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How can I get her interested & stand out ?

UniversalFapture

August 19, 2015
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Title How can I get her interested & stand out ?
Author

UniversalFapture

Upvotes 0
Comments 27
Date August 19, 2015 9:55 PM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3hn2l0/how_can_i_get_her_interested_stand_out/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/how-can-i-get-her-interested-stand-out.35707
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Comments

[–]abdada8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Just sign over half your income and assets now.

[–]tillybb 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He should donate half to TRP for saving him if he cares to read the sidebar first.

[–]abdada1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Trust me, his type already spends half their money on shit dudes like me sell.

[–]UniversalFapture[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No way bro! I don't really like sharing my things or having them taken away from me

[–][deleted] 7 points7 points7 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]UniversalFapture[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I got the entire sidebar in pdf. I'm currently reading it. It's a lot.

[–]tillybb 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

its at most a day of reading

[–]tillybb 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I see her as a potential girlfriend.

First mistake

how I can establish my dominance over her

Pee on her, till she rolls over and shows her your belly.

Sidebar ffs

[–]UniversalFapture[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In the process of reading the sidebar. I didn't think I'd bump Into a girl so soon. I didn't get the chance to really get everything out the sidebar and apply just yet,

[–]NineInchPitchfork3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

"Wonderful...chit chatting...ladies." First thing you need to do is quit talking/writing like you are a gay flower shop clerk. Your language choices seem very metrosexual which is great for being in friendzone but does not promote dampness between the thighs.

Second, limit your texting/contact. Demonstrate interest but do not go clinger level v on her.

Third, try to find an opportunity to showcase yourself to her but not in an overt manner. If you play guitar, invite her to a gig. If you are a jock, invite her to the next game. If you paint, invite her to the studio. Chicks respond favorably to demonstrations of competence and form. (Note: If you are into gaming and other 'nerd' activities, keep that shit to yourself. Women are not impressed that you are a fucking level 7 water bender or whatever.)

Finally, after you have shown her a bit of what you are about, man up and ask her out. Make your intentions clear. Coffee or a movie are good options. Going to a club or a sjw-type event are not.

[–]UniversalFapture[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Well... I'm training my Indy for the army currently, and I exercise everyday. I like to sing sometimes, I'm a good writer, and I know a bit about computers...

That's pretty much all I got going for me currently, at least I'm not obese or anything though,

[–]NineInchPitchfork0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

< "Training my indy"? What's that mean?

[–]UniversalFapture[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Body* sorry. That was a typo

[–]BrunoOh0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

to get her to date me without actually asking her out... I want to show her that I want her in a alpha way.

Just ask her out, if she doesn't accept (twice) she's not interested and you should move on.

That's the alpha way to do it.

[–]UniversalFapture[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

But won't asking her out so early seem needy? We literally just met. I want to wait a bit, but not too long

[–]BrunoOh0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No.

Now, if you asked her out and kept hanging around her and doing nice things...that'd be needy.

You should convey interest and escalate, but move on if it is not reciprocated.

[–]UniversalFapture[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And how do I do that exactly?

[–]iLLprincipLeS 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

ah, the young and innocent. too bad that applies only to you son.

I see her as a potential girlfriend. But I'm sure that lots of guys are pursuing her.

smart kid.

Maybe they messaged her too.

why wouldn't they? do you think they are also posting now to the internetz? no.

that is your weakness but also your biggest advantage if you would read the sidebar, read at least some field reports.

Now, I would like to know how I can establish my dominance over her, and to get her to date me without actually asking her out

you can't pull this one yet, but the best thing to do, and keep it in mind for the future, was to be able to invite her out with you and your other girl friend. 2 for 1.

Any help?

find the right time when you know she is free(after school, weekend) and message her, what a nice weather or whatever, i just saw some beautiful thing bla bla, too bad you were not here to photograph it; if she likes you she will respond saying it would have been nice or something positive, then message her back with something like: maybe next time. then wait for her to message you asking YOU out.

if she does not contact you until the next weekend, or you start seeing her with other boys around, just ask her IN PERSON if she wants to come to x or do whatever activity. from there on, TRP help you.

[–]UniversalFapture[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

Guess I better make a lady friend then huh? I'll try that photography text this weekend. And I'll start reading more of the sidebar tonight

[–]mrmeyhemn0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

some help.

STOP! stop EVERYTHING you are currently doing in regards to women and read the sidebar. read ALL of it. then apply it to your life.

[–]UniversalFapture[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm in the process of reading it in PDF format. I'll keep digging.

[–]Assassin14760 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Listen to Patrice O'Neal Black Phillip Episodes 1-12, while also reading the side bar.

If you listen to each episode, by the time it's over every question you would have ever asked will be answered in full detail.

[–]RP_Vergil0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Nope, no Help. You don't come in and ask people "Oh how do I get this girl".

This is not the place you come here for handouts.

[–]UniversalFapture[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's why I'm reading the side bar

[–]sir_wankalot_here0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I met a wonderful girl. She's very nice and very attractive and just happens to be into photography.

All girls are wonderful when they are sucking your cock. Is she into sending selfie nudes of herself ?

[–]UniversalFapture[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No... Just a pretty pic of her in a nice outfit... We're only teenagers bro

[–]ModRedSovereign0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Post questions to /r/asktrp.

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