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This is terrible advice, if I heard “damn that sucks” after opening up to a guy I’d be turned off. A better response is “I’m sorry you’re going through that, if there’s anything I can do to help you let me know, im here for you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:59 AM
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It isn’t drilled into female nature, hypergamy is present in women that need to be hypergamous. Women who have status on their own don’t need to be therefor have no reason to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:57 AM
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It’s a new world. I’m a woman who’s terrified of marriage in fear I’ll be having to pay alimony if one of us decides to end the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:56 AM
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I think it’s because he’s essentially a cartoon character and nobody considers him to be a real human being who is expected to act a certain way. Personally I don’t care for him or his culture, he’s a joke in my eyes and the metoos are reserved for men who are taken seriously in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:56 PM
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Don’t know what you’re talking about. Don’t think I care either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:32 PM
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Please point me to where the official definition of femininity is being obedient and submissive. Not sure what country you’re from, but I’m from America. We don’t run that way here. You’re not the center of the world, your opinions don’t mean anything to anybody and they certainly aren’t facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:43 PM
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You associate femininity with obedience and submissiveness but it does not mean that all other men make this specific association. Some men find femininity in a “lady boss” type of woman who takes orders from nobody. Only redpilled men think like you do, and plenty of men are not RP, some men even prefer to be the submissive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:22 PM
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They were absolutely right though. They understood my comment and you didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:40 PM
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You misunderstood. I don’t want to be provided for, but if I’m providing for a man, I don’t need his red pilled ass pretending like he’s the one providing for the sake of his own ego. If he does do this, I’ll resent him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:39 PM
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You claim that women cannot be trusted yet you’re lecturing me about how I look down on men? For the most part I respect men the same way I respect women, but to be completely honest with you, comments like yours are the reason why women are having less respect for men by the day. Your comment comes across as a deluded tantrum IMHO. So many of us women make more than our male counterparts but the looking down on men comes into play when we make more yet you still demand to be above us, solely be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:31 PM
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Do you mind elaborating? And what do you mean by “having” to be feminine? Why would anyone have to be anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:29 PM
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In what aspect?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:27 PM
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If it works for you both, then it sounds like a very nice relationship dynamic, and I hope that it happily lasts forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:27 PM
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[since there’s been some misunderstanding of my comment I’ll make it more clear: I’m open to dating a man that makes less money than me but I’m not open to dating a man that makes less than me but still demands to appear as the one in power, and this is why I have resented redpilled men that I’ve dated.] I’ve only dated red pilled men and I have a close relationship with my father. The problem is that I end up resenting these men because they act like they’re in charge when I make more money tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:27 PM
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Statistics also show that most Americans are obese. Does that mean most Americans think the dream is obesity or does it mean theyre using food to cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:55 PM
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I truly don’t mean this as an insult at all, just sheer educational curiosity, do you write in r/autism because you’re autistic? I spend a lot of time in PPD and have noticed a trend of a lot of users that engage with me to have autism. I’m wondering what the correlation may be between autism and the interest in PPD, also wondering what the social reasons may be as to why many autistic men seem to be misogynistic online. If you have any thoughts I’d be interested to hear your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:43 PM
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I don’t know him personally, you caught me. I’m entitled to my opinion, sorry that it insulted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:11 AM
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So chase 20 year olds forever if that’s what you’re forever attracted to. Some people will be in a different societal realm and think that lifestyle is delusional and a sign of failure in your own twenties, and it’s their right to believe so, but as long as your happy who cares. It’s your right to do so and my right to judge you and assume that you avoid women you can relate to out of pain instead of pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:57 AM
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Men and women both have buttholes. That’s where the stats raise. Straight people do anal too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:16 AM
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Yeah, they did. Now you just sound dumb. Leave me alone “Cut men may have a reduced risk of contracting some sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like genital herpes. They’re also 50 to 60 percent less likely to contract human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) from female partners.” Link: https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/circumcised-vs-uncircumcised
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:05 AM
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Your chances are 50 to 60 percent higher than cut men according to healthline
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:55 AM
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How are you gonna fight off your UTIs when your HIV killed all your CD4 cells
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:42 AM
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Oh many have, many will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:40 AM
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It’s hard to imagine because I’m not familiar with female mutilation. Were you circumcised in a place where it was normal and then moved to a place where it wasn’t so it became a source of shame for you? I can imagine the pain in that and I feel for you. I would argue though that for how normal it is in America, many men would feel shame in their lack of circumcision. I’ve had this talk with girl friends at one point, none of us have seen an uncircumcised penis, and it would be foreign and possi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:29 AM
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Circumcised men seem to be perfectly happy with their dicks and how they work. Having had sex with circumcised men I don’t see them having any issues reaching orgasm. Even if not intense as it could be I don’t see these men claiming they’ve been robbed of pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:26 AM
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We get it, you think Jews are culty. Now talk about why millions of non religious parents choose to circumcise their baby. What cult are they subscribing to? Doing what doctors told them is best for their baby? What’s their other option exactly? Most parents just want a healthy baby and most people seek professional medical advice to achieve that. I’m not saying they’re right or wrong but people are just people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:23 AM
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why do you feel that circumcising men fucks up their whole sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:11 AM
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If their standards get them nowhere they’ll settle eventually. No effort required. If their standards get them what they desired amazing for them. The exact same can be said about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:07 AM
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“When weighing the pros and cons of circumcising your baby, the most clear-cut medical benefits of circumcision are a four- to 10-fold decrease in the risk of urinary-tract infections during the first year of life, and a three-fold reduction in the risk of penile cancer among adult men.” source “Cut men may have a reduced risk of contracting some sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like genital herpes. They’re also 50 to 60 percent less likely to contract human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:03 AM
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Penile cancer can be prevented from circumcision while there’s no medical benefits to cutting parts off of baby girls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:55 AM
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Holy shit there’s a whole group of you who post on Reddit about this. Please explain the passion to me, I really want to understand. Are the people for this cause people who have been circumcised themselves, or are they people who haven’t been?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:52 AM
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Considering that a quick google search can explain the health benefits I’d argue that many parents choose circumcision for the health of their child. Jews are not the only people to do this. In America it’s become a norm for baby boys in general. Been with plenty of non Jewish men. All circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:50 AM
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What’s the obsession? You even have a post about how Jews need to come together and stop circumcising. Vast majority of circumcised men aren’t Jews. It decreases the risk of penile cancer. What’s the problem? I mean this with all due respect, but do you happen to just be an uncircumcised man who was insulted by a woman about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:47 AM
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What lol I’m accustomed to circumcised dicks because that’s what there is where I live. I’ve been with a good amount of men Jewish or not and never came across a sock dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:43 AM
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I’m an American, and a Jew, so you’re fighting the wrong person on this one. Just remember that it happens when men are babies. Girlfriends and wives don’t nag their partner to get circumcised. You make it sound like it’s the choice of grown women for the sake of attraction. It’s ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:39 AM
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Uncircumcised penises just aren’t as clean. You don’t need to demonize women for what medical professionals have deemed to be true. Ever heard of smegma? My male dog had it once and it was disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:31 AM
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It doesn’t take a relative to know that he, like most others in power and public eye as we’ve all seen, have a deathly fear of appearing less than relevant. A young thing on his arm will get him in the magazines faster than a normal relationship ever could. The public loves to see weird stupid shit. And he loves to be seen. Why the hell else would someone pursue fame?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:26 AM
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You didn’t need to make your bio “autistic misogynist” for us all to know this information
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:21 AM
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Is this really flirting though? She may just be personable. Some women, and men for that matter, have a way of appearing extremely interested in just about everyone. It’s a characteristic that I envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:56 AM
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He only dates younger women because each year he gets older and less attractive than he once was. His appearance was always his greatest strength and without it he would be lost entirely. As he loses what he has identified with all his life he seeks to grasp onto youth in hopes that if he is with young women perhaps their youth will rub onto him and he won’t have to face the sheer fact that there are new movie stars who are better looking than him and have careers ahead of them that will last lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:47 AM
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Men care more about women’s appearances than their personalities therefor care more that their children’s mother is hot than a good mother. Get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:57 PM
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For all the hate on young Pete, there’s biological reasons why he’s attractive to many. At least this is my theory. It’s said that men often are attracted to blonde women because they have a skin tone that allows for the clearer visibility of diseases and health beneath the eyes. Pete Davidson has Crohn’s disease which effects the eyes and can give a thinning skin appearance directly below. This allows for greater transparency towards diseases and such transparency is attractive by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:53 PM
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Who says she’s has abandonment issues? Can easily name you 5 other reasons she may be that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:42 PM
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Agreed which is why in many ways I deeply feel for these people and don’t wish to put them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:57 PM
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In person. 2 guys I know from high school and 2 from college openly post and repost content that is openly incel culture such as NXP content etc., they theme their social media around the culture, I wouldn’t call it doxxing themselves, they’re not letting anybody in on apart of them that isn’t already clear from their personalities, and there’s nothing illegal about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:56 PM
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Of the incels I know and I know a few who really identify as so, I’d say at least 1/3 are relatively good looking. I think a far more common theme than unattractiveness, from what I’ve seen, is having had endured childhood bullies. The kids that were picked on were never really picked on for being ugly, usually it was their anti social behaviors that made people call them weird, or having anger issues that made people egg on their explosions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:08 PM
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I don’t really agree with this. Personally i don’t go for guys that I think is being chased by a bunch of other women. If I wanted to enter a competition I’d dip hot dog buns in water
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:53 PM
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IMO, height on men can be similarly spoken about as butts on women. It’s not about the size per say but more the proportions in total. I’m 5’4 and would happily date a man 2-3 inches shorter but only if he is relatively lean. If he is bulky, whether that be in muscle or fat, I’ll likely feel he’s unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:39 PM
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I’ve never judged a woman for having casual sex but have absolutely judged a woman for having unsafe casual sex. Whether you’ve had sex with 5 people or 100, I don’t care, but if you pretend like STDs don’t exist, I think you’re generally gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:52 PM
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If she’s young and rich she’s not gonna want or need your saggy balls and loud breathing. And you just admitted that in the end it is to your benefit to have a family. Get real before it’s too late. It’s all fun and games until you realize that you’ve been lied to, that men who avoid building a family out of wanting to have fun are the men who do not have happy endings. Your body count will mean nothing when you leave. How many hot girls you slept with will be meaningless to even you. In the end…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:27 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:51 PM
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Because one day you’ll be an old fuck and none of the bimbos you had sex with will care about you enough to take care of you. You’ll die alone without a family to carry on your legacy and nobody will care that you’re gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:51 PM
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So you’re saying that having boyfriends is what’s stopped men from wanting to be my friend? It does make some sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:42 PM
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I’m 24F and never had a male friend. Would love to know why. I’ve had plenty of boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:29 PM
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I’m wondering what motif women would have lying about it though, especially on Reddit where the things we say can’t possibly enhance our IRL appearances. It might be that we as women were fed this idea all our lives that men would cut off their left leg to have a chance with us and they feel the need to lie because the fact that men aren’t constantly obsessed with them makes them feel flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:21 PM
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So is you jerking it to women you view as mentally defected kinda like how Americans love taking home a puppy that’s missing a leg? My point here is that I think there’s something predatorily flawed about the concept of you jerking your dick off to women that you boast about as mentally ill. If they’re so mentally ill than you should feel guilty for taking advantage of people that are too fucked in the brain to know better than to get naked for strangers. Personally I don’t watch porn because I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:17 PM
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OP hates sex workers but is addicted to masturbating to them and falls in love with one on his journey. How romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:31 PM
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Believe it or not, some men aren’t desperate enough to have to ignore morale.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:29 PM
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I find that I get approached almost never when doing errands or just walking around but at bars and parties I’d say it’s almost guaranteed to happen. For the most part I believe women about it on here. There’s plenty of guys that approach every woman in the room until he gets lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:24 PM
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Why? Because I’m no longer an immature teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:44 PM
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I agree. But my point was that I think it’s a rarity to find a woman that genuinely feels she should contribute nothing. Sure they exist but I think this type over woman is over-represented. My mom was one of these women. IMO, you can tell she will be like this before marrying her. You have to be smart about how you vet. The surest way to do so is to consider what she values about herself. If she clearly thinks her appearance is her greatest attribute you should believe her and believe that she’…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:33 PM
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Disagreed. I used to find bad boys sexy from ages 16-22. Now I’m 24 and have just matured. Let people live. Not everything requires therapy. Some things just require experiencing and learning from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:20 PM
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This tiktok sounds irrelevant to real life. Most women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:02 PM
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Don’t care if my bf watched it as long as he was tasteful about it. Keep it out of my thoughts and don’t let it effect your perspective on sex, your expectations of me and dont have erectile dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:14 AM
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You’re right, it’s a stupid conclusion. When I really think about it I think it comes down to the fact that I’ve been sleeping with selfish men. I’m not sure age changes this in people unfortunately. I also think there’s a culture issue. Men have been socialized to believe their orgasm is the only orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:51 PM
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Guys suck at sex all around because guys think porn is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:29 AM
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Who says I need to be a male to be an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:25 AM
