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A lot of guys see weird guys approach and being rejected, and so a lot of other guys that view that think that they also will be viewewd as weird. Hence why not many guys approach
/r/seduction12/12/14 03:24 AM
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Very nice! This is what seddit should be about, not "oh i managed to touch a girl today" No offense to other people but hooking up with girls should be a skill that all guys have, it's just the more we practice it, the better we should get at it, to the point where we can be selective about the kind of girls we date. I see too many desperate guys keep thirsting for average or below girls, and it makes me sad when it reminds me in my head of "The rich get richer and the poor get poorer" Just my t…
/r/seduction02/12/14 07:01 AM
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A true magician never reveals his tricks Well done
/r/seduction02/12/14 06:58 AM
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Don't touch her using your hands (Initially) Touch her with your legs, your arms, your face, your butt, etc
/r/seduction29/11/14 04:24 AM
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You went to the mall WITH YOUR FRIENDS -She already didn't consider you in a romantic outlook You asked her out on facebook -Do it in person. Or don't do it at all if you can't man up about it You tried to make her "notice you" -I don't even know what you mean by this but you remind me of my Swedish friends. Man the fuck up and take action. Don't just get her to "notice you". Become the man you are in front of her and she'll more than just "notice you." Good luck
/r/seduction29/11/14 04:23 AM
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When she put her arms around you you shoulda made out with her then But great job boy Every man's fantasy
/r/seduction28/11/14 10:46 PM
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It's only creepy if you think it's creepy It's only inappropriate if you think it's inappropriate
/r/seduction28/11/14 06:06 PM
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uh... this seems a lot more fitting for /r relationships than seddit That being said some of these are a bit too much in the perspective of a girl. Not saying that any of these are problematic, but rather that a lot of these points are taken in the context of perception from a girl For instance #85. "You never know what you'll miss until its gone" Here at seddit, we as guys seek to cultivate an attractive lifestyle and outlook on ourselves, and the mentality that we strive for is "SHE never know…
/r/seduction28/11/14 05:18 PM
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Another thing I'd like to bring up that a lot of guys have problems in our head is the existence of a pre-requisite. Such as, If i had that 6 pack, then girls would be all over me If i was 10 lbs skinnier than Id be more confident with women This is all false. The point of seduction is to overcome these stupid pre-requisites that everyone has been socially condition and induced to believe, when our current moment in time is the most ideal to make a move. Man or woman.
/r/seduction25/11/14 12:42 AM
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Unfortunately, no. Even when you compliment our looks, we're still unsure of what you're trying to get, something a bit slow or a quick hookup/fling There is a basic principle that you need to show 10 signs that for the guy to realize that and recognize ONE. That principle exists for a reason
/r/seduction25/11/14 12:39 AM
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I know I'm going to get a lot of flak for saying this but a lot of guys appreciate when a girl is straightforward with them. It really helps them be more confident when the girl is being responsive and straightforward. If you're looking for a quick hookup, "When are you going to buy me a drink?" or even something along the lines would be pretty easy to decipher for most guys.
/r/seduction24/11/14 07:28 PM
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At some point girls just become...boring Truth hurts but at a certain point of a man's life he just isn't that interested in getting laid so much anymore. Just keep going down your own path, free from judgement of others or from yourself and develop your own sense of right or wrong.
/r/seduction24/11/14 07:23 PM
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So... I think i missed something, so.... why could't she look you in the eye again?
/r/seduction24/11/14 07:17 PM
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Very nice Interesting how Nofap actually helps Been hearing some mixed results about it but great job!
/r/seduction24/11/14 07:43 AM
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http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-4QPDGEknvD4/U6SLdiYBIzI/AAAAAAAAA8o/6v2QrpxDIvQ/s1600/creative-beds-embrace-lounge-2.jpg
/r/seduction24/11/14 07:17 AM
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Great job! I know that when you get the "i have a boyfriend line" it can be disheartening at the moment, but don't fear. You are your own special man, and there's literally thousands of girls out there that wouldn't mind a man like you around, you just have to find em. Keep firing soldier!
/r/seduction24/11/14 05:08 AM
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It's usually the girls that get addicted to the sex and can't leave their crappy boyfriends in which this happens But i guess it happens to guys too Simple solution(didn't say it was easy): Go find another girl to fuck
/r/seduction24/11/14 05:06 AM
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Simple. You never take a girl out to a place with balls and trampolines again. Unless it's your bedroom.
/r/seduction24/11/14 05:03 AM
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very nice dude you did what most guys here cant in real life. Actually doing it.
/r/seduction23/11/14 03:52 AM
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Clothing shop: Hey what do you think would look good on me? Recommendations? Blah blah Stage: Hey how do you think I did?
/r/seduction23/11/14 02:27 AM
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Looks don't really directly correlate to your significant other. It might for women, but not nearly as much for men. Men are so much more flexible
/r/seduction22/11/14 06:50 PM
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I had this same problem. Let me tell you the story. So my first "true love"(barf) was back in high school It was a girl in my orchestra class and we sat next to eachother for about 2-3 years(same instrument, same ranking) Going through my period of puberty just like anyone else, I "fell in love" with this girl At first I didn't even realize that I liked this girl, until she started showing signs that she liked me. That's when I first experienced the emotion of affection. After that, I tried ever…
/r/seduction22/11/14 05:16 AM
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Not to take anything away from you, but Hollywood Blvd is generally where it's much more socially accepted to approach There's tons of "rappers" and cosplayers out there that are approaching people there anyway, so it's not as socially intimidating compared to other places (library, mall, etc) But you did great approaching.
/r/seduction22/11/14 05:04 AM
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It's definitely not impossible. It's just a matter of asking yourself, "Is this worth devoting my time?" For that one uninterested girl, you could've gamed five more during the same amount of time required, and that kind of potential is the reason why most guys do not recommend trying to game a girl that shows disinterest. Anyway, it's definitely possible, but changing a girl's mind is going to be purely emotional, which might tie-in to things like social value and such, but more than likely, it…
/r/seduction22/11/14 05:01 AM
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very interesting perspective. I don't actually think you're fat, I was just trying to play off the words xD edit: TIL: im sucking at game on novice mode
/r/seduction19/11/14 04:54 AM
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Here's my guide to displaying value. Value is like the fish in the water, the more you seek it, the less you have. If you try to catch a fish in the water if brute force, by seeking value by contesting it, you will never be able to gain it. Rather, if you let the current flow, and let people around you find out that you are worth value, then that is the greatest form of value you can have. That is the reason why you cannot get those 8's 9's 10's. I think that what you lack is not that you're not…
/r/seduction19/11/14 03:22 AM
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buy 1 get 1 free?
/r/seduction19/11/14 03:07 AM
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grades girls fitness pick two
/r/seduction19/11/14 01:42 AM
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Fuck yeah man Screw all the guys who said fat guys cant get laid I wish i had your game when i used to be fat
/r/seduction18/11/14 10:10 PM
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This reminds me of me. I used to be overweight, constantly overworked and overbooked because of my job after moving out of my parents house, trying to make an independent living. So after I got laid off of my job, I took a look back into myself and realized how mentally, physically, and emotionally I'd fallen. I gained about 20 lbs over six months due to fast food consumption for every meal of the day. I decided that fuck it, I was going to become my old self, healthy, fit, and confident, and de…
/r/seduction18/11/14 02:55 AM
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"I have no idea how I will ever find a girl like this again. " Stop.Right.There. That's it, it's over, you're already done. With that kind of mindset, it probably won't be long before she drops you for the next guy. Models aren't anything special. Don't get me wrong, I personally have many female model friends that are gorgeous, but seriously, they're just like anybody else, more human than anything else, and it seems like you're already putting her on a pedestal that she doesn't need to be on. …
/r/seduction17/11/14 05:54 AM
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You're probably coming off as too availible And why are you obsessing over her dude? Just calm. down. She's already given you plenty of compliments, so take it, lean back, and play it cool. She already likes you. And also, just let it simmer for a couple of days. If you back off and give her space, she'll text you back. DO NOT make her the center of your life. Keep living life and she'll be begging to have you part of her life.
/r/seduction17/11/14 05:18 AM
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Yes, I was implying that for the next 15 minutes she was slobbering all over my face on the train. And I didn't get her number because I'm really picky about the girls I spend more than 1 date on. Though this may be because I get to pick and choose the kind of girls I want since a lot of girls are constantly checking me out on the train.(Yes i'm probably touting my horn here, but I'm just being honest) And I'm not even white, super tall(im 6 feet/180 cm), or super buff(average tennis player buil…
/r/seduction17/11/14 04:01 AM
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Ask yourself, "Is she qualifying herself to me?" For example: You:-smirk- I don't like short girls Her: Hey! I'm average height for a girl my age
/r/seduction17/11/14 03:10 AM
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Practice making out. Believe it or not girls actually like making out. Get a female friend (preferably a dorm mate/close friend, someone who can keep it under cover) to make out with you. I'm not joking. Genuinely express your desire for practice to a female friend that you can trust for help in making out(and that you're not looking for anything romantic). As long as you guys are isolated and secure, I'm sure an open minded single female friend is willing to do it. Not to tout my own horn or an…
