortable with you. YMMV.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 11:06 PM
4

That's an ironic question. Some women are more naturally attractive than others and some are more naturally thin. Just like some men are naturally more attractive, but even the most attractive, muscular men can be beta bitches. There's no such a thing as being naturally thin either. A proper diet will make a person, man or woman, thin. And some are both, good breeding material if you're into that sort of thing. There's more to being wife material than being attractive and not fat. But if you dat…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:48 PM
14

"i'll send you something dirty so you know it's me" That's when you tell her "Meet me at X on Y, wear a dress, no panties".
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:02 PM
2

There's no such thing as a "natural" alpha. Do you think there are "natural" chess champions too? They just took risks, did well initially, and developed their alpha personalities on the way. Likewise, those chess players got good by practising, failing and eventually winning for thousands of hours. If we'd taken your "true alpha" and put him in a single mother household he'd be a beta bitch and you wouldn't give him the time of day. One of my main issues with TRP is training beta men to fake it…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:58 PM
4

If she's begging you to marry her, it doesn't mean she loves you.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 07:27 AM
2

Keep in mind that some of those replies may be intended as compliments. I'd not use sarcasm. Them: "Lifting isn't healthy blah blah blah" You: "Thanks for your concerns, but I'll be ok" Them: "You're getting too big" You: "No, I can still fit through doorways".
/r/askTRP05/11/15 10:18 PM
5

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQlIPOTbuH8
/r/MGTOW05/11/15 05:52 PM
1

You need to spin 3 plates at once.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 01:04 PM
1

Tinder. Post a picture of yourself and your girl, in the male looking for female section. State in the description that you're looking for a threesome.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:57 PM
2

Why are you texting with her? Don't you have a date already? You can talk with her then.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:43 PM
5

The difference is that women only have a sex drive for alphas.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 06:19 PM
11

If you really want to do a proper meltdown, you need to target someone's primal insecurities. For women, these are being ugly, getting old and being a slut. Obviously, for different people they will apply more or less. For the hookup girl, you'd use the ugly focus, while for the "man up" girl you'd use a slut insult. To get away with doing this, you have to wrap it up so it's not perceived as the insult it is. Have you ever seen women amongst each other? They do this ALL the time. So take the ti…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 07:32 PM
11

Just substitute "men" with "alpha men". Meanwhile, if you do take her out for dinner you're automatically pegged as a beta and cast aside. Lol, women. It's always fun to nuke the hamster: "Well if all these men want is sex, maybe you're not as attractive as you think you are".
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 05:08 PM
2

If they put out, that's a contribution.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 02:28 AM
3

"skinny" in this context means don't be a mass monster. No one here is going to get that far.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 12:04 AM
6

Your wife is fine with not having sex?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 05:52 PM
6

Have fun throwing more of your life and money away when you marry her and find out her kids aren't yours. She just did you a solid.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 09:33 AM
1

Supposedly this age men start to peak their value and women start to decline. Although, I have not experienced any such thing. This will only happen if you invest in yourself. Male SMV is built. I would not recommend looking for marriage material. If you marry someone now, you will end up in a dead bedroom. If you can spin 3 plates at once, then you can start looking for marriage material. Actually, do not fucking marry her.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:06 AM
2

The maturity gap is titanic and that is just not fun to deal with. There's a surprisingly small maturity gap between adult women. Something something most responsible teenager in the house.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 12:38 AM
2

Also, you make a post about wanting to lose your v-card and then say you don't care about getting laid? You kind of sound full of shit, no offense. Maybe he doesn't really care about the physical act of sex itself, but rather that they're someone who has sex or can have sex. As in, can you really feel like a man if you can't fulfill your biological purpose?
/r/askTRP31/10/15 06:25 PM
1

Do you make them laugh? Do you make (sexual) jokes?
/r/askTRP31/10/15 06:08 PM
31

Sounds fake to me. I mean, have you ever heard a woman say "involuntarily celibacy"?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 01:44 PM
0

Most guys train heavier than that, and for more reps. Yes, that's proper posture, coupled with being muscular in those places. Not necessarily, stick to a program, get enough volume in, eat well and rest. You will make gains. Yes, it's so you avoid training a bodypart without enough rest. You basically rotate them. Go to bed earlier, don't watch tv or play with devices before sleeping. And eat and exercise well.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 02:35 AM
2

Yes, and it's just as unattractive as when a guy catches it.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 02:06 AM
1

I wouldn't recommend relying on this long term.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 01:44 AM
18

Back when fatpeoplehate was a thing there was a thread about how this obese woman had sex with her obese boyfriend. They just jerk each other off (piv is logistically impossible).
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 11:46 PM
2

Well, do you already have plates, or are you at least trying to plate other women?
/r/askTRP29/10/15 11:44 PM
2

Not talking about things to avoid hurting their feelings is also a bad thing.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:47 PM
11

Look up "smurfette". Unattractive women who drown in the attention of beta males.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 03:36 PM
6

Fuck that, I'd just give her a fake address and let her find out for herself.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 06:11 PM
8

It's super nice of them to give it all away for free now. Well, not really - you still have some Burden of performance. Back then you had to pay for it with money, now you pay with the effort you put into your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:31 AM
5

That's when you turn on your shit eating grin and tell her: "Hillary couldn't even satisfy her man, how the hell can she satisfy an entire country?"
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:58 PM
6

Their game is convincing you they're an unicorn.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:24 PM
9

And the problem is also that you'd get them at 30.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 01:22 PM
1

People take Rich Piana seriously?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 01:39 AM
2

Do you have sources for those posts?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 07:43 PM
1

That's when you branch swing.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 06:05 PM
1

Girls can smell that from miles away. Do you have any suggestions? Do you have enough "things" to do, e.g. job/study, lifting, sport, buddies, hobbies here and there? Having these tends to keep yourself from obsessing over another thing. As for the girls you're not really attracted to - practice on them. Spin them as plates and you'll see your issues evaporate.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 02:30 AM
2

I only get girls that I'm not really attracted to do that to me, but I really don't give two shits about them... That means you crossed the looks line (you look like a man, not a boy) but your Game isn't...plus, you are treating attractive girls differently than unattractive ones. Try to figure out what you're doing different and adapt. Do you get "the eyes", do you make them laugh, do they seem receptive..? And do you end up having sex?
/r/askTRP25/10/15 10:47 PM
1

Look into body weight exercises.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 06:42 PM
8

It's a lot easier to be celibate when you can jump off whenever you want.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 05:34 PM
96

This is a plain lack of self respect, people like him can't be saved.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:10 AM
40

Arguing with a woman is like wrestling with a pig - you get covered in mud and they love it. What I'd have done was: "So why not dump him and date [Beta Billy] over there?" Her: He's a loser "Maybe you're not as attractive as you think you are..." As for the second example, "That depends, do your hobbies include shopping and watching netflix?"
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:09 AM
3

Escort.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 01:35 AM
5

What was the text?
/r/askTRP24/10/15 10:25 AM
1

You might be a bit too nice. Try to covertly communicate that you're fucking other women.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 02:38 AM
4

A terrible idea. Who wants to look like a fat fuck?
/r/askTRP22/10/15 11:11 PM
1

Funnily enough she messages me later saying she can't go out tonight because she has to study for us to go out on another day. I obviously call her out on her bullshit, and say thats fine but that we would probably lose attraction because I am going out tomorrow and next week is halloween. (very easy to fuck uni girls on fridays, and on halloween) So that if we are going out it will be in the future and I might be serious with another girl or simply forget about her. I like to keep it as sincere…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 10:57 PM
5

But how many of those emails are from alpha men interested in offering commitment? After all, that's what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 09:47 PM
1

You'd think there's a correlation between being a strong logical thinker, having ambitions and caring for your body and yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 09:42 PM
1

No one is saying intelligence and competence aren't valuable traits in a partner, but they aren't arousing traits. They don't make a man want to have sex with her. And, you can't use these traits to replace things like femininity, looking hot..etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 09:25 PM
3

I'd call that early. The earlier the better.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:10 AM
1

These things would not be on your mind if you had another plate.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:30 AM
2

She's actually very feminine and even my SO agrees that his friend is an idiot for not seeing her potential. If he doesn't want a relationship at all, it doesn't matter how feminine she is or how much potential she has.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 11:12 PM
2

Some people (mostly women) want what they can't have and don't want what is in reach. She's one of them.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 10:47 PM
1

"Why do you like players so much?" "Actually, I'm saving myself for marriage, ask GF."
/r/askTRP20/10/15 12:48 PM
2

While I agree that it's a slower CC, I see it as major red flag that someone who has been in a lot of LTRs can't make it work.? That depends on your goals. If you want a lifetime ltr with kids...then obviously you're barking up the wrong tree. But for a plate that's fine. Who is doing the dumping, the men or herself? It is a red flag either way.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 01:07 AM
2

Is this the same as riding the CC? It's just a slower carousel ride.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 12:29 AM
2

Women want investment, not commitment.
/r/MGTOW19/10/15 11:48 AM
3

/r/niceguys is really more like UnattractiveGuys, CringyGuys or CluelessGuys. Very rarely there is any malice involved.
/r/MGTOW18/10/15 09:36 PM
1

I don't see any fat dudes with hot chicks. If anything, I see more average dudes with fat chicks.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 03:13 PM
8

lesson learned: take hot girls to the pool/beach for first date.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 11:09 PM
1

Is this a pattern or something you only got from this girl?
/r/askTRP16/10/15 04:34 PM
8

The Wall isn't necessarily about becoming hideous - it's about losing ground to a fresh generation of women and competing with them for top men.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 04:29 PM
1

A 6 is above average. Not some landwhale.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 11:05 AM
2

180cm is not small. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 11:21 AM
1

