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If you want to give up, thats up to you. You're basically asking, "How am I going to get girls if I don't want to put in the work required to get girls?" Well short of blatant prostitution? You're not. Accept that or do the work.
/r/seduction05/04/26 07:20 PM
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Anyone worth banging is worth banging thrice. The vast majority of false rape claims that I've seen usually stem from a one time encounter, where they hooked up and then the guy ghosted. The girl feels cheapened and taken advantage if. Internally, she says, "Wait a minute! I'm not cheap! I don't have one night stands. It must have been rape!" If she was intoxicated, she, or her friends, or pressure from a prudish family can convince her she never consented. Yes make sure you text consenting evid…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/24 03:52 PM
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Forget Brad Pitt. You give a girl one or two reschedulings tops. Then you move on and don't look back.
/r/seduction19/04/23 08:38 AM
1

You look like a man. Now get out there and act like one. Honestly you look a bit like Orson Wells. He married movie stars including Rita Hayworth. I'm not seeing any justification for your excuses. Get to work.
/r/seduction10/10/22 05:08 AM
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Ladies like dating male cops because they are authority figures. Most men aren't attracted to authority figures, because they want to be the authority figure, not surrender or be protected by to one. Those men that are into that probably not your type (submissive), and also probably not likely to pursue you. There are plenty of exceptions of course. Have you made an online dating profile? Be honest about being a cop. Put up a photo of you looking hot and another being a cop. You should get plent…
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:27 PM
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I'm not a biologist so I couldn't tell you for certain.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:58 PM
1

You could always try dating as a woman.
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:45 PM
5

It sounds like a good way to get falsely accused of rape. I'm guessing these are Mormons, but it really goes for any extremely religious sect. Sure you can get them all spun up and begging for it, but years of shaming and conditioning take a toll. Many will just cry about being fallen women. But some will decide they couldn't possibly have agreed to such a vile sin. You must have forced them... Then they reinvent history to make themselves not be a slut.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:28 PM
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Ghosting happens because people are conflict avoidant, and some people do not know how to maturly handle rejection. It's not personal. They don't want to hurt your feelings or be yelled at by you either.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:05 AM
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Care to post a picture of your apartment and speed things up? Is the bathroom clean? Assuming a girl could get frisky in your place without worring about getting a yeast infection, it sounds like you're screwing up when faced with the last minute resistance. Take your time with kissing them. Enjoy kissing them. Make them think you would be happy doing nothing but kissing all night. Also are you a good kisser? Ever gotten a frank review? Do you smoke? Is there a breath or oral hygine problem? I'm…
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:47 AM
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He's trying to say that it might not last. Screw that, every relationship might not last. Just stay confident and have fun. She already slept over.
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:08 AM
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Opposites really do attract sometimes... In some ways this relationship could be ever taken a personality test? https://high5test.com/intj-relationships/#:~:text=INTJs%20Best%20Match%20For%20a,enough%20not%20to%20push%20things. I don't know if this fully applies but sometimes the really outgoing types are attracted to the strength of the lone wolf. Stay strong and see where it goes.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:47 AM
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Look if you want to fuck her, tell her to get her pretty ass over her and you'll show her it in person. If you have no intentions of meeting up with her, why the hell would you send her a dick pic? Whatever, maybe you're bored and just want to see this particular chick naked even though there's an entire world of naked girls out there online and in person. Not judging. Maybe tell her the exchange rate for Vanilla to Chocolate is three to one. If she sends two more say, oh, did I say three to one…
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:03 PM
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You just described being male. Being short does sound like it comes with problems. Go dry your eyes and get some limb lengthening operations? Haha. Seriously, though it sounds like you want us to tell short people they are going to have to be the best at everything or give up. For a lot of people you just told them to give up. It sounds like you have a different motivation style than many, and I'm sorry you have to stand on your tip toes to reach the top shelf, but all you really need to have su…
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:04 PM
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Tell her you'll be happy to help her out just so long as she's willing to be featured in one of your private bdsm/vibrator videos first. She can wear a mask of course. Covid and all.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 08:09 PM
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Everyone is having fun but we really need more context to properly advise. Were you on a date? At work? School? A club? Was this a friend? A complete stranger? Talk to me man. Set the scene. She's probably into you, but I can't advise on how to proceed without more details.
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:27 AM
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Marry her. Then she can exploit you instead.
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:28 PM
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Good stuff but quick tip before trying serious prescription pills. Exercise and diet. You can wildly swing your testosterone levels and sexual function with diet alone. Also L-Arginine. A supplement you all should try whether you're worried about ED or not. It's an amino acid your body needs anyway. As I've aged my morning wood started to lose some of its intensity. Then I had a little trouble performing sporadically. I started taking L Arginine. Now my boners can cut diamonds every morning, and…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 04:49 PM
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If you want to be non alcoholic but similar to wine, bring a bottle of Martinellis. Or better yet chocolate/a baked dessert or maybe a few flowers. One rose would do it, not be overwhelmingly serious, not break the bank, and leave plenty of room for romantic guesture escalation if necessary later.
/r/seduction02/07/21 01:43 AM
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Interesting. Well if I were you I'd consider going a little further out of your comfort zone. After all people can't give you what you want of you don't make it known. Maybe the next time you're talking to a cool guy, consider saying, "Wow you're cool. Maybe you should ask me out sometime." It's not asking them out, just a comment. You can even immediately play it flirty or coy by saying, "Then again maybe not. Might be risky.". Or something like that.
/r/seduction13/06/21 04:30 AM
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I don't mean to oversimplify, but have you asked any guys your age out? If there's anyone in your peer group you like, ask em out. So you have a dating app? Make a profile. See someone cute in the age range you want? Say hello. Ask them out. Some girls have a big problem with asking guys out. Guys aren't any less worried about rejection than you are (especially young guys). Go ask someone out. You can do it.
/r/seduction12/06/21 11:08 AM
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For me there are few thing smore frustrating that people you care about constantly bringing up and complaining about a problem, but then refusing to let you do anything to fix it. Why are we talking about it if we aren't going to do anything about it?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 02:54 AM
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Assume attraction until disproven.
/r/seduction19/05/21 06:48 PM
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In an office environment you often address men and women simultaneously. The phrase significant other is supposed to be completely benign as it doesnt assume gay or straight or married or dating or living togeyher or whatever.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:35 PM
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We do say significant other sometimes. Never heard Ess Oh. You use it when you don't know if someone is gay or not to be polite and not have the confusion of getting it wrong. Also at an office party, often the employees will be instructed to feel free to bring their significant others. This is faster than saying wives or husbands or boyfriend's or girlfriends or besties or family or whoever the fuck you wanna bring.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:33 PM
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Never tell me the odds!
/r/seduction31/03/21 05:37 AM
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When is the last time you asked someone out? It's been 5 years since you had a girlfriend? Congratulations. You beat me to your first girlfriend by 5 years. That means you have plenty of stud potential. I was religiously retarded in my progress with the ladies. Didn't get laid until I was 30. I'm doing just fine now though, and you will too. Nothing wrong with a few tears and a little self pity now and then, but I'm guessing you aren't really working on this right now. Start attending social act…
/r/seduction08/10/20 07:39 PM
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All it takes is practice and the realization that almost all the fear and doubt that makes you hesitate and chicken out in social situations is pure delusion. It's ridiculous. We fear social rejection because we think it will lead to pain and serious negative consequences. It doesn't. Most unsuccessful guys aren't striking out constantly. They just aren't going for it and risking the rejection. No. Nope. No thanks. I just rejected you three times. Nothing really happened did it? It didn't even h…
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:01 AM
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Not really. Though confident more attractive people probably strike out less. When I was in my late teens and early twenties, I was in great shape and like most guys at my most handsome. I was in a target rich environment (college), I was smarter and better looking than average, and thanks to double dipping on scholarships, I even had more money to throw around that the average guy around me. But I struggled to get a girlfriend. I was frankly painfully shy and had no idea what the hell I was doi…
/r/seduction10/04/20 01:26 PM
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If divorce wasn't so awful, spouses wouldn't always be the prime suspect when one of them turns up dead.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 09:12 PM
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Practice makes perfect. If you are going to achieve anything in this life you are going to have to put yourself out there. You are going to hear, "no," more times than you hear yes. Nothing happens when you hear no. Anything can happens when you get a yes. So you can never ask for anything new, avoid rejection, and go no where, or you can keep asking, get used to shrugging off rejection and go everywhere.
/r/seduction11/01/20 05:09 AM
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If you can realize that sex is a waste of time, you are on the cusp of being a superhero. A god. Devote yourself to something more worthwhile. You can do it. If you can channel that energy elsewhere you can become something glorious.
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 09:47 AM
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I say start now. It's best to start practicing and improving immediately. The longer you wait, the older you get, the more time you've wasted waiting to be perfect (which will never happen) when you could have been sweeping them off their feet and taking them to bed the entire time.
/r/seduction29/12/19 10:55 PM
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Everything matters. Some things matter more than others. Some things you can improve or change others you can't. Looks matter a bit of course but they are far from the most important thing. When women are attracting men, physical attractiveness is generally the number one most important factor by a very wide margin. It usually doesn't matter if she's rich, or if she's a genius. She can be funny as hell, and it's not going to make you want her sexually if she's not physically attractive. When it …
/r/seduction29/12/19 07:02 PM
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That's what you say when you want to stay married. When you actually appreciate your husband? You probably don't write this sort of article.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 05:50 PM
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Yes. It fouls up the train schedule! Of course murder is wrong. Still,I don't think the fact that that a murder has not been solved, whilst a filmed petty ass-ault on a newswoman's butt has been rapidly rectified, is a very good example of the rampant bias men face.
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 06:25 PM
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Exactly. It makes marriage and smacking strangers asses in public both wrong.
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 04:48 PM
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If you smack a stranger's ass on television you are going to have a bad time.
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 04:41 PM
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It wasn't the construction workers who were all women (you can't find that many women willing to work hard). It was the engineers and the owners of the company that were all female.
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 08:36 PM
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No worries. Ugly people with resting bitch face often look alike at first glance.
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 09:03 PM
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Nancy Pelosi.
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 08:59 PM
3

I never got the hickey obsession. I mean if they happen on accident no big deal of course. But yeah doing it on purpose seems annoying.
/r/seduction26/09/19 05:33 PM
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But Gump always tries as hard as he can...
/r/MGTOW18/09/19 02:56 PM
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Wanna bet?
/r/MGTOW18/09/19 01:34 PM
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Harvey Weinstein obviously used his position and power to sleep with and have relationships with women way out of his league. I don't like Harvey Weinstein. That said, what went on was pretty clearly much closer to prostitution than rape.
/r/MGTOW10/09/19 10:40 AM
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The area to work on right now is getting over your fear of rejection. 2 rejections a month? Let's pump up those numbers, those are some rookie numbers.
/r/seduction06/09/19 02:13 PM
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You know... if you want to solve that little problem... it's easier to lower one groups economic status than raise another.
/r/MGTOW06/09/19 05:04 AM
1

"Now we're International!" Ummm... weren't you already intergalactic?
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 10:07 AM
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I don't know any single women my age who can cook. I beat the snot out of them all in the kitchen, and I'm not a good cook. It's pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 09:20 PM
1

Dude you've already won. Enjoy it.
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:38 PM
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I don't know. They seem beatifu to me.
/r/MGTOW22/08/19 06:14 PM
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A an example I've found is looking back on old relationships. Especially if you ever talk or socialize with exes. Usually right before the break up you and/or she are the worst person in the world. Then fairly quickly you might miss them and have trouble remembering all the bad. Years down the road you might again focus on the positive or the negative depending on your mood or context. The relationship didn't change. Your emotional state did. For a celebrity example look at Ivnna and Donald Trum…
/r/seduction21/08/19 04:43 AM
1

So you woke up and made a decision? So it was a conscious decision yes?
/r/MGTOW20/08/19 04:51 AM
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I don't get it. Someone explain it to me like I'm a Moron who doesn't get it please.
/r/MGTOW13/08/19 05:41 PM
2

Sometimes?
/r/MGTOW08/08/19 12:07 AM
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Going your own way, involves not giving a damn about what the jealous losers think.
/r/MGTOW07/08/19 07:14 PM
1

It doesn't make them less attractive of course. Yet it doesn't change or increase the physical attraction. Basically a fertile looking woman is a fertile looking woman be she a princess or a pauper. The same goes for a dried up old grandma.
/r/MGTOW07/08/19 07:12 PM
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No Orcs.
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 02:54 AM
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I always thought it was odd that when one spouse turned up dead, the other was always their first suspect. Now I understand.
/r/MGTOW01/08/19 03:49 PM
4

"Jackie Treehorn treats objects like women, man!"
/r/MGTOW25/07/19 10:43 PM
0

Yeah looks are a factor. But I got laid way more fat and bold then I did in shape and shy.
/r/seduction20/07/19 10:44 AM
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Pregnancy is a bodily function. Anythig that can be done in a coma I'm not that impressed with. Plus women have complete control over whether or not they have a baby. Women don't have to be pregnant these days. They choose to be pregnant. I'd advise them to take some responsibility, but we know that doesn't go over well.
/r/MGTOW17/06/19 12:07 PM
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You can do it. You can be the guy she cries and complains about to all the extras.
/r/MGTOW17/06/19 12:01 PM
1

Ash thinks guys only want one thing, women. Ash has just revealed that deep down she knows women are disgusting.
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 08:40 PM
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It took me a minute to realize that the girl in this video wasn't a guy.
/r/MGTOW31/05/19 01:24 PM
0

Notice how in your video there is no rope deliberately set up to keep people off the path?
/r/MGTOW29/05/19 09:24 PM
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The best part is Leonardo Dicaprio doesn't think about her at all.
/r/MGTOW25/05/19 06:04 PM
2

No brains? No opinion.
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 03:01 AM
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Just assume they are all gold diggers. Because one way or another, they all are. Let's be real here. Every woman fundamentally is trading sexual access for male attenton, money, and labor.
/r/seduction12/05/19 04:50 PM
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It's a trick! At the end of the book... girls are allowed after all! Soylent green is people!
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 02:22 AM
1

Have you been sending dick picks again? :D
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 08:58 PM
2

I didn't say why. Just if. But while many would oppose the idea of not trusting your sweet. ewlywed bride when giving birth because of their feelings, fewer would balk at the idea of their wife being a liar when splitting up. I'm definitely on your side about testing at birth.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 03:21 PM
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If you made paternity testing mandatory during a divorce, the divorce rate would plummet. Sadly for the wrong reasons though.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 11:49 PM
1

Good point, but people do strange and irrational things in relationships. Maybe he dumps her and now he associates/resents you because of the breakup. Maybe they work it out (he'd be dumb to but still,) and now she makes it her misson in life to scuttle your friendship. You know why people like to say, "Don't kill the messenger? Because people when they are upset love to kill the messenger. I say tell the truth, treat others the way you want to be treated, and let the chips fall where they may.
/r/MGTOW25/04/19 03:37 PM
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If this was a close friend you may have lost the friend. But you did the right thing.
/r/MGTOW24/04/19 09:18 PM
5

Instagram models aren't real models.
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 04:59 PM
2

This sentence is a joke.
/r/MGTOW15/04/19 05:39 PM
4

You got out before marriage. It might hurt a bit now, but you won.
/r/MGTOW15/04/19 05:21 PM
2

Does anyone have a link to the article where they were testing women in combat situations and one hid crying while the other actually dropped her rifle and ran? I can't remember where I saw it. I think it was the Canadian armed forces.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 12:31 AM
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They often aren't bloated hippos when things start, but some are. This is partially because any area near a military base is not a target rich environment where ladies are concerned. Lots of guys, and not so many girls. Maybe you marry a fatty because you're lonely and those are the options. More often your bride starts blowing up almost immediately. Then you want to keep her happy in hopes that she won't be whoring her self out when you are deployed. It's amazing how much of this goes on. Then …
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 08:01 PM
2

Yes. But Amy Schumer rapes the ears of Millions of Americans daily.
/r/MGTOW23/03/19 03:59 PM
2

Unfortunately the belief can be widely held and still be considered criminal.
/r/MGTOW22/03/19 02:03 AM
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No. Eating made her gain weight.
/r/MGTOW15/03/19 08:39 AM
1

If you want kids, just impregnate and be ready to pay child support if it goes sour. Marriage has no benefit to a man.
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 10:55 AM
2

The problem isn't that she's ugly, the problem solving that they tell you to just be honest and be yourself, while they proceed to do exactly the opposite.
/r/MGTOW12/03/19 02:23 AM
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There is truth here. But thanks to thirsty men, the vast majority of women can ultimately get someone to take care of them and pay for their needs. This is why there are so few homeless women compared to homeless men.
/r/MGTOW10/03/19 07:15 PM
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It's not hubristic to enjoy art. This scene is just depicting hubris or utter stupidity.
/r/MGTOW02/01/19 04:56 AM
5