/r/seduction17/11/14 03:08 AM
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You know why they're not interested in you? Because you give off the air that there's nothing interesting about you. Think about it for a second, let's pretend that you were a Bollywood Star, not a random brown guy. At that point, would care that if that stupid white girl was interested in you or not? No, because you know that you're amazing as an actor and also as an icon for the Indian people. You wouldn't care about what some random white girl thinks because you have plenty of girls from othe…
/r/seduction17/11/14 03:01 AM
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Here's a couple of pointers. First and foremost, meal dates are generally not recommended because they are limiting in terms of physical accessibility towards your date. Second, you need to learn the deep dive. Read this: http://www.girlschase.com/content/secrets-getting-girls-art-deep-dive Third, it's only as uninteresting as you make it. Girls will never be willing to take the risk (unless drunk) to escalate kino with you, unless you've already established that you're a very touchy-guy. So the…
/r/seduction16/11/14 06:46 AM
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Being 6 foot at 15 year old helps too i bet (Source: im 6 1)
/r/seduction15/11/14 09:19 PM
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sign the 4 year non compete. Care to digress what this is
/r/seduction15/11/14 06:23 AM
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I think the free tours are pretty good(from what i've heard) The paid bootcamps...not so sure
/r/seduction15/11/14 06:13 AM
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I wish girls were as open as you were. I think you're doing excellent.
/r/seduction14/11/14 05:16 AM
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Great article. Loved your previous article as well. keep it up
/r/seduction14/11/14 05:14 AM
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I think that she could potentially put you in that"emotional tampon" area, but you did well enough to tell her that you "like hanging out with her" Very good. Keep it up, hold value and compliment her when she lets you escalate with her, and backtrack when she doesn't. She seems somewhat interested too, but make sure that you don't end up as a backup my friend. Best of luck
/r/seduction14/11/14 05:11 AM
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I think the key here is to show intent without making it too direct. Instead of being like a guy and saying "hi, i thought you were cute and i had to come and talk to you," Maybe perhaps a better method would be to gradually implore about the topic such as, "oh what are you doing tommorow?" "-insert answer reply here-" "Oh you're not going out with your girlfriend?" If he answers " I have a girlfriend", You: "Oh i see" (can already determine that he's not interested) If he answers "I don't have …
/r/seduction12/11/14 02:35 AM
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Not disagreeing with you or anything but this is a lot harder from girls. As guys, we are expected to approach and be accepted/rejected, but for girls they can be labeled as "desperate" "slut" or other derogatory terms. It's a stupid double standard that we have for girls in modern society but a lot of the social conventions hold true unfortunately =/
/r/seduction12/11/14 02:31 AM
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Tell her you don't have time for that. You're a high value guy, and a high value guy doesn't have time to waste on a single girl like that. Tell her you're down for meeting face to face and that's it.
/r/seduction12/11/14 02:28 AM
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A lot of girls around our age 20-30 are very self-serving, arrogant, and unappreciative of others. For example, my Russian friends (Guys) are always complaining to me about how girls from their country expect a man with money, or status to hit them up. Not saying that all Russian girls are like this (i dated one that wasn't luckily) but i'm just giving this as an example of women with an ego. Not to mention girls that expect unfair treatment for being a female. Girls already have plenty of white…
/r/seduction12/11/14 02:23 AM
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Attractive: A girl that makes everyone else smile UnAttractive: A girl with an ego
/r/seduction12/11/14 02:12 AM
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I just wanted to point out that some girls actually like being pointed out that they are stupid. They know that they themselves are stupid, and since white knights are always drooling over them, when a real guy can come along and see them for what they are, it turns them on. Of course this is assuming you are well socially calibrated of course.
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:18 AM
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Once you can touch around her neck and side of her face freely, then you know you can go for it. But then again, I know im going to regret saying this but... Just go for it. Life's too short to dillydally. A confident man knows that he can have what he wants. Don't waste your valuable time waiting for things like , "Is she going to let me kiss her or not?" Believe it or not, girls like being kissed.
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:15 AM
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my stomache... IM DYING
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:10 AM
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Sorry im ugly :)
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:52 AM
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Law of Least Effort states that whoever expends the least effort in a relationship has the greater power over the relationship. Know why that "cool guy" is so cool? Because he doesn't need to try and "be cool". He knows he is cool This scenario isn't any different. Don't compete with the guy, acknowledge him for what he is, don't insult him, just accept him for what he is and act indifferent about it. She will know who the higher value guy is simply by you maintaining frame
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:13 AM
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I like everything about seduction. From the initial courting, to the up front acting, to the white lies, to pulling the jealousy card, and finally the F-close. I fucking love all of it. Probably because im a manipulative asshole that loves to get inside people's heads.
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:09 AM
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Here's a more accurate breakdown of the features of each. Of course not all products are the same, but in case you are confused here's a good condensed read: http://www.bellanaija.com/2013/08/14/bn-beauty-what-you-need-to-know-about-bb-cc-creams/ The excessive oil base is one of the reasons why CC Cream is used more than BB cream nowadays.
/r/seduction10/11/14 03:32 AM
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I use Excipial DeoForte as well. Great product
/r/seduction09/11/14 09:26 PM
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I personally do not recommend contacts. There is a saying, "even the optometrist doesnt let his kids get contacts" That being said, i also wear glasses myself, and glasses are only unfashionable if you let them be unfashionable. Buy a decent looking frame. Here's a lame selfie of me before doing a glasses photoshoot http://i.imgur.com/JhSGv8f.jpg +i got to keep those glasses too :))
/r/seduction09/11/14 07:02 PM
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I use mostly korean brands(thats where bb cream originated from). The key is to make sure that makeup matches your skin tone. If you're not sure go to your nearby makeup store like Sephora and test it out! I personally use Bb cream from a company called Gowoonsaesang
/r/seduction09/11/14 06:51 PM
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If you want a more photogenic application, check out CC cream. Its basically a more expensive(but better) version of Bb cream that a lot of professional make up artists use for camera. It works wonders! Only downside is that it's a bit more expensive than Bb cream.
/r/seduction09/11/14 05:11 PM
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The girl's place. If that's also not an option, I take her one of those cheap hourly rate motels. But usually it's not a problem. For the most part, I always try and schedule dates/meets when they can guarantee "alone time". Unless it's a really hot girl, then i'm willing to cooperate a little more.
/r/seduction09/11/14 06:03 AM
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Plot twist: She doesn't know that he doesn't know they're not even together
/r/seduction09/11/14 04:18 AM
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It's always best to try and push the escalation as hard as possible on a date. That way, if she ever rejects anything, you can always backtrack later. A girl will forgive you for pushing her too hard, but she won't forgive you for being a wimp. Always try to push for more and more, and after you see how far you can get away with, then apologize and then re-engage later.
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:04 PM
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Ask her if she wants to go out for a drink
/r/seduction07/11/14 02:17 AM
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You....can see her again in the next class period......
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:09 PM
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First off great job on doing the approach. Second, don't ask her if she has a boyfriend. Regardless of whether she has one or not, if she's willing to sleep with you, then she won't even mention him until necessary. Third, if you are going to compliment the girl on her looks, then you need to be uncaring and unfazed about it. That's like saying hitler saying ," Sorry i killed a whole bunch of people, sorry not sorry. " That shit don't work man. Just tell her she's hot, and a little bit about her…
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:05 PM
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My fantasy goal is to have a threesome with two religious church girls + bondage .... But uh good post.
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:02 PM
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errr.... Not that telling a girl that she's cute or anything is bad really, it's just, it's likely to put her into a "oh another one of these guys" kind of frame. Think about it, how many times do you think pretty girls get approached by nonchalant, socially uncalibrated guys all day? Pretty girl friends of mine tell me that they get approached/oddly viewed at least 2-3 times a minimum a day. Meaning she's probably had interactions just like yours before. Not saying that anything you did was wro…
/r/seduction06/11/14 07:58 PM
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Looks like you missed your window of opportunity soldier. When she was talking with you on the phone about those emotional things is when you should've escalated. Girls particularly won't do that kind of stuff for people that they are not emotionally invested in. Best move is to move on, maybe keep her as a friend, but to meet lots more girls =)
/r/seduction06/11/14 07:51 PM
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Don't tell her outright that you want to be "friends with benefits" Just frame it as open ended dating. You don't want her to completely make her feel like you are using her (not that you are but you need be careful about how you phrase this) Just see if you can lightly push one more time for another meeting, and if she responds, then proceed to F-close on that or as much as possible. Otherwise, she will most likely get bored. Luckily you did say that it was a solid 45 minute interaction so hope…
/r/seduction06/11/14 07:49 PM
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You probably aren't as sexually confident as you could be. I think that hesitance is what bores them. Keep pushing yourself! Remember, you are the man and she is the woman. Your role is to keep pushing for it, hers is to slow you down (generally speaking of course)