Reset and start swiping. You might see her again.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 12:34 AM
1

Come up with some starter conversations. For example, if you're talking to a girl who is working/volunteering in public (waitressing, giving out samples, flyering - you name it), you can use something like: You: I'd love a job like yours/You look like you love your job. Her: What/Why? You: Well...you can just stand around...talk to people.... It's easy to branch out after that, just get it started.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 06:13 PM
3

If you're not making moves you're not going to get anywhere with girls, and if you are you're dealing with girls way, way below your smv.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 02:03 PM
1

Are you fucking other women?
/r/askTRP14/10/15 12:14 AM
18

There is no shame in this. It would only be shameful if you make this mistake again.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 12:13 AM
49

The sex is never worth the wait. You should have bailed much sooner.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 12:00 AM
1

What freaks me out is that i'm gonna leave highschool a virgin with no dating experience Don't beat yourself up over this. Many men were/are in the same situation.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 11:56 PM
1

Glasses make eye contact a lot harder. I think everyone looks better with contacts.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 11:45 PM
2

It's like that because it is a shittest.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 11:41 PM
1

Gaining (or losing) fat does amazing things to a person.
/r/MGTOW13/10/15 11:32 PM
4

It's fairly obvious by now that the life of the beta men has been becoming harder and harder in the last decades, but they still had a chance once women hit the wall and had to lower their expectations. But now? A woman settling for a beta provider is not a real chance. But I'll take my chances in a world full of hbbs. I suspect anti aging technology will be much like smartphones - advanced but mass produced and relatively cheap.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 11:08 AM
1

The thing to always keep in mind is that women can't get pregnant against their will. In every case of a woman baby-trapping a man, becoming a single mother or cuckolding someone, it was intentional. There are too many methods of birth prevention and termination for it to be accidental.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 11:03 AM
0

What you will do: validate her jealousy. Even better: "They want what you have."
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 09:38 AM
1

It's about opening the door and grabbing her ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 07:13 AM
6

Most of us had beta fathers, if we had one at all. Don't resent him for it. If kids is something you want, instead use it as fuel to become the most badass alpha father you can be.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 07:22 PM
1

For the moment i just pretend i have a boyfriend but i am not sure it's a good idea. It is not. The I Have A Boyfriend method sucks for two reasons: a) they will perceive it as a shittest and push through, b) someone you do like may pick up on it and not ask you out as a result. Don't feel bad about rejecting men. When you do, be gentle, nice and clear. Don't do: After they've asked you out, being afraid to reject them and giving them the cold shoulder and ignoring them makes you look like a bit…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 07:04 PM
11

If we're looking at their track record for making mistakesTM the single mother is to be avoided more.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 06:27 PM
16

Then please tell me how I can become attracted to obese women instead of thin and slender ones. This would make my tinder adventures so much less painful.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 03:12 PM
269

Whenever a girl is "single" she has one or more of the following: A fuckbuddy (or two), some beta who thinks he has a shot and going on dates with her who she's kind of stringing along, guys (at, say, work) who she knows are interested in her, beta orbiters who do her homework, hundreds or thousands of followers on various social media platforms. Women are never SingleTM in the way men experience it - that no one is interested in you.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 03:09 PM
37

Math and logic are patriarchal tools meant to oppress women.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 03:04 PM
10

And then she'll find she married a guy she isn't attracted to. You can't negotiate your own desire either.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 02:57 PM
10

Say you have a company. Would you hire someone with 50+ jobs on their resume? Would you let him or her do your accounting, or let him become your partner? If suddenly you need someone for 20 hours for something menial, say moving furniture or cleaning up, would you hire that person?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 02:48 PM
0

Don't be afraid to disagree with a woman. Don't argue, use A&A and amused mastery.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:13 AM
3

Give a beta power and alpha traits will emerge.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 08:34 PM
2

You would not be saying these things if you had another plate (or two) lined up. I dont have the energy to date atm. Drop her and you'll have all the energy you need.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 08:33 PM
2

Every now and then she has days straight where she wants to fuck. and then the next couple weeks she uses it as a pyscological weapon. Ovulation is your friend. I've dated girls in the past way hotter than her So why don't you go date girls hotter than her who aren't as annoying? Drop a plate if you're not enjoying your time with her.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 08:17 PM
7

Women don't want commitment, they want investment. And the ability to move on if it is advantageous to do so.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 08:06 PM
2

Get an ltr and get burned. A sure way to do it.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 11:42 PM
1

Day game. Supermarket, festivals. Things like that.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 11:11 PM
5

Try to see it like: If all those men didn't want to commit to her, why should I?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 10:06 PM
7

Because you are with a guy you are actually attracted to. Women will marry guys they aren't attracted to, just like how men will fuck women they would never commit to.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 10:00 PM
3

And they will compound their lovers, too. Say one guy was ripped, one was extremely witty, one was 6ft4, another made $150k a year...then she'll feel she has settled if you are nowhere near one of those things.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 09:55 PM
1

There's a genetic component as well, some people have much better insertions than others. As for other exercises, ab wheel works really well for me.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:53 PM
1

Are you on gear, and if so what is its mental impact?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:36 PM
1

If every man knew how to keep frame, didn't sacrifice himself for a woman and didn't orbit, you could do a lot better than 20:80.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 11:21 AM
1

Stop orbiting. Treat her like an acquaintance.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 11:18 AM
1

You don't owe them an explanation. Just tell them you do not think it is worth the money. If they press on, tell them "I'm not planning on dying any time soon". I don't see why a life insurance policy is necessary. If you have no one who depends on you, why do you care what happens when you're dead? You'd instead be much better off investing that 900$ into something - it would compound to much more than the life insurance payout anyways. As for insurances in general, it is not worth having one i…
/r/askTRP09/10/15 12:50 AM
3

Or it is squatting related. Toilet paper is actually really bad at cleaning asses. Water or wet wipes are much better.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 12:31 AM
1

Like dread (it is), this has to communicated covertly.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 12:07 AM
8

When men are young, they want to commit because they're in a bad market. When women are young, they have an amazing SMV and a fear of missing out on something better (hypergamy). Women don't want to commit, except to men who are never going to commit to them.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:28 PM
2

The next time your slutty plate nags for commitment and you want to detonate it, just tell her: " You're attracted to manly men, right?" "Well, as a man, I'm attracted to feminine women".
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:25 PM
6

If a girl complains about sex or doesn't do the things you want, why are you monogamous with her in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:16 PM
10

Even worse, some days you're just in an amazing state of mind. If the guy she happened to have that holiday fling with was On Fire that day or week, there's no way you can compete if she's the one washing your shit stains out of your underwear. She's literally comparing you to a fantasy of a fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:15 PM
3

Is she trying to get you to be monogamous or are you?
/r/askTRP08/10/15 01:22 PM
1

But a man can remain attractive much longer than a woman can. In the end it is all balanced.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 01:17 PM
2

It is a great way to hamster a flaw into a virtue.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 11:56 PM
5

Sounds like she's dating betas.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 11:44 PM
6

i just want to teach her a lesson . Wrong mentality. You should be indifferent. Respond with "lol", if you respond at all. Then delete her number. She's dead to you now.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 09:57 PM
2

She is waaaay out of my league. Let her decide if she's "way out of your league".
/r/askTRP07/10/15 07:07 PM
3

However, I feel if I explain to him that he's crazy alpha and there's no way I'm going to leave. That's just how you feel right now.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 07:05 PM
7

This. Now if the guy took her out for dinner, let her meet his mom and made babies with her...then I'd be impressed.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 06:50 PM
3

Women can get men easier than men can get women. Yes, but men can get sex from attractive women easier than women can obtain commitment from attractive men.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 01:33 PM
5

TRP is a toolbox. Use what you like and discard what you don't.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 12:57 AM
2

You don't wake up before 10 AM?
/r/askTRP07/10/15 12:01 AM
6

Your game is probably shit. And they don't know you're in med school or own a business. Women can't read minds.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 07:07 PM
0

Lying in general is a bad thing to do, but feel free to lie to a girl who thinks this is how you obtain commitment.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 06:33 PM
26

1) 32 year old post-wall but still hot, was looking for commitment and I was noncommittal. She was actually just a backup option I kept hanging around until I had a free night. We have coffee, I take her back to my place, she jerks me a little, we both get naked, throughout she is giving me LMR about commitment. I end it when she has my dick in her hand and asks if I'll be her boyfriend. When a commitment whore does this to you (getting you all heated up and then dropping the "I only do this in …
/r/askTRP05/10/15 04:01 PM
2

To elaborate on this... You wouldn't want to be the chump buying girls dinner just to have them go fuck Chad afterwards, right? Likewise, girls want to form some emotional attachment. They don't want to feel like a booty call slut, even if they are. Leave them feeling good afterwards.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:02 PM
7

Forget about her, game other women on your trip. Ask her again when you come back. Next if she doesn't want to go.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 12:58 PM
1

That makes it easier for you. Joke's on them.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 08:46 AM
2

You can trust a woman to be a woman. There are degrees of trust. If you can't trust a woman not to jump on strange dick, why the fuck are you LTRing her?
/r/askTRP05/10/15 12:49 AM
1

She can do with her body all she wants. We can do with our time and commitment whatever we want.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 12:19 AM
3

Right, and that's why you need to dump her ASAP.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 12:06 AM
1

Im just not sure how I would approach her without seeming creepy Who cares? That's just you talking yourself out of approaching. You have plenty of low SMV women to practice on/plate. You may want to take that opportunity.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 12:04 AM
2

they just either start complimenting me So that's what the difference is? Do you think attractive women need to come up to men and pay them compliments to get their attention? No, and that's why they don't. Women, especially attractive ones, are mostly passive in that regards. Try actually approaching and see how that goes.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 11:45 PM
0