Press charges.
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 07:56 AM
21

That's just because you want to peel me.
/r/seduction10/12/18 06:54 PM
1

Definitely work on yourself, but work on approaching girls at the same time. There's no reason to put off practicing. It's good to amass riches, but confidence is the real key. Also there's no reason to be ashamed of being attracted to a girl. Just make sure you don't invest unless she's willing to invest too.
/r/seduction08/12/18 05:41 AM
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So did you ever actually become her official boyfriend? I'm guessing no. And even if you did, it was obviously not worth it. Brace yourself for some tough truth. You say you don't trust girls? The only one who I see having betrayed you is here is you. You were weak. You were a mess. You wasted your own time. You invested a ton of emotional and physical resources into a girl you didn't even really know, and who didn't give you a single damn thing back. You're upset at her because you did a bunch …
/r/seduction07/12/18 12:02 PM
2

Women in countries like Thailand may have a few more traditional cultural values, but fundamentally they are treating you better because compared to the locals you are filthy stinking rich.
/r/MGTOW30/11/18 01:22 PM
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If the laws and government don't stop this nonsense, before long we're going to see a spike in the murder rate.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 04:38 PM
2

This assumes his wife is attractive enough that someone will pay for it.
/r/MGTOW15/11/18 05:37 PM
27

Am I the only one who actually loves Hawaiian pizza?
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 11:47 PM
13

I've always found this argument to be strange. Hand carts or even just wheelbarrows would have been enormously helpful.
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 11:46 PM
1

Dude you look fine, but if your forehead really bothers you, just grow out the beard to elongate your chin a bit. You are on decent shape, which already puts you physically ahead of millions of fatties.out there. Feel free start lifting weights though. You'll find it helps improve your confidence. Confidence is your real problem. Lots of guys get laid that are trolls compared to you.
/r/seduction31/10/18 07:43 AM
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The truly funny part: Where do you think she got the money for the 25% down payment?
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 04:21 PM
10

Yep them too. But like the rest of us who aren't naturals, you're going to have to work at it.
/r/seduction25/10/18 04:36 AM
1

Women aren't like us. Being attractive is a plus, but it's only one of a number of factors. Being timid can definitely remove all bonus points that being handsome gets you. Generally confidence can trump all.
/r/seduction25/10/18 04:34 AM
9

Don't worry. They already know.
/r/MGTOW24/09/18 05:17 AM
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Gasp. Oh no. Stop abusing me. Stop catcalling me online. You're calling names and talking about rape. Now I feel like you might rape me. I'm frightened. You and people like you have seriously fucked me up. My feelings are more valid than any of your intentions or any actual facts. You dirty toxic misogynist probable rapist you. See how ridiculous that sounds? No reasonable guy wants an innocent woman or anyone else to feel threatened. Unfortunately one can theoretically feel threatened by anyone…
/r/seduction23/09/18 02:10 AM
1

Sorry to be firm, but seduction is ultimately about improving yourself. Don't be afraid to start. The world isn't going to get nicer or soften itself to accommodate you anytime soon. You are either going to choose continue to suffer or choose to get stronger and tougher. You can do it, and if you do you'll be fine.
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:57 PM
1

It's just tough love buttercup. I'd rather light a candle than curse the darkness. You aren't helping her long term.
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:51 PM
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Don't threaten me with a good time sailor. ;) Everyone, man, woman, or child could potentially be murdered by virtually anyone at anytime. Live in fear and stay pathetic or get over it and move forward. I'm not missing the point. I'm addressing the actual problem.
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:37 PM
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Empathy isn't going to help you. Feeling sorry for you won't do anything but make you feel justified in your fear and weakness. Improving and strengthening yourself will actually solve your problem. You are similar to a lonely shy nice guy who out of fear, cries about how he doesn't want to take the initiative and ask girls out. "Why can't women pursue me? I'm so nice why aren't women fighting over me? Why do girls break my heart? I was so nice to her, why isn't she dying to be with me?" Sorry k…
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:16 PM
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You're welcome to express your opinion, and I wish you the best. Unfortunately the best for you means growing up and bettering yourself. Loads of self improvement and a thicker skin. You need both. No one can take control away from you with words alone. You feel unsafe because someone might come up and talk to you? Stop making yourself out to be some sort of victim. It may seem like it makes you special, but it just makes you pathetic. You are the one victimizing yourself with that attitude. Don…
/r/seduction22/09/18 02:14 PM
6

When an innocent man isn't suckered into paying for someone else's child, the government has to do it themselves.
/r/MGTOW01/09/18 06:07 AM
1

I don't accept anything, other than her submission, service, and obedience. I won't even buy her dinner, and whenever she wants to eat dinner with me, she pays. I mostly listen and just fuck her when it pleases me. If other men are willing to accept insanity, that's their business, but I will never make her mine. Hearing what she does to others only makes me stronger in my resolve. Relating her madness to you, is just a little public service on my part. If you don't like what I do, tough shit, s…
/r/MGTOW03/08/18 08:41 AM
1

It's because I am not a monk and I fuck her on occasion. I'm not determined to change women. I'm just determined not to marry or support them.
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 04:51 PM
8

Hahaha. Too true. I have a female friend. We dated for a few months years ago, but she said she didn't want kids, but still wanted to get married. I said, the only reason I would ever get married was for kids so we broke up. I only mention this because she (partially jokingly) actually said, "If you have a baby, you won't be the baby anymore." Plus she has Borderline Personality Disorder, or what I like to refer to as, what all women have, only more extreme. Anyway, we're still friendly (and eve…
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 07:16 AM
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This fucking shit infuriates me. I dated a few single mother's before I woke up. Was even engaged to one of them. You would think being willing to take on all that additional responsibility, and support her and her kids would win you a bit of additional adoration and respect. Just the opposite was true. More demands. More complaints. More stress. I'm so glad I realized it was just going to get worse and walked away.
/r/MGTOW22/07/18 02:22 AM
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I've dated several girls who exemplify your mantra to a tee. Everything they claimed to like that was remotely interesting to me, was something that had been introduced to them from a past boyfriend. And most of them immediately pretended to get into what I was into. I'm sure some women have legit hobbies, but I've never seen it in the wild apart from scrapbooking.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 07:00 AM
1

Haha. I had the exact same argument with a glorified female vagrant in my place.
/r/MGTOW05/07/18 05:16 PM
1

This just in. More and more Women are shiftless bums that are not repaying their debts. Full story at 11.
/r/MGTOW05/07/18 04:33 PM
1

The funny part is that men are not the ones at home the majority of the time and definitely do not make the majority of the mess. Women are really upset that they have to clean up after themselves.
/r/MGTOW05/07/18 01:56 PM
7

I just had a conversation just like this with an old ex girlfriend, who is now a stay at home mom, married to an engineer. She describes him as irresponsible and complains that he doesn't think things through, because she says he can't be relied upon to do simple things around the house. "I asked him to buy some stuff at the store and he didn't get the right stuff. I have to spell everything out for him!" Translation: I gave poor instructions and got poor results. She's religious and traditional…
/r/MGTOW05/07/18 01:46 PM
13

Respect. My Dad made it 20 years for the same reason.
/r/MGTOW01/07/18 07:39 PM
21

The real problem with marriage these days, is that most women, (hell maybe most men too) eventually will take advantage of and abuse you unless youve got some kind of power over them. Most people wouldn't work as hard if their boss couldn't fire them. Many would steal if theives didn't get thrown in jail. Even friends might not be so friendly, if they didn't know that after some point of assholishness, their friend will stop hanging out with them entirely. Men arguably used to be the boss or lea…
/r/MGTOW01/07/18 07:29 PM
3

This is joke theft at it's finest. I'll allow it.
/r/MGTOW10/05/18 10:00 AM
2

I find it better depicting women as using their femininity as a weapon, rather than watching women take on and kick much bigger and burlier men's asses with imaginary girl power.
/r/MGTOW14/04/18 02:18 PM
1

Did you ever do a paternity test? I only ask because you say it's a woman you shouldn't have been involved with. I grew up in a broken home. It sucks. I've seen lots of kids suffer under the drama of having to go back and forth. I say sign. It'll likely make for a more stable chilhood. You can reconnect when he's older if you both wish. Set aside some money for his college if you like. The bottom line is that right now you are being forced to foot the bill for a child you have no relationship wi…
/r/MGTOW12/04/18 01:22 PM
36

It takes Luke an entire Trilogy to beat vader. Doesn't fight him in a new hope. Gets his hand chopped kicked in Empire. Finally returns the favor in Jedi, but only when he briefly gives in to dark side hate.
/r/MGTOW01/04/18 02:13 PM
1

Being coquettish only works reliably if you already have something immenitently desirable. Usually this is money, extreme good looks, power, or vagina for girls. In theory you can achieve this with extreme confidence as well, but I've never seen work. TLDR - if you are a guy don't be a coquette.
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:06 AM
3

Your job will be to direct. Lots of girls have lesbian fantasies. Few act on them because they want the other to initiate. For example, when you've got them alone lead one right up to the other and say, "kiss." Also buy a double dong.
/r/seduction29/03/18 07:59 AM
2

First off, you should start acting a little haughty from here on out. Looks are good, but as you well know by now, it's better to be a super confident ugly guy, than a super shy attractive guy. Start being proud of yourself. Start talking to more women, and speak to then like they should he grateful to you for speaking to them. Many of them will be genuinely grateful. Women love attention from an attractive man. Your problem is you are not yet confident, and not yet a leader. Some of this will o…
/r/seduction26/11/17 06:28 AM
2

As a male? Not so much wrong as an incredibly bad idea.
/r/seduction15/11/17 06:37 AM
1

You're buying into media hit pieces that have no other proof or sources besides, "inside sources say," or "officials say."
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 02:06 PM
3

Wake up. When you look to the popular vote to somehow validate your whinging, you sound like a child who lost at chess, whining about how you have more pieces left on the board than your opponent, after you have just been checkmated. The object of the game was not to have more pieces remaining at the end. The objective was to checkmate your opponent. No one was playing the popular vote game. Everyone was playing the electoral college game, and Trump blew Clinton out with a lead of 77 points. Yet…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 06:56 AM
7

Trump beat Hillary, with no political experience, spending half as much money. Before Hillary he absolutely embarrassed and devastated every Republican opponent. All lifelong politicians. He did this by being a publicity hog, dropping red pill style unpleasant truths, hilariously pointed zingers, holding frame, and never apologizing for hurt feelings. Virtually everything he said successfully kept all eyes and commentary on him. This earned him Billions in free publicity, and as he was the only …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 02:41 AM
3

Time to invade Australia?
/r/MGTOW08/09/17 12:02 AM
1

Might be low T. Or over exposure to porn. Exercise. Eat right. Take a break from porn for a bit. But only if it bothers you.
/r/MGTOW30/08/17 08:17 AM
12

Didn't some study recommend that you ejaculate 20 times a month for ideal prostate health?
/r/seduction25/08/17 01:15 PM
1

They find other systems of support or they likely stuggle horribly or even die. In some cultures it was another brother's responsibility to take care of and impregnate his dead brother's wife. In the majority of cultures world wide polygamy was an accepted system at some point, so essentially of the woman is still desirable, a man with enough resources takes over her support. If she's no longer desirable, it falls to her family. If there's no family perhaps she struggles alone to support the kid…
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 06:38 PM
5

To marry or firm a LTR you have to meet someone. Period. It doesn't really matter how. Guys who are good at cold approaches tend to date a lot of women, but even they tend to settle down eventually.
/r/seduction13/08/17 07:26 PM
1

Hey I can understand the idea of wanting someone else to make be first move. Talking to strangers can be intimidating. Wouldn't it be nice if someone came up to you, initiated, took care of everything, and led you through the relationship? You know you can actually do this right? All you have to do is start slobbing knob and taking it in the ass! Masculine Men don't have to initiate. They choose to initiate, and that confidence for initiative is a huge part of what makes them dominant, and sexy …
/r/seduction13/08/17 07:18 PM
18

Virtually everyone when they are first beginning to approach women, feels fear and compulsively makes up excuses. Height is your excuse right now. Stop making excuses. They are all bullshit. A small percentage of women will refuse you because of your height. Some because of the color of your shoes. Whatever the reason they all have already effectively rejected you until you approach and make them have to either agree to give you their phone number or say no. Many women feel just as awkward about…
/r/seduction07/08/17 07:08 PM
2

Lift weights to bulk up a little. Start dressing more conservatively and maturely. If you are sensitive about your height you can use inserts in your shoes that will give you another two inches. That said it's probably better to stand up straight and own your space. Speak a little lower and a little slower. You might consider a full beard. Not necessarily permanantly. Having a temporary beard is like a mask that frees you up to be the new wild manly seductive you.
/r/seduction14/07/17 04:01 PM
1

This is possible. Was here a time closer to the beginning of your relationship when he was more sexual with you? Whether he's bored, sick, or you're just not his type, it's not your responsibility to make yourself into a 45 year old with 3 kids to accommodate him, ahead of schedule, especially when pretty and young is what the vast majority of men want. You can try taking your clothes/makeup up a notch on the sexy scale, and look for dress your body type advice here on reddit as a last ditch eff…
/r/seduction14/07/17 10:43 AM
-1

Miss Banders. You seem like a wonderful young lady, who has been dealt a few bad hands in life. While your current boyfriend may be better than previous situations, I'm afraid he seems like just another bad hand. You are probably going to have to fold and draw some more cards. Work out. Eat right. Make yourself up, and dress a little sexier. Start putting yourself into more social situations with new people. Make a dating profile on websites like okcupid or pof. You need more friends. You deserv…
/r/seduction14/07/17 02:14 AM
2

Logically, there should be one minimum physical fitness standard. If the standard is low enough for fit women to pass that's fine, but that should be all the men need to pass too. Sure there are lots of jobs that don't require much physical strength in the military, but weak men can do those jobs just as well if not better, because you don't have to worry about them becoming pregnant and dropping out. Auxiliary services for women and weak men aren't a bad idea either. But again the standard shou…
/r/MGTOW10/07/17 11:06 AM
3

A counter argument would be that it's kind of like not tipping your waitress. The clubs usually don't pay the girls from the cover charge, so they only make what you give them. Whenever I go I make it a point to get at least one lap dance with and tip any girl who sits down for conversation before I leave if the conversation is any good. I also will often go sit at the stage and tip a dancer $5-20 in ones who isn't getting much action just so she doesn't feel like she's gyrating up there for not…
/r/MGTOW10/07/17 10:42 AM
2

Witty comebacks: "Really? That's not what your Mom tells me." To a girl: "Even a 747 looks small flying through the grand canyon." To a guy: "You seem unusually interested. Afraid I won't be able to tickle your prostate big guy?" Seductive Retorts: "That's what I hear... are you ready to be pleasantly surprised?" "Come on back go my place and we'll disprove a few stereotypes." "Want to measure me? For science? You'll have to get me excited first."
/r/seduction02/07/17 05:17 PM
3

Finding an excuse to touch her hands is a great step, so you're on the right path. It's innocent and yet very intimate for them, so it builds a bond, and makes them comfortable with more touching. Other good kino builders, are opening the car or building door for her and then placing your hand on the small of her back to guide her forward. First kisses can happen on the doorstep dropping her off, or any moment where you are just standing there and there's a lull in the conversation. Move confide…
/r/seduction02/07/17 12:24 PM
2

This may come off as a bit racist, but I have a lot of Asian guy buds, and several of them are very concerned about their height. And not just the really short ones either. They often avoid asking out anyone who isnt considerably shorter than they are. If you are attracted to them, don't be afraid to approach tall girls. Especially the really really tall ones. For every one that is a vapid jerk and posts how guys under 6 foot need not apply, there are 10 taller girls who almost never get asked o…
/r/seduction02/07/17 11:34 AM
3

Well here's the thing. As an attorney manslaughter is the wrong crime to convict her of, and she'll likely be free on appeal. manslaughter. n. the unlawful killing of another person without premeditation or so-called "malice aforethought" (an evil intent prior to the killing). It is distinguished from murder (which brings greater penalties) by lack of any prior intention to kill anyone or create a deadly situation. She obviously intended for him to kill himself. There was nothing involuntary abo…
/r/MGTOW18/06/17 05:42 AM
2

Diet Coke. If really pressed just say you're the designated driver. Or you're in training for something. Or you're on a diet. Or if it's a lady, say you're not drinking to make sure you can give informed consent when she tries to take advantage of you later. Most people won't pressure you to drink.
/r/seduction18/06/17 12:38 AM
2

This woman is a sick fuck and should he shamed for the rest of her life. That said, I don't know if telling someone to kill them self should really be a crime.
/r/MGTOW17/06/17 07:33 AM
4

Women who have more to offer than sex bots will not be threatened by sex bots.
/r/MGTOW12/06/17 06:52 PM
4

Female nature hasn't really changed.
/r/MGTOW12/06/17 03:01 PM
11

You should look for more opportunities to socialize with men. A bar is a meat market. But a chess club? Soccer league? There are lots of hobbies you can get into that will help you make male friendships that will last.
/r/MGTOW11/06/17 12:19 PM
3

I agree that in general women who marry and procreate early are better for society. My point about it is that women don't have to rack up 100 grand in student loan debt for an education that is either largely worthless or they will never really use, just to get married. I've seen ladies in law school just to meet a lawyer, and even in med school just to meet a doctor. Once they marry, they either drop out, or never actually pursue a career in the field. This means schools and society spend the s…
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 04:06 AM
21

