Hi guys, I've been lurking here for a while. I walked into this restaurant a few days ago and ordered some food to go from the bar. Was just making small talk with the cute young bartender, and suddenly started feeling like we were enjoying ourselves. I kinda accidentally made a joke about her being a sexy character from a movie. She was surprised and seemed to open up more. I think this is what you refer to when talking about uping the kino. I made a crucial mistake though and didn't know how to get her digits and close. Seemed like she wanted me to.

I came back on seddit and found some tips on asking for the number and saying, 'it was nice talking to you, we should do it again sometime.'

So i wait 2 days and went back into the restaurant. I know you guys always say to just start talking to girls and get experience. I went in, and felt totally nervous, stuttering and high pitched voice. I knew she could tell, and it was pitiful because she was being xtra nice. Seemed like she felt bad for me. I mentioned a place where we could talk, and she smiled and said i could leave her my number. So i did., then walked out frustrated and angry. Once i got outside i just started laughing at myself. I did it. I asked a random girl out. May have failed stupendously, and maybe I'll be making jokes about it if she actually calls me. At least I got some experience. Next failure will probably be less catastrophic.