/r/seduction05/11/14 11:42 PM
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Stop asking for sex. Demand it.
/r/seduction05/11/14 11:38 PM
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Doesn't seem like you gamed her at all. Seems like she gamed you and persevered
/r/seduction05/11/14 11:30 PM
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Yup. Those two pretty much go in hand to hand. Even though you think that you want to change for the better, your old self doesn't want you to. Hence why, everyone here tries to do cold approach pick up because it takes us out of our comfort zone. Closing is no different.
/r/seduction05/11/14 11:26 PM
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What you have isn't a self esteem issue. It's a fear of succeeding. I know because I've had it in the past, and it's caused some issues for me, but once you do it over and over you realize that pulling the trigger isn't as nearly as bad as you make it out to be in your mind. The only solution unfortunately, is to pull the trigger on a certain girl that you're pretty sure you can close with, and do it several times. Once you get used to it, like everything else in life, it actually isn't that bad…
/r/seduction05/11/14 10:22 PM
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Let's say we do an experiment. Put a super successful entrepreneur in a room with the average joe. In a 1 on 1 situation, who is going to care more about what the other person is going to say? The super rich, super successful entrepreneur or the average joe? Does the super rich, super successful entrepreneur really care about trying to impress the average joe? (in this experiment both are the same sex) No. The entrepreneur doesn't really care what the other person says and thinks because they kn…
/r/seduction05/11/14 08:40 PM
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I just changed mine because of the aspect of pre-selection. Girls want what other girls want. But both works =)
/r/seduction05/11/14 05:04 PM
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"Oh well, I guess girls really like me here." FTFY
/r/seduction05/11/14 04:48 PM
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Hooking up with girls is pretty hard until you realize what you've been doing wrong. then it's easy. Generally i try and escalate as soon as possible by body language, how I escalate, and changing the topic to sexual as soon as possible. By seeing how she reacts, you can generally tell how DTF she is or see the probability of how easily you can at least get a make out. Of course you will fail at first. And this might also cause you to lose girls that you could've gotten if you had slowed things …
/r/seduction05/11/14 04:42 PM
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Once you start dating more than one girl at a time you won't even have the attention span nor the time to care. Try reaching a level of abundance by constantly gaming other women =)
/r/seduction05/11/14 06:32 AM
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It's only as creepy as you make it seem. If you've gradually climbed the kino escalation ladder(ref: See Di carlo escalation ladder) and with experience you should have no problem getting a makeout. But....it can backfire xD But the fun of pick up in itself is pushing to see how far you can go is it not? Have fun :)
/r/seduction05/11/14 06:28 AM
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Apply Brad Pitt rule. If brad pitt asked this girl on a date, would she tell him ," I can't brad, you're so sexy but im too busy" If you were Brad Pitt she would make time for you even if she was actually that busy.
/r/seduction05/11/14 06:22 AM
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How to make friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. Gain basic social skills before you try and gain social skills specifically towards women. That way it will give you a bigger scope of the whole picture
/r/seduction05/11/14 06:20 AM
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Nice observation. :o I wish i had your insight, but i don't have much experience at all in terms of relationships... I mean i've had plenty of hookups but it just seems like so many women seem so....boring, after hooking up with them two or three times, i just find myself bored of them @_@
/r/seduction05/11/14 06:18 AM
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Have you even tried it?
/r/seduction05/11/14 06:15 AM
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How about in each and every interaction, you try and push the kino each and every time while in the first interaction? Like try and ask for a hug the very first girl(at the end or something) then hold her hand for a minute or two the second girl, ask for a kiss on the cheek the third girl, and then try and make it romantic and try and go for the kiss the fourth. So on and so forth. Try and push your boundaries! =) I have a hard time doing this too xD but it will make you definitely more confiden…
/r/seduction05/11/14 05:03 AM
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Might be the fact that when he approaches girls, it doesn't feel like he's taking anything from the girls. A lot of guys initially seem like they "want something from the girl" Maybe if you got rid of that it would make things a lot easier for you =)
/r/seduction05/11/14 05:01 AM
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I see. In that perspective i can see what you're saying. But then again i am looking for relationship type material so @@ Game's so hard ><"
/r/seduction05/11/14 03:10 AM
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game's pretty hard for models too ; _ ;
/r/seduction05/11/14 02:47 AM
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Where are you meeting these women? College parties? Bars? Lounges? might want to change where you meet women. Daygame (library, coffee shops,daytime environments in general) might help you change the pool of women you meet. =) Also as to your personal situation, it's not uncommon. I also have something similar to you where i find a lack of girls that are actually trying to get to know me. You sort of get bored of having the same thing over and over - _-
/r/seduction05/11/14 02:18 AM
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It seems like this girl is probably questioning your value and playing hard to get. This is the problem with everything working out 100%, in her perspective the problem is that: There is no problem. What? Yup, you heard me. The girl hates the fact that she can already have you however she likes and therefore you are no challenge for her. Not saying that all girls are like this, but generally girls like a bit of challenge, and to those types of girls, you are generally not going to be deemed attr…
/r/seduction03/11/14 08:21 PM
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I try my best to get the girls i meet to pay. But then again i'm pretty much broke at the moment and can't afford to pay and probably wouldn't pay even if i could. I usually tell the girls to pay for me, and if they decline, i tell them "then let's meet at your place" so we can stay economical and i joke about the fact that i am broke. Yes i am probably an asshole for doing this. 2. I do this not only to save my money but also to make sure there's an investment in this for the girl as well. I've…
/r/seduction03/11/14 08:11 PM
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Except asking for a kiss. I would never do that one. Kills the moment per se.
/r/seduction03/11/14 05:53 PM
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The signs she showed doesn't really clearly indicated IOI's. I think it could possibly simply be excitement about the trip. Nonetheless there's two sides to you making this approach. Negatives: 1. could get awkward for the next 20 days if you try and make it intimate possibly my deter your friendship with her might possibly even make the trip not as great as it could be Positives: could possibly have 20 days of nonstop sex :) could end as a possible Fwb situation Play your cards right. I don't k…
/r/seduction03/11/14 05:52 PM
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This might be due to you being too considerate for the opinion of others. Speak your mind about things and don't be afraid of disagreeing with others.
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:57 AM
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Dude i have a date with a girl that's 10 years older than me(im 19) in 3 weeks, and i made her pick the time. By making the girl pick the time, she invests into the date already, since she should have no reason to make an excuse if she decides to flake. And guess what. Do i text her? Nope. Yet i still know that i can text her to remind her the day before just in case so that i don't waste my time. Because to a girl's mind, if a guy that she's interested in isn't talking to her, then she's always…
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:49 AM
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this is a very common problem with guys in pick up. Not going to lie, even i have this problem. But anyhow... The problem with talking a lot, is that generally, the more you talk, the more it lessens your value. Not because what you say is necessarily wrong, but rather, there's less to find out about you if you reveal everything. Also, once you keep talking past a certain extent, the girl feels as if she is being reasoned into dating you, and at that point you will sound no different from a car …
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:45 AM
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You can use /u/jacks_not_surprised 's method or you can use mine This is something that i do because I realized that since i'm in college, the current greatest valuable resource is time. And I don't know how liberal you are with your time, but you as a man should get what you want. So here are 2 methods, both FORCEFUL and confrontational, but will get the job done. Bring her to your place(or somewhere with guaranteed isolation) and start doing the usual isolation, except this time, make it force…
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:40 AM
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I'm not nice as you and I openly flirt with other girls, even 3 or 4 girls at a time, but I think that demonstrates high value (that other girls enjoy my company) and shows pre-selection, which makes it even worse - _ - But then again, i guess if it does come down to it, eventually, i'll just use the "i have a girlfriend line" that so many girls use x.x
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:28 AM
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That might be why. in truth, a healthy interaction with a girl should be at least 50/50 if not generally 60(her)/40(you) She's the feminine role in the relationship, let her do the talking, you do the spanking (you know what i mean) Of course in the initial conversation she probably won't talk much, but once you open her up, she should be able to talk you through the roof if you do it right.
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:26 AM
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It's always best to use these topics in person, personally, I would keep the texting to a minimum. It's best if she gets that stimulation she gets from you mostly in person as that will make her want to crave for time with you in person. Then proceed to indirectly link your conversation in the sexual direction.
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:24 AM
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I have a girl that chases me around campus too, it's ridiculous, at this point, and whenever she sees me i have to make it a point to leave the nice spot I was enjoying because i am uncomfortable seeing her. zzz Worse thing is. when you do this to these kind of girls, it makes them desire you more....(lots of experiences and bad memories...unfortunately.)
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:22 AM
1