Our society is wasting so much time and money putting women into careers that they aren't going to stick with once the baby bug takes hold. Women often work til they are about 30, realize that work sucks much more than raising children you love, and also realize that if they don't have a kid or two now they never will. Or they just marry a guy they met in college and start churning out babies right away, effectively doubling his student loan debt. The fact of the matter is that every woman being…
/r/MGTOW04/06/17 08:20 PM
1

Honestly, it sounds like you just haven't been going for it yet. Yeah you're not perfect. But you're pretty damn good I'll bet, and have plenty to offer. Plus girls out there aren't perfect either. Hey I'm not saying don't continue with your goals, but there's no reason not to start practicing your seduction skills now too. If you don't bump into girls in person, make an OKCupid profile and start getting used to rejection. Internet dating is a numbers game, and everyone gets rejected a ton. Most…
/r/seduction22/05/17 12:17 PM
1

Hey man. First, off I'm glad to hear that you're happy and content, or at least happy and content enough not to be suicidal. Keep up the good work. Perhaps what I should have said, was, "It's really just a matter of time, trying, and tactics." You're absolutely right in that even for most attractive men, women aren't going to simply fall into your lap, or line up and beg to fuck you. If you just wait and do nothing, likely nothing will happen, but if you work on developing yourself and your skil…
/r/seduction22/05/17 07:38 AM
2

We all have our limitations. Few of us will ever actually reach them. Virtually everyone can improve in some way. There are lots of disabled people who succeed in spite of their limitations. For example, here is a picture of a limbless motivational speaker on his honeymoon with his new wife. http://www.riojalibre.com.ar/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/f861679c37fc3c16ade722256e2b6daa.jpg The guy was born physically basically a stump with a head. Maybe he should have just layed down to wallow in his m…
/r/seduction21/05/17 06:14 AM
5

First off. Don't kill yourself. If you kill yourself, hot girls won't sleep with you. If you kill yourself you'll never have a good relationship. Stay alive and these things will happen to you. It's really just a matter of time, I guarantee it. Secondly, I'd look for something other than women to make you happy. Women are great, sex feels good, but women aren't a reliable source of happiness. Women are attracted to strength. You don't need a woman to be happy. Honestly a man doesn't truly "need"…
/r/seduction20/05/17 09:30 AM
6

Bottom line if you're truly ugly as hell, plastic surgery is nothing to be ashamed of. If your face is anywhere near or above average I wouldn't worry about it. If your chin is a bit weak consider growing a beard. Being in shape is still very important. It's important because most people aren't in shape these days, so it gives you a huge edge. It's important because it makes you feel better and healthier in general. It's important because excess fat simply isn't attractive. You'll notice thay no…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 05:34 AM
3

I disagree. I think you are forgetting the element of number of survivable/successful offspring. It's the classic stud verses slut dichotomy. A man theore who fucks a lot of women is increasing the potential number of his offspring. This is why people respect studs. The is why polygamy has been a legit practice at some point in virtually every culture historically. When a woman fucks lots of men, this does little to increase her number of offspring, as a women has a psychical limit on the number…
/r/MGTOW10/05/17 02:23 PM
6

Genuinely curious. Were you looking to make them LTRs at the time or just popping cherries?
/r/MGTOW10/05/17 01:45 PM
1

My philosophy is that anyone worth fucking is worth fucking thrice. Sex gets better with repeat engagements, and this also serves to protect you from false rape allegations, especially with the crazy ones. When you ghost a girl after the first lay, this can make them feel cheap and used. A one night stand is a tawdry affair, while 3 times is a hot summer fling, that just wasn't meant to be in their minds. Naturally to each their own, but my advice is fuck em thrice.
/r/seduction07/05/17 09:30 AM
1

Sure message me all you like and I'll respond when I can. Public or private. Though public has the potential to help others more either way is fine.
/r/seduction06/05/17 05:22 AM
1

Fuck them more than once.
/r/seduction04/05/17 12:08 PM
1

Style advice is all a matter of opinion, and I'm far from a fashion expert, but many people have very strong opinions on when you should and shouldn't wear shorts. My advice is just a general rule to help stylistically challenged people like myself avoid mistakes, and you'll almost never lose when you choose pants over shorts. Historically before the early to mid 1900's shorts on males were considered acceptable only for young children. Society and style has of course changed a lot since then, b…
/r/seduction04/05/17 12:33 AM
2

You're quite welcome. I was a late bloomer myself. It's never too late to learn, practice and conquer.
/r/seduction03/05/17 11:38 AM
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Practical advice: Work out at least 3 times a week. This will make you feel better about yourself personally, but is also technically the least important item on this list. Confidence beats abs almost every time, but building muscle builds confidence. Kick your wardrobe up a notch or two. Easy ways to do this include button down shirts, and switching to leather shoes. It's easy to be better dressed than the vast majority of men out and about these days. No shorts unless you are at the beach, the…
/r/seduction03/05/17 01:22 AM
2

Just post a security notice at the front door saying, warning these premises are under audio/video surveillance.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 06:16 AM
3

My motto in avoiding false accusations is anyone worth fucking is worth fucking thrice. A lot of girls will feel used if you just hit it and quit it. Perhaps understandably so. Fucking a girl and moving on is a cheap tawdry affair in a woman's eyes. And if she doesn't consider herself cheap and tawdry she's going to be tempted to paint you as the bad guy. Two or three repeat engagements isn't being used though. It's a hot summer fling, or a whirlwind romance to be looked back fondly on. So fuck …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 06:13 AM
2

If you just gave your dog pork ribs, your dog loves you too.
/r/MGTOW09/04/17 07:31 PM
2

While I will concede that soldiers such as those do indeed have medical issues that make life difficult, those that do get fat do not do so because of those particular medical issues, but instead because of food issues. If you can't be a super athlete anymore, you can't eat like one without getting fat. It's really as simple as that.
/r/MGTOW06/04/17 03:25 AM
18

Way less than 2%. People don't get fat because of medical issues. They get medical issues because they are fat.
/r/MGTOW05/04/17 11:43 AM
1

If someone physically assaults you, you are legally justified in physically assaulting them back to defend yourself. So... if someone sexually assaults you are you legally justified in sexually assaulting them back? Rape fight!
/r/MGTOW03/04/17 06:47 AM
8

This happens because men are told lies about women, men and the relationships between them from an early age. They make the mistake of actually believing what women say about what they want. "Women just want a guy to treat them like a princess." They think the woman will treat them like a prince or a king in return, because that's how they would reciprocate such treatment. In reality the woman instead sees you as a servant. These men have been told that female affection is something you earn, so…
/r/MGTOW09/02/17 11:37 AM
1

Some red pillers think that you should never be in an exclusive relationship. Some think you should avoid women all together. I think perhaps the most important part of taking the red pill is learning how women actually work, how to manage them, and to be aware of all the risks involved so you can make informed decisions. If it were me, when she says, "If you want me I'm yours," I'd say, "You're already mine." Or, "I know your mine." Do what you think will make you happiest. That doesn't mean yo…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 03:28 AM
3

Interesting. Now basically, and correct me if I'm wrong, but you think you love this girl, and you'd like to say it. And you would definitely like to hear her say it. Fundamentally that's why people usually say I love you. To get that confirmation, "I love you too," back. Infatuation is a great feeling, and can be enjoyed for a long time in its own right, but eventually people want some reassurance that they aren't over invested and the feeling is mutual. But I still wouldn't say it first. Here'…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 02:47 AM
66

To each his own, but I don't sweat dropping an L bomb on girls anymore. When young, guys often have idealistic views of love, and feel its incredibly important not to say, "I love you," unless its some kind of deep admission of an eternal truth. Relax guys. You probably love ice cream, certain movies, books, and games. If you say you love Lord of the Rings, that doesn't mean you don't love Star Wars. When a girl says she loves me, if I like her, and I want to see her again I say it back. It's th…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 04:50 PM
2

I generally do this move with waitresses. Just leave them my number and, "Date? :)" on the back of my business card. Normally I'd advise you to go in and ask for their number, but I don't like putting people on the spot when their job is customer service. Gotten laid a couple of times with it. But start doing it with every cute waitress. Don't get invested in one target.
/r/seduction19/01/17 10:21 AM
2

Haha. That's why I try to stick to young women myself.
/r/MGTOW09/01/17 03:50 AM
27

Sigh. What happens in "family homes," really burns me up sometimes. The house is in both names, but clearly the house belongs to the woman. She decorates it all, and there is often no place that the man has control over. The bedroom? Throw pillows galore. The den/family room ends up frilly with terrible artwork all around. The guest bathroom is soon filled with terrible knicknacks, often on the back of the toilet, and fancy soaps that the man is instructed not to use, because those soaps are jus…
/r/MGTOW08/01/17 09:24 AM
13

No judgement coming from me. If you're looking for something deep and meaningful that's absolutely fine. If you're just looking to plow as many hotties as possible that's fine too. To each their own. Women who are choosy/more chaste about their sexuality do exist. You just will probably have to put additional work in there to find them, and you will have to decide for yourself if it's worth the effort. One thing you might want to take into account is that the rules/values are straight up differe…
/r/MGTOW08/01/17 07:08 AM
6

The real world options to avoid this are, date younger women, date super religious women, date extremely shy/introverted women, or date less attractive women. I'm personally not bothered by the number of partners a girl I'm plowing has had in the past, as long as she's giving me everything I want in the bedroom, and not becoming unreasonable or abusive. But that's me. I suppose my questions for you are why do you care how many a girl has slept with before you? Is it a religious hangup? Concern a…
/r/MGTOW08/01/17 04:10 AM
3

Maybe it would help you to look at this from a different point of view. If you want sex, but are just standing in line making yourself presentable, you are doing it wrong. Men initiate. We don't have to initiate, we get to initiate. Men act and women are acted upon. Yes it's true that a woman ultimately gets to accept or regect your advances, but you get to decide which women you advanced upon.
/r/MGTOW25/12/16 04:25 PM
44

Jesus Christ. No kids. Overweight. Unattractive. I'm sorry it upsets you honey, but you are going to have to work for a living.
/r/MGTOW18/12/16 05:24 AM
2

Allow me to impart a valuable piece of advice. Anyone worth fucking is worth fucking thrice. When you hit it and quit it, a girl often ends up feeling cheap. And in her mind she cant be cheap. Shes a good person! If she feels bad about herself, it must be because you did something bad. You seduced her. Then you took unfair advantage. Then bam. You're a rapist. And she was just an innocent victim of an evil man. So the anwser is not to have one night stands. Sex em up at least three times. Text t…
/r/MGTOW14/12/16 06:24 AM
2

You can be a MGTOW and not be a monk. It takes some work and social skills. You can snuggle with multiple girls and still care about eachother. Heck you can snuggle multiple girls literally simultaneously and have all three of you care about eachother. The lovey dovey snuggly part of a relationship is generally the best in the beginnings of a relationship. So begin a lot of relationahips. Many ladies will throw a fit when they realize you are never getting married. Just hold the line. Be kind bu…
/r/MGTOW09/12/16 02:52 AM
2

First off, don't let 2 months pass if you are interested. Secondly, just say, "I'm afraid my interest in you will always be more than friendly, but if you want to take me out sometime as a friendly gesture I wouldn't say no."
/r/seduction25/11/16 01:22 AM
6

When a "wrong" political opinion can cost you your job, I'd call that oppressive.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 09:36 AM
12

I haven't looked into the methodology of this poll, but I have to wonder if the men are being verbally interviewed. Verbally or even by written survey, men know how their positions on these things can socially come back to bite them in the ass, and many would have incentive to say how Trump's remarks in these videos are "reprehensible." Many likely aren't personally bothered by these comments. These comments might not effect their actual vote at all. But when communicating with someone, they kno…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 09:52 AM
2

I should have said that it only seems important. Ultimately it's not in the grand scheme of things, and can actually get in the way of more important goals. Not saying we should all be celibate monks here, but let's keep it in perspective.
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 10:46 AM
2

True but try living without money and oxygen, then come back and tell me how important sex really is in the grand scheme of things.
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 09:51 AM
1

Dick game doesn't equate to dick size. Girls generally are attracted to two things. Money/security and dominant leadership/sexuality. The dominant aspect is generally more important to getting laid. The money aspect is more important for long term commitment. You're a mgtow, so you know which one you want to work on. Women have evolved to maximize the chances of their own and their children's survival. Therefore seeking resources to support them and strength to protect and inseminate them makes …
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 09:04 AM
2

Fortunately for him, he can afford them.
/r/MGTOW10/10/16 04:15 AM
4

First off, don't feel too bad. All of us were intimidated by women at some point. It's not unusual at all for boys, especially those raised by dominant/donineeriny women, to fear the opposite sex. The good news? You're not a little boy anymore. You're a man now. Realize that you shouldn't be the one afraid of girls. Girls should be afraid of you. You're bigger, stronger, and faster after all. Probably smarter too. They quite literally can't hurt you. The worst they can do is say, "No," or "Fuck …
/r/seduction29/09/16 01:41 PM
1

Happy to have you still with us brother. Should life ever get dark or confusing again, don't hesitate to call on us for support.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 02:44 AM
5

It's all about the way you brag. It has to be in a fun teasing way. With a smile. Or if not it has to be something really worth bragging about. Arrogance and cockyness, again if done right make the nether rivers flow.
/r/seduction20/09/16 01:01 AM
29

Frankly this list is what most women will tell you they want, but isn't really what actually turns them on. Particularly the parts on Bragging and Arrogance, Immaturity, Looking at Other Girls, and Sexual Language. All of these things are fine and sometimes even important steps in seduction, if they are done correctly/playfully.
/r/seduction19/09/16 06:44 PM
8

I'm Mormon. I have three wives and five girlfriends. Want to be number 4 or number 6?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 03:06 AM
0

Breakups are easy. You can sit her down for coffee and say hey, I think we break up. You can call her and say hey, I think we should break up. You can text her and say hey I think we should break up. She may get upset. That's okay. You can also do the, make them think the breakup is their idea routine. This works best when you know a girl wants marriage. You sit her down and say, look, you've given it a lot of thought and you are never getting married. You like her and don't want to hurt her but…
/r/seduction12/09/16 04:53 AM
3

Honestly, I don't want women fighting and dying out there. Even the disgusting ungrateful harridans. Smart societies don't want that either. Primary reason? If we are going to war, I want to win, and women will lose much faster than men will. Even a man going his own way, who doesn't want to risk losing his life being the pawn of societal agendas, will still want his nation to win wars and remain stable. Men are stronger, faster, smarter on average, with quicker reaction time, and they have hear…
/r/MGTOW10/09/16 01:14 PM
1

There's a bunch of approaches you could go for here, but here's the easiest. Dress and groom a little better. Nice shoes, a button down shirt, nice jeans, khakis, or slacks. Maybe a decent watch? You can even suit up sometimes. It's a cliche, but for women clothes really can make the man, and men naturally respect it a bit too. You're not going to be able to be the best Rambo in a room full of real life Rambo's. So go for James Bond or Christian Grey instead. Hell, being the best dressed guy run…
/r/seduction08/09/16 09:39 PM
1

To be fair, most men are boring as hell too. It's rare to meet a new good guy friend, just like it's rare to meet a girl you are compatible with. Also, you are probably talking to women wrong. You're probably talking to then like you would talk to a man. Men enjoy an egalitarian approach to friendly converasations. You might want to lead the topic of conversation for a while and then you'll want to let him lead. Its respectful. We take turns leading. When talking to a girl your job is to lead. H…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 03:19 PM
5

Don't you understand? Women are so strong and independent that not only is an insult against one of them an insult against them all, but even using something feminine as a pejorative, seriously hurts all members of society.
/r/MGTOW23/08/16 04:23 AM
4

In a nutshell yes. And not right away after she started manipulating me either. Remember we dated for two years. I was head over heels for her and had a head full of excuses for her and a naive view altruistic of women. I still enjoy women, but now I understand them much better.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 06:13 PM
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In a way this reminds me of a past relationship. Met a girl at camp back in high school. She was gorgeous and I was smitten off my senses immediately. We became best friends but she always seemed to have a boyfriend other than me. We ended up going to the same college. We went out a few times, but "we" eventually decided that I was too good of a friend to risk losing. She married a more charming guy. I was very depressed. She had two kids. Six years into her marriage we met up again. I was in la…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 09:22 AM
1

Jeff appealed to her logic. Chad appealed to her emotions/libido. Most women imply don't know how to separate logic and feelings. If they feel a certain way it must be logical in their minds.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 08:01 PM
2

To me it sounds like it's time for you to take back the leadership of your household. Most men make the mistake of treating the women in their lives how they themselves would like to be treated. Just like most women make the mistake of treating the men in their lives how they themselves would like to be treated. Different things make men and women happy. So treat her differently. Let's go step by step through your morning here. You make her coffee. You'd probably feel cared for if she had your c…
/r/MGTOW31/07/16 06:51 PM
279

Dude. The fact that they all had to sign a pact that states they promise not to sleep with you, means that they all want to sleep with you. They signed the pact because they don't want to have contention in the friendship caused by fighting over you. Now because of this pact, you can bang them all and they'll all keep it to themselves for fear of being caught breaking the pact.
/r/seduction23/07/16 08:01 PM
0