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I’m an engineer who lives alone and works an extra night shift to finish paying off my college loans. I am already serious. Recently was talking a 31 year old who texted me all day during the week about sex. I told him that I’m seeking someone who’s more serious about their own life and blocked his number.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:04 PM
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Because by that age they should be getting serious with their lives. Not interested in a Peter Pan douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:00 PM
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Sounds like you have no experience with women honestly. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:59 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:47 PM
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I’m 24, wouldn’t look at a man over 29-30. Why? Because guys who are older than 30 and are interested in a girl my age are fucking losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:46 PM
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By telling her that I’m into her, that I’m nervous about coming on too strongly, and telling her directly that I have interest and if she wants to proceed in things then to make it clear to me so I can confidently pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:42 PM
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It’ll end in “no, I don’t want to kiss you.” That’s rejection. If you just kiss her and she didn’t want it, that’s assault. There’s a difference. Women are entitled to reject men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:24 AM
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Eh I’d argue they do actually. Women who don’t care about pregnancy and STDs have low standards for themselves and what they do in life. But it’s really rare to find someone that genuinely doesn’t care what happens to their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:21 AM
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You’re worried about being a creep but you’re also worried about asking a woman if she wants to be intimate with you or not? Your problem isn’t gender issues. Your problem is yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:41 AM
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Why is it a guessing game when you can just ask her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:22 AM
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In the end I feel like 8.5/10 people settle, and I don’t think it’s gender exclusive either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:00 AM
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Ok, I’ll “explain that shit” Has she had enough time to know you are a good human? Have you spoken a lot about interests, have you displayed to her that you care about her, have you given her reasons to trust you and has she shown you clear signs that she’s romantically interested in you? If yes, then ask her if you can kiss her the first time. If no, then stfu. Guys act like creeps then cry about how they’re called creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:15 AM
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Women are significantly more likely to contract one. You can’t be the victim in every situation. “Studies have established that women have a higher biological risk for contracting STIs and HIV than men, with a higher probability of transmission from men to women than vice versa.” Source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2563883/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:04 AM
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You’re so off. Women will refrain from casual sex with men who they want to earn the respect of. They’ll give casual sex to men who they don’t care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:55 AM
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Casual sex is risky for women (pregnancy, STDs) therefor she just wants to make it worth it. Men have less risk involved therefor can afford to have lower standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:02 AM
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Frankly if TRP men didn’t exist, women would feel safer. Americans find it repulsive to eat meat of animals that we keep as house pets. By nature, human beings are less likely to hurt things that they can see a soul within and have a connection to. TRP views women as less capable, less intelligent, less reasonable, less human. If they want to try and fail miserably at their self fulfilling prophesy of treating women like shit, only being able to get shit women as a result, then claiming women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:57 PM
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Sure but I’d argue it’s similar to how everyone and their mom is on an anti depressant when half of these people would be cured with a better diet, exercise and a reason to want to get up in the morning But both anti depressants and hormonal birth control are being sold to the public like it’s car insurance. IMO, if the idea of medication is being brought to you rather than you seeking it out, there’s a big moral issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:04 PM
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I do think it is predatorial to use a persons insecurity and need for validation for your own benefit, especially in terms of sex. But I also feel that ultimately it is our responsibility as adults to look out for ourselves and watch out for signs of being used. It is hard to feel bad for men or women that are used for sex when the scenario is that they only had sex because they thought the other wanted more. I’d argue prostitution is different. It is one thing to use a persons need for validati…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:01 PM
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Honestly, you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:52 PM
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What kind of mental gymnastics was necessary to find men being the victim of this exact act? Men do this to women every single day. Men see a woman who’s insecure and jump on the chance to pump and dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:51 PM
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Still sounds like resentment. Do you perhaps see escorts and feel angry that society thinks you’re a loser for it? There’s nothing wrong with billy seeing escorts, people judge him for it because it likely means he’s unable to get free action. Personally I think it’s just exploiting women that have no other option in one of the cruelest forms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:06 AM
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Posts like this have ruined this sub. We get it, you think women should save themselves for Billy. Can we talk about something that doesn’t revolve around resentment now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:49 AM
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Birth control wasn’t merely “introduced” - it’s given to little girls now. 12 year old girls are taking it for acne. I see ads for trendy BC monthly care packages such as the “pill club” - it’s a full fledge business, not a mere option, and we should be wondering why. The obvious answer is money but it clearly goes deeper. I agree with the commenter, it is an act to intentionally dismantle the American family. IMO, this is to, over time, disperse inheritance money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:46 AM
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As a little girl the only Disney movie I could tolerate was beauty and the beast, in which the gorgeous girl falls for a hideous literal animal. The rest bored me, the female characters were too weak, soft spoken and stupid and it felt unrealistic since my mom was always loud and obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:06 AM
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Disagreed. As a woman I’ve found that the more attractive I find a man to be the less I am willing to initiate. Obviously there’s a greater risk for rejection but ultimately it comes down to being disinterested in competition and seeking out a sense of feeling valued. Some women may want to play the competition game with one another but I don’t believe this to be the majority of women. I don’t want to have to be compared in his head to the other beautiful woman he has a chance with. I’d rather b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:00 PM
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Happens often. It’s really sad too because I’ll really like someone and then they’ll just ruin it by saying something that didn’t need to be said. Can think of many examples from the past. And I admit, it can be pretty unpredictable to know what will and won’t turn a woman off. Once a guy came into my apartment, I was ready to hook up with him and then he said “nice place, do you pay your own rent?” For whatever reason, I was completely turned off and never hung out with him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:58 PM
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I’d argue that those who claim everybody else needs therapy should go to therapy to learn how to tolerate peoples viewpoints that aren’t in line with their own. You seem like a hateful extremist yourself with a lot of pent up anger. This sub is for debating, if you wanted an echo chamber you came to the wrong place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:45 AM
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My ex and I went on a walk for our first date and it was the best date of my life. What helped with the effort aspect was that he said multiple times that he wishes he took me to dinner instead. Nothing wrong with throwing that line in if you’re interested in them. And in that case, take them to dinner for date #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:23 AM
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Women don’t select for the most attractive men. They select men that make them feel heard, loved, safe and understood. You can’t be completely hideous but I’d argue you just have to pass a certain threshold to get a date with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:19 AM
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Perhaps we’d all be better off if we stopped seeking fairness and started seeking happiness instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:16 AM
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To make it clear then, if a man says that he’s happily unmarried you think he is lying? Telling a woman that not everything is about women’s oppression doesn’t make you seem like any less of a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:10 AM
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You said when “people” say this but I’d bet anything you meant when “women” say this, if you want to play dumb go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:57 AM
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I have a few questions out of pure curiosity but none of it is my business so feel free to ignore: do any of your or her friends/family say that you shouldn’t be together? Does she have any diagnosed mental illnesses such as borderline personality disorder? Does she have a good relationship with her father? If you’re so happy together, how do you know another young girl wants you? Do you flirt with other women still? What’s your end goal with this girl? Marriage and kids? Marriage at all? Break …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:41 AM
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No it wouldn’t bother me. My parter is entitled to not want to do things, even if they had done them in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:17 PM
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It’s considered youth when it’s too young to order a beer. What a creep. Brain isn’t even fully developed until 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:02 PM
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Did you know there’s a term for people who fetishize youth? It’s called pedophiles. There are well adjusted men who would prefer to date a woman that is an age where the relationship between them is appropriate. The fact that you’d rather her look youthful than have things in common with her makes you a creep who uses women for an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:41 PM
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I’m 24, so as much as you wish I was an older woman who’s angry I can’t get old dudes like yourself, you’re wrong. Your comment is extremely easy to dissect. You weren’t able to get girls when you were young and you drowned in bitterness because you had to take rejection everyday, likely in several areas of life (why else would your ego still be so low that you feel the need to tell strangers about how you have multiple young women who want you) and now you’re desperately trying to recover your …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:38 PM
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Idk, when I was 14 I dated someone who was also 14, was I a pedo? Moron
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:00 PM
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Lmao it’s a very niche sub, but I guess I can’t blame your take considering I don’t know your life problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:59 PM
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As I said, plenty of women don’t care about getting married or having kids. This info meant nothing. We all know majority of men and women want families. Plenty don’t. We’re all tired of the lies about all women wanting a family and settling on a man just to have one. Women don’t care enough about having a family to settle for a loser anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:40 PM
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You created a chat for r/menleavesickwives and didn’t even get a single member. I think you have enough problems. Give yourself a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:38 PM
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Where’d you get that information lol. From your ass? And, may I ask why you want to push this concept as true? Does it being true benefit you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:28 PM
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Sex workers can’t feed their ego. If they know they had to pay for it they don’t get the satisfaction of knowing she chose him above other men to have sex with. Also, you think she’s lying because you’re a misogynist. You believe women base their own worth on if they are or aren’t married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:26 PM
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Like pedophilia, shallow morale, an unrealistic perception on women, narcissism and childhood trauma and/or resentment involving women, emotional underdevelopment, lack of intellectual development and inability to plan ahead in life causing downfall down the road. Happy to explain any of the above further.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:22 PM
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Yes. That gender stereotypes are pushed by angry lonely people to help them cope with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:27 PM
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If she’s a true Stacy and he’s a true Chad it’s unlikely they work together considering their different interests and skill sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:22 PM
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The only people who believe women have a hard time after 30 are men who have had a hard time all their lives and continue having a hard time. The idea of women over 30 having it harder than men in the dating scene is a myth made up by men who are angry that women have the advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:53 PM
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It’s a myth that all women are desperate for marriage and kids. Plenty of women don’t care about these things and that number is growing at alarming speed. Millions of women don’t mind being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:52 PM
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He might not have a problem dating 20 year olds but if he’s 40 dating someone who’s 20 he has some other problems … A billionaire also doesn’t have a problem affording heroin but that doesn’t make it a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:48 PM
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In my experience cheaters tend to tell you about their cheating past and practically warn you of their tendencies. A guy once told me “I’m in therapy because I kinda get sick of a girl after 9 months or so. I cheated on my exes around that time.” He said this on our first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:22 AM
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I promise you that less than 1% of women choose their job just to be around men they “fancy” Believe it or not women go to work to work, not to flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:04 PM
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I’m 24F from NYC, US. I’m conservative and non religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:50 PM
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My ex had a picture perfect family. Very sweet people, married parents, he was close with both. He still punched holes through my walls on a basis and emotional regulation was his greatest issue. I agree that it’s incredibly important for someone to know what a healthy relationship looks like and to have good emotional regulation but I think that your family background isn’t what can make or break this. And besides, sometimes knowing what a terrible relationship looks like can be as useful as kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:49 PM
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50% of women’s parents are divorced. Of those 50% I bet only 50% have good relationships with both parents. Now you’re at 25% of women. Of those 25%, only 25% will have minimal casual sex experience and good friendships. Do the math and you’re at 6% of women. Men, of those 6% of women, you’re lucky if .5% is into you. These standards won’t serve men well. It will make it too difficult to find a woman. Try caring more about her character than her parents character.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:46 PM
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My best advice I can give women dating is simple: if he doesn’t legitimately improve your life you are better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:55 PM
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All I found here was that “women prefer a slightly older age” and that men prefer youth - should I be looking at a different part of this study? That sentence meant virtually nothing in this conversation. Women preferring men who are slightly older doesn’t mean women prefer men who are over 40, it means they prefer men slightly older than themselves, whatever age they are. Men preferring youth also may just mean men prefer women younger than themselves. It doesn’t mean every man wants a 19 year …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:50 PM
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I personally know plenty of women and none of them seem to take on this submissive role you speak of. I’m from NYC, hbu? Our demographics might be the reason we’re disagreeing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:36 PM
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I disagree, the more experience we gain firsthand the more abstractly we’re able to view others for who they are today versus who they were years ago. We ourselves learn firsthand how we can change as we mature and until we learn this we have trouble seeing that ability in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:34 PM
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There are madonnas and there are whores but women are tired of being viewed as one or the other when they’re truly neither. The truth is most women lay somewhere between. It’s that simple, I don’t see why you’re trying to demonize this. Most men also lay somewhere between being a lonely virgin and being a douchebag player and it’s immature and unfair to view every man as either one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:32 PM
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If she has advantages in dating she gave them up when she got married as she’s no longer dating. So again I ask, if she works as much as him, what advantages does she have by being in this marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:20 PM
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If they both work the same amount, than what advantage does she even have ?????
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:02 PM
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Senseless take. You’re talking about a “traditional family” meanwhile OP said that the man and woman both work full time. If they work the same amount during the day then it’s absolute bafoonery to believe she should be putting more work in than him around the house at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:52 PM
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I don’t agree. I think that’s what the media tells us but I think that women still have more options at any age than men do. Most men don’t become wealthy silver foxes. Most men become balding lower to middle class citizens. Nobody wants to fuck a vast majority of men 40+ years old. Men, like women, are at their most desirable when they’re below 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:47 PM
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Sure this is the view when you’re 16-20. Past that, life experience helps you rid yourself of your Madonna whore complex and be able to look at human beings as more abstract beings than merely tame or wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:45 PM
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Where the fuck are these women that are even pretending?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:11 PM
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Sure, let me re phrase: secure men don’t find women making more than them to be a turn off. If they do it’s a major red flag to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:09 PM