Meet up. In person. Then after doing something together, when you are isolated, proceed to escalation, ....i guess since you're 15, just kissing and making out is fine.
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:19 AM
1

You know what you should tell her? Just imagine how many times girls check me out during the day. If you start having to question your self worth about dating this girl, then you are already done. A man should be able to at any moment go out there and get a girl if his partner leaves him at that moment.
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:18 AM
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Start talking about sex. What kind of stuff do you like, 3somes, bdsm, domination, lesbian, eiffel tower(?) etc etc Make sure you use the line "I DON"T JUDGE" BUT....." To the point where you are sincerely curious like a little kid. That way, she knows that she won't be judged by having sexual experiences with you. You're very unlikely to be able to get her committed untill you sleep with her. Women are emotionally attached to sex( for the most part)
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:16 AM
1

What are you now? What do you want to do in the future? And why aren't we sleeping with eachother yet?
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:12 AM
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I.Know.This.Feeling. The sad thing is that because of her, i can realize how girl's feel when a guy they don't like keeps trying to go after them. . _. And it's never the hot one's that are weird like this, but then again, the hot one's shouldn't have problems getting sex whenever they want so..
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:11 AM
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Might be the lack of building a connection with them :o? Maybe you need to establish more comfort (for girlfriend material) or try and push harder for the F-Close, because it seems like what you're doing is neither, half assed. Just my 2c
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:02 AM
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Fuckin beautiful mate. You know what i love? When a guy and a girl can enjoy eachother''s company no strings attached. (not saying that you shouldn't have tried to push it, but this is cool too)
/r/seduction03/11/14 03:24 AM
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It's highly likely that she's not that into you. If she texts you frequently and only occasionally texts you back with an elongated wait time, it could simply be that she is busy. But more than likely, she is sending you signals that she is not interested.
/r/seduction02/11/14 03:26 AM
1

who is the author
/r/seduction01/11/14 04:26 PM
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Just so you guys know, I understand that some of you guys might view this as Red pill, but that's not the point i wanted to bring to attention. I just wanted to share that if getting sex if your goal/problem, then you should listen to what he says.
/r/seduction01/11/14 06:05 AM
1

Did you at least see a picture of her?
/r/seduction01/11/14 04:49 AM
2

Personally im using pickup to not only learn how to game women, but men, as well. And before you start being homophobic with me, NO. I am NOT gay. It's just that once you learn to convince men AND women to do what you want, that's what true seduction is about. Connecting with someone that you have no idea about. That's where i believe true social awareness lies. =)
/r/seduction01/11/14 04:18 AM
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This is great to hear. A lot of the guys in this community are into this just for the sex, but i'm glad that you found out the real way to enjoy a woman, not just her body, but her feminine energy and her companionship as well. =-)
/r/seduction31/10/14 07:03 PM
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I know i'm going to get a lot of flack for this but i think what you did is right. It's kinda like how i also lose attraction for girls that give me the "i have a boyfriend" line, because then you realize at that point, there's no point in me liking/being attracted to this person because they probably don't like me back. And also i think it is good self respect that you don't let yourself be a "backup" for the girl. But then again, to each his own. I personally think you made the right decision.…
/r/seduction31/10/14 01:02 AM
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Great job dude. =-) Always kinda weird when the girl you have a ONS with knows one of your friends/co-workers = _=;
/r/seduction29/10/14 04:37 PM
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Only thing you forgot to mention possibly, is that unlike sales or enterprise, in seduction, you are not the seller, you are the buyer. She needs to convince you that she's good enough or she won't have any reason to go be attracted to you. You can't really sell yourself to a girl, not long term anyway.
/r/seduction29/10/14 04:11 PM
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Try no fap /r Nofap It will give you the testosterone boost in order for you to get that killer instinct again. When you haven't given yourself that pleasure for about a month, you WILL want to put that thing in someone.
/r/seduction29/10/14 02:24 AM
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Winner's Mentality, Buyer's Mentality, and signs of a high value man. Theory checks out bro
/r/seduction27/10/14 11:51 PM
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First of all i want to say. Great job OP for taking the opportunity and i totally approve. Second I want to say that generally for Korean girls and a lot of Eastern asian girls in general, comfort is more important than kino itself. So for the most part you need to try and build comfort as much as possible. And the thing about that also is, that you also need to seem REALLY REALLY selective, like you need to be viewed as attractive to other girls, BUT you can't go after any other girl in the ope…
/r/seduction27/10/14 11:50 PM
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Your virginity is only as big of a deal as you make it. Don't fret about it and just let the sex happen. =) Just make sure it's someone you won't regret losing your virginity with though xD You don't want your first sexual experience to be a bad one
/r/seduction27/10/14 04:54 PM
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if a girl will hold your hand, she'll kiss you too. Don't be afraid next time.
/r/seduction27/10/14 04:03 PM
1

Earn money. Get plastic surgery. Develop your body. Get a good hairstyle done from a stylist. Wear fashionable clothes. Do that and then come back.
/r/seduction26/10/14 03:00 AM
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Ok then go die. No one cares. You think anyone will take your shit for what you are? I have plenty of loser friends that act like you. You think I've got time for that shit? I get tired of hearing this shit. Everyone has their struggles and their difficulties in life. If you're even remotely close to being a man, then you would take pride in your struggles. You're right, the self love bullshit preached here is worthless, if you are worthless. Are you going to sit here and let me call you worthle…
/r/seduction26/10/14 02:57 AM
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About the fact that you need a reason to talk to girls. You see, no one owes you anything. You know why? Because the world doesn't owe you shit. No girl NEEDS you, just like no girl NEEDS me. And guess what, "Good Looking" is completely objectified. "Good Looking" is not actually "Good Looking" but rather, this guy isn't my type. Just like not all guys like tall girls, not all girls like that typical "Good Looking" guy. So before you post think about how other people think for a moment. Put your…
/r/seduction26/10/14 02:31 AM
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It provide as a buffer for those awkwardly quiet moments. Use it to build sexual tension and escalate faster.
/r/seduction26/10/14 12:20 AM
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Yeah. Mostly what you did seem pretty correct. The only thing that I would advise is that perhaps by showing a bit of hesitancy or doubt, you demonstrate slightly lower value. Remember that generally a man's frame is to lead, and by being coy or playing games like a girl does(not confronting her about it), you are not displaying high value. So keep being straightforward about the interaction, as long as you are sure that you don't want to befriend the girl.
/r/seduction25/10/14 04:00 AM
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Dam. Almost had a 3 some with 2 lesbos. DAMMIT. Just kidding. You did everything right except one thing. Don't be so invested into the interaction. Don't get me wrong you should try to treat each girl as well as possible, but it seemed like you cared too much about what she thought of you when she rejected you. Normally ejecting out a set should be as graceful and expedited as possible. Once you start approaching a lot of girls, one or two rejections shouldn't even matter.
/r/seduction25/10/14 01:57 AM
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Definitely not recommended Imao God, if he ever finds out
/r/seduction24/10/14 11:28 PM
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Play music. As soon as you get the girl in your room turn on some music, buy some 20$ cheap speakers and hook it up to your phone/computer and play the music. Then get her to dance. Rest should be smooth sailing from there.
/r/seduction24/10/14 10:59 PM
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what you are doing is not being boring. What you are doing is playing it safe. Think about it, when you are with your friends, do you think to yourself, "What am i gonna talk about next?" No, you talk about whatever the fuck you want because it's just you and your buddies. Now pretty much the same thing (minus a couple of topics ) and you've got a relatively similar playing field with the opposite sex. The only difference is that perhaps till now you've been socially conditioned not to talk abou…
/r/seduction24/10/14 01:43 AM
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this is by far the most retarded thing ive ever read on this subreddit.(not talking about OP's post)
/r/seduction23/10/14 09:36 PM
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last time a checked a quickie is still cheating.
/r/seduction23/10/14 09:31 PM
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In case you didn't realize, women LOVE sex. Women LOVE making out. So stop doubting yourself.
/r/seduction23/10/14 06:55 PM
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You can't blame him. He probably has guys like you coming off to him every other day like that. Remember the rule of least investment. Whoever invests the least into an interaction has greater power over the relationship. In your case, you're not offering him something that he can't offer you (in this case coaching). In his case, he can offer coaching and instruction, but you can offer him value by attending his hot seat(not saying that you should but just trying to display a point). Not saying …
/r/seduction22/10/14 06:09 PM
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Classic. Easy shit test. Tell her, "Yeah they're drop dead fuckin gorgeous. If you enjoy boring middle aged men sitting and watching football all day you're in for a treat." Then ask her if she has hot co workers from her work place. Typical shit test solution: Agree & Amplify.
/r/seduction22/10/14 06:02 PM
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Realistically though, half of those girls will either be unattractive/not his type So probably 2000-3000 should be a realistic number
/r/seduction22/10/14 04:45 PM
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Why? That's the only question you'll ever need.
/r/seduction22/10/14 03:41 PM
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to study Collage. ......... Collage.... ...... Are you sure you're attending "Collage"
/r/seduction22/10/14 05:08 AM
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It's downvoted because there are clearly white knights that linger even on seddit Anyway a regular example would be: You:You're not average height, you're short. Her:No i'm not! I'm average height! or Her(Disinterested): Whatever, shrugs and ignores you Now of course light validation hoops don't always clearly display sexual interest. So maybe you want to mix sexual intimacy and validation together for example: You: Hey have you made out with random guys before? Her: Yes, a couple times You: No …
/r/seduction22/10/14 05:04 AM
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Physically escalate. If they share the physical escalation back, then ask em out. Just because she's in a relationship doesn't mean she's satisfied with it. If she is, she will let you know.
/r/seduction22/10/14 01:42 AM
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Cut and splice. Change topic immediately as if nothing happened.
/r/seduction21/10/14 07:33 PM
1

