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Definitely not enough. Working nights isn't helping. If I wake up Saturday before 4pm I'm doing good.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:26 AM
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Yes it does control me. Because you can have everything perfect and still get absolutely nothing. I want to get better at it, I want to win. I hear winning is the wrong.I don't know
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:25 AM
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It must be working for me a little I think. I get people come by me all day at work that will hang around for hours just to chat. It's weird. Lol. I don't get out to terribly much working overnights help desk. It doesn't come out the same on the phone as it does it person.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:25 AM
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My sleep is a mess, working overnights me getting to sleep on time depends on what time I leave and that depends on the call volume. I notice the days o don't work out cause I'm anxious to do something.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 01:22 AM
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I think I have a good sense of humor but I've never been told I don't. I get it's a numbers game but the numbers don't appear to be in my favor
/r/askTRP12/07/17 11:36 AM
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It's clearer than before but we shall see. Thanks
/r/askTRP12/07/17 11:34 AM
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Hmmm i see that's pretty straightforward
/r/askTRP12/07/17 09:40 AM
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My gut instinct says GTFO she's not interested and the look on her face is why are you talking to me leave me alone.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 08:54 AM
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I've wasted so much time and money learning game and still haven't gotten anywhere.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 08:53 AM
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I've been looking into but didn't believe in the process. Just like people say exercise to get endorphins moving to help you feel better. That's crap I've never felt better ever after working out.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 08:50 AM
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How do you go from I'm out shopping to talking to a girl about anything to let's go out x date? I can do the beginning part of starting a conversation but most don't go anywhere or she hard ejects.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 08:01 AM
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Does nofap actually help anything or it just frees up that 10-50 minutes you would have wasted?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 07:33 AM
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Yes night 4/10 shifts. If I'm up before work I'll chat with people in general at the gym or the gas station low investment conversation. But as soon as I see a attractive woman I freeze up stuck in place. AA is strong with this one. Does the time so far spent working out and dieting mean absolutely nothing since I'm not "Thin" enough? Edit: Forgot to mention I'll be working days for the month of June. Possibility to actually have a permanent day shift probably in August.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 10:24 PM
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Maybe that will give me some insight to why one week out of the month I feel like garbage.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 02:39 AM
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Hopefully that helps
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:07 PM
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Negative I have not. I can schedule an appointment. Hopefully that helps?
/r/askTRP01/06/17 07:54 PM
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In your previous reply it says A to improve yourself? Or am I misinterpreting that. That's what I'm referring to. The way you described it describes pretty much everything I've ever had to deal with. If it's not wrapped up by societies standards then your fucked. I live in Kansas City area not the best but probably average for black people. Ok get rejected more.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 06:53 PM
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I've deleted all online profiles a few weeks ago. I have no problem trying to improve. It doesn't seem to be paying off in anyway. I'll be stuck at A for another 4 years. After a while the rejection start to eat away at me. Mostly I just brushed it off as I did something wrong. Being black has never ever helped me I this situation. I hear I'm intimidating don't know why. I don't​ dress or do the normal black guy things.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 06:14 PM
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I need steps or something. I'm not having any luck winging any of this so far more information the better.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:30 PM
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now I'm very confused. Everyone says MyFitnessPal is great for tracking weight goals but then it fucks me over by literally cutting my calories in half. The link you sent me says moderate exercise 3028 calories. If I select sedentary office job 2388. That's a HUGE difference from 1500. How long ​did it take you to lose that weight. How much muscle did you retain​?
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:28 PM
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So I need more items to put on my dating resume. Since I'm boring as fuck. If there is something I'm interested in I'm usually on it unless it's on a days I work. If I'm invited to someone I usually go. Ain't that some shit I've got friends that don't leave the house and play Wow but they are apprently more interesting than I am. I'm damed to bounce around forever. I'm going to be like 40 whenever I become interesting at that point I should just save everyone the trouble and blow my brains out. …
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:19 PM
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So having a goal helps me not give away control? If I have a goal that gives me value? I'm I not supposed to be trying to impress these people or not.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:14 PM
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I could say what comes in my head all day. You know what I get are strange looks as to why I asked them if they saw a naked guy riding a horse. He must be good looking.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:11 PM
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I need to speak to more girls. I currently work nights so not many for me to interact with. Seems it's more this than anything. Ok well I'll put dating on hold until I'm not fat and interesting. 4 years getting in ok shape what's another year. It's been this long without any female contact.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:09 PM
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Your guess is as good as mine at this point. Does ketogains work. I've used regular keto before I dropped 10lbs in 3 months then nothing after that.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:04 PM
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Self improvement as a goal I don't understand. For it to be a goal it has to end eventually ? Is it more of a guide line? I've heard about mystery method never read into it.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:00 PM
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Nope I've never made it that far.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 12:38 PM
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My diet is ok. Mostly chicken,fish,eggs, broccoli. Keeping it simple helps me stick to it. I'll give ketogains a look. Is that what you're​ following?
