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You're being really hard on yourself. Being different is hard to do. Specialization comes when you've mastered things. Most people don't do shit, so even your trying something new will make you different. Find some different stuff you're passionate about (not junk TV) and start reading books about it. Keep refining your skills and internalizing them and you'll start to make yourself different
/r/askTRP13/06/17 03:34 AM
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I'm not exactly sure what you're asking here. It seems like you went through a bad work experience and learned what not to do. Where do you feel like you need to get your life back together?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 03:28 AM
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That's fine. And normal. People use eye contact to pass the conversational baton. The majority of eye contact is made by the listener while the speaker keeps track of thoughts by looking around. It's ok to look at them a little bit when you're talking, and don't look down or have bad posture, but not having eye contact 100% of the time while speaking is fine.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 10:30 PM
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Set up an appointment to talk with a therapist. There are so many options, and you're absolutely worth it, even if you've heard differently your whole life. Your post is kinda short, so I'm not really sure what your situation looks like. There are some things that are universal about suffering that might help, though. Emotional suffering is a wake up call. Your emotions serve to move and guide you into action (energy in motion = emotion). If you're hurting yourself or thinking about self harm, i…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 10:28 PM
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For meta self-improvement, the Talent Code, and Mindset by Carol Dweck are two great books for understanding how to learn properly. Metaskills is another great one for that. Learning how to learn will make every minute you spend practicing more effective. For regular self-improvement, Models by Mark Manson is amazing. Same with the Charisma Myth - it's like a modern day How to Win Friends and Influence People. The Completion Process by Teal Swan is another good one, although some people find it'…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 09:12 PM
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Sure what topics interest you?
/r/askTRP06/06/17 04:02 AM
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If you want to get to the next level of what you call the red pill, you've got to start reading and journaling. You're young, so you're in a prime position to get a huge head start on everyone else. And you'll start seeing results very quickly. In the read world, Chad isn't Chad because he's a natural. The successful people - the really successful people - are the people who have had to work their fucking asses off to become Chad. The difference is they're their own, authentic version of Chad. M…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:20 AM
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Read as much as you can, and build the habit of reading asap. Start with the classics, like Think And Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill and How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie. They're probably $15 and full of priceless information
/r/askTRP05/06/17 10:04 PM
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If you and the girl you've been on a few dates with have not agreed to be exclusive, then there's no problem here. Could be weird that you've hooked up with one of her friends, but that's about it. I'd start thinking about what you'd say if she asks to be exclusive, because that's probably where this is going, if she wants to keep dating. Things like this are usually a spark for more in-depth conversations. Don't really downplay it, don't be blase, just roll with whatever happens, keeping in min…
/r/askTRP04/06/17 09:06 PM
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Yeah, this is kind of a dick move, but not majorly. You're like a semi-asshole here. Basically, just communicate better. Shooting her a text that says something like "hey, work's gonna keep me late tonight but I'll see you when I get home ;)" is important because it tells her subtextually "I care about you, but I'm also a man pursuing my freedom and work." This is attractive for a whole bunch of reasons and it shows her that you care about her. At the end of the day, women are people (still) and…
/r/askTRP04/06/17 08:51 PM
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Why would you want to show someone you have no respect for them? Who wins? Do you feel better about yourself after disrespecting people? It's the wrong mindset because your focus should be on the opposite. If you're dead-set on disrespecting people, it's because - at a very fundamental level - you don't respect yourself. Refusing to respect other people or intentionally disrespecting other people both come from deep insecurity. You disrespect others because you see that they don't provide much v…
/r/askTRP04/06/17 08:40 PM
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When you accept and embrace and be unconditionally accepting of an emotion, one of two things will happen: either the emotion will go away naturally, or the emotion will inspire you to take action. Anger, sadness, joy, disgust - they all serve a place in taking different types of action depending on what situation you find yourself in. Think of your emotions as a child coming to you for something. Ideally, you'd listen and sit with the child until they go do something else, or you'd do something…
/r/askTRP27/05/17 05:04 AM