How to make girls chase -chase amante Read his blog too it's really good
/r/seduction21/10/14 07:32 PM
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Looks like you are trying too hard OP. Need to display more demonstration of high values (DHV). She should need YOU not you need her. have you tried physically escalating with her while you are with her in person? Also high school is a pretty lame place to game. (mostly social circle game, everyone knows everyone - __-)
/r/seduction21/10/14 07:30 PM
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Because she enjoys leading guys on? Or could be a million other reasons. Also she was drunk so another indication of probably not the best idea of trying to have a regular interaction with her.
/r/seduction21/10/14 07:27 PM
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OH GOD. THAT MOMENT WHEN U SEE THE GIRLS WITHOUT MAKE UP LOL
/r/seduction21/10/14 07:25 PM
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If they want to sleep with you they will validate themselves if you deprive them of their validation. If they dont wish to sleep with you, they will simply blow you away/ignore you if you make them validate themselves
/r/seduction21/10/14 02:20 PM
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Let me get this straight for you. You are never ever going to be able to convince a girl to go out with you. And also, don't call them out on their bullshit. Rather, try and make it less confrontational, and make it seem as if you are disinterested. A high value guy doesn't NEED a girl out with him. A high value guy has other options which he can refer to if he feels like he needs company. What you are doing, ie: pictures of different girls on facebook, is NOT congruent with what you are display…
/r/seduction21/10/14 05:49 AM
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It seems like you don't seem very socially calibrated Try and make the interaction much smoother and calibrate, and don't tell her that she's cute straight off the bat. It makes it seem like you are chasing her. Remember that just as you are gaming the girl, she should be gaming you too. Become the prize OP. You ARE the prize. Make her work for it, and try and elongate the interaction in order to avoid flaking and shit like that. Currently, it seems like you don't seem like you are relating to h…
/r/seduction21/10/14 05:37 AM
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Practice integrating meeting new people into your life by doing it whenever you can. You might think, "Oh ill just wait until i start school again to start approaching," but that thinking is WRONG. You need to be able to make a smooth transition into approaching, so that when you do have a million opportunities in university, you actually take those opportunities. tl;dr don't wait, start now.
/r/seduction19/10/14 11:25 PM
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You're thinking too much in your head. Slowly grab her phone and then go ," Hey what's so interesting????" (Don't quickly grab her phone like you're trying to steal it, do it SLOWLY). Then proceed to build rapport and show intent. Who cares? It's only one pretty chick. That's it. It's not your future boss or anything. Just a girl. STOP THINKING IN YOUR HEAD. IT'S NOT HARD. Also, try to make the conversation more interesting, don't just talk about things like "phones, school, iphone etc etc" that…
/r/seduction19/10/14 11:20 PM
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Once. And make sure she suggests the alternative or don't waste your time on a 2nd chance.
/r/seduction19/10/14 11:00 PM
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I think if you ask for the sex and then ask him to pay, that would really turn him off. Source: happened to me before in vegas
/r/seduction19/10/14 09:58 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI This video will teach you
/r/seduction19/10/14 05:14 PM
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Korean girls want dat foreign flavor Source:am korean
/r/seduction19/10/14 04:53 PM
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Just make sure that you convey interest as soon as possible. Otherwise it will really be a "study" group not sexual interest. =)
/r/seduction19/10/14 04:15 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI Watch this speech. You will becoming a lot more charming
/r/seduction18/10/14 11:58 PM
6

wanna share how you lost your v card to a girl you barely knew?
/r/seduction18/10/14 03:03 AM
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The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself. -Franklin D Roosevelt Take game as a learning example of everything else in life. You only have things to gain from learning it, and take it as a lesson, whether it be painful, humiliating, or even downright excruciating, it will teach you social skills. Powerful social skills that will not only help you with your future romances, but also in society as well. Learn game not just to get girls, but to be able to step out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction18/10/14 03:01 AM
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The key is being slightly better dressed than average. =) Just don't wear a tux/tux shirt everywhere. Besides that, you can get away with almost anything.
/r/seduction18/10/14 01:45 AM
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Use the subway. I constantly get indirectly approached on the subway non-stop..Although that might be because i live in a metropolitan area.
/r/seduction18/10/14 12:11 AM
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I think you have two options. 1. Safe, but less impactful: "Ok then when?" -Safe method for asking -no risk -doesn't demonstrate high value -odds are 50/50 (depending on how the sex was too) or 2. "ok." If she says "i can't I'm doing X" Then you say "Ok." Then that's it. -Demonstrates high value -Shows you don't have time for women who don't have investment themselves -RISKY -If it does work you might have to wait a bit on the results, possibly even a couple days. -The key in this response is th…
/r/seduction17/10/14 08:57 PM
2

Ask her for an alternate suggestion. If she doesn't reply/doesn't give you one, then move on :o
/r/seduction17/10/14 08:51 PM
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Please PM me privately first!
/r/seduction17/10/14 08:43 PM
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Please promise not to redistribute it :)
/r/seduction17/10/14 07:58 PM
1

Must be nice to work in New york =c I do brand based clothing, although Im asian so i get a lot of commercial shoots more than high fashion T_T Im in college too :D:D
/r/seduction17/10/14 04:31 PM
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If you want a picture PM me. I do not feel comfortable about sharing it openly on the internet
/r/seduction17/10/14 02:38 PM
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this....so much this.....thank you for understanding how I feel =)
/r/seduction17/10/14 02:05 PM
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you're probably right =(
/r/seduction17/10/14 06:00 AM
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I don't know if i would expect a lot out of this girl :o Normally girls give guys their number but she didn't give you hers...On the bright side if she flakes out on you, at least you didn't have to bother texting her. But congrats on doing the approach. That in itself is the biggest goal!
/r/seduction17/10/14 04:56 AM
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Because we all desire the forbidden fruit.
/r/seduction17/10/14 04:27 AM
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That's definitely true. I'll try it once i get over my approach anxiety T_T
/r/seduction17/10/14 04:25 AM
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No, I have a lot of friends in school, and i don't mention a word about modeling. I am saying that those girls who i haven't even been able to connect with or even have an intimate connection with, act like they really like me. Because they like me for the "idea" of me, that they THINK is me. Much like how we as guys place the girl "on the pedestal", we like the girls because of how we imagine the hot girls to be like.... Same concept except reverse gender roles.. =/
/r/seduction17/10/14 04:13 AM
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This. So much. This. When people ask me what i do...I tell them... im a student...then they ask me what kind of work i do...i tell them....im into fashion....and then they ask me what kind of fashion...i tell them "i like taking pictures...." I am just like many other poor models living in Los Angeles, and when I am asked about what i do from girls, i don't want to tell them i model anymore. Because once i do, i stopped being looked at like a guy, but rather an object to be conquered. A typical …
/r/seduction17/10/14 03:42 AM
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Lives in NYC Models /lol High five from all the way from the west coast :D Im from LA :DD What kinda shoots do you do? High fashion/catwalk?Commercial? Brand based Clothing?
/r/seduction17/10/14 03:34 AM
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This. I part time model so I know this after staring at many other people in lines for hours. People who just dress formal don't look eye catching. But people that dress with their own distinct style do. Don't get me wrong mass produced clothes look great, but with your own style added into it, it looks even better. tl;dr don't just be same as H&M magazine. Become your own magazine.
/r/seduction17/10/14 02:51 AM
1

This is the truth. The sad yet cold hard truth. =')
/r/seduction16/10/14 02:44 PM
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http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-be-sexy-man A lot of great articles on that blog. There's also an article there about why you shouldn't be the "entertainer".(i can't exactly remember the title) which you should read on.
/r/seduction15/10/14 03:03 AM
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Why don't you tell them that you are a virgin. If they ask why you are, tell them you "were saving it for the right girl. a girl that i can trust with my virginity" It will both turn them on and give you an excuse to practice on them and both of you will have fun, since she is "teaching" you heehee~
/r/seduction15/10/14 01:56 AM
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God she's gorgeous. I wouldn't mind going exclusive for a girl like that...then again...i only date blondes so im probably bullshitting myself
/r/seduction15/10/14 01:53 AM
2