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But if he’s in that position and wanting a family, I’m assuming he’s never been married or had a family of his own yet. At 40, that’s a massive red flag to a ton of women. IMO, if you’re a man or a woman and you haven’t had a family yet at 40, there’s a reason nobody wanted you and I’m not even gonna stick around to find out why. I know it sounds cruel but we have to keep it moving
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:06 PM
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Good one. If my spelling error is your response, you don’t have a response. Have a good night
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:07 AM
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Because I believe these men are in pain. If I can understand the source of their pain further, perhaps I can help them or at least not hurt them further than they are already hurting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:11 PM
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No, women haven’t actually gotten any confidence from their likes online. They’ve gotten dopamine rushes, there’s a difference. If anything Instagram has made women more insecure. Women who are secure with themselves don’t need to post their ass on Instagram all day to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:43 PM
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Agreed. In my experience, sometimes men think if they can just get the first date with you, they can convince you that their undesired quality that they lied about is something to look past. As if being a liar isn’t of the most unattractive things to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:33 PM
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Just because they call themselves feminist doesn’t mean they’re feminists at all. Feminism is so subjective. There are so many different types of beliefs within it. Many feminists clash terribly with one another in their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:19 PM
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I don’t need to “land” a man. For starts I’m attractive, but even if I wasn’t, men have low standards and in my experience, are far more willing to commit than the media makes it seem. Ive found men to be annoyingly willing to jump into a relationship, often times way too soon. Good luck with the whole misogyny bit. A woman who’s into it won’t have enough self respect to have an N count that you approve of.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:08 PM
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I hear you, but in today’s society, in the west at least, women have no need to be submissive, therefor aren’t pretending to be anymore, so men will need to adjust their expectations or be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:39 PM
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Whether you’re a man or a woman, if one would describe you as gullible and intellect not being your strong suit I am going to take that as you are stupid, but you’re right that it is up for interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:36 PM
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Patriarchies are manmade and are created off of sheer opinion of men being better suited for position of power. They are not created nor have ever been created off of any sort of “objective, demonstrable or historical” fact. History repeating itself does not mean that it should be repeated. Frankly you sound so unintelligent that your existence itself is proof that all men are not born leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:26 PM
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Maybe it’s biology, maybe it isn’t - nonetheless assertiveness is unattractive to me. Maybe I am an exception but based off of what I’ve seen and heard other women say, I’m not. What men think women want and what women want are quite different. Above anything I believe women want commitment and loyalty. Assertive men are not the most committed or the most loyal, by scientific fact. Men who have higher T levels are proven to cheat significantly more and as you said, commit more crimes. I’ve been …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:17 PM
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Never had trouble in dating. Intelligent men like intelligent women. Secure men like high earning women. Healthy men don’t want to be the center of a woman’s life. Men who don’t like intelligence, high earners and need to be the center of his woman’s life lack intelligence, confidence and have fragile egos. Sounds like you’re the ladder. Good luck, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:12 PM
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I don’t think anybody does, it’s typically just a male projection. Men love threatening women with the vision of us ending up alone with 16 cats. The truth is, men are the ones afraid of ending up alone, but they can’t let us know that. They like to make us believe past 30 women have no options. Women will always have more options than men at any age and at any point in life solely because of mens lower standards. Personally when I imagine myself entirely alone at age 65 with 20 cats, I smile. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:53 PM
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Perfectly said
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:49 PM
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Women don’t think this way at all. You have an extremely poor understanding of the female brain, it isn’t your fault, you’re just not a female. All women know that men have low standards for sex. We’ve all seen men hit on girls that are downright ugly. My friend and I were talking recently about how if you get hit on often when at a club it’s an embarrassment as it means you likely appear easy. Women of the highest worth don’t get hit on the most, because they’re intimidating, anything but easy …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:46 PM
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“Intellect isn’t her strong suit and she is a bit gullible.” Did you even read it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:43 PM
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I think that assertiveness in men is unattractive. Im not attracted to men that are so insecure that they need to follow stereotypes to feel worth something. Insecurity is ugly. If a man is upset that I make more money than him and views it as an unattractive quality, I think he is a loser with an overly fragile ego, the most unattractive quality a man can possess. Your opinion and mine are both our personal opinions. To say that “men are born to lead” is an opinion of yours that people today ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:42 PM
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Nothing wrong with being a bartender at all, but girl A was described as stupid, consumed with social media etc. - deleted my comment to not offend any women who are like that, but it’s just really pathetic at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:26 PM
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She’s worth more because she has more options. If man and woman are equal, woman will have significantly more options than him because men are less picky and women are far more picky. It’s just that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:55 PM
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I am, thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:51 PM
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I’m a 24 year old woman who’s a mechanical engineer. Would rather not get married at all than marry somebody whos career is as or more time consuming than my own. I don’t know any girls who are still stupid and boring enough to be a dumbass service worker waiting for her Prince Charming Wall Street douche to save her. I’m sure those girls exist but those girls are fucking gross, do you really want them? They’re the type to divorce you and take half of your life earnings. You’re better off with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:50 PM
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Name a single attribute that’s masculine about woman #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:46 PM
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Do you happen to use the terms “kink shame” and “sex positive” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:46 PM
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True. The post has a photo of the onlyfans logo at the top so I thought it was relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:52 AM
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It turns me off but not for the reasons you might think. I don’t like to be put on a pedestal by men. I liked it when I was younger but I realized how damaging it is long term. I’ve found that the most valuable people are those who do not seek novelty out of others but instead seek comfort. Love me because I make you comfortable. Don’t love me because I intimidate you. That’s not love. That’s lust. Besides, I’d rather pleasantly surprise someone regarding their expectations than never possibly b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:51 AM
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It’ll be damaging. How do I know this? Because I grew up hearing from people that my mom was a major slut in high school. Many of my friends heard it from their parents who went to school with her. It fucking sucked and it made me respect her less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:36 AM
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Yeah but your parents didn’t charge $9 monthly to see them shoving dildos up their ass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:34 AM
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I’m gonna speak for all women here and say we don’t care. Go be a stay at home mom. Feminism doesn’t make women “more like men” in any form. The only way to be more like a man is to get a dick sewed on your groin or to take testosterone. Anything beyond that has to do with the way genders are socialized, and if you think the genders are socialized correctly as is that’s your prerogative and I assure you nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:11 AM
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Yeah porns been shown to be harmful for brain development. I’m a woman who stopped watching porn because it was fucking with my perception on what sex should actually be.
/r/AntiFeminists25/11/21 04:19 AM
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Almost every point here is the sheer opposite of what feminists tell women. I think you have a poor understanding of feminists. Especially about porn and sex. Feminists don’t save themselves for their husbands. They dont believe in suppressing their own sexuality for men. And feminists tend to be very pro sex work. As a woman I think this is stupid but often times feminists believe that women choosing to exploit themselves equates to empowerment because it was their choice. I think you’re talkin…
/r/AntiFeminists25/11/21 04:17 AM
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I’m 24, 5’4 120lbs and used to be about 180lbs. I know what it’s like to be thin and I know what it’s like to be fat. I found that when I was fat I got more men hitting on me at bars and clubs. Probably because they thought I had less options and was more desperate thus would be an easier lay. However when I lost weight I did 100x better on dating apps. I got the same amount of matches but the quality of matches skyrocketed. There’s no chance in hell that the guys I dated after losing weight wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:25 AM
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What would you need a man below age 50 for anyway? They’re less mature than you, probably less established and probably have less than good intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:23 AM
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Idk man, I’m a woman that grew up poor and I’m not a liberal. They don’t own me. Women are the main beneficiaries because men pump and dump and leave women to take care of children alone so what other option do these women have then to vote for the people who will give them money? (Well, they do have other options. For starts don’t have kids with a loser.) Doesn’t mean these women are bleeding hearts though, it just means they need money to feed their kids and they know voting blue will be more …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:02 AM
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You believe “in” the gecko? So ur a capitalist? I am too. Who cares. We’re talking about genders, not us as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:38 AM
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Men are just as guilty as claiming to be progressive but behind closed doors are greedy capitalistic pigs. Today’s successful men claim to be progressive. Either because they think it’ll get them more business, are afraid of being cancelled, because they think it will get them laid or because they’re kinky misogynistic fucks that would rather stand on the side of sex work being legal because prostitutes are the only ones far enough from their social circle where they feel safe doing fucked up sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:33 AM
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Wow. Thanks for the link. As a woman I feel proud and powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:07 AM
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It’s your own problem for thinking that women are better people than men. Men aren’t nice to sensitive men either and women aren’t cookie baking therapists like they are in the movies. And frankly men not being able to be vulnerable without it being held against them is the result of men living in a men’s world. It’s ur own problem to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:59 PM
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What ? Can you back this one up?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:57 PM
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A woman can be both progressive and attracted to successful men though, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:56 PM
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That men care the most about impressing women. They don’t. They care more about impressing their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:55 PM
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I cannot afford to have sex with a person that I would not want a child with because I am a woman. I could get pregnant. All birth control methods can fail. Men have the luxury of thinking differently and don’t even acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:14 PM
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Sadly I don’t. I’m single and have been for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:12 PM
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Edit: stop asking me why I always think about if a man would be a good father and why I don’t enjoy casual sex instead. I’m a woman. Every time I have sex I could get pregnant so I can’t afford to have a different mindset. “Smoking hot guys” is funny. I won’t speak for all women but I know I’m not a rarity whatsoever in saying that a man is not legitimately hot until he proves himself as at bare minimum, an intellectual. Why do men consistently overlook the fact that ones personality has been pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:01 PM
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I’m not sure how being in your mid-40s means you know what women want. I’m a woman who’s 24. You’re almost twice my age yet have never lived a day with my genitals or my sexuality so I’d argue I’m a far superior judge than you on this. Ultimately if you’re in this sub you don’t know everything about the opposite gender. Why else would this sub intrigue you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:38 PM
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I agree with this and can think of a time where I personally saw a certain weakness in a man I was dating that I found to be unattractive so I will not argue
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:35 PM
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I don’t believe it is this simple. I believe you about the 1/3 of marriages having a dead bedroom statistic but I’m willing to bet that at least half of these marriages do not have a dead bedroom at no fault of the man. Women consistently complain that over time their husband begins to forget their birthday, lacks appreciation for the woman’s daily efforts, begins checking out younger women when they go out to dinner. Is it not fair to allow women who endure these behaviors from their husband to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:20 PM
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Absolutely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:16 PM
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Sure but id argue then that the traits women commonly desire are self explanatory. Everybody no matter their gender would like a partner who is kind, intelligent, loyal, thoughtful, generous, empathetic - but are these really the traits we seek out in partners or are these the traits we seek out in humans altogether for friendships as well? I’ve found that what I seek out in a friend is mostly what I seek in a partner as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:14 PM
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Do THEY know this for a fact or do YOU believe this based off of things that you’ve heard in the media? There are plenty of people in long term marriages with healthy sex lives, why don’t you check out my most recent post in the marriage sub asking what the point even is, over 100 comments, plenty of them men, saying that they married their best friend and are very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:00 PM
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The answer is no. I’m not sure if this sub is filled with young, immature boys that have never been outside before but to believe that all women want Chad is a lie told by incels so they can blame their height being the reason they don’t get women instead of having to consider that it may be because they don’t have a job, a decent personality or a clue on how to conduct themselves in public. It seems many men here would prefer to blame women for their own undesirability rather than seeking to im…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:48 PM
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As I got older and ventured out of my small town bubble I was sadly surprised by the conditions people subject themselves to. I’ve seen too many people living hoarder style.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:34 PM
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I didn’t know this was really a thing, personally I do not care what my exes are doing, and hardly ever do as little as seek out their social media profile. It’s not that I hate them, I just don’t see how they’re relevant to me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:19 PM
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Women’s intelligence level absolutely means something to men from my personal experience. Firstly, the “woman in distress” thing gets old to everybody. Nobody likes a woman who cannot figure out how to do simple tasks. Secondly, high intelligence is a positive genetic trait. Nobody wants to have stupid children. Third, it’s 2021. Women are making money. Lots of it. Plenty of men would love a woman who can contribute financially or even be the bread winner. This obviously takes some degree of int…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:51 PM
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“Try not to be horny in general” The more time I spend in this sub the stupider I become.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:06 AM
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Does heavily researched neuroscience bore you? Should people below the age of 18 go to jail for their crimes? Should third graders be able to drive? Or can we all agree that age and maturity are strongly correlated and that maturity associated with brain development effects ones ability to make safe decisions. I’m a 24 year old woman who was once a 20 year old woman, a 15 year old girl and so on. I can assure you that a 21 year old girl is far easier to take advantage of than a 24 year old and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:53 AM
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I don’t particularly value romantic relationships but once in a blue moon you will come across a person that makes you feel reborn, curious, excited and grateful that every bad thing in your life has happened because it lead you to them. And then you will want to be in a committed relationship as to ensure they don’t stray, and to be able to say that you are not pursuing anybody else out of commitment rather than out of being a fool (because if you’re not in a relationship, than being exclusive …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:49 AM
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Brain isn’t developed until 25 therefor it’s taking advantage. It’s really simple and not comparable. Also, I’m a woman who actively chooses to date men that make less than me. Nobody cares so I won’t go into why but I have reasons. I imagine I’m not the only one. The minority in that sure but not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:34 AM
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My ex boyfriend asked me out in what I thought was an incredibly romantic way. Some may find it creepy but I loved it. I was out having dinner with a friend, he came up to our table and in a very polite way said “excuse me, I’m sorry to interrupt your dinner but you’re the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen.” He asked me for my number and within 3 months we were seriously dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:43 PM
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So if the woman is still interested in sex then why do you think the men lose interest in the relationship? Aren’t they getting what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:23 PM
1