Government regulation and immigration prevents the building of new homes to match demand. Simply put, our population is growing and our housing isn't keeping up with it.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 04:21 PM
1

Climb every mountain! Fjord every stream! If they are hot that is.
/r/seduction13/07/16 04:41 PM
7

Joke about it. Tell them, "Respect your elsers, young lady." Accuse them of robbing the grave.
/r/seduction13/07/16 04:33 PM
11

Hand and grip strength is one of the most obvious points of sexual dimorphism. Women can specifically train their hands for years and sill be weaker than an average Joe who didn't work out.
/r/MGTOW14/06/16 05:46 AM
46

Women simply shouldn't be hired for any physically demanding job, unless they can demonstrate that they can handle the workload. Women definitely shouldn't be hired for any job where strength and speed may save lives, because we should be looking for the fastest and strongest possible, not for the lowest acceptable level of applicant.
/r/MGTOW13/06/16 07:24 PM
2

Hey if she's great she's great. Financially what it really comes down to is will she pull her weight? She went to a good school. Cool. Does that mean she has a ton of debt? If so that is now on your brother to Now student loan debt isn't the end of he world if you are actually going to work to pay it off. Of course many women who get married can't wait to work part time, then spend all they earn and much of their husbands as well. Divorce hurts the party that makes more money. Honestly the only …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 07:58 AM
4

If a girlfriend is truly a good person, then one should be able to explain to her why they don't want marriage. If she truly loves you, she'll stay with you without marriage. Few women will, because they will naturally feel they are not getting the sweet deal that all the other girls get.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 07:23 AM
1

It's generally income based. Many states have formulas, though the judge can often alter them.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 07:19 AM
2

Gilbert Grape was big for him of course, but Critters 3 was indeed his official first film. Having a real substantial speaking role in an actual film, even a silly horror movie, is huge for any actor and the experience was probably a big help toward getting him the part in Gilbert Grape.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 08:21 PM
9

Depp started acting in his teens, (Nightmare on Elm Street being his first big thing at 19). Dicaprio was also 19 in What's Eating Gilbert Grape, but his big "breakout role" is arguably Critters 3, which he did two years rarlier. Dicaprio had done a little TV acting before that (starting at 10 years old) but nothing that would make anyone consider him a star.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 03:33 PM
11

This divorce seems like an excellent financial planning move for Miss Heard. He's worth 400 million. She's worth maybe 10 without him? If that. He was rumored to be paid 40 million for Black Mass and 60 Million for Alice in Wonderland 2. So she's probably going to get half of that, so 50 millionish. But now to up the ante she's claiming abuse. This seems to me a blatant attempt to sweeten the deal for settlement. Less than a year and a half of marriage is going to at least quadruple her net wort…
/r/MGTOW30/05/16 08:29 AM
0

First off man, let's talk about what's already good about you. You have a sweet engineering job, you like lifting weights so you are in pretty sweet shape, and you have been successful at pickup. These three things already make you way better than the average frustrated guy out there. And I've gleaned these just from a few reddit comments where you are complaining about being "broken." You aren't broken dude. You are just depressed. It's okay to be depressed sometimes, but if you're sick of bein…
/r/seduction19/05/16 10:52 AM
8

I'm not totally opposed to ass kicking women when it's done right, but it would be nice to see more movies or TV shows that did a better job of showing women competing with men in a more realistic fashion. Take Kill Bill for example. That movie kicks ass. And most of the times when women beat men it happens through technique and not brute force. Kiddo hides on the floor, cuts Buck's hamstring with a scalpel, and then slams his head in the door repeatedly. Kiddo beats the Crazy 88s at swordplay b…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:16 PM
2

Try to direct her toxic energy elsewhere.
/r/MGTOW03/05/16 05:33 PM
2

I love it when she speaks. She hangs herself with virtually every word that comes out of her mouth. Idiots like her are a big part of the reason the why the vast majority of women are not feminists.
/r/MGTOW30/04/16 11:36 AM
3

This wasn't my wake up call, but the success of this book does demonstrate how women say they want one thing, but in reality fantasize and crave something entirely different.
/r/MGTOW20/04/16 04:12 PM
2

No one is claiming that Amy Schumer is morbidly obese. Or even unattractive. But she's definitely fat. Look at the photo of her in this article. http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/apr/07/amy-schumer-feeding-plus-size-prejudice-comedian-glamour-magazine Them arms is way chub chub. Nothing wrong with finding a fat person attractive, but we should not let the physical standards of our culture slide so far that only land whales can be called fat. Pretending that she isn't fat is a disserv…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 02:32 PM
5

I suppose fat is relative, but you can be sure that on the standard height weight index she's at least "overweight."
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 10:58 PM
1

Someone should do an internet poll on whether or not she's fat. I know what my vote would be.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 10:56 PM
1

It essentially is indeed a game of chicken. Unfortunately it is often the best option for men who have already stumbled into bad circumstances. Nothing wrong with counseling men in a rotten position to take the best option available and start improving themselves.
/r/MGTOW08/04/16 11:52 AM
2

Now hold on now. Some Celebrities are rich as hell. Are we talking no prenup?
/r/MGTOW08/04/16 11:07 AM
0

How did she stay in your room and you not seal the deal? For future reference, if a girl wants to stay in your room assume she wants you inside her. Next time go for it. Of course respect her wishes if she says no, but dude, she wouldn't have said no. Long distance relationships are bad news. You'll die a thousand deaths and lose your mind and probably for nothing. You can plan on seeing her again, but don't put all your eggs in this basket. Now that you two are apart, you need to date other gir…
/r/seduction28/03/16 01:50 PM
12

It's hilarious that all she can see is him getting paid for sleeping around. He got the award because they were publishing and profiting from what was essentially a porno of him that was filmed without his consent. And then defied a court order to take it down. Oh and this was the same video with the, "racist rant," that got Hulk fired from the WWE. Which was extra unfortunate because Hulk wasn't really being a terrible racist, he was lamenting over his estrangement from his daughter and honestl…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 02:22 AM
6

This is astoundingly wonderful. I would argue that the father should have a certain amount of time from when he is informed of the pregnancy, to be fair, and discourage women hiding their pregnancies. If this law was implimented throughout the west, the out of wedlock birth rate would absolutely plummit.
/r/MGTOW24/03/16 02:05 AM
1

I'd rather be a "dick" than a "nice" guy who never gets laid. I am being very direct here, but you don't have to be a jerk to succeed with women. Women generally want confidence and leadership. You don't have to be an abusive tyrant, but you do have to lead. If she won't follow your leadership to the bedroom you go find someone else to lead.
/r/seduction23/03/16 05:34 PM
2

Self improvement is great, and a man should be constantly developing himself to be the best he can be. So fine advice on that topic, but this doesn't really help with the friend zone. Maybe a bit to whether or not the girl will find you attractive at all, but not to the friend zone. The friend zone is all about time and attention. Taking myself for an example, a years ago, I was in great shape, and I was in university with multiple scholarships, so I had plenty of spending money. I was enrolled …
/r/seduction23/03/16 07:05 AM
6

But Black Dynamite... I post Masturbatory Revenge Fantasies in the MGTOW commnity!
/r/MGTOW22/03/16 07:55 PM
1

Free dating sites always have a lot of scammers. They are usually easy to spot robots, but some are becoming more devoted to trying to con you out of money. The lady in question probably didn't even live in the same country as you.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:38 PM
1

I've landed some quality ladies on both OKC and PoF. But yeah it's a mine field. They're just apps that I brows when I'm bored.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:37 PM
1

There are plenty of women who make worthwhile friendly acquaintances, but real friendship? Platonic male female friendships are generally very one sided. One usually has a not so secret crush on the other and does all the work. If you're the one with the crush you'll end up investing a lot of time and energy with someone who is going to practically stop talking to you the moment she gets into a committed serious relationship. At best they are temporary distractions, and at worse a one sided situ…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:09 PM
9

I've been in a similar situations before. Honesty is the best policy, about not wanting to see them unless you are going to be inside them. In one example broke things off a week or so before Christmas, because I didn't want to talk about marriage. I was supposed to fly home for Christmas, but a snowstorm delayed my flight by several days. She heard about it, and invited me over for Christmas with her family. "Not a good idea. I don't want to hang out with someone, who I'll be wanting physically…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:00 PM
1

It's not impossible to be friends with a girl you want to sleep with. It's just usually not a good idea. In my past life experience, they tell you all their problems, but never seem to have time to listen to yours. They ask for your help all the time, but never seem to be able to help you. You'll be doing major physical strength requiring favors for her. Moving furniture. Home improvements. She might bake you cookies if you are lucky. Even if they are willing to help you out a little from time t…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 12:46 PM
4

Feminism has of course convinced the majority of women to attempt to do something they ultimately aren't suited for. Yes of course there are some women who might want to work a career their entire lives. But back in reality most women would be happier married with Children. These women are bailing out just as or slightly before they hit the wall because that's when they realize that if they don't settle down with a provider and have kids now, they'll have to work an ultimately unfullfulling job …
/r/MGTOW11/03/16 09:51 AM
2

When a girl criticizes or insults me I find it's best to humorously embrace the insult. If she calls you weird, say, "You don't know the half of it. I'm a world class weirdo." If she says you are an asshole, say, "I'll have you know that I'm not just any asshole. I'm the biggest asshole who ever lived." She calls you a racist bastard? "Damn right. I'm racist against the entire human race. Panda Power!" If she calls you a pedophile, say, "That's why I'm going after someone who looks about 12 like…
/r/seduction06/03/16 10:47 PM
1

Don't try your luck with the Muslim Brotherhood either. I've heard they also are adverse to atheists.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 10:03 PM
1

Any guides out there to teach men how to become gold diggers?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 07:52 PM
1

This would be a great and just law. Unfortunately it will likely never fly. Feminist disinterest in true equality aside, the government has a policy of doing whatever it takes to see that children are supported. If there is a known father, then the father has to pay. Why? Because if the father doesn't pay, the state has to pay. And the state doesn't like to pay for anything it doesn't have to.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 07:58 PM
1

I don't think either of us get to be the arbiter of what exactly qualifies as comedy or a joke. My point is she wasn't seriously proposing this idea. Read A Modest Proposal sometime. It's delightful.
/r/MGTOW04/03/16 01:01 AM
3

This was a joke, but like many jokes has elements of her "truth" in them.
/r/MGTOW03/03/16 05:26 PM
8

Your experience illustrates one of the biggest problems with modern feminism in society. It teaches women that they are victims all the time, even of their own choices. As a man you realized that it was you who chose to drink to excess, and you whose drunk brain turned into a chubby chaser. You fully realize that you are accountable for your own actions. Many feminists simply refuse to accept responsibility for themselves.
/r/MGTOW11/02/16 07:00 AM
3

A drunk person is able to consent to sex. An unconscious person is not. Just like a drunk person can choose to drive a car and an unconscious person cannot. The real problem lies in those extreme cases where people experience memory loss after heavy drinking. If a woman consents to have sex, and then legitimately doesn't remember it the next day, the guy is going to have a bad time. He likely will not be convicted of rape beyond a reasonable doubt. But accusations could ruin his reputation and c…
/r/MGTOW10/02/16 11:10 PM
2

It's an abundance mentality. You don't have to actually sleep with 100s of women to have one. Or any women at all for that matter. I have known virgin Mormons who are saving themselves for marriage, who have the mentality. They effortlessly tease and flirt with and kiss all the girls they like, and aren't emotionally over invested in the outcome because they know deep down that there's plenty of girls out there for them to choose from. Nailing a couple of dozen babes will probably be good for yo…
/r/seduction09/02/16 06:40 AM
2

The only potential problem with a targeted approach is it might result in you investing emotionally in those few approaches, and shooting yourself in the foot by making yourself nervous. You don't actually have to ask out tons of women to keep a plenty of fish in the sea mindset. But it is important that when you approach a woman you do it with relaxed confidence and the mindset that this is no big deal. In fact by asking her out you are offering to do her a favor. If she can tell that you are n…
/r/seduction09/02/16 06:32 AM
10

Yahoo is probably deliberately favoring women to advance an agenda. Obviously they legally can't pay women less than men with the same job description. And since, economically women in general are arguably less profitable employees, as they tend to put in fewer hours, take longer vacations, and are much more likely to drop out of the position to have children, thus wasting the time and money the company invested in training them, deliberately choosing women over men is a very bad idea. If this i…
/r/MGTOW02/02/16 11:25 PM
11

Women tend to have very little problems when a guy spends a ridiculous amount of his money on something she wants. But if it's something he wants and she doesn't? All she sees is her money flying out the window.
/r/MGTOW31/01/16 04:13 PM
13

Point of order. A slap on the face is illegal. Not saying you ladies can't get away with it with most guys, but assault is still assault and words legally virtually never justify it. Not saying this to be a jerk, but I've seen a drunk girl slap a guy, the guy quietly excuse himself, call the cops and she was arrested 20 minutes later. They asked her if she had slapped him, and she freely admitted it because the idea that she couldn't slap a guy over a few unwelcome words was completely alien to …
/r/seduction29/01/16 03:45 PM
9

This isn't how straight guys hit on girls. I've never heard of a guy whipping out his junk in person as an attempt to flirt. If anything this is how some women flirt when extremely attractced.. I've seen lots of women when really attracted to someone start flirting by saying, hey want to check out my tatoo? And naturally the tatoo is in a borderline area. I've even see a few girls break out yoga poses in the middle of a gathering because they literally wanted to present their ass and legs to the…
/r/seduction29/01/16 02:03 PM
5

Your gym doesn't tolerate people chatting in the Sauna?
/r/seduction29/01/16 01:57 PM
9

ThreeTips on avoiding false rape claims. A. Text Dirty Talk Before and after if possible, but definitely after. You want a record of her being flirty afterwards, because you do not flirt with your rapist. This is a good seductive move anyway. B. Be kind in your breakups The difference between an angry woman and an insane one can be a respectful bedside manner. I'm not saying dont break up when you need to, but I am saying that when she calls you a dickless piece of shit, respond with, "I underst…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 12:48 PM
2

Next time it happens say, "Who said anything about a relationship (wink)?" Or, "Relationship? I was just planning on keeping you tied up in my sex dungeon." Or, "Ha! You should be so lucky." Or, "Good. Maybe this means you'll be able to keep your hands to yourself on our date." When a girl throws a shit test your way laugh about it, assume interest, and pursue. It's possible that those who say that, have just decided that they aren't into you and are trying to be nice about it. Don't take the ea…
/r/seduction15/01/16 10:22 AM
13

Welcome to the real world. Nicer tits goes a long way. Prettier girls get more attention than plainer ones. Now this shouldn't undermine anyone's inherent worth as a human being, but let's not pretend that the average guy isn't going to covet the pretty over the plain. Same goes for men in being in shape, dressing well, or having an expensive car. Some women will always value guys with that stuff more.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 10:52 PM
9

Not saying she should or shouldn't, but remember that pressuring her to elevate her value might price her right out of your market. I've known several girls who convinced their husbands to pay for implants and within the year they had upgraded in the husband department as well.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 10:48 PM
1

It's really entirely up to her. I dated a rail thin girl who appeared to be very top heavy whom I had known since highschool. We started talking about getting serious, and she said there was something she needed to tell me. The girls? Not exactly real. Naturally I figured this meant implants. Nope. Great big rubber falsies. This didn't matter to me at all though I did wonder why she had chosen to go so much bigger than her frame. She said she wanted to get implants eventually but had gotten thes…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 10:45 PM
2

I'm guessing this has much more to do with her desire to go out on dates then it has to do with teaching her son.
/r/MGTOW03/01/16 02:19 PM
1

Lots of great advice here already. One other thing that will greatly help you is to try and start imagining that the women you are trying for are nothing special. I'm sure there are at least a few women in your life that you have no trouble talking to maybe your sister. Maybe your mother. Maybe an old friend that you have absolutely no attraction for. When you talk to the next girl you find attractive, take a second and imagine she's your unattractive old friend. Anyone can get nervous when they…
/r/seduction17/12/15 01:02 AM
6

Why yes, it does vary based on jurisdiction. Beware cohbaitation and palimony! Beware!
/r/MGTOW16/12/15 03:37 PM
18

Naturally everyone here knows this already but just to review. Children are legally guaranteed child support with or without marriage. Father's and mother's have a legal right to access their children regardless of whether they were married or not. The father's right to visitation isn't going to magically increase just because they were married first. The only way marriage might be beneficial to a man after marriage is if his wife made a lot more money then he did, and thanks to female nature th…
/r/MGTOW16/12/15 04:53 AM
-1

IMO nothing wrong with skyping her to see what's up. But if you don't make actual plans to be in the same place again, there's no point in pining long distance.
/r/seduction12/12/15 11:11 AM
2

It's probably too late for last minute advice, but no matter how it went, remember to laugh and have fun. Things might not go perfectly. The night could be a disaster. But if you laugh at any mishap you could turn a disaster into a memorable date. Also if it didn't go perfectly remember most things don't go as planned. Everyone at least stumbles before they walk. You are still perfectly capable of going on to win Olympic sprinting gold.
/r/seduction12/12/15 11:01 AM
2