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie How to Make Girls Chase by Chase Amante
/r/seduction15/10/14 01:39 AM
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Usually prefer bar or daygame. Just because the club environment is not 100% for me. (Also not old enough for certain clubs) Usually it's easier to just daygame, but on the other hand, daygame does have a statistically higher chance of flaking, because she isn't in that elevated mood. On the other hand, daygame is more optimal for meeting a "girlfriend" type girl, i suppose.
/r/seduction15/10/14 01:38 AM
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You need to be more comfortable in your own skin. Once you are satisfied with yourself, being yourself, enjoy the company of yourself, then, the girls will come, and you will realize that true happiness comes not from the company of women, but rather, the satisfaction of seeing your ideal self. =)
/r/seduction15/10/14 01:36 AM
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Have you tried screening? One thing that i found that was particularly useful was when I'd smile at the girl who i wanted to approach, if she smiled back, then go ahead and approach because it reciprocates basically what she thinks of you. If she doesn't smile back, just pretend like it never happened. Just a thought :o Also, try not to make your whole interaction not always about the number close. Try and spend as much time as possible building comfort and rapport within the set. =) Good luck
/r/seduction15/10/14 12:50 AM
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Try creating a world of just you 2. Like for example: "omg look at us, just a guy and a girl against the world, waiting for our friday night adventure to come around....(insert typical romantic bullshit here)..." And make her play along with it. Use roleplay. That way you can flirt with it and game her while invoking the idea that you two are a couple already. Inception is powerful.
/r/seduction14/10/14 05:30 AM
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Good inner game. Good examples. Good theory. Checks out OP.
/r/seduction14/10/14 05:28 AM
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That's the "fun" of the game. - _-
/r/seduction14/10/14 05:26 AM
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Can you point out some signals that a women gives that is unconscious? Studies have shown that women often need to send at least 10 signals to even have 1 signal be recognized by a man While it is true that people pick people with similar physical features as them, it is quite not the case in a lot of relationships. A lot of it has to do with SMV(sexual/social market value) and the way that you make yourself seem valuable to the opposite sex. Women and men have different ways of courting eachoth…
/r/seduction13/10/14 03:17 PM
1

You kept the frame. Who cares about just another dumb judgmental broad. Imagine her 20 years from now when her looks fade looooooooool
/r/seduction13/10/14 04:02 AM
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Anywhere. But social circle gaming is generally easier than cold approach.
/r/seduction13/10/14 04:01 AM
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This is why i'd say that every guy should learn to game. I have plenty of good looking friends (although im pretty decent myself, did modeling for little bit, but them comps are too expensive for a student like me+it's a bit too unstable for my lifestyle) And all of the one's that say "i don't need to learn that shit" are: 1. having girl problems 2. dating girls below their league 3. put up with crazy girls 4. are unsatisfied with their sex/dating life Every guy should learn the concepts that ar…
/r/seduction13/10/14 03:02 AM
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Women are intimidated by good looking men, which often times leads to less signals from the women because they are that much more intimidated compared to the average guy. Women generally don't associate looks with being a player, but rather if you're "gamy" or act very smooth. Two equally good looking partners are not as often seen because people want things that they can't have, so they will making themselves much more available to the opposite sex that has a higher SMV than them. So in the cas…
/r/seduction12/10/14 11:34 PM
2

better to regret something you've done then something you haven't
/r/seduction12/10/14 11:25 PM
1

Did you close?
/r/seduction12/10/14 11:20 PM
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Great work soldier.
/r/seduction12/10/14 11:18 PM
1

...OP seddit is not about dating one girl. Seddit is about imrpoving yourself and honing your lifestyle and skills to becoming the man you want to be. Please read the guidelines before you post. Second, don't ask the girl for a relationship right away. That's like going from step 1 to step 10. You haven't even gotten intimate with the girl and you're already asking her for a relationship. Unless you're Adam levine, tom cruise, and hugh hefner rolled into one, you're probably not going to be acce…
/r/seduction12/10/14 08:08 PM
1

try reading. Good books. not like teenage fiction vampire diaries. but actual books like classics such as ender's game, Fahrenheit 452, how to win and influence people, etc etc
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:07 AM
1

bro pls fix your grammar =/
/r/seduction12/10/14 12:44 AM
1

Maybe because you were...intoxicated?
/r/seduction11/10/14 04:11 PM
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um... i guess good job..???
/r/seduction11/10/14 03:54 PM
2

Dude go talk to other women while you're at the club. Don't get me wrong you should show intent, but do not just stick to her. Game other girls and bring girls that you have success to her, because women want "what other women want" Then tell her/show her how she's special because you could've had all those other girls but you specially picked her
/r/seduction11/10/14 03:01 PM
1

Just curious how old are you now
/r/seduction11/10/14 04:52 AM
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Dude that's incredible that you were able to do such a thing. Pickup is like losing weight, it's only uncomfortable in the initial approaches, just like losing weight is the most difficult in the beginning, like everything else, once you learn the rhythm of it, you just need to approach with a discipline in your mental fortitude. Keep shaping your body and your mind to becoming the kind of man you want to be.
/r/seduction11/10/14 04:47 AM
1

=) Keep doing what you love OP
/r/seduction10/10/14 04:07 PM
1

Abundance mentality Go meet hotter better girls. If not approach them, at least admire them. Then you will develop a resistance towards those girls you have a thing for "she's not so great after all"
/r/seduction10/10/14 01:41 PM
2

...still turns me off... ;_ ;
/r/seduction10/10/14 01:37 PM
2

Maybe you should have. =)
/r/seduction10/10/14 04:42 AM
1

you have no idea how jealous i am right now =')
/r/seduction10/10/14 12:24 AM
2

Really great techniques. especially the handshake one. =))))) Thanks so much!
/r/seduction10/10/14 12:20 AM
1

I try and imagine the girl without her makeup. Without her full eyelashes Without her lips full of lipstick Without her poreless skin covered in foundation Without her hair nicely tied up Without her mascara covering her face Without her blush covering her cheeks. It kinda turns me off, but it does allow me personally to feel a lot more confident. Like, "I can't even approach a girl that's uglier than me? I'd be pathetic if i'm not confident." This method isn't for everyone, but it does give me …
/r/seduction10/10/14 12:09 AM
2

Meet more girls. Realize that they each have their own little flavor and keep trying different flavors to keep yourself from caving in on one girl. Remember the Law of Least Effort: Whoever makes the least effort in an interaction has the power of the relationship.
/r/seduction10/10/14 12:02 AM
1

Why can't you schedule dates earlier on in the day?
/r/seduction09/10/14 11:59 PM
1

went to a bar at 17 years MAH MAN
/r/seduction09/10/14 11:58 PM
1

Don't get me wrong I think it's great that you're open to her "showing you the ropes" however, make sure that you frame it correctly! 1. She is NOT showing you the ropes 2. She is EXPERIMENTING with you = Lack of experience = Social/sexual inaptitude = Trying new things = Adventurous mindset. Keep this in mind as you talk to her, and make sure to be as open as possible to whatever she suggests (not saying you have to agree with everything, but do keep in mind that at the age of 16 compared to a …
/r/seduction09/10/14 11:53 PM
2

Dude. You don't need serious game. MILF's are usually much more down to earth, however you do need to be much more up front about attracting/seducing them. On one side, you probably can't keep them around for long, espeically at the age of 16, i doubt you'll be able to keep her around for long considering your lack of sexual experience(it probably isn't very much yet). Also, at the age of 16 your immaturity MIGHT turn her off. On the other hand if you can make her swoon to you then you can get h…
/r/seduction09/10/14 11:33 PM
1

Just say hi. maybe since you're skills aren't so sharp you might want to take it a lil slower than usual
/r/seduction09/10/14 10:52 PM
2

Why can't you go over to their place? Do both at the same time. Improve your life AND game so that way when you achieve financial freedom you have great game already there
/r/seduction09/10/14 02:46 PM
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You should not be caring how other people perceive you. This does not mean that you don't need social calibration and awareness of your surroundings or the way that people perceive you, but rather that this can often lead to the typical social conditioning that entrenches many of us on this subreddit as well. This typically leads to needing external validation from other people, a general good response will make you feel good in the short term, but will not be able to complete your inner game wh…
/r/seduction09/10/14 02:39 PM
1

____ = anything you want.
/r/seduction09/10/14 02:36 PM
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enjoy banging ur kok
/r/seduction09/10/14 02:26 PM
2