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Start with yourself. You've gotta live with yourself for the rest of your life, so learning how to be emotional with yourself is the first step. Learn to sit and be present with your emotions unconditionally. Whenever you feel something bother you or irritate you, instead of ignoring it or doing something else to distract yourself from that feeling, stay present with it and let the feeling grow within your body. When you do this, you're telling the feeling "it's ok to be here, it's ok that this …
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:59 PM
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You're spot on. You sound like you've lost touch with your emotions and you're terrified of life. Some people start reading the red pill and it's usually because they were unhappy with the way things were going for them. You know, nerdy, quiet, shy, lame, and with no self confidence. This is like a pipe cleaner that's been bent all the way to the right. They'd be entirely 'beta' or whatever. Then they learn about the red pill and it clicks. Lifting, reading, general self improvement - all of tha…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 03:20 AM
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This is great. Small talk and witty banter opens the door for more heavy conversation. People say 'keep it light' when you're first meeting someone, and that's true. That's because being able to small talk in an entertaining and engaging way is a symptom of having a healthy and confident sense of self. You have a gift of being direct and forward if you say you're blunt. Use that to your advantage. Sometimes, a blunt remark in the middle of a polite conversation can be a rapport break in a positi…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 08:20 AM
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What
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:48 PM
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It sounds like you have what some people would call "emotionally unavailability." What this means is that you've learned to repress/not express what you're feeling because it's hurt you in the past. This has strained your ability to relate and connect with others on an emotional level. We all connect with each other authentically through sharing our feelings. This leaves us feeling fulfilled and understood. Attraction is a mutual feeling which we express through flirting. When we feel attraction…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:45 PM
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The way you phrased this sounds really controlling. Girls fart. It's part of the digestive tract we evolved as humans. Get over it. That being said, if she farts around you and you're not seriously committed to her, it's up to you whether or not you want to stay in the relationship. If this happens early in the relationship, then it's either a sign she's extremely comfortable with you around (and you've probably lost attraction) or she's socially inept, which means you could probably be doing be…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 10:30 PM
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Yikes. How you see others is a reflection of how you see yourself. It might be time to take a long look in the mirror and ask yourself why you're unhappy. It might suck, but it's still progress and progress only goes in one direction. Learn to love yourself, my man.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:09 PM
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Good question. It's different for everyone. What's helped me on my journey is realizing how dependent I have been on external validation, specifically in the form of praise. From an early age, we're conditioned to respond to praise and to associate positive feelings with praise and negative feelings with a lack thereof. Moving from external validation to internal validation is ultimately one of the main skills the red pill inadvertently teaches and potentially the most important skill to have in…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:03 PM
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It's called limeration. You're projecting your Anima and unresolved mom issues onto her - basically, you're putting your idealized version of the perfect woman on the highest pedestal. It's unconscious because of what you've gone through in your childhood. Dive deep, and work through the tough shit.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:39 AM
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Start to dig deep and figure out what makes you so afraid of standing up to authority. Could it be that you had repeated negative experiences when voicing your opinion to authority in the past?
/r/askTRP19/07/16 01:40 AM
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Creativity. Study the fuck out of creativity and get yourself involved in some type of creative activity. What most people on this planet lack is a connection to their creative side. You're in a perfect position right now to immerse yourself in creating things and building your creativity muscle (it's just a muscle). Find out through which form you best express yourself and go after it like a fat girl chasing a donut. Acting, writing, painting, music, woodworking - whatever works best for you. I…
/r/askTRP18/04/16 12:52 AM
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Break up with her if you haven't already done so. You need some time to figure out who you are. There's a ton of great material on the trp sidebar about monk mode and personal development. It sounds like you're ready for that now. Sometimes it takes a catastrophe - a cheating girlfriend, a ruined reputation, whatever it may be - to discover that you must make a change in your life. What happened at the date party happened because your current habits have failed you. You must now work on replacin…
/r/askTRP18/04/16 12:42 AM
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It's your personal choice to decide whether or not alcohol is something you want to have in your life. Some people love it, some people hate it. If it works for you, go for it. But I'd definitely recommend trying it at least a couple of times before getting girls involved so you've got a solid understanding of what to expect. Whiskey dick only happens when you're really intoxicated - and I mean "Holy shit I can't see straight" intoxicated. But again, man, you can see that you're scared of being …