Modern west is better than the hellish countries you speak of but that doesn’t make the modern west good. It just makes it less bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:02 PM
1

What comes first? Women not wanting sex or men not wanting the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:59 PM
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Well I’d assume 100% of this statistic is exclusively regarding single, straight women. However I don’t see how this statistic can possibly withstand considering the prominent diversity in women’s taste. Also, it’s been proven that women prefer men around their own age throughout their lifetime. 20% of men is too small of a group based off of age alone. More times than I can count I have seen my girl friends drool over men who I think are hideous or generally undesirable. And even more times tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:28 PM
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Will write it out later and message you when it’s up!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:21 PM
4

Not comical but want to put this somewhere. Would love a post about how women are treated differently in different countries and go into the specifics of differences in cultures. I’ve been to 5 countries in my adult life and have been treated very differently by men in each one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:10 PM
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Giving your gf a ride is not simping, I give rides to just about anyone in my life that needs one. Nonetheless I’m really sorry this happened. She’s a shit human being and her ability to do things like that are telling of her character. You were doing the right thing for what you knew in the moment and that’s all we can do in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:34 PM
1

Money isn’t the only thing that can make people equal or not equal. Nobody said you have a problem with women. You clearly just have a problem with yourself, and you’re angry that women don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:06 PM
1

Agreed. She’s been to jail a few times. Stopped talking to her because she’s batshit but sometimes I google her name expecting to see a new mugshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:01 PM
0

Are you just angry that women who you see as your equal don’t want you? Willing to bet they’re not you’re equal and that they don’t want you because in reality you’re below them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:00 PM
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It’s a natural need in a society where you have to hunt and kill your food and babysitters don’t exist. But that’s not the world we live in. I’ve dated “high value” men long term and have learned that they are a burden. No matter how successful or kind or intelligent a man is, it always feels in the end that I am his mother. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:58 PM
1

Couldn’t have said it better myself. The incels here love saying that unless it’s a chad we’re out. I’ve dated Chad. Still not worth it. Still doesn’t compare to my solitude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:54 PM
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What a load of bs. Rape is worse than stinginess. Millions of people marched in the street saying enough is enough. When millions are marching over the stinginess of women call me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:52 PM
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They’ll be more than ok. Marrying a man doesn’t help a woman at all in life. Only hurts her if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:53 AM
19

You do care though. You said I’d be “unsupported” and a “maid” when I’d be neither. Glad to support your future children as I’m sure you won’t be too good at doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:46 AM
11

And your thoughts on the #metoo movement that was created to fight against men taking advantage of their powerful professional positions to literally rape women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:45 AM
2

The way people dress goes a very very long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:44 AM
26

This post was a really long way of saying “I’m scared women are going to take up jobs making it more competitive for men to acquire high earning positions”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:35 AM
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It’s true. 24 year old girl here. I’d rather die alone than die with a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:39 AM
2

I’m a 24 year old girl and have only ever met 3 girls that said they’re interested in older men. Girl 1 has genital herpes and knowingly passes it to others. Last time we spoke she said that she has $300 to her name but is $10k in debt to lawyers due to a DUI case. I no longer speak to her but when I did, she told me that shes after an older man so she can take his money and admitted that she’d be simultaneously banging a young guy behind his back. I wrote a post about her a while back, she trie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:35 PM
0

While I can’t say I agree with your lifestyle, I absolutely respect your will to do things how you want them to be done
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:53 AM
1

If you were in an open relationship would it be cool with you if she made significantly less money than you, fucked other men on a basis and was in close contact with her exes? I’m assuming the answer is you’d be cool with it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:39 AM
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I’m not sure FDS believes in putting in low effort themselves. Where in their ideology is that represented?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:36 AM
2

Technically someone has to court someone, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:33 AM
0

If you have a decent career and a great degree then why do you feel FDS would think you’re low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:00 AM
1

Makes no sense. Why would I have anything against virgins, and why would having a non-virgin partner cause less pressure ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:39 PM
2

Why not? My grandparents just celebrated their 60th anniversary. They still look at each other with adoration, hold hands, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:17 PM
2

No, what I’m not attracted to is the attitude of “I’m older than you so let me tell you what you are and aren’t attracted to because you’re too young to actually know about your own brain”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:16 PM
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Thank you for not chasing girls my age. It is refreshing to hear an older guy say that he lacks attraction to us and for good reasons at that. But I promise you that I’m not attracted to any 40 year old, especially if he shows attraction to me. I acknowledge when someone is conventionally good looking but don’t desire them. At best I’ll think “I hope when I’m 38-40, I’m married and my husband looks something like that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:01 PM
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Disagree. I’d prefer to be alone in my company and only desire the presence of a man if I want to have sex which is rare because I prefer masturbation. I honestly think this attitude stems from the fact that I make more money than most men, do not get much from penetration and have very loving and supportive friends and family in my life, so it’s really hard to see what a man can even bring me that I don’t already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:56 PM
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Well, I live alone and support myself financially, but compared to what I think a person in their mid 30s should be doing, I do feel like a kid. By then you should be married with kids of your own and I’m nowhere near that point in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:48 PM
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There aren’t hot ones. That’s my point. I think nobody your age is hot. I’m assuming you feel the same about people my age. Otherwise how would you know that you wouldn’t look at me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:47 PM
1

What lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:46 PM
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Marriage pointless, long term relationship isn’t. I don’t just enjoy people until I’ve used them up and then dispose of them. The goal will always be to love somebody forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:46 PM
1

I graduated college on time with a degree in engineering. If that’s yikes to you than idk what to say. Sorry I’m just not into old guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:44 PM
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That’s awesome for you I guess. Sorry I’m just not one of those girls. I prefer men closer to my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:43 PM
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Believe or not there’s a lot of women my age who just aren’t attracted to older men no matter who they are. I’m not sure why that bothers you so much. You had your time to be young, let me enjoy mine with other young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:39 AM
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I can assure you that unless you happen to look 10-12 years younger than you are, I wouldn’t give you the time of day. The famous guys your age aren’t worth my attention let alone a redditor. I’m only 24, 2 years out of college, I feel like I’m practically still a kid. Why do you need my attention so badly? Leave me alone and let me enjoy my youth. If I want to talk to a middle aged man I can always just hang with my dad. He’s probably way cooler than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:24 AM
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Of course I do. At least Elon was once good looking. The other two look like they’d be featured on an episode of to catch a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:45 AM
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Yes I was just doing that to an old guy on here. I’m 24, if you’re above the age of 32 I will absolutely say “aren’t you a little old to be talking to me, grandpa?” And I will say it with full conviction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:31 AM
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You’re 37 and not married, why the fuck would I take life advice from you? I see you as a failure and a predator, the 2 worst things I can possibly imagine becoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:30 AM
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As a woman there is one reason and one reason only that I want to get married. I’d like my children to grow up in a traditional household containing 2 married parents. If I didn’t want kids I’d see absolutely zero point to marriage and would oppose it entirely, even if Brad Pitt himself got on one knee.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:25 AM
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But you are creepy. You’re 37 and you just told me you’re fucking a 20 year old. She’s been legal for 2 years. If 15 was the legal age you’d probably go that young. Pedo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:23 AM
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Men who want to marry virgins want this because they’re so insecure that they can’t stand the thought of their wife being able to compare sex with them to other partners. If a man isn’t very religious yet tells me he wants to marry a virgin I would assume he is so insecure about himself that this is the only way he can cope. I’d then get very far away from him because he’s dangerously projecting his insecurities onto others and I wouldn’t want to be a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:05 AM
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This has absolutely nothing to do with FDS principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:41 PM
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Gold digger doesn’t care how the man earned his money. Could be drug dealing, pimping, gambling. The conservative woman wants a man who’s work is honest, respectable and white collar. She will take care of him and love him whereas the gold digger will leave him and attempt to take all he is worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:08 PM
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Did someone tell you that it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:02 PM
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I come from a “broken home” and was always told that men who come from wholesome families wouldn’t care. They do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:00 PM
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No this isn’t true the men saying this are just pissed that women don’t want them. It’s not because women are picky that they’re unwanted, it’s because they suck and don’t care to make themselves more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:59 PM
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24 year old woman - can confirm. Not sure where this BS started, but I can assure you that girls my age who want a 40 year old are either really financially struggling or they’re mentally ill. This is why I have absolutely zero respect for older men that hit on me. They’re just hoping that I’m vulnerable enough, mentally ill enough, down right poor enough to give them my body. I’m not any of those though, which is why the oldest man id date is about 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:47 PM
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No I don’t care. Every guy I’ve ever dated has made less than me. I’m in engineering and I am attracted to men that are in the arts. They tend to make lower salaries. I think your assumptions about American women and foreign women are backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:35 PM
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Lol. The less they come from the more they will value your money. I have my own money which is why I don’t give a shit what the man I’m with has.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:46 AM
1

So you want someone who comes from less so it appears that you give more?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:41 AM
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Face it, what you’re really saying here is that women who come from less are more likely to put up with more before they have less financial freedom to walk away from your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:00 PM
1

You want to go back on the dating scene solely to spread your STDs to women? Get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:30 PM
1

Lol. Google “do sex workers have more STDs” STDs are 5 to 60 times higher among sex workers than the average population. A quick google search would prove you wrong. Not only would you make a terrible husband because of your personal views, but you’d also be a bad husband because you’re a dumbass who thinks he knows things. Oh, and you probably have an STD. Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:42 PM
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You pay for sex with women that likely have diseases because you’re afraid of paying for a family ? I think you should continue to avoid marriage. You obviously wouldn’t make a great husband and if that lifestyle isn’t for you I give you credit for not attempting to succeed in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:55 PM
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Another man responded to my comment saying that he hopes he can find a woman like me that desires these things. Some men are happy to have an emotionally supportive relationship and see it as the end goal. You are not one of those men which is why I would never give you the time of day. Ultimately you do not value an emotional connection is what you are actually saying. This is a flaw of your own that should not be projected onto me. I simply am a human being who wants to connect with and be lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:52 PM
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I think this is over generalizing, I am a perfect example of a woman who goes against this. I make more money than majority of men and honestly, I’d rather cut off my own toes than get divorced. However I hold the same fears in many aspects when it comes to marriage. IMO, marriage should not be a financial contract. If people want to share funds because one earns more than the other than during the marriage there should be an allowance system. I wouldn’t mind giving my husband allowance and just…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:47 PM
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Anything in public. In high school I gave my boyfriend a bj in his car. As I got older I realized how completely humiliated and vulnerable I’d feel if we were caught. So I haven’t done it since and never will again. We only did it to begin with because we couldn’t in our own houses due to strict parents. Now I’m an adult with my own apartment so it especially doesn’t make sense to do again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:29 PM
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Who the hell is forcing you to get married. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:27 PM
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Of course I’m being serious. If these are the things you’d like to give to your wife than I think she will be very lucky and satisfied. Unfortunately this level of treatment is harder than it should be to find, and sadly some people don’t appreciate it when they get it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:05 PM
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Sure. Comforting me when I’m upset, being loyal to me, doing things to try and make my life easier or at least less stressful, getting me a thoughtful birthday gift, asking me about my day here or there, showing that you care about my safety and emotional well-being, complimenting my appearance when I clearly am putting in effort to look good, encouraging me to live a healthy lifestyle. In return I would happily give these things to my husband and I don’t think any of it is too much to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:55 PM
5

How are men slaves?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:52 PM
2

What? You don’t need any “grounds” for divorce besides simply wanting to get divorced. There’s no necessary criteria to get one. Except for maybe the ability to afford the paper work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:51 PM
1

Wdym by “fueled by Instagram” ? My lack of understanding may come from the fact that I don’t have Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:50 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:48 PM
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Totally agree. Men are better at compartmentalizing which is why I believe they’re more open to the concept of cheating. Some men cheat and still believe their marriage is healthy and feel proud of their marriage. I think this is rarer in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:09 PM
0

Not in America baby
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:06 PM
5

Translation: if he’s not meeting my needs why the fuck would I care about his
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:31 PM
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You have to consider everyone here is a Redditor. A lot of Americans see Reddit as nerdy and for losers. As an American I honestly don’t feel like the lack of experience expressed in this sub is typical. Majority of people I know have had at least 10 sexual partners, or at least girls. Then again I live in a very urban area where we all have a lot of options. I also live in an area that is extremely liberal politically which might play a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:41 PM
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Personally I don’t see how sex can be used as a weapon of power. The way I see it, if I don’t give a man sex, it’s not gonna cause him to try harder for it, it’ll cause him to resent me. But also, women have sex drives, so I really don’t get the notion of women gatekeeping sex. Is the issue really that they’re gatekeepers or is it that they have too low of sex drives? Solution is probably to find a partner with a compatible sex drive. Maybe I’m wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:35 PM
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I cannot argue with you there. I agree that the grossly dressed women tend to be less attractive. My guess is because if they don’t have their boobs out they don’t get looked at whatsoever. Pretty women get checked out no matter what they have on. I also agree that unattractive women frequently have unrealistic standards, but I think the same goes for these incels. Many of them are 2’s and complain about being virgins because they’re not willing to have sex with an equal and expect to have sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:32 PM
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Too many variables to give an answer. How badly am I treating my husband? Am I beating him with a belt or am I refusing to do his laundry? If he wants other women so bad, what’s his excuse for not just leaving me altogether? You’d have to give a more specific scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:28 PM
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They don’t allow attractive women to walk around half naked either though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:20 PM
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Oh okay, I’m an American and here in America we don’t refer to sex as a duty and refer to those that do believe we have an obligation to have sex as a FUCKING CREEP. I’d hope my husband is good to me which would result in me desiring him physically. If he’s an asshole to me, I’m not giving him shit. Fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:31 PM
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I’m trying to have a conversation regarding a legitimate topic, you’re just interested in insulting me. When my ex boyfriend was laid off I helped him get his career back on track and really put work into helping him map out the necessary steps towards getting into his now industry. I feel that my help was incredibly useful considering he was too depressed to have done this work himself and I feel that I helped his life at whole. Personally I’ve never experienced a time where a man was able to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:23 PM
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I’d never marry a man that refers to sex as a duty. I’m not a sex slave. Fucking creep
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:10 PM
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If he wants to leave me for a younger woman that’s okay. I’ll take half his life earnings and take the kids on fabulous vacations, plus I won’t have to be bothered by a man. Honestly sounds like a dream scenario. I get kids, money and am freed of “marital duties”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:45 PM
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Sounds like what you’re angry about is men having low standards. It’s not women’s fault that men will have sex with us no matter how ugly we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:43 PM
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Lol. Majority of men aren’t intelligent enough to actually help me with my issues nor do I expect them to. It’s the effort I’m attracted to, because as a partner I’d always seek to help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:42 PM
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No, I’m not confusing them. Men with bad genetics have to resort to only porn use because they can’t get laid. Men with good genetics can get actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:41 PM
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OP how old are you ? I’m a 24 self proclaimed hot girl and I don’t even have Instagram. People who care this much about social media are simple minded. Having a conversation with someone that talks about followers makes me want to blow my brains out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:40 PM
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Sex isn’t a duty of any form. If someone doesn’t want to fuck you it’s probably your fault. Even if it’s your own wife. You sound like you’re the type to get fat and bald and disgusting and tell your still beautiful wife that she should suck your dick. By your logic if she’s not into it she’s entitled to suck someone else’s instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:19 PM
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As a woman I disagree with you but only because of experience. If I lacked the experience that I have obtained I would think you’re hitting the nail on the head. I’ve realized that men who sit there and rub my back until I’m done crying are just waiting for the moment to be over so we can move onto the next activity. I’ve found that it’s only men that actually cared about me that would want to have a solution oriented conversation about my issue which makes complete sense. When you want someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:27 PM
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When my ex cried I always felt deeply connected to him. He was the type of guy to really never cry, I had seen it maybe twice in our several years of dating, once because he had lost a good friend to a drug overdose. I remember feeling how genuine and authentic of a person he was when he fell into my arms crying, and I remember feeling grateful that he trusted me enough to see him so vulnerable and to comfort him. The thought of a woman making a man feel weak for crying makes me feel appalled an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:24 PM
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This is a wild assumption. 24 year old woman here, if you have a tattoo I will not give you the time of day. IMO, tattoos = impulsive decision making and doing things in the heat of the moment/day/year without considering who you may be 5 years down the road. Sounds like a perfect recipe to make up a cheater or a person who files for divorce because they wanted you yesterday but never asked themselves if they’ll want you tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:22 PM
1

