Hi guys. Throwaway because relationship question. I'm a subscriber on my everyday account but I rarely contribute.

I feel like I've pussified myself in my relationship. I'm 30, she's 27, we live together. I'm like a 5, she's a solid 9. She's a unicorn by any standard.

I'd always been what you would consider alpha, hence I always dated out of my league without issue but I feel like I've lost my mojo. I feel like she's got all of the power in the relationship and I want it back. I'm crazy about her and over the past two years I think I've just laid down my sword too many times, backed off when I should have stood up for myself, and generally turned into a total beta dork.

She doesn't flirt with other guys, I'm somewhat ashamed to admit that I've read her texts / emails / Facebook messages when she wasn't around and found nothing even remotely scandalous.

I don't think it's too late. I don't think I've totally castrated myself and that my masculinity is present in a lot of ways, I've just gotten emotional one too many times for my liking.

My question is - can I salvage this or is it time to move on?

Any questions for me just let me know.