Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?

themanbat · 2014-10-12T08:10:57+00:00

Ask yourself a question. Would you like it if a cute girl touched you in a familiar way? Of course you would. Growing up in a non touchy environment, you must long for touch, especially the touch of a hottie. Now realize something. The female of the species, needs, yearns, and longs for touch even more than men do. Look at the next gaggle of girls that flocks by you. They are always hugging and cuddling and doing all kinds of shit that guys don't do. They love being touched. Get out there and touch them in appropriate ways.

Start small. Say, "Hey cool ring!" and grab their hand to check out the jewelry. If you are still feeling shy, try saying, "May I?" before you grab their hand to check it out. Don't wait for a reply, just ask and then grab confidently without permission. There's tons of kino stuff all over the place here. Read and get to work.

recyclablebantha · 2014-10-12T10:26:51+00:00

it feels so unnatural to me right now....

It's actually only as unnatural as you feel it is.

But here is the kicker in all this. Another often overlooked important thing in not feeling unnatural in escalation, is the idea of paying attention to the girl while you're doing it. A lot of guys get caught up in feeling like they have to keep moving up escalation ladders or activate their kino and what not. And while guys have to have confidence and overcome their own discomfort with unfamiliar territory, they often confuse this with ignoring resistance from a girl. There is often little to no regard for the feedback they're getting from the girl, when that very feedback is really the determining factor in whether or not escalation continues and at what pace.

The girl will show you what she wants and how she wants it. This applies in conversation, escalation, and even kissing and sex. It's simple. Pay attention to her, stay out of your head..... and she'll make it clear to you.

DecimoX · 2014-10-12T10:17:31+00:00

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Title	Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?
Author	DecimoX
Upvotes	3
Comments	29
Date	October 12, 2014 7:44 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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