Save non-logistics conversations for face to face. You're not her pen pal.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 11:37 PM
3

Great suggestion. Just stall this to the end of the day and then "forget" about the boxes and leave without her noticing.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 11:25 PM
4

Next time you don't trust a LTR, just dump her straight away. No point in a LTR if you keep worrrying about what she does and doesn't do.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 11:19 PM
4

I mean i've been with her from 2 years and she is like a family to me... Do you think she feels the same way about you?
/r/askTRP04/10/15 11:18 PM
2

There's some way in which you're treating them differently. Think about what it is and apply it to the girls you like. It's probably that you're starving sexually. They can smell that like sharks smell blood. Every single female I DO NOT find sexually attractive in any way, shape or form What does this mean? Are they really ugly, fat, unfeminine, old, or is there something you just don't like about them? What % of girls aged 18-30 fall into either category?
/r/askTRP04/10/15 11:15 PM
4

Women see three genders; women, Men (alphas) and males (betas and others). Whenever something like this comes up, they are referring to Men.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 04:01 PM
1

"Hey, I've been thinking about this and it's best if we let each other go. I wish you the best." She'll try to pull you back in. Don't fall for it. Remember you can't ever get into a relationship with her. Then go hit the gym. You won't even be thinking about her by the time you're halfway into your workout.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 01:44 PM
1

Why would you ever settle for being average? Average is shit.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 06:29 PM
1

Chances are that you aren't attractive enough. I don't see anything about looking feminine, working out and the like.
/r/MGTOW02/10/15 12:11 PM
4

But you're ignoring the fact that she wants to fuck him which means she sees him as Alpha. She's surely not as enthusiastic about it as she was with her previous flings. Look at what women do, not what they say. Agreeing to date her and then proceeding as if OP is single is definitely the most appropriate punishment. Is agreeing to commitment and then fucking other women not cheating/lying? That's where I'd draw the moral line.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 11:47 PM
4

Treat betas as women and you'll almost always do it right. Bonus Question: How do you reject a girl? You can always tell her you have a girlfriend (even better: "It's complicated"). For obvious reasons, this doesn't works well in circles where you do want to pursue other women.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 11:14 PM
6

Calm down Dumbledore. Why are you writing a fucking novel? Are you actually taking her seriously? That you considered sending this and that she obviously doesn't see you as Alpha means there's really no way you'll end up on top here. Can win the battles, can't win the war. Send her: "Hey, I've really enjoyed our time together but I feel the chemistry isn't really there." If she asks why, tell her: "I do really like you, but I just have the feeling you don't desire me as much as I do you."
/r/askTRP01/10/15 11:08 PM
4

Not interested.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 10:20 PM
1

Or did she have a fuck ton of partners before you and now she's looking for her BB? Sounds like it.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 10:16 PM
3

I can understand waiting for sex a bit if she's a virgin. She isn't. For example (since you shared, so will I), when I wasn't looking for a relationship, I was always very clear with my partner that was the case. Now you are in the picture, she's in her epiphany phase and is changing lanes. This is the typical "I fucked douchebags all the time, but you're special so I'm making you wait". Ignore the rest of that solipsistic drivel. OP, it is clear you're not approaching this from a position of ab…
/r/askTRP01/10/15 10:15 PM
1

Lack of tingles. You wouldn't want to fuck a girl who turned into a 300 lb fatty, right? Likewise, women don't want to fuck men who are pussy bitch losers.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 10:51 AM
1

Women use tears to manipulate. Most of them can switch it on and off at will.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 10:29 AM
2

It means going to far away places to gorge on strange dick.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:53 AM
2

How old are you two? Our friends are telling me she's different with me then she was with ex's Bait and switch. This is only going to get worse once you marry. Do not marry and especially do not marry this woman.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 01:39 AM
1

You have nothing to lose (except virginity). Go for it.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 01:36 AM
1

Just imagine them 15, 20 years later. You wouldn't look at them twice. Use that to realize that they're just insecure teenagers like everyone else, just one with vaginas and advantageous genetics. It gets easier over time. Practice more.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 11:10 PM
1

Calling them out for what?
/r/askTRP30/09/15 10:16 PM
3

Like dread, you communicate this covertly.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 10:10 PM
1

Plenty of guys also get married in their 30s or even 40s. Which is different. http://therationalmale.com/2012/06/04/final-exam-navigating-the-smp/
/r/askTRP30/09/15 09:45 PM
1

A team sport (such as soccer) is also great because of the social aspect. Definitely do this.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 03:28 PM
2

So have you tried to escalate further?
/r/askTRP30/09/15 11:10 AM
1

So dump the useless weight and duo it with the other guy.
/r/MGTOW29/09/15 11:57 AM
1

Dumping her immediately will be the best kind of birth control.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 02:31 AM
1

Feel her face with two fingers and say "Hmm, that botox is really well done".
/r/askTRP29/09/15 12:08 AM
3

Growing closer to someone and catching feels is normal. There is nothing wrong with you. But these feelings will lead you astray if you act on them.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 10:45 PM
2

Go for drinks and a walk in the park.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 10:41 PM
1

Of course they don't look as good irl as in the movies. Pump, lighting and low bodyfat makes an enormous difference. See https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9GYvqGDmwrg
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 08:27 PM
2

That's not what women perceive as dating down. Male and female perspective of "loser" is very different.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 05:01 PM
1

I'd only ever do that when snipped.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 12:22 AM
1

You forget about her.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 09:19 PM
8

Sounds like a bait and switch. The more commitment you give, the worse it's going to get. Plate material.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 08:40 AM
1

Of course. But how should she avoid getting pumped and dumped?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 10:02 PM
5

"sis"
/r/askTRP26/09/15 10:20 AM
1

She's a big girl who can take care of herself. Don't orbit her.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 10:42 PM
1

Yes, she cares about her army of orbiters. You clearly have oneitis.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 10:07 PM
19

If I were a girl, I wouldn't even know where to start if I wanted an alpha to commit to me...and that's without things like a hamster getting in the way.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 05:41 PM
6

Trust your gut. It will almost never lead you astray.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 04:06 PM
1

I meant "women who are chasing", not "chasing women". Of course I wouldn't.
/r/MGTOW25/09/15 03:16 PM
1

If self improvement counts as making yourself look attractive, then I guess so. Women chasing is...interesting and validating, but I don't go out for it.
/r/MGTOW25/09/15 01:18 PM
10

A 7 would be a stretch. Think more 4 or 5.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 11:07 AM
-1

For a place called men going their own way, there's not really that much about actually "going" somewhere.
/r/MGTOW25/09/15 01:25 AM
23

Because women need men, but men don't need women.
/r/MGTOW25/09/15 01:22 AM
1

If she mentions sex, she's thinking about having sex with you. Substitute "sex" with "marriage".
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:42 PM
8

There is a chapter in Sex God Method about exactly this thing. Go read it, OP.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:56 PM
1

Bait and switch. Wedding cake will transform a sexy horny sex devil girlfriend to a frigid cunt wife.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:11 AM
2

The weights room is the place for you. Unload your feelings on the iron.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:09 AM
1

Because it is a compliment. Imagine you're thirty something and have been spinning a couple of plates since your twenties, but now you want to settle down. So you pick your favourite plate and tell her "Hey Jessica, I'm getting tired of banging all these random sluts. But you're special. I want to marry you and have babies and grow old together." A high value man with options (preselection) settling down with you is a compliment. These girls forget that it doesn't work like that the other way ar…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:02 AM
1

I wouldn't recommend keeping her as a plate at all as feels will get in the way.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 11:01 PM
37

It's hard to be enthusiastic when you've seen 75+% of your friends, uncles and fathers get divorce raped.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 10:59 PM
3

She's not interested, move on to the next girl but keep the door open.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 09:37 PM
7

One plate is no plate. Acquire more.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:35 PM
3

Here's the wierd thing: he's beta as fuck. No self respect, no physical advances on her at all, Women Cheating 101: The other guy doesn't even have to be better than you; he just needs to be different. That's why millionaire wives fuck pool boys. There's probably something about him that she likes, or she could be using him for attention, validation and to dread game you.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 09:33 PM
2

If she's attractive, what is she doing on a dating site?
/r/MGTOW23/09/15 08:17 PM
29

it's better not to have a BPD plate to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 07:32 PM
6

http://therationalmale.com/2015/07/20/that-was-then/ http://therationalmale.com/2015/07/24/this-is-now/
/r/askTRP23/09/15 02:53 PM
1

This is why it is recommended to spin plates or at least have multiple prospects. A proper abundance mentality will do away with those feelings.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:34 PM
7

Women are like Russia. If you haven't conquered it in the first few weeks, it's probably not going to happen. Unless she does like you but you haven't escalated enough. I'd just cut your losses on this one, but keep the door open.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 03:29 PM
3

Sounds like she did a poor job of planning her long term strategy. Bed, made, lie.
/r/MGTOW22/09/15 03:09 PM
2

I started it when I had no interest in women whatsoever. I just wanted to be strong.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 11:26 PM
1

They'll resent you because they know you're out of their league. The female version of "all hot girls are bitches".
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:41 AM
46

This is why you don't ltr bad sex in the first place.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 08:45 PM
5

Tried this before. Would not recommend it. Eventually she'll start to resent you.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 09:55 AM
3

How can a man be so pathetic that he actively cuckolds himself?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 07:18 PM
1

Because they don't use logic. You'd think they'd pick some 75-85th percentile men, go on a couple of dates, fuck the one most likely to commit and go from there. Instead, they all pile on the 5% guys.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 02:24 PM
1

And the hot one looks even better in comparison.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 12:10 AM
1