What do you consider to be “leading” ? Please be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:20 PM
1

I hear you but I strongly disagree with this post. Personally I would prefer a man who is lightly clingy. I want to be loved and adored and I want to know he loves me without having to pry it out of him. I also would like to love and adore him equally. For me the goal is to be equally and fully in love with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:18 PM
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You’re missing the point. There are such thing as madonnas and such thing as whores. But you’re lacking the ability to see women as being a little bit of both, a little bit of neither or being somewhere inbetween. A vast majority of women are neither a Madonna or a whore but rather a mixture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:15 PM
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I consider winning/success for a man in the dating game to be seriously dating a very sought after woman and having the ability to keep her happy and satisfied. Pack theory suggests that the strongest male wolves desire to pair with 1 strong female wolf rather than several weak ones. I don’t think there’s anything impressive about sticking your dick in 100 women considering women are making it easier than ever, frankly I find it unimpressive because it feels like living to pick low hanging fruit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:12 PM
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Attractive women will always be talked about the most by other attractive women. But IMO it backfires directly. A woman talks shit to a man she likes about another girl. He will think that the woman speaking is insecure and petty and clearly see that she sees the other girl as a threat - hell wonder why that is and want to find out for himself. This is why as a woman I have learned early on that it is extremely unattractive to talk shit about others when speaking to men and it should never be do…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:08 PM
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Idk where these old tropes really come from but this is so different than my personal experience which I suppose is a terrible thing to base my perspective on. As a 24 year old woman I’ve found that I am typically irritated with how most guys I have sex with want a relationship and are emotional and try to be over personal with me when all I really wanted was sex and for them to get the fuck out of my life. I’ve started just blocking guys numbers after sex so I don’t have to deal with their “let…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:05 PM
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Survival of the fittest. As a woman I feel this is what’s best for society. Men that are undesirable no longer have a reason or urge to reproduce. Sounds like a win for humanity. Or at least for women. If you can’t get laid and only watch porn, lack motivation to improve your life and seek connection, you get adjusted and perhaps never find a woman therefor never reproduce. Perhaps this type of man will eventually die out considering good looks and all around seductive genetics inside and out ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:02 PM
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Who told you women don’t want sex? I’m a woman and I like sex. Perhaps women just don’t want sex with you. Sounds like a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:54 PM
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I agree that it seems women are more “miserable than ever” but I have a strong feeling that women have always been quite unhappy but thanks to things like feminism they finally feel the ability to voice their emotions instead of pretending to be happy so their husbands don’t call them ungrateful. I really wouldn’t go off of what you see on social media to form any sort of opinion on women. Social media is still being run by men for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:51 PM
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How does unattractive women having the confidence to dress provocatively equal the world being their oyster? Dressing “half naked” doesn’t actually get you anywhere in this world unless you are attractive. So what is your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:50 PM
0

I see what you mean, but I honestly don’t think that trying to get pregnant the traditional way would be quite as fun as it sounds. I could be wrong. I think that holding my husbands hand while I have my feet up on strern ups getting inseminated would be romantic as well, as strange as it may sound. But at the end of the day, the romantic part that I am excited for is finding out I am pregnant no matter how it happened, and breaking the news to him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:06 PM
2

Had the copper IUD, made my periods too painful so I got it removed. Now I’m using condoms. When married id like my husband to have a vasectomy if he were comfortable with it. I’d even do this before we have all our children if he were able to freeze his sperm. This way when we want to get pregnant I can just be artificially inseminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:44 PM
1

It doesn’t take grace or sophistication to know that getting fucked for a living is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:18 PM
2