/r/askTRP01/06/17 12:32 PM
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I've been trying to fake it for a while. I'm after genuine confidence. Alpha traits is that also in the sidebar. I at this point don't have any standards. Pretty much will take whatever I can get.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 11:03 AM
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I used to weigh 309lbs. I was fine with being 220 but if I need to go down go down. Step 1: Get a mission in life I'll actually have a day schedule for a change for at least the month I plan on hitting up those networking events. I have like 2 female friends. Working on it. So far not having luck with that. Im not exactly weak I can lift. But I get what your saying. Alrighty than. Take 2: Find a purpose
/r/askTRP01/06/17 10:53 AM
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Yes,yes,yes,yes Funny/cocky kind of... Never been called a creep before. Mostly jerk or ass is what I'm used to. I mean realistically my goal is to be better.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 10:20 AM
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I'm asking you how long does it take to get jacked? I've been lifting for about 6 months some definition in my arms but still have a moobs and a gut. Well good to know I've already deleted all my profiles. I'd like to drop my BF% will getting jacked help with that.?
/r/askTRP01/06/17 10:07 AM
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No. Was there a timeframe on that?
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:41 AM
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I lift 4 days a week and do kickboxing 3 days a week.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:38 AM
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I mean what's a good small goal. Example: I'm studying for my Microsoft server certificate. But that doesn't necessarily mean anything in the game aspect. I think? I don't mind losing its never winning that bothers me. I get the sex isn't important to people that have already had it. It's more of someone found me attractive enough to have sex with me without paying. It's something I'd like to get out of the way but I'd want to be with a women I can connect with. I've probably read it before but …
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:37 AM
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So drastic measures. I'm still working on my weight it's not my main focus but I'm mindful of what I eat. According to MyFitnessPal for losing 2 pounds a week 1500 calories, I've knocked it down to 1300 I'm going to look really strange at 180lbs. Do you know of a good meal plan. At this point it just chicken and broccoli for lunch and dinner and 3 eggs in the morning.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:27 AM
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I know I have ADD but man I don't understand. I focused on myself​ for a long time, it wasn't until I started this that my focus changed to trying to fix it. I'm extremely focused to the point I'd ignore women around me. But that doesn't get me any better with women.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:51 AM
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I've been working on it for awhile, going on 4 years now. I don't have a mission or goal I don't know what I want. Before even trying to get a date 3 years ago my only goal was to have money to live comfortably and have good friends. That's all that mattered to me. I lift, I cook my own lunches and dinner, travel occasionally, have like 5 good friends a job. I don't know what else to do How do I work on it?
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:46 AM
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Ok how do you fix that? All I'm seeing from your reply is be confident... From all the RP stuff I've seen here is I'm not supposed to care if I don't​ impress them.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:23 AM
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Around 3-5
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:20 AM
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I don't know what feel confident means. If it's lift that heavy as weight fine I have no problem trying to even if I fail, run across traffic, sure that's easy, tell 10 people your a secret agent, that sounds fun. If confident is anywhere in the realm of those things then I'm super confident. Good luck with your white girls may a pawg be in your future.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 07:51 AM
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I don't really have mission or goal just floating. I've spent $600 on new clothes. I don't think it's helping. Everyone says to develop your own style either things only work for a certain body type which is not 220lbs 5'11 black guy so I'm still working on that. I've got no problem talking to strangers, I do however have AA still I working on it very slow process. I guess I'm not good at the balancing act to be interested in a women but not too interested. I've thought long and hard about getti…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 07:46 AM
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I see. Thanks easy to follow directions. 1 a day I think I can handle that. I know it's going to come across awkward for a while.
/r/seduction29/04/17 06:34 PM
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I see. Thanks easy to follow directions. 1 a day I think I can handle that. I know it's going to come across awkward for a while.