What did that look like?
/r/askTRP18/09/15 10:16 PM
3

Some hamster dynamite for single post wall women: "So you're saying that in 1-2 decades of dating not a single guy thought you'd make a good mother for his children?" Follow it up with some sympathy so you don't look like an obvious asshole.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 09:08 PM
1

Give a beta power and alpha qualities will emerge.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 03:25 PM
1

Well, it does work for a woman, as in that Chad can spot the easiest lays better.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 03:23 PM
3

You go to the gym to look good, and you look good to go to the gym.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:20 PM
1

AWALT everywhere. If anything, the only difference is that they might only do it in the poop chute.
/r/TRPOffTopic18/09/15 11:53 AM
4

Not interested, next.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 11:27 AM
4

Do not actually wear two condoms.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 10:00 AM
8

There are no ugly studs and no happy sluts.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:38 AM
2

There's this point while you're increasing your SMV when the quantity and quality of girls fawning over you suddenly seems to increase dramatically. It's a really good sign.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:21 PM
1

Do you know this "plausible deniability" game girls play when they like you? That's what you do now.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:50 PM
1

Without birth control/welfare, hypergamy would not be as unleashed as it is now.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 05:42 PM
2

Get comfortable stepping outside your comfort zone. Have you at least gone on dates or made moves on women?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 11:38 AM
1

Even when she found different color, longer hairs all over the house and was like, "Are you having an affair?" I just brushed it off but nothing ever changed. I wonder what would have happened if you'd owned it.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 11:14 AM
0

Owning a fleshlight is social suicide. I can't imagine what a sex robot career would do. But yeah...if you don't care you could sell them to thirsty betas.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 11:09 PM
2

Just leave. You're that guy they don't like but don't have the balls to tell to fuckoff.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 11:07 PM
2

Sure, why not? But don't expect it to happen. Leave if no sex; don't just sleep in her bed. Do it at her place if you can.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 10:54 PM
1

Get her a cup with a tablespoon of water; "Soz, we're out of water".
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 10:36 PM
3

Time to branch swing to a better gym.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 10:17 PM
1

Whole. I have difficulty gaining weight so I need the calories.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 06:23 PM
26

You hit the nail there. She wants to do those things, just not with you.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 06:11 PM
11

I'm almost surprised he wasn't the one ending up in jail.
/r/PussyPass16/09/15 03:39 PM
2

What baffles me is why wouldn't the mother want to try to stop the daughter from repeating the same mistakes? Women would rather protect the younger version of themselves than their young. To teach her daughter to avoid what she did would be to accept responsibility for how she turned out herself.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 02:33 PM
2

Similar to when they say " Oh, I've been with 4 or 5 guys". Bitch, did you lose a guy?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 11:50 AM
1

Virginity is just a bigger pussy pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 11:47 AM
1

If anything it would work better (read: less worse) with inexperienced girls.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 11:14 AM
3

The days of girls spending an hour analyzing why and what a guy meant when he said something ended in the early 90s. Oh don't worry, they still do if you're Chad; "He told me to dump my boyfriend, does this mean he likes me?"
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:47 AM
1

Moving in together won't fix any relationship issues. It's like "We'll stop arguing once we get married".
/r/askTRP16/09/15 01:09 AM
5

Stepping outside your comfort zone like this is something you absolutely need to get comfortable with. You wanna know what i think when I see some new dyel in the gym? It's not "lol look at that dyel squatting 20 kg". It's "Awesome, he's making an effort to improve myself". If you're a gym bro, do your best to encourage dyels. Say Hi, ask them to spot you. Things like that.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 11:08 PM
12

Honestly, it sounds like she wasn't attracted to you, and/or straying. Dumping her was the right thing.
/r/MGTOW15/09/15 01:26 PM
3

It just takes time. Lift on. What helped me was to view interactions with women as a fun game. Treat them like your little sister.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 01:12 PM
9

How would I casually tell her that I do not have the feeelz and am just wanting a physical relationship while i'm still in town? You don't.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 01:03 PM
1

Good thing you were only together 6 months. Imagine if you'd been married for 10 years with two kids and she'd tried a branch swing like that. Count yourself lucky.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 10:59 PM
2

I've just started going to the gym regularly about a month ago. I wouldn't say I was the healthiest eater. Chances are your eating habits haven't caught up. Try eating more, and healthier. Losing sex drive is a symptom of not eating good.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 03:58 PM
1

Why would you ever commit to a woman past 25?
/r/askTRP14/09/15 10:56 AM
6

The important thing is that it's irrelevant why he or she got fired 30+ times. Either she can't commit to a job or she's a shitty employee. It's like that with women too; either she didn't want commitment and just fucked Chads, or she did want commitment but had shitty taste in who she slept with. Both sides indicate she's not LTR material.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 10:39 AM
59

A woman wants to be a man's last lover. A man wants to be her first.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 07:59 AM
1

Not every action is a power struggle and not everything a woman says is a shittest. You can be kind most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 07:51 AM
1

Well..not really dangerous...but he probably has some form of oneitis for her, and add to that the red flag of branch swinging.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 11:50 PM
1

I find it strange how they would settle for people like that if they prefer being dominated by alphas. There aren't enough alphas around for every woman (without sharing). It is a mathematical impossibility. That's not taking into account that many alphas won't or can't provide. Do they value their comfort over their sex lives? Yes, ultimately beta comfort > alpha sex.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 11:42 PM
2

It's better and cheaper to just see a prostitute every other week.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 11:34 PM
1

Missed opportunity! You'll be fine, just set up another date.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:26 PM
3

You're hamstering. Dump this sloot ASAP. He has high SMV. (fit) SMV is much more than being fit. For example, he clearly doesn't have abundance mentality. And he's either getting strung along by your GF or she's cheating with him. She's getting clear validation from another source, and encouraging it, so I felt I had to set a limit. Attention/validation for women is like how bad publicity is still publicity. You have an attentionwhore on your hands here. I don't like feeling like I'm being cucke…
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:22 PM
1

I think she understood because a few minutes later I get texts from her saying she regrets not kissing me and wants to come back, and she did and we kissed Did you try escalating to sex?
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:10 PM
1

It's the mental aspect as well. Porn can't force your head into a pillow while spearing you from behind.
/r/MGTOW13/09/15 10:44 PM
2

Post a picture. Block out your face.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 10:35 PM
12

Beta game will make them happy initially, then they will lose attraction. There's some time in between.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 06:50 PM
11

Under no circumstance commit.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 01:14 PM
2

Prostitutes.
/r/MGTOW12/09/15 11:43 PM
6

The best time to plant a tree is twenty years ago. The second best time is today. Improving right now is the best answer, regardless of how old you are.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 11:25 PM
1

Put an arm around the first girl, then gesture over girl 2, put your other arm around her and then do a threesome kiss. Or "Your sister is a big girl, she can seduce me herself".
/r/askTRP12/09/15 11:20 PM
1

How does it typically play out? E.g. is it the typical dodge where she shoots down everything like You: let's eat chinese tonight GF: I don't like chinese You: Ok, what about pizza? GF: I'm not in the mood for pizza You: So where do you want to eat? GF: I don't know.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 10:50 PM
4

This doesn't have anything to do with alpha or beta. The maxim is that when you ask advice of a woman, she'll tell you what she'd want you to hear if she was in the woman's situation. That means, obey the Feminine Imperative and wife up those sloots.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 10:06 PM
15

That's penis envy, another projection-ish trait that women have.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 11:00 AM
3

Do you exclusively fuck porn stars? If not, lick on.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 06:31 AM
41

That attitude will absolutely keep you from getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 12:17 AM
3

It's why it's not safer to marry uglies or fatties. They're not cheating because they can't, but the moment an attractive man appears they'll hop on quicker than you can imagine.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 12:08 AM
55

Every time someone talks about how men think with their dicks, remember this. It's funny how basically everything women say about men is rooted in some form of projection.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 11:41 PM
1

Any other outcome would require introspection.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 11:34 PM
1

It's like how bad publicity is still publicity - creepy validation is validation.
/r/MGTOW11/09/15 11:07 PM
4

I missed that (skipped through the video). That's pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:35 PM
1

That is assuming she can find a better man...which at 40+ years old, she can't.
/r/TRPOffTopic11/09/15 01:05 PM
3

One should note that any/all of that isn't necessarily aimed at YOU in particular Invent clothing that appears like a burka to betas and a bikini to alphas and you'll be a billionaire.
/r/MGTOW11/09/15 12:47 PM
7

There will always be others better than you. Deal with it. Other aspects also play a role; e.g. physical (do you lift?), holding frame, Game, etc. The millionaire wife fucking the pool boy is a thing for a reason. Wealth is often nothing more than a beta trap.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 12:36 PM
17

First thing he does is sucking her toes and going downtown. Wtf. As for standards...I wouldn't say that a nice body and a pretty face are necessarily low standards. I've seen much worse.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 11:19 AM
2

But it's bad for the men who are forced into celibacy. Society doesn't work when 3/4 of men sit on the side.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 10:43 AM
5

Don't worry, 80% of men will always be unattractive betas.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 09:56 AM
0

Negative. Do hit on girls in class, just be smart about it.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 12:16 AM
2

There are a lot of butterfaces who'd like a word with you. At least men can lift.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 12:12 AM
4

Maybe he had a good reason to delete his account, for example getting doxed or someone finding out his username.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 09:53 PM
2

Yes, that's the a little bit more complicated part.
/r/MGTOW10/09/15 07:55 PM
1

Or just as likely, that she has a beta boyfriend/husband.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 06:42 PM
3

The average man above 30 (really, it's more like a couple of years beyond college) is shit. It's so pathetically easy not to be a loser.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 02:06 PM
6

Disposable job. But I didn't anyways. Her neediness really turned me off and I wasn't into her in the first place. She proved to be some drama for the next guy though, so I am glad to have dodged that.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 11:28 AM
1