/r/askTRP18/04/16 12:35 AM
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You are sabotaging yourself. This goes way deeper than the things in your post. At the most fundamental level, you do not believe you are worthy of the successes you desire in life. Read that last sentence again. Somewhere along the line, you learned (through conditioning and parenting and life) that there is something fundamentally wrong with who you are. This is a lie. You are exactly perfect the way you are and you already have everything you need inside of you to achieve whatever you can dre…
/r/askTRP18/04/16 12:19 AM
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It seems like she's interested. You've played it well with the texts. Be careful not to put her on a pedestal, though. There are tons of drop dead catches out there. I don't know all the other circumstances surrounding your situation, but if you're a freshman, you're probably living in a dorm-type situation. It sounds like you both go to the same university, so that makes things easier for you. One strategy is to hit her up sometime (hopefully before finals) and invite her out to a party with so…
/r/askTRP18/04/16 12:04 AM
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If you feel fear about the possibility of fucking up, then the game is over. Your fear about your johnson is actually a form of your fear of rejection manifesting itself. It's totally fine to feel nervous. There's not a single professional athlete, performer, or world leader that doesn't feel nervous before doing something that matters. Feeling nervous is 100% natural and it's your body telling you that something (or somebody) is about to go down. Nervousness is when you're standing on the dock,…
/r/askTRP17/04/16 11:42 PM
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If you feel like you have to say something, say something playful that amuses you. What you want to convey is that her actions don't affect the way you live your awesome life. If she missed a chance to be a part of that today, then that's her fault. She won't take responsibility for it, but if she's still interested then she'll give you some sort of subtle indication that she wants to do something. Be playful and have fun with it. She's not your first and she won't be your last, so relax and enj…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 07:17 PM
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Your problem here is that you're overly invested in this girl. It doesn't really matter what you say to her because you've already put this situation on a pedestal, even if it's not a giant pedestal. Do whatever you need to do to get yourself mentally to a point of outcome independence and then see if you still feel like she's worth a damn today. In the meantime, go do something you love that'll help you improve yourself. When you come out of that activity, you'll have a more clear perspective o…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 07:00 PM
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While I agree that body language is extremely important, I disagree with your idea that it can't be monitored in real time. Joe talks about in his book that it's possible to read people as things are going on - in fact, this is the point of his book - to look for clusters of body language. He even mentions in his book that learning to subtly read signals is a skill that takes time to be developed. After a while, it becomes a habit, but, like anything else, it takes constant focus and practice to…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 10:52 PM
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Abundance mentality can come in a bunch of different ways - plate spinning, outcome independence, etc. The premise behind abundance mentality is something like this: imagine you have 12 really cool shirts. One night, you have a party. You want to look good, so you go to pick out a shirt. You're not worried about the shirt getting ruined because you have 11 other ones and you know you can always get more. Let's say the party gets crazy. You wouldn't be worried about your shirt getting ruined beca…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 04:04 AM
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I'm going to recommend two fixes for you. One is a short term fix and the other is a long term fix. The short term fix is holding frame. You're getting sucked into the girl's frame and then you're playing by her rules. Don't do that. Instead, literally ask yourself "am I holding my frame right now?" and if the answer is no, make a psychological shift to fix it. The long term fix is building a skill. You're seeking external validation because you can't internally validate yourself. Building a ski…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:05 PM
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Hairstyle falls under appearance. On your way to becoming a better person it's inevitable that you'll develop a personal style. What that style means to you and how you choose to express it is up to you. Some people can rock buzzcuts, others rock the manbun, and still others can pull off a mop of hair. This is because it's all congruent with their personality and personal style. I use product in my hair because it gives me the look congruent with my persona. Choose how you define yourself. That …
/r/askTRP18/11/15 02:54 PM
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Anytime you plateau, it's because you've reached your standards. Always be raising your standards. The higher your standards and the harder you work to achieve them, the more you will be rewarded. If you feel like you have plateaued in your life, change your standards so you won't accept anything less than your best. Perfection is impossible, but we can always be improving if we expect more from ourselves.