The lengths women will go to try and control how other people perceive them and their former significant others will never cease to amaze. In my pre red pill exposed state I was once dating a freshly divorced single mother. We've only been dating a few months and she told me she wanted me to go with her to her ex husbands family reunion. I of course balked and asked her why in the heck she would be attending her freshly divorced ex's family reunion, and why would she want me to come along? The c…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 09:50 PM
41

Death comes for us all. However it can come quicker to those who intentionally put themselves and others in harms way knowing that they don't meet the previous minimum standards. No one wants these women to die or any other soldier for that matter. This is why we want to keep the standards high. To save as many of our soldiers as possible. This push for women in combat stems from the idea that those who do well in combat get promoted faster and not forcing women to fight puts them at a career di…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:24 AM
3

In my experience overly Christian and religious women are generally only overly attracted to a man whose religioisity has raised his status in the form of Church leadership positions. Many religious women are so devoted to their faith that they will not date members of other faiths. So being in their particular religious click might get you in the dating pool, but it's not going to particularly impress them beyond that. Being a church leader is the only way to use the religious angle to get thei…
/r/MGTOW02/12/15 09:27 AM
15

This perhaps is another small manifestation of female nature/how our culture trains women to behave. I'm reminded of that great scene in As Good As It Gets when a gushing female fan asks Jack Nicholson how he writes women so well. "I think of a man, then take away two things. Reason and accountability." Reason aside, women can easily get accustomed to the fact that they will seldom get called on their marginal bad behavior. Men are used to their actions having consequences. Women are used to hav…
/r/MGTOW27/11/15 07:25 PM
4

Woman! Brew me a beer! Haha.
/r/MGTOW19/11/15 06:38 AM
14

25 bucks for 2 bouts in the sack? That's really pretty economical. Was the time investment worth it? Well that depends on how much you enjoy sex and what else you could have been up to. Did you cancel important work or hobbies you love? Or did you just replace a night you would have spent vegging out in front of Netflix all alone with quality sex? If you want to go full monk and swear off sex, more power to you, but in general it is much better to have sex and not want it, then to want it and no…
/r/MGTOW15/11/15 01:48 AM
66

This line also works to discourage men trying to pick a fight.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 12:07 AM
8

All women are always waiting for you to make a move on them. This one sounds like she was trying to give you an extra long opportunity.
/r/seduction06/11/15 07:24 PM
1

Don't be afraid to try again in a friendly fun manner sometime. Sometimes they say no at first, only to say yes later. Her professionalism might tell her to always say that she has a boyfriend. Maybe she's thinking about trading up. You never know. Either way there's no reason not to keep up the friendly banter.
/r/seduction31/10/15 08:54 AM
1

Here's the deal. You asked her out so you've got the be the man with the plan. You'll meet up for coffee. Great, but not the best since you two already hit it off and click. I say grab the coffee and go do something. Go to the park. Go window shopping at the mall. Go bowling. Bring her along browsing at the book store. When meal time comes around, have a few ideas about where you want to go to eat. Plan two or three things to do after the coffee, so you don't just sit there and chat forever. It'…
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:31 PM
1

Forget what it means. Instead look them in the eye and say, "Want to lock down that investment with a down payment?" Then go in for a kiss.
/r/seduction21/10/15 02:40 PM
29

She dumped him, and then explained it was because he didn't seem like he would ever have enough money to support her. Before that she's was only skirting the issue and never flat out asked him if thought he could support a family. If she had he might have spilled the beans about an inheretance, but probably wouldn't have mentioned how much. But instead she dumps him saying that his personality isn't enough for her, and that she needs an ambitious man who will make plenty of cash. So he kicks tha…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 10:11 PM
10

This is human nature. It's easy to flirt with girls you don't really want because you genuinely don't care about the outcome or what they think of you. But when you actually do want a girl you get nervous. You instantly naturally become invested in the outcome. So what do you do? Become genuinely confident enough (or at least accustomed to faking it) so that you can treat all the girls you want in that same easygoing uninvested manner. Strategies for doing this? Don't go after just one at a time…
/r/seduction09/10/15 01:17 PM
3

While I feel for Mel, and these kinds of judgements are ridiculous, what's truly scary is when this sort of thing happens to normal people. Mel's still got 400 mil. But when you only make 50 grand a year, and the judge starts splitting things up, and ordering you to pay alimony? That can break people.
/r/MGTOW08/10/15 11:46 PM
9

Here's the real deal. Do you want children? If you want children then it makes some sense to at some point start looking to settle down, as generally children seem to do better if their parents are happily married. Children are essentially the only benefit that marriage gives a man these days. That and a few joint filing tax incentives. Frankly if you want and are ready for kids it would be generally better for you to find a girl who wants to live together and make babies but not get hitched, th…
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:48 AM
59

Stay playful. "Whoa how can I help you handsome? If you want to pick me up you've got to buy me a drink first." Smile. Introduce yourself. Ask if he knows who ever you are hitting on. Maybe he's just drunk. Maybe you were hitting on someone's girlfriend. Either way be confident, stay cool, and if it's going south fast, politely excuse yourself.
/r/seduction30/09/15 04:09 PM
4

The amusing thing about Helen's commentary is that she's one of the few exceptions to the female wall in Hollywood. People were interested in seeing her naked long after they would be for the usual actress. She lucked into having a beautiful female body, that's lasted much longer than average, and she's used it baring all in multiple films over multiple decades. She's practically had a monopoly on any role that wanted a clearly older woman who's still a bit sexy. Quick we need someone who is old…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 10:15 AM
14

When I say upgrade, I mean switch to someone they see as more valuable to them, for whatever reason. A guy can be "high value" on paper, but if a woman doesn't feel it the paper value is virtually meaningless.
/r/seduction27/09/15 10:47 PM
2

Don't ever get married. Over 50 percent of marriages end in divorce and those that don't end in divorce are still often unhappy. Family courts favor women 90 percent of the time. If you are married for any considerable amount of time before the divorce she will get spousal support and it's possible the support may last for the rest of her life. Marriage often makes people take each other for granted. Everyone says the secret to making a marriage last is to never stop courting/dating, so skip the…
/r/seduction27/09/15 09:36 PM
42

Not according to surveys. In this particular survey only 9 percent of men said they definitely would cheat if they fell for someone new. Compared to 25 percent of women. Women are more likely to cheat and more likely to initiate a divorce so they can upgrade. Hence partially why over 70 percent of divorces are initiated by women. Not to say that all women do this, but women in general are more likely to. http://www.yourtango.com/201172881/women-more-likely-cheat-men-heres-why
/r/seduction27/09/15 09:19 PM
2

Well Stephan's legally married and completely committed to the idea that he and his wife are perfect for each other and neither of them would ever cheat, or leave each other. I've seen him acknowledge in the past that marriage is a potential disaster for men, but he believes that you can still find the right person and make it work. That's kind of how you have to be if you are going to get married these days, but ultimately he believes traditional marriage is a risk worth taking with the right p…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 04:10 PM
2

"didn't report it because they didn't think it was serious enough..." If you don't think what happened to you was serious, then yeah, not reporting it is a good idea. If I was raped, I'd sure as hell think it was fucking serious.
/r/MGTOW24/09/15 03:24 AM
4

I'm going to steal a page from Tim Ferris's 4 hour body, to share with you the best diet I've seen short of keto. It's called the slow carb diet. The diet is simple. You can eat beans, veggies, and meat. Eggs count as meat. Eat as much as you want. Make sure you get at least 20 grams of protein for breakfast. That's it. Okay a little cheese and salsa for flavor is okay, but you stick to those 3 things 6 days a week. On the 7th day you splurge on whatever the hell you want. It's your cheat day. I…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 04:19 AM
2

You should have kissed her before. But no big deal. Just ask her out again to something specific. If that doesn't work ask her over to your place for a movie. If you see her at the party make another make out move. If that doesn't work move on.
/r/seduction03/09/15 01:58 PM
20

The only thing wrong with you is your behavior. You want to get kissed but haven't been kissed? You want a girlfriend but you always get friend zoned? You are supposed to be the man. You are the kisser not the kissee. Girls don't friend zone you. You friend zone yourself. No woman can put you in the friendzone. All a girl can do is reject your advances, and frankly it sounds like you aren't making any. Many guys complain that they have to make all the moves and it isn't fair. You don't have to m…
/r/seduction16/08/15 09:53 AM
11

Whether or not an act is considered degrading really depends on the person. Some people consider any sex act degrading. This is why communication is key. Sometimes the "naughtiness" of the act is half the appeal. I have never met a woman who didn't want to be dominated in the bedroom. This doesn't mean they all want to be slapped and choked and fucked up the ass, but sex is always better for them when they feel overpowered and out of control. This makes them feel like a "real" women being fulfil…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 07:57 AM
1

The first rule to avoid angering women you sleep with, at work or anywhere, is that anyone worth fucking is worth fucking thrice. Never just hook up and dump immediately. If you sleep with a girl, and then immediately want nothing to do with her, it's almost always bound to hurt her feelings. Then their justifying female brains start to come up with excuses to excuse her slutty one night stand. "He manipulated and just used me for sex." "That guy is a player and a predator." "I was too drunk and…
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:36 AM
7

Make sure you don't just stop contacting her. When girls hook up for sex once and then the guy drops out immediately, they can often feel used and even violated. So since this is this girls first time, at least give her a couple more engagements. Anyone worth fucking is worth fucking thrice. Plus sex gets better the more you become familiar with your partner.
/r/seduction09/07/15 06:27 PM
2

You are just temporarily hung up. To help you get over this I'm going to give you a simple little assignment. You say you have plenty of female friends and don't have a problem chatting with girls. Excellent. You are already way ahead of most people. Your assignment: touch a girls hand. Next time you chat with a girl or see one of your friends with a bracelet or a ring, you will say, "Hey, I like your ring," or "Nice bracelet." Then you will gently but confidently reach for their hand while sayi…
/r/seduction07/07/15 04:19 PM
1

If you like someone touch them first. Maybe controlling the touch will make you feel better about it. Also just be upfront about. If you like someone just tell them. Hey. I have issues with being touched. No touchy until I'm ready. But I like you so hang in there okay? If they are worth it, they'll be patient.
/r/seduction05/07/15 02:16 AM
1

It's more than infatuation. Its friendship and trust and a devotion to what's best for eachother. Unfortunately it's often fleeting as it's something you have to work to keep and protect. You never really know how another person feels, or what may change their mind, but if you feel it, it's love. If you are confident the other person feels the same way you're both in love and can start considering getting serious. Your problem is you've naturally tied love and sex together in your mind, and now …
/r/seduction05/07/15 01:11 AM
9

Hahahahahahahahahahhahaa! Oh man. Don't feel bad man. It's not your fault. Sometimes ages are really hard to guess. Some women look almost the same from 14 all the way to 30. A good way to fish for their age if you aren't sure to invite them for a drink sometime. If they say they are too young ask how long before they turn 21.
/r/seduction14/06/15 12:59 AM
1

Look. You chose to take her out. You chose to pay. You were in control of all these things. Yes women traditionally get free shit in the dating process. But it was you who chose to adhere to tradition. She may have thought it was a lovely date, but just doesn't want a second one for a million of private reasons. Not saying that it doesn't suck, but it's not a scam. Her eating food when offered, without wanting to further things, isn't a scam anymore than it would be for you to have sex with her,…
/r/seduction27/05/15 12:11 PM
1

High heels. Makeup. Push up bras. Spanx. Women are in disguise practically all day every day to exaggerate physical assets. But if a guy exaggerated his income? That's dishonest.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 11:41 AM
2

I don't get it. I thought she was great in Nightcrawler.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 11:21 PM
4

I love Last of the Mohicans, but I remember thinking how ridiculous it was for her to choose Hawkeye over the officer. The officer was just trying to do his duty in a time of war. She's an English gentlewoman. Hawkeye is a scout and trapper and spends all his time running around the woods. Is this spoiled, I mean, refined lady really going to be happy spending the rest of her life squatting in a tiny cabin farming and wearing buckskin?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 08:35 PM
3

The problem here would be solved if that your society made a few rules. Members only at meetings. Knowledge standards for membership. While your group is all male it's not a male space. It sounds like you would welcome women who were actually educated on the subject.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 08:21 PM
-1

Well in her defense Vader did torture/interrogate his daughter Leia and chop off his son Luke's jand. But I think the abuse was just physical and not sexual...
/r/MensRights09/05/15 03:06 PM
5

As long as she's not disgusting you really have nothing to be ashamed of. Sex with an average girl is still way beget than masturbation.
/r/seduction04/05/15 05:25 AM
1

She wants you to pursue her. She probably wants to be dominated in the bedroom. Don't ask her out. Tell her what you guys should do together. When you go out place your arm around her condidently. When you get her alone go for it, and don't be timid.
/r/seduction29/04/15 12:44 AM
1

Ask her out. Tell her to meet you at a restaurant or movie or coffee shop. Don't over complicate it.
/r/seduction23/04/15 01:26 AM
1

I don't think we disagree on this issue. In my mind you make a pass and don't get anywhere, you shouldn't treat them any differently than you did before. If when she realizes that she doesn't have that power of attraction over you, it compels her to give up the goods, great. If not, so what? Plenty of other fish in the sea. The "trick" is to realize that it doesn't matter either way and she's not special. Guys fall into the friend zone trap when they convince themselves that a certain girl is so…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 07:26 PM
3

That was my comment. :) I think being turned down is no reason not to be friendly, and still interact socially if it's convenient. But ultimately this guy either doesn't understand what the "friend zone" really is for most guys, or is so BP that he's fine with drinking the Koolaid that will leave him being used indefinitely. Women generally don't make good friends because they simply don't know how. You almost always end up giving more than you get. At the same time I've had a few ladies who rej…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 06:38 PM
1

Do it. For you, it's necessary. I lost my virginity to a girl I met on OkCupid. Sure, you might meet someone in person, or naturally, but you haven't yet have you? Right now you have a hard time even approaching girls. Well the internet will take care of some of that for you. Make your profile positive and confident. Don't tell anyone you are inexperienced with women. Online and on real life. Just send out a lot of brief introductory messages to every girl within 50 miles who you think is cute. …
/r/seduction22/04/15 10:34 AM
101

This is an interesting idea, but do NOT do this if you are infatuated with her. Yeah if she's just another hottie you'd like to bang, sure make her a wingman. Just make sure you treat her like you would any guy friend. Make her pull her own weight. No extra special because you are hot and I want to bang you treatment. If you are fine with the idea of being her wingman too and helping her meet different guys to hook up with, this can work. BUT If you are enamoured and the thought of her hooking u…
/r/seduction21/04/15 06:20 PM
2

If you aren't getting rejected, you aren't actually trying. The whole point is to engage them and make them actually give you an answer. You will of course get more no's than yes's. But some will say yes. And as you improve you will get more affirmative responses.
/r/seduction19/04/15 03:53 PM
7

What's the situation here? Virgin? Never been kissed? Never even been on a date? I was a late bloomer myself, and things are going swimmingly now, so don't fret. I'm guessing relationships are your primary area of concern, so we're going to make and execute a three prong plan of attack. Make an online dating profile on pof and okcupid. If you already have one, improve it. Make sure your pictures are good. One handsome product shot, and a couple of fun ones. Internet dating is a numbers game, but…
/r/seduction18/04/15 03:34 PM
2

You definitely will find a relationship before too long. The question, is what kind of a relationship is it going to be? Seddit is usually aimed at men seeking women, but the principles of constantly improving yourself and being confident apply to everyone. Because you are seeking a wonderdul man, I'm assuming you're a girl, (or a gay guy named carl). The most important advice I have for women, is not to sit on your laurels assuming that one day your prince will come. Guys will come, but then on…
/r/seduction18/04/15 03:07 PM
3

Haha. Thanks. Sometimes guys who are nervous and tend to overanylize need a play by play to help calm them down.
/r/seduction17/04/15 01:29 AM
30

You are the man. You are expected to make the moves. The girl can make a move sure, but most will assume that if you don't make a move, you don't want them, or are too shy to be worthy of them. Her inviting you onto her room was a huge move on her part. Don't worry. You missed the boat this time, but the ships sail regularly. Heck you might even hop aboard the same one tomorrow. You can either escalate slowly or storm the gates. You aren't confident yet so I recommend slow but steady escalation.…
/r/seduction16/04/15 02:00 PM
1

Maybe it's you, but honestly in my experience, pretty blondes tend to have an extra inflated opinion of themselves, compared to brunettes. This might just be my experience but it's like they picture themselves as Golden Haired Barbie Princesses, and thus often aren't worth the effort. Brunettes on the other hand, having a more common hair color, or more likely to consider themselves just one of the crowd. Again this is just an opinion based on my limited experience and probably just bullshit.
/r/seduction16/04/15 01:21 PM
4

Darwin is too late. She already reproduced.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 12:20 PM
6

Sounds like a good idea at first, but unless this guy fundamentally transforms, this girl isn't going to genuinely want to get freaky with him. Also pressuring her into sex she genuinely doesn't want is going to give her all kinds of, "he emotionally raped me," fuel to spread around once the relationship finally goes south.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:36 PM
1