Well, most women aren't that feminine either. It goes both ways.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 11:10 AM
1

"Fine with me, but first round on you". Seriously, why is everyone overthinking this?
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:52 AM
2

Yeah, you can't really walk up to girls and get sex. It's a bit more complicated than that.
/r/MGTOW10/09/15 03:49 AM
1

Way too tryhard. "Hey, wanna [activity] Saturday?"
/r/askTRP10/09/15 01:08 AM
1

You're avoiding rejection. You're "gentlemanning" her by setting up "vague dates". See https://archive.is/fd2qL . You can try asking her for a date if you see her again, but don't expect to succeed.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:48 AM
1

I'm not even her beta since I'm not validating her. I have bad news for you. Talking and talking, following her on Instagram, asking for her number, "subtly flirting" are all forms of validation. What's going on and do I have a shot or not? Have you even asked her out? Every once in a while she'd talk about her figure and how she had no boobs but had a nice ass that she's grateful. She's grabbing for your validation. Deflect this. E.g.: "Yes, imagine being fifty and having your boobs sag to your…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:21 AM
11

I once said "I'd dump your boyfriend if I were you" to a girl at work (she didn't have a boyfriend). Prior to that neither of us had even acknowledged the other, but right after that she got obsessed with me, almost to the point of stalking.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 11:39 PM
2

She also assumed her opinion of a man was universally shared by all women. It's not as black and white as that but it rings true. Women's tastes are remarkably similar. Hell, this entire subreddit generalizes their behavior to the smallest details.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 09:22 PM
21

It's like how fat dudes like to pretend they're powerlifters.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:32 PM
1

All women are red pill. They just put themselves first.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 11:12 AM
1

Age of consent is 16 or 17 in some places.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 10:12 AM
1

The sex is never worth the wait.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 08:24 AM
2

feminine art You mean Basic Bitch decorations like Live Love Laugh decals? Make something yourself. Geometric shapes, drawings, video game stuff are all doable. Look up some DIY tutorials.
/r/TRPOffTopic08/09/15 11:41 PM
54

In OP's case, the neg would be "Perhaps you are not as attractive as you think you are".
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:47 PM
1

Go play a team sport.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 05:28 PM
1

That's their problem. If they choose to keep things ambiguous and their options open, it's their responsibility if it backfires.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 05:15 PM
2

I would not recommend cheating or popping ultimatums. Look up 12 stages of dread and Sex god method. And do you lift? As for getting what you want during sex; if you get her really heated up and start teasing her she'll be much more cooperative.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 05:03 PM
5

Why did you ever commit to her? Like she doesnt respect me? Ive met her friends, Ive been her security blanket, Ive been a legit boyfriend to her and the ONE thing I ever asked for (which i shouldnt have to ask for in the first place) is a BJ. Hypergamy doesn't care. http://therationalmale.com/2012/05/21/relational-equity/
/r/askTRP08/09/15 03:59 PM
1

It won't damage your status as much as you think.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 09:12 AM
18

And they didn't care about their own safety. That's the scariest part.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 07:57 AM
3

You're not attractive enough. It's much more effective to raise SMV than to chase women.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 08:16 PM
1

Women want investment (framed as commitment) but they desperately want to avoid reciprocating.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 05:55 PM
1

It is true for things like internet dating because they can mostly only judge men on their looks there. So date offline. If you don't look like Chad, internet dating is a waste of time, doubly so if you're ugly.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 03:15 PM
4

Yes, NRE. If you break up you'll just bang five sluts and realize how much you miss your ex. If you do decide to end the relationship, do it because you don't want to be in one or with her anymore, not because there are other prospects on the horizon.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 02:19 PM
1

You're projecting. Women do not place nearly as much value on looks as men do on women. Yes, he would be successful.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 12:01 PM
1

If you say it while accompanied with a stirring in her snatch, she'll just hamster it away. It's like the Halo effect.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 09:41 AM
1

You can be ripped and be as blue as a smurf at the same time. You just have to be not dyel, beyond that it is just a headgame.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 08:49 AM
4

The gum is acidic and will kill the sperm. Sounds like broscience. Is this actually true?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:05 PM
3

I noticed this too - women that aggressively pursue alpha men (or at least are more overt in pursuing) tend to have boyfriends or orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 08:06 PM
5

We have been together 4 months and never even been in an argument. That's actually a bad thing (to never have arguments).
/r/askTRP05/09/15 06:58 AM
1

Women live in the moment. Most do not plan ahead, or connect cause-effect very well.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 10:41 PM
1

Well, I'm not rooting for women to hit the Wall. You're better off without her, though.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 10:33 PM
1

Then why are you taking her out? Meet her for drinks, bounce to your place.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:36 PM
1

You're overanalyzing this shit. Pick another movie. That said, don't do movies on a first date. Too little interaction.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:35 PM
1

/r/asktrp Men's beauty is not as important to women as the reverse. Game, attitude and being ripped are much more important. He needs to own it. If he's going to lose those plates regardless, just go for the meetup.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 01:15 PM
3

You got her best years. In those 8 years you gained knowledge, experience, material wealth and other things that add to your SMV. You can now date her hotter, younger sister.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 11:22 AM
7

If she doesn't cut other men out of her life, she doesn't respect you. She's putting herself into situations where "it just happened". Can't turn a ho into a housewife, son.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 11:06 AM
9

You can't change it (size), so it's pointless to worry about it. All it does is take up mental energy.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 10:59 AM
2

conventionally attractive Best euphemism for "fat" I've seen so far.
/r/MGTOW04/09/15 10:42 AM
1

You will find that if you interact with women enough, you learn to read things like that. You'll get that gut feeling. Always trust it.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:02 PM
1

As for 5...it's more like "If I put in as much dedication and effort as that guy has, I'll get that swole and strong too!"
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 09:52 PM
6

More like, if women didn't ride the CC into the Wall, this wouldn't be a problem.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 07:48 PM
1

OP's plate noticed he's about to acquire wealth and went into lockdown mode.
/r/TRPOffTopic02/09/15 03:22 PM
1

You don't have flab. Bulk up.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:13 PM
1

Nothing bad about taking into account what girls like.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:59 AM
1

Would you even look at her in twenty years? It's just her looks that intimidate you, nothing else.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:06 AM
9

Escalate harder.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 12:52 PM
6

It's doing more of the running than all the cushy HR jobs combined.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 08:19 AM
1

A lot of people peak in highschool and college.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 12:19 AM
3

And this is why it's so important to have a financial abundance mentality, a.k.a. don't be crippled with debt and have multiple sources of income.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:06 PM
6

A woman bragging about how much dick she can get is like a guy bragging about how much he masturbates.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 12:22 PM
1

An attention plate, not a sex plate. Drop this girl.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 12:22 AM
17

No, because strange dick is easy to get. If men were in the position (young) women are in nowadays they'd be just as bad.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 07:58 PM
3

The first thing you should do is accept that it's over. Expect the worst so you'll be pleasantly surprised if it's not too bad. The second thing is that you need to watch what PEOPLE (especially but not only women) DO, not what they SAY. If she says she loves you, but she's doling out duty sex and is emotionally distant to you she's full of shit.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 07:06 PM
1

That's a good thing.
/r/MGTOW30/08/15 03:17 PM
6

I said last week that if we're not sorted soon I'm just ending it and she got upset and said she wants to be with me but just needs this space and time for now. Sounds like she needs time to find out whether Chad will commit. Are you sure she's not cheating?
/r/askTRP30/08/15 03:10 PM
4

Humans are social animals. There is nothing wrong with you.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 11:36 AM
7

Plenty of old folks never have their kids visit them.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 12:11 AM
0

A buttplug.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:57 PM
2

This, and is your diet on point?
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:37 PM
2

Well, it's better to assume interest when there isn't than the other way around.
/r/TRPOffTopic28/08/15 08:21 AM
17

His mistake was to do relationship-y stuff with her. Of course her feels will be hurt if you do not actually want a relationship. Women see FWB relationships as acceptable and great, until they want something else. This is true everywhere else in her life, don't doubt me. Not necessarily. The problem (for them) occurs when the guy isn't complying with her sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:29 PM
2

currently making 34k + 3-4k bonuses. Sounds low. What is the typical pay for what you do?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 02:42 PM
1

It's probably cheaper to do that than to get a wife, not even including a divorce rape or two.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:39 PM
3

Yes, initially, but eventually they try to betafy you: "Bob, we really need a minivan...can we swap the 70 GTO?" or " Bill, I just get so worried every time I see you drive your motorcycle...will you not do that anymore?". Then they start bitching how you "never do romantic things anymore", e.g. driving somewhere with her and the hood down or giving her those bike vibration tingles.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:03 PM
3

Odd how nowadays men are better at being women than women themselves are
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 07:53 AM
4

It's like how today's white people are responsible for slavery.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 07:48 AM
5

Passive dread is what you're thinking of.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 09:45 PM
1

Because for a woman, fucking a lot of men is not being "successful".
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 01:08 PM
0

As if men's love is unconditional. You wouldn't stay with your woman if she gained 50 lbs.
/r/MGTOW24/08/15 08:12 AM
1

You shouldn't have proposed anything, just continued as you were.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 07:25 AM
8

You want to start a family with a 34 year old? She's doing you a service. This is also why the person pushing for more commitment should always be the woman.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 06:00 PM
2

All girls want is a relationship with no sex With you. Because your SMV is shit (as do almost all other 17 year olds).
/r/askTRP22/08/15 09:30 PM
10

How fat women try so hard to be attractive (makeup, clothes etc), while losing the weight would accomplish a million times more.
/r/MGTOW22/08/15 09:24 PM
1

So get multiple prospects simultaneously.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 09:06 PM
2