It's likely that your first boyfriend was just using you for the sex. (Sorry, it's a common practice among guys to use their FWB for sex and display little to no PDA) Don't think bad of your first boyfriend, but do realize that you've actually got a boyfriend now who wants to do more things with you. =) You should be happy that you can have a special guy to share these experiences with, and you should indulge in them.
/r/seduction09/10/14 02:06 PM
1

That's ....enough time. just be a man and ask her if she wants to do ______ with you. Then escalate and push the accelerator
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:57 PM
1

...hes the guy. It's his job technically to initiate the sex. However, when a girl wants to have sex, it's always even more sexy (not gonna lie). Initiating is not really your fault. But i think what you could do more of is being more receptive and active during the sex itself. A big difference between the younger and older girls that i've slept with is that younger girls tend to be more selfish(sorry) and less active then their older counterparts who try to please their partner as well. So mayb…
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:50 PM
1

just curious, how often do you guys have sex?
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:40 PM
0

mall coffee shops church local club
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:38 PM
2

hey when are you free? Let's do ____ together. Generally you want to propose this after finding out what she likes, for instance, if she likes art, then gallery, sports, then sport, swimming, then beach, etc etc
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:17 PM
5

Great job OP Argentinian girls are SO FINE :< So jealous @ OP.
/r/seduction09/10/14 12:34 PM
1

Generally a lot of the guys in seddit are dating at least more than one girl at t a time, mostly because it allows them to see "what else is out there". Now this depends on from girl to girl, but it is better to choose from a place of abundance rather than a place of scarcity. That being said, you should not be lying or dishonest to the girl, so here's what will happen. You will eventually bed the girl(hopefully) and go on many dates with her. Then eventually she will give you "the talk" asking …
/r/seduction09/10/14 12:26 PM
1

OP. PLease For the love of god. Space out your writing.
/r/seduction09/10/14 04:22 AM
4

Generally meal dates aren't the most advised just because of the fact that you are usually sitting facing the other person which can lead to a lack of physical rapport building, girls are embarrassed about eating in front of guys, and that kinda stuff. Generally something with more freedom of involvement is more recommended such as : coffee shop, walk in park,museum/gallery, etc etc. =) get creative... sports are also great too, such as tennis, bowling etc etc
/r/seduction09/10/14 04:10 AM
1

Generally, when you get down to it, most guys can get to the point where they are making out with the girl after they meet them (it takes some practice) You just need to be able to realize what/where the cues are, and of course, be socially calibrated. There are lots of good techniques to test if a girl is ready to be k-closed. Good examples are: 1. grabbing and holding her hand, then slightly letting her hand go, and if she still holds your hand 2. touching her neck and hair and then gradually …
/r/seduction09/10/14 04:03 AM
1

search: Di Carlo Escalation Ladder
/r/seduction09/10/14 04:00 AM
1

You sound like you need a huge inner game makeover. You need to embrace your masculinity And this will also help: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aqEZ2SHMQE4&list=UUnrnYT_cYRqbnlRPmqQSFzw
/r/seduction09/10/14 03:59 AM
2

It takes balls to do this mate. Great job OP
/r/seduction08/10/14 02:44 PM
2

Good job OP Only thing you could possibly work on is possibly escalating faster (4 dates....is kinda.... a lot. especially once you start gaming more than 1 chick at a time) but logistics differ for every person so... Keep doing what you're doing mate!
/r/seduction08/10/14 02:41 PM
1

Always be escalating. People build trust with touch. =) good luck~
/r/seduction08/10/14 05:25 AM
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I just look into her eyes, and then go "we talked a lot....a little too much..." and then gradually make face go closer and proceed to make out.
/r/seduction08/10/14 05:10 AM
0

win.
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:53 AM
1

good job OP
/r/seduction07/10/14 03:20 PM
1

Conversation threading. Deep dive. just a number of things you can practice.
/r/seduction07/10/14 03:19 PM
1

Might actually want to engage in a stronger interaction before you ask for the number. That way it reduces the risk of rejection and you can check out her exact logistics. Generally the more time you spend with someone the less likely they are to flake you
/r/seduction06/10/14 08:48 PM
2

You are NOT stooping down to their level. You are simply failing to realize that small talk is part of the social game which can represent your social capabilities as a person. I mean would you tell your life srory to a person you just met? Exactly. By engaging in small talk you are testing the chemistry between you two before she actually dumps her emotional/substance into you. Tl dr learn small talk and do not judge. Seek to understand before you judge
/r/seduction06/10/14 08:46 PM
1

obvious intent. just proceed to show intent and escalate
/r/seduction06/10/14 02:14 PM
3

Apply the brad pitt rule for a date Hold her hand and let go of the pressure and if she is still holding your hand after you release the pressure in your hand, go for the K Close good luck!
/r/seduction06/10/14 02:13 PM
13

have her give you a blowjob or a handjob first and do whatever that relaxes you both
/r/seduction06/10/14 02:12 PM
1

Try to do more cold approach pick up =)
/r/seduction06/10/14 06:38 AM
2

Dude the blanket is a lifesaver. Also by testing out the hair pull and the "choke" you can also screen out how horny she is
/r/seduction06/10/14 06:36 AM
1

I personally would have slept with her I've had so many sets i've ejected out from where the girl wants something even though "she's seeing someone" At this point i regret rejecting those girls, so Maybe next time you should reconsider. Not to mention the possibility of a FWB
/r/seduction06/10/14 06:35 AM
2

don't get this the wrong idea but generally it's not best to waste time texting or well it's not advised in the seduction community anyway for the most part you should be using texting to schedule dates and stuff also, try pulling her hair when you make out, and then if she likes it, start choking her with 1 hand, put the hand on the top of her neck and push the hand upwards, so not to squeeze the neck, but as if you are raising her face(very very carefully, so she can still breathe but barely,)…
/r/seduction06/10/14 06:28 AM
2

i don't know if i would tell her directly that you are a computer programmer Nowadays with computer programming industry being seen as lucrative, you could possibly be pushed into a "provider" frame just like doctors/lawyers etc etc I personally would answer but not literally like, "I film and code the pornos you see every night"
/r/seduction06/10/14 06:22 AM
1

can i ask what happened. sorry i need to satiate my curiosity
/r/seduction05/10/14 11:44 PM
1

This is kinda off topic but generally the longer the interaction the less likely she is to flake you.... just a thought. but gratz !
/r/seduction05/10/14 10:29 PM
2

Keep escalating more and more and then push her into sex and then proceed to tell her that she needs to sleep with you or stop wasting your time without proceeding to connect with her That way if you do get sex, 1. you got laid. 2. you can tell her it was unsatisfying therefore reject her like that If she doesn't approve of the sex, then 1. she rejected herself 2. you have no guilt since she rejected herself
/r/seduction05/10/14 10:25 PM
1

"Have your sister join" jk And yes. Time is of the essence. Especially since you only have 4 weeks
/r/seduction05/10/14 08:49 PM
1

/r highseddit
/r/seduction05/10/14 03:55 PM
2

Show intent off the bat. Escalate ASAP. Try and isolate her as much as possible. proceed to f uck like bunnies
/r/seduction05/10/14 03:54 PM
1

Do you want to sleep with her?
/r/seduction05/10/14 03:32 PM
1

Social calibration is called social calibration for a reason. Not all girls are the same. Therefore field experience is the key and you must continue to try and escalate as much as possible without fucking it up. THat's the key.
/r/seduction05/10/14 05:40 AM
2

THIS THIS THIS OP You shoulda put her hand on your dick holy shet that would've changed the entire f ucking night for you
/r/seduction05/10/14 05:37 AM
1

what exactly...do you want to accomplish? Do you want her to be DTF? Or want a LMR?(Which in this case I beleive you are) Then gradually escalate (seeing as how you've known her for a while) and ask her if she wants to do ____ with you. That's it. From then on apply the Brad Pitt rule and that's pretty much yes or no
/r/seduction05/10/14 05:13 AM
5

I personally find that things that aren't stated but gradually infered upon are more powerful. Like you don't necessarily tell her "let's kiss" but rather gradually angle your face and move your face closer to her while looking at her lips and then her eyes and slowly tilt your head for that angle. =) really good to fill those voids in coversation
/r/seduction04/10/14 03:23 PM
0

stay classy.
/r/seduction01/10/14 03:41 AM
2

Then when do you have time for pickup?
/r/seduction01/10/14 03:09 AM
4

Start with cold approach with anonymity. In college starting cold approach CAN have an affect on your social life if you're labeled as "that guy" that approaches literally every semi-decent chick. Much better to learn and practice in places that offer anonymity such as malls, high traffic events/parks, etc. Then once you sorta get the hang of it, move onto actual social game, because in college you do have a lot of the side effects such as having to maintain "social circle game" and such. I actu…
/r/seduction01/10/14 01:19 AM
1

Just curious why didn't you ask to "use her restroom" when you were dropping her off?
/r/seduction30/09/14 02:42 PM
1