Approaching in real life will almost always yield higher results. Just being confident enough to talk to a stranger puts you way ahead of most other guys.
/r/seduction01/04/15 12:35 PM
2

It empirically sounds like you are already doing much better than the average man. Young girls with serious daddy issues? Good looking women in their late 20's and up? The occasionally hottie here and there who is interested in being in a relationship? I know a lot of guys who would love to have these sorts of problems man. Your primary complaint seems to be that you aren't drawing girls who want you based on "pure sexual attraction." Guess what? Girls aren't like guys. Virtually none of them wi…
/r/seduction10/03/15 02:19 PM
10

Tell the women you care about in your life to seriously consider marrying older men in their prime childbearing years. Otherwise this fate awaits them.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 06:04 AM
5

Part of seduction involves change and improving yourself. That doesn't mean you have to become a bar hopping party animal, but it does mean that you can't do exactly the same thing you've always done and expect your results to change. It sounds like you do fine meeting women at places you go to regularly. You may want to add okcupid or pof to that mix as well. There must be a couple of other things you enjoy doing out of the house, be they a trip to the book store, shooting range, park, restaura…
/r/seduction17/02/15 09:05 AM
1

You don't have to understand it. Just know that it means they like you. Or think you have a silly name.
/r/seduction19/01/15 01:02 AM
2

I'm sorry to hear that you've had some bad luck with buddies. Find better ones and don't necessarily forsake the old, as really these kinds of things are only a big deal if you make them a big deal. Be a man. Meet up with them and if they apologize say, "No big deal man. I understand." And leave it at that. If they don't apologize don't obsess over it. That's what women do. Don't throw away a good friendship just because he was too chickenshit to tell you something straight up because he was afr…
/r/seduction18/01/15 04:34 AM
2

Definitely use a condom and go for it. Ultimately you are going to regret the missed opportunities if you don't.
/r/seduction06/01/15 03:08 AM
2

My point is that if you were somehow even unintentionally taught that sex is wrong throughout your childhood you may have issues to overcome. The sooner you confront the issue, whatever it is, the sooner you'll feel fine about it. Just make sure you pick a hot one.
/r/seduction06/01/15 02:58 AM
1

Your parents were atheist?
/r/seduction06/01/15 02:47 AM
1

Did you have a strongly religious upbringing?
/r/seduction06/01/15 02:33 AM
3

There is a big difference between talking about wanting something more now that you've been successful in seducing women, and saying that you hate what you've become and have never felt more alone in your life. I agree that there is nothing wrong with being interested in settling down and look for deeper connections. Still it shouldn't stem from self loathing and if it does there is probably something deeper going on. A healthy attitude would be to say, "I've conquered the one night stand, and I…
/r/seduction03/01/15 12:57 AM
14

I'm glad you forgive my use of "shut the fuck up" as an attention getting device. I definitely agree that meaningful relationships are more rewarding than just playing around with one night stands. I would caution you against relying mainly on women for the kind of friendships/relationships that yield the kind of overall well being you seek. Women, as an over-generalizing rule, do not make good friends for men. Men almost always give more then they get in male female friendships. Male female fri…
/r/seduction02/01/15 10:30 PM
9

Forgive my attention getting device. Seriously depression warps your mind. This guy needs to wake up and deal with the root problem or he'll waste years on lateral non issues.
/r/seduction02/01/15 05:14 PM
99

Shut the fuck up and listen closely. You aren't having an epiphany, you are just depressed. There was a time that sex was all that mattered to you because you weren't having enough of it. You were ubhappy and you thought that once you started getting all that sex you wanted you'd be happy. Now that you are having it, it seems meaningless. So now you think a "real, meaningful relationship" is what you need to be happy. Guess what? It's probably not. Not saying you shouldn't pursue something lasti…
/r/seduction02/01/15 10:49 AM
10

This reminds me of an ex. We had known each other since high school, but only seriously dated for the past two years. Before we dated, she had married and had two kids, but then divorced, and I, still carrying the torch from high school, was all too happy to make her my girlfriend. We've been talking about marriage, but I need to finish school first. I start studying for the bar exam, and thus have less time to spend with her. She's into cycling, and meets the owner of a bicycle shop. He immedia…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:40 AM
2

She's being a jerk about it. Maybe she's insulted and feels that you must not find her that attractive, but ultimately she's being jerky. There are jerks in the world. You can let them beat you down or you can cut them out of your life and move on. Try not to take whiskey dick so seriously. If you don't want to risk getting it, don't drink so much next time. My advice to you is to forget her, or hate fuck her as hard as you can the next chance you get. Either way cut down on the sauce.
/r/seduction23/11/14 12:22 PM
1

I always looked at it as more of a, "I'm telling you this, so you can't say I didn't warn you."
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 10:38 AM
3

Stop being her friend. You are an emotional slut and you are giving the attention milk away for free. Why should she be your girlfriend? She already gets all the attention she wants from you and can Fuck other guys too. Stop contacting her. If she wants to hang she can contact you. Start dating a lot of other girls. A LOT. If she gets jealous and tries for some of your time, day you are busy, but maybe she can take you to dinner sometime. From this point on, every interaction with her should be …
/r/seduction07/11/14 08:35 PM
1

Congrats man. Enjoy, and always remember. If this one goes tits up, you can always get another just like her.
/r/seduction31/10/14 06:30 AM
9

Thank Goodness. Can you imagine the alternative? Any one could accuse any sexual partner, at any time and they would likely be convicted. How do you prove that your partner consented? Sign a contract? Nope. Consent to sexual activity can be withdrawn at any time. I guess we'd all have to start filming all our sexual encounters to keep us safe.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 06:20 AM
2

Do you know many women? They might not watch it as often, but they certainly watch.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 12:56 PM
1

No more sneakers unless you are working out. Slacks or dark "evening jeans." Always wear a collared shirt. Get a few blazers for when you want to go up a notch without breaking out the full suit.
/r/seduction17/10/14 05:13 PM
1

Being fucked for life is a decision. Just because you would consider yourself fucked for life in their situation, doesn't mean that they should. Stop kicking people while they are down and start offering them a leg up.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 03:42 PM
3

Hey man. Don't listen to Artemisisnotfowl. His theory is complete crap. Yeah older virgins often feel like they are missing out, and in a way they are. But as soon as you lose it you'll wonder what the big deal was. Yeah you'll kick yourself a bit for not getting with the program earlier, but life goes on and you'll make it happen now. Everyone seemed to be having more fun than you before, but they were just living life. Some were miserable. Others were just okay. You'll be okay too.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 08:33 AM
2

Jesus man. First off, your theory is full of shit. Secondly, even if it wasn't, would telling a suffering man that he is forever screwed be the right thing to do? So you peaked early sexually. That's fine. I'm glad college was a good experience for you. So now your wife has you thoroughly domesticated. That's fine too, as long as you are happy with it. Just be careful you don't lose control, get divorce raped, and end up single and less marketable when you are over the hill. Men crave sexual ful…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 08:28 AM
3

You aren't broken. It's normal to be knocked for a loop by bad relationships. And it's normal when you first realize how the redpill works, that you feel a bit disgusted by some female behavior. If you go further, you will realize that redpill really isn't about hating or looking down on women. It's knowing how the modern world really works, and using it to your advantage. It sounds like you are already improving, and you will continue to improve. You'll make your own decision ultimately, but I …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 08:10 AM
1

Is sex worth the work? That depends. The question is how much work for how much sex and with what quality of woman. Redpill isn't just about sex, but it and seduction can help you get ample sex with high quality women with minimal effort. It can also make "real" relationships more fulfilling for you. In the beginning it feels like hard work because you are developing new habits and changing yourself, but once you've developed the new habits, it will be easy. The goal is to make attracting women …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:56 AM
5

Women can be annoying, but sex with women is great. Do not resign yourself to a life of celibacy. Not knowing your situation, it's hard to give you specific advice, but start reading. Read through the side bar here and in r/seduction. Talking to women, picking them up, and banging them is simply an acquired skill that you have never been taught. Seriously, study it and practice. You'll be enjoying the female delights before you know it. "Oh but themanbat, some of this stuff sounds like it's goin…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:39 AM
1

If you've never asked a girl out, how can you consider yourself a failure at relationships? You haven't even played yet. You could be Casanova and not know it. Start improving yourself, work on your confidence, and start approaching girls and asking them for their numbers. If you approach 10 women this week, I'd bet you get a date with at least one. And that's with no skill whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:29 AM
7

I vote you man the fuck up and start approaching.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:26 AM
1

Some women will be unreceptive, but the majority will be very flattered. Women dream of being approached by a stranger just like in a movie. You aren't trying to appear normal. Normal guys dont get laid very often. You are going to appear confident, outgoing, fearless, and playful. Your old tactics havent been working. Don't be afraid to change them up a bit.
/r/seduction13/10/14 05:11 AM
1

Continue with online dating, but everyday, walk up to at least one cute girl and say, "Excuse me, I hope you don't mind me bugging you (at work, on the street, at the grocery store), but you are positively adorable. Would you mind giving me your number so I can ask you out sometime?" Rephrase this so it sounds natural to you.
/r/seduction12/10/14 08:23 AM
1

You speak of being alone. Approaching them alone therefore seems like the only option to me. Alone is often easier anyway. Girls can be overwhelmed by more than one guy.
/r/seduction12/10/14 08:20 AM
3

Ask yourself a question. Would you like it if a cute girl touched you in a familiar way? Of course you would. Growing up in a non touchy environment, you must long for touch, especially the touch of a hottie. Now realize something. The female of the species, needs, yearns, and longs for touch even more than men do. Look at the next gaggle of girls that flocks by you. They are always hugging and cuddling and doing all kinds of shit that guys don't do. They love being touched. Get out there and to…
/r/seduction12/10/14 08:10 AM
6

51 is no problem, especially considering that a lot of white people have no idea how to guess how old black people are. Grey and balding may give it away. The answer? Dye or shave that head. Bald looks way better on black guys so you're good to go. You may want to avoid the ladies where you work, as they might sour on you or give you a reputation, but that's really up to you. Losing the belly isn't essential, as charm tends to beat all, but you might as well hit the gym and drop that weight. It'…
/r/seduction08/10/14 03:13 AM
1

If you have to clarify what kind of justice you are fighting for, you are talking about injustice.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 05:06 PM
5

First off. Good job! Secondly, you messed up by telling her why you wanted to go to the secret stairwell. Next time tell her you want to show her this cool place. When you get there make out some more. Then escalate from there. Most girls don't want to jump straight from making out to blow jobs. There's a sliding scale of intimacy. Making out. Second base over the shirt. Second base under the bra. Third base. Then it's time to go in for blow jobs and sex. Always push the envelope a little, but d…
/r/seduction07/10/14 12:18 AM
4

Clearly the government should have to provide a designated female diaper changer at their own expense.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 08:24 PM
19

Whoa whoa whoa guys. Let's not press this particular issue. This is a great excuse to get out of changing diapers, so let's not blow it.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 08:09 PM
13

This just in. Men are attracted to fertile women. No shit sherlock. Yes a 30 plus can have a kid, but the late teens through late 20s are the prime childbearing years and your body knows it.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 03:25 PM
2

Hang out around the graduate school or join mensa I suppose. Sadly there are statistically far fewer women than men on the upper echelons of the IQ scale. Especially in those fields. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/09/14 06:02 AM
14

Bookstore.
/r/seduction23/09/14 05:56 AM
7

These older guys probably married a girl their same age when young. Also there is social pressure to days someone your own age among peer groups.
/r/seduction16/09/14 04:20 PM
5

Sounds like you need to wake the fuck up and remember what makes you awesome. Don't remember ever being awesome? There was a time before you learned all about fear and inhibitions. You were probably just a kid, maybe even a toddler, but you weren't scared of people. You saw someone interesting, you walked right over and said, "What's up kid? Let's go play in the sandbox." What was the worst that would happen? Kid doesn't want to go play in the sandbox. So go play in the sandbox alone. Or go try …
/r/seduction16/09/14 02:32 AM
2

You are seducing not smothering. It's a dance. Chat her up, leave her wanting more, then return later to reel her in some more. When you have piqued her interest invite her back to your place to see something cool. It doesn't really matter what. In fact you can say it's a surprise, and just start making out when you get there. If she says she doesn't want to leave, go talk to someone else, then maybe check back later. Don't seduce just one girl at the party. Seduce them all.
/r/seduction05/09/14 06:52 PM
2

Alcohol obviously isn't great for you, but I know a lot of skinny alcoholics. Diet is huge, and can compensate for moderate drinking.
/r/seduction23/08/14 05:33 AM
1

It depends on the circumstances. If things aren't too serious and you want to keep her as a friend tell her in person and explain your decision in a firm but kind manner. If she's betrayed you and/or you never want to see her then do it however you want. A phone call. Or Text dump her. If she's crazy and you dont know how she'll react, do not dump her when the two of you are alone. She might accuse you of something or attack you, so you need witnesses. Ultimately this breakup is about you and wh…
/r/seduction20/08/14 11:41 PM
1

I hope he at least directs more movies. Braveheart and Apocalypto are perhaps two of the best films in history.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 01:12 AM
1

Gaston is the fucking shiznit. Beauty and the Beast is a tragedy about how Gaston let himself fall for the wrong girl.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 06:33 PM
1

Tell me a story now.
/r/seduction01/08/14 11:41 AM
2

4 Years til the fall of the Berlin wall. Six untik the complete disillusion od the Soviet union. "If I can change and you can change, EVERYBODY CAN CHANGE!"
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:14 PM
1

A lesser movie?! Stallone threw the one two punch that knocked out the Soviet Union.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 09:37 AM
2

So do it. Tomorrow. Talk to a girl at the grocery store. Anywhere. Hotties are all around. If you need a half step, print up business cards with your number on them and then you can walk up to a girl and say, "Hey. I just wanted to say you look absolutely adorable. I'd love to take you to coffee some time. Give me a call if you're interested." Do that a few times and then graduate to flirting their number out of them. Girls dream of being approached by handsome strangers like you. Get out there …
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:24 AM
12

Tinder and OKCupid are just tools in your toolbox, and they are far from your best tools. You can contact more women then you normally would be able to, and women that you know are looking for some romance, but those contacts are of much lower quality and yield a much smaller return than in person approaches. Online I have to send out at least a dozen contacts before I get a reply. An in person approach will get me at a phone number at least a quarter of the time. It takes no balls to approach a…
/r/seduction31/07/14 12:49 AM
30

Exactly this. If I slap Dwayne Johnson across the face, he isn't forbidden from striking me back just because he's considerably stronger than me.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:29 PM
3

Women do have a bigoted political party. Feminism. But don't lose heart. I understand that only between 20 and 26% of women actually identify as feminist. Feminists are just a very very loud and obnoxious bigoted minority.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 06:13 PM
3

Her posterior has a triple A rating. So hands off.
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:10 PM
25

Only grab her ass when you are already making out. You might get away with exchanging playful spankings while flirting in public, but grabbing an ass in public is groping and a good way to get arrested. And when making out you don't just go straight for the ass goddam it. Start with your hand on the small of her back. Run your hand or hands up and down her back and go a little lower and lower gradually. Before you grab a handful of cheek, run your Fingers down down her hourglass, meaning down th…
/r/seduction26/07/14 10:09 AM
1

You either try and seduce her or you walk away immediately. Friendships with females that you are romantically interested in are always toxic for men. If you take a good hard look at your relationship with her right now you'll probably find that it's already one sided as hell.
/r/seduction25/07/14 07:36 PM
0

Did anyone read the article? They said she would win a holiday, knowing she would drunkenly assume it was a vacation or trip. Then, surprise, a Holiday is the name of a drink. Girl or guy, that's straight up fraud.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 10:02 PM
0

Don't waste time getting too philosophical about this. You'll never get lucky if you don't get out there and try your game.
/r/seduction07/06/14 04:03 PM
1

Hold her hand?
/r/seduction30/04/14 04:39 PM
1

Options: "Don't worry babe. I'm a closet fat fetishist." Or, "Don't worry. I'll get proportionally fat so no one will ever notice." Or, "My plan has always been to fatten you up and then eat you." Then kiss her profusely in a playful devouring fashion.
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:39 PM
1

Doesn't matter had sex? Seriously though, I would guess that the only mistake you made was to tell her at all. Late starters need to concentrate on confidence. Appearing confident and actually being confident. Confessing you are a virgin doesn't help either. Fake it until you make it with the lady. The only time male virginity is seen as a plus in sexual escapades is if two young people are head over heels in love and decide to lose it to each other at the same time.
/r/seduction28/03/14 05:54 PM
0

To each his own, but most relationships are going to tank. It's the nature of the beast. If you don't marry her and live happily ever after they all go south at some point. At least you had sex before that one tanked. I miss a couple of opportunities before my first because when the girls heard I was a virgin they assumed I'd either be awful at sex or would instantly fall in love with them forever. (I know this because I managed to bed a couple of the missed opportunities later and they told me …
/r/seduction28/03/14 04:12 PM
1

Jesus guys. No girls in the grad progam? Date undergraduates. They may be impressed with your elevated academic status.
/r/seduction28/03/14 07:25 AM
2