What is it?
/r/askTRP22/08/15 08:38 PM
2

Of course by now her fertility rate is nowhere near what it was a decade prior and conception is much more difficult. She'll probably get pregnant eventually but will most likely only ever have 1 or 2 children at best, before hitting menopause. And that's why there are so many kids with downs and autism nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 08:35 PM
4

Go ahead, just don't ltr her.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 07:08 AM
1

Think of it like "Can the girl let go and become fat?"
/r/askTRP21/08/15 09:19 PM
2

You care too much about her.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:00 AM
3

My question is, do you have to fucking actively maintiain the leadership thing at all times? Yes. A relationship or even a marriage is not insulated from the SMP.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 04:59 AM
1

A non exclusive relationship. Fwb, fuckbuddy, etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 04:37 AM
1

No. Now, if you asked her out and kept hanging around her and doing nice things...that'd be needy. You should convey interest and escalate, but move on if it is not reciprocated.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 11:58 PM
1

It's an interesting subreddit. Just skim through the top posts.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 11:01 PM
1

Check out /r/raisedbynarcissists
/r/askTRP19/08/15 10:33 PM
1

to get her to date me without actually asking her out... I want to show her that I want her in a alpha way. Just ask her out, if she doesn't accept (twice) she's not interested and you should move on. That's the alpha way to do it.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 10:31 PM
1

So? You don't need to follow it blindly.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 10:55 PM
6

I could use some problems like that.
/r/MGTOW18/08/15 09:53 PM
1

Shrugs? I prefer barbell shrugs. Do it in front of a mirror if you'd like.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 09:40 PM
1

Do you lift?
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:39 PM
7

6 and 7s tend to be bitchy. I would be too, if I continually got pumped and dumped by attractive men. They dump that resentment on the 6 and 7 males who would be their smv equivalents.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:19 AM
1

Why do you care what other people think? Do what YOU want and stay in control. If you like LTRs over spinning plates, that's fine. Just don't settle for a basic bitch. I want to be some rootless asshole running around in his thirties fucking random women? No. It takes two to tango. These women want to fuck you. Let them.
/r/TRPOffTopic15/08/15 08:54 PM
1

example would be the woman who bears Chad's seed and has Beta Billy (unknowingly) raise and provide for the child The other way around, babies with Chad and then settling down with a beta is very accepted. But a lot of guys intuitively know not to it.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 11:41 PM
8

Plus that a lot more men than women are interested in casual sex.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 09:55 PM
2

No, what machimus is saying is that you should convey interest and escalate, but move on if it is not reciprocated.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 07:53 PM
2

It's also that he experienced success from an early age. Success breeds success.
/r/MGTOW14/08/15 07:48 PM
39

You found out before the wedding and without kids. That's worth a lot. Count yourself lucky.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 07:42 PM
1

She doesn't take birth control, as I've had a vasectomy. His only act of alpha.
/r/MGTOW13/08/15 10:41 PM
1

What is "some weight"? I don't know if it matters, but she has admitted that I am a very high value man, and she has said that she wishes that we would get married in the future. Meaningless. Do you think she'd ever say "You're kind of a loser and I'd like to ride the CC some more before I settle with beta Billy?"
/r/askTRP13/08/15 09:58 PM
1

Has she ridden the carousel?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:21 PM
1

Because women want monogamy. Monogamy with the hottest man they know and until they get tired of him.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:12 PM
1

Do this enough times and eventually fatties will realize they need to lose the weight.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:54 PM
2

If you want to hire someone for your company, would you hire someone with a track record of quitting (or getting fired from) new jobs after a couple of weeks? When they've been in the workforce for ten years but never worked somewhere for longer than a year? Some people are worth investing time in, some are good for that couple of weeks jig that doesn't need training.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 08:44 PM
1

And most importantly, as a dude you don't need anyone else to have a strong man ("rock") in your life.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:38 PM
2

Their lives would be improved by some exercise Their lives would be improved by putting down the fork.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:33 PM
3

It's the 20/80 thing. If 80% of women were morbidly obese, would you have a high sex drive? Nevermind that that scenario isn't even far off.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 10:44 AM
1

Because it works on post epiphany phase women.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:22 PM
3

Why are you still texting with her?
/r/askTRP12/08/15 08:43 PM
1

"Depends on what you mean with 'girlfriends'".
/r/askTRP12/08/15 07:57 PM
2

I find /r/marriedredpill is an excellent resource for this kind of thing.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 06:42 PM
2

A temporary breakup, a.k.a. "Finding herself", "Taking a break" and other similar euphemisms mean "I want to fuck Chads but still have a safety net in case my branch breaks". The message is "I'm cheating on you but it's okay because I broke up first".
/r/askTRP12/08/15 06:08 PM
3

Some people you can't save. If " You've been doing this your entire life, what makes you think your approach is working?" doesn't wake him up, nothing can. Take him to the gym. It's the best place to start.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:17 PM
10

Or not get fucking married at all.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 11:16 PM
2

Even better, rent out the expensive one.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 10:11 PM
16

Even worse is "We'll stop arguing after we get married".
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 06:16 PM
2

Serial monogamy where she gets a new boyfriend when the new relationship energy wears off is nothing more than a slower carousel ride.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:33 PM
3

You're overthinking it. Just set up a date and then ask for her number.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 12:45 AM
1

Projection. She's obviously fucking around.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 07:04 AM
2

I want to share this victory, but my family is full of underachievers and would think I'm bragging. Likewise, my friends, who are still struggling to find better employment, will be secretly jealous. You would do well to get better friends. Misery loves company.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 04:20 PM
1

"Let's go sit over there".
/r/askTRP06/08/15 10:18 AM
2

Women have poor understanding of cause and effect.
/r/MGTOW06/08/15 02:21 AM
2

Once beta men realize that marriage doesn't guarantee you sex, they will drop out en masse. They already are. If the choice is a marriage with no sex and between no marriage and no sex, the choice should be easy.
/r/MGTOW06/08/15 02:18 AM
2

Yet, it doesn't seem like they're having a much easier time of staying monogamous than straight couples are. Why is this so Because dick is easy to get. Most straight guys don't cheat because they can't.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:00 AM
6

It's a good deal for alphas. But it's a very shitty deal for betas, and I can't see it working out in the long run.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 11:05 PM
3

Better yet, he'd kiss her and then say "Now I regret using so much garlic".
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 10:12 PM
1

When you're making fun of a teenager who at least has a girlfriend, Let's not delude ourselves into thinking that a Celibate Boyfriend is anything other than a #1 orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:10 PM
2

Why didn't you get the visa lined up and be the natural leader? He's not her babysitter.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 03:56 PM
17

Children need a mother too.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:13 PM
1

The Book of Pook, perhaps?
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:15 PM
10

But it's not for me. Being overly alpha, disregarding female motives wasn't comfortable. Sounds like you aren't done killing your inner AFC.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 03:13 PM
2

Sounds like you need to run some dread.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 12:25 PM
1

Well, most women can't handle rejection in general.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 10:38 AM
1

Rub one out.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 09:26 PM
3

Is your job something disposable like food service or retail? If so, proceed. If it is a career, then stay away.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 05:59 PM
3

Yes, go ahead.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 05:51 PM
3

Try to frame it in a "they're jealous of what you have" way.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 03:50 PM
1

She wanted to fuck Chad, but Chad didn't commit. So back she is. "Taking a break" or "Finding herself" is basically her cheating but "It's okay" because she told you. It's a hamster thing.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 10:28 PM
4

You might not be fucking her right.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 09:15 PM
3

The benefit of marriage is power. Yes, it gives her power over you.
/r/MGTOW31/07/15 01:23 PM
2

If there's an "attractive guy problems" blog somewhere, I'd like to know too. I also find myself hesitant to approach. The perceived awkwardness/ "what if she has a boyfriend" always trickles down. Nobody cares. Just don't be the guy that asks out everyone.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:51 AM
2

"Well, maybe you could get a boobjob?"
/r/askTRP30/07/15 11:51 PM
5

A fucking hole that can fuck your life up.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 06:33 PM
15

Get her one of those old cell phones. The ones you can only call/sms with.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 03:53 PM
12

She's a plate, it's not your business.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 03:27 PM
7

Have you ever heard of "soaking"? Hamsters know no bounds.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 02:40 PM
3

There is one question lingering in my head right now. It keeps repeating over and over. "Why?" Because Hypergamy doesn't care.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 11:10 PM
1

Sometimes a girl just really likes you. But nothing wrong with setting up dates with other girls. Try to go from there.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 11:08 PM
1

Enjoy the practice.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:53 PM
2

Get out. Now. It's easier to walk away and start over than to try and fix this. And don't let the next one move in. Try dread game if you want to do the latter. And, do NOT have sex with her after you announce the breakup. It's not worth the risk.
/r/MGTOW29/07/15 10:44 PM
1

They are a valuable source of entertainment.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 09:01 PM
5

Girls are like Russia. If you haven't invaded it in a month, it's not going to happen.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 09:00 PM
1

Hey, at least you're not the guy flying across the world for a chick he met on his holiday.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 08:58 PM
3

As for neediness, the trick is to be outcome independent - i.e. if she rejects you, move on.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 08:33 PM
2

Do they come in athletic size?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:18 PM
2

More like "Women should be able to do anything they want, as long as it's what we want".
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:35 PM
1

Where do I download this tool?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:28 PM
0

Whereas women have a much stronger feeling of repulsion towards unattractive men than vice-versa. It's easy to test this. When you spot an attractive woman interacting with someone who is obviously beta, find her later and ask if she and beta have something together. You'll see the disgust in her eyes. "No, ew", lol.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 03:43 PM
8