/r/seduction20/02/15 07:07 AM
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Make a habit of being more mindful of things and trying to live fully in the present. Meditation is very good for developing mindfulness and focus but if you don't have time for meditation, focusing on recognizing your feelings will help build this awareness
/r/seduction20/02/15 07:03 AM
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Take a genuine interest in her. The reason that you run out of things to say is that you are trying too hard to think of things to say. The game isn't thinking about things to say to her until she bangs you, the game is to get to genuinely know her to see if she reaches your standards. If you take an interest in things she's saying and they're actually interesting to you, then boom. You guys have connected and there's a whole wide range of things you can talk about then. If her family, dreams, o…
/r/seduction20/02/15 04:29 AM
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Designating High Value (I think). It means show her that you're an upstanding member of society and that you are doing cool things with your life. It can be as easy as talking about your passions or something that you find interesting. Things that aren't DHV: talking about the weather, or porn, or your dick (unless you have a great story about how your erection managed to save a bus full of orphans). You want to show yourself in your best light.
/r/seduction14/10/14 03:35 AM
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This hits the nail on the head. If you're coming to a relationship or whatever with an abundance mentality and you're comfortable with who you are, then you won't be jealous because you know there are hundreds of girls out there waiting for the chance to get to know you.
/r/seduction14/10/14 03:29 AM
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I've never read Watts, but that's a really interesting theory. My answer to your question is yes. I believe vulnerability is not being afraid to show your emotions. In terms of pick-up this shows high-value and your personality, both of which are things that girls want to see. In terms of the individual self-development, the answer is also yes. Letting yourself feel sad when you're sad or angry when you're angry is the body and mind's natural way of dealing with life. It is the healthiest way to…
/r/seduction14/10/14 03:24 AM
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Dude, same. The best advice I can give you is to not worry about it. If you're staring at your phone and you have a text written out, just force yourself to hit send and put the phone away. Chances are, nothing you say over text is going to make or break your relationship with the girl. Relationships are built in person, through touch and conversation. Use smileys, be playful and positive, and don't worry about the time it takes between texts. Everything will work out just fine.
/r/seduction14/10/14 03:06 AM
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Ok. I totally understand the not having time because of studies. That being said, make the most of the interactions you have with people. One thing that always helps me when I'm studying is to give myself time to do other things. It might sounds counterintuitive but the brain processes things when we're not aware of it. Having a balance will help you have a healthier life and you'll find yourself doing better with school too. Just make sure you're not using your schoolwork as a crutch to get out…
/r/seduction12/10/14 05:23 PM
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It's only awkward if you make it awkward. Obviously there's some hang-up in her head, whether that's because she doesn't feel attracted to you or some other reason. Honestly, it just means she's not into you and you should take that as a positive sign and move on. There's no point in trying to make someone like you if they've shown they're not interested. You've got way better things to do with your time.
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:57 PM
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Sure man. So if you put your arm around a girl, more than likely they'll respond by either keeping their same distance, which means they're unsure, they'll slip out of it quickly, which means they're not attracted to you, or they'll move closer to you, which means they like you/the touch. If a girl put her arm around a guy, the guy would most likely respond by putting his arm around a girl instead of leaning into her body more. That's the difference between kino responses of guys and girls. One …
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:43 PM
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Girls are weird. When it comes to kino, instead of overtly touching you back or grabbing your hand, they'll more than likely press into you if they like it. If you put your arm around a girl, they'll lean into if they like it. It's there, it's just more subtle.
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:08 PM
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"If you always do the same thing, you will always get what you have always gotten." You're doing yourself a disservice if you aren't actively promoting yourself
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:03 PM
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Don't feel ashamed that you're living an awesome life. You are living an awesome life because you went out and earned the life you have right now. That's something to be proud of. You're touching on a very good point that could be applied all throughout life: talking about yourself makes you feel vulnerable. The thing is, this is exactly what girls want to see. They want a little window to see into your life to get a feeling of who you are and what you are like. Talking about yourself opens the …
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:01 PM
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Go out and just talk to everyone. About anything. Checking out at the store? Strike up a conversation with the cashier. Waiting in line for movie tickets? Talk to the person behind you. Any time you devote to talking to other people is time you devote towards improving yourself.
/r/seduction26/06/14 10:59 PM
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Beautifully played. The only advice I have for you would be to work on listening to the other person. This goes way beyond the realm of staring at them while they're talking. The term "active listening" is used in this subreddit and in other various circles that deal with charisma. If you employed that in your everyday life then you would instantly reap the benefits, like forming deeper and more intimate relationships with people. It sounds like you're doing a great job already. Check it out if …
/r/seduction16/05/14 02:50 AM
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One of the differences between guys and girls when talking to each other is that guys prefer to talk without looking at each other in the eyes (eye contact means aggression in the animal kingdom) while girls tend to converse while looking directly at each other. Keeping this in mind, it is possible that this could be considered a habit for girls. Also they love it.