I associate an extremely high count with insecurity which is the only reason I find it unattractive. I feel that a man who is secure with himself will not take every opportunity that comes his way because he either has sturdy standards in place or because he simply does not need the sexual interaction to feel satisfied with how his life is going.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:08 PM
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I’d argue there’s an important distinction between a bald man and a man who is balding. I actually find many bald men to be attractive. However I find a seriously receding hairline or noticeably thinning hair to be quite unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:06 PM
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My ex was bipolar. It didn’t bother me I believe because my father is also diagnosed with bipolar disorder and I’m incredibly close with my father. In therapy I’ve discussed how I may actually be holding some sort of complex of believing a bipolar man is better than a neuro-typical man due to the fact that the first man I ever knew is bipolar. So I think the answer probably lays in life experience. If a woman grew up around mentally ill men she may feel more comfortable being with one in the fut…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:01 PM
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I’m afraid of things like HIV and Herpes and considering these can be transferred in acts aside from sex I feel safer not hanging out with people that fuck a new lonely person every night. I also don’t feel safe hanging out with people that actively choose to endanger themselves daily, it’s only a matter of time before they put me in danger too. If a woman has a PHD and is choosing to do sex work I would argue that she’s not an intellect, she’s a whore, or in this case, she’s Dr. Whore
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:18 AM
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Yeah and I’m sure a meth dealer would also claim his profession is better money and shorter hours yet I don’t have any respect for a meth dealer nor do I have respect for people who suck dick for a living. If you’re gonna get railed by losers for money doing a profession that is illegal in majority of US states and many countries at large perhaps get used to the idea of people thinking you’re wrong for doing it. Otherwise find something else and if you can’t it’s the reason I said I feel deep em…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:34 AM
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I feel deep empathy for sex workers. I certainly do not think they’re intellectuals, however. If they were they wouldn’t have to do the most degrading job in existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:47 PM
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If none of these women wanted to be with him in the end then he’s not walking around thinking he’s so much better than me at the end of the day. After all, I was the best he was able to end up with. Sure he slept with hotter girls but they left him for higher valued men. In the end we all wind up with our match. Even if that’s based off of them being trash and you being stupid enough to settle for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:35 PM
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I’m a 24 year old attractive woman who grew up poor and put myself through engineering school. I make 6 figures as a mechanical engineer and easily could have become a prostitute or only fans girl instead. I can absolutely ensure you that majority of prostitutes are simply not intelligent nor have any sophistication that cannot be found in a room of educated and professionally oriented working women. I think you’re talking up prostitutes because you’ve either never met women of high value that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:32 PM
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But this entire post is based off the assumption that the man who’s deciding between the two options is incredibly and insufferably insecure. I think this post is complete bullshit and i think a vast majority of men would strongly disagree, solely because I do not believe majority of men are insecure enough about themselves to prefer a girl who got paid for sex solely because the clientele was a less valuable pool of men to compete with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:19 PM
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I hear you. Everyone cares too much about how their life seems. Nobody cares anymore about how their life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:03 PM
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If a guy is letting a woman get in the way of his work he doesn’t have my respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:25 PM
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There are women who are worth it they’re just not giving you the time of day. Doesn’t mean they don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:22 PM
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Women paying for your hotel room and paying you for sexual exchanges sounds like the most non masculine and non dominant thing you can possibly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:19 PM
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You’re a man, I’m a woman, don’t be retarded. Come join reality when you’re ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:01 PM
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This isn’t true. They put up with his bullshit because they want to have a man in their life to have a family with or to protect them. No woman is taking shit from a man because he has good dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:05 PM
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But “good dick” holds no value at all, to virtually anybody. You know why? Cause men are willing to have sex. Like really, really, willing. Far more willing than women. Women can get sex easier than you can and this will always be reality. Also, big dicks are incredibly easy to come by. I’ve had sex with over 25 people and have found small dicks to be pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:25 PM
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The fact that you felt the need to defend how great your dick is based on my comment is proof of how real my comment is. If you knew it wasn’t true you wouldn’t be this defensive. If you think you have all the answers then stop asking how you can weed this type of woman out, figure it out for yourself. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:21 PM
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What a wild and stupid assumption. I have absolutely no mental adversity towards sex. I physically just don’t find it that pleasurable. The mental aspects of the experience is the only thing I even get pleasure from for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:17 PM
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This is delusional. I promise you that no woman is going to be grateful that you’re giving her some dick. She can easily get 100 other dicks at the snap of her fingers. And at least 10 of them will be better than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:47 PM
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You can’t. A vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and most of the times that you’ve been told you made a woman cum she was lying to you. Men hate this fact so much and deny it into oblivion but it’s reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:45 PM
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Biologically speaking a vast majority of women don’t get much from penetration alone. A lot of men have acted offended or even said it was emasculating for me to vocalize this which has lead me to not getting the satisfaction I’m looking for. I find that sex is very short too and after the guy finishes it seems that the whole interaction has come to an end before I even got a chance to feel something. Sex on average lasts about 2 minutes in my experience, maybe less, only enough time for 1 or 2 …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:44 PM
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Realistically they’re not hotter than women who have fathers in their lives, in fact the ladder likely has more pocket money therefor more money to spend on vanity. Perhaps you find women with daddy issues to “typically be hot” because these women show less signs of self respect and you think it’s sexy or feminine to be submissive. The only reason I can think of this actually making sense is because attractive women may have attractive mothers, and these mothers may have married men who only val…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:37 PM
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Don’t get me wrong, I’d love for that to be my situation and I think you deserve to have a woman who’s enthusiastic about having sex with you. But I can’t help the fact that majority of sex for me just isn’t that great. I always feel like it’s over before I even got started.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:22 AM
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If you’re consistently suffering through women’s daddy issues you should ask yourself why you’re attracting women with daddy issues. I’d imagine these women are not typically attracted to well adjusted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:19 AM
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I think you’re assuming that women only avoid casual hookups because they feel this will lead them to a more fulfilling relationship with more respect from men. I don’t think this is the reason at all, because girls who just want this will hook up with a lot of people and just lie about it to guys she wants to be serious with. She’ll still hook up with him quickly but she’ll tell him that he’s the exception to how she typically is with men. For me casual hook ups just aren’t worth the risk of pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:50 PM
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Probably just a complex. Dad was abusive so they fight against that type of behavior, yet they want acceptance from their father so they try to recreate the relationship in their love life hoping they can get the love from an abusive man that they yearned for as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:31 PM
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I never understood people claiming they wanted to be born in a different time. Once I saw that commercial I fully understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:26 PM
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Because we’re all insecure and wish we were different than we are but don’t have the balls or morale to admit that we’re not as up to par on our decision making skills as we’d like to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:23 PM
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As a girl who used to claim I didn’t want a hook up but would end up hooking up and is now a girl who says I don’t want a hook up and actually don’t casually hook up ever, here’s how you can really tell the difference between a girl who’s actually not into hookups and a girl who just makes this claim: The one who’s just claiming this but hooks up with you in the end will spend time with you despite you obviously just wanting to hook up. If I get a whif of that being your intentions I’ll just blo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:22 PM
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As a woman I agree. I feel nothing wrong with the fact that a man can have a seemingly perfect personality but if I’m not physically attracted it simply won’t work. It’s a disservice to a person to be with them if you’re not attracted to them. But I still would make the claim that I care about personality above all else and I feel I am telling the truth when I say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:14 PM
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I typically don’t mind compliments about my appearance from strangers but frankly I find it incredibly difficult to believe that a man giving this compliment would be completely dumbfounded at the news that his compliment creeped a woman out. Men know the line. We need to stop pretending like crossing the line is typically an accident. It’s not an accident at all - it’s intentional. Just because a mans goal was not to creep a woman out does not mean he’s unaware of how likely it is that he creep…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:06 PM
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I think a good outfit for a casual date in an urban city is black skinny jeans that fit well but are not skin tight, simple white sneakers like the Stan Smith adidas, and a nicely fitted cool color t-shirt (stick to greys, beige, black, white) - in the winter maybe throw on a crewneck sweater over the t shirt, make sure it’s fitted nicely but not skin tight, might be worth it to invest in a nice cashmere one. This is just my personal preference. Hope I helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:06 PM
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Ah, thank you. As a woman, I appreciate this post as it validates what I had hoped, which is that many men in this sub are truly clueless and speak out of their arses. This post is simply fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:05 AM
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Right there with you. I’m trying to accept that it gave me awareness of harsh realities which is perhaps a gift. I hope one day I have a daughter so I can protect her in ways I wish I was protected. If I hadn’t had these experiences I’m unsure I’d know the importance in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:39 PM
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I agree with this entirely but I also believe that we all start out believing in love and that trauma and lack of confidence is what breaks us away from believing in love thus I’d argue that red pill thinking is formed solely from negative life experiences particularly revolving around the concept of love (think parents having an ugly divorce, getting your heartbroken etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:01 PM
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I typically find that the man is more attractive is most relationships despite the age. I think this is for a reason. I believe men will want to settle down with women who are not the most attractive in the room. I could be wrong, im a woman myself. But I think men would prefer to feel less insecure in the relationship and less worried about other men swooping in therefor want a less sought after woman. Plus, men love the idea of settling down with the goodie two shoes girl, and these days it se…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:59 PM
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5’4” female - my favorite height on a man is between 5’10-6’1. If you had to go outside these lines I’d prefer you’re shorter than taller. Past 6’1 and I honestly feel less attracted. I wish I understood why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:55 PM
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I’m confused on point #2. I understand that I’m likely taking it the wrong way but what it feels like you’re saying is “I like doing sexual things that many women later regret doing and don’t want to do again. So I’d rather find a girl who hasn’t done these things yet so she doesn’t know how much she hates it yet therefor will be more willing to try it” Because realistically you’re not saying you’d prefer to be with women who are into the kinky things you like. You’re saying that you prefer wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:52 PM
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I think that wealthy/powerful men often become desensitized to life’s simple pleasures and resort to fetishes that society deems as disgusting (golden showers, rape fantasies etc.) These men have a lot on the line and their reputation is everything. So they’re not going to show these taboo sides to just any woman, she may have a big mouth and tell the whole town. They’re going to show these sides to women who are A. Too far away from any relative social circle to spill the beans to the right peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:52 PM
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Very fair. Thanks for your comment - I appreciate the honest perspective and think it will enrich my own understanding of this moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:45 PM
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The relationship or being 170lbs? I was at that weight for 2 years before I lost 50lbs and the relationship lasted for about 18 months, he broke it off because I refused to convert to his religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:17 PM
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I hear you - but I don’t think the projection aspect is accurate. I’m speaking from my own perspective as a 24 year old woman, but my friends and I frequently talk about how disturbing it is to consider how much sexual attention we got by the time we were 15. For me it was 11. Grown men looked at me like I was something to eat, granted I was quite developed by that age but nonetheless I was 11. I think many women feel traumatized and angry by this - adults were meant to protect us, not sexualize…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:02 PM
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One mans too big is another mans too small
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:58 PM
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Sure I feel the same can be said about men though which is where I really am lost. There’s so much emphasis on how women are more attractive when they’re younger and this is an obvious fact but why are men claiming that they’re more attractive as they age? IMO, the most attractive man is about 25. So if anything I feel it should be me making this claim, I’m not attracted to older men yet I feel like I’m supposed to be. A “silver Fox” is just an old dude in my eyes and if he hits on me he’s not j…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:22 PM
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I don’t get the hype about tall men. I also do not care at all about a mans jawline and I don’t like men that are muscular. Also, I’m not into men that are preppy, jockey or obsessed with gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:19 PM
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You’re not “too big” for anything. I dated a guy who was significantly thinner than me and I loved it. He loved it too. I’m into skinny and he was into thick. I was 170lbs back then, now I’m 120lbs and I honestly miss my thighs being bigger than men’s thighs that I was with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:12 PM
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What media are you looking at? In reality the media is pushing women who are younger and younger down all of our throats. Where is the mass media claiming 30+ is an ideal age? And when the hell did the media claim you should be attracted to “fat” women? If anything you’re just telling us that your taste in women is exactly what the media wants it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:58 PM
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I’m a 24 year old woman who has had minimal “bad experience” with men. My father is my best friend, I’ve had loving relationships and I actually deeply struggle in my relationship with my mother. But I still really, really dislike a vast majority of the male race. Dislike probably isn’t a strong enough word. I’m disgusted by the behavior of men and how absolutely, ridiculously misogynistic and entitled many men are. I am exhausted from taking weak men’s cruel insults after I reject them, this ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:13 PM
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Lmao I think ab that all the time. I feel like everyone masturbates with their hands and nobody washes them. That’s why I just curtsy then do a lil dance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:00 AM
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I don’t doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:58 AM
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Yeah I do. I’m a straight woman with a sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:57 AM
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As a woman it’s at the point where I don’t even get why women have sex. 80% of us don’t orgasm from penetration alone anyway. My vibrator is 10x more satisfying than any sexual interaction I’ve ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:00 PM
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Nope. Turn on if he eats 🐱.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:51 PM
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Not sure if we’re supposed to be sharing our hobbies but I enjoy robotics, simulating the engineering of machines by using candy and drawing pictures of people that I think are hot. Men seem to tolerate my hobbies at best and at worst they make fun of me. My ex told me before meeting his friends that I should keep my hobbies to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:18 PM
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I agree tiktok is cringey and I’ve found myself feeling turned off by men that indulge in watching/creating them. I don’t even have Instagram though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:16 PM
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I disagree. I’m a straight woman who is turned off by bi men and it’s not about this for me. Firstly I’m not interested in kissing a person who has sucked a dick, plain and simple. This is why I don’t think it’s cute when my girl friends drunkenly try to kiss me even if it’s just a playful “we’re drunk and hot let’s kiss” type of thing. They’ve had a penis in their mouth and I’m selective on which penises I put into mine but I didn’t get to be selective on which ones went into theirs. Also, I as…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:57 PM
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According to statistics the #1 reason for divorce is lack of commitment and #2 is infidelity. Do you think all divorced men just got completely shafted and blind sighted and had no control whatsoever? If you don’t cheat, put in effort and respect your wife your chances of divorce go down significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:40 PM
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My therapist (she is a female in her 30s) told me that she believes men love deeper, get more attached and generally are more invested. Also, it’s statistically said that men take far longer to move on after being broken up with. My therapists theory is this; women grow up searching for romance in every corner and so inevitably they find it many times and it becomes less of a novelty. However men seemingly try to avoid it, and once the woman who makes him open to love comes along, he idealizes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:47 PM
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I have a degree in mechanical engineering myself, I’m not arguing with you that degrees in gender studies and psychology yield far less lucrative results and less luxurious lifestyles. My argument is that you having this degree does not make you enticing to women, and while I too am apart of a religion that frequently has arranged marriages, I feel that you very clearly are using this fact to disregard your attempt to state that your attributes mean you can have whomever you’d like. I do know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:35 PM
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When you said marriage is not the goal and claimed men who feel it is are blue-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:29 PM
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You said you can easily find what you want then said you have a STEM degree and you’re fit. I don’t know why I’m explaining your own words to you. I’m not sure why you feel that men being more prevalent in STEM makes you worth more to women. It doesn’t. It means that there are just more men in STEM for us to choose from if that’s what we’re after. But most women are not after a man in STEM to begin with. Probably because it’s simply not the most lucrative field out there and falls behind multipl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:26 PM
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Whether most men are blue-pilled or not, you and I both know that they’re probably happier than you. I am not trying to personally insult you at all. I am just saying that I feel you are sabotaging yourself from enjoying life with partner you really love, respect and connect with, somebody who will give you the same and take care of you when you need it. No matter the gender, people who have that in their lives are happier than us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:18 PM
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Maybe she doesn’t want to touch you because you use Reddit to find some “fun” - I wouldn’t want you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:14 PM
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Lol. I’m a woman who also has a STEM degree in engineering with a good job, I work out daily and am also fit. But I know that none of these things, realistically, would ever be the attributes to get me a good partner and the same goes to you. You want a girl who likes you because you have a good job and you go to the gym? What’s gonna happen when you get fired and get chubby and bald? She’ll fucking leave. Smarten up and work on your personality, get a partner who likes you for you, or you’ll ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:13 PM
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Every man I’ve ever dated has made it vocally clear that he feels the end goal is a successful marriage and having healthy children. I’m not sure what country you’re in but I live in the NYC area, I feel location may make a difference here. However I believe that the vast majority of men still want a traditional family life for themselves. Unless you’re extremely wealthy or famous, why would you really want to be alone in your 50s? Even the most misogynistic men would say that you’re better off …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:08 PM
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No, I’m a woman, I am asked this 10x a day because I engage in internet fighting as a sad hobby. I’m asked this never as a genuine question and always as an implication that I am taking things too personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:51 PM
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Which one? Those 2 girls look like they aren’t even related. I think they’re both the most fake looking of all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:47 AM
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I don’t understand why men will have sex with women they openly do not respect. If you don’t respect somebody why the fuck would you want to be inside of them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:45 AM
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Why? I thought wide hips = good birthing hips or something. Is that just a myth made up by Kim K herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:44 AM
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I think a lot of people agree with you, both men and women. Many find things to be overcomplicated if the transaction isn’t presented as obvious. But I think you’re wrong about money being the holy grail. There’s a famous saying, “Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.” I believe that money is only desired because sex is desired and it’s been widely ascribed that the more money you have the more sex you can have. So even the wealthiest man in the world - say he can…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:34 AM
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I’m 24F, never married, make 6 figures. It’s a new world baby. Haven’t you heard there’s a massive gender gap between college students? And it’s said college grads make significantly more in their lifetime…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:01 AM
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Attractive woman. I feel I am one and I thoroughly enjoy it. Being a woman alone is difficult. I have painful periods and am terrified to leave my home without pepper spray. But overall this life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:58 AM
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Never if the woman has her own money
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:56 AM
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What if you’re incredibly attractive, like 10/10, but you choose to have a career that has more substance than being famous for your appearance? Are you unable to then be considered a 10/10 in your eyes because of that career choice? Also, what if a woman is naturally so attractive with such good genetics that she simply doesn’t need to work out to appear toned and thin. Would this decrease her rank solely because you find the motivation and discipline needed to work out an attractive feature?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:42 AM
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Yeah they really can’t. Because then they have to consider the fact that their height isn’t the actual reason why nobody wants to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:45 PM
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Not interested in discussing this with someone who’s living under a rock. Feel free to use a search engine such as Google to read about statistics of how majority of married men use porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:14 PM
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Husbands using porn is absolutely normalized. I’m not saying I personally think it’s right. But normalized, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:38 AM
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I don’t get this post. How are you going to suggest divorce because a wife has a “crush” meanwhile it’s normalized for men to check out other women, masturbate to other women, etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:39 PM
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If the guy on the left just put his facial hair on his head and his baldness on his face then he would be pretty attractive. Guy on the right sounds disgusting and rapey. Would probably leave me feeling traumatized. He’s also not that good looking. Head is massive and he looks like he lacks intelligence. Dime a dozen. The traits of the one on the left sound more rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:55 AM
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I feel like I’ve been abundantly clear in what makes him feminine. It’s his stance and the professional grade of his photo. It’s obviously taken on his friends professional camera. If you’re a man putting in that much effort to have professional grade photos you’re too into yourself and I find it feminine. Personally I hate his hair and clothing style but I won’t claim that’s a common thought, I’m just not from California.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:15 AM
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OP is a woman that posts pictures of her own vagina and she is angry that other women do not have to do so yet still get a lot of attention and likely significantly more than her I have never sent as much as a nude yet I can assure you that no man has ever been disappointed when he’s seen my body. I dated a man who was a self proclaimed recovered porn addict and he told me every day that my body was the greatest he’s ever seen, I could not keep him off of me. Not surprised by this post at all, O…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:12 AM
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Hey incel please shut the fuck up and Google things instead of bombarding us all with your painful stupidity of claiming porn addiction “probably doesn’t even exist” - there are rehab centers, therapists for this exact issue, support groups, people are struggling with this addiction (which is exactly what was described in the original post, being unable to become erect due to porn use) meanwhile your head is too far up your virgin dick hole to give a shit about reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:04 AM
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Why are you asking for “some of the reasons” when we all know what the reason is. Humans are attracted to 2 things. Fertility and genes. The former is age dependent. If a mans reason for this has anything to do with emotions he obviously wants to take advantage of and control a woman and knows women 30+ are too wise and too smart to fall for his bullshit. Likely also thinks younger women will make him feel worshipped. Truth is men aren’t all they think they are after 35 or so either. Y’all get u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:43 AM
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“All women do these days is sleep around which would be cool and all if they were sleeping with me but they’re not!!! Sluts!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:35 AM
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Watched a few minutes of it and honestly didn’t hate it as much as I thought I would. I was honestly laughing at how right he was about a few things. I’m personally guilty of genuinely forgetting I slept with a guy solely because I didn’t like him that much. But what his point really sounds like here is that women today are making themselves worth less and less but expecting more and more and it helps nobody and hurts everybody. I think the reason this is occurring is because women are demanding…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:31 AM
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Can you just give us a little summary
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:11 AM
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Ugh I hate this. I hate both the options. Don’t care if it comes off as homophobic it’s the truth. I’m picking the prostitute customer. But I hate him for it and always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:59 AM
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Dw. I liked it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:58 AM
1