And then don't actually judge her for it. When she starts nagging for commitment, don't tell her "ur a slut gtfo", but "I'm not ready" or bullshit like that. Don't set off her asd for the next guy.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 10:43 AM
1

It's really hard to be afraid of a 110 lb girl when you can deadlift triple that.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 05:07 PM
2

Imagine it as if you couldn't determine a girls fitness until after you had sex with her. Imagine how many girls would let themselves go completely. Instead of talking about approaching, day game, lifting etc, we'd be talking about ways on how to (subtly) figure out how much cake they eat, whether they exercise, that kind of stuff. Now imagine if women made fora discussing how to best circumvent this - i.e. how to best give the impression that you're fit while being a lardass. Wouldn't you shame…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:25 AM
1

I like to put it as "Biological imperative supersedes mental ability".
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 08:04 PM
2

You can't, not in a culture where she'll be shamed for not having ridden the carousel.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 06:44 PM
9

Start lifting. It is a great way to clear your head.
/r/MGTOW24/07/15 05:10 PM
2

Because in the end it's all a head game. It's advised to lift because of the confidence boost, better posture and feeling better. These all do more than the muscles ever will.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 04:30 PM
0

When will you guys get that it's not about sex, but about commitment, preferably alpha commitment?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 01:47 AM
0

Nothing bad with being nice, as long as you keep in mind that these things do not build attraction and they won't feel they owe you. You can do whatever as long as you keep alpha frame (which by the way OP did not do).
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 04:01 PM
-2

Who cares if she's white or blonde? There are plenty of other women who are hot and feminine. As for how...well, read the sub. When you get old, switch to hookers.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 01:11 AM
6

Swearing is another very unfeminine trait and I get the feeling you do it in real life too. Quit it.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 12:37 AM
4

I work hard on my body and I look about 23 I can guarantee you're not looking like 23. The difference between a 23 and a 33 year old are staggering, even if you don't get fat. I could have other men. No, you can't. You are post wall and you have baggage. Do you really think you could have an alpha for more than a night or possibly a short fling? That's why your beta is the best you could do.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 12:28 AM
7

I'm phd, good money, divorced with a kid from marriage. That ranges from neutral to downright terrible and to boot, you're post wall. Realize that none of these things are attractive to men. You're as much unfeminine as he is unmasculine. That's why he is the best you can do. What you can do is: Never deny sex, never nag, don't shittest, be feminine, defer to him (and don't criticize him when he does something you don't like), cook, clean and keep your kids in check. And lose the weight. Maybe w…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 12:23 AM
3

Anyone up for counting how many times she uses "I"?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 10:35 PM
10

Practice your wtf-face better. In that situation: "Aww, did I break your heart?".
/r/askTRP22/07/15 07:38 PM
1

Women always catch feels for the men they fuck.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 02:36 PM
8

Since we broke up I realized that I literally have no one to talk to about anything anymore, no friends That's the biggest problem you have right now. Go play a team sport. Something where you drink beers afterwards. Easiest way to socialize with people you don't know.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 12:00 AM
2

What it means is that a consequence of OP telling her "Lol ur a slut gtfo" is that the next time she'll be less honest and hide her past. Also, is the goal here to keep her slutty? I'm not sure how that's a good thing. No, the goal is to not accidentely commit to a slut.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 09:53 PM
8

For a one night stand, she's absolutely a 8, provided she didn't get fat. Now for a relationship, you're right.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 05:33 PM
18

No. This will just spike their ASD for the next guy. Be nice and pass on the non-judgemental attitude. You: "Hey I like you and I love spending time with you but I'm not really looking for a relationship right now" guess I need to fine tune my slutdar better.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 02:34 PM
3

Men love sluts, we just don't want to commit to them.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 12:24 AM
1

If you can't get a woman here you won't be able to get a woman there. AWALT still applies.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:47 AM
0

Oh, the advantages of like 50%+ of the population being overweight or obese. That is actually a disadvantage, because being overweight hurts a woman's SMV much more than a man's. There are much less hot women to go around.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 08:41 PM
7

That's what a beta orbiter is.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 08:14 PM
3

There's no point because all women do that. It'd be like your girlfriend telling you to stop looking at other girls' asses. Instead, use amused mastery.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 09:24 AM
7

It's not his task to police the SMP.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 11:56 AM
5

No. Don't go burn that bridge; let her do it. And don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 12:23 AM
2

Absolutely. For every childless spinster, crazy cat lady or "dick is abundant and low value" feminist you flay alive, another girl might take notice and avoid the same fate. That alone is worth it.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 06:32 PM
9

Funny how a lot of women claim we're low value None of the men that fucked her chose to stick around. They didn't think "she'd make a great mother for my children", "I can't wait to introduce her to mom" or even "Let's take this chick on a nice date". Who is low value now?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 06:27 PM
13

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/05/09/the-egonomics-of-bitterbitches-yes-homely-skanks-are-using-tinder-to-get-attention-no-not-from-desirable-men/
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 11:58 AM
8

Male mating mistakes don't have permanent consequences. That is, except for recent inventions such as child support. But it's still a biological truth.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 09:51 AM
2

Tshirt+jeans. No need to wear anything else.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 11:29 PM
2

Body acceptance should be for people like her..instead, it's for women who can't stop stuffing their mouths.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 09:29 PM
17

If he's that stupid, even if he actually dumps her he'll just wife up the next slut who assures him she's "not like that".
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 09:06 PM
2

If it was an LTR of mine I would just next her and upgrade a plate. I thought you didn't do the whole monogamy thing...why do you care if she fucks someone else?
/r/askTRP13/07/15 08:15 PM
2

Ok, how to use this for Game? You would Game females by increasing or at least making them think their rank would gain within their FSM by fucking you? It means that if you want to have one woman, you have to have them all.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 08:08 PM
55

everyone's sister into a plate And they wouldn't want it any other way. Enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 06:56 PM
1

who worship the ground I walk upon What does this mean? Do they cook food? Give stuff? Do beta male things? Chances are you aren't escalating enough.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:42 PM
2

This is also why you should never be the one to push for monogamy/commitment. She has options and beta boy doesn't, that's why he's trying to lock her down.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 04:46 PM
1

Tried to convince her to stop smoking You can't convince someone to stop smoking. They have to want it themselves. But telling her not to smoke in your presence works well.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 03:40 PM
8

So what? You're not a chick and you're not trying to fuck them. You want someone who is your buddy and will care about you.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 02:49 PM
5

Lend them money. If they make an effort to repay you, they're a good friend.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 02:38 PM
5

Love and hate are both (opposite) expressions of passion. If she didn't care about you, she would be totally indifferent to you. That's why being an asshole works so well - if they hate you, there is an emotional connection. The frame you need to hold is Amused Mastery. Right now, you're just butthurt. Take this up, because someone like her is really good practice in A&A and holding frame. For future reference, here are some zingers: "Wow, she cares so much about me!" "Sounds like I broke someon…
/r/askTRP12/07/15 12:14 AM
4

Also very effective if you have to boss people around. "Do you want to do task A or task B?"
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 09:10 PM
14

we have an open relationship Which is true, she just forgot to tell beta boy.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 06:29 AM
1

Yeah, that's bad. See "12 stages of dread".
/r/askTRP11/07/15 06:26 AM
2

However, it's not like you see it in lots of media where the nerdy guy and shy guy gets girls. In reality, girls don't give a shit about that irl. Only if the guy is attractive. "I like nerdy guys" means "I like hot guys with glasses who make funny jokes and are goofy sometimes".
/r/askTRP10/07/15 11:18 PM
1

You're probably underestimating your SMV and overestimating hers. That said, you haven't explicitly said the relationship sucks. How often do you have sex? Blowjobs? Is she submissive?
/r/askTRP10/07/15 11:15 PM
1

You can start by fucking her.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 09:06 PM
5

She wanted validation and you gave it. If she’s contacting you because she’s bored or just wants to talk, this is great news. Suggest she comes over to your place and proceed as normal into her pants. If you get serious resistance to the idea of her coming over or seeing you, terminate the conversation as fast as you can and reset the four-month ignore timer again.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 12:08 PM
2

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/10/12/important-ignore-breakup/
/r/askTRP10/07/15 11:39 AM
2

See 12 Stages of Dread. But it would be easier to cut her loose and start over again. And don't cohabit the next time.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 11:14 AM
8

She doesn't want sex less than he does, she just wants it with Chad, and not with him. This is critical. Her sex drive is fine, and she wants sex, just not with you.
/r/MGTOW10/07/15 09:56 AM
1

If you're that thirsty, I'd guess 72 virgins sounds pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:00 PM
1

Read more horror stories. Sub to /r/deadbedrooms. Watch women hit the wall. The possibilities are endless.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 10:57 PM
11

It's the women who stick with one guy for too long, and then right as her SMV starts taking a nose-dive, he cuts her loose. Do men really do this? I thought it was mainly the women that leave to ride the CC, in the impression that their SMV is higher than it is and think they can get someone better to commit when they're done.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 10:53 PM
3

No one is "ready to be married".
/r/askTRP09/07/15 10:18 PM
0

So why don't you read the book, write a summary and come back?
/r/askTRP09/07/15 07:59 PM
2

And this is why we think relationships are overrated.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 02:28 PM
1

Doesn't sound like the boyfriend is aware he's in an open relationship. You'd be doing him a service by getting her to dump him.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 02:16 PM
10

"yea I don't date girls like you" Never give a reason. Just give some bullshit reason like "I don't feel the chemistry" or "I'm really not ready for a relationship". Pass on the non judgmental courtesy to the next guy too.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 01:43 PM
9

https://rationalmale.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/zreanes1.png
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 02:41 PM
7

He'd probably start doing stuff. Improving the home, finding new recipes, dedicate himself to working out, learning a new language...etc. I know I would.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 10:21 AM
2