Yes. But it's sort of a last resort. you can either polarize strongly using heavy negs such as "let's break up you're boring for me" which in turn creates drama Or you can use a passive neg like, you slowly reduce time with her to cause her to want you more again. if you want to play safe, find a way to enjoy eachother's company such as dance class or something
/r/seduction30/09/14 05:38 AM
1

You can use what Alex calls a "Spark" basically what it does is that you can create drama by adding a spark of "neg" or polarization to your interaction, that way you can make it seem as if she doesn't have you even though you slept with her. Girls live for the relationship itself, so don't let her have you so easily. Don't "sell out" too easy
/r/seduction29/09/14 04:08 PM
1

Sounds good mate
/r/seduction29/09/14 04:02 PM
1

You're being way too direct By directly referring to the sex before you even meet up, you are getting her to see the ending of the movie before you even see the middle. Same thing on a date(or whatever this meetup is) You can sort of imply it, and be honest about it if she asks about it directly, but never flat out tell her right away that you're going to a hotel right away unless that girl is really looking DTF. Don't get me wrong i think it's great that you are opening straight up about your i…
/r/seduction29/09/14 03:59 PM
1

Build social momentum https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpBSriWqUYU
/r/seduction29/09/14 03:53 PM
1

I mean if she lives alone then it should be no problem at her place..right?
/r/seduction29/09/14 03:52 PM
1

It's only needy if you think it's needy. Although tbh the logistics are always best at your place(own controlled environment) but that's not a bad plan.
/r/seduction29/09/14 03:46 PM
1

I wouldn't know. I'm sure you know her schedule better than me but usually its best to give a reasonable time window so she can make logistics work as well. But your choice
/r/seduction29/09/14 03:27 PM
0

give this man a medal
/r/seduction29/09/14 03:00 PM
1

meet in real life. limit your texting texting only continues to give her validation keep validating her at a minimum while giving it to her when she complies
/r/seduction29/09/14 02:52 PM
-1

Be honest.show intent. Everyone woman that is married has affairs at one point or another Ask her to "hang out" See: http://img0.joyreactor.com/pics/post/woman-marriage-single-1250113.jpeg
/r/seduction29/09/14 02:43 PM
1

ask her out..??
/r/seduction29/09/14 02:38 PM
2

vin di carlo escalation ladder
/r/seduction28/09/14 02:39 PM
3

dude like that's me every day. - _- just move on. There are always an infinite supply of better girls that's what i think of
/r/seduction28/09/14 03:36 AM
1

Use the brad pitt rule: If she doesn't suggest an alternative then drop her.
/r/seduction26/09/14 12:44 AM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zawPdTQ-Bg8&list=UU66gDMMJsOmFsRaneAlfSGg Not sure if that is the exact video. But his videos in general have a lot of tips on closing. Good luck!
/r/seduction20/09/14 08:15 PM
1

Every situation is different. Just make sure that you gradually escalate, for reference see: Vin Di Carlo Escalation Ladder. I mean if you already made out with her then it's pretty straightforward, but you want to make sure that you make her gradually warm up to you again. A good technique that I often employ is that when I'm making out with the girl intensely, i'll suddenly pull away from her and tell her "You suck at making out, i bet you're horrible in bed too." But then reintiate the make o…
/r/seduction20/09/14 08:08 PM
3

Use the "it's not sex" method by Julien haha Basically, tell her "it's not sex" aka "I'm just turned on" and then put her hand down there, and have her stroke it for you. Then gradually let everything fall in to place.
/r/seduction20/09/14 08:03 PM
1

Get comfortable. Put on some decent perfume. Enjoy the night
/r/seduction20/09/14 08:00 PM
1

Pretty amateur mistake. i have one girl with that exact situation that you're telling me about lol. What i've done is use a neg in order to get her to qualify herself, and slightly push over on the edge. What I did specifically was in class, i indirectly insulted her assescory, with other classmates listening lol. Needless to say, she did not seem happy to see my face after class lol. But generally this is one of the last resorts I have because using these kinds of "sparks" to kindle the flame c…
/r/seduction20/09/14 04:07 AM
1

ABE Always be escalating ABC Always be closing What do you want? FWB?LTR? Depending on what you want you should decide what the premise of your approach is. Not that you actually have to always know in the beginning before you bed her, but generally it would bet better if you had a rough idea. Tbh the fastest escalation options generally lead to FWB or less, (high risk high reward) while slower escalation generally leads to less risk(more stagnation) and generally moves toward a more "comfort ap…
/r/seduction19/09/14 07:55 PM
1

Was talking about approach in general. haha
/r/seduction19/09/14 07:52 PM
1

Not often. The most unattractive act of a woman is to be perceived as desiring a guy who does not desire her. Therefore 99% of girls will not be the one to initiate a conversation/text you first or else she seems to be looking desperate. Unless she really really wants you, in which then she will be using an excuse to perhaps signal you. For example: Do you know what the time is? Asking for directions. etc etc Therefore you should always assume initial attraction and approach first.
/r/seduction19/09/14 04:27 PM
1

THank you :)
/r/seduction18/09/14 11:19 PM
1

Thank you for your great tips =)
/r/seduction18/09/14 06:27 PM
34

The other day, a girl who i approached (who i am now friends with) told me that I am very attractive, but I just need to stop selling myself/trying so hard.(She had a boyfriend unfortunately) She said, "Let the girls come to you" Angry and being the pathetic self I was, i blew her off that night. But thanks to you i finally realize what she meant. Thank you for writing this article. If i had the financial capacity to, I really would have given you gold. Your post is truly deserving of the gold. …
/r/seduction18/09/14 06:23 PM
1

haha thanks XD
/r/seduction16/09/14 10:46 PM
1

hahaha i don't take it personally =))) Perhaps i should tone down the grooming and stuff? Although to be honest i'm not that financially well off to be wearing anything fancy. Most of my setup is a solid t-shirt and black pants $15 from H&M and 15$shoes from a company called Call it Spring....I'm pretty frugal i think :) but i mean i totally can understand that outgoing asian guys can seem douchey because i or other asian guys could be. Although i think racial profiling has to do with that mostl…
/r/seduction16/09/14 08:44 PM
8

You're just thinking about your past self. I've made the change too recently and still remember my past as if it was yesterday. Personally for me though, I was a natural ->succumbed to beta -> working back to my alpha self again. People are not what they are born with. People are what they choose to be. Personas are simply a result of the mask that you put on that you envision yourself to be, simply like the clothes you are used to. If you put on a lab coat for the past 40 years, and you stop we…
/r/seduction16/09/14 07:10 PM
4

Alex and TOdd
/r/seduction16/09/14 06:37 PM
1

Usually for the most part I only approach the attractive one's and god knows that there aren't many attractive one's in local community colleges....(lol) They seem to usually bring up the boyfriend as they are talking about themselves, usually when I'm asking about them questions such as, "What do you do for fun?" and they tell me " blah blah blah, sometimes spending time with my boyfriend and friends, etc etc." Uh if asking for numbers is wrong then what kind of approach should I take? Because …
/r/seduction16/09/14 06:27 PM
1

Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction16/09/14 12:42 PM
1

To be honest I'm not exactly sure how I "leave them" At the very least I leave them entertained and/or perhaps a bit intimidated because quite a few of them give me the boyfriend excuse (or that's their way of rejecting me) (lol) But uhm i don't know if it's just my style or the way i learned pick up that I usually give the girls a confrontational "give me your number" kinda thing for the close which I can see that can be perceived as a little bit intimidating for girls that are in college(i do …
/r/seduction16/09/14 12:41 PM
1

Tbh im a freshman in college And so that's pretty much why i'm a little bit concerned but. Thank you for your confident support =)))
/r/seduction16/09/14 06:21 AM
1

im so dumb >_<"
/r/seduction14/09/14 04:32 PM
1

what do you usually say?
/r/seduction14/09/14 03:58 PM
2

I just want to say thanks so much for your advice :) I will try my best to try and reflect on what you've told me. >_<"
/r/seduction14/09/14 03:57 PM
2

I love you man ;( but thing is.... tbh my very first girlfriend actually cheated on me with another guy and so i actually have this sort of trauma kind of thing where I couldn't think of myself doing the same kind of thing to another guy (if he exists) Also, why is it that they all say that they have boyfriends yet choose to give me interest/chance? I don't understand that logic...
/r/seduction14/09/14 06:41 AM
1

well tbh its happening frequently..
/r/seduction14/09/14 06:25 AM
1

google drive
/r/seduction12/09/14 02:13 PM
1

I'd be fine with a LTR with or just fucking her....Either is fine. what do you think? And we live in a 2 bed apartment..100% sure can't bring her here
/r/seduction12/09/14 05:30 AM
1

Father is typical religious father that doesn't approve of sex until marriage Are you saying i should be more confrontational and cut to the chase?
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:57 AM
2

really good post thanks!
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:24 AM
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