/r/seduction29/04/17 06:34 PM
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Not that many. In that time frame I spent most of my time getting in better shape,eating correctly and still looking for a new job. I thought because I was fat was the problem I guess not. Exactly I'm definitely probably average at best. I doubt the women read the profiles anyway. I'll try to sprinkle it through out my day. Hopefully not be terrible at it forever
/r/seduction28/04/17 03:19 AM
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Okay. Stop thinking observe listen. I've read what you written a few times. Weather was what the books and reading say to talk about. None of them say anything about your environment. I get what your saying the voice is screwing me over cause I feel like making a comment about something that isn't all that important to someone I don't know is supposed to stir some sort of conversation. But that's me thinking again. Cold approaching isn't necessary? I don't participate in any social groups to oft…
/r/seduction27/04/17 09:38 PM
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Another area where I've spent a lot of money grooming. I have 3 different things I wash my face with two are done daily other depends if my face decides to break out. Lotions, moisturizers and a 2 colognes. I do bite my nails but I usually try to trim them once a week. I try to follow the advice of find someones style you like and try to imitate it. That's not working it looks bad on me and is not comfortable. My style at this point is jeans/polo/buttondown with the sleeves rolled up. I've seen …
/r/seduction27/04/17 08:24 AM
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I didn't start counting until he said he was going to pan around. Did not take into account anything David was doing prior to that. Yup exactly did I miss something important in that was my exact thought. I talk about the weather often that's easy but what I don't see is how is that supposed to lead to anything. Maybe this person likes the rain... Then what. It's all speculation from my standpoint. So none of them good awesome. It's rare to cold approach. I don't​ work a schedule conclusive to m…
/r/seduction27/04/17 08:11 AM
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I shower daily get a haircut maybe twice a month. I've spent so much money trying to find a style and I don't like any of it. I don't have a style Went to JCrew to have one of their stylist help me. No way are skinny jeans a thing for me to wear. It's a rare feat to get a conversation with a women here recently. I know I can't stand small talk but i I have to do it. I know there is no quick fix but I feel like women my won't give me a chance since I'm so far behind probably younger women as well
/r/seduction27/04/17 06:59 AM
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Their pretty low at the moment. I'll take anything to get at least some experience with it.
/r/seduction27/04/17 03:46 AM
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I hear that a lot but have never been on the other end. I'm not a huge black guy but definitely above average size. I totally understand that I'm larger than most women. Maybe overweight still I'd like to lose some more. Currently 218 looking to get to 190ish area I enjoy them but not much to show off. Building Gundam models Motorcycle stuff Autocross occasionally Work out 5 days a week. I live just north of Kansas City MO. If you consider that large.
/r/seduction27/04/17 01:47 AM
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Dude I sure hope so.
/r/seduction26/04/17 10:07 PM
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I'd take competent any day of the week. Practice makes more practice. I'm going to be like 40 by the time this is fun and then have no options.
/r/seduction26/04/17 09:58 PM
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The fck it I'm just going to delete and burn all the books. How long did it take you to get good.
/r/seduction26/04/17 09:50 PM
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How am I missing the point? I've watched the video a few times. How many things did you observe in it. I only counted four. I'll observe more in my day to day. I know it could be better but after 3 years of trying it's not getting any interest or you can clearly see the women looking for an exit or disgust.
/r/seduction26/04/17 09:48 PM
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That's pretty much the step I've been permanently on saying Hi. It absolutely sucks it's not fun whatsoever you think after a year maybe two I'd get the hang of it... Nope still struggling. Not a huge fan of bars but I get what your saying. Then why push all this reading if it's not necessary ?
/r/seduction26/04/17 09:22 PM
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Ok yes Confidence that magic thing that I can't seem to find. At this point confidence is a requirement sheet that keeps adding steps to it. Ok I must be some hideous alien or something. Mostly it's hey how is it going. Oh that's cool how was your dogs birthday. Either my mind goes blank or when I've observed there isn't shit to talk about. Yea how's that shopping center compared to the one across the street. I don't see this conversation going anywhere. I don't run into many women in my everyda…
/r/seduction26/04/17 02:31 PM
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I'm​ try to meet people on my days off but it's not working. Everyone wants to go to the bar it's loud no where to sit waste of money. I've been at this for almost 4 years now and still have nothing to show for it. I'm definitely an introvert and am shy so it's a whole different problem to actually interact with random people. Job definitely isn't helping I took a night shift since it's the best way for me to have the least amount of contact with my coworkers come in do my job go home. Don't hav…
/r/seduction26/04/17 01:06 PM
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Yes I didn't get it either. My standard are pretty low. Pretty much willing to take anything at this time. Maybe it's where I live but the number of hot girls must be above average. Even the ones that maybe don't get hit on are still out of my league. I get zero hits and from the disgusted look on the girls faces it​ must be like seeing a monster.
/r/seduction26/04/17 12:54 PM
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I lift at the gym 4 days a week and practice kickboxing 1-2 days a week. But no actual traditional sports.
/r/seduction26/04/17 09:39 AM
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Question. I've recently started lifting weights but prior ive lost a good chunk of weight but I still feel no confidence. Will lifting weights help with that.
/r/seduction26/04/17 08:04 AM
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So cold approaching like this is a thing that I still don't understand. Too many points of failure. Getting her attention, saying something interesting or relevant, am I bothering her, is she already annoyed. I'm trying to get good at this talking to cashier's, old lady's but 90% of the woman I try this with I get either a one word answer or the look on there face is why are you talking to me. Maybe I'm not saying these things with a ton of enthusiasm or I stink or my clothes aren't cool enough …
/r/seduction26/04/17 07:42 AM
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I wish I would have went to college to have chances like that when I was younger, maybe I would have learned how to interact with women.
/r/seduction26/04/17 07:35 AM
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