I was older than you when I lost my virginity. Only a few years have past and now I'm pretty experienced. Pro tip: Don't tell her you are a virgin beforehand, unless she says she is a virgin first. You can tell them after if things get serious, but as a general rule, girls aren't into taking guys virginity.
/r/seduction28/03/14 06:51 AM
1

You dont need to know. If you like her go for it.
/r/seduction23/03/14 09:53 AM
1

As you are 19 and in school a formal date may not be necessary. Invite her over for a movie at your place, kino, and initiate makeout.
/r/seduction22/03/14 09:14 AM
8

Ask them all out. Each and every one of them. Start with your least favorite so there will be less pressure and work through the entire list. It won't be a big deal for friendships if they say no because you are that guy who asks everyone out. Plus play your cards right and you'll get a stable of hotties, or at least a girlfriend along with a bevy of lady friends. You are letting fear of rejection stop you. There is nothing to be afraid of. Girls don't friend zone you. You fiend zone yourself. Y…
/r/seduction16/03/14 06:37 PM
5

I make it sound like you're fucked? No. You are making it sound like you are fucked. While I explained how it's not going to be as easy for you as it is for many freshmen (basically saying not to beat yourself up over your past failures), I've done nothing but give you perfectly viable suggestions. You need to change your attitude. It seems like you are trying to tell me why these ideas won't work for you because your situation is 'different.' Instead tell me how you are going to make them work …
/r/seduction26/02/14 06:39 AM
2

Making friends is not easy. It's inherently an out of comfort zone experience. The reason it happens so naturally in the dorms is that everyone there is in the same boat. New place, no friends. You came late after the ship had sailed. Your roomies are probably a bunch of guys that were there when the ship was boarding but were too awkward to know how to get on. If you want you can go become an RA in the dorms. Yeah your friends will be younger, but even as an authority figure you will make some.…
/r/seduction26/02/14 02:59 AM
2

First of all try harder with roommates. You essentially are going going to have to ask those fuckers out. Social people in college make friends during freshman year and room with them. Your roomies are likely the leftovers so you will need to work on em.. Every time you are going out to get a burger say, "Hey dude. I'm getting a burger. Want to come?" Eventually they will come. Go out and buy a bottle of booze or ice cream or something to share and say, "hey roomie! It's ice cream Scotch and mov…
/r/seduction26/02/14 12:55 AM
1

Weight loss advice: when you are seriously overweight too much running can result in serious injuries. Diet is where you make all the difference. Here's the Slow Carb Diet from Four Hour Body. Essentially only eat beans veggies and meat in approximately equal proportions. No white carbs (or any carbs that can be made white) allowed. No fruit or juices or soda. Diet soda is OK but no more than 16 Oz a day. A glass or two if red wine is fine too. Eat at least 3 eggs (aim for 30 grams of protein) f…
/r/seduction20/02/14 10:18 PM
183

No matter how much of a bitch someone else is, you lose when you become a bitch yourself.
/r/seduction16/02/14 06:14 PM
1

She's just shy but hey she likes you. On the date of the conversation gets awkward say, "Let's play a game. Every time there's a lull in the conversation I'm going to steal a kiss. Ready set go!"
/r/seduction05/02/14 06:37 AM
30

These critiques are spot on. One more thing. Don't beat yourself up about this girl. Yeah maybe you could have played your cards right and fucked this girl that night, but she was always crazy and was going to blow up on you eventually. Just be glad you got out before she ripped you off for drug money or ditched her Coke on the floor of the car when you were pulled over for a speeding ticket.
/r/seduction05/02/14 03:53 AM
1

Right now you are probably feeling down or depressed a bit because you just got out of a 5 year relationship. That's natural. I think your fuck - able Bros approach is better than not thinking of them as people, and less likely to make you feel guilty for fucking them. Once you realize that women are people who want sex just as much as you do, you'll go farther faster, and not feel bad for wanting to fulfill your natural desires. I personally prefer restaurants to bars and coffee shops, but anyt…
/r/seduction03/02/14 10:21 PM
-1

Don't forget to try online dating. It's a numbers game so message every girl you think is cute enough, and then if they respond you pretty much know they want a date.
/r/seduction03/02/14 05:07 AM
1

It's worth a shot. As long as you're a confident impromptu dancer.
/r/seduction26/01/14 05:33 AM
2

Some girls just don't want to kiss you on the first date. It might be because they don't want to seem cheap. It might be because they want a real committed relationship and are trying to out last the guys who just want to hit it and quit it. Or it might be because they just aren't feeling it yet. As a general rule these girls aren't going to sleep with you before the third or fourth date. Heck they might not even kiss you til date 3 or 4. If you're just looking for noncommittal sex these aren't …
/r/seduction20/01/14 12:12 PM
51

First of all you closed the deal, so good job regardless of the semi bumpy road. The best time to initiate contact is as soon as possible. Even with your roomies in the room you could have sat close enough to touch knees. When you adjourned to the couch in your room you could lead her by the hand. Girls love it when guys they are onto it gently take their hand and lead. You don't have to sit immediately into a cuddle, but at least be close enough to touch knees or have your arm kind-of around he…
/r/seduction19/01/14 04:39 PM
0

Don't bring up your virginity. If she's experienced she won't want to be your practice girl. Just invite her over for a movie on the couch at your place. Put your arm around her immediately and when the conversation naturally lulls start making out. Slowly but steadily escalate. Eventially adjourn to the bedroom. Or just make love on the couch. If she stops you go back to making out for a bit and try to escalate again later. If you're shut down a second time or I'd just concentrste on kissing, a…
/r/seduction19/01/14 08:34 AM
8

Make an online dating profile. Write short notes to the girls you like to try and initiate, but limit it to around three sentences, because you don't want to waste time writing a magnum opus to someone who hasn't written back yet. Say how's it going, mention something about their profile, and ask a question about their profile. "How's it going? I like that movie that you like too! What made you want to be a (insert profession here)." Make sure the question is open ended and will take them more t…
/r/seduction16/12/13 05:13 AM
1

If you want to find excuses you will. Instead make it clear in her mind and yours that you are the one judging her. If she pleases you enough, you reward her with the next level.
/r/seduction23/11/13 07:57 PM
1

Naturally make getting a job the priority, but keep sealing the deal on the side. You can introduce them to your parents like a civilized person, and then get head or hand jobs under the blanket while watching a movie. If you aren't cool with telling them you live at home right now, you can go back to their place. If their place is not liaison friendly, you can bang them in the back seat of your car. If she doesn't have an apartment either, she's not going to judge you. Hell. I know a guy who ha…
/r/seduction23/11/13 10:50 AM
3

Came here to say this. A loud club is perfect opportunity to initiate pillow talk early.
/r/seduction17/11/13 09:44 AM
4

In Person: Say "Allright," and then reach over and undo the top button of her blouse. In the event she is not wearing a blouse, say "Allright," and then lean in and kiss her. If she objects to either of these actions, stand up and do your best Russel Crowe impersonation. "Are You Not Entertained!?" VIA Text: Tell her to get over here for some, "Entertainment."
/r/seduction07/10/13 10:26 PM
6

I have bedded quite a few girls who attempted to friendzone me. Sometimes it's by making them jealous immediately. Other times it is after a long period of being genuinely just friends. Either way you have to actually treat the girl like you would any guy friend. Flirt in front of her. Talk about your dates. Make her pay her own way. Seriously she gets nothing for free unless she routinely pays for you too. Whether your goal is to actually keep her as a friend or get her later you have to send y…
/r/seduction04/09/13 01:21 PM
24

You're thinking of this all wrong. Her liking you and letting other girls know it is only going to help you with the other girls. Plus no girl wants to be taken aside and made to feel ugly. Stay social with her. Flirt with her but fliry with everyone else too. Not flirting with her would only make her want you more and the pain worse anyway. Flirt with everyone but only date and close the ones you are attracted to. Heck put your arm around her and another one at the same time.It'll blow over soo…
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:07 AM
21

Once you get it, you realize all girls are practice girls until you propose. As a rule I only practice on hot women.
/r/seduction11/05/13 11:05 PM
20

One day soon you will be confident enough to truly not give a fuck. For now fake it. Try a little self hypnosis. When you see a single girl repeat in your mind, "she's got a boyfriend. Too bad she's got a boyfriend. Oh well guess I'll just practice my flirting." Start to believe it and later on you'll get to practice your fucking too.
/r/seduction20/04/13 08:48 AM
3

It sounds like you did fine with this particular lady. She probably was just having a rough day. You just need to bump into her again and make sure you get her number next time. It's natural to be more anxious when you are more interested in the girl. Super hot girl? You get super nervous. Now that you know and can recognize that anxious feeling coming on, you need to train yourself to believe it's really no big deal. Evenutally, as you build it, genuine self confidence will take over in these c…
/r/seduction09/04/13 12:46 PM
5

Gawddammit, get your ass back to that sex shop and ask for her phone number. And buy some condoms. And a hitachi magic wand.
/r/seduction16/03/13 10:43 AM
1

Movies, coffee, cocoa, ice cream, your new back massaging techniques.
/r/seduction23/02/13 03:58 PM
3

I say cut her off now. Stop initiating contact. If she tries to contact you later reel her in, but any more attempts now are just going o make you look desperate.
/r/seduction11/02/13 02:31 AM
6

In my mind there are only two ratings anyway. Yes I want her, or no I do not.
/r/seduction10/02/13 06:42 PM
6

Alpha can mean a ton of different things, but in my opinion it is fundamentally being a strong confident leader. This doesn't mean you can't show vulnerability or genuine emotions. It means you have to own them and share them confidently.
/r/seduction07/02/13 07:27 AM
2

Internet dating is not a bad way to punch the V-card. Free sites like: pof.com and okcupid.com can be your friend. The advantage is, if they respond, you know they are interested, so it can take the pressure off. Use kino on the date, then invite her over for a "movie" at your place afterwards.
/r/seduction04/02/13 08:37 AM
2

I feel like I just read a report on Unicorns. Something beautiful and magical that sadly doesn't exist anymore, and possibly never really did. ;) Very interesting though.
/r/seduction23/01/13 04:50 AM
1

I suppose not. Enlighten me.
/r/seduction22/01/13 09:43 PM
2

Women depreciate not as people but as potential child bearers. It's simple science.
/r/seduction21/01/13 06:08 PM
47

Assume everything possible is a sign of interest.
/r/seduction18/01/13 03:50 PM
3

Don't put off dating. You get used to putting it off and the other one day wake up old and alone. So you're fat. So fucking what? This is America. The majority of people are fat and they still want and deserve romance. Yeah work on being more healthy and losing weight if you want because it's good for you, but in the mean time dress nice and start asking girls out. Don't be afraid of the skinny ones, but ask chubby girls out as well. Fat chick's need love too! Maybe take an acting class to help …
/r/seduction17/01/13 10:04 AM
18

To which he will reply, "Pleased to meet you Tiger, you can call me Jim."
/r/seduction06/01/13 02:21 PM
1

They will work. I have foreseen it.
/r/seduction27/12/12 06:16 PM
1

Excellent. I was worried I broke your fighting spirit. Groundless and misguided ad hominem attacks aren't much evidence of any good fight left in you, but it is a step in the right direction. :) Firstly, I didn't respond to the case links you listed there before, because I've been jotting off these little responses to you from my inbox and you ingeniously managed to reply only to your own comment and not to me. Secondly, If you want someone to actually respond to something you should probably as…
/r/seduction17/12/12 07:08 AM
1

Actually I've done my time in lawschool. ;) You don't "sound" like an attorney, and I certainly hope you aren't one with that attitude. It's comparable to the inquisitors banning laymen from translating and studying the Bible. There's a reason the constitution opens with "We the People," and not "We the lawyers."
/r/seduction16/12/12 06:10 AM
2

You ignored and never answered my questions. I can only assume it is because you have no good answers. ;) As a matter of law, slavery was once legal. That did not make it right. The fourteenth amendment is supposed to guarantee us all equal protection under the law, regardless of race. I suppose individuals such as yourself may always be allowed to be as racist as you'd like, but as long as we have any laws in place that treat people differently in any way because of the color of their skin, tho…
/r/seduction15/12/12 08:14 AM
3

I don't know the specifics of your particular "One," but usually One-itis is a mental disease. It isn't love, it's unhealthy fixation. You don't know her well enough to love her. You have a mental image of this girl that is probably nothing like the real her. How do I know? Because I've had one-itis myself in the past and actually managed to date a few of them. One was a complete wench, and the other, while nice enough, was nothing like I had expected. When you convince yourself that a girl is t…
/r/seduction14/12/12 06:51 AM
1

Angry? Scared? I'm afraid any "sound" you derived from my paragraphs is purely a figment of your imagination. ;) I am attacking you? You repeatedly called me "ignorant," accused me of rejoicing in slavery, being part of a "hate filled movement," and refer to me as "you guys" when I am one person. What do you mean exactly by "you guys?" What stereotypes are you relying on to make unfounded assumptions about me? Yes, I remember you plainly admitting that you are a racist. You are trying to backped…
/r/seduction14/12/12 06:15 AM
1

Thank you for admitting that you embrace racism as a tool. I do not mean that as a jab. Most people who say that racist policies should be currently allowed to correct the racism of the past, ridiculously claim that it is impossible to be racist against a majority. Those people are so deeply racist that their very definition of racism is racist. Your racism may go less deep. I do not take pride in the enslavement of others for any reason, especially on the basis of races. You are assuming (stere…
/r/seduction13/12/12 03:01 AM
1

It's all deleted now but someone said they wanted to be enlightened on why white men might feel subjugated. It puzzles how you could see my comment as irrelevant. That statement was supposed to disgust you to no end. Racism is disgusting. Racial Stereotyping is disgusting. How have I set my cause back? My cause in this case is a true end to racism and an end to all racial stereotyping. These things are just as disgusting no matter what race is favored. Perhaps when you read my deliberately incen…
/r/seduction12/12/12 03:16 AM
5

Shut up lame girl. You are lame and I am manly. Wanna go out sometime? Haha. Unfortunately many of the guys here don't realize that being confident does not require you to be insulting. And it definitely doesn't work over an anonymous message board. Even more unfortunately, many girls don't realize this either and get sucked into bad relationships. I've seen girls reward guys for their bad behavior so many times that it's the reason I started reading up on seduction in the first place. I don't u…
/r/seduction11/12/12 10:43 PM
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You should be the one to bring it up. I find it's easiest to start talking about when you are actively making out/snuggling/dry humping on the couch. When you are kissing make periodic low rumbling satisfied "Mmmmmmm" noises. Girls love it when they know you are having a good time. Make it sound like her kisses are delicious. The hornier she gets the more natural it will be to talk about sex. Whisper in her ear: "Holy shit, you make me so hard." "I want to be inside you." If sex just comes up in…
/r/seduction02/12/12 09:19 AM
90

The correct answer to this question is, "Ask me again tomorrow morning."
/r/seduction02/12/12 09:01 AM
-1

Get freakier and freakier until they get weirded out and leave screaming. Then they don't pity you. You pity them.
/r/seduction02/12/12 12:34 AM
1

Apparently alot of guys have been burned by fake numbers. I thought this was pretty funny line.
/r/seduction24/11/12 01:21 AM
25

You can go with some pre-planned jokes: "You sure? I promise I'll leave you creepy messages all the time." "Smart move, I was just going to write it on a bathroom wall anyway." "That's okay. I'll dial random numbers until you pick up." Or if you feel like being ballsy, say something like, "Good idea. Why waste time exchanging numbers? Let's go back to my place right now." If you're going to get rejected, might as well get rejected while going for the gusto. Or just say, "Thanks anyway." Then mov…
/r/seduction22/11/12 05:23 PM
11

Whoa. I didn't think you deserved that many down votes. I do disagree though. For me, cuddling is often an important part of foreplay. You pull her in close right at the beginning of the scary movie. Shoes off, reclined, feet on the couch. Start slow and let your hands wander a bit further and further as the movie progresses. After the movie, (or during if the movie is boring) the make out commences. You're already laying down, and she's already super comfortable with you after cuddling for a fu…
/r/seduction20/11/12 01:51 AM
41

Movie night at your place is at least worthy of an assumption for a cuddle, make out festival. Sex is never guaranteed, but escalate properly and it's probably go time.
/r/seduction19/11/12 05:18 PM
5

You definitely run into scheduling issues, but be flexible and you can make it work.
/r/seduction19/11/12 05:15 PM
2

You actually don't have to pick up 100s of women, promise them committed relationships, screw them once or twice, and then throw them away in tears. People who do this are usually pretty sad inside. What you should do, is use your newly acquired people skills to meet lots of people make lots of friends, have mutual fun, and ultimately find the love of your life. Don't let seduction make women worse in your eyes. Use it to make yourself genuinely better.
/r/seduction19/11/12 05:05 PM
3

Of course. But unless you want to spring for plastic surgery you can't control what you were born looking like. Just do the best to develop and present well what you do have physically, and then you use your game to get out there and get more than what you genetically deserve. That's right. Life is the movie Gattaca, but you can still be an astronaut, despite poor genetic engineering. You've just got to work harder and believe in yourself.
/r/seduction16/11/12 05:48 AM
7