/r/seduction06/05/14 12:47 AM
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Always be a high value individual
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:22 AM
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I think I'm late to the party. The best way to take a woman off of a pedestal is to realize that she is a human being. Explicitly, that means that she has her own insecurities, fears, dreams, wishes, stories, successes, failures, and experiences that makes her who she is, just like us. She's just another person. She's not special or better than anyone else. She's just a human being trying to make her way in the world, just as we are. Girls don't like to be put on pedestals. Can you imagine what …
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:21 AM
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To not give a shit about what people say is to not care about what they think of you. If you're looking for external validation, even subconsciously, then labels and things people say to you or about you will impact you and get you down. The only way to avoid this is to KNOW WITHIN YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE GREAT. Trust yourself. When you are the one that you receive validation from then nothing anyone can say will get you down about yourself. This is all inner game and it stems from confidence. Per…
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:12 AM
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Also, pot. Personally, when I smoke I'm always 'foggy' the next day and I'm noticeably slower mentally. If you don't smoke then I'd recommend noticing the little things in life and thinking about them. Just the small, minute things like the temperature or the birds or where you are in life. It'll come with time.
/r/seduction14/03/14 03:21 AM
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The term "fake it till you make it" gets used a lot. It's a great start and it's done a lot of good for a lot of people (myself included), but at some point you realize that there's nothing actually backing it up and you feel hollow inside. That's not who you really are. Remember that time when you were a little kid and you made that awesome catch or rocked that piano recital or fucked shit up in that video game? That was bad ass. You deserve to be proud of that moment. You're the man. Tell your…
/r/seduction14/03/14 03:15 AM
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You're jealous because you don't have enough self confidence. Sorry if that's blunt, mate, but it's the truth. I was in the exact same situation. If your girlfriend is fooling around with this guy (physical cheating isn't the only kind of cheating), then fuck that. You don't need it. Remember that you're awesome. Show her that you aren't needy and that you won't put up with being disrespected because shit, you don't deserve that. Your emotions aren't dumb. They're telling you something. You're t…
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:44 PM
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The friendzone is a tricky place, as the girl has platonic feelings towards you while you have sexual/romantic feelings towards her. Distance yourself. If you're away at college or have a job away from her then this is easy and natural. When you come home, hit it hard. You already have a history with her, so comfort will come naturally. Start kino-ing and look for the IOI's. You'll be able to tell if she's into you because she won't talk about guys/her problems.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:21 PM
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Dude. You've got nothing to lose. The absolute worst case scenario is that you cum in 12 seconds, she breaks up with you, and you move on because she obviously was not the right girl for you and you still get the experience. The best case scenario? You get to fool around with a really hot girl who is already into you. When it happens, be present and enjoy the moment. I'm going to be blunt. Right now it sounds like you're putting her on a pedestal, that you don't have abundance mentality, and tha…
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:10 PM
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Agreed. If you want to portray yourself as a high-value individual then befriending the AMOG is the best strategy. Not only will you put more social pressure on her to like you, but he might even end up wingman-ing you.
/r/seduction07/01/14 07:17 AM
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With that kind of attitude I'm not sure how you're going to enjoy spending time with any girl. While I agree that girls can sometimes act immature, it's important to realize that guys act the same way. Thinking of all girls as immature not only makes you seem like a misogynistic asshole but will also prevent you from ever being happy with a girl. Seduction is as much about the girl as it is about the guy and approaching with a condescending attitude will get you nowhere. You seem like a logical …
/r/seduction23/12/13 09:28 PM
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Look everyone you pass in the eyes until they look away. Seriously. Don't be creepy about it or anything. Think of it as a game! It'll help with maintaining eye contact as well as confidence
/r/seduction01/08/13 02:31 AM
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If you guys know each other because you see each other quite often, chances are you guys have something in common. Make a joke or talk about something obvious but be confident. Chances are good that you'll end up in conversation with her
/r/seduction17/04/13 03:35 PM
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