My guess is that he gets instant oneitis and pedestalizes them. That's going to turn off any woman. You're overrating how important looks are. Holding an alpha frame is much more critical.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:38 AM
12

Here's a rule of thumb: If you can't see she's skinny, she's fat. Would any fit woman risk failing an alpha males' boner test?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:07 AM
4

You need to adjust the venue. Of course you'll find more sloots in clubs. And you won't find LTR material on Tinder. That means, go jogging in the park at 7 AM on sundays. Go play a mixed sport. Go to a museum once in a while. Approaching girls in libraries, shops, or whatever is not easy, as most are in that place for an objective (to read, to buy burgers) and not for finding a fuck-mate. Why the fuck do you care? That noise is just you rationalizing yourself out of approaching.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 09:01 AM
2

If he was aiming too high, he wouldn't get 30 dates. His problem is not getting beyond that. In other words, women find out he's a dud during the first date.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 08:45 AM
37

With a friend = Not a date. Girl asked me if she can bring a friend along on our hangout. I said it was Okay, but in reality of course its not. Then why did you tell her that's okay?
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:39 AM
1

Chances are that you simply started noticing them.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/15 07:47 AM
8

If you still feel bad: 30 year olds have had a decade to enter in commitment if they so chose. That's their choice, not yours. It's like a neckbeard saying "I orbited her for years, why doesn't she fuck me?" #NoRingsForSluts
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:11 AM
57

6'0" and 115 lbs is Auschwitz mode. That's not skinnyshaming, it's skeletonshaming.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 12:34 AM
20

Nothing can compensate for anti-game on steroids.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 12:01 AM
5

Yeah, I'd say he definitely lifts. He looks good in the picture on the lake with that blue trampoline thing.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 11:24 PM
2

There are situations where it is somewhat true. Say if you've been an admin of some system for decades and you've spaghetti coded tons of stuff into it that nobody else can understand...yeah then you're incredibly hard to replace. People sometimes intentionally do this to hold their job hostage. I've heard stories of newbies who were hired to replace someone like that. Absolutely horrifying.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 06:51 PM
1

Frame is like a window frame. It's how you view and interact with the world. His frame should have been "We can't afford horses. I don't want horses. Horses will not contribute to the household. There's no fucking way you're getting a horse". Him surrendering ("losing frame") to her demands is what you do not want.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 03:26 PM
1

Career sluts don't want to be single mothers, and if so it will be long after the clock starts ticking.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 02:22 PM
1

Women have a poor understanding of cause and effect.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 02:20 PM
1

And that's why you maintain Frame. Your needs and wants > her needs and wants. His first mistake was marrying someone with horses (or allowing her to get a horse). They're like single mothers, you'll never be their priority. It sounds like that's the kind of thing women do a lot. Yes, and they'll resent you for letting them get away with it.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 02:02 PM
2

Maybe start a diary (don't ever let a bitch read this). Read what you wrote a few months back so you can laugh at how stupid you were. And start spinning plates. Nothing kills oneitis and pedestalization faster than having options.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 12:48 PM
1

Some have this feminine energy that makes them really pleasant to have around..other than that not really.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 12:36 PM
2

"I dunno. Do you shave?"
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:12 AM
4

It's not your relationship, it's you. This would have happened in any relationship you'd have instead. Ending it wouldn't have solved anything. See this quote from the Paradoxical Marriage: The fact is that you aren't good enough. If you divorced right now you would find that by this weekend it would be easier to attract a woman that isn't your wife. She doesn't know you so your confidence with her may be higher and to her you are new and unknown. She sees this as a mystery that needs to be unra…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:08 AM
2

Interacting with women like her is like walking around with a live grenade in your pocket...just waiting for it all to go terribly wrong.
/r/MGTOW07/07/15 09:50 AM
11

I've never quit a job where the guys up top NEEDED me That's what they'll always tell you. Truth is that you're replaceable and any "need" for you is based on them running a skeleton crew and not having room for someone suddenly leaving.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 08:55 AM
1

I feel like I've screwed everything up so far You aren't fifty years old, paying child support or married to a harpy. I say you're doing fine on not screwing things up. Remember you're only 17. Your SMV is rock bottom, especially compared to girls your age. It gets better as you age.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 08:53 AM
36

Marriages already are polygamous. You, your woman and the state.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 08:05 PM
2

On a moral/logical level you are right, but on a pragmatical level I disagree. See https://archive.is/YodyD
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:53 PM
4

That's my point - OP is at risk of life ruining shit like "accidental" babies.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:11 PM
4

Maybe I'll give her some more of my time, maybe I won't. I would not recommend it. Bitches in love do crazy shit. And don't feel bad about it. She's had almost two decades to seek commitment if she so chose.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 03:39 PM
4

"Yeah the weather is really nice lately"
/r/askTRP06/07/15 03:06 PM
6

One of the key things I did not realize pre-TRP is that it's a waste of time to throw yourself at women. It's a much better to improve yourself. This applies doubly so to women themselves.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 09:29 PM
2

You ask her out so you get rejected. But I'm not sure how smart it is to do this at work.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 12:27 PM
2

Easy enough if you're a psychopath. Why did you think the guy was in prison?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 02:04 PM
-1

Tell her to get something longterm, like an IUD.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 06:44 AM
19

They feel guilty about getting caught, not the cheating itself.
/r/MGTOW03/07/15 10:52 PM
13

Math and logic are patriarchal tools meant to oppress women.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:31 PM
1

Okay, let me clarify, they don't approach like men do. They just start hanging around/open you and still expect you to do all the "work". Also its retarded to think that a man's SMV is clearly visible to women like women's is to men. They can smell betatude and some indicators like your face, muscularity, posture and height can't be faked.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:24 PM
1

The wall is a lot more real because there isn't a strong welfare net and nobody cares about post wall women
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:55 PM
1

women have so much anxiety they never approach men They do, and if they don't then your SMV is too low.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:29 PM
7

Texting on a date is rude and unacceptable. Shut that shit down ASAP. Any thoughts? Clearly she doesn't like you. She makes plans to hang out with me again I'd bail.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:06 PM
4

It's important to note that this really is a slow carousel ride.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 03:01 PM
2

When the fatty at work started hitting on me.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 06:18 PM
5

You should at least get dumbbells. And a backpack (to fill with weight) to add to bodyweight exercises. By the way, pullups are an amazing bodyweight exercise. if you have a place to do them at home, that's great, otherwise go to a playground.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 04:56 PM
1

chastity belt, foot worship You're so naive. Ever heard of financial domination?
/r/askTRP02/07/15 04:05 PM
7

I don't see 3 men that are okay with sharing a wife as bread winners. Don't get your hopes up. You have no idea how pathetic some men can be.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:55 PM
2

Enjoy the decline. I'm actually curious if this would result in alpha males marrying multiple women (say, a 40s man with a 40s woman + a younger "concubine") or in women marrying multiple (beta) men.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:47 PM
1

I don't understand why people do this. I mean, I get that you can be blue pill, hell most of us started there...but putting up with that shit?
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:39 PM
14

You can't, really. It's inner game - a vibe people pick up. You actually have to be okay with losing her.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 12:33 PM
3

Corollary: Being on the receiving end of hypergamy as the Hot Guy is when the Amused Mastery stage starts.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 11:16 AM
14

You do this by demonstrating outcome independence. You can and should make your interest clear, but you must also have no problem moving on if she does not reciprocate or if she throws up too many red flags.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 09:25 AM
1

If they are already attracted to you, you can pretty much go full beta as long as you keep alpha frame and you'll be fine. He didn't get laid because of beta, he got laid despite beta.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 12:20 AM
9

Deal with it. You can't change it.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 12:02 AM
2

"Figuring out what she wants to do"= CC riding.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 11:40 PM
1

/r/trpofftopic
/r/askTRP30/06/15 08:45 PM
2

she cannot ever earn that gf title back, she wanted to CC This. If she deliberately tries to keep things ambiguous and keep her options open and not pursue true commitment then she can't expect not to have this work out against her.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 07:10 PM
11

That's what his lawyer is for.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 04:19 PM
2

No, the logic is more like: If you're going to ride the CC, you might as well do it with attractive men.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/15 03:18 PM
1

You have to be the right kind of funny and the situation needs to be right to make some things work. What is extremely funny can be tryhard in another situation.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 01:34 PM
5

Yes, go date someone else.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 12:46 PM
2

That's good, they are shit testing you. They want to see if you're really the alpha and not just look like one. I honestly don't really know, why I get zero attention from the girls from my class. Because girls only devote their attention to the couple of most alpha guys in their environment. Dare I say you're not there by a long shot? It's also really difficult to get there from where you started regardless. Guys are shallow too and put hoes before bros. Yeah, because you aren't their bro. I'll…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 12:36 PM
2

Sidenote Her boyfriend has the potential to gather his boys to kick my ass if I fuck her. Bail. Your well being is more important than any pussy.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 09:58 AM
3

I would not recommend black knighting a coworker.
/r/TRPOffTopic29/06/15 11:46 PM
1

But it blew my circuits to deal with the disconnect. Just adopt the "This bitch is crazy"-frame. It all makes sense then.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 10:04 PM
3

she informed me she had a new boyfriend who loved her more than I did (the timeline of her last message to me meant that she'd been seeing the guy for less than 5 days--if it's true at all, which it probably isn't). And furthermore, he was richer than me. And was better in bed. Women out of love don't work that way. If he was truly better, she wouldn't have cared a single bit about rubbing it in. She'd forget you. Maxim #57: When a girl emphatically insists she is so over you, she’s never been m…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 07:43 PM
17

Girls Really Can't Flirt I've only had the "This girl would make a great mother for my children" vibe a couple of times. It's a shame.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 02:57 PM
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