That's probably because you're stoned.
/r/seduction16/11/12 05:43 AM
16

If you're meeting up for a date, give her a big friendly hug right away. Everybody likes hugs. When you bring her back to your car, open the door for her, and put your hand on her upper or lower back as a way of gentlemanly ushering her into the car. If the hug happens near your car, you can even lead her by the hand over to it. Opening the door for her is a small easy gesture, and you'll be surprised by how many girls have never had a guy do it for them. It only takes five seconds, makes them f…
/r/seduction14/11/12 06:41 PM
3

Your chances of success go up a bit with an online date (because obviously the girl is looking for romantic attention, that's why she made an OKC profile). But success is by no means guaranteed. Well done Op. Well done.
/r/seduction29/10/12 11:34 PM
1

At the restaurant, sit next to them in the booth. Do not sit across, always sit next to them. Sitting across the table from them is awkward and confrontational. It feels like a job interview. If the restaurant is loud you have to yell across the table. You feel obligated to stare at each other. You feel like panicking if there is a lull in the conversation. It may even make you self conscious about your every movement. When you sit next to them you are both suddenly more friendly. Talking flows …
/r/seduction25/10/12 05:50 AM
2

Amen Brother! Testify! Go tell it on the mountain! I used to be that guy who never touched a girl for the first two dates, and then went in for an awkward terrified kiss at the end of date three, because I thought that was how gentlemen operated. I thought girls found this respectful. Maybe they did, but they also found it awkward and subconsciously saw it as evidence that I didn't like them at all. Now I'm the complete opposite. I give a girl a big hug right at the beginning of a date. I open t…
/r/seduction25/10/12 05:32 AM
1

Girls love the gambling. You get them hooked. Get them deep in debt. Then they are yours... Whoa, I just made myself sad.
/r/seduction25/10/12 05:22 AM
1

Whenever possible make it at her place. Not yours. Unless you really are super player and trying for a threesome, you probably don't want one girl showing up while you are entertaining another. You can try for a threesome if you really want to, and you just might get it, but just make sure you really don't care if both girls break things off for good.
/r/seduction25/10/12 04:29 AM
4

Just tried it. Lies!
/r/seduction21/10/12 09:05 AM
35

Don't fight the boner. You are supposed to get a boner when you are kissing a pretty girl. It's like the story of the boy who cried wolf. If you mentally lie, tell him not to be a boner, and get good at suppressing the boner, one day you might end up with trouble when you really need him.
/r/seduction21/10/12 09:04 AM
4

You know... I don't know your situation, but you might consider working toward getting back to college. Not necessarily even for the degree. If you can't afford to go full time, try a course at the local community college just to meet girls. Heck you can even just move to a college town and hit on college girls at the local hangouts.
/r/seduction20/10/12 08:02 AM
3

Tell her to touch him. NO Not his penis, save that for later. Sometimes guys will just assume that girls would never like them enough to approach. Girls can use Kino just like guys can. Bump into him, grab his hand to check the time on his watch. Every time he says something funny laugh and grab his arm. That may be enough to get him to take the initiative if he likes you. If not invite him over for a scary movie and then pretend to be so scared that you have to cuddle. If she wants a kiss tell …
/r/seduction18/10/12 06:30 PM
2

Just fuck them extra hard to compensate.
/r/seduction13/10/12 09:26 AM
1

I'd find someone else. If you're not going to be happy with a sexless dating relationship, then don't waste your time with "oneitis."
/r/seduction13/10/12 06:59 AM
4

Are you just looking to hit it and quit it? Or do you want a real relationship? If it's the former forget it and find someone else to bang who you won't completely destroy psychologically with your penis. Seriously you might ruin her life, her relationship with her family, get her kicked out of the house for being a "harlot." If her parents find out and she wants to save face she might accuse you of rape. If she's super religious she might even kill herself. These are all worse case scenarios of…
/r/seduction12/10/12 11:32 AM
25

Be a different kind of Alpha. Think Clint Eastwood, not douchey fratboy.
/r/seduction11/10/12 07:10 AM
2

Girls aren't as visual as guys. Yeah, when we guys meet a girl, we might just instantaneously say, "okay, she's not attractive, no matter how good her personality is, it's not happening." With women a little charm, good conversation, and kino go a long way, and often all the way. Girls are more sensual, so work as many of her senses as you can. Smell good, because women have a better sense of smell than men (that's why they wear more fragrances than men do). Sound smooth and confident, and she'l…
/r/seduction10/10/12 12:02 AM
1

Target is green lit soldier. Proceed with extreme prejudice.
/r/seduction05/10/12 08:24 AM
2

It'll be easier if I simply demonstrate...
/r/seduction02/10/12 12:35 AM
27

Chewing gum is your friend. No one likes kissing bad breath. It can also help you if her breath isn't stellar. Swallow your spit. No one likes kisses that are too wet. Step By Step: Hopefully you've been using kino, and finding excuses to touch this girl all evening. If not sit her down next to you on a couch and put your arm around her. Gently caress her arm and say something like, "Wow, your skin is so soft." If she doesn't want to be kissed her body language will show you and you can back off…
/r/seduction01/10/12 04:47 AM
2

In the future, say, "excuse me," reach over said douche, grab her hand and say, "we better get going or we're going to miss the movie," then lead her away. Preferably out of the party, to your car, and then straight to your place where you will pop in a DVD and proceed to help her deflower your precious rose.
/r/seduction01/10/12 04:09 AM
11

It matters.
/r/seduction30/09/12 10:46 PM
3

I wouldn't lie about being their religion. But I'd also keep any blatant atheism in the closet until after you've hooked up and gotten to know each other better. The fact of the matter is that most women have at leat some sort of passive religious belief, and many of them see atheists as being unable to form close familial and romantic relationships. Of course it's not true, but it's how some women feel deep down about it, so I wouldn't bring it up during any first impressions.
/r/seduction12/09/12 06:01 AM
1

If you genuinely want to see if there's any longer term compatibility, or just want to fool around some more, I'd invite her on a real evening type date. You know, one where you can end up back at her place or your place afterwards. Breakfast with you and your roommate? Not terrible, but slightly weird, and almost guaranteed for her to say no. If it was just you, that'd be cool, but three's a crowd, especially when you two just hooked up. So yeah. Invite her for a real date, or a movie at your p…
/r/seduction10/09/12 03:10 AM
2

Sounds like you're single when you don't want to be and maybe feeling a little down about it. I'm sure you're interesting enough. When you sober up, if you still feel you're not, fuck man, you're still in college, how interesting can you really expect yourself to be at this point in your life? Just have fun and push past any fear to make bold moves. Bold moves with the ladies and with life in general. Cool experience and most interesting man in the world points will surely follow. Also, maybe th…
/r/seduction07/09/12 10:45 AM
1

I think you mean resistant, and you are absolutely right.
/r/seduction31/08/12 03:47 AM
1

Trust me, I am technically an "inferior" looking man, and I have been with quite a few far superior looking women. One night stands and even a couple of extended year plus relationships. But you don't have to take my word for it. Just open your eyes and look around the next couple of times you go to a restaurant. You will see many more couples where the guy is dating out of his "class." Why does this happen? Maybe women actually value personality over looks? Maybe those guys actually went for it…
/r/seduction26/08/12 09:58 AM
1

I think you are right about the fact that more women are swinging out of their league, but may be wrong about the reasons. Women generally don't like to do the swinging unless they can't help themselves. They like to be "hit" on. Haha enough with the baseball puns. Women fundamentally don't like having to go out there and get the guy. They want the guys to come and pursue them. Now for a woman to go against her personal grain, risk embarrassing herself, and initiate with a guy, the guy has to be…
/r/seduction25/08/12 08:24 PM
5

Looks have almost nothing to do with it. It's all about confidence. Sure there are a few girls out there that will never give you a shot because you aren't a 7 foot tall Asian guy and that's all they are into, but the vast majority of women aren't going to have problems with the way you look. You could be ugly as hell and still be a ladies man. You should have much more than hope. You are guaranteed to hook up with many girls you are attracted to if you simply approach enough of them with confid…
/r/seduction23/08/12 10:34 AM
7

Ummm... so you're on the subway, confronting a stranger about their purse? Is it just me, or may she have been concerned you were about to mug her? At any rate, just say, "Sorry to bother you," and move on.
/r/seduction19/08/12 04:12 AM
5

Get a hold of yourself. You're not the first guy whose wife played Patty Cake on him.
/r/seduction06/08/12 05:48 AM
3

pickle
/r/seduction06/08/12 05:48 AM
1

OkCupid?
/r/seduction04/08/12 07:22 AM
2

Exactly. You guys need to stop being so racist. Hear me out. Sure there is all kinds of racism in the world and certainly there are people out there who aren't going to give you a fair shake because of your appearance, but for most people in America the worst kind of racism comes from within. It's the kind of racism that makes you assume you won't succeed, not try, or give up after a few rejections, and not give yourself a fair shake. And if you're not willing to give yourself a fair shake just …
/r/seduction04/08/12 06:35 AM
1

I have a confession to make.... I never read the sidebar.
/r/seduction16/07/12 12:29 AM
11

Let me get this straight... Two pretty girls you actually like wanted to touch your penis and you said no? Haha. Seriously, just let them start with the hand job man. Some girls want to familiarize themselves with the area before escalating. I've actually talked to a few girls who say it's an excuse to check the guy for visible signs of herpes. If you're not super shy or sporting sores, let her touch yours, and while she's doing that, work your way towards touching hers. Next thing you know, sex…
/r/seduction14/07/12 09:50 AM
10

I picture the monkey as an angry masturbating monkey.
/r/seduction07/07/12 08:23 PM
2

It sounds like you landed a really cool girl. I'd keep dating her. If you want to get good at the sexy times you need a regular partner. Plus real relationships are generally more rewarding than a parade of one night stands. Not saying the one night stands aren't a lot of fun, but a longer relationship with a girl who you've become friends with and ahem, "loves giving blowjobs," should not be passed up.
/r/seduction07/07/12 08:23 PM
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Okay, you need to dump this loser and find someone else. What you are describing here is an abusive situation. He's just using you for sex, he's going to continue to do so, and if you continue with it you are going to continue to get hurt. Make a clean break and reclaim some of your self respect. There's bound to be lots of other non abusive guys out there for you who will want a real relationship.
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:42 AM
2

You should plant that first kiss on that girl you know and like. Call me sentimental, but it'd be nicer if your first kiss was someone you actually like, and not "drunk chick number 8" at the bar.
/r/seduction25/06/12 06:42 PM
3

Most girls that are worth having will not approach. They want to to be pursued and feel desirable. Look deep inside of you. You are a wolf on the prowl. You do not want to be fed like a pussycat. Go pursue.
/r/seduction25/06/12 06:40 PM
4

I don't think you really need it spelled out like this, but I'll spell it out anyway, because it can be a confidence builder to go over the basics. When you see the signs that a girl likes you, invite her someplace where you can be alone and talk. It can be a restaurant, a movie at her place, even a walk in the park where you end up sitting on a park bench together. You want to sit next to her asap. Even in the restaurant. Just ask, "Hey, mind if i sit next to you? It's kind of loud in here." Or…
/r/seduction25/06/12 06:24 PM
1

Sounds like you might need a little you time to get over the LTR. Nothing wrong with taking a little time off to get your head right.
/r/seduction25/06/12 04:20 PM
2

Normally I'd say there's always an opportunity for a number close, but if her boyfriend is right there? Tricky. Two possibilites: Open and Brazen - when she offered you the painting lessons you might have said, "That sounds awesome! Let me get your number so we can set it up." It's ballsy because it's right out in the open in front of her man, but innocent enough to not get you punched in the face. Slip her your Business Card - If you are the type to have a business card, and if you aren't you m…
/r/seduction25/06/12 03:53 PM
7

Excellent and in my opinion very accurate post. I fear what I am atrociously summing up as "conflicting feminist societal pressure," has royally screwed the typical modern woman. There are so many contradicting pressures on the ladies out there that they are virtually doomed to be unhappy no matter what they choose to do. Now instead of being told they are free to choose to do whatever they want, they are told they must accomplish everything or be considered failures. Women who develop successfu…
/r/seduction29/04/12 07:55 AM
2

Why wait? Just make a dating profile saying you are at least 30 now, and start on the 30 plus ladies immediately!
/r/seduction29/04/12 07:25 AM
2

You can always replace Bar after dinner with Coffee shop after dinner. Plus she'll be wide awake later, wink wink, nudge nudge, know what I mean? I mean sex.
/r/seduction24/04/12 03:34 AM
28

Use your mouth words.
/r/seduction21/04/12 07:47 AM
4

Romantic gifts are a bit different from birthday gifts. Romantic gifts are supposed to be given spontaneously or in fits of romantic fervor. Unfortunately what often happens is "beta" guys give gifts and buy flowers early and often, invest a ton of money, but ultimately get no respect because of it. I know that used to happen to me. A gift ultimately is a method of showing appreciation, but if you give a romantic gift when someone has done little worthy of appreciation, you subconsciously tell t…
/r/seduction16/04/12 10:14 AM
5

I mean the nature of the friendship is inherently temporary. Perhaps I should have said "friends of the opposite gender" because it often works both ways. Many guys are afraid to make a move on their lady friends because they are afraid of losing a friend or altering the relationship, should things go wrong. My point is that the virtually all opposite sex friendships end in marriage or nothing, largely because married people generally don't like their spouses being super chummy with members of t…
/r/seduction15/04/12 09:04 AM
1

The only reason not to bone a friend is if you are bad in bed, and don't want to subject them to that. Female friends are inherently temporary in nature. Eventually they will get married to someone. If it's not you, the friendship will essentially cease to exist.
/r/seduction15/04/12 08:43 AM
2

You should not tell the girl you've been single for 5 years. You should not mention your clinical depression or chemical abuse. That's really personal stuff and you should already be in a relationship before it comes up. How long you've been single won't come up. If it somehow does, say, "Oh its been a while, how long have you been single?" She'll say X amount of time. You then say, "Oh man, that's way too long. We'll have to do something about that." Then nudge her playfully or just wink or smi…
/r/seduction18/03/12 11:17 PM
3

If I were you, I'd hurry up and punch that V-card. I waited a long long time to have sex. Way too long. I had had numerous opportunities to seal the deal, but I was deliberately waiting because of religion/the desire to wait for marriage. Then I lost the religion and went for it with the first hottie I put the moves on. We hooked up a few more times after, but it was not a "meaningful" relationship. The moral of the story? The only thing I regret is not going for it sooner and nailing all those …
/r/seduction05/03/12 05:35 AM
5

Going solo in a lot of ways is better. The girl won't see you as trying to impress your guy friends. You'll seem extra confident and not come off as just another frat boy. There'll be no witnesses if you crash and burn. Also if you do well you can take her home with you right away and not worry about leaving your friends in the lurch.
/r/seduction24/02/12 10:45 AM
9

Say, "Ask me again tomorrow morning."
/r/seduction23/02/12 05:03 AM
1

Just don't smile in your pictures. Problem solved.
/r/seduction17/02/12 12:23 PM
23

I waited way too long to have sex for religious reasons. Definitely could have had sex with four girls before but always stopped short because I was "waiting for marriage." Finally lost my religion and went for it with girl number 5, whom I had known for a week and definitely did not love. My only regret now is not nailing girls 1-4. Just make sure you use a condom.
/r/seduction11/02/12 02:45 AM
5

It sounds like you're either depressed or ready to move onto another stage of your life (marriage).
/r/seduction07/02/12 05:31 PM
3

Many females in the class... All of them cute... And you two have to fight over the same one? Divide and conquer!
/r/seduction27/01/12 05:18 AM
3

How old are you and she? Are either of you anywhere near ready to get married? Is this going to be a matter of waiting a few months or a few years? I would only go for it if she we were super compatible, she was super attractive, and I was looking to get married soon.
/r/seduction31/12/11 08:46 AM
24

Here's a secret move. Place your mouth firmly over her nose. Suck as hard as you can. Leaves them absolutely astonished every time.
/r/seduction25/12/11 10:28 AM
6

Plan A - Go to her place. Prepare a small overnight bag and always have it ready to go in your car. In my experience most girls actually prefer it at their place so they don't have to walk of shame it home afterwards without first accessing all their toiletries. Plan B - How big is your car? You're only 21 so you can probably still get away with finding some secluded spot and humping in the back seat. Plan C - If your car is tiny and you happen to be about to making excellent progress with a chi…
/r/seduction18/12/11 08:27 PM
2

Kitten. It implies sex kitten, but is still cute enough to call her in public or in front of her parents.
/r/seduction14/11/11 08:27 PM
1

troll post, guys. stop commenting/voting (A troll withing a troll within a troll? TROLLCEPTION!)
/r/seduction30/09/11 07:42 AM
1

While I'm sure most guys will just be grateful that you're breaking him off a piece, a nice set of underoos never hurts the first impression.
/r/seduction30/09/11 06:29 AM
1

Almost all relationships start off well. Of course they do. Everyone is on their best behavior at the beginning. It's when the crap hits the fan that you discover how crazy people can get. One of my female friends somehow got a restraining order against her ex husband even though she admitted in court that he had never hit or threatened to hit either her or the kids. She said she needed it because she still felt threatened. Then after she had the restraining order she repeatedly asked me to go w…
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