No chance!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:57 AM
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Shut up incel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:27 AM
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Idk what ur saying, I don’t care either. I don’t have anything to talk about with a person that posts the shit you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:13 AM
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Not married. But honestly wondering why you’re giving any sort of insight on what women are like when you’re not even close to a normal woman. You post pictures of your vagina on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:11 AM
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No. Lost my virginity 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:09 AM
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What if I told you not all of us are sluts that want to “fuck right away” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:03 AM
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My standards are not taking model-like photos regardless of how attractive you are. Who needs to be bothered with some feminine man that’s posing in front of a camera all day. Sounds like the kind of guy to kiss the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:02 AM
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What? I didn’t say that at all. I said men who take photos like that are not my type. I really do not believe majority of women like men that take professional photos like that. It’s really flamboyant. An attractive man that’s photos are normal ones taken on a phone or with his friends is a really different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:00 AM
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Lmao this is so distorted. If a woman likes you she will wait to sleep with you because she wants your respect. If she thinks you’re just attractive but would never take you seriously she’ll pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:32 AM
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Can you help me understand why some men act bothered by the fact that I don’t have an Instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:31 AM
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Am I the exception ? I don’t fully get what ur saying. Not sure why but I’m under the impression that my taste in men is pretty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:34 AM
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Yes he will effectively acquire chlamydia. I wouldn’t touch this guy with a 10 foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:10 AM
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I don’t have an Instagram and I’m a good looking woman, at least that’s what I’m told. But I am also told by men that I am a rarity for not having Instagram. I’ve also gotten men who seem turned off by my lack of social media presence and I’m trying to figure out why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:06 AM
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Have you considered that women who are willing to have “casual sex” are problematic in themselves and you’re looking for good women who inevitably will not be good women because they’re doing what’s in my opinion a bad thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:02 AM
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I totally don’t understand this. Who are these girls?? I’m a 24 year old girl who uses dating apps and I think model looking men are so flamboyant (no matter how muscular) and I assume they’re full of themselves, 2 very unattractive features to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:00 AM
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So I’m a woman, should note that I’m also a Jew. I would never swipe right on this guy before seeing any “nazi” things. His picture is sooo flamboyant in my opinion. I’m always turned off by pictures that look over professional and poses that look like they’re boasting. I’m curious on the demographic of where these women were. Even if you are an anti semite, I can’t imagine risking your reputation for a night of sex from a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:57 PM
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Exactly. That’s why women are called ugly or fat bitches. Women care about their weight and beauty, men care about their dick size, generalizing of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:44 PM
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Posts like this are ruining this sub. This isn’t a purple pill debate this is an incel ranting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:48 PM
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Every comment on the post is disproving it and the post was removed by the mod for “crossing the line”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:02 PM
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You have a post about how you feel rape is not wrong. Thank god you don’t have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:01 PM
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This is obviously a man who is angry that he wasn’t able to abandon his family without consequences. Coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:54 PM
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I’m sorry I honestly don’t care enough to read this it’s too lengthy. I wish you well and hope that your negative views on how women treat men in marriages can be mended so you can have the lifelong love that you likely deserve deep down. Have a good one ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:51 PM
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Yikes. You reek of insecurity and a broken heart. You sound terrified of marriage because you’re scared you’ll give it all to a woman who will just leave you. You feel you’ll be left because you don’t see any worth in yourself and can’t imagine why a woman would genuinely love you for life. You’re not husband material because you are insecure, small minded and lack the ability to see beyond yourself. Take it as a compliment if you’d like to, but you and I both know that your mindset will leave y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:19 PM
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You watch too many movies. “Husband material” is not the loser dweeb servant. My dream husband is sexy, courageous, independent, strong, confident, healthy. My dream husband tells me no when he wants to tell me no. My dream husband is no “clown” - he is a human being who speaks up for himself and stands his ground on who the fuck he is. My dream husband is also loyal, it seems you’re confusing loyalty with being a servant. If that’s how you feel, you’re not husband material yourself and that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:01 PM
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Social skills and lack of a friend group. I have some friends, none of them really know each other. I’m not a “sorority girl” type. Seems men in my area are after that or maybe expect it, not sure why they seem surprised to find out I’m not like that. I am tired of getting called “quirky” or guys just telling me that I’m weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:54 PM
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Okay, thoughts on this article that claims women are happier than men in younger years (years more likely to be lived in singlehood) https://www.google.com/amp/s/mobile.reuters.com/article/amp/idUSSP14904520080725 It also claims: “The saddest period of the average man's life -- his 20s -- is also the period when he is most likely to be single.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:47 PM
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We could go back and forth sharing different sources that argue both of our points
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:38 PM
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Sounds like if you were a young single guy we’d be a hell of a mismatch. If I found out a guy was attempting to background check me in efforts to find out about my sexual past I would think that he is obsessive, intrusive and potentially sociopathic. It’s one thing to be a high up person who has a public reputation to maintain, it’s another to be a nobody but feel this necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:22 PM
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How would a background check give you information regarding her personal life? Are you referring to a legitimate background check that you have to pay for? Also, considering that you disregard western women as candidates for long term relationships, I feel like I’m wasting my time gaining your perspective as I do not encounter men who feel this way. I’m curious about your race and religion? I’m white, so are majority of people in my area, we’re all “western” here, it’s a young urban area that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:50 PM
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Here’s a source. Get over yourself. You don’t have all the answers. Just Google “are single women happy” to be proven wrong instantly. psychology today link
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:34 PM
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Statistically speaking it is supposedly single, childless women that are the happiest among the human population. Everyday the patriarchy falls apart a little more. Another commenter said it best, women’s sexual liberation doesn’t ruin their lives, you just wish it does. You know what ruins men’s lives though? Porn addiction, jerking it twice a day, having your dopamine receptors shot as well as a realistic perception of women. If anything, it’s men who should be having less orgasms for the sake…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:28 PM
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Ok thank u for stating the obvious on the male perception. I don’t care about your POV. Their statistic is so wrong. I really would like the source to it. I believe that the commenter above who stated it completely made it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:11 PM
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You’re lying to yourself out of fear. You’re scared you’re going to be deceived so you’re convincing yourself that you simply can’t be. But you can. You have in the past and you will again in the future. My last 3 exes knew nobody of my past or any of my present friends. Do you typically date people you’re in some sort of social circle with? I do not see how the truth has ever come to any of my exes awareness. I was always very particular in the stories I’d share, etc. and went out of my way to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:03 PM
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I have 2 questions: The first: If you say that my past will not influence your satisfaction, then why do you care about my past in the first place? I can definitely appreciate the notion of not wanting your partner to have given more to their exes than you in regards to sex, but I don’t really see what that has to do with body counts. A woman could have had only one partner before you but had done everything under the sun with them and gives you nothing. And if that’s what you value, what about …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:58 AM
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I got into an argument with an ex over this. He claimed that women are maternal by nature. I took this personally, only because I was abused and neglected by my own mother, and it felt invalidating to my own life story. My father is my best friend to this day, and so I really struggle to swallow the concept of women being the better caretaker. I’d argue that empathy is the crucial component, which is potentially associated with hormonal differences between genders but I’d imagine is realisticall…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:55 AM
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It’s funny because you believe that you’d even have access to that information. Personally I have a relatively high count and I lie through my teeth about it with absolutely zero remorse. So if we dated you’d be feeling secure in the fact that my count is low meanwhile it really isn’t. And I’d argue that this has happened to you before and will happen to you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:51 AM
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I was 150 when I was 20-22, now I’m 24 and I’m 120. Tf are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:44 AM
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Relax. This shit is getting pedophilic already. We get it, you like young girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:43 AM
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I don’t buy this. What’s your source? As a 24 year old girl who speaks to friends about what we do with who, I think you guys are vastly underestimating the average body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:36 AM
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So as a woman, for the first time in my life I actually see fairness in this. I was always really disgusted and angered by the notion of suppressing women’s sexuality. But this helped me remember a time I liked this guy my brother happened to be in a fraternity with. My brother told me to stay away from that guy because he’s had sex with “like 100 girls” and I recall instantly finding him significantly less attractive and a contaminant in some aspects. To a degree, I felt that this was a person …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:35 AM
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I’m a woman with what you’d consider as a high number and when I’m asked about it I just lie. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:31 AM
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Out of curiosity, as a 24 year old girl with zero kids but a relatively “high” body count, what the hell is stopping me from just lying about it? We all know that the tightness of my vagina hasn’t been effected and that’s a complete myth. So really, why should I even tell the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:30 AM
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